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| – | If dating feels like a competition, your standards are too high.I live in a large HCOL city. Dating is nothing but a numbers game where people are trying to do better. If this is not the case you do not live around people with ambition. Period. This is not a bad thing, I’ve found a wonderful girlfriend but I wouldn’t date someone who wasn’t educated highly attractive etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 08:08 AM |
| – | Women don't reserve casual sex for top % men because those are the only ones we're attracted to.Dog, either you are a femcel or a dude. Cuz I know tons of women who like casual sex. The fact that you bring up spreadsheets and men talking about sex with other men (we don’t) is a red flag. Something off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 08:03 AM |
| – | Overall. Getting women as a man is entirely too much work.I can tell you from experience that all women are different lol. I’ve had models find me hot (I look like Keith from the try guys) and then I’ve had like completely mid average ass girls just basically laugh in my face. Dating is a numbers game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 07:40 AM |
| – | Men are angry about the current dating dynamics because they don't want to feel cucked.Yep. Most men just need to move to a fucking city ffs. Im a nerdy guy and I live in nyc and had sex with multiple MULTIPLE women who have been models at some point. As long as you’re not so socially inept you cans date and hookup with the most beautiful women in the world in big cities. Dating is a numbers game. All these incels wonder why they can’t get a gf or a hot gf in bumbelfuck nowhere | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 02:26 AM |
| – | Millenial/GenX advice on dating can be completely disregarded by the new generationGen Z I was still able to see red pill reign true And he wonders why hes never even breathed on a woman. Someday you people will wake up and realize this weirdo ass "red pilled" men get girls yes, because they are rich. And you know who doesn't? --Most of you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Beauty is subjective, but unattractive men should know their placeHere in NYC there is a 2:1 women to men ratio.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Women mostly get “the ick” over perceived shortcomings of masculinitylikely autistic This is exactly whats happening. Like I would love to see a poll, half the people on here have the most insane world views. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 02:17 PM |
| -2 | Beauty is subjective, but unattractive men should know their placelol that girl on the left is fucking obese dog. Im a nerdy guy whose 5'9" and I have no issues getting laid. All your issues are that you prob live in like bumblefuck nowhere. Move to a LARGE city (NY,chicago, LA) and as long as you arent completely autistic and unaware (90% of men on this sub are fucked) you will be swimming in pretty women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 01:43 PM |
| – | If women aren't sexually motivated like men are, what motivates sex drive in women who enjoy sex with multiple different people? If not those people being endowed with certain bodily blessings?I would love to have a poll on this sub purely based on understanding how many of you are autistic. It would shed so much light on this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 04:57 PM |
| 3 | The average woman is completely delusional about men's income and what they "qualify" for.median 45-48k. Literal poverty wages where I live, I cant find a single studio apt for less than 2K. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 04:54 PM |
| 1 | The average woman is completely delusional about men's income and what they "qualify" for.He’s not bringing home the random teacher either. The hatred dawg,you know many teachers in blue states get paid teh same / more than others right? I make over 6 figs working in a public school outside of NYC, im 30. I make the same / more than most of my friends (outside of tech). My is in a director level position at Comcast, makes more than me, but after a certain amount of money it doesnt really matter anymore. I have insane benefits, pension, summer off, crazy childcare, I get either a long… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Why does it seem that blue collar and “average Joe” men have an easier time with female romantic partnership than money making STEM or forum guys?Why would grad school educated women date someone who didnt go to college? I wouldnt want that, I mean i wouldnt be against it, but its just certainly not something im trying for, I havent even matched with a single human on a dating app that didnt go to at least undergrad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 04:16 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Dating gets harder for men as they get older, not easiernumber 2 doesnt apply in NYC or big cities. Im 30 and dating women 30+ and its only gotten easier, its awesome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 12:02 PM |
| – | Ladies what is your opinion of husbands, boyfriends, brothers, dads, friends or any of the guys in your life worried about you visiting a male gynecologist?as a man I’ve always been suspicious of male gynos and their intentions. Absolutely humiliating and embarrasing insecure take dog, delete this. This is one of the most ignorant takes ive ever seen. Clearly you dont personally know doctors, most are awesome. And being a gyno isn't dedicated to "women's private areas"--which judging by that phrase alone infantilizing womens genitalia, shows me you lack maturity to think this through. I have no issues with my gf seeing a male doc. What a wild weird… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Why does it seem that blue collar and “average Joe” men have an easier time with female romantic partnership than money making STEM or forum guys?Yup. 50%-60% of my matches are ivy league women in NYC, past 2 girlfriends ivy league, current gf NYU and works in a director level position at NBC. I could fuck a ton of women that blue collar men get (im a total nerd). But standard is so low compared to women I could pull. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 11:48 AM |
| 3 | Why does it seem that blue collar and “average Joe” men have an easier time with female romantic partnership than money making STEM or forum guys?um because they go for lower tier women? I live in NYC, i pretty much match with Ivy league educated women 50-60% of the time. They arent dating plumbers, no offense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Since we live in artificial times why don't we implement artificial solutions? Make a dating app which allows women 50 swipes per day while men are only allowed 1 swipe per day.I HAVE to believe that most of these people here live in rural middle of nowhere places. I live in NYC, its like an adult playground. My friends and I are all over at bars, club, events etc. The perspective of people on here is so fucked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Since we live in artificial times why don't we implement artificial solutions? Make a dating app which allows women 50 swipes per day while men are only allowed 1 swipe per day.the postal service The american postal service, despite it being bad sometimes is one of if not the strongest social programs in the world. Its an incredible achievement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Alpha Women and Boss BabesLOL my gf and I both make over 6 figures, she makes more than me, is a director at a large media company. She by all means is a "boss babe" and would absolutely laugh if you called her that. Its funny as fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 03:32 PM |
| 1 | N Count Weekly Discussion ThreadI am a skinny nerdy man, I make 6 figs as a teacher in NYC (which is about average to SLIGHTLY above average). I have banged like 50 girls. Its not about anything besides numbers. Its a numbers game completely. If you live in a place with hot women in numbers youre gonna have sex, a lot of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Everyone man should make a dating profile as a moderately attractive Woman and see how you feel. You can see how desperate some men seem..But thats incredible hard, again, a long paragraph when youre getting a ton of messages might be seen as desperate. Its a tricky balance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Everyone man should make a dating profile as a moderately attractive Woman and see how you feel. You can see how desperate some men seem..Ghosting is part of dating, esp in NYC, we go on an absurd amount of first dates here, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 12:09 PM |
| 1 | I've had 40 Hinge dates. I firmly believe a woman's initial interest in a man has a window of time to it.Lol would die in NYC, 1 night stands are an average part of dating, its almost IMPOSSIBLE to not go through 4-5 women, multiple dates and hookups before settling, granted most people dont settle down til 30 or later too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 12:42 AM |
| 9 | Is “I want a smart man” the socially acceptable way of simply saying “I want a rich man”?And what’s wrong with this? I literally see no issues. I went to an Ivy. Why the fuck would I date someone with no educational attainment. Let alone anyone who went to college. College shapes and changes you, it exposes you to new ideas and thoughts and pushes you. Contrary to popular belief with the incels on here, men like ambitious driven and successful women. Not baby vessels | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 04:56 AM |
| 9 | Is “I want a smart man” the socially acceptable way of simply saying “I want a rich man”?Still no. I went to an Ivy League school. Contrary to popular beliefs here a lot of men don’t want to date an idiot. My girlfriend is an associate director at the UN. I love ambitious strong women. Not some girl who is gonna just sit at home whining about having. Babies. I also live in NYC no one even considers settling. Down til like 30. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 04:53 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The female expectation of looking physically attractive is way, WAY more easier than the male expectation of being a provider.Eh I guess? I know a ton of high earning men, all with women who are also high earners. Its weird when everyone else you know are high earners and your wife is just...there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 10:51 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Pretty women don’t even understand the value of money or how much things costThen stop dating mouth breathing r*tards? Like the fuck, im highly educated, I rarely date anyone without a masters degree, in fact most people I know are grad schol graduates from ivy's or great schools. No idea why fellow men wanna date stupid women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 03:04 AM |
| 3 | Could it be that women just do not like men that much?Im a nerdy ass looking nerd who makes 6 figs, lives in NYC and has a few college degrees. Its hard for me to date still, but Ive had a fuck ton of sex, with pretty women. I can assure you women love sex, intimacy and men. What are you doing to better yourself? I only date educated women, people who went to college dont want non-college educated people. I run every other day, I want a women in shape, as do most women who are in shape. Like men on here act so crazy. "Learned helplessness"-- If you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Does status indicate sexual success?If you're a computer programmer, better be the best or else, no women. Not based in reality. Just dont be weird, unclean and have like basic sense of how to talk to a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Does status indicate sexual success?I make over 100K, have 3 college degrees, Look like a fucking nerd. Live in NYC tho, have fucked around 50 women. Have also had serious relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 03:07 AM |
| 1 | A lot of men simply can get laid and meet women if you move out of your rural / remote areas.Not at all. I was just in a 3.5 year relationship that was extremely rewarding. People in NYC just don’t start settling down until 30-35. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 11:06 AM |
| 1 | A lot of men simply can get laid and meet women if you move out of your rural / remote areas.He also acts like I don’t have. A choice. Like I’m willingly not settling. Just dated someone for 3.5 years through a pandemic that didn’t work. Not like I’m trying to date and failing lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 11:05 AM |
| 1 | A lot of men simply can get laid and meet women if you move out of your rural / remote areas.Lol they don’t care at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 11:04 AM |
| 1 | A lot of men simply can get laid and meet women if you move out of your rural / remote areas.Yeah but that’s the thing. I was just in a 3.5 year relationship. I have absolutely no interest in kids at all. I’ll find someone eventually. Like I said, no one I. NYC really considers settling down til 30-35. Everyone super career driven. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 11:03 AM |
| 2 | A lot of men simply can get laid and meet women if you move out of your rural / remote areas.This. It’s easy but it’s also insanely hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 11:02 AM |
| 3 | A lot of men simply can get laid and meet women if you move out of your rural / remote areas.For some i used a Fanny faceless kink profile where I literally was like basically I wanna fuck. An it works incredibly well. Other times with a regular profile I just put I’m looking for casual stuff and it works well. And I talk to some women sometimes still. If I want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 11:01 AM |
| 1 | A lot of men simply can get laid and meet women if you move out of your rural / remote areas.You can’t be THAT bad esp if you don’t look like a dork lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 10:59 AM |
| 13 | CMV: In today's age, men are expected to take on both the feminine AND the masculine roles in a relationship, while women are only expected to take on the feminine roles.Lol the people with these attitudes are so far from the normal man it’s not even funny. OP has probably never talked to a woman irl. Or he buys into some Andrew Tate Bs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 07:08 AM |
| 1 | "Why don't men just ask for sex instead of following redpill loser advice!?!?"have sex with their target audience just by asking nicely Because no ones asks for sex you incel. You need to listen and learn how to talk to women. Some of you are helpless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 04:47 PM |
| 1 | "Why don't men just ask for sex instead of following redpill loser advice!?!?"Go up to a girl and tell her upfront you just want sex - Bad Because 99% of you autists on this sub would literally be like "Want 2 fuk bb"? Of course they are going to say know. Furthermore all of you listen to Andrew Tate and think women actually like what he tells you to do, which further decreases your chances. Try being fucking nice, upkeeping your appearance and learning how to hold a conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 04:10 PM |
| 1 | You just need to get in shape, bro. Then the girls will come flocking to you!uhh yeah the problem is those mcglovin ass glasses, the fuck. dude in the black def fucks. But if you dont have the self awareness to get rid of the ugly ass tiny wire glasses idk what to tell you. Get bigger wireframe ones in style, warby parker or just get lasik. These men look fucking disgusting. I have glasses, am not overly inshape just slim and have a gf and have fucked a lot of girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Men love women more than women could ever love men.I lvoe seeing these posts as someone who actually fucks and is in a relationship and has actually talked to a woman before. This dude has never ever had any luck with women, you cant write this and have had any success, its LARPING. Heres literally the opposite, with studies: https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2020/mar/30/the-men-who-give-up-on-their-spouses-when-they-have-cancer OP if you feel this way, take a shower, stop wearing jean shorts / cargo pants, get a haircut, do skincare, get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 03:54 PM |
| 1 | I am a "nerd" that has fucked like 60 women. I dont ever workout, I am slim, glasses and smart. How do I do this? Hint: Its my fucking location. I live in NYC.Maybe some idk why that’s such a massive turnoff for you. Odd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 03:23 AM |
| 1 | I am a "nerd" that has fucked like 60 women. I dont ever workout, I am slim, glasses and smart. How do I do this? Hint: Its my fucking location. I live in NYC.100% dating Apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 12:36 AM |
| 1 | I am a "nerd" that has fucked like 60 women. I dont ever workout, I am slim, glasses and smart. How do I do this? Hint: Its my fucking location. I live in NYC.Ppl on here are desperate for pussy. So | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 12:35 AM |
| 1 | I am a "nerd" that has fucked like 60 women. I dont ever workout, I am slim, glasses and smart. How do I do this? Hint: Its my fucking location. I live in NYC.5% ugly. Rest were moderate to very hot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 12:35 AM |
| 1 | I am a "nerd" that has fucked like 60 women. I dont ever workout, I am slim, glasses and smart. How do I do this? Hint: Its my fucking location. I live in NYC.Dating apps 100% of the time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 12:31 AM |
| 1 | I am a "nerd" that has fucked like 60 women. I dont ever workout, I am slim, glasses and smart. How do I do this? Hint: Its my fucking location. I live in NYC.Yuuuup. People have no clue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 11:19 PM |
| 1 | I am a "nerd" that has fucked like 60 women. I dont ever workout, I am slim, glasses and smart. How do I do this? Hint: Its my fucking location. I live in NYC.Bahaha hi there ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 11:18 PM |
| 1 | I am a "nerd" that has fucked like 60 women. I dont ever workout, I am slim, glasses and smart. How do I do this? Hint: Its my fucking location. I live in NYC.Bare minimum of being a damn human lol. It’s really not hard at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 10:52 PM |
| 1 | I am a "nerd" that has fucked like 60 women. I dont ever workout, I am slim, glasses and smart. How do I do this? Hint: Its my fucking location. I live in NYC.5’9” which may as well be like 4’ in NYC. And I currently make 100K. I never discussed income with hookups, and had roommates. Although I’ve been hooking up when I was making 50K | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 10:48 PM |
| 1 | For the record, I have given therapy a try and for a lot longer than most people.The US has better healthcare for high value / rich people. I have better healthcare than you by far. NIH blows. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 10:44 PM |
| 1 | For the record, I have given therapy a try and for a lot longer than most people.Word class museums and dining. Finance capital. Jobs, you just are lying to yourself or are ignorant lol. Amazing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 10:39 PM |
| 1 | For the record, I have given therapy a try and for a lot longer than most people.NYC is a world class city and has more in common with London than the rest of the US | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 10:32 PM |
| 1 | It’s over and it’s all women’s faultI cannot believe you have ever had sex before lol. Or that you have ever spoken to a women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 10:30 PM |
| 1 | [AMA] My wife is my sex slave ask me anything, I'll pass long non-autistic questions to her too but no promises.Conservative by in large is extremely racist these days, but doesnt need to be like the above poster insinuates.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 10:23 PM |
| 1 | It’s over and it’s all women’s faultthat is categorically untrue. I cannot explain this to you unless you actual talk to women or fuck them. They dont want a pinky, I also dont have a tiny microdick. I bet if you have 4" you could do fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 10:21 PM |
| 1 | For the record, I have given therapy a try and for a lot longer than most people.It DOES work well, the people on here are just disgusting incels that have no basis in reality. Do you know how 99% of people on this sub could literally have sex? Move to NYC. Millions of people. I am "nerdy" non buff male, cant grow a beard and I have fucked like 60 girls have been in 3 relationships, have been wuith my latest gf for 3 years. All you need to do is like be fucking not incredibly autistic. Also tip for "nerdy" men, girls arent impressed by your nerdy like talk, or trying to act … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 10:16 PM |
| 1 | It’s over and it’s all women’s faultbig dick Average dick, only men who have sex know this tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 10:12 PM |
| 1 | For the record, I have given therapy a try and for a lot longer than most people.Im a man in therapy and it works great. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Any other "Nerdy" men find you either have women be super into you or just immediately without a chance not into you?I just dont understand why I seem to be on such a either 0 or 100 scale. I will have like extremely hot girls into me, or some women just like absolutely not or even like not taking me seriously / openly being mocking. Its super weird haha. Im guessing all guys get this, but it just feels weird bc I always thing its because I look too slim / nerdy. Which is only a fraction of my life / personality etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Any other "Nerdy" men find you either have women be super into you or just immediately without a chance not into you?Only matters for like 50% of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 07:28 PM |
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