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Why tell the woman you’re doing the test? They don’t have to know
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:39 PM
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Complaints are vocal, learning and progress usually doesn’t make as much of a sound. Especially here. But yeah lots of pathetic no agency people here I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:57 AM
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Did you interpret my comment as saying or believing that sex work is empowering? Because this felt a lot like soapboxing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 01:56 PM
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That’d be surprising imo, because not being empowering seems standard for jobs, unless a detractors opinion is that sex work is the direct opposite of empowering or disenfranchising or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:58 PM
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Far cry from saying you deserve any of the things that happen negatively, come on can you at least say you were wrong on that singular point?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:29 PM
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I didn’t insinuate marriage either. Why do you keep doing this? And you’re the same dude who said i insinuated that women deserved abuse. Please explain where you got that notion based on what I typed
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:22 PM
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where did I say or insinuated they deserved that? I even went out of my way to say it’s not their fault they’re in the position of social power. Please show me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:13 PM
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Never said or insinuated they were getting all the women. Reread. I used them as an example saying it’s an overall bad population of people and I believe they would be disincentivized even more than the threat of jail if they wouldn’t get any girls. And let me ask to clarify, you grew up in a Chicago hood but believe gang or violent dudes don’t get women who aren’t from the hood or are otherwise equally socially? That’s surprising, the black community don’t work like that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:08 PM
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Men do not deserve “credit” in the social arena. Look at this sub. The average man will change his life if his current life is perceived to prevent sex or companionship. The average woman is not that tethered to the ideal. That’s the root of my point
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:03 PM
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You’re wrong, you have no reference on what you just said and you assumed that. Being from the hood or being in a gang is no trophy, I’m just highlighting that you are not either and therefore are speaking with no real reference point. Why’d you feel comfortable doing that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:01 PM
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Exactly. If being in a gang or being violent was guaranteed to scare away all the women, gang violence would tank immediately. Same with being a racist or bigot or anything that “we all hate”. Women hold the keys to society. It’s not their fault they have all this power. But they are complete fools if they don’t see what we all do
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 08:08 AM
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Fault is the least important piece and a lot of us fail to realize it. It doesn’t matter if women are at fault. It matters that they have all the social power and collectively dictate all social rules. Yall are in control. So your complaints are funny sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 08:04 AM
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Nothing is wrong with hedonism, and it’s a purely personal movement so why would anyone care if it’s taken seriously or not
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 07:59 AM
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What other reason would you be against the whole industry of sex work? Being deluded into thinking the average (western) worker is trafficked is one reason but I don’t get the others
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 07:55 AM
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Anyone with a daughter is hoping to god this isn’t the case. Women should not just assume that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 07:47 AM
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This study rings true imo. Go to the grocery store. Women look down and away almost by default to make sure they aren’t giving off the wrong vibe
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 07:43 AM
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I bet the husbands and bfs didn’t know that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 07:39 AM
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Very unlikely is cool, but you keep slipping and saying it’s not possible or doesn’t happen in the same breath. Be consistent
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 07:23 AM
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You can still understandably be afraid of going through this, or the propensity of going through it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 07:20 AM
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Idk why people are confused, just stating that they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:42 AM
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Some people are confused because they don’t realize that you aren’t interested in a solution for men. What happens to them is wholly irrelevant to you and it doesn’t matter what works better or worse for men. It’s just not in your purview. And that’s okay. Just making the others aware
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:28 AM
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Your age is showing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 12:23 PM
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? I’m just referring to hookups online vs via meeting people irl (where proximity is a factor)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 07:48 AM
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I’m not sure tbh my guess would be the average man is “long term but open to short”. But I wasn’t refuting your point but more so clarifying
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 03:14 AM
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Me mentioning the guy who is “only in it for sex” was referencing what you said directly, I was just explaining why I think they may be or appear more prevalent in dating. Because when they find what they want (sex), they can and do find it with other women. When a guy wants a relationship and finds one, he is now out of the dating pool. The guy interested in sex is still there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:52 AM
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The reason people tend to opt out is because of lack of success. Success to a guy who wants a relationship ends once he finds one. Success with a guy who only wants sex can keep winning with a bunch of different people. This is a better way to describe it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:33 AM
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Some are trying to translate what you’re saying to online dating and that’s where it’s not making sense for them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:22 AM
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Status tends to come with that stuff. So do pooled resources
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:16 AM
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He’s saying that everyone here knows that, it’s one of the oldest tropes of the sub
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:11 AM
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What makes you think that’s the result? You didn’t explain that part
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:07 AM
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Thanks for the nuanced comment*
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:07 PM
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This seems super level headed, thanks. Have you brushed shoulders with a lot of women who tend to act this way as well or are you usually the one on the group to act this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:02 PM
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Agreed, hating on is definitely outward, unasked for, and nasty 9/10 times out of
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:00 PM
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Back on the toddler thing? I’m talking infants. Toddlers are way more a danger to themselves and it’s a hell to be alone with them if you have a bunch of other stuff to do. Respect to anyone who has their hands full with one at the moment who also doesn’t have enough money to hire a nanny/get a neighborhood teen to help
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:59 PM
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Oof both of those are tough, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:57 PM
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Good points thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:56 PM
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That’s a good point, the direct in your face aspect seems to be a factor
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:55 PM
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It’s just confusing that advice and constructive criticism isn’t seen as the biggest support. It’s a big trope that guys consider “real friends” to be the ones that can call them out on their shit. Having a hard time understanding why both genders wouldn’t wholly value that highly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:54 PM
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My friends usually try to get as much of the story I can provide and they almost always ask me “do you think there is anything you did that contributed to this?” And yea not knowing the people involved is a big deal, hard to give advise on a subject you don’t know much about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:53 PM
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See how the example you gave centered around the “asshole” being a bad guy and the woman’s main fault is putting up with him? I’m talking about criticism/advice towards a woman who has things she can improve on, not “oh you should leave him”. Do you ever see that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:51 PM
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Yep had a friend and her husband come up last weekend and she was damn near shaking because she was so uncomfortable with voicing her thoughts on someone else’s relationship even after being explicitly asked. One example of many
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:49 PM
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Why is the person in your example a man? Just got a little confused. I’ll edit my post to mention venting, but are you able to answer my question with the context that I’m not talking about venting situations? And do you think women may be averse to asking the “is there something I’m doing wrong?” Type question?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:48 PM
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Is number one an inherent fear, or does that tend to happen with yall?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:45 PM
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While actively in the relationship and directly to the friend? In a way that is still overall supportive and wanting to improve? Where
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:44 PM
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And to top it all off, some people have aversions to men because of what they generally go through. Zero sum, because people have to look out for their best interests first
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:43 PM
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The point of this post was that it was always hateful and ugly, women were just treated so terribly that it was understandable and a net positive
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:40 PM
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You know that the baby won’t explode if you let it cry while you finish something up for a few minutes right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:27 PM
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A lot of men would jump on this if you could afford the lifestyle they want on your income alone, with the one caveat that your sex drive matched up with theirs. Sexually shy people would have a hard time with this if their sexual needs weren’t being met/matched
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:26 PM
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