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Yes. I agree. Which is why I discouraged those two women from being rapey. Women can be rapey too. Feel better?
/r/MensRights06/02/17 01:03 AM
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I absolutely agree that women shouldn't be physically or emotionally abusive towards men, and will tell them should I encounter that situation. The situation in question had nothing to do with either of those topics. But since you are so concerned about my moral consistency, in order of most upvotes: here is a comment where I tell a women to get consent from her husband, here I am identifying a woman's abuse towards her husband, and here I am showing a concern for a potential male victim of sexu…
/r/MensRights06/02/17 12:52 AM
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Yes and I'll say it again: all abuse has a rapey quality to it.
/r/MensRights06/02/17 12:25 AM
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I said it wasn't necessarily rapey and then explained circumstances that would definitely make it rapey. Read the comments.
/r/MensRights05/02/17 04:32 PM
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It's not a "position of politics" to tell someone that you hope armed men show up to take them away from everything they know, it's threatening and abusive. Don't hide information about yourself in order to make sex happen. It's rapey. There's nothing contradictory about that.
/r/MensRights05/02/17 12:45 AM
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I did make up my mind. I agree with all of those statements, none of which contradict each other.
/r/MensRights04/02/17 08:30 PM
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Your time wasting technique is called sea lioning. I've explained this 12 times and the nuance of the situation is clearly beyond you.
/r/MensRights04/02/17 03:08 PM
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What the fuck. 10%??? Where did you get those numbers?
/r/MensRights04/02/17 02:42 PM
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Abusers are very good at being nice to get what they want and working their way into a position where they can abuse that power. So yes a lot of abuse is rapey, and rape is a form of abuse.
/r/MensRights04/02/17 02:16 AM
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Because if the person had known that you were having sex with them so that you could then call them a slut, they probably wouldn't have sex with you.
/r/MensRights04/02/17 02:04 AM
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Now if you had sex with someone for the opportunity of calling someone a slut after- that's pretty rapey.
/r/MensRights04/02/17 12:49 AM
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It's sexist and misogynistic and hypocritical but not rapey. And I would never screw you. I already have more cock than I know what to do with thanks.
/r/MensRights04/02/17 12:32 AM
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No problem as long as they don't spout abuse
/r/MensRights03/02/17 10:42 PM
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I absolutely still think his choice to withhold his racism and then spout it after is rapey. I just wouldn't have used that phrase if it weren't for the MRA brigader baiting me. No one should be deported.
/r/MensRights03/02/17 08:58 PM
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GOOD! They are trying to replace it with a common decency and politeness extended towards everyone and not just to the people you feel like you're supposed to take care of out of superiority and benevolent sexism. YAY WOMEN Chivalry was mostly about how to take care of horses anyway
/r/MensRights03/02/17 04:19 PM
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He should have gotten to know her better before insulting her. It's his responsibility to screen his hook ups for sink poopers. The downside of racistly disrespecting someone you've just slept with is that they give you what you deserve and shit in your sink.
/r/MensRights03/02/17 03:58 PM
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OP here triggered me on purpose by saying I was "acting like he raped her." OP brought up rape and consent for the purpose of brigading.
/r/MensRights03/02/17 03:47 PM
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LOOK AT THE COMPANY YOU KEEP OP u/hamstringstring PEOPLE WHO THINKS IT'S COOL TO JOKE ABOUT PHYSICAL VIOLENCE
/r/MensRights03/02/17 03:23 PM
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He withheld that information until after they already fucked. Most likely on purpose, knowing she might not have fucked him had he known. And the timing he used seemed to be a power play. "I fucked you and can still say this racist shit to you." The timing is just too suspect. Good thing she didn't let him get away with it.
/r/MensRights03/02/17 03:13 PM
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Words matter. They have impact. I hope that frat gets shut down. No one is trying to ruin that guy's life. He deserved shit in his sink.
/r/MensRights03/02/17 03:01 PM
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Also it was through tindr not on a campus
/r/MensRights03/02/17 02:50 PM
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Of course a dude in a mra forum would use this to try to justify physically assaulting a woman. LOOK AT WHAT YOU'VE DONE OP YOU BRIGADING POLARIZER.
/r/MensRights03/02/17 02:40 PM
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"The first act of violence that patriarchy demands of males is not violence toward women. Instead patriarchy demands of all males that they engage in acts of psychic self-mutilation, that they kill off the emotional parts of themselves. If an individual is not successful in emotionally crippling himself, he can count on patriarchal men to enact rituals of power that will assault his self-esteem." bell hooks
/r/MensRights03/02/17 02:28 PM
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Also it's hilarious to me that you dragged me onto your own turf and your bros aren't even here to upvote you. Do not equivocate what I do to the actions of the far right. The far right breeds terrorists like Dylan roof and that Canadian trump supporter who shot up a mosque. I've never heard of a "special snowflake" liberal shooting up a church. Only far right nazis. So stop with your false equivocations. I don't care if you're isolated. I don't care about your white tears. If hearing what you'v…
/r/MensRights03/02/17 02:18 PM
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So now you've got something against insane people too?!?! That's ablist. So now you've been an ablist, sexist, racist, brigader who is so desperate to cry "false rape accusation" that you'll spend your day baiting women to build your narrative that women are liars out to get men. Fuck you. You're awful and making men look even worse. Stop chastising victims and go tell men to stop be using douche bags. I wish I could shit in your sink.
/r/MensRights03/02/17 02:08 PM
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You baited my by bringing up rape you hypocritical brigader. It is racist to minimize a racist insult as a political opinion. If you're so against these other things, stop wasting your time brigading. You're making the polarization worse.
/r/MensRights03/02/17 01:58 PM
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You baited me into using the word rapey you deceptive brigading racist sexist. Implying that OP and I over reacting is a classically sexist move. I don't need to know any more about your "political beliefs" to see the prejudice in your arguments.
/r/MensRights03/02/17 04:56 AM
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What he did to her=said a really racist and awful thing to her after they fucked. You're the one who jumped to conclusions.
/r/MensRights03/02/17 02:07 AM
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It's like the case where the guy had aids, didn't tell the girl, and the judge ruled it as rape since she wouldn't have consented had she known. Except instead of aids it was racism he had, which is also infectious, contagious, hurtful, and deadly. And I never said he raped her. I said that what he did was "rapey" which is very different. And the OP here baited me into even saying that so that you all could feel like the victims as usual.
/r/MensRights03/02/17 01:53 AM
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I'm defending her right to shit in his sink.
/r/MensRights03/02/17 01:42 AM
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This OP said to me something about how I was acting like he raped her. He brought up the issue of consent in order to bait me and build this narrative. If you don't respect some one, don't fuck them. You don't need a crystal ball to not be racist. I'm sure he knew that she wouldn't like to hear his racist beliefs, which is why the udon racist piece of shit withheld that until after they fucked, and why he absolutely deserved shit in his sink.
/r/MensRights03/02/17 01:25 AM
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You are trying to polarize right now you hypocrite
/r/MensRights02/02/17 08:43 PM
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Why do you care?
/r/askTRP26/03/16 02:09 AM
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An excellent point that I am grateful to you for making. Thank you for working against that double standard. I want to clarify though that promiscuous people are just as capable of being happy in a long term relationship, but probably not a sexually exclusive one. Open relationships and polyamory for the win!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/16 05:19 AM
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Maybe try moving to Utah! Tons of white people breeding like rabbits. The mormons aren't supposed to have sex before marriage and have really low divorce rates. You might have extra appeal as an exotic convert to a younger mormon girl with little to no sexual experience.
/r/askTRP24/03/16 07:56 PM
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As far as the difference in happy vs sexually satisfied, it could be biased self reporting. The larger issue with these assertions is that they confuse causation and correlation. It could be people with high libidos seek sex more and sooner and are less likely to be happy under the constraints of monogamy anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 06:08 PM
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OP suggests men have until 25 to find the right younger woman before they're all ruined with other cocks
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 06:14 AM
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What are your defects?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 06:03 PM
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You yourself have said you aren't trying to meet women because they are all too sexually experienced for your tastes. How is that different from the black pill cope?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 05:44 PM
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Sex is about socializing. Sexual violence is about power. There are people who rape children and it's not about breeding because children can't reproduce. It's about abusing power.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 05:32 PM
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Are your parents miserable op?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 05:15 PM
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shhhhhhh these posts could be the final death throes of a toxic belief system. Op is reaching out and I have hope!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 04:53 PM
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You posted this as a "change me view." Why do you want your views to change?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/16 03:42 PM
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You claim your preference for virgins is an innate biological trait and are implying it can't change and you'll just have to settle. But biology is all about adaptation and change, and things aren't just fixed. Our brain grows in response to our experience. Our experience is what we attend to. You can actually rewire your neurons by slightly and slowly modifying what you attend to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 04:17 AM
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But that's cool that you're looking at positions and creating opportunities for yourself! Even if you don't hope to live there, Boston sounds like your best bet for meeting new friends and women to have sex with. Buy you're inducing your own incel with the I need validation from women but only virgins thing. Impossible standard to try to hold people to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 03:36 AM
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Your double standards are bringing you down man. Very limiting
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 03:17 AM
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What was your degree? What happens at the end of summer? Boston is a big awesome place. That commute could get long but could be totally worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 02:22 AM
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What do you do for work? How far is the nearest city?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 02:15 AM
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Are you in a small town? I know it's hard to get out there but there's got to be something going on in your area.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 02:13 AM
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What sort of opportunities would you want to come up?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 01:38 AM
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Where do you live? Did you graduate with a degree?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 01:12 AM
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Why do feel you have so little control over your life's direction?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 01:07 AM
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You don't know everything about me hun. Is waiting to be beta bux thing the main source of your agony?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 12:49 AM
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I live with my boyfriend and have a solid group of friends who have fortunately stayed in the city near where we went to college. A dear friend from high school also happened to move here with her girlfriend. I'm in love with her and am hoping for a poly secondaries arrangement since her gf has a low libido and my friend doesn't. My boyfriend has good friend circles from school too and our circles are intertwining nicely. Underemployment and other life circumstances still have me pretty down and…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 12:39 AM
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I've seen kickball leagues and stuff like that in my area with younger people. Events at bars too. A regular event will have more community building opportunities than showing up any night. It can be especially hard to identify stuff that looks fun when one is down.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 12:19 AM
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You liked the idea of joining a new sport or activity. It's scary to start something completely new and I can understand wishing you already had a bigger base of friends of hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/16 12:08 AM
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They definitely don't come easy after college. We have to work a lot harder to maintain and grow a social circle now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 11:50 PM
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How do you know you won't meet someone you'll fall in love with?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 11:16 PM
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What position is that? We've talked about a lot of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 10:04 PM
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What advice would you give to yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 09:38 PM
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How likely do you consider this?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 09:27 PM
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You seriously only want to only have sexy with virgins, but want to have sex with 5 more women before you settle down? And you're depressed because you don't get enough validation from women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 08:32 PM
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24, US
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 07:38 PM
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Is it the sperm itself that supposedly transfers DNA? What if a woman had had intercourse before but used a condom every time so no semen was ever inside her?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 07:28 PM
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This unattractive behavior is too bad for you because you are the one hoping to "escape a mindset." Your kid is your kid even if it carries a tiny bit of DNA from someone else. The act of taking care of that kid has way more effect and influence than any gene. Sex is a way to express love and enjoy our bodies and existence not accomplishments or levels to be unlocked. I don't believe for a second that your aversion to experienced women is out of arbitrary biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 07:17 PM
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What if that little bit of DNA carries an immunity or antibody that protects your kid and makes it healthier?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 07:01 PM
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You're not married to them so how is it cuckolding? If they're not having your kid than why the hell would it matter if they carry another man's dna? Even if they were I still don't see it mattering. A woman carries her father's dna. Are you being cuckolded by a virgin's dad? Also calling something like cuckolding a man's issue is called "mansplaining." Very unattractive. This number thing is a scary thing to base your worth on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 06:35 PM
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I'm dealing just fine thanks. You're the one asking for help escaping a mindset. Your views on women are reinforcing the mindset you'd like to escape.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 06:24 PM
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Where is the proof that it's for a biological reason that women prefer taller dudes and not just because that's the story we've been shown over and over again?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 06:19 PM
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? Is it actually the dna of past lovers? Or just the traits? Because personality traits could be completely learned and passed on person to person. Even if they carry the dna, how is that bad? Do you have something against those men? Are you trying to impregnate the next girl you have sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 06:18 PM
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In some parts. Not all of Africa is any one thing. It's bigger and more populated than the U.S. Also Africa has been exploited by other countries a lot. Saying Africa has problems is not an argument for slut shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 06:04 PM
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That changes absolutely nothing about her or her vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 06:00 PM
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You suggested that things didn't work out so well for Africa (an entire continent with a lot of success) when I pointed out that different cultures have different sexual practices.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 05:48 PM
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How is it used? We discussed that women aren't like used cars that depreciate...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 05:46 PM
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South America. Tribal sexual practices did not cause colonialism. Greedy people being greedy caused imperialism and slavery.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 05:32 PM
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So a few months? Is that a long dry spell for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 05:31 PM
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So the next time you have sex, are you trying to get someone pregnant?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 05:30 PM
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Why is that gross to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 05:29 PM
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Are you trying to have a kid anytime soon?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 04:59 PM
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A more experienced woman could be really good for you! She could teach you how to best please her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 04:57 PM
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How long has it been since you had sex? You've claimed to be damaged from not enough attention but you've just listed quite a bit of experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 04:55 PM
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As I said in another thread, there are tribes where they did not understand paternity and thought a baby was an accumulation of all the men's sperm a woman had sex with. So no, every culture since the dawn of time has not despised or even had the concept of a slut. Stop abusing biology to defend toxic beliefs that you've asked people to help you change. Also there are lots of people who get off on the idea of their sperm having to compete with another guy's. If paternity is a concern there are t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 04:52 PM
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Really. Which bigger picture is OP missing here?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 04:03 PM
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I suspect you are thinking about how easy it is to find a partner rather than OP's 'larger picture' of having a successful marriage. Which larger picture are you referring to waterol?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/16 11:56 PM
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I can follow and appreciate this up until A man is much more likely to be dissatisfied with his wife sexually if he has a high number of previous partners; conversely, a woman is much more likely to be dissatisfied emotionally with a high number of previous partners. Where are you getting the emotional/sexual difference here? Men often cheat for emotional reasons and women often get divorced because they are sexually dissatisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/16 11:53 PM
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I'm interested in the person, not the number.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/16 05:33 PM
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What homosexuals and asexuals?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/16 05:23 PM
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This is a very leading question.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 07:35 PM
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Traditional birth control makers are probably actively trying to slow it down.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/15 12:16 AM
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Messed up. I'm excitedly waiting for vasalgel. Maybe we can go to Costa Rica for it soon. India is a little too far and third world.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/15 11:24 PM
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That is not what she is saying. She is saying if someone wants an abortion you should support them. You've created a really paranoid and unlikely scenario. I would be very relieved if someone that dishonest were no longer having my kid. Yes. Please get an abortion after lying to me about your birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/15 05:58 PM
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What are the restrictions on getting vasectomies?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/15 05:56 PM
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I know someone who got her tubes tied but her doctor wouldn't do it without her husband coming in and saying it was okay. It happens both directions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/15 05:56 PM
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This is not what her comment was implying. You brought all that back story because of all your TRP reading. Unwanted pregnancy comes from two people fucking up so two people should fix it. I agree that men should be able abdicate their parental rights. Many do by abandoning their children and pregnant partners every day. Yes if she wants an abortion he doesn't get to say no and I sure hope he helps. But feminists were some of the first to acknowledge and bring attention to the issue of male rape…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/15 05:52 PM
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No tax dollars make abortions free. Zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/15 05:34 PM
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