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for me it was less so my women friends matching me with someone they know but more so due to her just having more women friends around than i or my male friends would have around. most of my girlfriends were friends of my women friends, so when i would hang out with my friend and her friend group/s it just allowed more casual interactions between women than if i were to just hang out with my male friends/their friend group/s. which led to me getting to know these past girlfriends better before w…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 02:13 AM
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well when the average and below average women wear so much make up in an attempt to make themselves look like attractive women, you can't blame men for that.. lol and if you say they still are attracted to women even without the makeup.. then your argument falls flat as that shows they do go after average/below average women and not just attractive women like you claim.. lol like how can women be constantly complaining that men are trying to get with them no matter what they're doing or how they…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 02:24 AM
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this post feels like... projection... surprised it wasn't a lilith post lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 12:57 AM
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"you need to pay to have a chance with me"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 10:53 PM
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if they want me to be more accepting, they have to be accepting of reality.. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 05:38 PM
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i will say a big contention over dating debates/discussions (at least in this subreddit) is due to having everyone from drastically different ages/generations debating and commenting as if the dating market has always been static (especially for older people) like you can have a 42 year old single crazy cat lady who hasn't been with a guy in 20+ years telling a 19 year old male his experiences of/with women IRL is wrong and will act like women are no different than when she was 19.. this subredd…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 06:00 AM
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same thing when women say all their exes were "abusive".. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 10:07 PM
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and incels swear off dating, yet if they found themselves with the opportunity to get into a relationship they will take it, just like im sure most 4b women would too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 09:03 AM
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If men had similar levels of standards/expectations as women and treated women like women treat men, women would have much lower body counts and everything they do (the men mimicking women) would suddenly become abusive, controlling, rapey, creepy, patriarchal etc.. just cause its men doing it.. It's empowering when they do it, but not when the same things are done to them.. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 09:41 AM
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if the roles were flipped men would absolutely do the same thing, but women would then label all the things they claim as "empowerment" when they do it as bad and patriarchal when men do it.. (they already do this with so many things..) lol like in the hypothetical scenario where men can experience having a period, based on the way loads of women act during their period, men would be given the pass to be a PIA for 1-2 weeks and no one can complain as that would make you a terrible femcel misandr…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 04:11 PM
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good to know its perfectly acceptable to deny women when they talk about their lived experiences since they are just opinions.. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:53 PM
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well when we do "figure it out" and point it out, we're labeled man baby incel misogynistic walking red flags... women: "when will men learn..!" men learn women: "hey! not like that!"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 05:31 PM
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cause the same thing is expected of men in relationships by women..? most "demands" from men are the same things women "demand" from men, women just can't handle it when men say the same things cause in their mind men are terrible by default so anything men could ask for is "clearly only for nefarious purposes"... once a man and an women are in a relationship, according to women/you, men should just coast and ignore the wants/needs/demands of the women.. cause why should the guy change to please…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:07 AM
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people: "most of these circles are red" you: "there is a single blue one right there, so clearly you're wrong!"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 10:58 PM
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its actually fairly easy to tell 5'11" men apart from 6' men, cause the 5'11" guy will make his height a large part of his personality to "make up for" the lack of that single inch us 6'+ guys practically never bring it up unless prompted by others commenting/asking about our height and if we play/ed basketball lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:51 PM
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well it clearly did to the guy that girl was talking to.. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:44 PM
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you are assuming every women men are getting with are gold digging whores.. crazy you post in r/inceltears while commenting like a projecting incel.. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:04 AM
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man, the women here really don't want to lose out of their fraud privileges.. women lose their minds if you say you wont date/love them if they became a worm.. but will call men cry baby pussies if they get mad once they learn their girlfriend/wife cheated on them and got pregnant from some random druggie bum she met at a random party..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:18 AM
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"a few million women commit paternity fraud, so men shouldn't care"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:09 AM
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just stay away from abusive men and you wont get abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:06 AM
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who are you referring to when claiming women are being "shamed into getting plastic surgery"..? cause it certainly isn't men.. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 12:26 AM
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"all my problems in life are the fault of men and never myself" this sub really needs a "lacking accountability" flair lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 11:53 PM
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"foreign women don't love you.. so date the women here who also don't love you and will bleed you dry while blaming all their life's issues on you the man"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:11 PM
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they aren't scolded for not instantly identifying red flags, they are scolded when they learn of the red flags yet they still choose to stay.. often citing the tired excuse of "im scared he will abuse/rape me" (which goes against their constant claims of "women dont stick around in abusive relationships"..) and will instead blame men for their own decision to stay.. women love acting like they have literally 0 options available to them for leaving an abusive/red flag relationship.. yet if men po…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:17 PM
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a lot of men, like a lot of women, hold back what they really want cause they don't want to be seen as shallow for wanting something they themselves are unwilling to provide to the other person.. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 02:38 PM
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Even if the guy doesn't show red flags at the start, the moment he does and you dont leave, then thats on YOU and not on the abusive guy/any other man like loads of women seem to think is the case.. lol Anytime men point out red flags in women its labeled as misogynstic/incel behavior and results in women telling men to stfu and man up and that women dont owe you pussy..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:24 AM
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when men form negative opinions based on their experiences with women, they are considered abusive, misogynistic, incels, and rapists, cause women think men want nothing more than to rape women.. must say, if you have never seen this, then you should probably leave the echo chambers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:01 PM
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and women seem to constantly miss that red flag.. otherwise men wouldn't have to be constantly blamed for a women's terrible ability to read red flags and claim every failed relationship is due to the guy being abusive.. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:50 PM
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but when men do the same to women, were called abusive, rapist, incels.. women love spouting misandry while complaining about misogyny.. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:42 PM
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there are only 2 people tagged as red pill in that entire posts comment section... https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1uc6xnn/covenant_men_idea_to_solve_the_dating_crisis_not/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 01:10 PM
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but in my scenario she isn't saying she doesn't want/like it, he just casually asks and she denies it and when he asks why, he gets the "rapey" label.. cause god forbid the man ask why... yet flip the roles and women claim men not putting out for their girlfriends/wives when they want it but the man doesn't is akin to emotional abuse/controlling/insecure behavior and will then use that as "justification" to cheat and place all kinds of negative labels on the man cause she is offended and told no…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:10 PM
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classic zero accountability take, if women didn't continue to do things they don't like then women wouldn't have the large abundance of supposed "abuse" and "rape" stories from "retarded men"... women will view a husband wanting sex from his wife as him wanting to rape/abuse her.. then they sit there in their misandrist echo chambers and wonder why men don't take their claims serious.. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:18 AM
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according to everyone commenting here, no. you shouldn't be allowed to ignore them cause that would clearly show you are only ignoring him cause he isn't providing you with whatever it is YOU selfishly want from the man..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:32 AM
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and we learned it about for you from reading your misandrist posts here.. lol I do, that’s how I learned many of them are stupid. your misandrist posts in a nutshell.. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 08:03 PM
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the hay goes to you, men need to desperately search for the hay before its baled.. must suck when half the work is done for you... lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:28 PM
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cause that mindset is often forced on those people.. when people (men) are shamed for being virgins/incels (by women), you are pretty much telling them "hey, sex is the most important factor in how you will be judge and therefore, if you don't have sexual experiences you will be labeled a MAJOR red flag!" (by women) so you can't then sit there and act like a surprised pikachu when people (men) pair loneliness with not getting sex.. when sex is no longer the primary currency of humans, then peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 08:15 PM
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a lot of people are avoiding relationship because of social anxiety*
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 09:36 PM
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so thats a yes. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 09:22 PM
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so you would be patriarchal..?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 08:24 PM
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good to know we can judge all women based on the actions of the some 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:58 PM
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"But men don't need to do that. Just be a decent human being. " so its ok for you to generalize men..? this sub needs a "no accountability" flair for people like you.. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:54 PM
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misandry grows daily isn't the dig you think it is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 06:47 PM
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but those misandrists are whats fueling the majority of the flight to the right (with young men/boys at least) you cant by default label men the worst things possible, tell them they are all whats wrong with the world, that a lot of those young men are racist by default then turn around and demand they vote for democrats and if they don't, get those same labels+more.. and when men get validly angry about being falsely labeled, democrats/misandrists just go "you wouldn't get mad if it wasn't true…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:16 AM
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usual women take of "your lived experiences are false in the face of my opinions"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 07:16 PM
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women love acting like they have a monopoly on this and act as if men don't also need to deal with pyscho bitches too, yet are still expected to be the ones to put in all the work and not make the psycho feel uncomfortable in anyway or be labeled an abusive rapist.. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 12:43 PM
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thats an insane level of cope to claim in these modern times lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:46 AM
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when women hold other women accountable i will hold other men accountable.. therefore no one will ever be held accountable.. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:22 AM
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you act like only men want those sexy female characters.. lol women cant claim they dress for themselves and not for men, yet also claim the patriarchy forces them to dress nice for sexual purposes as "thats their only worth"... which is funny cause men often value women based on their lack of sexual experiences where as women shame men for the lack of their sexual experiences... yet men are touted as the only ones to judge people based on their sex/sexual pasts..
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:03 PM
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but when asked to block the supposed assaulter/rapists, women claim that's men trying to deny the supposed assault/rape lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:15 AM
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will she be noble and respectable towards allowing me/a man to actually become a father figure for her child? or will she forever deny his ability to actually be a father to the kid? and use carrot on a stick, black mailing efforts to control what he can or can't do in the relationship or with the kid/s..? single mothers often get "bottom of the barrel" treatment cause they place the men who are actually willing to help raise their kids into bottom of the barrel territory.. why would any self re…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:38 AM
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when men are shamed for a lack of sex by women (and society at large), it pretty much forces them through societal pressure to focus on women/sex.. cant judge men based on their lack of sexual experience, then claim that them focusing on increasing their sexual experiences don't matter and are actually a red flag to do so.. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 11:46 PM
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more so has to do with the idea of potential wealth gains, its the same reason so many people "boot lick" millionaires/billionaires, cause of the extremely low, but still possible potential of themselves becoming rich too and wanting to defend that potential wealth gain. when someone is thinking like that, thats when seeing all these rich and powerful men having half their wealth taken by the wife during a divorce is what causes the fear in men and therefore being pro prenup, even if it likely w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:57 AM
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using the logic you are using here, i can point to a hand full of the pure misandrist toxicity that is the twoXchromosomes subreddit and claim thats how all women on earth act..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:37 AM
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i have less of an issue with this and more of an issue with the people who have been married for 10-15+ years but are giving dating advice while dating is not the same as 10-15 years ago, there are still loads of similarities that can be useful. every now and then i will come across an old reddit/purplepilldebate post for 10+ years ago and they will largely still be discussing the same topics you see now, but with less overall hostility (especially the reddit posts from 15+ years ago) advice fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:35 PM
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this is a both sexes mentality, people think they learned the do's and dont's in their lives and assume due to their experiences they would be able to raise their kid differently/better than how they were raised.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:21 AM
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if a hot guy and an ugly guy both compliment a women at the same time without knowing her, both of those men complimented her without her consent. but she will with a high chance respond positively to only the hot guy while claiming the ugly guy objectified her.. they both did the same thing without her consent but one gets a very different reaction based on looks and not "consent" as both of them did the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 12:02 AM
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The twoxchromers are in this comment section getting angry.. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 01:10 PM
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peak femcel behavior, enjoy seething lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:25 AM
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i bet the people around you irl must be tired of hearing "im a strong independent women" from you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:12 AM
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why would someone want to get married when the US divorce rate is nearly 50% lol most men have either had parents or other male friends that have gone through messy divorces, why would they want to intentionally put themselves in that situation..? my sister and her boyfriend both refuse to get married (they have been in a committed relationship for over 10 years ) cause my parents fighting so much made my sister move to the other side of the country to get away from them and her boyfriends paren…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 11:59 AM
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good to know we can label the entirety of a sex based on a 21k weekly contribution subreddit.. lol if i spend all my time in the twoxchromosome aka the misandry subreddit, can i assume the toxicity of that sub is the norm of women in the world..? cause according to you, thats absolutely valid of me to do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 01:56 PM
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biggest pet peeve imo is how everyone assume the thoughts/emotions of manosphere/redpill men are all from 1 or a handful of negative experiences they had with women and not the million cuts over their entire lives by women but are never allowed to "bleed" cause attempting to do so just gives them more cuts by those same women..
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:32 AM
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"women are allowed to be picky but men aren't"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 06:13 PM
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"you were falsely accused and could have potentially lost your job due to a lie, but weren't ACTUALLY accused to my standard, so therefore i will indirectly deny what you said"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 05:51 AM
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