heyyourdumbguy Archive

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-5	After four months I found out my therapist is a radical feminist....what should I do? My guy, take a deep breath. Alright, now hear me on this. The “radical” in “radical feminist” comes from "root" (from Latin radix) of women's oppression, which they identify as the systemic/historical oppression of women in society by men. Essentially, their movement advocates for the reexamination of structures like marriage, motherhood, and the sexual division of labor, which they believe are designed to place women below men (which, let’s be honest, has some truth to it looking back across cu…	/r/MensRights	29/01/26 01:30 AM
-2	The preening insufferability of the feminist takeover of the American left has, to the surprise of no one, rendered it utterly impotent These are all great questions and you shouldn’t be downvoted for expressing them. The problem in politics today is the combination with entertainment and mass media. Minority, extreme voices get elevated becaue they get views & interaction (both positive and negative, it doesn’t really matter to them at a certain point). So liberals can easily think the extreme fascist voices speak for the majority of conservatives and conservatives think feminazi “woke” extreme leftists speak for the majority o…	/r/MensRights	26/11/25 02:27 PM
7	Are radical feminists disproportionately hostile to disabled men despite radical feminists’ purported commitment to equality? Lol no… if I hate a black person or a gay person, that doesn’t inherently make me racist or homophobic. If I hate a black person because they’re black or a gay person because they’re gay, only then would it qualify as racist/homophobic. So women who say they hate ALL men are just raging sexists unless prejudice comes from another place as well. On a seperate note, anecdotally I’ve seen so many cases of women fighting for equality who then turn around and say men shouldn’t be leaders / they’re al…	/r/MensRights	11/11/25 01:42 PM
1	Solution to the issue Do I really have to explain why “similar but different” doesn’t clarify anything except that you think men need to respond with equal but opposite action that’s somehow also similar… but different? (Ignoring your editing it in) Here’s the breakdown: Equal implies balance. Opposite implies resistance. Similar implies imitation. Different implies divergence. You can’t cram all four into one sentence and pretend it adds up. It’s not layered—it’s confused. Twins are similar but different. So are Chi…	/r/MensRights	09/07/25 08:46 PM
0	Solution to the issue Smart, fighting fire with fire always works.	/r/MensRights	09/07/25 06:46 PM
3	The TikTok definition of modern feminism has grown into something abominable. I remember hearing the exact same sentiment in 2020 funnily enough and actually noticing and repeating it myself in 2013. Go look back at media from decades ago. In the 70s and 80s, while the feminist movement was pushing for legal and economic equality, there were already fringe voices expressing personal bigoted bitterness under the banner of feminism, In the 90s, TV talk shows did that “battle of the sexes” bs all the time. Early internet forums in the 2000s were filled with pseudo-academic r…	/r/MensRights	14/06/25 12:02 AM
1	Men Are Addicted to External Validation, Then Wonder Why They Feel Empty I agree with the sentiment, but jumping from “poor” to “incel” doesn’t happen in the vast majority of cases. They’re two seperate things that overlap only very superficially, with more differences than similarities. If you were poof and also called an incel — younkightnwant to reflect a little bit more. One might inform the other in terms of possibility but not causation and only a small correlation (in terms of perception).	/r/MensRights	13/06/25 02:39 PM
-7	How do men benefit from women in relationships? Bro, how would I know if you owed her something? What would her (I’m sure theoretical) most fair and reasonable friend say you owed her? Doesn’t even matter. It sounds like you were in a bad situation, needed out, got out, and got yourself right — so congratulations. The only thing I have to say is: if, consciously or unconsciously, you do think you owed her something make it right — with her if you have to - but ultimately with yourself (goes for any other latent guilt or shame, even if you’re …	/r/MensRights	11/06/25 03:18 AM
-6	How do men benefit from women in relationships? I obviosly don’t have full context but, based on your comment, you’re the baddie…	/r/MensRights	11/06/25 02:57 AM
2	UK: Britain's Got Talent finalist Andrew Johnston is cleared of raping two women Very serious subject, but couldn’t help but laugh at this line: 'He's had a television career, a recording career, provided to him by Simon Cowell - one of the most influential people in music.” Lol	/r/MensRights	10/05/25 03:59 PM
3	What books, films and shows best represent male experience according to you? “Her experience was so bad, she was so traumatized, 2 years after she started. She deleted herself.” This is, if not downright wrong, an over-simplification at best, and ironically the avoidance of oversimplification was a reason she began the project (the same way saying she “deleted herself” is oversimplification, as it was assisted-suicide, but that’s just pedantic). The truth of the matter is, while pretending to be a man profoundly affected her mental health and seems to have been a major f…	/r/MensRights	26/04/25 08:41 PM