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So much that's out there is designed to estrange us, seems to me. We're better consumers feeding the established capitalist, that way. I can't think of a better economic system but it's damned dysfunctional/pendulum-swung and caught on a latch like a hatchet on a pivot; don't let it swing and slice as it heads towards the other side and hits a rubber bumper. Suffer a job loss or illness that negatively affects your lifestyle? Your STBX is only a Mira Kirshenbaum, Elizabeth Gilbert, Cheryl Straye…
/r/MensRights04/12/15 04:22 AM
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As much as we rightly favor facts over feels (I'm not sure I am entirely simpatico with the word, "feels"), we tend to forget that human interactions cause physical changes in our brains. Divorce, especially unilateral divorce, causes a fundamental upset to ones wellbeing. There used to be some acknowledgement of how traumatic and disruptive is divorce for all involved and there were social constraints and barriers to prevent and discourage divorce, especially unilateral divorce. I'd argue that …
/r/MensRights28/07/15 04:37 PM
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Not one mention of divorce in her explication.
/r/MensRights28/07/15 12:04 PM
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PRIDE IS NOT A VIRTUE!
/r/MensRights20/06/15 01:39 PM
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Feminism == branding exercise. It's amusing to me how there's no conversation about the appropriation of diversity and women's issues by our corporate overlords. These people are more grist for the status quo. They are the fascists they claim to despise. They might mean well but the men they shame, urge to suicide, urge to conduct war, urge to produce produce produce, are just eggs in their omelet. It's so much easier for the ruling class to keep us fighting each other rather than acknowledge ou…
/r/MensRights10/06/15 09:46 PM
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Same here.
/r/MensRights04/06/15 08:46 PM
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It's the economy, um, fellow Redditor!
/r/MensRights03/06/15 10:07 PM
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Larry Summers is a prick. I'm not going to shed too many tears at any karmic justice he receives. That said, this is a common pattern with we human beings, no? Such-and-such doesn't matter that much until it happens to us. We're all guilty of it to one degree or another. Seems to me it ought to be possible to get out in front of some of this bullshit. Of course women deserve not to be raped. Of course women deserve to be paid the same amount of money for the same amount of work (apples to apples…
/r/MensRights03/06/15 08:54 PM
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I guess it's always been thus but ideologue fascists can exist in any political movement. Some animals are more equal than others, I guess.
/r/MensRights02/06/15 12:43 AM
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...and moodyprism responds, "am I my brother's keeper?!"
/r/MensRights01/06/15 06:50 AM
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Hell she might end up the CEO of some company we all know.
/r/MensRights21/05/15 12:54 PM
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I like the term post-egalitarian feminism. The more I watch feminist's ranting the more I think they've become a collage of white-men-caricatures. They are the man who leaves his family for the better model. They are the man who does everything in his power to make sure he stays on top no matter the cost. It's like they're John Wayne/Clint Eastwood/Archie Bunker/Mad Men/Joe McCarthy. They have become the thing they once claimed to hate.
/r/MensRights17/05/15 01:28 PM
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Ever get the feeling that these equality/diversity-preaching people look for all the world like female Archie Bunker's? It reminds me of a Beatles lyric, Sweet Loretta modern Thought she was a woman But she was another man Get Back! -- to digress a little further, I look at dating profiles now that I'm single and what I see are a bunch of ladder-climbing, self-entitled, painted men. Are there no women left? I don't mean barefoot and pregnant women giving sandwiches and blowjobs in the kitchen. I…
/r/MensRights10/05/15 12:11 AM
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It describes me but I don't hate women or systematically and politically try to make the lives of women worse because my ex is a thundercunt.
/r/MensRights17/04/15 07:08 PM
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They have hearts? Wow! TIL.
/r/MensRights17/04/15 02:00 AM
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This is what I meant.
/r/MensRights09/04/15 05:41 PM
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Thank you. In no way do I think the cop was justified. Then again, I really don't know what is the law on such a thing. It was drilled into me to comply, comply, comply. From the shooting at the BART station, it doesn't seem compliance is necessarily going to save you. Anyway, I posted this to mensrights because this guy was afraid of being jailed for not producing money. I understand there are deadbeats in the world who willingly disregard their responsibilities but I know of no case where a wo…
/r/MensRights09/04/15 01:49 PM
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Two words: a part. Good grief.
/r/MensRights08/04/15 06:08 PM
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If you're wages were sufficiently high, I feel confident you'd care less about taxes. Actually, if your wages were above middle class, you'd pay less than we peasant-folk. I know some of this can be attributed to an effective doubling of the workforce but we all put up with this shit. One thing I admire about the feminists is that they simply demand time off for their kids and "work/life" balance. We should demand the same but we don't. That's entitlement for you. /s At some point I think men an…
/r/MensRights31/03/15 02:22 AM
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Biologically women are more likely to be picky because they still have the burden of carrying and delivering a child. Seems like we've decided and made it possible for a woman to carry and deliver a child with little or no need for the biological father's direct involvement what could possibly motivate a woman to stay in a relationship? There is always someone more compatible, better looking, and more wealthy out there. Seems to me we are sperm wallets and if you lose your status, looks, or job,…
/r/MensRights30/03/15 12:01 PM
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I appreciate the kind words.
/r/MensRights19/03/15 02:00 AM
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Seems like men are more likely to kill themselves. I know I think about it often.
/r/MensRights18/03/15 09:36 PM
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If someone threatens you with violence, seems perfectly reasonable to protect yourself from it. Besides since when do we have to resort to ad hominem attacks to advocate for men's rights? Dislike her or her politics, fine but we can do better.
/r/MensRights18/03/15 03:58 AM
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At the risk of being creepy: I think you are the bee's knees, the cat's pajamas. With that out of the way, I was mightily disappointed with Cenk's, interview/hit-piece. I really hope he's able to pull his head out of his ass. What led me here was a suspicion that the ground had shifted underneath me. I have a green ERA t-shirt from the 70's and was raised by a feminist. I feel woefully unprepared for life as a man in our society. I bopped along just being myself until I realized there were expec…
/r/MensRights16/03/15 11:51 PM
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Ahem, "I do."
/r/MensRights23/02/15 11:48 AM
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I raged at first, then thought this must be a troll. If not could we at least force this person to live under a bridge or something? Still, the guilty realized it was wrong and that's warrants her a lesser sentence? I'll be sure to bring that up to the judge the next time I rob a bank. 8 years-old?! What the fuck is wrong with people?!!
/r/MensRights18/02/15 10:59 AM
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I think you are bringing to light the double-edged sword of the MRA movement. I disagree with libertarianism and especially disagree with Ayn Rand who I consider a proto-radical feminist. On the other hand, on the issue of this manufactured, "rape culture," and general shaming and persecution of men, most especially and FSM forbid, straight men, I agree with her 100%. What I think underlies most of these "wars," we seem to so enjoy is the problem that there are powerful forces pushing us apart f…
/r/MensRights18/02/15 09:53 AM
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You wear it well!
/r/MensRights14/02/15 02:20 AM
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The corporations that run the government. FTFY
/r/MensRights12/02/15 01:44 AM
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I'm trying to understand why you are being downvoted; except that for most, of any gender, work doesn't pay and maybe, just maybe, women are starting to realize this. Sure there are exceptions but the vast majority of us, male and female, are wage slaves one or three paychecks away from financial collapse. I have zero problem with women being considered equal to men in every way. My problem is that I feel like a vocal cohort of women want to claim victimhood and parley their diminished status in…
/r/MensRights11/02/15 02:28 AM
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Really interesting read, thanks!
/r/MensRights07/02/15 10:23 PM
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Cenk used to be a staunch Republican. I have faith in Cenk. For me, feminism changed the consciousness of people in my parents' generation for the better. They were thumbs in the eyes of people for whom knowing ones place was of great value. It changed behavior towards women generally. The make me a sandwich thing was real (and is still real to a large extent). Growing up in the 80's and 90's, it was just the baseline that men and women were equally capable of just about anything. I do accept se…
/r/MensRights05/02/15 07:01 AM
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I have an Internet crush on Ana. Can't help it.
/r/MensRights04/02/15 10:36 AM
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I want a family. I'm afraid of commitment but I can control myself (this wasn't always the case) but I don't make much money and I'm overweight. I'm not morbidly obese but I have a big belly. I'm also old. I'm basically unfuckable. I could do the red pill thing and get sex, I suppose. I just don't care about that much anymore. I find articles like this could be gender-flipped and be more accurate. Men basically have their own built in freezer for eggs (I mean we're fertile longer) but I've never…
/r/MensRights04/02/15 02:08 AM
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So. He's a Thatcherite. Well, fuck. He lost me there. What these "Rightie's" cannot seem to understand is that policies which destroy the lives of working people for those at the tippy top only exacerbate the goals of these fascists. Seems like extremes on both sides folding around and meeting each other like some kind of Lynchian, 3rd Stage Guild Navigator. A plague on both their houses. Pay people living wages and incentivize the actual deployment and circulation of capital and let's see what …
/r/MensRights31/01/15 10:43 AM
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I agree with him on a lot of points. I don't think he is doing himself any favors by arguing the attractiveness of women and their political slant; the point should be that women objectify men every bit as much as men objectify women. The issue should be cruelty and working towards a better world. My problem with most feminism is that it's only interested in perpetuating a victim mentality at the expense of men. Largely they have become the thing they purport to hate.
/r/MensRights28/01/15 12:49 AM
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I don't want a date to have any expectations... *proceeds to list her expectations. What the fucking fucking fuck? This guy is a trip. First round is on me.
/r/MensRights25/01/15 08:49 PM
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There is a notion that all a union is good for is keeping incompetent people employed, that one has a "right to work," and other equally ridiculous bullshit straw men. I guess this is better than having private contractors murder large amounts of protesting workers but it's had the effect of making people actually demonstrate for their right to be fucked over. It's a strange time to be alive.
/r/MensRights22/01/15 02:49 AM
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"Plain black's just fine for a nigger!" - Rudyard Kipling. I was spared that version when I was read the Just So stories.
/r/MensRights14/01/15 09:00 PM
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Didn't she already star in this movie?
/r/MensRights11/01/15 08:18 PM
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No cropping is ok, apparently.
/r/MensRights08/01/15 04:46 PM
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You immediately reminded me of the video where some self entitled bitch jumps onto some platform with a guy, accuses him of touching her tit, and then shoves him off. He is clearly injured.
/r/MensRights06/01/15 09:17 PM
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The song is shitty. So is most every popular song. The theme of most every song is: achieve sexual gratification! The tempos, the rhythms are usually designed to mirror fucking. If they're not, they're about being rejected romantically. Anyways, so what?! Robin Thicke and Nicki Minaj are now serious thinkers with anything overwhelming to offer society?! It's all masturbation or masturbation using someone else's genitals. Surely it has its place but it's all pretty vapid shit. I think most of soc…
/r/MensRights05/01/15 10:58 PM
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Woman is the nigger of the world. If you don't believe me, take a look at the one you're with!
/r/MensRights04/01/15 08:00 PM
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Hitchens, the man who had the intestinal fortitude to be water boarded and who had the courage to change his position on what constitutes torture. I miss him, too.
/r/MensRights03/01/15 03:45 AM
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The problem is my ability to be civil. I don't feel very much inclined to be civil to someone so indifferent to me. I agree its about my daughter, not me. However, whenever I'm around my ex, my daughter wants us all to be together. It seems my participation just gives my daughter a false sense of hope. The truth is, my ex wanted our divorce since before our daughter was born. There exists no hope.
/r/MensRights21/12/14 04:06 PM
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My ex offered to have Christmas morning at what was our house. I'm guessing the reason she's asking me is that she hasn't settled on a replacement. I want to see my daughter open presents but I also don't want to be in the house that used to be home. I don't know what to do.
/r/MensRights20/12/14 07:53 PM
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Don't forget the plaid t-shirt.
/r/MensRights20/12/14 07:50 PM
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Except for the Ayn Rand. Talk about a culture of dependency. The only way her philosophy works is by harming others in ones own self interest: sounds like feminism in a nutshell.
/r/MensRights18/12/14 07:52 PM
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I found some of the claims in the article hyperbolic but the marriage of feminism to the Left is especially rich considering how all-of-a-sudden the Right is interested in joining the "reality-based community." Broken clocks can be accurate twice a day, I guess. Yes. The Left is the parent of Feminism in many respects but, at least when my family was involved, it was in support of the Equal Rights Amendment; which, apparently, was just a bridge too far for those on the Right. I mean God forbid w…
/r/MensRights11/12/14 09:05 PM
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Don't even start with me. You need to get out of there ASAP.
/r/MensRights10/12/14 10:07 PM
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Well shit.
/r/MensRights03/12/14 08:25 PM
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Everyone seems to be saying this like its a bad thing. Ladies I know that work around each other tend to synchronize cycles. In other words, once a month: freedom!
/r/MensRights03/12/14 06:41 PM
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I personally enjoyed the story of the slap.
/r/MensRights23/11/14 04:41 PM
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Well that's actually a relief.
/r/MensRights19/11/14 04:29 PM
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Particularly the last question: "It is more important for a man to spend a lot of time with his family than to be successful at his career." – to be fair, the majority are in the middle but at the fringes, check this out: women strongly disagree: 2.2%; men who strongly disagree: 1.5%. Men who strongly agree: 18.1%; women who strongly agree: 14.1%. Women who just disagree: 25.3%; men who disagree: 20.0%. Unless I completely misunderstand what I'm reading, it seems womenfolk are generally more in …
/r/MensRights19/11/14 08:47 AM
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OP wants to fuck Mike. Go Mike!
/r/MensRights16/11/14 10:51 PM
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Unless you have a lifestyle that can afford them. We are accessories to them in much the same way men are accused of treating women. What gets me is that I find this behavior typical and common. Somehow, though, if you're a woman and you do this, it's empowerment. If you're a guy, you're an asshole.maybe one day we'll get to the point in society where this behavior is called what it is, the mating dance of the shallow.
/r/MensRights08/11/14 05:33 PM
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Frequently.
/r/MensRights22/10/14 05:09 PM
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I'd argue men suffer from impending irrelevance to the species. What purpose do we serve anyway? We're not going to run out of people, much less frozen sperm, anytime soon. Besides, the way things seem to be headed not too many people will miss us anyway.
/r/MensRights22/10/14 04:15 PM
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The comments below the article! Whew! I have to remind myself that even the right-leaning folks hear haven't completely lost their damned minds. Good grief!
/r/MensRights18/10/14 01:35 AM
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It never ceases to amuse me that the Washington Times was owned by a man convinced he was Jesus Christ. I guess this means God really is dead after all.
/r/MensRights09/10/14 07:22 PM
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Man. I feel you. I'm underpaid; since the recession there is significantly less work in my field. I've worked in my career since I was nine. I'm 42 now. My ex left me. She had all kinds of reasons but I don't know what to believe. I've moved to a new town and have started working a construction job. It's ok and I am around people. I've looked around for dates but all I've found are single-by-choice Mom's that are living their Elizabeth Gilbert fantasy. Meanwhile, I see my daughter on the weekend…
/r/MensRights07/10/14 01:22 PM
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Agreed.
/r/MensRights26/09/14 07:09 PM
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When the NFL is granted the ability not to pay taxes, it is answerable to the public. I think you misunderstand private.
/r/MensRights26/09/14 01:25 PM
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The NFL is not a private company. It's a non-profit. The general public subsidizes their existence; you don't even have to buy a ticket!
/r/MensRights26/09/14 01:04 PM
2

But. But. Women deserve to have it ALL!
/r/MensRights14/09/14 05:30 PM
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Maybe we should call this the Israel Paradox. Women lob rockets indiscriminately, men knock the fuck out of the target: man bad.
/r/MensRights12/09/14 01:17 PM
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Reminds me of slut shaming. Promiscuity is OK...unless these women are sleeping around with men? Two sets of rules. In matriarchy woman sacrifice you!
/r/MensRights12/09/14 01:15 PM
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Best I can tell, Ana is a righteous babe.
/r/MensRights12/09/14 10:27 AM
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You must know you suck when you can't even grab the low hanging fruit.
/r/MensRights06/09/14 04:36 PM
1

What's wrong with Elizabeth Warren? She's married. I don't know if she has kids or not. I hardly see holding regulators and banksters to account is Marxist.
/r/MensRights03/09/14 04:48 PM
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Logic == patriarchy!
/r/MensRights25/08/14 01:12 PM
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Economic wunderkind that somehow went along with the repeal of Glass-Steagall, unless I'm mistaken. What an epic disaster. Oh well, broken clocks are correct twice a day.
/r/MensRights06/08/14 11:53 PM
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I'm with the author until the attack on liberals. Let the idiocy of the quote speak for itself. I'm a liberal and I don't play race cards.
/r/MensRights02/08/14 06:17 PM
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I find it degrading. Call me old fashioned. Of course, if you're into that sort of thing; ok, I guess. I'm a bleeding-hearted liberal but I have a lot of sympathy with right-wing notions of perversity. I'm not anti-perversity per se but, to me, these things have a place: a brothel. I don't think they should be unlawful, I just think they should be private and certainly not celebrated as virtue. For example, having capital and using it to be a job creator isn't bad but it's clear the majority of …
/r/MensRights02/08/14 04:01 PM
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My wife was my best friend until she finally realized I couldn't provide her the lifestyle to which she felt entitled. So, now I'm alone.
/r/MensRights25/07/14 05:09 PM
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Seems like the author prefers Malcolm X to Martin Luther King.
/r/MensRights25/07/14 03:01 PM
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Marriages are easily dissolved, thank you Ronald Reagan and the no-fault divorce craze. That it usually enriches the woman in the marriage is just an added bonus.
/r/MensRights24/07/14 07:18 PM
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That's your interpretation but it's also as cartoonish as my calling MRA's anti-woman. I'm a bleeding heart. I think capitalism is the best-worst system of exchange of value. I also happen to think both parties have been captured by the wealthiest among us. I don't find this a partisan observation.
/r/MensRights17/07/14 04:42 PM
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I disagree with the notion that capitalism is at all threatened by the destruction of the nuclear family. I would argue what we call capitalism is entirely enriched by the continued assault on the family.
/r/MensRights17/07/14 03:35 PM
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Go tell that to the administration that oversaw the largest expansion of the federal government since the run up to WWII. I think both sides know where their bread is buttered but please don't make shit up.
/r/MensRights27/06/14 09:28 PM
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Hmmm. I notice that handicapped parking is rarely used. Maybe we should get rid of that while we're at it.
/r/MensRights26/06/14 03:23 AM
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The worst thing a man can be is weak. I'd say this is not patriarchal it's the law of the jungle; which is where, it would seem, we're headed.
/r/MensRights25/06/14 11:44 PM
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Well. Not in 2014.
/r/MensRights24/06/14 02:03 AM
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I'm not instantly repulsed by anyone's nakedness but I agree with the idea that "sexy == good" is a non sequitur and makes zero sense to me. The old saw, "beauty is as beauty does" makes more sense to me but we live in a world of constant marketing. One must learn how to positively "sell" oneself. One must generally be "positive" and "upbeat" and, above all else, "happy". What I notice is a propensity for all of this branding and self aggrandizement comes down to power.
/r/MensRights23/06/14 04:24 PM
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I cheated. I haven't cheated in every relationship I've been in but I am guilty. This is not something of which I'm at all proud. In fact, it did nothing but cause me pain. Dear Japanese Santa, bring sex robots!
/r/MensRights23/06/14 01:50 PM
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You have to ask?
/r/MensRights20/06/14 07:24 PM
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Does someone have a definition of abuse? Seems like it's losing all meaning to the point it seems to mean "someone did something I didn't like."
/r/MensRights18/06/14 02:59 PM
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Let's just remember to do so on Mother's Day.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 02:36 PM
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Shit. Pay for her travel. It would be the chivalrous thing to do.
/r/MensRights15/06/14 10:38 PM
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I await the hate. 70% of divorces are initiated by women. You could say 70% of men deserve it but unless you can prove 70% of men are abusive, I'd suggest something else is going on. In my case, I fucked up. I was sexually unfaithful. I never had an affair so much as I'd get lonely on the road, get lit up, and let whatever happened happen. I also cleaned myself up and cut out that shit. My case may be a poor example but I wanted to save the marriage. She alleges to have forgiven my indiscretion …
/r/MensRights13/06/14 03:08 PM
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I'm hoping by continuing to give voice to the idea that men are humans, too we can get to the point where Matriarchy and Patriarchy give way to Egalitarianism. I do believe sexual bi-morphism exists but I don't think we need to continue the pissing contest. The movie Malificent comes to mind. I discussed this with a female friend and the worst sin Stephan displayed was "weakness" by not either: taking refuge with Malificent; or, simply killing her. To me, this is why we don't want Matriarchy; it…
/r/MensRights11/06/14 03:09 PM
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From where I sit, I'm a Morrisey song, "I am human and I need to be loved, just like everybody eh-else does." Or, maybe this is why we men are so up in arms? Maybe testosterone simply fuels men's need for physical intimacy, Eros, love, whatever you want to call it. Tell you what, Feminists of the world, you take testosterone-boosting medication, and I'll take testosterone-limiting medication for a month and let's see where all of this shit we have for one another shakes out. Let's start a Kickst…
/r/MensRights30/05/14 05:53 AM
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All I know is I'm now hungry.
/r/MensRights28/05/14 12:10 AM
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This conversation is on NPR right now. "Not all men are murderers...but". Not all Muslims are terrorists... Not all Conservatives are racists... Not all Jews are funny, I mean bankers... On and on and on.
/r/MensRights27/05/14 09:19 PM
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I shouldn't think so. I can't imagine it would be very easy for me to drop off the map. Unfortunately, my credit is already afu. This divorce stuff is great.
/r/MensRights16/05/14 12:39 AM
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I'm very late on my car payments. Can I just hide out?
/r/MensRights15/05/14 09:09 PM
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Maybe she's become a, oh, I don't know, a terrorist?!!!! I said that in the Church Lady voice. I don't know why ones data can be farmed without a warrant but it's impossible to track down a deadbeat?
/r/MensRights15/05/14 09:07 PM
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I found this: http://captaincoolasfuck.com/post/34246529188/a-logical-post If this guy was raped, this post has credibility. Without the full context, I have a hard time buying it.
/r/MensRights29/04/14 01:05 PM
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Over seven years ago I cheated on my wife while on a gig. It was eating me up and I told her because I knew she was never particularly in love with me then if ever. I know I deserve it so the suicide, I thought would be my way of showing the depth of my mortification. I do have a 55/45 split. I am quit different than six years ago but I realize it's no excuse. I'd give anything to take it back so I could just go home.
/r/MensRights29/04/14 04:53 AM
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"Sweet Loretta modern thought she was a woman but she was another man."
/r/MensRights24/04/14 09:47 PM
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I do. Most everyone here does. Maybe it's a Southern thing?
/r/MensRights16/04/14 09:22 PM
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I've got two questions. What's wrong with a law that states people will be paid the same for the same work, period. Two, if housework is indeed valuable, why can't people deduct the amount of work they do or some percentage of the work they do as homemakers? Seems to me if conservatives want to incentivize a parent staying home with the kids, they'd place some monetary value on the amount of housework performed. Granted, I have no idea how one would be able to adequately gauge what percentage or…
/r/MensRights14/04/14 05:20 AM
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The sad thing about this article to me is that she's right: money == power. Earlier this week SCOTUS once again affirmed money == speech. Having enough money to pay the bills and maybe take a vacation, that's empowerment. If you're a sex worker, maybe you have a shot at having enough money to afford "agency". I'm betting that barista doesn't earn enough to support herself.
/r/MensRights07/04/14 11:56 AM
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What I enjoy most about these things is how it reinforces the notion that the only value a woman has is her vagina.
/r/MensRights07/04/14 10:25 AM
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Noob mistake. It's WTF that doesn't allow screenshots. I apologize. Watching that documentary really got me pissed. Almost every time that lady opened her mouth she exposed herself as just another brainwashed bitch. Man, useless unless he provides what material desires I possess. Woman victim because she got pregnant and dropped out of school. Son grows up without father and suffers and takes his frustration out on his sister. Oh this poor, poor lady who just can't survive on her own because her…
/r/MensRights02/04/14 08:12 AM
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I know jezebel is click bait but I'm watching the documentary now and listening to this woman describe how she had to leave her husband when he became addicted to pain killers (I doubt it was only that, later she bemoans the fact that after ten years of marriage she never got the house she wanted). Anyway, it is criminal how little she earns and how she has to go without treatment for her medical condition. Of course she shouldn't have to hand-to-mouth-it despite working hard at a necessary job.…
/r/MensRights02/04/14 04:48 AM
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I agree with you. I think my main beef is that both sides seem to operating from…ah…polymorphic world views. It seems to me that the idea that one person can support a family is largely a fantasy for most of us. In my world, both spouses work; sometimes more than one job each. Even those folks I know where there is only one breadwinner, the "breadwinner" is busy as shit and sacrifices time with his/her family as a result. Were it true that the majority of us could earn enough to live with less f…
/r/MensRights24/03/14 06:13 PM
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I think we need a Truth and Reconciliation process. I'd love to see Desmond Tutu moderate a bunch of men and women hashing it out. It amazes me that Rev. Tutu was able to put that together. I'd like to see us adopt that model for so many things: financial collapse, being lied into war in Iraq, Segregation, the entire privatized prison nonsense! I guess that part of my complaint is that the purpose of many vocal feminists is to just tar all of us dick-equipped as the scourge of humanity. Similarl…
/r/MensRights24/03/14 02:56 AM
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There has to be some incentive to motivate their widening their scope of compassion. I don't see that they have any reason. On the other hand, at some point this patriarchy that so motivates feminists decided to make room for women. My thought is that men have looked at the absurdity of paying a woman less for the same job or denying women the right to vote, etc. Because those issues, while not eradicated worldwide are mainstream enough to be accepted as givens. There are still areas where women…
/r/MensRights23/03/14 11:20 PM
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I'd prefer Warren/Clinton but we can't all have what we want. [edit] Dear lady folk, I am not "the patriarchy". I am a human being. I can no more help that I have a penis than you a vagina. We're all victims of the uterine lottery, so-to-speak. I hope for you the best, most fulfilling, life-affirming, beautiful life possible. I wish you good luck in love and in life, just not in mine, thank you.
/r/MensRights28/02/14 12:33 AM
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I think lady folk enjoy being seduced...if the seducer is in fuckable category. The thing I notice is that lady folk, in my experience, can take it or leave it. Guys don't enjoy this luxury unless they are extremely fuckable or gay.
/r/MensRights14/02/14 04:43 AM
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I agree to a point. Is it more creepy to suggest fucking or to pretend you're interested in something else and stringing someone along until you get sex and then ditching them? Why can't people just say what they fucking mean?
/r/MensRights14/02/14 04:01 AM
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I guess on this we'll have to disagree. I can have whatever political leaning I want and still agree that if drunk people fuck assigning culpability to one party merely because they have a penis is asinine. This business of all of us having to agree on some fundamentalist political affiliation also is bullshit and exactly what keeps the vast majority of "the people alone" having any real political power. Is this a movement for Men's Rights or is it only for white, Conservative, land-owning men? …
/r/MensRights12/02/14 01:57 PM
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The Right opposed the ERA.
/r/MensRights12/02/14 01:15 AM
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I think it would be wise to avoid spitting ourselves into Right and Left. For example, I think women should be paid precisely the same for the same work as a man. Of course! Do I think pointing out that alcohol might impair ones judgment and therefore one should not be liable for anything that happens while impaired ONLY if you have a vagina? Hell fuck no! Grow the fuck up.
/r/MensRights11/02/14 11:18 PM
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I still can't bring myself to oppose feminism in one fell swoop. I am for equal rights (and responsibilities) for everyone. My beef with feminism in its current incarnation is that it seems only to exist by demonizing men or anything masculine.
/r/MensRights31/01/14 06:08 PM
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So.... I guess this means if any of the females make a comment that disagrees with the blogger, they'll be branded as "men" and be banned. It's a Man! Burn Him! "He turned me into a newt!" "A newt?" "I got better."
/r/MensRights31/01/14 03:57 PM
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To be really bend-over-backwards fair, women should get equal pay or equal work. The fact that, mostly, they do, doesn't help his image as a white knight. - no hate I just couldn't resist. Obama's less of a Liberal than Richard Nixon or Dwight Eisenhower. Bleeding hearts like myself would do well to recognize the blatant pandering. I don't mind paying for women's contraceptives. I don't mind pooling money for much anything that makes sense. I don't think that should preclude someone developing a…
/r/MensRights29/01/14 03:30 AM
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How about just "Men care, too."
/r/MensRights27/01/14 07:27 PM
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Women think that men are simply just too lazy to exercise our power properly.
/r/MensRights26/01/14 10:44 PM
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Or. You could marry someone it turns out never loved you in the first place, make her "choice" and divorce you, and retain primary custody because you don't earn as much as she does, or haven't won the uterine lottery such that you don't have to worry about things like car payments, mortgages, gas, cell phone bills, and on and on. I'm just bitter. I will say there is a difference between a woman choosing to abort an entity that relies solely on her for it's existence and a guy, presented with a …
/r/MensRights26/01/14 04:47 AM
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Hmm; maybe straight, white, feminists. Honestly, most of the shit I see thrown is from self-entitled, pampered, 40-something year-old pseudo feminist, white women, who are shocked, shocked(!) the price of agency is responsibility.
/r/MensRights11/12/13 10:10 PM
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I would go a little bit further to suggest that our culture supports a woman leaving her husband for whatever reason: you go girl! Maybe we man have had it coming with all of the philandering we've (more specifically, I), have done; I am guilty as charged on that front, personally, I'm very ashamed to say. The difference is that no one is making a movie about how glorious it is that I fucked a photographer while my spouse was away or that I got a huge book advance and bugged out of my marriage s…
/r/MensRights09/12/13 10:12 PM
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I can hear the gasps of 70% of middle aged, married women.
/r/MensRights07/12/13 04:32 PM
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Well that's awesome.
/r/MensRights02/12/13 04:44 AM
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I, too, found the article heartening. I'm not as concerned about why the publisher did the right thing than I am that they did the right thing.
/r/MensRights11/10/13 04:15 PM
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Well. I will admit it does seem that the feminists, by and large, have a corner on being dismissive of anything MRM.
/r/MensRights28/09/13 01:11 PM
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It seems they don't want to engage. That's kind of what I see in both camps: a lack of engagement. I suppose if every man is a representative of the "patriarchy" and every woman is an emasculating feminist bitch, there's not much to talk about. I am inclined to agree with the image and find it interesting that the deference with which men are encouraged to show women had to be created by a "patriarchy". What's up with that?! My hope is that we can recognize each other as being the same with diff…
/r/MensRights28/09/13 12:23 PM
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I'll require some evidence to support your claim.
/r/MensRights27/08/13 01:43 PM
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Welcome to what the "mania" is like. It can be exhilarating but it was always short lived with me and the wake of destruction it can leave! Poor guy!
/r/MensRights10/08/13 05:09 AM
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What utter bullshit.
/r/MensRights18/07/13 06:17 AM
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I tend to agree with this. If it takes women in the workforce to make this happen, so what? I can only see this as benefitting everybody, those of us with children even more so.
/r/MensRights26/06/13 01:04 PM
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I love the "choose to ejaculate" bit. Because obviously, most men usually fake it? I think women need to undergo some kind of testosterone boot camp where they get injections of testosterone long enough to feel what it's like to be a guy. Hell, I'd trade for similar estrogen therapy so I can understand what it's like to be a woman. That's the thing, though, isn't it? If we could take a moment to imagine each other with a little fucking compassion, the world would be a better place.
/r/MensRights17/06/13 01:01 PM
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Well, if you meet someone single and ok with the above, please send me her number. I'm not getting any younger!
/r/MensRights16/06/13 08:33 PM
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I enjoyed listening to this lady talk. I think I occupy the 80% of below-average OK Cupid males. I'm not fabulously good-looking, I'm not wealthy, I'm a bit overweight, I smoke cigarettes, and, most damning of all, I could not care less about conforming to anyone's expectations. I don't mind being accommodating or respectful but the mindless grasping for material gain for its own sake is just not for me. I make enough to survive, I work at jobs I mostly enjoy and am generally a happy person. Unf…
/r/MensRights16/06/13 05:37 AM
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I agree with you there.
/r/MensRights16/06/13 04:12 AM
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While I want to agree with you that if you're in a loving environment, money takes a back seat, I think the main problem is that most of us are working our asses off not to be fired or to earn barely enough to make the bills. The economy still sucks for most of us and is a real stressor.
/r/MensRights16/06/13 04:04 AM
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One is never advised to date an actress but to marry an actress?! Lord help you!
/r/MensRights07/06/13 09:50 PM
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If this applies to all people, I can see her point.
/r/MensRights06/06/13 01:59 PM
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My wife left me because I don't have the right career path...well, that and she obviously didn't love me. Perhaps there is someone out there that will love me despite my relative poverty; but I do have my doubts. Perhaps I'm suffering from confirmation bias but I have seen quite a bit of this lately.
/r/MensRights01/06/13 10:26 PM
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How about people fucking communicate with each other?! As an elder here, 41, if you find yourself in the friend zone, please try to go do something else.
/r/MensRights31/05/13 09:14 PM
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It's a little hard for me to read anyone's opinion that has a construct of Rush Limbaugh's at its core.
/r/MensRights31/05/13 01:36 PM
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