hespera18 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
606	Scraps are for Pigeons	FDS HUMOR	hespera18	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/12/20 08:51 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	Scraps are for Pigeons Chelsea Hart (ChelseaHartIsMe) on TikTok	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/12/20 05:18 AM
24	If a man tells you that you can do better - BELIEVE HIM. Oof. I remember my ex sobbing that he wasn't good enough for me every time he'd physically hurt me. He was using that to gain sympathy, for sure, but I'm also convinced that he meant it, and the hatred he felt for himself got projected onto me for deigning to love such a miserable creature.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/12/20 02:23 AM
10	Why "loneliness" and "depression" excuses for men make me angry - a rant You're so sweet. You are welcome! And here is a link to the EPUB version of the book, or the PDF. It really is a gem.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/11/20 11:08 PM
32	Why "loneliness" and "depression" excuses for men make me angry - a rant The book "Why Does He Do That" explains this very well. It's a book about abuse written by a male therapist, and he has an entire chapter about why mental health issues are a bullshit excuse for men's violent, dominating behavior. It's all about ENTITLEMENT, period. They've been raised since birth with the message that they are never to blame (boys will be boys, at any freaking age) and that any "inconvenience" (a woman not liking them back, not getting the job they want, etc) is a tragedy that …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/11/20 11:00 PM
2	Saw this floating around on Twitter and thought we could do an FDS version. Please share your examples of non-compliments from LVM This this this. The audacity of someone doing something terrible and then making it all about them. I had an ex who I had to comfort after he put hands around my neck. Whenever I called him out he cried, says he was terrible, threatened to harm himself, and I fell for it. But never, ever again.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/11/20 02:29 AM
49	Meeting my needs is an obligation? Okay, bye! Yeah, my ex always claimed to "value communication and boundaries" but it was either one-sided or just language used in his gaslighting. He would either accuse me of being selfish and "taking up all the oxygen in the room" or he would conveniently just forget that I told him something and then tell me I was scatterbrained liar if I brought it up. And of course, he always neglected to tell me important things and then swear up and down that he did. Oh, and also claim "boundaries" to ignore my nee…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/11/20 07:36 PM
24	Somebody’s son is doing this Ugh my ex legit did this 🙄	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/11/20 03:40 AM
23	Could your lack of sexual interest in your man actually be the result of hidden contempt? At the end of my abusive relationship, I was researching and taking supplements like horny goat weed to try to get my libido back. I thought there was something wrong with me because I didn't want to have sex with a man who was exploiting and gaslighting me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/11/20 03:09 AM