If he’s unattractive, he’s unattractive. Why isn’t he looking inwards to determine why he can’t get his supposed match? It’s very clearly a problem with him.
TRP was literally created because men couldn’t understand why being nice wasn’t enough. You’re saying that you’ve never seen a man complaining about “nice guys finishing last”?
What does any of what you say have to do with literally any of this? Men who rage about their niceness not being enough do so because they have to compete to have casual sex? What?
It sounds like you’re putting the well-beings of random men above those of your own daughters. Your only concern is that your daughters are good partners to the men?
What’s unreasonable about not fucking people you aren’t attracted to? I’m starting to think that a lot of men don’t know what it feels like to not be attracted to someone.