heyniceheinie Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
94	General discussion: how to not hate men after realizing the sobering truth?	heyniceheinie	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/09/20 03:28 PM
30	Career woman vs feminine receiver: pick one, or how to blend both?	heyniceheinie	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/10/20 04:56 PM
22	My sister is the biggest pickmeisha of all time. She realizes it is bad every single time (after it bites her hard), and I always think she has had a breakthrough, but she never actually changes and repeatedly gets with NVM or even worse. How can I help her?	heyniceheinie	/r/askFDS	16/09/20 01:16 AM
1	Anyone else feel like straight women will be able to receive compensation 20 years from now because of men, like what they did with mesothelioma?	heyniceheinie	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/09/20 03:52 AM
1	How many of you have dumped a long-term BF after discovering FDS due to mindset change alone?	heyniceheinie	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/09/20 08:57 PM
1	Medium-value men, what do you think?	heyniceheinie	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/10/20 04:05 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 10 2020 I agree with that sentiment. It can be therapeutic. Progress and leveling up is a great thing, and I love that. But I can't get it off my mind that at the same time our queens are physically taking the time to find all the images, patch them together, and post, and thinking about what makes up the LVM/their ex while doing so. I would rather hear about how you queens leveled up and what great things you have on your horizons, but I get that it is also great to do a retrospective to identify red f…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/09/20 03:00 AM
25	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 10 2020 I am sorry if I get down voted for this, but why are we wasting so much of our queen energy on these LVM by making LVM collages? I really don't like this trend I am seeing. The FDS handbook (which is 200+ pages) and website seems like so much effort to put together, and it has actual strategy on how we work on and control the things we can change, so that we can have a better life and love life. I just feel like making these collages, while a couple are funny, is contrary to FDS principles where…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/09/20 01:59 AM
1	Stop caring about men who make it clear they don’t care about you! Yes. Which also means you don't have to be a subjective "10/10" to have or deserve a high value man. We all deserve that.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/09/20 03:18 AM
10	Another broke man afraid of "golddiggers!" That is true. Great point. And the fact that with hormonal changes due to menstruating that about half the month we are subjected to getting overtly fatigued from normal tasks. Menstrual cycle burden.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/09/20 08:41 PM
13	Another broke man afraid of "golddiggers!" What about 50/50 on finances and 50/50 in the home? Is that an instance where 50/50 is okay?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/09/20 07:28 PM
14	Friend-Zoned to Potential Love Interest? Yes. Exactly. Saw this after I posted. Sounds like a white knight and "nice guy" type. Put kindness coins in and expect sex or a relationship out	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/09/20 04:49 AM
7	Friend-Zoned to Potential Love Interest? I had this exact same situation as you (best friends since 2013 with him being in love with me, me not being attracted, and him always doing nice things or talking to me about an ex), and I found the best option was to drop him. As I tried to keep him as a friend he started to become more and more white knight-ish. I don't think HVM are typically white knights in my opinion, because white knights don't respect you (or what a relationship means if you have one at the time, bad or not, not their p…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/09/20 04:47 AM