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no we don't, we just think it's attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 05:21 AM
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they take 2 minute showers and don't wash anything besides their hair. which is why they smell. imagine a 25-year-old infested with bacteria that's been collecting on him since infancy. this describes a very large number of men. i don't shower every day and i smell great. my brother, like soooo many guys I've met, showers every day, often more than once, and still has BO he "just can't get rid of" so he masks it with sprays and colognes. men don't clean or maintain themselves. there is no desire…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:56 AM
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yes they are. all over the internet women are complaining about how scrubby men are and how little effort they make. don't pretend there is some desirability gap when women on average very strongly want partners but men just bother to display basic adulting skills to attract anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:04 AM
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no, they really don't. so many men outright stink. from what i can tell, large portions of men never wash themselves ever in their lives. their teeth are also neglected and their breath smells like they eat turds. it's so common for a man to be unpleasant to just stand in the vicinity of. i was going to hook up with a guy a few weeks ago first the first time in my life, and he literally had dirty plates in his bedroom so i had to leave. not wanting to slum it isn't having high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:08 AM
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i think men cause the desire gap by having so little interest in making themselves desirable. as a woman i spend so much time making myself look and appear like a good and attractive partner. and then most guys out there do absolutely nothing to make themselves look good. they walk up to me in trashy clothes and unbrushed hair and shoot their shot and its almost offensive. the truth is nearly all women strongly desire a male partner and we're not that picky either. we are just looking for a good…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:18 AM
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it's about looks... i'd date Henry Cavill in a heartbeat, because he is gorgeous. but i've never seen a 35+ year old man outside hollywood who looks anywhere near that good, and probably Henry Cavill himself doesn't even look that good in real life without all the professionals making him over and costuming him. and even if his looks were real i would still have in mind that he is in the late stages of his beauty and its all rapid downhill from from here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 07:40 AM
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alright then, sabotage yourself for all i care.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 01:31 AM
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so go after some of those girls then. if they are open to dating some of them will say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 01:11 AM
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no you aren't, which is why you're not going after those women in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:55 AM
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sure, for quickie they won't acknowledge afterwards, but almost no women are looking for that, especially the less desirable ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:45 AM
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if men aren't going for them i don't see how chasing men is going to help them. men will continue to still not go for them and will now mock them for being either desperate or slutty. they need to improve their desirability not make it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:20 AM
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you want to adapt in a way that will hurt you even more. you can see women are not chasing MGTOWs just because they've "stopped participating in the system".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:09 AM
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yeah thats why i said there are women who will do otherwise. and yes not participating in the dating process does not make you weak with low confidence, but since you are outwardly displaying characteristics of that AND not participating in the most important stage of the mating process that's entire evolved biological purpose is to make women attracted to you, then how can you expect women to ever be attracted to you? except for, as i already stated, a small minority, and most of those women ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:00 AM
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you would get even less dates if you tried that. women want to be romanced and impressed. its bred into the females of nearly every sentient species on the planet including humans. primally, in our very genetics, we just cannot be attracted to you if we would have to be the chasers, because the whole first stage of our instinctive mating process that is evolved to drum up our attraction to a male did not happen. so if want to be chased you need to settle yourself into the idea that very few wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 10:55 PM
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yes, i could look at a million naked 25-year-old athletic fit men in row and i would think they are really good looking but would not make me lusty. for me, lusty is a mood, not a reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 11:52 PM
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i don't understand how women supposedly have "unrealistic expectations." we want a guy with a job, who can take care of his side of the chores, has a good personality, and looks clean and healthy. this is basic adulting. if a man can't manage to simply be a normal adult, it's like we're engaging in emotional pedophilia. or like dating a mentally disabled person.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 10:01 PM
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i don't like porn and i don't like onlyfans. i don't tell my boyfriend he can't watch porn but if he did it too much it would totally turn me off him, i just can't respect a guy that spends a lot of time in base physical self-indulgence instead of having self control and channeling his extra energies into being great. especially when i do give him a good sex life already. it's like.... watching an obese man addicted to fried food stuff his face all day with a giant bowl of cheese puffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 11:35 PM
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men are loved for they are. what you want is for men is to be married and had sex with for who they are and the answer to that is noooooooo. just because i love a person does not mean i should commit my life and body to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:39 PM
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it's crazy, they're an entire movement of men who talk about enforcing sex rules on women while having the balls to say they're not getting dates cuz women only chase assholes. buddy you ARE the assholes, you are living proof women avoid assholes like the plague
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:03 PM
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i don't know i'm not a soothsayer but my boyfriend is a huge "red piller" and he managed to use it to get a girlfriend and maybe it's because he actually meant it and went out and did the improvements instead of just lazily pretending he did on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:01 PM
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ideas, sure. rules around sex? do you guys even hear how nasty and threatening you sound to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:31 PM
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i am not feminist and dont agree with blue pillers about many things. i think its definitely true that men have a harder time in dating but that's because men desire women more than vice versa and that's biological and not going to change so there is nothing more unattractive than seeing you guys whine about it. which only works against you even further because it makes you look desperate and like you arent desirable enough to be able to have standards. if there is one good thing red pill advoca…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:20 PM
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that checks out with my life, my own boyfriend is divorced and he's 11 years older than me. but guess what, he's still just healthy 33, not an old man with defective splooge
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 10:37 AM
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sure in the basic sense that the ugly one doesn't stand a chance anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:52 AM
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no they don't, if they are young and keep themselves healthy, nearly all guys look just fine...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:44 AM
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no? you're the one who seems to believe that good looking guys are deceitful and ugly ones aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:42 AM
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yeah and thats a whole other side of it too. no woman wants to have a child by a man who is too old to have the energy for child raising and just leaves it all to her. unless he has a lot of money to pay for a nanny....
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:29 AM
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i think men can be technically fertile their entire life. that doesn't mean i don't literally shudder at the idea of a sperm touching me that's from a man older than 45 lol. its just a deep, innate physical revulsion that probably is my basic female instincts telling me to stay far away from possibly defective genes and to only be attracted to and mate with healthy men with the most viable sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 05:48 AM
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all rags to riches, self-made men who earned their money through sheer hard work and grit too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 03:19 AM
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oh sure, as if ugly guys aren't also redpillers too, or whatever your official name is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 01:32 AM
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^ this is the exact same way it is for me. warmth and happiness and coziness just from being in his presence, that increases with proximity and touching. cant see anybody else cuz your attention is just on that one person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:45 PM
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yup men get all those benefits temporarily when they are stringing somebody along, and then they will lose it because they hate women and dont want to commit This makes it sound like you were with him because he was successful and now that you think he'll lose his money or whatever, you feel "duped." nope i was with him because i thought he was my future marriage partner and since he apparently is not then i will look for somebody else who isnt an immature asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:24 PM
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of course you didnt realize. i never said anything remotely close to the "pump and dump" stuff you people believe and i actually described him as somebody who apparently from his reddit postings is just stringing me forever with no intention to propose because he thinks "marriage is bad for men" but just like i also already said, you guys are so obsessed with your crazy red pill ideology that you have to twist everything you hear in order to make it fit into your bs that women are all ho's who p…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 08:20 PM
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it is true that its more attractive if a guy is better than me at something, and i am better at something then it puts me off a bit. its not true that i feel the need to compete with other women, i feel absolutely zero sense of competition with other women. if another woman liked someone i like and it felt like he has to choose, i would immediately no longer like him, cuz i don't want someone who doesn't 100% have eyes for me alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 03:28 AM
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i don't, i literally just said finding him attractive is a piece that needs to be met, and yes by the nature of how "having eyes" works, that IS the very first piece of info i get
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:01 AM
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...wanting to be attracted to your life partner is really not that deep, sir
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 11:01 PM
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what are you even talking about, my boyfriend shows every sign to me that he is committed, he treats me great and talks about our future all the time. its only because i saw his internet presence that i know his true thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 11:00 PM
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women don't get anything at all from an LTR, it just detracts from our life and wastes our time when we could be with a much better guy. and men don't get anything either, which is why you are all here complaining women aren't interested in the crap you're offering, cuz none of us want it. even a guy that was temporarily successful is still just going to lose it all and have to go through a ton of trouble to dupe somebody else again, if he even can.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 10:54 PM
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no i did not go after an asshole, a guy who did not seem like an asshole made me like him, and even after being together for a whole year the only reason i know he is actually an asshole underneath is because i saw his reddit account and then searched it up later
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:20 PM
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ikr most men don't even want custody of their existing kids
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 07:40 PM
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being good looking is just one of piece of things. like i already said i dont get interested in a guy just because he is good looking. he also needs the right personality and plans toward me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 07:30 PM
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of course i did. how am i supposed to tell the difference between someone sincere and someone only faking sincere? check behind their back for crossed fingers?!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 07:25 PM
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so you admit you offer absolutely nothing to a woman but still think she should be in a relationship with you and give you everything she offers to you anyway...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 07:23 PM
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that's probably the best choice as a man. to be honest it sounds even more dangerous to be a man in that situation. men have it really bad in lawless societies.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:06 AM
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yeah yeah you sound like my boyfriend but on a false account. men get a lot of benefit from marriage. love, companionship, better health, longer life, house care, child care, all kinds of things. what benefits do women get AT ALL from a "long term relationship" that goes nowhere??
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:21 AM
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i do, thats literally why i am here, so i can learn about you red pill manosphere men who act fake as your strategy when really you actually hate us behind our backs and never plan to propose because "marriage is one-sided against men" and then i won't fall into your trap again
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:58 AM
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really, so do you want to quit your job to be our babysitter? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 12:24 AM
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no lol. i feel like my words are being deliberately twisted up because its against the manosphere ideology that women are just basic ho's who pant after bad boys. no i don't want to be with a guy i don't think is good looking, but i also definitely don't want to have actual sex with a person only because he is good looking. only in a relationship with a future which i thought he is also serious about
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 12:17 AM
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no it's the other way around. the desire came because of how caring and attentive he was to me which made me think he is The One.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:44 PM
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i don't think it makes a difference, nobody ever told me men are cruel and to be feared, in fact in my culture background men are more respected just because they are men. still even as just a 4 year old playing on the street i felt a danger if a man came and spoke to me. nobody needs to tell us to fear, we are born with the knowledge that we need to be cautious of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:21 PM
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it doesnt matter, the men here say women "go after" assholes and that's simply not true. and i fully agree that women should listen to their male family about their partners but that doesnt mean "restricting female sexuality".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 10:31 PM
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except he isn't a player, i was the only person he was playing, so..
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 10:20 PM
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yes i intentionally admitted that to prove my point, i didn't go after an asshole, i got duped into it and had no idea he is just stringing me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 10:11 PM
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telling on myself how?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 10:01 PM
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guys who are just dicks get girls because they are so willing to lie and do/say what they need to to string girls along. I know this because its the exact trap i fell into and am trying to get out of.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:56 PM
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yeah we already know that the bottom tiers of society are promiscuous and doing it like rabbits. they are not very relevant, the problem is everybody normal, above the trashy levels, is experiencing a blockage in partnering up, and getting a knife and joining a gang isn't going to solve that for most men, who don't want that life or those women.....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:41 PM
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i mean, in that situation, he wouldn't be fighting other men to protect me, he would be fighting them to prevent losing access to me to another man. this just happens to align with my goals to vulnerable to any man who spots me alone for a few minutes cuz he knows i can't stop him myself. its not particularly woman-friendly lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:46 PM
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thanks but i don't view myself as a favour to be done to men so i would never do this, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:01 PM
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in all honesty.... not me. in that actual situation, if it was real not a thought exercise, i would feel extremely threatened by so many uncontrolled men i cannot escape from and yes i would try to find a stronger man who would keep me safe in exchange for being available to him. saying "I'm not having sex to avoid pregnancy risk" just means i will get raped and still made pregnant anyway by men who don't agree to at least protect me. so i can understand how patriarchy happened because without c…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:57 PM
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easy a man who doesn't want to date a promiscuous girl is a positive quality, and a man who sleeps with prostitutes is a negative quality more than a negative quality tbh, it physically revolts me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:54 PM
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still young (22) low sexual background (only one partner before, who i thought i was going to marry, but now i am start to understand its never going to happen) feminine personality, dress feminine (some men like this, some men don't) conservative eastern culture background that is very family-centered and respectful (some men like this, some men don't) my education background is still medium (some college so far) i expect and am most comfortable doing the historical women's roles (cooking, cari…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:32 AM
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when we say we want a confident leader we mean a leader of other MEN. we want the man other men look up to and respect, not the simps. this is the man who provides protection and resources for our family. we don't want a man who is the leader of WOMEN, that literally means nothing to us. oh wow you can "lead" someone you are 2-3 times as strong as, whoop de doo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:52 AM
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yes you put it much better than i did. additional weight looks so much worse on men because it's the opposite of how they evolved to be, whereas women evolved to conserve fat so we have more leeway. plus with men, you have faster metabolism and so much more muscle that makes it much harder to put on weight, so when I see an equivalently obese man vs women, i think much less of the man, because it took 3x more effort for him to get that fat than it did for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:30 AM
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yes but men are biologically much thirstier and willing to aim low, plus weight looks way worse on men. women are built to be fattier so it's less visually offensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 12:37 AM
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as a woman that's true, but it's because most men are overweight and/or unhygienic if a man is healthy and hygienic then 90% of them are good looking enough that their appearance isn't a barrier
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:28 PM
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