heythere1983 Archive

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2	Have you ever been with a girl that rejected you before? I once asked a female friend out and she told me she liked me but that she prefered us to be just friends. She had a boyfriend of whom I didn't know anything, she was very secretive with her relationship, I think she was the side chick. A couple of months later we met at a club and we hooked up. We dated for about three months, but I didn't feel comfortable with the relationship, now knowing about the ex-bf and suspecting about her being the side chick (huge red flag IMO), and she was kind of di…	/r/seduction	03/03/16 02:52 PM
1	Should I drop my friends and make new ones to attract girls? Thanks bro	/r/seduction	27/11/15 07:23 PM
5	Should I drop my friends and make new ones to attract girls? 1) 1) 4) 2) 3) wat?	/r/seduction	27/11/15 05:49 PM
2	[21M] Want to lose my virginity - Need some advice I was referencing u/Kaptcho point about being happy he sexually failed with a girl he didn't care about. The thing is that you don't have to be afraid to sexually "fail" with a girl that has feelings for you. First of all, she's not going to expect you to perform like a pornstar, especially if she knows you have little or no sexual experience at all. In second place, the shared moment of intimacy is so great that sex is going to be awesome anyway. And in third place, sex is not difficult. It is …	/r/seduction	24/11/15 01:16 AM
3	[21M] Want to lose my virginity - Need some advice I don't know man, I lost it to a girl I was dating, and while sex was a bit awkward the first couple of times, it was also very passionate and sweet, there was an emotional connection. But as you say, it is very personal.	/r/seduction	23/11/15 11:17 AM
2	Asking girls to dance at nightclubs/raves Why did this happen? Because of this: i go up to them, tap them and ask "Wanna dance?" Also because I didn't look like a 6'2 white boy with a masculine build Welcome to the real world where being attractive helps to hook up with women.	/r/seduction	07/11/15 07:23 PM
2	So my girl friend trying to make me jealous or something? Yea, it's like a cult. Dissidents will be ostracised.	/r/seduction	25/10/15 03:42 PM
5	Skinny Fat Success with Girls Once you take your shirt off she's not going to back out in 99.99% of the cases, you shouldn't worry about that, especially if your body fat is 19-20%, that's pretty average.	/r/seduction	27/07/15 02:20 PM
1	What can I do guys? Anxiety on first dates is the rule for most people, you just need to force yourself, even if you start feeling sick, you NEED to be brave. If the date goes bad, it's not the end of the world, if it goes good you'll be so happy you decided to be brave and go against your instinct. How old are you? As time passes you just get more confident, you start to realise the girl is just as nervous as you are, and that you're not the only one trying to be impressive or playing it cool, it works on both sid…	/r/seduction	27/07/15 01:54 PM
1	What can I do guys? Some years ago I got really anxious every time I had a date, to the point I could not eat at all before or during the date, sometimes even throwing up before the date. This was especially true for first dates, I would relax more once the relationship started growing. My advice, or at least what I did, which sounds kinda crappy, was to drink as soon as the date started, alcohol relaxed me, gave me confidence and made me be more fun and talkative. Another option is to ask your doctor about these a…	/r/seduction	26/07/15 05:13 PM
2	Can't close with a kiss. Drink, just fucking drink.	/r/seduction	23/06/14 12:29 PM
1	I'm a male virgin (28) and I'm only attracted to women out of my league I want to believe that women after 25 had enough bullshit of these type of guys and are looking for more serious relationships. But I still get the feeling that they can't fall in love with a man who isn't a on the same level in the looks area. I'm sure you can see the irony in this paragraph. What about you? You're over 25 and still into that bullshit. If you're only attracted to girls who are out of your league, improve yourself until they're not out of your league anymore. I mean, hit the gym…	/r/seduction	23/06/14 12:05 PM
8	Finally lost my virginity at 25. Advice, insight, and guidance for those struggling. When I lost my virginty I thought I would feel more manly or cooler, but nope... same guy. Don't get me wrong, sex is great, but it's not like breaking a barrier, and you'll be happier or more free, it's just an awesome complement to an already awesome or pathetic life, it won't change your life. It felt much better the first time I had sex with a girl I really loved. Even the first time I just madeout with her was a more fulfilling experience than when I lost my virginity, I guess the fact I ha…	/r/seduction	04/06/14 03:31 PM
-1	[FR] Playing It Cool & Why You Should Go For It. That's cool, not that a big age gap.	/r/seduction	25/12/13 11:08 AM
5	[FR] Playing It Cool & Why You Should Go For It. How old are you and she? If you don't mind me asking	/r/seduction	20/12/13 09:24 AM
0	Co-worker taught me a lesson, time for a new approach Lame	/r/seduction	21/11/13 05:20 PM