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CMVhesipullupjimbo445/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 03:44 PM
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CMVhesipullupjimbo445/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 05:23 PM
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CMVhesipullupjimbo445/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 02:24 PM
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CMVhesipullupjimbo445/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 08:07 PM
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Discussionhesipullupjimbo445/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 12:19 AM
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Discussionhesipullupjimbo445/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 08:20 PM
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CMVhesipullupjimbo445/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 11:16 PM
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CMVhesipullupjimbo445/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 10:34 PM
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CMVhesipullupjimbo445/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:23 PM
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Debatehesipullupjimbo445/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 12:45 PM
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CMVhesipullupjimbo445/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 07:04 PM
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Discussionhesipullupjimbo445/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 07:41 PM
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CMVhesipullupjimbo445/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 10:12 PM
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Anyone that comes to the conclusion that women are less happy today from a self reported study is foolish. There are way better ways to prove it. As for black women’s increased happiness, it makes sense. The black community is a matriarchy, racism has gotten somewhat “better”, and the government is there as a safety net in the event of an out of wedlock child birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:03 PM
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Any self reported study on happiness is going to be biased, happy people are more likely to participate and unhappy people will lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:52 PM
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Just cause you don’t have a lot of money doesn’t mean you won’t lose any in divorce. During the marriage you won’t be respected and/or will have to be with someone that you’re not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:17 PM
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9 and 8.5
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:45 AM
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Inceldom is a pressing issue for men in developed countries. Most of Africa and South America aren’t developed. Black and Latino men in the states aren’t exactly chomping at the bit to deal with the racism and stigma of incel spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:17 AM
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She’s definitely attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:09 AM
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Last two are the hottest Bella Poarch is pretty attractive 3,4, and 5 are mid Dixie’s attractiveness varies vastly by picture
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:53 AM
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As if “divestors” do any better
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:47 AM
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They could fix a good amount of men’s dating/motivation problem if society ever accepted them again
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:36 AM
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I take an extremely unpleasant shit about once a month, that’s enough for me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:57 PM
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It’s pretty true but a little more nuanced. White women just “hate” white men while POC women “hate” white women. The same thing happens with misogynistic men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 06:56 PM
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Money and colonization
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:27 PM
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Chadley
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 03:59 AM
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If we haven’t fucked after 3 dates then there’s no chance of a relationship or 4th date. I’ll definitely stick around just to see things through.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 05:15 AM
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I have one issue with this. According to trp, there’s a female equivalent to men’s problems in most situations. This is hardly ever the case with white/black racism. Not until relatively recently did blatant racism become viewed as a horrible thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 04:14 AM
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Neither, it’s the guy that ghosted her after the hookup
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:09 AM
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HIV would be like the sniffles
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/21 05:50 PM
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Most men just don’t want to admit the truth: most modern women want sex and will have casual sex, just not with you. The trust vs mistrust thing is just an ideological cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 07:09 PM
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I’d never ask out a coworker Any friendship is over after the rejection Move on to the next one
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 07:18 AM
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Yes but it isn’t outwardly spoken about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 03:49 PM
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Theoretically yes it is possible however it isn’t realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 03:46 PM
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I’d get in the kitchen and let them provide for me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 12:42 AM
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No they’re the same for the most part but the situations they’re in and the way they act are drastically different. On OLD she’s calling the shots but irl she’ll be hanging out of some guys ass trying to cope with the rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 11:44 PM
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A 2:1 ratio doesn’t change much unless more women start getting degrees in STEM, law, etc. The only difference is that more women will clearly be a liability due to student loans while having low paying jobs. As for the campus dating market, nothing changes for most guys. Instead of college girls going to every party imaginable, they’ll just go off campus on the weekend to see the guys they actually want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:19 AM
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“In pointing out how it contradicts how attractive he is to women if he has to screw ugly women” Chad doesn’t fuck ugly women and anyone that believes so is out of touch. Fucking average women with ease doesn’t make him average. He can fuck Stacy on the first date or fuck Becky after a few texts. “Is Chad fucking ugly women or not” NO, just because ugly women want him doesn’t mean he’s fucking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 05:15 PM
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The issue with women with money wanting men with money is that women with money usually don’t want to and don’t think they should have to compete for those men. They think their money is enough to get a high earning man when those types of men could give two shits about her money.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 10:51 PM
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Don’t be fooled most men are two missed checks away from being on the street. As for you, just because you make good money doesn’t mean you deserve or will attract a man with money. One interesting thing I picked up on is you mentioned an apartment not a house. Is that something that’s strictly for marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 10:15 PM
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Women’s standards outside of looks are pretty normal, it’s just that they’re standards for looks are insanely high. They end up clashing because men that pass the looks test have no real reason to live up to other standards because he can get pussy regardless. Same thing goes for sex, men that have a lot of it have no reason to improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 05:47 PM
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“So as I expected. Guys underestimate women’s SMV” Wouldn’t that be overestimating? Since according to you Chad is fucking bottom tier basic bitches. “Now if you casual sex, that’s a different story” Casual sex is what this whole topic revolves around. Guys that are 5s need to provide something else in order to get fucked, it can be financial or emotional. When I say fuckable I mean good looking enough to get sex without needing to commit or trick for her. “This is irrelevant. You guys erroneous…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 05:17 PM
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First chad is not fucking below average women. He’s hooking up with 5s at minimum and usually higher(6-7). You’re massively underestimating the convenience factor in this. Sure Chad can fuck Stacy with relative ease but it takes a few weeks. Why do that if all he wants is sex and there are average and above average women lining up for him? “Being hot doesn’t automatically make a men High Value to women” It does however make him fuckable “Chad should never have to settle on basic bitches because …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 02:41 PM
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“Date” is just code for the stuff guys do in between fucking to guarantee more fucking
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 02:28 PM
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No To shut up ugly people and avoid having to deal with any negative emotions
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 02:27 PM
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This applies to like the 20-30% of guys that are at or above the average mark.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 12:31 AM
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Expecting casual sex outside of those types of situations is foolish. However, most men aren’t getting casual sex no matter what situation they put themselves in. Some guys can go to social events every weekend and never get laid while others can just simply need to exist in any space.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 09:57 PM
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I think you know the answer to that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 06:54 PM
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Men don’t want to change because that would mean that they’ve been lied to. Society has told people for years that they’re perfect the way they are and that they should be accepted no matter what. Women have benefited from this while men have been screwed over.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 05:17 PM
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Could say the same thing about earth tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 01:40 AM
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No most people are either ugly, average, or attractive. People date and marry within in their bracket. Only in causal sex do people fuck up or down in looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 01:39 AM
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It’s like pizza. It can have a variety of different toppings, crusts, sauces, and cheeses but in the end it is still a pizza. Modern women are very similar in what they practice despite coming from all walks of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 01:37 AM
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I think his best content comes when the discussion isn’t centered around high value men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 01:31 AM
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Most women aren’t invisible, it’s just that the men they want don’t want to approach them in public. They’re viewed as a middling tinder hookup while he’s in a sexual slump.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 01:25 AM
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A former fat woman is free to decline as many men as she wants. However for most women, losing weight and finally being able to get fucked by their dream guy is exactly what they wanted. “If you can’t love a woman at her fattest why do you deserve her at her slimmest?” She can hold that grudge all she wants, I’ll just find a slim woman or an attractive fat one. “Lots of men make excuses about reasons they cheat “their wife is now fat”” Is that no different then a woman stepping out or divorcing …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:51 AM
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It’s easy to tell wether a woman has a good chance at her body being “ruined” due to pregnancy. If she eats like shit and lives a sedentary lifestyle then there’s a good chance, especially if she’s already out of shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 12:43 AM
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Be good looking. After that just don’t be a total bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:05 AM
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Women use the men they’re fucking, dating, or married to as way to one up each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:20 AM
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It is when you have to constantly humble brag about a guy to your friends to feel validated and important.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 09:51 PM
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The fact that they think genetics is so linear is embarrassing considering these women are grown. Sure that guy might be average looking and have an average IQ but it’s far from impossible for him to produce attractive offspring with above average natural smarts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 09:45 PM
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This may work in a vacuum for a few guys, but if the majority of men under 6 foot started wearing them the preferred height for men would jump up to 6’3. There isn’t a minimum number threshold for height just a percentage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 09:36 PM
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It sounds to me like you attract timid unsociable guys that are trying to emulate the PUA’s they see. All “game” is is just trying to charm women and it’s not used to get a relationship. If guys were blunt about wanting sex most women wouldn’t be getting anywhere near the amount of validation they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 11:17 AM
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Yes when she’s still trying to get the highest valued man possible. Each man is a stepping stone to a better one. It works somewhat like a resume or portfolio.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 01:02 AM
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I left a comment on a post a few days ago about how video games were an evolved version of coping with social rejection. Sex robots, legalized prostitution, etc. will serve that same purpose but for sexual rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 01:00 AM
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Women don’t give two shits about ambition or anything similar to it, they like money and most guys with money happen to be ambitious. They’ll take timid IT guy making 200k over the super ballsy artist barely cracking 50k any day of the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 12:58 AM
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No he’s a good 3 points above her. She needs to lose weight to get closer to him. Truth be told this guys like a hairstyle change a way from being universally attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:29 PM
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I really think this is a question for men. The root of the issue for these guys starts in their early teens where they’re usually not talking to girls outside of lab and project partners. Porn and video games just allow them to suppress the feelings that come with social rejection. It’s like the kids that use to dress in all black and listen to their mp3 all day while sitting in the back of the class, except far more effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 11:22 AM
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No you move on if your still waiting after meeting her 3 times
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:07 AM
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No I think most men would prefer to be sole providers but with the current economy most concede that dream
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 12:04 AM
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This is a way bigger issue among women than it is for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 03:23 PM
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Fetishization
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 03:04 AM
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Dick, since they’re straight. There’s no social stigma with dating a man that is based off of his gender. This can be big for women from religious cultures or the ones trying to live the middle class WASP life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 01:01 PM
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Withholding sex can be about either it all depends on the guy. Withholding sex from an HVM/good looking guy is more than likely to get him to act right or keep him around. Withholding from an average guy is definitely to vet out the “fuckboys”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 12:58 PM
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The chances of her articulating what he’s doing wrong instead of just saying “you can’t make me cum” are low. If she gives articulate feedback the chances of him improving on it are even lower. If they’re married chances are he’s been fucking for a while and it’s difficult to teach and old dog new tricks. If they’re just dating he can breakup and go find someone else who likes the way he fucks, assuming his value is high enough. If his value isn’t high enough then chances are part of the reason …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:57 PM
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It depends on when they switched roles. If it were in ancient times or present day then I do believe they would be able to build what men did or continue to build. If it was sometime between 1800 and 1970 ish then no.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 05:53 PM
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They could adapt over time but it would be rough for a while. If humans were asexual and took the form of women we would’ve never evolved past Neanderthals. If the roles of men and women had been switched I think women could’ve built what men did. Women wouldn’t be able to survive for longer than a few weeks if all men on earth perished.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 05:43 PM
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Yes but it’s one of the most embarrassing things you can do sexually
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 07:23 PM
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Men hit a wall sometime between 16 and 22 based on a combo of looks and money
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 07:22 PM
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“Act your dick size/height/attractiveness/bank account” is said by some women to humble men that show the slightest bit of confidence while being ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 12:38 AM
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“IRL women are working too hard, jilling off, and exploring new interests” All while reaching record levels of depression “I’d tell them but men don’t listen to women” Sure you do…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 12:27 AM
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thepinkpill.co
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 12:20 AM
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Don’t you have a “forum” to run?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 11:42 PM
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How are 50%+ of women all going to end up with top 10-20% men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 11:31 PM
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Just because men haven’t done anything to enact change lately that doesn’t mean that women have either. 4th wave feminism has done nothing to change anyone’s ideology regarding sex, women still get ridiculed and slut shamed by both men and women. Things have not gotten any better for women when it comes to rape and sexual assault. You say that men are oppressing women as if the average Joe is going around performing illegal hysterectomies and beating every woman he sees. Not being able to get di…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:47 PM
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From what I’ve seen queer people tend to just mingle with other queer people. However it does seem that a greater number of women are open to dating queer people than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 08:33 PM
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You just further proved my last sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 12:22 AM
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Just be confident and take a few showers I’m sure that’ll make them treat the members of your community better
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 11:07 PM
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They’re at home doing whatever unproductive thing they feel is necessary. If they want dick they go on tinder and find the nearest chad. Most “single” women are off the market in one way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 11:01 PM
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This is only hurting women because rotational dating is a privilege for men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 11:46 PM
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Both are bad but for different reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 11:43 PM
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It’s viewed as bad because many of the people speaking out about it have either never done it(feminists) or are just trying to cope with the fact they will never be able to afford it. With that being said it definitely can be unfulfilling, especially once the youngest kid reaches school age.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 11:37 PM
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Having sex with her is the easy part, primal instincts just take over. Getting her into bed can be challenging depending on how you look and how you view yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 11:30 PM
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Trying to interpret hints from women is like playing Russian roulette with your freedom
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 11:27 PM
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He’s attractive and they usually are into the arts or music. Those make great things to humble brag about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 11:26 PM
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Depends on what the content is. Animal and nature pics aren’t really raising any eyebrows to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 11:20 PM
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It’s true but a rich guy spending a few thousand on a date or shopping spree is much different than someone spending $300 on a date when they make 40k a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:08 PM
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How n count is interpreted today is simply a check on the power women have in the dating world
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 05:22 AM
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They’re just like the feminists who think men become misogynists because they can’t get pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 08:58 PM
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Sacrificing your interests to get laid is just part of being a guy. There’s a reason why it seems that almost every guy ends up liking a combination of grilling, sports, fishing, lawn mowing, and cars.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 04:36 AM
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This is true but not a bad thing, to most women consistent sex with guys out of her league is way better than an ltr with the average Joe
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 04:30 AM
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In the west I think it’s dumb no matter what
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 12:51 PM
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Chances are you’ll either be shunned or killed if you live in that type of religious country
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 12:46 PM
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Yes but I think both are dumb unless it’s for religious reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 12:12 PM
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This isn’t going to change why people use it. All it will do is give women more reasons to deem a guy unfuckable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:54 PM
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There’s nuance to it. If the first person actually fights for change and doesn’t virtue signal then I might pick them as long as they aren’t obnoxious about it. The second person is probably easier to deal with on a day to day but likely to be a pain in the ass for a couple weeks out of the year.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:56 AM
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He’s brutally honest, doesn’t try to sell you anything, is consistent with his content and stays away from politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 08:22 PM
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I agree men have worse profiles in comparison to women. However, I believe men’s profiles are more realistic/genuine. I’ve seen women have super interesting profiles but be extremely boring in person. The same can be said for pictures, most women look noticeably different from their profile pics.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 06:03 AM
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I think what’s going to happen is that relations and attitudes between the genders will be polarized. A man will either be super supportive of women or hate their guts. Very few will be nonchalant. This is already happened with women it’s just that most women are against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 02:33 PM
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Yes in some ways. By the time I turned to gaming I had developed enough social skills to balance things out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 07:49 PM
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Seems like it’s easier for a woman to cum when the nipple clamps are from Tiffany
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 03:56 AM
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I*cels aren’t the only ones not getting laid just like there are misogynists swimming in pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 03:51 AM
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So she does go to someone that treats her like shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 03:49 AM
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Are you fucking dense? No normal man is risking a sexual assault charge just to prove he has balls.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 08:44 PM
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I’m not catching a case just to tell a 5/10 she has a fat ass and I want to fuck her. I will say men are much weaker than they ideally should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 08:41 PM
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They’re a pain in the ass to date but great to fuck. Poverty pussy is almost as good as woke liberal pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 01:26 AM
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They should be the only ones getting called beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 09:00 PM
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A lot of men are just fat
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 08:59 PM
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It depends on why he’s attractive. If personality is playing apart then chances are yes those things can make him creepy. If it’s because of his looks then there’s a decent chance it could be overlooked. He’s still good casual sex as long as he wears a condom. Most people don’t have enough integrity to turn away an attractive person with major red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 03:26 PM
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I compliment people if there is a reason for them to be complemented(new clothes, big accomplishment, etc.). However these compliments are realistic and not lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 09:31 PM
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The type of women I’m describing will speak highly of their fat friends then treat them as clearly beneath them in the looks hierarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 08:49 PM
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It’s a lot harder and much less likely for a man to bail on his kids if they got married before having them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 03:16 PM
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All a woman has to do to get treated better is put on makeup and not be obese. There is no path for a man to get better treatment that isn’t a life altering change.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 02:13 PM
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Ah yes even more good looking women that I can’t fuck. Men having a scarcity mindset makes perfect sense because the percentage of women the average man can realistically have casual sex with is sharply decreasing. Most guys can only have an abundance mindset with the bottom 30% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 01:50 PM
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“ they didn’t all go after obviously abusive Chad monsters “ However they are only dealing with attractive men, around the top 20-30% of all men. “I will never understand why men in particular are so bothered by women’s standards” If the majority of women have high standards the majority of them are going to end up not having them fulfilled. Since the western world is for the most part polygamous, every woman can only marry one man. There are women in the 50th percentile demanding men in the 20t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:17 PM
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Can I get a TL;DR? I’m not reading all of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:48 PM
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No where did I mention their looks. However, truly attractive, both physically and personality wise, women are not struggling so hard to find men that they turn to an internet echo chamber.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 06:47 PM
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Who the fuck is FDS to decide what a HVM is? Men and most women alike have decided that HVM are high earners and usually attractive. Even going by your definition, why would a HVM date an FDS member. Good people attract and date good people, not bitter and hurt misandrists.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 11:32 AM
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No me still talk good
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 10:29 PM
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“I’m (F) extremely wealthy” The only type of men that care about your money are mooches. Are you willing to date a man that makes significantly less than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:44 PM
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Bold of you to assume I’m unsuccessful with women or that my main goal is dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:42 PM
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No but it can definitely be a deal breaker, similar to men not making enough money. Women that out-earn their husbands should’ve focused on being attractive to men that make more than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:22 PM
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Around 55 to 60k a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:47 PM
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If he has to help out with homemaking than what is the woman there for? She pays no bills and does some of the housework. The only redeeming aspect is that she’s raising the kids but there’s no guarantee she’s great at that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:39 PM
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That may be true for attractive women but I doubt a woman that’s a 5 is making legitimate money off of just dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:31 PM
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Yes my house is clean, thanks for asking. Financially successful men enter relationships because that allows for him to have kids/pass on his legacy, being in a relationship is easier than dating, and because he’s human. If he wants a maid chances are he’s going to hire maid instead of getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:28 PM
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You’re acting as if there aren’t women that are perfectly fine with being a SAHM/housewife as long as the man is paying all of the bills and expenses. “Most women aren’t usually SAHM unless they have kids” Kind of hard to be a mom with no children. “Even women with kids aren’t usually SAHMs because a single income isn’t enough to support a family” I’m not talking about men that can’t provide fully.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:22 PM
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The results they want are relationships with high value men, that I do understand. I agree that they want to live their life how they want however, many become bitter when they can’t find a man due to them living their life a certain way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:18 PM
4

It also benefits no one. Women on there will bash men while still not getting what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:16 PM
2

Women should date on their level. Chad isn’t bad neither are men who spend time with their family.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:11 PM
1

“... and influential as it is at what only 1 year(you people had 10+ so silence) tells you one thing” You’re assuming women didn’t feel this way before FDS became a thing. Around the same time TRP started to form, many women started to adopt what would become FDS ideologies. “Men decided to normalize porn so now OnlyFans is a trendy flex” Porn has existed for decades and internet porn has been around for a little more than 15. OnlyFans blew up because of the pandemic. “Misandry isn’t a real issu…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 07:33 PM
1

I just checked out that website and holy shit is it a goldmine
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 07:14 PM
2

“It’s not unreasonable to expect your partner to contribute to the house” Yes, unless he is providing and paying 100% of the bills. In that case he shouldn’t be responsible for anything outside of handiwork and lawn care. “Most men do care about more than pretty/ feminine/ nice” They do, but I doubt he cares about the way a woman clutches her purse when walking. “ If you don’t care about anything other than having agreeable arm candy” When did I say that’s what I wanted? Feminine people have per…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 07:11 PM
3

They want Chad to evolve into the family man. I will say that is does happen a good amount but he’s not setting down with an FDS user.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 07:06 PM
1

This isn’t an “either or” for for most women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 07:02 PM
3

So he has to show his generosity while she sits back and does nothing to make him feel appreciated?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 07:00 PM
1

I don’t hate the sub, I just want it to actually help it’s members so they can finally shut the fuck up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 06:56 PM
1

I think you’re already seeing it spread, it’s just that attractive women don’t have to talk about it because they are actually doing what FDS dreams of.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 06:52 PM
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That man still has to make a certain amount, I’d assume top 35% of male earners. As you move into more rarified air, men are less likely to put up with an “independent woman” that’s a total bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 06:51 PM
2

“If a HVM is wealthy” HVM aren’t marrying FDS members on a regular basis
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 06:48 PM
4

Are you willing to date men that make less than you? If not then it’s going to be tough to find that guy. Any man that makes 200k+ isn’t getting in a relationship to play Suzy Homemaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 05:58 PM
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I don’t believe that at all. I think of Reddit like a parody of the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 05:43 PM
1

The goal of FDS is to attract a high value man that is a provider. Today provider men are rare and a majority of them have to work long hours. He isn’t going to be helping with unpaid labor that should be done by the woman in a traditional relationship. Spending time with her family is low on his list of priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 05:40 PM
2

The biggest reason for men in this sub being “angry” is because as a society we’re able to or at least starting to discuss privileges/disadvantages yet when it comes to dating there is no such discussion, only lies and gaslighting. Women will talk down on men, citing “male privilege” while being oblivious to how easy they have it socially. This is despite there being overwhelming evidence both in studies and anecdotes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:41 PM
3

I have no kids and I don’t intend on raising one that I didn’t help create.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:29 PM
1

A high n count doesn’t bother me as long as she isn’t holding out on sex with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:26 PM
1

There’s usually mutual physical attention so I just keep the convos concise but warm. Eventually she starts throwing around hints.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:49 AM
1

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:47 AM
1

I was more referring to the average Joe type of guy. An attractive dude could admit to being a former terrorist and it’d be no big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 11:47 AM
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Why do low self esteem men exist? They can’t get sex and have minimal dating success. This is why they have no confidence. You call this place a toxic support group, if that’s true then what is FDS?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 02:05 AM
1

No, don’t really mention them tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 01:56 AM
6

If women were fucking ugly men just to fuck them this sub wouldn’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 01:48 AM
6

Women don’t fuck ugly men unless she has something to gain(money, status, etc). They fuck attractive men just because they’re hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 01:41 AM
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They could give two shits what a hvm does as long as he’s satisfying her financially. I’m talking about the average Joe
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:42 AM
1

My problem is that I’d get labeled fatphobic for not wanting to date a fat person
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:29 AM
4

No I’ve fucked women I personally couldn’t stand
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:05 AM
1

I think both are valid but only one would result in the end of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 10:00 PM
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I checked the post and I’m wondering how the hell shit like this happens, how would he even find out the exact number? Not to mention she minimized the number greatly. Shaving a few bodies off is one thing but 24 is ridiculous. She’s a lying whore and he has every right to break up with her. As for your CMV, your right but it doesn’t play out like that. A woman thinks having a high body count at the very least shows that she’s attractive(it doesn’t). However, a man seeing a prostitute means that…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:55 PM
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I’m going to be honest unless you’re in the top 10% of women, most men that you find attractive aren’t going to pursue you for more than a date. If a man is looking for causal sex he’ll have no problem lowering his standard as long as he has a better chance at actually having sex. The five that’s dtf is always a better option than the prudish 8. As far as being independent but wanting a man that wants to take care of you, it depends on what you define that as. If it means he pays for all the dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 08:53 PM
1

My question wasn’t about happiness or who was going to have the upper hand
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 11:26 AM
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An average looking man needs to have confidence, be in above average shape, and make above average money to have an ok chance with attractive women. This is much harder than it sounds. The median income for a man in the US is $38,461 and only 10% make over 100k so chances are he’s not making enough money to impress a woman. Being in better shape then the average man is pretty easy so I’m not going to argue that. Confidence is hard to just get out of the blue, especially if you’ve been ridiculed …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:18 PM
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The way women are attacking his looks proves that there is no room in between ugly and attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 05:54 PM
2

It’s a genre? All this time I swore it was a type of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:11 PM
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Are you just retroactively discussing issues? Nobody has given those movies any real thought since the 90s. Men’s nice guy ideas now come from a mix of social media and real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:06 PM
1

I’ll say this: Women aren’t buying things for the house that they see no purpose in or find ugly, men are
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 11:08 PM
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I don’t think women are fucking behind their husbands back a ton but I do think many are unsatisfied with their partners. This results in complacency, nagging, and constant arguing. At least if she were fucking someone behind his back, she’d be in a good mood. Most women are either the type of woman you described or are trying their hardest to be that type. You sound bitter as hell towards those women, maybe a little jealousy but i don’t know. 3.Yes men are complaining about the lack of casual s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 09:18 PM
0

No one said women should date men that don’t clean their toilets but women will berate a man because the toilet paper is hanging the wrong way. Women can decorate a house but don’t act like you saved the world by doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 06:38 PM
0

Most people are unhappy in them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 04:36 PM
2

If all I had to was clean a house, raise my kids, and eat pussy a couple days a week in order to have no financial responsibility I’d do it in a heartbeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 04:34 PM
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Yes that’s why women want them. Men are accepting them because they have no other choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 04:28 PM
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No the arrangement where the man pays for everything is rare. I’m fully aware of the “patriarchy” and what it entails. You’re right that some women never wanted to do housework but do women want to be full providers for men? Most don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 04:26 PM
1

Yes they’re boring but so is working long hours to provide for your family. Both suck but one has much better benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 04:14 PM
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They are capable of “the bare minimum” most just don’t want that and have never wanted it. Women fought to be able to have careers and work outside the home, men didn’t. The only reason why most men are in some type of 50/50 relationship is because that’s all they can afford.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 04:10 PM
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If a woman wants a 50/50 relationship they have every right to pursue that. However, men were not the ones to push for women in the workplace and most have never wanted to do housework. That arrangement is rare due to the fact that wages are stagnant and the cost of living has skyrocketed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 04:08 PM
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You shouldn’t settle since you were able to attract him. Women that can’t attract that type of men should settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 03:46 PM
4

Is a bill free life not compensation? Housework is only hard when you have kids and even then the hard part is the kids not the work. Loading a dishwasher, loading a washing machine, vacuuming, and dusting are all simple tasks. Cooking for and cleaning a bathroom after kids sucks I will admit that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 03:35 PM
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Yes if I feel she is worthy of that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 03:29 PM
-4

I never said it was right or that I would do it necessarily. The only situation I think it is fair for the man to not do chores is when he pays 100% of the bills
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 03:21 PM
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I would not choose to do those things if I paid 100% of the bills
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 03:19 PM
3

Most men can do these things they just choose not to in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 02:44 PM
2

You’re seriously underestimating the number of women that are as self sufficient as a 16 year old. You describe those tasks as if they’re simple, which they are. Doesn’t that mean that housework is simple and women have no reason to complain about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 02:14 PM
4

Yes overwhelmingly. The men did well enough considering the circumstances for that type of show. The women failed at almost everything. They struggled to gather water, kill animals that were already wounded, and build shelter. It also gives insight into how different men and women are when trying to work towards a common goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 02:05 PM
3

Most men that can get sex without getting in a relationship do exactly that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 02:01 PM
-1

The fact that you decided to polarize the men is interesting. Never did I say women should date men that sleep on mattresses on the floor or men that are excessively messy, however men and women have different standards for what is considered messy. To answer your question, yes there are women that will date the second guy just to have control over him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 01:59 PM
2

If haven’t already, check out season 2 of the Island with Bear Grylls
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 01:51 PM
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None of what I described is oppression. Not cooking and cleaning doesn’t make you a bad wife automatically but it will decrease your value in most situations. A woman cooking and cleaning is not keeping the man down, women acting as if men live horribly just to maintain the upper hand in dating is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 01:41 PM
2

If you mean from a financial perspective then no, sugar relationships are expensive and most people don’t have that type of disposable income. However, I do think relationships and casual sex are becoming more transactional. It’s becoming more common for people to share something resembling a sexual portfolio prior to hooking up(Dick size, possible positions, preferences, oral?). If someone, usually the woman, isn’t impressed then it gets called off.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 11:58 AM
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I think it’s done the opposite since that type of body can be found on all races now. For black women it may be better that way since fetishizers of that body type are less likely to pursue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 01:15 AM
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For some jealousy and for others they just disprove of it. It’s definitely not just men that are against though. I think it is being pushed on to impressionable teens that think they can get rich off it even though very few due. Its similar the videos where women discuss sugaring and lie about what it takes to get paid. They’ll say they make thousands off of sending old guys feet pics when they’re actually fucking and sucking. They’re no better than the army recruiters that go to high schools an…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 05:56 PM
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Women don’t want ugly/average men it’s that simple. I’ve never seen an above average guy complain that he was “too nice” to get a date. On the other hand I don’t think ugly assholes are having much success either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 08:57 PM
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His income depends on there being a disconnect between men and women large enough to keep them unmarried. For years he focused on and criticized men that thought they were better than they really were now he’s doing it to women. Men have finally started to push back against women demanding that men marry them despite being extremely flawed. Kevin Samuels is relaying this message to women, debating them on it, and outlining what steps need to be taken in order for women to get the best man they r…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 04:40 AM
1

Most of them have vaginas
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 04:22 AM
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“If she makes a certain wage, she’s going to want someone in her financial class” A woman’s money does nothing to qualify her for a certain level of man. “If she’s a certain age, she’s going to want someone the same age as her” If she’s in her 20s she better have a realistic financial standard. Most guys that make 6 figures aren’t making that at 25. “If she’s a certain height, she’s going to want someone that is the same height” Most women want a man taller than them “And am generally considered…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 01:42 AM
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Neither, any woman that has to follow one of them to get a man is seriously fucked up
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 01:29 AM
3

The only thing preventing polygamy in the west is women’s egos
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 12:29 AM
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No it only cemented a somewhat depressing reality for men in the western world
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 12:05 AM
1

Women can offer more than sex buy many choose not to
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 11:11 AM
7

Wealth/status symbols attract women but only because they’re an indicator of what he can do for her. However if he isn’t willing to buy her anything than she could care less about his car or watches.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 10:57 PM
3

No one is pretending that. If you can’t explain the facets and complexities just say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 10:52 PM
2

Being fat is a personal choice so fat women have no one to blame but themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 08:49 PM
2

Im referring to a somewhat recent time period, the last 50-75 years
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 08:03 PM
2

Men have low standards for what they find attractive physically but are very selective in what the will marry. Women are selective for both casual sex and marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 08:00 PM
0

Is it really settling if you know you have no shot? Most men understand they aren’t marrying a beautiful woman, the same can’t be said for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 07:57 PM
1

From a casual sex perspective women do go for that or something relatively close to it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 07:55 PM
9

Would you like to explain some of the other facets and complexities?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 04:39 PM
1

A better question would be can women get a man with their ideal body type
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 01:54 PM
3

They’re unreasonable because if women truly stuck to their standards for their entire life many of them would die alone
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 01:44 AM
1

No, I’m with her for her looks and culinary skills
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 01:41 AM
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Imagine if men as a collective had this mindset when women complain about one guy not wanting her
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 01:40 AM
1

If this ever happens in America I’m going straight to a lawyer and getting a legally binding contract written up that proves consent was given
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:12 PM
1

No the goalposts just move depending on how good you look. A hot guy is gonna be kicking into the Grand Canyon.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 01:23 AM
2

I have a childhood friend that was like a sister to me, even at our peak friendship I would’ve fucked her with no regrets
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 01:18 AM
1

No as long as you aren’t ignorant or obnoxiously woke
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 01:13 AM
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Yes but it’s complex for the sake of being complex in most cases. Women could just say what they actually like but that would alienate the men that could be potential backup plans if she’s unable to get what she really wants. “Different types of women like different types of guys” Yet when asked what they like, the answers are pretty much the same. “And yet, so many guys want to be super focused on what ALL WOMEN like in a man” Most women like tall, conventionally attractive, and high earning me…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:23 PM
1

Name some of these tribes and communities, outside of native Americans
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 02:22 AM
1

It’s how damn near every society has been in human history, someone has to be at the bottom
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 02:16 AM
1

Then what is “right”?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 12:44 AM
0

“No one is forcing men to do anything they don’t want to” Yes but if he is average, wants kids, and doesn’t want to die alone then he’s going to have to marry an average woman. “Wanting hot men is a quality in women so evil... deserve to get abused or raped” Most people think that is insane, just like saying wanting hot women is linked to white supremacy is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 12:12 AM
2

Hot men treat them better because they know they don’t have to commit and marry fat women. Average men know that eventually they’ve gotta latch on to Shamu. It’s like how people started thrifting as a trend. I wonder how often these women are getting in relationships with and being publicly shown off by these men. Hot guys will have no problem pursuing, by dinner for, and fucking fat women but you’re crazy to think they’re going to marry them in troves. Edit: Just watched it and this shit is get…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 09:25 PM
1

Caring about your body and actually working out already puts you ahead of 80% of guys from a health perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 09:20 PM
3

All I’m saying is I’ve never heard an attractive woman complain about them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 09:18 PM
3

Unpaid labor only sucks if you work and make average or less money. Being a middle class SAHM is relatively easy. Working and cleaning but combining with your partner to make 175k+ isn’t too shabby either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 09:17 PM
3

Only if the guy is attractive enough for casual sex. Women get no benefit from fucking their betabux.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 01:33 AM
5

Racial discrimination can take many different forms, bigotry can be caused by a number of different things. However, none of those things justify being a racist. Who exactly are these “narrowminded people”?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 06:33 PM
10

Racism is a much more important and complex issue than simping or fucking pick me’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 05:58 PM
1

Women like attractive men, they just don’t find most men attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 05:39 PM
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Most women will turn into a pick me for the right guy so a man has every right to be proud if he is consistently fucking and turning women into pick me’s. Double standards exist and the world isn’t fair get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 05:33 PM
2

Personality only differentiates men of similar attractiveness. You’d have to be a massive dick to bet bumped down from an 8 to a 5. Same could be said for elevating with money.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 12:20 AM
12

They definitely have them. They keep trying to one up each other in order to attract top 20-30% men but since the majority of them are doing it they aren’t able to attract that man they want. They’re doing the exact same thing as other women but aren’t getting the same results. Throw in how expensive the upkeep is and that’s probably enough to crush them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 12:17 AM
1

Sure there is for an individual if they have the money to just throw away, there’s a price where most women will be fine with it. From a societal standpoint I honestly don’t think so, at least not at a large number. I could see it being a thing for guys in the top 2% or so but most guys don’t have enough resources to sustain that type of arrangement. If it got to a point where 10% of men had multiple wives I think close to half of men would just check out of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 11:57 PM
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Attractive men do well with women. An attractive feminine man is going to do better than an average masculine man but if they’re on the same level the masculine man is going to do better. Ugly men are going to struggle no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 11:52 AM
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Totally because men were the ones screaming about how inclusive women can be. There’s nothing immoral about turning down a man for sex. It is immoral to turn down a man just because he is bisexual but claim to be inclusive while also getting angry at men when they do the same thing to fat, ugly, and trans women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 06:36 PM
5

Interesting how women paint themselves as the morally superior gender yet are just as bigoted as men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 02:39 PM
2

As someone that eats pretty healthy for the most part I’ve realized that a lot of women get intimidated by it. It’s almost as if since they’re out of shape I’m supposed to be the exact same way despite them being disgusted by fat men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 08:59 PM
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I’m talking about traditional relationships where the husband is the sole earner and the woman is a housewife/SAHM
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 01:57 AM
2

I for one could care less if women abandoned marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 01:45 AM
2

Tradcons want a submissive woman with homemaking skills. A woman that says “me” in response to that question obviously has none of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 02:39 PM
2

Those women are just mad that they can’t get the sugar daddies. They only have a problem with age gaps when they aren’t exponentially gaining more than the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 01:49 AM
0

I’m not religious and most women couldn’t give a damn about religion enough to make it their identity
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 05:01 PM
4

No but the hypocrisy surrounding it is crazy. I hear a lot of women complain about how the job market sucks, billionaires, and taxing the rich yet expect men their age to have money. They also seem to be adamantly against relationships with age gaps unless the man makes top 1% money or is sugaring. You mentioned that a woman making good money should want a man that makes at lesst the same. High earning women can want what they want but are they attractive to those high earning men? Usually they …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 05:27 PM
1

Breaking news: married mothers are more likely to care for their kids
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 08:33 PM
2

What about a femboy husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 02:22 PM
1

He should do his research, that’ll make giving oral sex much easier and increase the chances of him satisfying her. As far as penetration, practicing on a fleshlight can be good to get a rough idea of the feeling. Doing kegels and staying in shape help too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 01:30 AM
1

Telling them not to harass isn’t feminizing them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 01:17 AM
1

Yes, as long as women find those things unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 01:15 AM
2

When did I say that feminizing men had anything to do with the acceptance sexually harassing women? It’s definitely wrong but to classify it is a masculine or feminine trait is ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 01:14 AM
1

Women hold sex over most men’s heads constantly while simultaneously being bad or average at it then get shocked when men are selfish in bed. On the flip side, guys that do have sex on a regular basis have no reason to care about getting a women off if he can just fuck someone else next time he’s horny. The only time he needs to get her off is if he wants to get with her again and most women aren’t worth a second go. I do think there’s a solution for women though: practicing sex. I know it sound…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 03:17 PM
0

They do exist but they’re rare, even more than high value men. The difference is that men have no problem with average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 03:04 PM
2

Decent isn’t getting you shit in terms of sex if you’re average or ugly. At most it will increase the attractiveness of the women you can betabux for.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 04:49 PM
2

I think a stigma about male masturbation is going to be broken. It’s gonna be harder for women to call it disgusting if the guys doing it are attractive. You’ll see more guys with premium porn subscriptions( not onlyfans) and fleshlights.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 12:54 PM
1

This sounds very similar to the “nice guy” rhetoric that men are berated for. Maybe we aren’t that different after all
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 12:50 PM
3

Because most women aren’t consistent with it, especially in a relationship. She’ll doll her self up during the dating stage but once committed all that stops. She’ll only wear it when going out with friends or seeing family. It can be disheartening for a man to basically be told he isn’t worth enough for her to look her best. One possible rebuttal to this is that men don’t put effort into their appearance, which can be true at times. However, most women wouldn’t want men to put the level of effo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 01:22 AM
2

I’ll be the one to give her her annual male induced orgasm
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 12:46 AM
1

Women got validation before the internet, not just at the rate they do now. Pre internet her validation only was coming from men she met in person. I never mentioned women wanting constant male validation, I just said they can get it if they want to. I know social media and tinder have been bad for women, women need to admit that and stop lying. Didn’t make any assumptions about why they get in relationships. I think women’s support from friends really isn’t beneficial to them but the actual pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 08:10 PM
3

“Honestly why should a woman want to settled down with a low value man” When did not being too 10% equate to low value? You just helped prove my point. “I’m talking bad personality, unattractive to her, incompatible lifestyle, not making good choices in his life...” Women shouldn’t but that wasn’t what I was discussing. “What makes these men just as good as Chads intrinsically” Nothing because they’re not. The women Im talking about aren’t as good as Stacys. “It makes no sense to commit or have …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 02:29 AM
1

I’m not obligated to protect anyone and the only women I would protect are my mother, a gf or wife, and any daughters I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 05:59 PM
1

Bold of you to assume most women express their want for you to change with words
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 03:15 AM
1

Get a toupee and lifts
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 05:06 PM
4

No, all they gotta do is just work on their personality
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 04:51 PM
2

And this is why I’ll be getting a toupee if that shit ever happens to me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 11:36 PM
2

Men like money and women. Therapy is going to cost them money and not get them any closer to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 11:34 PM
1

Been seeing a lot of feminist bait lately
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 12:57 AM
23

Disregarding or excusing shitty behavior that you’re actually against just to get some pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 06:13 PM
3

The chance at regular sex and the privilege of not dying alone
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 09:54 PM
3

It depends on the situation. If it’s just a relationship then you’re probably better off just breaking up instead of waiting for sex to resume. In a marriage I think it’s only justified if the person had already expressed their frustration with the lack of sex on multiple occasions. If after that they still don’t care and are withholding sex then go ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 08:20 PM
1

Yes but it would create a whole other set of issues that women would face and to be honest I’m scared to see how they would react.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 08:08 PM
1

It depends on which friend(s) and whether it’s an LTR or not. If I agree to do something with a childhood/long time friend but at the last moment a booty call hits me up I’m not canceling on my friend. However if I’m in an LTR and my gf needs help with something then I’m definitely choosing her. This dynamic is well understood within my group of friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 08:05 PM
4

If men left when they were unhappy most relationships wouldn’t last more than a month. Male libido is the only thing keeping women’s self esteem from plummeting
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 08:01 PM
0

Straight women want male attention it’s just that they find most men disgusting. They wear revealing clothing in hopes that an attractive man will approach. Attention from average and ugly guys is expected, no matter what she’s wearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 07:54 PM
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There’s no problem with a woman wanting financial stability in a man. The problem arises when that standard is thrown out the window just because the guy is hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 07:49 PM
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I’m fine with it because it’s fun. Over the last decade men have been demonized for any and everything tied to masculinity. If a few women want to be sugar moms or providers for men it’s not going to hurt anyone. I think most men really don’t have much of a problem with women spending money on them. That in its self isn’t emasculating. What’s emasculating is when she’s a total bitch while doing it and throws it in your face afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 02:38 PM
1

No but it definitely isn’t detracting from value like being fat would
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 11:53 PM
6

If you look fat in all black clothes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 11:51 PM
1

It’s fine just be honest with it. Most women either lie about it or are complete assholes and expect it. Also don’t be a hypocrite, saying you want a financially stable man then hooking up with poor guys just because their hot isn’t a great look.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 11:49 PM
2

This wouldn’t solve anything because in your scenario being a womanizer would be the new average, and we all know women are repulsed by average. All it would do is lead to more sexual assault since these average to ugly guys would be considered creeps. The problem with the sexual marketplace is that their isn’t a minimum level of attractiveness that is acceptable anymore. Today it is a percentage, women want a man that is in the top 20-30% of guys. They feel like they are settling for anything l…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 08:33 PM
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As long as he’s respectful about it I don’t see the problem. Women have always wanted men with money and for a while it wasn’t a problem. Men only started to push back when women stopped appreciating it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 01:56 AM
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It won’t but at least we have flesh lights, 4K porn, and a buffet of addictions available to help cope with the fact that you are unfuckable
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 12:03 AM
2

Men get shamed and called misogynistic for that. Getting in a relationship for sex is “ObJeCtIfYiNg WoMeN” These women don’t want relationships with these men either. Most guys don’t make close to enough money to make up for their looks. The only other thing a woman can gain from them is validation and why get it from him if she can get it from a man that’s actually attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 11:51 PM
0

It’s because women find sex with most men to be a chore so the least he could do is get her off
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 11:18 PM
1

Maybe we can sacrifice good ole nance for some healthcare
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 01:17 AM
1

Happiness isn’t a need or right
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 01:15 AM
1

This is the exact reason why I think the pedo issue is only going to get worse. Over the next decade I think the number of predators aged 18-24 is going to grow greatly. They missed out in high school and spent much of those 4 years obsessing over it. This obsession turns to anger and eventually resentment at the situation. The only way for them to feel like a respectable man is to quite literally do what they didn’t as a teen. This thought process has likely been around for decades but with the…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 01:02 AM
0

Reliable dick, ability to humble brag to friends/family, economic relief, and someone to listen to their problems. Then if they have kids that’s an excuse to quit her job if she hates it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 12:39 AM
1

It’s somewhat common due to the fact that most women are merely tolerating their man and/or looking to monkey branch.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 12:31 AM
1

Yes but women would have to actually do it, which they have shown no interest in since they entered the work force
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 12:07 AM
2

Yes but someone has to and it won’t be them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 08:47 PM
2

Show me the factories that make houses or fix plumbing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 08:44 PM
2

Women can do any job, it’s that not enough of them want to do certain ones. These include carpentry,plumbing, electrical work, construction, and truck driving.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 08:43 PM
4

Unless he’s getting fucked in the ass or wants his balls sucked it is unnecessary
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 08:07 PM
4

Besides every manual labor job that keeps the world running
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 08:05 PM
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CMV: Aside from sex, men don’t need women for anything. They’d be fine without them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 05:50 PM
3

Only if he’s average looking because an average guy can at least get his foot in the door. Women are chain locking the door if they sense an ugly guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 05:35 PM
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Society needs men to do all of the dangerous jobs. Women don’t want to work in construction, carpentry, electrical work and other trades. Without jobs like that being done the world would stop in a matter of days. The pandemic already showed how little service jobs matter when things get real. Men would be able to replace many of the female dominated jobs, I’m not sure women would be able to do the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 08:58 PM
2

Men checking out of society will hurt women way more. Women need men to survive, some men need women to be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 08:21 PM
3

They can’t get commitment out of the ones they deem fuckable
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 11:30 PM
1

Men have been expendable since women started working and the government stepped in as a safety net.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 01:55 PM
1

The act of sex is important but validation is even more important. It just so happens that the only validation most men get in a relationship is by sex. Women can’t relate to this because once in a relationship most men have no problem telling her how good she looks or at least do so somewhat regularly. A growing number of women have the mindset that the men they date should feel lucky to be dating them. They never compliment them on anything and try to downplay anything they do that doesn’t ben…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 08:29 PM
0

Idk but getting an escort is likely a better deal
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 08:18 PM
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Because she’s not going to spend much on him or bills. He’s likely paying rent/mortgage, utilities, internet,food, and all of the insurance if they’re on the same plan. She’ll pay her car note, insurance if necessary, and phone bill. All the rest goes to clothes, makeup, stuff for the kids, and useless shit. This is fine if she actually likes her job but many women don’t and resent the fact that their husband is too poor for her to be a upper middle class SAHM. On the flip side if he can afford …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 08:17 PM
2

You think that anything you don’t agree with or hasn’t been proven as scientific law is a strawman. “AND most men have sex” Is this on a regular basis or just once? No one believes most men are virgins but it’s clear many aren’t having sex on a regular basis. “That proves looks aren’t that important to women” No it doesn’t, women definitely care about looks, especially for casual sex. “16% of men having a difficult time with women” If 1/6 of men are unfuckable based on height, it gets pretty eas…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 02:56 PM
1

Depends on what type of success. If you’re talking about influencers and Instagram models then I’d agree. This is also the case for women that are able to attract and keep a high value man solely based on looks. However, most women aren’t hot enough to do so. Success in any field that requires a degree is not based off of sexual attractiveness. They’ve worked hard for their success, they may not be happy but they did work hard. I don’t know how many women truly enjoy or want to be the leaders of…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/21 06:20 PM
2

It is true for both but women are way less likely to lower their standards and more likely to end up bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 08:01 PM
1

Women view “good guys” in the same way they did the sociable autistic kids in school, repulsive but entertaining
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 05:03 PM
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This only applies to women that are attractive. A woman that’s a 7 with bad personality is going to get relationships with guys that are 7s but if she has a great personality it will open the door to 8s and 9s. A land whale 3 can’t do anything personality wise to increase the potential she has when getting a man for a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 04:59 PM
2

One could also make the case that this fantasy is the reason why so many women end up lonely in their thirties. Life is great for the women that get chosen and it usually happens in their twenties. However, the women that don’t get picked never admit that they aren’t being picked, instead they just deny the existence of high value men and downplay the value of the women getting picked. They become extremely bitter at the people above them and are disgusted by the people on their level.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 04:54 PM
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Looks and have a flirtatious personality, but not too flirtatious. Get a buzz/high before you head out and you won’t be able to feel the shame associated with sub 5s and land whales.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 12:03 AM
3

She’s filled her need for validation and her male friends now have no value to her
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 11:59 PM
1

Most women won’t even look in the direction of the guys that have low n counts
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 11:57 PM
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The women that don’t respect “good” men aren’t going to outright say it. They’d be burning bridges with their emergency meal tickets. Men have low opinions of simps, it just so happens that many “good” men are either straight up simps or just betabuxing. Men are going to be more vocal on it because they have nothing to lose by speaking negatively about them and they are to blame for the imbalance in the sexual marketplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 11:55 PM
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First off being a beta is fucking embarrassing. The 80/20 basically is that 20% of men can have casual sex with the top 80% of women without exerting a high level of effort. This wouldn’t be a problem if the other 80% of men could have causal sex with their looksmatch while putting in a moderate amount of effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 02:14 AM
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Yes and in order for said environs to exist the number of unattractive people must be at a minimum, enough to make the average people look better but not too many for you to really realize them. When around women I tend to only have a good time with attractive or above average ones. It gets tiring talking to ugly women, acting like I really care about what they’re saying. An ugly guy at the hottest party in the city isn’t gonna get any pussy he isn’t playing for. Chads gonna be able to walk out …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 02:09 AM
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I think it’s just a giant cope by fat women. The “science” behind it is flawed at best. Anyone in their right mind knows that carrying extra weight can leave you more susceptible to illness and disease. The large women involved don’t just want respect they want all the privileges that attractive women get. I do agree with you that thin and attractive women play a role in it. However I don’t think thin women do it out of competition. They know they are more attractive than fat women and that has …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 01:56 AM
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No men just are more accepting of women that in all honesty should be average or below average. In reality, a majority of fat women should be below average(3-4). However, so many women are fat that that’s become the norm. Average looking skinny women are now at least a 6. Women don’t rate this way, their scale doesn’t budge unless height or money is involved. Fat men are bottom tier no matter how many of them exist and average guys are average. This would be fine if average and bottom tier women…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 01:11 PM
1

Every movie trope and cliche
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 01:03 PM
1

It is easy but it’s hard for a man to make enough money where the woman can quit her job and live the same quality of life. Most women that don’t have careers would have no problem giving up their 40k a year if they were marrying a man that made six figures but most men don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 01:30 AM
-1

Yeah because now she has to bitch and complain about almost nonexistent issues
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 01:28 AM
1

It’s radical but nobody really cares because they’ll never physically act on what they say. Most of them will probably never get married so that’s good. They’re batshit crazy but ultimately harmless, similar to their male counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 07:41 PM
1

Derrick Jaxn getting the support of so many women while doing the exact opposite of what he says is pretty based.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 07:38 PM
2

They don’t care because the men they’re fucking haven’t been virgins since they were 14
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 10:47 PM
2

If you honesty believe the majority of men only care about sex then that says a lot about you. “To men, nothing else in life matters other than sex” You just described incels who don’t come close to making up the majority of men. “ONLY SIMPS WANT TO BE BETA BUCKS!” Yes they are the only ones that are truly happy to do it. “ The other funny thing is the complaint of how society are against all men and paint men as monsters” According to feminism all men are sexist pigs that probably rape women. “…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 03:07 PM
1

This is true because most women that play hardball with sex aren’t hot enough for most men to consider her worth the wait
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 03:21 AM
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No, women don’t want to fight in wars and do the hard labor that keeps the world running. Being the dominant ones sounds great until a war breaks out and your expected to fight. They’d have to say goodbye to their service jobs and say hello to the physically taxing jobs like carpentry, construction, and the various trades.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 07:25 PM
2

I think it’s a last gasp hope to keep society somewhat afloat. Single mothers are bad but the only thing worse than is a bunch of depressed, suicidal single moms. It looks like most men are now destined to be alone until their late 20s/early 30s. Society doesn’t need men, who perform most of the hard labor, checking out of society. This isn’t good or bad for society because it doesn’t have any real effect on it, humans are social and desire companionship. There’s a reason why betabuxes exist. No…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 04:12 PM
1

High value has no moral bounding, you could be a saint or the second coming of the devil. Most women don’t even want “high value” men, they want rich men that are willing to spend on her and put her on a pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 10:20 PM
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You’re right but the fat acceptance crowd is so hypocritical it’s crazy. They shame women that eat healthy and are slim but would trade places with them in a second. They call men that workout and are dedicated to it “fatphobic” despite lusting over them constantly. I wonder what their thought process is like. They date a guy that works out and is healthy but complain when he doesn’t want to eat like shit every day. Them not finding fat men attractive validates everything they already know but f…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 04:10 PM
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At this point I don’t even care
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 12:17 AM
1

It only applies to men because they are the ones that have to compete. The closest thing to it would be women that put a lot into their appearance vs women that don’t but even then genetics can still rule supreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 06:33 PM
0

Over weight, emotionally unstable, financially illiterate/irresponsible, single mom that was never married, unpleasant to be around. This is in regards to relationships. For sex there is no such thing as a low value woman as they all are at the very least fuckable, it just depends on how much effort is necessary to get them in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 06:29 PM
0

Most platonic friendships serve no benefit to men. Friendships with other men only have legitimate value if they’ve known each other for a while, ideally since youth. Most men know the value of non sexual relationships, the thing is they just aren’t that valuable for men. What does a man gain from socializing with a woman? Nothing, the same case can be made for friendships with men but at least there is a level of relatability between men. Men understand what other men deal with, women will eith…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/21 06:02 PM
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0, I could care less about another mans gf/wife. Unlike most women and some men I don’t date to prove a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 12:23 AM
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“And?” They aren’t getting the same amount of new fans as they were in their teen years. “And then they got better and gained even adult fans” That’s my point, their boyish looks are not the reason why they had sustained success. “Women have never said tall and big dick are masculine” You are denying something that is commonly accepted among both men and women. They may not draw a hard baseline but you best believe they find tall men with big dicks masculine. “ Again, not really seeing where the…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 02:52 AM
2

I wear a condom that fits.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 01:45 AM
2

“Their main audience is teen boys and young men” You underestimate how many teen girls and young women like rap and find rappers. Some even go as far as to fetishize the lifestyle. “When they got older, they also had YOUNG ADULT FANS.” Those are the same people that supported them when they were teen heartthrobs. They all made at worst decent music and were attractive so it’s not that crazy that they still had slightly older fans. “How are we defining masculinity?” Women have defined it from a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 01:44 AM
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I’ve never met a girl or woman that sympathized with men’s dating struggles so i could care less what they deal with in dating besides rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 01:24 AM
1

You’re not wrong. I would say more but talking about the reasoning behind it is too draining right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 03:54 PM
9

Chads have just as many flaws as the guys that “complain” about them, he just looks better so that’s why he gets chosen. Women won’t admit this and will just tell guys to work on their personality in attempt to mold them into perfect backup plans if she is single when the wall hits. Personality doesn’t matter as much as people say it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 05:16 PM
2

The reality of being sexless for what is almost certain to be months sets in for men after a few days. Women get upset right after because the effects of what they get out of the relationship end as soon as it ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 06:10 PM
4

I recently left high school so I’ve gotten to see firsthand how the current state of dating has affected a generation that fully grew up in it. The first thing I’ll say is most guys lost their virginities at the normal age(16-17). However there was a portion that lost it around 14 or 15. I’d say that makes up about 10% of them. The majority of girls aren’t sluts and lose their virginities at about 15, they go to high school and it’s like fresh steak in a lion’s den. Them not being sluts is less …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 02:53 PM
2

No it’s just that most people don’t know what it truly is to live within their means and they don’t wanna sacrifice for their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 03:12 AM
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I was referring to the sexual marketplace. To answer your question they should try to stabilize themselves as much as they can and have kids after getting married. If they don’t want to do that then yes they should be childless, same goes for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 11:31 PM
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If all she can attract is unstable men then she is likely unstable. Two unstable people having a kid is bad, purposely being a single mother is just dumb. It’s not more rational to do it alone because most single moms aren’t doing it alone, Uncle Sam comes by every month for a visit. Not to mention the kid is the one that gets screwed over. They have to grow up without a dad, likely in poverty, because their low value mom just had to have kids. Women will never hold each other accountable for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 10:44 PM
1

That’s what most men want they just can’t get them, at least with women of the same attraction level as in a relationship. The reason why a majority guys don’t get upset right after a breakup is because they already checked out mentally. Traditional relationships provide no benefit to men besides sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 04:36 PM
1

It doesn’t have anything to do with sugaring. Men are falling behind because men and boys are starting to check out of society. Going to college guarantees you nothing but a ton of debt. Your still gonna have a hard time finding a job and might be struggling to make ends meet in to your 30s. Men are viewed as the villains in society, have no money, and are sexually frustrated. They have no reason to do anything with their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 03:40 AM
1

Yes but they have to put in a ton effort just to get 5 minutes of starfish sex with a sub 4 overweight chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 09:57 PM
2

It was probably in the kids best interest that they got expelled.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 02:36 AM
2

I used fat, ugly, and nerdy girls to practice pick ups and such early in high school. This is when I had little confidence or understanding of where I stood in the marketplace. Eventually I moved up the ladder by learning what works and looksmaxing(having a full beard at 15 helped)to a point where I can have sex with 5s and 6s on a somewhat “regular” level. TRP just changed my views on girls and women, it didn’t really help with getting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 02:35 AM
1

Until they make that known to the feminists that pushed for this I could care less. It’s already starting even in the overwhelmingly democratic black community with the rise of “level up” YouTubers, but that’s a whole other issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 08:01 PM
1

Yes in a relationship, it depends on her attractiveness during casual sex. If she’s attractive I’ll try my best just to better my chances at future sex. Even then that’s not my sole focus. If she’s ugly I could honestly care less since I’m probably only having sex with her since I’m extremely horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 11:46 PM
3

There’s no sure proof way since most guys are average looking. Any advice/teaching is just a guide on how to make up for your lack of looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 11:40 PM
4

Almost no guy is small enough to make PIV an issue. If people just got comfortable with using vibrators during sex this wouldn’t be an issue. Women would rather complain about how guys can’t make them cum instead of coming up with a solution. Not to mention many already have them so it’s just as simple as pulling it out the nightstand. If guys hate it it will just motivate them to do better in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 11:35 PM
2

A male slut will boast about it and some guys will lie about being one. A female slut will almost never admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 09:31 PM
0

It’s doesn’t really matter for men as they will still have to be the masculine ones in society no matter what. It will stay that way unless we do an entire 180 as a society. For women it is already starting to screw them over. They still want traditionally masculine men but will never say it. Over the last few years feminism has pushed for men to be more feminine yet the majority of women don’t want that, they want men to be feminine because they think it will make things easier for them. They w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 06:01 PM
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Part of it is that there is no reason to do better or excel. There used to be a time where making a decent living for yourself meant that you were basically guaranteed at least a somewhat active dating life and a wife. Today most of the country is broke or close to it and women feel they don’t need men. A big mistake society made was shaming men for wanting sex instead of using it to guide men into doing productive things. Men would do better if there was a reason but there is none. Why go to co…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 03:32 AM
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Women are crueler to men they believe should be virgins. A virgin guy that’s a 6 is going to get treated way better than a 3 who brought a hooker on his 18th birthday. God forbid the guy had sex he didn’t pay for, it can seriously fuck with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 02:45 AM
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Guys do it after rejection(s) women do it after a prolonged period of loneliness. Both of these scenarios lead a person to reflect and come to realizations about where they really stand. The difference is this happens to most guys at least once before they graduate high school and most women don’t experience it until they hit the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 02:42 AM
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In a traditional marriage with kids yes, without kids no. If there are kids then the benefits are obvious, the wife stays at home with the kids, cooks, cleans, keeps the house in order, and runs the errands. Without kids the guy still has to be the provider but with minimal benefits. Cooking isn’t hard when your doing it in a nice kitchen with a well stocked fridge that you didn’t pay for. Cleaning for two adults that aren’t total slobs isn’t that tough, throw two kids and a dog in and it’s a di…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 02:36 AM
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If you can’t live together you shouldn’t be married.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 10:58 PM
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It is a vending machine, just with a lot of different things in the machine as the relationship and/or marriage grows. A woman showing love is not always just having sex. It can be her making him a cup of coffee if she wakes up first, picking him up some razors if she sees he’s almost out, or bringing him a beer if she sees he’s stressed. The problem is as relationships progress these types of things become the expectation and the moment they aren’t met it’s a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 04:04 AM
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I think both understand each other’s experiences somewhat equally, the thing is neither one really cares. Women have no reason to care that most men can’t get laid. It does nothing for them and it doesn’t apply to the men they find attractive. Men don’t care that women may struggle to get their dream relationship because the average guy can’t get casual sex. However, men do have to be more receptive and sympathetic towards it or at least act that way. If they don’t they run the risk of a lecture…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 03:36 AM
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This would make sense if most women knew what they wanted and didn’t always think they could do even better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 12:18 AM
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Personally, I have no problem sleeping with and casually dating them if they aren’t ugly. Most are definitely low value or insecure. If they weren’t they would have no reason to behave the way they do. Often times they are either fat, ugly, or a single mother. These are all negatives and they are trying to make up for it. This line of thinking is actually great and better than the women that feel a man has to accept them as they are. Why they fail is the fact how they make up for it is just horr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 12:14 AM
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Yes but it has nothing to do with genetics. Most people are not exceptional looking, they’re like a blank canvas. Everyone knows stress can make you look worse and finances can cause a ton of it. The girl going to school with daddy’s money is going to be way less stressed than the girl working two jobs to put her self through school. An average guy driving a Mercedes is going to look better than an average guy driving a 96 civic. However, I do think it is becoming harder to distinguish between t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 09:47 PM
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They do and it’s pointless. Weak-willed doesn’t mean low value and strong-willed doesn’t mean high value. A lot of abusers and broke men are strong-willed. Most high value men don’t have the time and/or don’t care enough to jump through hoops and pass her shit tests. I swear these are the type of women that go on and on about wanting high value men but can’t identify them and surely can’t keep one. Playing hard to get can be great for the ego and we all know that validation is more addictive tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 09:43 PM
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Men have to have more confident because if there not chances are he screwed from the start when it comes to dating. Again, most men don’t feel they are owed sex everyday or at all really, they just want to be as successful as their female looksmatch. You say 46% isn’t a lot but imagine if 46% of childless women couldn’t get a man to marry them. They would be going on and on about how it’s unfair and men are pussies for not wanting commitment. Women complain day after day about how men don’t supp…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 05:19 AM
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"Then why are men here whining that "ONLY 46% of young men get regular sex?!" ? And why do they also say "Yeah, men get sex, but not exactly with the women they want"?" 46% is a lot when compared to young women. Almost any young women can get semi regular sex with guys they find attractive. If it was 50% for young women nobody would be "whining" about it as a men's issue. "You're not the one to dictate the value. Women are. Just like men dictate the sexual/dating value of women" Women are allowe…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 03:40 PM
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Everything can be spun as entitlement. “Chad won’t take me out on a date” and “Joe won’t take care of my bastard kids” are entitled statements yet society won’t tell women that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 04:25 AM
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Why is it so hard for women to just date in their league?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 09:45 PM
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Most men don’t expect to bag women out of their league on a consistent basis. They just want to be successful with women of similar value and attraction. “70% of young men have had sex” This doesn’t prove anything, are these men having to date down to do so? Majority are. 20% of young men need a hooker to have sex. That’s a pretty big percent when you really think about it. “ Seems very greedy and spoiled to be upset that a harem of hotties won’t fuck you for free” Most aren’t. Their upset at th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 09:40 PM
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Yes but most of the time the juice isn’t worth the squeeze
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 05:19 AM
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Both men and women hit a wall, men hit two while women hit one. I like to think of it like climbing a hill. Men start at the bottom and have to work their way up (high school, college, long hours at work) until they reach the top. They have to take in the view(date, casual sex, marriage) before they get pushed back down. When they get pushed they are likely to know how to regain control because they know the hill. Women start at the top(high school, college, early twenties) and live it up, like …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 11:42 PM
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Maybe in middle school, but by sophomore year he’s either worked out the kinks and is slaying or he’s on his way to having a massive phedora collection.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 11:26 PM
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What percent of that 70% can consistently have sex? I’d say no more than 25%. There’s a huge difference between getting a whore at 18 out of desperation and having a normal sex life from 16 on. I’d say almost all of the 80% of girls can have sex regularly if they want. Most young guys over 18 aren’t virgins but most sure as hell aren’t getting it on the regular from their looks match.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 03:19 PM
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At least in America, I think dating and marriage are hard because a growing percentage of people are broke or just making ends meet. Women make average money so hypergamy tells them to date up, the issue is that a shrinking number of men make above average money( I believe only 10% make six figures). The average men don’t have the money to date even average women and don’t have the looks to get casual sex consistently. It’s obvious marriages are better when the couple has money. If the man makes…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 04:34 PM
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It’s kind of a paradox, if a women in the group dates down it brings down the group. If she dates up then the other women will feel intimidated and sabotage it, especially if the friends are of similar attractiveness. They want their friends to be attractive and do well in dating just not better than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 11:25 PM
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“What is it saying?” That you screwed up your best chance at a partner. “*You’re” I can feel the anger behind each grammar check “This is exactly the type of man I am trying to vet out” So you want an average looking, average earning man to put up with your vetting, pay for your meal, and get no sex for months? No wonder you are still single. “ I would never agree to be in a loveless marriage” The betabux loves you though, that’s the sad part.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 02:09 AM
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An even simpler solution is just to not pay for average chicks, only attractive ones. Average guys don’t get laid just off looks so keep the same sentiment going.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 02:01 AM
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“ I just think it’s fun... it’s not effort at all” It is, men could care less what you have on as long as you still fuck him. You going the extra mile is definitely noted and appreciated. Your an FDS member on PPD bitching about how dates aren’t fun. The problem isn’t men, the problem is the sexual marketplace is trying to run as normal as possible and you can’t accept what it is saying. Your post wall and upset at the fact men aren’t lining up to wine and dine you. Why would a man of means wine…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 01:55 AM
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“ Just plan the date?” Men used to do this but women deemed this not acceptable and starting making them go through weeks of intense vetting before the date. “He doesn’t have to go through the chore” In other news men don’t need to have sex. He has to if he wants sex or a relationship. “I don’t want to date someone who thinks texting me is a chore” Texting before you meet in person is a chore no matter who it is sometimes it’s just more pleasant like dusting vs getting shit stains off of the und…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 01:27 AM
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If I have to convince someone to date me the relationship that could ensue is going to be a mess. You say meeting and dating men is a chore yet it seems you still date and meet them, at least up until recently. You know what’s a chore for guys? Texting women in the hopes that eventually a date could be planned. During this time women are vetting the guy while he is just trying to get his foot in the door. If a date ensues he gets an hour or two to vet . This is while he pays for everything and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 01:06 AM
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A high value man is going to want a woman that doesn’t negatively impact him socially or financially. He’s unlikely to marry the slut from corporate with a drug problem and poor money management skills. The well kept receptionist that is responsible is a way better option to him. She’ll respect him and his job more, she’ll be more likely to be ok with being a housewife/SAHM, and she has way less baggage. To a high value man a woman’s job is low on the list of things he’s checking for and it can’…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 04:55 PM
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Men aren’t desperate for marriage and a family, they want to be desired. Despite what women will say their validation comes from men primarily. They compete with each other constantly for it, and if there all in relationships they just compare partners(height, dick size, $$$, etc). Ever realize how the majority of women that “don’t look good for men” still get men? I’ve never seen an ugly chick say it. Men wouldn’t benefit much more from this overall. The top 20% would get more pussy while getti…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 01:02 AM
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Average looking, decent shape, good hygiene, gives head and doesn’t cry rape when she regrets it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 01:07 AM
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Right now there like the first hd TVs, expensive and for most unnecessary. However give it about 15 years and they’ll be just as accessible as high end fleshlights. Not to mention if they become easily customizable, like gaming PCs then things should really take off. Men will still want real women but some will be way less thirsty when going about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 08:42 PM
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Depends on the situation. Men like woman more than woman like men in most situations where sex is a reasonable possibility. For example, when a guy strikes up a convo with a women, he’s gonna like her more even if they both are fond of each other. He has more to gain(pussy) than she does(a good chance the sex is bad). However in a friendship the woman is going to like the man more. She can get him to do all the shit her female friends, brothers, and dad won’t do. He can do all the grunt work and…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 08:35 PM
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If that were the case fleshlights would have pre recorded words of affirmation
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 04:52 AM
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Even if those numbers are accurate the real question is are those young men having sex with women on an equal or higher level of attraction? A majority aren’t and if they are it probably isn’t on a consistent basis. An attractive man can jump between pumping and dumping 5-7s and then get in a relationship with an 8+ with ease. Meanwhile average guys might get to pump and dump 2-4s and then hope they can beta bucks for a post wall average women. Most guys can get some sort of sex but anyone sub 6…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 04:50 AM
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Your assuming we get laid based off irl conversations, most of it starts through text or social media then we muster up enough charisma to close the deal in person
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 11:27 PM
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Gender relations are fucked, whether it is interracial or same race. Most topics are already relatable to other races. For example, as a black guy many of the issues men of other races face are essentially the same for us. Any truly interesting race thread would either force POC to admit their races flaws or for other races to run the risk of being labeled a racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 01:43 PM
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