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Not just men, women are physical creatures too, therefore the chances to find someone who will not be shocked by this is very low. I am so very sorry for what happened in your past, but you might want to work on this aspect and possibly start dating then?
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/23 03:39 PM
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True! If you do part time, totally possible :)
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/23 02:21 PM
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What health issues?
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/23 08:57 PM
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This is the duality I feel. There are some sides of corporate life I love. Dressing business, feeling important and feeling smart, client meetings all of that. But when I’m behind my laptop working in the grey office in the winter i wanna go to the seaside and just make lattes an meet new people. And then yes, I am sure I would miss the “business life”. When I was little i really wanted to have the kind of job I have. :) I know, cant have them both.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/23 06:13 PM
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That sounds absolutely amazing and also very brave
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/23 03:54 PM
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Yesssss totally BUT to me that comes with worry and loads of planning and hiring people and paperwork. I would just prefer making the lattes and no responsibility 🤪
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/23 03:52 PM
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Yes, although not a waitress but a barista in a coffee shop, at a place where the weather is always warm, making lattes all day being smiley and friendly and not needing to worry about corporate life.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/23 02:20 PM
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I think you should listen to ur gut feeling. If you cant decide at this point and have doubts just go on a few more dates. Test him, test his humour in different circumstances. I think humor and chemistry are corelated at a point. If you are just very stiff through the dates and are not having fun then ofc your willingness to get more intimate is lower. If you feel that you become rigid, too serious, and not flowy and easy going around him thats a very bad sign.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/23 11:32 PM
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Yes. You could prepare a little before hand, make dinner put some music on, soft light. Tell him that you just wanted a nice cozy datenight at home, and then give him a massage or something.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/23 11:06 PM
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Everything you mentioned is already great. I would definitely add workout, and meditation is also great. It will mentally put you in a good spot
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/22 09:36 AM
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This!
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/22 09:24 AM
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Yes and that is bad, and you should learn from it. But you also did that since you didn’t have the trust that he is understanding you can tell him the truth. Please do not victimize him.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/22 02:17 PM
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Very constructive comments from your side. I am engaged and will be married in months - as i see this is your only concern. :)
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/22 02:15 PM
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I dont see the relevance. I understand and accept that you have (only) met men who gave a huge importance to numbers. Altho that doesn’t mean most men. The men I have met have never asked. We talked about past relationships and whether or not we have had one night stands, so it was never taboo. But it wasn’t important.My previous boyfriend who is conservative told me he didn’t care because he loved me even if its 6 or 36.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/22 10:53 AM
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In my past relationships men never asked me my number. Not at all a dealbreaker for most men. Please do not say such stuff.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/22 09:59 AM
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Because of the damage that you have caused? What damage? Damage to yourself? - continuing staying in this relationship will cause you more damage and pain. Damage to him? - you have not damaged him at all. You got together, liked each other it was mutual, the relationship went its way unintentionally. I genuinely don’t understand the damage.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/22 09:56 AM
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If I were you I would start looking for other jobs. I understand you have a BA in an area, maybe take that direction? If not, then just find random jobs that pay better - or pay the same but less work. You are nowhere late! And please do not give him this kind of power to destroy your self esteem, your possibilities and all. Everythinf you have given him: love and affection and care came from you meaning you can give it to the next person when he comes.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/22 02:43 PM
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How about friends? Just touch and hug your friends or go to dog parks and touch the pups. This casual sleeping with people stuff will leave u more empty.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/22 10:09 PM
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What a lovely story ❤️ truly beautiful
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/22 08:09 PM
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It happens quite often that people have different level of sexual needs and I think its not bad to give in. However its worth exploring what really brings you to be in the mood. Men can often get in the mood by literally anything while women are wired differently. If you find out what brings you in the mood even when you werent in the mood, and you are able to communicate that to your partner thats great. It can be anything, making out, touching certain body parts like thighs, or massage really …
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/22 09:40 AM
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I took pills for years and years and i felt safe until a point where i got really sick of the idea of taking hormones into my body. Since then condoms only. I also learnt that becoming pregnant isnt that duper simple
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/22 10:15 AM
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He might truly know what he wants in life and how imagines his future partner but he definitely doesnt know you after 2 dates and some weeks od online chat. Sure, future goals, political views its great that you have talked about these. But he has no idea how you are as a friend, how you are with his and your parents, financials, savings, temper etc. This is love bombing. He probably really wants to settle and needs someone. Not at all healthy.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/22 01:34 PM
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The world is FULL of awesome kind loving people. You are super young!!!
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/22 11:13 AM
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He has cheated on you when you have only been together a year??
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/22 11:12 AM
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Just because he asks how you feel about marriage doesnt mean his intentions are good either. I am not saying his intentions are bad, but please do NOT put equation between wanting marriage and being good. You have boundaries you need to decide how strict you are with them and how much you want to compromise. Can he respect your boundaries? If not can you maybe change your boundaries? Is he worth maybe having a little compromise or not?
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/22 08:08 PM
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She sounds a little bit akward. Maybe she just wants to fit in or really wants to be your friend and therefore acts this way?
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/22 02:39 PM
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It depends a lot on why your count is as it is. Did you date all of them and under dating i mean you were exclusive and official and all? You could be dating people for 6-7-8 months being exclusive being introduced to parents and all and still not make it to marriage. So by the time you are 25-26-27 your count can be anything around 10. To me in that sense body count doesnt matter.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/22 11:27 AM
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For me its care and being sensitive. Caring for family is feminine to me. Calling parents and grandparenrs on regular basis and visiting regularly is care and femininity. Being kind in general is very feminine to me. When you are open to strangers or people in the supermarket.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 11:20 AM
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What do you mean invested heavily in my looks? Im genuinely interested.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/22 08:59 AM
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Happy to hear! And great that you have a man by your side who truly is strong and provides for you and masculine enough so you can be your best feminine self. 😊Thats an important aspect of being able to become more feminine.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/22 10:50 AM
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Think of it this way: was there any potential man in your life that you would have wanted to start a family with and they would have wanted too? A situation / relationship where you said no, I dont want to move forward in this relationship cuz of my career. If not then there is no real scenario to be regretful about. Then its just life and how it happened for you. Many women who are not career focused dont get children before 33-35 either because they havent found a partner, or even if they did …
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/22 07:35 AM
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