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Seems like your average/normal guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/16 05:22 AM
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As a shorter guy it definitely seems like a majority of women have some level of height requirement. Going through online dating sort of adds to that bias as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/16 02:42 AM
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I guess that's where we disagree because I didn't think they necessarily believed all of that. I might be wrong about recent history, but my point is that the ideas are only controversial if they aren't inline with the culture of the society that the ideas are in. At some point these ideas were not controversial.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/16 05:10 AM
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Traditional societies were definitely not 100% RP, but the knowledge that was passed around and the ideas that were accepted were not BP. As for spinning plates and gaming women you're right, it was more monogamous but the men were not as feminized and the women were not as masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/16 03:59 AM
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It's only controversial because our society and culture are leaning more towards gynocentrism. This stuff was mainstream and how people lived their lives not too long ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/16 03:09 AM
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Here's some reasons I've seen thrown around: they will always put you second (as they should), and this creates a lose-lose situation with everyone the judgment of the single mother is questionable if she chose to have a baby with a guy who leaves her if the womans chooses another bad guy and child becomes attached to the man and then the man leaves, it's double bad since the child got abandoned by the real father than now this other guy single mothers usually take assistance from the state, mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/16 03:03 AM
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My guess is because they can't imagine that the world really is that unfair to deprive certain men of an integral part of being human.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/16 10:06 PM
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Basically tried to follow TRP. I've focused on my career and lifted. Now I'm making 130k+ and I'm in pretty good shape. I get a lot of compliments from guys about how I look. Also took up some more hobbies like rock climbing and muay thai. To be honest I don't know the exact reason why incels would have a harder time attracting women other than low self-esteem and/or awkwardness. Part of me wants to say it's looks but I've seen all different kinds of guys with women but I assume they must have a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/16 05:01 PM
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Doing that has helped me deal with it a bit better, but hasn't solved the problem. Still better than staying home all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/16 02:17 AM
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I don't know about the guys on those subs, but I have tried to improve myself and am still in the same place so sometimes it really is just unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/16 02:12 AM
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In my experience you're right, that's not it. It's actually less than that. All the guys need is height and muscles. I have muscles and money, but no height and I'm basically invisible. I've also seen a lot of tall skinny guys not do well, but almost every girl I see walking around here is with some tall buff guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 09:54 PM
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I do see a lot more men saving random women but I do remember one story about some Korean cruise ship worker who helped other people escape a sinking boat. She was later found dead in the water. It was the first I've seen of such heroics in a woman and it almost brought me to tears. To be honest it doesn't seem in the nature of women to help men, but they do help children a lot. I think this goes back to the idea that men really do love women, but women do not love men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/15 06:58 AM
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That's a really good idea....but I wonder how well it plays out in practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 04:30 AM
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I basically just googled reddit small penis and read the threads there. Also read some threads in AskWomen about it, and it seemed to me the consensus was large = good, average = pushing it (some liked it some didn't) and all women hated small. By well endowed I didn't mean the cutoff was 8 inches, more like 6+.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 04:09 AM
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But if you're on the smaller side you can't even get laid. Once the clothes come off and she's disappointed, it seems sex is out of the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 04:06 AM
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How so? It doesn't really seem that way given our culture....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 04:05 AM
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But lesbians don't really like dicks, so they're fine with not interacting with one during sex. I dunno, it seems like TRP just assumes the guy has a good dick and is of average height but these kinds of things don't work for guys who don't meet those requirements.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 04:05 AM
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How did he make up for being smaller?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 04:02 AM
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so TRP wouldnt be useful to a guy like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 10:15 PM
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ive heard this too, but even a guy who is small wont benefit from this misconception. at that point im wondering if TRP teachings can help him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 10:06 PM
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youre right it needs clarification. i meant she wont consider him while she knows his size, but before then she can and will definitely consider him until the disappointing moment comes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 10:05 PM
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what if youre not average and pretty small? at that point, will any TRP strategies work to keep her interested?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 09:20 PM
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so a short guy thats small is basically doomed to be alone, and no amount of self improvement can save him?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 09:16 PM
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yes to all. im more interested in hearing about if TRP teachings can help overcome size preferences because if not, then TRP really isnt for all guys
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 09:14 PM
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i thought i was just reiterating one if my points; where is the disconnect from the original post?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 08:51 PM
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Doesn't have to be micro, anything 4 or less. Even if you have skills outside of size, it still will matter and play a part in her decision to stay with you. Skills can only make up for so much and sometimes it's not enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 07:59 PM
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I definitely agree that at first she'll consider you according to your other attributes, but once she finds out the size thats when she'll leave. Either that or you wont get a second date.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 07:56 PM
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Anything above average, around the 6+ mark. Edited the post to include this info.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/15 07:24 PM
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I've heard of fake it until you make it but I'm not sure how to do that. It seems like a weird catch 22 since you'd need past success to get confidence but in order to have success in this area you need confidence.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 08:15 PM
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Really good points; if I don't go out and get experience (fail a lot) I will never progress. Thanks!
/r/askTRP03/11/15 08:11 PM
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I don't speak an Asian language sadly.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 08:09 PM
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I've actually been getting the pseudo faux hawk recently so it's kind of funny that you mention it. What do you mean by a modern twist? Can I just ask for that at a barbershop and they'll know what it is?
/r/askTRP03/11/15 07:28 PM
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Thanks for the advice, especially the last couple paragraphs. I've been getting my haircut at a chain men's haircut place that only employs women (it's reasonably cheap). I thought it was a men's barbershop though, how would I be able to spot a really good barbershop?
/r/askTRP03/11/15 07:25 PM
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That's really good to know, kinda gives me more hope. Where is he located btw?
/r/askTRP03/11/15 07:15 PM
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Sorry to hear that happened to you, hope you can move on eventually. I see a lot of vilification of TRP but what people don't understand is a lot of them tried what society told them only to be hurt and betrayed. It's a bunch of guys who are trying to find happiness in a society that wants to see them fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 08:29 AM
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I think this is something many women don't understand or take for granted. The sheer, raw power they hold over a lot of people just by existing. It's insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 12:23 AM
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I identified as a feminist for a really long time. I followed all the advice I got including "just be yourself", "be nice", "treat her like a human being", etc. This lead to me being spineless, unconfident, and the "Nice Guy" that women hate so much. I'm still recovering. Anyways, my turning point happened when I got rejected by a girl. I had been so nice to her, and done so many things for her and I thought this was how you were supposed to court a girl. Then one day, at dinner, she informs me …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/15 12:15 AM
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Oprah. She and the Stedster have been in an open relationship since they began. Their relationship is just a business partnership and Oprah has been really with her best friend Gayle while Steddie has been swimming in pussy for so long that he's grown gills.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/15 09:40 PM
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My interpretation of this is that the last name of the man is usually taken because the man is usually the one getting shit done. The last name is the legacy that is being carried on by the children, and taking on the last name of the woman wouldn't have made sense since they don't accomplish as much. This is different these days now that women can work and do stuff, but it's not much different since men are still the ones getting shit done and even though women can most aren't.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 11:26 PM
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I think quite a few men want an SO as you described: someone they can trust, can rely on, and truly share their life with. The problem is, men really value honor and loyalty which women lack. Your SO will never love you the way you want, and you have to come to terms with that. Keep her for intimacy and companionship, but don't expect anything other than fun times with her. Your friends and family are there for the other stuff.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 09:34 PM
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That title may be one of the best, though. Short and to the point, very unlike a woman to do.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 09:21 PM
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Men and women are different, you can't hold them to the same standard. If you expect a woman to have honor and integrity like a man, or accept responsibilities then you will be disappointed. They are indeed childish, but that is part of their charm.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 11:54 PM
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Nothing really happens. I use it as an exercise to look at my own debate skills and improve how I explain things. I know nothing is going to come from it. Usually feminists like to take what I say and modify it into a phrase such as "so you think blah blah blah" to reframe the argument into one that they are familiar with. When I try and explain my real point, they misinterpret it again and then the argument becomes circular. All my arguments with feminists have become circular where they just g…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 11:43 PM
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There are many reasons why men dislike women that have a high partner count, and if you are redpill as you claim you wouldn't even have posted this. It's understood that there are women who just want to fuck with no emotional connection and those women are called sluts. There is no double standard for a guy fucking a lot of women being praised and a slut being shamed because they are entirely different things. It's hard for a man to get laid, and it's easy for a woman. Sluts bragging about how m…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 01:13 AM
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I see women complaining all the time about catcalling, but I never hear about them actually getting hurt. Here a guy tries to defend them and ends up in the hospital. I'd rather a person catcall me than punch me so hard in the face I have to pay medical bills. It isn't men who do this shit like feminists claim, it's assholes. They will harass anyone, catcalling is just how they do it with women. We now see that they're willing to be dicks to men too, but in a more harsher and physical way.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 01:30 AM
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Yeah, I get that most people would face this a few times but I wasn't sure of the frequency. The most recent one was a girl, but it didn't seem like flirting to me. She told me I should've seen the look on my face.
/r/askTRP26/04/14 05:44 AM
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Thanks. I've noticed that this happens to me quite a lot but I don't see many other people having this problem. In your opinion, is this a common occurrence? If something I'm doing is screaming "mess with me", then I want to change it.
/r/askTRP26/04/14 04:31 AM
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Can I get this moved then, or should I delete it here and repost over there?
/r/TheRedPill26/04/14 03:16 AM
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