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Honestly as a man. This is true and I don’t think people acknowledge this enough. The Halo effect is extreme on both ends
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 06:21 PM
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I think a lot of women tend to change their perspective of their son is struggling. It’s like the equivalent to the “couldn’t empathize till I had a daughter” thing some men say. I’m not saying either is right but in reality most teens don’t listen and most parents will tip toe around the more objective advice. My mom told me I gave her perspective. I’ve had many odds against me but eventually I started pulling it together now I’m beginning to date at 22 but tbh I learned it all through reality.…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 08:10 PM
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I agree. I will say personally I had a women who I wasn’t even dating know me for a year and she always was tryna get me to talk about myself and my story. She felt I was hiding something. I’m a pretty emotionally intelligent person in my humble opinion and I’ve been in therapy a lot during my life and group sessions. I decided this was someone I could trust not to react badly so summed up my background in 5 mins lightly touching on my ocd and important moments in my life. I wasn’t emotional or …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 07:06 PM
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I just grew a beard can’t afford that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 08:11 PM
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I’m 5’4 and was 300 pounds at 19. Now I’m over 120 lbs down and working out… seeing people from my past is always weird because they act like I’m some inspiration or hero to them. I’ve noticed I went from never having any signs of attraction to being able to pick up signals and my friends have noticed as well. Still not easy and ive got the if you were taller talks but regardless even with my new body image issues I don’t want to ever go back to being that big. I was in denial but people saw my …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:19 PM
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I know this . My mom is a black women…I’m black. But I was taught to go through the same process that my mom did to ensure I have healthy hair and keep it presentable. With that being said I still don’t compare to the amount of effort she has to put in to look "presentable” for her job because she’s a manager. I was just saying black men Typically are more focused on style and hygiene then maybe others because of other factors. We have to put in effort
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:00 PM
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Lmao exactly as well
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:45 PM
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Wtf. Black people always have to keep our hair on point to avoid ridicule. I’m just now understanding most people on this sub are viewing through the lenses of white people (no disrespect). We have to pay a lot depending on our style of hair and if not we get roasted by men and women. The expectation to be the model minority from my POV has been present my whole life. So when I see comments like this it confuses me. And honestly often times it’ll only make you look good if u look good. I’m not r…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 02:45 PM
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I’m legitimately 5’4 and was obese(now slightly over weight) and do well in college and social circles. I think what helps me is that I’m an artist/musician and can go into conversations easily. With that being said I’ve had a fair amount of struggles in the past and tryna recover from past events but at this moment since I’ve been in the gym it’s helped and I’m talking to two women rn(I know sooo impressive) but for me I had nothing I’m high school. I don’t think it’s game over for short guys. …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:35 PM
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I’m not talking about guys like us. I’m taking about the guys who don’t understand social cues or how to navigate it. Usually these men have some type of disorder. That’s why I said they need a therapist/mentor to help them integrate
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:13 PM
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The men I’m talking about are the ones that need to have a therapist( I’d say a female one) in an environment where they can be explained the nuances of human interactions. The guys that are autistic or have some type of social handicap need to either be around women when young or in a safe area. Now remember most of us went to school as a child I assume so unless you went to an all boys school you are around women majority of this time. If you don’t have at least one female acquaintance or frie…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 04:07 PM
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Idk why people always suggest having female friends to people who suck with women. It’s really a not well thought out platitude. Because like most likely if you don’t know how to interact with women it’s because of several issues that trace back to childhood. Women can smell men who aren’t socially calibrated and will avoid them platonic or not. In reality if they don’t have any friends in shit in the first place it’s cause of deep rooted shit. And also no one is just gonna be your friend like t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 03:20 PM
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I understand and I agree completely. That’s the thing about the internet it only amplified how much we judge and assume about people. Shit I’m a 5’4 guy and I’ve had people make assumptions about me(I know cause they tell me after) and be shocked that I don’t fit their idealized version of myself. Everyone expects someone to stay in place and not break the rules I guess. After being in inpatient years ago and meeting all types of people and hearing their stories you start to realize humanity and…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 03:36 PM
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Yeah like some situations I kinda see it but the fucking president? Lmao. Hell even in real life I’ve met couples where I judged them or assumed roles to them and once I I got to know them I was wrong as hell. But yeah Obama don’t fit this criteria. If anything people should strive for a relationship like him and Michelle
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:58 PM
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Dude….he was the president how the fuck does that make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 02:34 PM
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I’m like 5’4 and though I have my issues , social sense I lost weight and grew a beard/ fixed my wardrobe I do well in social settings with girls. I’ve gotten numbers but this has taken time after being the obese awkward but nice kid in high school. I genuinely believe you have to find a way to fake it/ really analyze the situation if you are inexperienced. I’m still not near fit and of course some dickheads will mention my high but it’s very rare. I’ve always been a natural extrovert, I just no…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 11:15 PM
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I posted on menslib recently and I’m a minority. This is the one subreddit I think I feel understood and safe in regardless of politics (I am left leaning) but the responses focused more on the issues it’s self rather than the politics.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/21 01:25 PM
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I’m enfp. It shocked me how accurate this is. Male 21. I’ve taken a lot of personality test and this one felt like I was reflecting on my whole life after I read the analysis
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 05:00 PM
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I understand because I was bullied for years and has to learn how to talk back. Eventually I got fed up and stood up for myself, been carrying that outlook with me everywhere since. You won’t wake up and automatically be a god of talking to people. It’s gradual baby steps and putting yourself out of your own box. Some people have shortcoming(disabilities) that prevent them having a chance but just because your short? Nah. You have to be a truly ugly person like deformed for you to have a very sm…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 10:47 PM
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This is true. I was 5’4 and morbidly obese but my personality saved me from being an outcast loner. Started losing weight and now I’m starting to have dating prospects. You won’t win on just looks. You have to prove yourself unfortunately but if you pass the test you have a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 12:50 AM
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This (male 5’4) is actually a great answer it’s what I’m in the process of doing. I lost weight and worked out and I’ve gained a lot of. Confidence. I’m also a musician in a band and have always been a social butterfly. Being obese I got nothing but I always had a lot of friends. Once I started losing the weight and growing a beard things got better. Still in my journey and so far I’ve only noticed I’ve gotten more respect and looks from others. It’s not much more you can do but the things you l…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 12:47 AM
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One thing I have learned is that though many women have strict height preferences, it still doesn’t necessarily mean she can’t fall for you. I’m a 5’4 black male and I’ve always been a social charismatic person so I’m considered just a short “normie”. Once I started losing weight the ball started rolling for me so shit isn’t impossible if you’re short. You need to excel at something, I also don’t believe you will inevitably end up a “betabux” I know way to many peers who are around my height are…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 12:39 AM
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I’m a 5’4 male, I’ve always been pretty charismatic but I needed to lose the weight. In the past two years I lost that weight, grew a beard. I’m in college and I usually never have an issue talking to people and I’ve had girls give me their Snapchat’s/numbers etc. for me I was just obese as fuck and yeah being short eliminates you from some people but I’m convinced some of the men in this sub have zero charisma or social skills what’s so ever. I’m also a musician so I do well in the art crowd an…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 12:28 AM
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I should also add she’s told me her schedule literally the whole month and when she’s free due to her preparing for surgery. So it’s not a ordinary schedule miscommunication. I kinda have to be patient
/r/seduction28/10/20 11:49 PM
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I forgot to add that lol. I’m 5’6 black guy. Kinda like a bear type body lol. Growing a beard rn. I dress with black mostly I have gold ear rings and gold chain almost daily. Think like a “rapper” (I’m a musician). Really it’s my voice
/r/seduction06/02/20 03:09 PM
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Damn... dude. You right.
/r/seduction22/08/19 03:21 AM
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Update she’s calling twice and asked if I wanted to get food tomorrow night
/r/seduction22/08/19 02:20 AM
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Also should I call her out on the BS or just ignore it?
/r/seduction22/08/19 01:59 AM
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This is the one comment that’s been different from the rest. And tbh you’re not wrong you’re right. Sometimes I’ve gone like months with out talking to this girl but then she comes back and I just go along. Part of me just didn’t know if she says these things because she’s afraid of getting closer and to push me away or if she legitimately doesn’t think highly of me. It’s caused some dilemmas in my head.
/r/seduction22/08/19 01:57 AM
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Update she’s in class rn with me but she looks angry as hell or sad and I don’t know if this is a good time
/r/seduction29/04/19 03:52 PM
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Aight if I pussy out tomorrow report my account
/r/seduction29/04/19 02:10 AM
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So would you say pulling her aside is not a option. If with friends
/r/seduction29/04/19 01:09 AM
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Thank you so much bro. I have anxiety and ocd so I tend to overthink this shit and hold out. I’ll update you class is at 11 am et
/r/seduction29/04/19 12:41 AM
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Question should do you think I should say I want to get to know you better then wait for a response or just ask for digits right after
/r/seduction29/04/19 12:19 AM
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Thank you man I had this situation last semester and I got her number but then she got a boyfriend I was too late. But yea I’ve had good vibes with this girl and I think “ I wanna get to know you better” is a good way of saying I’m interested
/r/seduction29/04/19 12:03 AM
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Do I add to that? I mean she said she has a man and I just pretty much said oh okay
/r/seduction06/12/18 03:50 AM
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I was gonna say that but I got nervous( I have anxiety) so I just replied “oh bet” like two hours later. Even if she’s lying why would I want to play those games? And if she’s telling the truth why would I want my girl giving her number to anyone? I figured saying oh bet would show I’m not too salty to not respond but also show I’m chill.
/r/seduction06/12/18 03:43 AM
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You’re right but fuck I’m so frustrated at myself rn. I was doing everything but now this bomb has been dropped. Maybe she does like me but she really is taken. It’s just I had a moments freshman year when I liked a girl with a man and I didn’t back off... ended badly
/r/seduction06/12/18 02:51 AM
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Idk man is there a less...aggressive response
/r/seduction06/12/18 02:46 AM
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No the fact that she gave me her number and has a boyfriend. Why would she lie?
/r/seduction06/12/18 02:40 AM
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Oh shit I didn’t think of that
/r/seduction06/12/18 02:38 AM
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Up date she responded with “hey” at 8:00 in the morning.
/r/seduction04/12/18 02:33 PM
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Up date she responded with “hey” at 8:00 in the morning.
/r/seduction04/12/18 02:32 PM
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Up date she responded with “hey” at 8:00 in the morning.
/r/seduction04/12/18 02:32 PM
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I wonder how things would be today if it was still like that? Dating was probably more to the point.
/r/seduction04/12/18 05:01 AM
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Thank you man I appreciate it. I’m just not a texter I do my work in person. My humor and way of speaking translate bad through text.
/r/seduction04/12/18 04:19 AM
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You’re right. Part of me is just nervous because she a 10 and in all honesty just a stunner. Other females talk about her body too. I’ve had a bad past with women and though I’ve been working on my confidence and game, that old inexperienced me comes out at times. I’m trying not to put her on a pedastal but damn idk what steps to take to be totally honest.
/r/seduction04/12/18 04:17 AM
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So ignore the study thing and go straight for the coffee.?
/r/seduction04/12/18 04:12 AM
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I understand completely she did tell me she had 2 exams tomorrow. But my first text was horrible nevertheless
/r/seduction04/12/18 04:09 AM
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Thank you I’m experienced with females but I just have bad luck. I have to improve myself
/r/seduction18/11/18 04:03 AM
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If I need to move on is hanging out really a good thing to do?
/r/seduction18/11/18 03:27 AM
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We’ve hung out before and I wanted to specify my intentions. Maybe I went about it wrong
/r/seduction18/11/18 02:28 AM
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