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DISCUSSIONheyho-ayo/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 01:46 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEheyho-ayo/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 03:34 AM
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Getting my nails and eyebrows done! Then getting a bangin outfit for tonight to go out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 02:54 PM
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Thank you for your response! You’re right- my intuition is the one that takes priority and I didn’t get him a gift in the first place because I felt it would look like I was doing too much. I guess because I do like gift giving I started to feel like I had to reciprocate but you are 100% correct
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 04:54 PM
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I don’t think this reflects any of my self esteem. Especially if you’re suggesting I pay for coffee or drinks. How was my thought of getting him a little something any different? I think getting coffee or drinks actually puts a bad habit in that I’ll always do that as opposed to a Christmas gift
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 04:51 PM
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Thank you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 04:48 PM
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That makes sense. I guess in the past when in similar situations the guy didn’t get me a gift so that’s mainly why I didn’t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 01:58 PM
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I completely agree! It seems like everyone is in a rush to get married and have kids, even with the wrong guy. Women can have kids later and later as our technology has developed and we’ve evolved. Also, society is more accepting of older moms now than they were in the past. One of my friends struggles with her confidence and stays with a guy because she literally thinks she’s going to die alone. She’s said that word for word. At the end of the day, I would rather adopt or find another way if I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 01:56 AM
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I panicked as soon as I saw it was a private group 😂 had no idea what happened
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 01:43 AM
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Recently the guy I’ve been seeing asked me to be exclusive but I’m not ready and not sure if I could see myself with him. I need more time to figure it out. I told him I liked where it’s going and that we’re on a good track. He was bothered by that and later that night when we weren’t together he texted me saying he needed an answer about whether or not I was seeing other people and said he was confused. I told him again I liked seeing him and everything and just felt we needed to get to know ea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 12:48 AM
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I’ve actually been thinking about this a lot. I’ve been seeing someone for 4 months now and we are exclusive but not official. I know men should be the one making it official but I feel that for myself this needs to be figured out. I was thinking about bringing it up next time I see him and saying not to waste my time and we can’t do this anymore if he doesn’t want to make it official. What do you think the best way to do this is?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 07:40 PM
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Strategy posts!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 09:58 PM
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Maybe! That’s why when he takes all day before texting me I usually don’t initiate much convo and I let him ask about me mostly so he has to work for it. Then after he’s asked me a few questions then I start asking about him a little
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 01:53 AM
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He has two jobs and one of them actually is a night shift. So I understand he’s busy or may need a nap in the mornings. But believe it or not the only time we don’t talk in the morning and afternoon is after we see eachother. So for example if I saw him last night, today would be the day he doesn’t write me until later on in the day. Other than that there’s no issues with time of texting. So I think this pattern is very strange. Maybe he feels like giving or taking space after we see eachother?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 07:43 PM
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This is interesting to think about because throughout the week we text at various times throughout the day. The only time texting starts that late in the day is after we see eachother. It’s a very strange pattern
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 07:40 PM
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Been talking to a guy for 3.5 months. We’re exclusive. After we see eachother, he doesn’t usually text me until the end of the day. Sometimes it’s around 7-8ish. Once it was 10:00. He always ends up texting like normal though once he texts me. And a day hasn’t gone by that we didnt talk. I know this is a red flag but is there anything I should do about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 11:43 PM
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You’re 100% right and I agree. Wanted him to see that I’m not dying to have a text convo with him. But I Kind of needed to hear it again because for some reason I felt like maybe I shouldn’t have come off cold. But at the end of the day if he wants to talk to me he can try to make convo in any way possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 12:23 AM
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The guy I’m seeing was very busy at work today but he took until 2 pm to text me. Then I responded at 3:30 ish and then he read my message and didn’t text back til 5:30. He was asking how I am. So I replied but didn’t ask hbu just bc I felt like I wanted to see if he would put effort in and I didn’t want to seem too eager. Now he’s left me on read since 6:15. Do u ladies purposely send boring texts ever just to prove a point? Did I make the right move here with not asking hbu
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 10:49 PM
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I think you’re right. I find it hard because I am already waiting a while to text back so I wonder if I should just not answer for a day or two and see what happens. Like cut contact. I know when someone I like doesn’t text me for a day I’m wondering where the hell they are so if he likes me he will double text
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 10:34 PM
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That’s the thing I feel like I’m overthinking everything now and it’s hard to tell if he’s just uninterested or if it’s just normal convo that has gotten slightly boring bc we’ve been texting a while. He suggested we go to the beach with his family because they have a camper set up and I asked what day and then he said he would have to let me know but hasn’t said anything about it the past 2 days
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 09:28 PM
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That’s so true I found myself feeling more needy during the quarantine because there’s less to go and do and it’s harder to see people to keep busy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 12:52 AM
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Yeah I’ve definitely pulled back-taking a few hours to answer some texts. I want him to take me out this week. Should I suggest we go do something fun or just wait it out until he mentions something?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 08:39 PM
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No I genuinely have feelings for him. And that’s why I’m struggling with this because it takes a lot for me to actually catch feelings and this time I did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 08:38 PM
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