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Inner Game hghg432/r/seduction12/05/25 01:47 AM
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i think charisma is you being true to you, like doing what you naturally want to. think of it as being in flow - like when you're playing a sport or drawing or whatever, you're not really thinking about the act of doing something, you're just doing it.
/r/seduction11/06/25 12:33 AM
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This generally aligns with my experience as well - the key with women is that they need to know you have options and really don't give a shit about dropping them instantly if they are not playing ball. It's a two way street. Neediness is you projecting to her that you don't have options and that you really NEED this interaction to work. This gives off desperate, clingy, needy, etc energy that is actually a huge turnoff. Confidence is essentially you doing you because you know your alternative is…
/r/seduction11/06/25 12:31 AM
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You have to add in a good system prompt and ideally make a custom GPT. And even then, it's better for strategy vs specifics. Like if you ask it "what should i say" it will give you some corny stuff to say or text a girl. But if you give it enough context about the situation, and where you are stuck, it will analyze the situation decently well and tell you what to do in general and how to move things forward.
/r/seduction13/05/25 07:07 PM
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i mean you can be good looking and get absolutely stepped on by a woman bc you have no frame
/r/seduction13/05/25 06:21 PM
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I would not bring this up unless they explictly push you in the beginning. if they ask "what do you want out of this" say something like "i'm dating around and just spending time w people i vibe with." if they keep pushing then you can directly say "im not ready for anything serious right now". you can add a brief reason (like work, or breakup) but not needed and also dont lie also the best way to establish casual dynamic is to subtly talk about other girls that you're seeing in a way that is or…
/r/seduction13/05/25 06:17 PM
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stop paying him any attention during the interaction and flirt more aggressively with the girl
/r/seduction13/05/25 06:15 PM
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you can also use chatgpt for semi-real time feedback on the cold approach and to review the set
/r/seduction13/05/25 06:13 PM
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You're living in a scarcity mindset with girls. girls can sense scarcity instantly. You need to kind of brainwash yourself to believe that you're not in scarcity, and your reality will eventually catch up. It's kind of a chicken/egg problem but i promise you once you've successfully hypnotized your mind girls will start to sense this
/r/seduction13/05/25 04:33 PM
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sounds like she has a roster and you got dropped from it
/r/seduction13/05/25 04:29 PM
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Just ask chatgpt to make one for you given your specific goals / areas of improvement
/r/seduction13/05/25 04:27 PM
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No, some girls just need more time. Sometimes you also need to build more comfort. If you are losing interest in her after the second date bc she won't sleep with you, then she's prob not worth investing more time into tbh
/r/seduction13/05/25 03:21 AM
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You can set the tone pretty early on by subtly letting her know you're also dating around.
/r/seduction13/05/25 03:20 AM
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Assume interest until proven wrong. If she’s still there with you and engaging, then escalate. Some girls are also super shy and will never give obvious signs
/r/seduction12/05/25 11:56 PM
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Tbh the main source of social conditioning is from your parents bc you spend the most time w them early on
/r/seduction12/05/25 08:40 PM
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Say 1-2 things and then escalate to a date. Ideally the 1-2 things sets up the date organically
/r/seduction12/05/25 08:39 PM
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Think of attraction like a slow burn dial. Like a thermostat. You start cold, or maybe set to a low temp. With each physical escalation you are turning up the dial and testing to see if it's too hot for her. By the time you kiss her, the dial will be pretty turned up, but the kiss itself will crank the dial to steaming hot. if she feels enough comfort and safety, her mind will let go to her body, and she will be wet af and wanting the next step herself. The attraction itself happens in her body,…
/r/seduction12/05/25 06:32 PM
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Whats the craziest first date you’ve been on? If she says something naughty then you can dig in, share some of your crazy experiences etc. if she said something vanilla then you can tease her about it and see how she reacts
/r/seduction12/05/25 06:11 PM
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“Listening to your own intuition and being less inhibited”. This is exactly it! It’s not easy bc we’ve all been socially conditioned since early school not to do this. So it will take lots of practice and tbh willpower to just do you
/r/seduction12/05/25 06:06 PM
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It’s pretty shitty advice when its just framed as “be yourself” with no additional context
/r/seduction12/05/25 02:21 PM
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Yea i would say this is not for beginners that have never cold approached or been on many dates. If you’re in that bucket the best advice is you need to go out there and get some reps in and do you best to stay detached from the outcomes. But that’s also much easier said than done. Most beginners will never do that because they are mentally stuck or frozen from the fear. I was like this for a long time. This is where the advice is useful if you actually internalize it and experience what it mean…
/r/seduction12/05/25 02:19 PM
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Honestly my biggest advice here is you’re not just kissing for the first time, you’re creating a moment that is hot and memorable. Focus on creating a moment that she will remember, and the kiss will be the climax. Each moment is different for each girl. There’s no routine. But you do need enough physical escalation to pull off the moment with the right vibe.
/r/seduction12/05/25 04:20 AM
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Best advice i can give you is open in an organic way ie the interaction should feel socially acceptable at first. Then you can test her vibe and start flirting. But coming out of nowhere and being direct is high risk if the social setting is like a random sidewalk on the street. She has no idea who you are so in her mind her defences are automatically up
/r/seduction12/05/25 04:09 AM
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If there's a networking or social at the convention, just text her and ask her to meet there
/r/seduction12/05/25 03:21 AM
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You're in an awesome spot. Just treat it like a regular first date. You don't need to do anything differently because you met her at the convention. Just use the convention as shared common ground to start the date and then escalate as you normally would.
/r/seduction12/05/25 03:21 AM
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Girls will really only chase you when you've built enough attraction and they realize they are in competition with other girls for your attention. Or if you have super high social status (like a celebrity is most extreme example). During first dates, it's not about getting them to chase you (they're already on the date with you!), but increasing their investment in the interaction so you're not the only one driving it. Main way you can increase investment is to: 1) turn her on, 2) challenge/teas…
/r/seduction12/05/25 03:16 AM
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no your intro msg is perfect. just hit her up in a few days, or even a week later, with a link to a song that matches hers and see if she reacts
/r/seduction12/05/25 02:56 AM
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100%. Before you can "just be yourself", you need to at least love yourself.
/r/seduction12/05/25 02:52 AM
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The best cold approaches in my experience are organic and super short. Like a few min max. Unless there is a clear next step or escalation - ie you guys are at an event. If not, and you’re passing by on the street or in a cafe, keep the approach super short and with a few emotional spikes. You can sense how open/closed she is based on how strongly she plays into your frame. Hit her up on ig - ig is ideal esp if you have some good social proof. Then just setup a date in the evenings and/or around…
/r/seduction12/05/25 02:03 AM
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Assuming you’re not actually a fuckboy thats just telling her what she wants to hear, this means that she assumes that you don’t mess around and have abundance. It’s likely coming from your energy that you’re giving her more than anything else - detached, unfazed, in your element. Whatever it might be For your case bc it’s not true, you really can’t logically defuse this, so just set the record straight and move on. If you are seeing other people but in an ethical way, the best response is to be…
/r/seduction12/05/25 01:39 AM
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Tbh the advice about “just be yourself” is mostly misunderstood. It’s really about living in your own reality and asserting that reality outwards without any exceptions. If you’re operating in a reality that’s not yours (in dating her reality) then you’ve already lost the frame battle and you have very little leverage. This goes for pretty much anything else in life, especially business. Women can sense how in your reality you are much faster than you can. People pleasing is pretty obvious to pi…
/r/seduction12/05/25 01:29 AM
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