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Well i would say if you wanted to hang with him get yourself tested and say you want to get tested every couple weeks so that you can still meet with some people. This will hopefully open up the door. You can keep dripping hints if he doesnt bite. Guys sometimes are oblivious to what women think are huge clues. But if hes open to meeting having a conversation in general about it and seeing if that puts him at ease is huge. My mother is also sick and since i want to be around her ive had to cut d…
/r/seduction13/10/20 03:56 AM
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Why would you want to pick them up? Dont waste your time with them. Just my opinion.
/r/seduction03/10/20 08:05 PM
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I agree with the other person. Practice putting on some condoms. Its counter intuitive, you want to put it on the other way the first time you do it lol also it helps to normally go some other place first so when you do come to your home (or thiers) thats an indicator that both are already comfortable and you can escalate things. Or save an area of your house for "the tour" where you end with it being in your bedroom. If you feel this is too big a step and for some reason the living room is wher…
/r/seduction30/09/20 09:06 PM
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Depends on the woman. The ones that normally are size queens typically want to know what you're packing. But not every woman is in the same boat or has the same size vagina for that matter. Some of them havnt been fucked for a long time or just got a divorce and want a little fun. Normally its exhilarating for them to take a trip back in time so i wouldnt be worried. Its all about having a good time. The ones that are real freaks and want something crazy will give you those vibes. Ive ruined sex…
/r/seduction21/05/20 03:57 AM
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I have a friend who didnt jerk off for a long time and ended up getting some kind of infection. Short term im sure there's no worry, but he went months. Gotta clean the pipes !
/r/seduction11/04/20 01:21 AM
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A few ideas: jerk off before you text or talk to them so you dont get too horny and act out of that. Try to get a friends with benefits thing so again youre not operating out of a desperate sexual state. Then you are not starved for sex and you can act cool without forcing things. Flirting with your mind not your dong.
/r/seduction09/04/20 03:58 AM
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There's no judgement here friend but i think unless theres a physical reason why you can not drive to consider getting a license. I do think (in general) woman look at you different and you miss some opportunities and the ability to control certain situations in your favor (i dont mean that in a creepy way) but most if not all women like to be submissive if you show traits that indicate you are in control. Literally "being in the drivers seat" seems to do this. Not to mention if you play songs w…
/r/seduction27/03/20 03:53 AM
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Ooooo i misunderstood. Yeah that sucks. Still you're doing better than some. College is a place for just running into women and its not weird. Outside of that when you get older, shit gets weird man. It can come off as creepy or you just have to hang out in bars or date online, its like the rules change all the sudden. Take advantage of the cool college energy there, theres no replacing it. And it sounds like youre doing fine. I feel for you but youll be back and things will turn your way soon e…
/r/seduction22/03/20 07:06 AM
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Sometimes you just gotta laugh at life man. At least you got the number and its a little confidence boost even if it doesnt develop. I say put in the work and text her from time to time to keep yourself relevant
/r/seduction21/03/20 04:45 AM
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Dont ever put yourself down for trying. Women get to be more selective and honestly half the time they dont know what they want. Dont lose your cool, just realize you're dealing with an animal thats different than you are. Keep on keeping on. I know it sounds like vague advice but honestly just staying in a place where you keep trying can be hard at times , but its harder if you stop. Lick your wounds and get back out there. Theres someone for everyone!
/r/seduction18/03/20 12:15 AM
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Couple of tips : diet can effect your scent. A meaty diet will give you worse body odor. Avoiding processed foods helps as well as drinking appropriate amounts of water. Women love a man's sweat when its fresh! But hate it when its not. So being at a gym and sweating may be good (depending on the situation), but 20 minutes later it has the opposite effect and they are normally repulsed. I wouldnt worry about after shave and colon and things of that sort but you could trim your armpit hair (small…
/r/seduction17/03/20 11:48 PM
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You can feel it out. Just remember bars can be dangerous places more so in small towns. It could be her jealous ex boyfriend is in the same bar at that time, or one of his friends lets him know his ex is talking with some dude and then he comes down to the bar looking for a fight. Im not trying to say this is a typical night in a small town but this does happen. People in small towns that cheat (which she may have said she was single) that puts a target on you. So names are important, gaining in…
/r/seduction03/03/20 12:05 AM
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I come from a small town around 3500 people if that and yes you have to be very careful. Things can go in your favor if you have a good reputation but things can go sour as well. You cant flirt with everyone you see. Try and get to know them and make the connections (think 6 degrees of kevin bacon). Its awkward when you accidently hit on your buddys girl cause she was just being nice and you forgot who she was cause she dyed her hair or you creep out a woman you werent super keen on to begin wit…
/r/seduction02/03/20 01:51 AM
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My buddy gave me good advice one time saying if you just ask them questions normally they will talk for a long time. Mostly its true. Family is a topic most can relate to. What there interests or passions are. (Sometimes its good just to check thier facebook likes, movies and books etc..) just to get an idea and then you can subtlety work that into something they say. Its a white lie and not a big deal, just gives you a little more ammo for a conversation or thinking you both uave something in c…
/r/seduction25/02/20 02:29 AM
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Perhaps picking up women shouldnt be your goal anymore ? Perhaps finding emotional stability in a friendship or relationship is a better goal. Not here to judge or tell you how to live your life. Also being bummed out for a couple weeks is not that big a deal. Its the reason that you're bummed that you need to think about. I think a therapist wouldnt be a terrible idea, sometimes they help you evaluate things from a perspective you'd otherwise be blind to. But answering WHY you feel so rejected …
/r/seduction25/02/20 02:10 AM
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Feel good story of the year ! Keep on going friend
/r/seduction18/02/20 02:37 AM
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Enjoy yourself. Its not worth much if you're too worried about performance to enjoy it. Its about finding your pleasure then you will get feedback from the person youre kissing eventually. Relax. Have fun.
/r/seduction08/02/20 07:30 PM
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Dont give up. Some people are luckier than others in that a girl or two had interest in us when we were young and we took the traditional steps. Nothing wrong with being you. I may offer a suggestion though as someone who also does not prefer dating sites and in the same age group, be up front about it. Showing vulnerability is a turn on to alot of women and they may want to be the one that pops your cherry so to speak, it may take them back to a time they remember fondly. Trying to show confide…
/r/seduction31/01/20 01:31 AM
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