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This 👆🏻, OP. You can’t circle back unless/until they reach out to you first.
/r/seduction13/05/26 12:49 AM
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Yes. But now in my 50s I’m much more discerning and I have a few regrets for not getting more serious with a few of the women in my past. I’m not saying it won’t happen, finding a good woman to partner with for the long term at clubs, but after you get whatever out of your system, the proverbial “sowing oats” phase, don’t look back
/r/seduction18/11/25 04:49 AM
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I get most turned on by a woman who isn’t flirty outwardly/openly because it’s a better way for me to see if our brains work similarly. A younger friend introduced me to her younger sister who was like this and she blew my mind by getting my references and being dryly witty in her responses to them; if I wasn’t old enough to be her father…but my friend the older sister caught what was going on and gave me death glare for the rest of the night, like she was saying “I will literally kill you if yo…
/r/seduction22/09/25 01:57 AM
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This ^
/r/seduction10/09/25 02:55 PM
2

Hotel bars work, either downtown or by the airport.
/r/seduction30/07/25 03:00 AM
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The caution I would offer here is that it’s entirely possible for the friendship to end because of this. But they’re really not the friend you thought if it does, right? If it looks like one of you has caught the feels, you’ve got to talk about it and figure that out.
/r/seduction28/04/25 02:08 PM
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It generally starts with a talk after having had sex at least once. You discuss what you’re looking for, what just happened, how to frame it…
/r/seduction28/04/25 01:24 PM
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There is no legal agreement needed- it’s a verbal arrangement between friends to share benefits as needed.
/r/seduction28/04/25 12:34 PM
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Good. Yeah, exclusivity is not something you should force or hurry at any age.
/r/seduction17/04/25 08:55 PM
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A woman I was dating tried to make me jealous and commit after a few rounds of sexytime by telling me she had a Match profile. I asked how it was going and she described getting fewer dates than she had expected. So I asked to see her profile, and edit out the glaring red flags. A few quick changes for which she rewarded me with more sexytime activities, during which her phone started getting notifications of pings on the app. I told her to pursue those when we had finished and cleaned up, thank…
/r/seduction17/04/25 08:29 PM
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Women have needs just like we men do. If they’re not getting them met at home, they will look elsewhere. And I’m talking emotional, intimate as well as physical.
/r/seduction15/03/25 01:44 AM
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“Would you care for some assistance with that?”
/r/seduction14/03/25 09:14 PM
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“Would you care for some assistance with that?”
/r/seduction14/03/25 09:14 PM
13

*Party drugs and booze.
/r/seduction10/03/25 10:18 PM
0

“Hello, friend”😈
/r/seduction28/02/25 03:35 AM
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I can’t type fast enough it seems. Lmk when it becomes voice interactive.
/r/seduction11/02/25 06:03 AM
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Twice this past weekend at work I was approached by significantly younger women who were attracted by my moustache. And when I say significantly, half my age or younger (I’m 51). The first grabbed my collar and pulled me to her and proceeded to stick her tongue down my throat, then run off. The second, the next night, was much more controlled and waited to proposition me until I was done and headed home after chatting casually all night. I blame the blue moon, but man what a shot to the ego, eve…
/r/seduction20/08/24 03:54 AM
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I work in one of those drinking and dancing spots in an international tourist destination town, and yes, it’s a great place to find casual hookups with people who are inclined to try the local flavour. I see it happen every week, and occasionally get a few good offers myself.
/r/seduction18/06/24 08:38 PM
5

It’s why he’s royalty.
/r/seduction02/06/24 06:14 PM
9

La Dona e mobile
/r/seduction02/06/24 06:05 PM
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It’s an educational, mindful, emotional deficiency they may never rectify. Which is why they have their current perspectives and hang out on Reddit relationship/se subs, alternating with porn.
/r/seduction31/05/24 06:44 PM
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I agree; Trust, love and intimacy are very powerful things that when combined make for a powerful connection on mental, spiritual and physical levels. When combined, it can be transcendent. It’s the center of a venn diagram.
/r/seduction31/05/24 02:46 PM
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It happens. Patrons bang, coworkers bang, workers and customers… Yes. It happens. The club is just the prelude to getting home. But sometimes, it is what it is.
/r/seduction11/05/24 03:02 PM
4

I dont care what you choose to wear as long as it comes off quickly and you’re good with it being on the bedroom floor for a while
/r/seduction04/05/24 02:11 PM
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“Nope. I told Zuck 🖕🏻a decade ago when he wanted to see my home addy on a gov’t issued ID and put my full name on crackbook. Life has been so much better since. It was the turning point, a fairly major one in my life. How’s yours going, by the way?”
/r/seduction03/05/24 02:14 PM
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“You’ll get the whole package, including the tip.”
/r/seduction08/04/24 10:28 AM
2

I’m guessing that having girls who didn’t give me the time of day in high school came knocking after learning that my dad passed 6mo after my granny. I can only assume they’re gold diggers, looking for presumed inheritance monies. But I’ve also had women come back into my life after years naturally, after marriage/kids/divorce/remarriage/2nd divorce…when their options have disappeared and they’ve ridden all the other horses on the carousel. There seems to be an age where they’re deathly afraid o…
/r/seduction18/08/22 03:43 AM
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Girls lie. To themselves, in this case. It’s like they’re uttering an affirmation they struggle to keep, like the rest of us. Isn’t human a fun condition?
/r/seduction18/07/22 03:30 AM
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This Is The Way.
/r/seduction16/07/22 10:04 PM
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This. My wing person is significantly younger too, so that helps with big dick energy. And envy and disgust and all sorts of other base emotions, which offers opportunity to display emotional adeptness.
/r/seduction07/06/22 02:30 PM
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I would think it’s different for female cops than men. You’re in a traditionally male dominated job, so if you’re keeping up with the boys at work, how is a civilian going to measure up? Your weapons can also be intimidating and the vest doesn’t flatter your natural womanly form. Women love men in uniform. I live near a tourist attraction and regularly see booze-fuelled women go up to your colleagues here and ASK to be handcuffed. Big Dick energy is a thing, and yours is likely intimidating some…
/r/seduction07/06/22 02:18 PM
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Give up weed and blow? Pfft, in some places the cops have the BEST stuff, but they only share with their nearest and dearest.
/r/seduction07/06/22 02:00 PM
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Smile at them. If they respond in kind, go talk with them. Maybe it turns into something, maybe it doesn’t, but either way you shared a nice moment with another human.
/r/seduction03/05/22 05:28 AM
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You might find it to be a clearer sign of an impending sexual event when a woman is comfortable enough with you to invite you to her home. Also, I second what someone else said about chilling out over being an 18yr old virgin. It’s really not a big deal.
/r/seduction11/04/22 12:41 PM
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It could mean (it usually does) she wants an intimate physical interaction with you as soon as possible. And that she’s quite appreciative of a rougher one.
/r/seduction01/04/22 04:58 AM
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Escorts/call girls/whores can be found pretty much everywhere. That’s what you’re looking for.
/r/seduction03/03/22 06:30 PM
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You want occasional relations, which is a type of relationship, if they’re willing. But you have to be ok with and understand that they might be having relations with others too. Can you handle that?
/r/seduction03/03/22 05:17 PM
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I don’t know where you’re from, but in my neck of the woods, boyfriends don’t always turn into long term partners, and friends are always good to have.
/r/seduction03/03/22 05:15 PM
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Yeah, that’s not a girl to hook up with yet. She needs her heart broken a bunch of times first, and to figure out her life.
/r/seduction03/03/22 03:24 PM
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How comfortable and confident are you in your own skin? It’s tough to interact with people if you’re fighting within yourself, and you’re not going to be able to meet let alone hook up with people if they perceive that going on inside you. And trust me, you always pay. Whether it’s dinner or drinks or being put in uncomfortable/unpleasant/boring situations to get some, one way or another, the reward of sex always comes at a cost, an acceptable exchange of value, a compromise.
/r/seduction03/03/22 02:27 PM
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One way or another, you always pay. Tinder has pivoted more to dating and Bumble always has been about it. Try Pure - it’s much more direct/open.
/r/seduction03/03/22 12:43 PM
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How much time are you spending on it? Is it possible you’d be better off working for money to pay a call girl? Seems…cleaner, somehow.
/r/seduction03/03/22 12:32 PM
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They know. They can smell it on you; it’s like that invisible ink on your forehead. And yes, it does work that way. (Why don’t you talk to them anymore?)
/r/seduction03/03/22 12:07 PM
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Kinda surprised you don’t have a friend who’s female and not taken pity on you by now. But also kinda think I know why.
/r/seduction03/03/22 05:57 AM
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That’s exactly what it is: balance, proportionality. Fit as much as form.
/r/seduction03/03/22 04:32 AM
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Can confirm
/r/seduction23/02/22 06:31 AM
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This ^ is the real swag.
/r/seduction21/12/21 02:41 PM
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“That’s, like…just your opinion, man.” Dudeism.com. Go get yourself ordained. And take it easy. 👍🏻
/r/seduction07/11/21 04:47 PM
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🤣🤣🤣 commas and their placement? Dude hasn’t even said hello yet, let alone tried for her number. Texting is a ways off still 🤣🤣🤣
/r/seduction29/10/21 01:36 PM
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Exactly this: USE YOUR WORDS. Tell us what you’re thinking, what you want, what you like. Bridge the gap between feminine mystique and not getting any from someone you’re attracted to, or getting poorly laid by someone who doesn’t know/can’t read your signs. You will never get what you want by not speaking it.
/r/seduction25/10/21 11:25 AM
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Exactly this. I still get the occasional text from a woman I was with (but who wasn’t with me) almost a decade ago around my birthday every few years. She tries to conceal that it’s her with changing numbers, but her tone is unique, and when I ask her simply if her message to me means she has decided what she wants and that is me, she disappears like a puff of smoke again. If we ran into each other like OP did with his example, I don’t know what I would do, how I would handle the situation. It d…
/r/seduction11/07/21 05:32 PM
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It won’t end for some time yet (the virus is mutating, and that will make finding a vaccine more difficult); OP should find a way to start NOW. I suspect it will make finding similar-minded people somewhat easier
/r/seduction24/06/20 12:12 PM
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If my math is correct, she has roughly 50% more life experience than you. She wants to remember things, teach you things, and ride you like you’re stolen. Be kind, have fun, and most of all enjoy the ride. But, as she is still in her childbearing years, make sure she can prove she’s babyproof before you go raw dog or you could be in for a long association.
/r/seduction31/05/20 11:45 PM
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My grandfather warned me years ago: “one way or another, you always end up paying for love” and it continues to prove itself true year after year. I’m just saying that I’m expecting a fire sale. Still, one must exercise discretion when shopping.
/r/MGTOW25/12/19 05:16 PM
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It doesn’t even need to be FU money. You just need to be debt free and financially secure. With the rapture of the financial markets that’s coming, anyone with no debt and paid-for assets and a stable, livable income will be iconic and sought after.
/r/MGTOW25/12/19 01:55 PM
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This will change when the financial rapture comes. It’s quite overdue based on historical cycles, and this one is gonna be a doozy. It’ll force a reset across all strata of society. Those of us who are debt free and/or FI will have women swarming for those protections, but you’ll have your pick of the litter, so choose wisely and vet carefully.
/r/MGTOW25/12/19 01:43 PM
3

Uh, you’ve been experiencing Civil War 2 for the past 3years (at least; it’s probably more like minimum 4-5) from where I sit. In fact, some would say the first one never really ended. Those who participate most vehemently in the process are who I refer to as your stereotypical “Ugly/stupid Amur’kuns” and why your country is considered to be bullies, and increasingly, a flyover. I am so sad for you all there, because in my experiences traveling (I’ve been to all 50 states) and getting my Bachelo…
/r/MGTOW19/12/19 08:08 AM
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Uh, no he didn’t. She wanted him to, but he knew how it would turn out.
/r/MGTOW16/10/19 04:28 AM
1

Pretty simple: Don’t get blasted, or let her get that way either. Get toasted and get laid.
/r/seduction04/09/19 03:13 PM
6

...Like a boob job to land the next/a bigger sucker/idiot.
/r/MGTOW21/05/19 06:43 AM
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Check the mileage on that thing, or the runtime hours. Usually higher than advertised.
/r/MGTOW26/03/19 07:16 PM
1

You forgot a wind turbine. And OP didn’t mention if there was a running waterway on the property
/r/MGTOW07/11/18 07:57 AM
8

Yes, yes you do.
/r/MGTOW14/09/18 07:23 PM
2

Fuck your socks - pull up your pants! It’s called UNDERwear for a reason.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 05:11 AM
1

That being said, the generation gap can be a little annoying but sometimes it can make for an interesting conversation. < Hells yes! Same here: twice her age and she's a massive contradiction and shitshow and heart of gold and churchmouse. Totally inappropriate for me to be spending any time with her whatsoever...but those weekly hang-outs make my week infinitely better.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 02:36 PM
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And also have a "not under my roof unless you're married" policy, spoken or not Got friends with a spare room? Or who will stay out while you get some? If money for a hotel is the issue, this could help
/r/seduction16/07/17 05:24 PM
2

Dude, at the end you talk about mix-and-match. The specific example you gave is definitely Dudeist...but that's just my opinion. Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 11:27 AM
28

This. Shows you're not an awkward lame-o and understand humans and dating.
/r/seduction12/03/17 06:07 PM
1

Brother, I'm a Dudeist. If that's what they want to own, Who am I to judge?
/r/seduction25/11/16 01:10 AM
2

This. Do what YOU want to do, because YOU want to do it. And then take the IDGAF attitude about what others think/feel about it. Make it YOUR life; LIVE IT as you see fit. Own that shit. Revel in its smell, look, feel, taste...and laugh. Because you love it, what you've built, yourself.
/r/seduction24/11/16 09:55 PM
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To determine if they're into the actual, real you or simply the image of you.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 11:33 PM
1

I'm about 6mos older than you, and same here of late. This is awesome...but we're a right of passage. It will last for a while, and then they move on to baby daddies.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 10:54 PM
2

Nope. Don't lie. Either they're in or not. If not, next.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 10:48 PM
2

Exactly. If they're looking at that age, they can't even handle themselves.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 10:45 PM
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I was you, the nice guy, pretty much all through high school and college. I was friends. Now, 20+ years down the road, I'm still friends with many of them, been to their weddings etc. Now that middle age has set in and they're looking forward and downhill, lots is going through their heads, especially if they're separated/divorced and have/had kids that are starting to leave the nest. And they're trying to recapture some of the life they lost out on settling down too soon. They're a mess. And th…
/r/seduction16/05/16 03:39 PM
3

I doubt there's much career left to be had in the military for her.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 01:22 AM
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I wonder what she has planned for when her speaking career comes to its end? More self-righteous indignation, no doubt. I've known a few women like this. How they became adults having such highly tuned sensitivity to being "wronged" - inflexibility, really- is beyond me. What they're trying to protect/promote isn't as important as they think it is. And they don't realize it until it's too late and their lives are destroyed.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 04:55 PM
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Would it help the conversation in general, but also specifically for the threads about the Ghomeshi case, if someone were to post links to media reports for international followers who may not have easy access to Canadian Media?
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 04:15 AM
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This is all well and good, but if he fucked up by not being absolutely clear with these 3 accusers about how he likes rough sex and what qualifies, they'll still get him on assault. That's where this is headed. Consent to sex was granted, but if it wasn't correctly defined in advance, what has to be determined is if he is at fault in defining the terms or if they are at fault for not reading the fine print so to speak
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 11:50 AM
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Watching this unfold in the media is fascinating. I'm eager to read the judge's decision, but I'm more interested in the societal repercussions.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 11:25 AM
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