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I just would not want to have a boyfriend who would flirt with every single one of my female friends lol it’s very disrespectful. If any of my friends were to “fuck with my boyfriend” then both are getting kicked to the curb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 01:32 AM
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Nope! If they can’t respect your boundaries and/or they make you feel uncomfortable then just block them. Trust me it’s less drama without those type of “friends” around anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 01:51 AM
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I’m sorry that happened to you hun :( Sounds like your ex was just projecting his issues onto you as most LVM and NVM always do smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 05:25 AM
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“I mean I just don’t like women.” ..... 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ Lord Jesus......why is he even dating then in the first place ? I hope you blocked him immediately afterwards!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 10:04 PM
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Thank you hun :) And yes pretty much! Lol. I always prided myself in being those type of people who would “talk issues through” but I learned that a lot of men are just super immature. And instead of talking things through they’d rather destroy everything then expect you to clean up their emotional mess afterwards. Like lol nope bye! They can clean up their own mess they started.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 10:00 PM
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Yeah that’s why I steer clear of any man who says what he wants out of a relationship is “no drama” because 10/10 he’s the one who is going to bring ALL the drama into the relationship. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 08:32 PM
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Haha yeah we weren’t dating for long (only 2-3 months when that incident happened) and I’m glad he showed his trash ways sooner than later
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 08:18 PM
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When guys post captions like that I really feel like they’re just making it obvious that they only tolerate their girlfriends but don’t really love them lol. Reminds of the time I was briefly dating this guy who posted a video of me and him together on his social media with the caption, “with my ungrateful girlfriend” (something along those lines) after we had argued over a petty matter. I told him to delete the video and caption because it was disrespectful and I wasn’t going to tolerate any ch…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 07:32 PM
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“Bad bitches block” Exactly. No need to waste any time writing paragraph after paragraph because these men really give 0 fucks and could care less lol. Just ghost/block and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 06:06 PM
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Any man who doesn’t let you know from the get-go that he has a child is honestly just looking to waste your time lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 02:02 AM
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If it was someone you’re exclusively dating then yes I would ghost him if he took a week just to reach out lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 01:48 AM
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“I’m (30M) 50k in debt and worried about gold diggers” THAT PART. 💀💀💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 08:44 PM
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“As a fellow female” .....-Waka Flocka meme- Ok. 🥴🥱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 03:24 AM
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“The office is my ish” BLOCKED. 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 07:24 AM
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Block him girl he’s going to waste your time and he sounds like a creep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 06:40 AM
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I agree with what the other commenters are saying , when they do this it’s a form of negging to lower your self esteem and to make you feel like you should be “grateful” that they are dating someone with as much “flaws” as you. I had only one ex boyfriend who did this to me. He would make fun of my curly hair, point out my tiny beauty marks that I have on my body, make fun of me for having “chicken legs, point out that I get crows feet around my eyes when I laugh (??????? Like who the hell doesn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 06:30 AM
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Do not give these men your personal information when you hardly know them and stay away from dating apps!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 06:16 AM
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Agreed! No man has ever made me cum. Only once I received amazing oral sex by an ex boyfriend of mine but that was 5 years ago...the rest were disappointments lmfao. Been sex free for over a year now and my mental health has never been better. I feel a lot happier now that I know my worth and avoid LVM like the plague.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 06:13 AM
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You didn’t lol, you were direct and honest with what you wanted. There’s nothing wrong with being honest about your dating expectations. A “let’s go for a walk and admire the scenery” type of “date” would have led to him trying to convince you to go back to his place for sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 08:18 PM
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If they follow over 400+ accounts and a good 90% are women (they will be onlyfans girls, pornstars, ‘cosplayers’, etc.) then that’s a big red flag/dealbreaker. Might as well just run and block him if he has over 1,000 people he follows lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 08:09 PM
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Nope. Don’t give him a chance. He is just using you as a booty call.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 07:56 PM
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Nah you didn’t sound or come across as bitchy! A “walk around and look at estates” activity is NOT a date lol. He couldn’t even say “Yeah sure I’d love to take out to a nice restaurant once quarantine is over.” and it sounds like he was just looking for a one night stand type of thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 07:54 PM
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I lost a couple of female friends due to this. It’s so sad! You can only do so much for them until you end up getting fed up with their pickmeisha ways :/ Mine would constantly cancel plans, ditch me for their fuckboy boyfriends, and only to get dumped by them then come running back to me crying/venting. At first it’s nice to be there for someone and be sort of a “safe place” for them, but after awhile these pickmeisha’s start taking advantage of your kindness and will take you for granted once …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 09:57 PM
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Oof girl why was this literally my ex too 🙄 No matter what it was they always had something bad to say! Good riddance from them lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 07:38 PM
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No you’re not overreacting, this happens all the time to women unfortunately. There’s no middle ground for us: either we’re too cocky/arrogant/conceited or we’re insecure/fishing for compliments/meek/etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 07:36 PM
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Yup I agree with everything you said on here! For a long time I was the kind of girl who gave LVM “clap backs” when they would say something to provoke me, because it made me feel like “hmp well at least I got the last word in!!! That’ll show him!!!” But you’re right that for those type of men they don’t really care what you say at all- it’s the fact that you bothered to RESPOND that matters to them. That’s why for over 2 years now I have been following the mantra of ignore, delete, and BLOCK. 🙂…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 07:25 PM
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Oof this is why I deleted OLDs and why I no longer respond to any messages on social media’s lol, the LVM don’t know how to act! Any man who wants to meet up with you during a QUARANTINE lockdown is definitely not worth your time! Good for you that you blocked him lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 05:19 PM
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Well tbh 98% of men aren’t going to listen to you if you say “I just want to be friends” lol. They’ll either ghost you or keep on forcing you to see that they’ll make a “good quality boyfriend” but that’s all talk. I don’t know what advice to give besides just block them (I know you said you don’t do that anymore but...) and don’t reply back to them in the first place. Also don’t give out your social media’s to them either if you’ve only been talking for a couple of months. Better safe than sorr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 05:10 PM
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I know that Hinge let’s you do that but you have to pay subscription :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 05:01 PM
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No because they will use it against you in an argument or something. It’s sad but true. I’ve had experiences with this (and I’ve only ever had jawline and nose fillers but nothing else) where I have confessed that I had fillers and trust me they will proceed to call you fake, botched, “you’re not even that attractive if you were you wouldn’t have gotten a bunch of work done”, etc. You’re not obliged to share that type of personal information about you and tbh 95% of guys can’t even tell “natural…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 11:54 PM
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Explains a lot since we went out on only two dates but he kept blabbering on about stories of his exes. I figured he either had serious commitment issues, had a hard time letting go of the past, was doing this to make me jealous/pursue him, or ALL of the above. Lord Jesus lol...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 11:42 PM
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