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| 2 | So she cheated, and left me right when I got back from deployment.No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert A. Glover. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/26 11:02 AM |
| 2 | So she cheated, and left me right when I got back from deployment.The book was recommended to me on this thread. Please read it. I was also used by my ex and finally read this book after the divorce. I think that had I read it prior, it would’ve made me stronger. Less of a doormat. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/26 10:52 AM |
| 2 | So she cheated, and left me right when I got back from deployment.Bro, get a lawyer and start protecting your assets ASAP. It’s obvious she’s using you to bankroll her life when you’re deployed. I guarantee you that your wife’s boyfriend has been in your house. Secondly, please read: no more Mr. nice guy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/26 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Before you swipe right, know the new rule: Women aren't just Googling you anymore. Your ex is your new background check.Wow. It’s very well possible that the same thing happened to me since they’re from the same city. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/06/26 01:55 AM |
| 2 | Before you swipe right, know the new rule: Women aren't just Googling you anymore. Your ex is your new background check.Wow. How messy these people can be. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/26 06:08 PM |
| 3 | Before you swipe right, know the new rule: Women aren't just Googling you anymore. Your ex is your new background check.Well said. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/26 02:59 PM |
| 3 | Before you swipe right, know the new rule: Women aren't just Googling you anymore. Your ex is your new background check.Well said my friend. You hit the nail on all issues. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/26 10:27 PM |
| 12 | Before you swipe right, know the new rule: Women aren't just Googling you anymore. Your ex is your new background check.You successfully put most of my thoughts in writings. Quality over quantity, any day. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/26 10:25 PM |
| 6 | Before you swipe right, know the new rule: Women aren't just Googling you anymore. Your ex is your new background check.Yes. I’m just a few months new into dating. I might go back to my hibernation. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/26 09:51 PM |
| 6 | Before you swipe right, know the new rule: Women aren't just Googling you anymore. Your ex is your new background check.🤣🙏 | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/26 09:49 PM |
| 6 | Before you swipe right, know the new rule: Women aren't just Googling you anymore. Your ex is your new background check.Yes sir! | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/26 08:39 PM |
| 5 | Before you swipe right, know the new rule: Women aren't just Googling you anymore. Your ex is your new background check.Bro. Sadly, my interest is dwindling with every new experience | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/26 08:31 PM |
| 3 | Before you swipe right, know the new rule: Women aren't just Googling you anymore. Your ex is your new background check.These folks are foul. I submitted an opt out request to get my name the F off of it. This is a bad look for even prospective employers. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/26 08:27 PM |
| 3 | Before you swipe right, know the new rule: Women aren't just Googling you anymore. Your ex is your new background check.Dude, I’ll edit the post to remove the website name. Did you register? | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/26 08:24 PM |
| 0 | Before you swipe right, know the new rule: Women aren't just Googling you anymore. Your ex is your new background check.Ever heard of a phone number look up? | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/26 08:23 PM |
| 3 | Before you swipe right, know the new rule: Women aren't just Googling you anymore. Your ex is your new background check.I don’t understand. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/26 08:20 PM |
| 15 | Before you swipe right, know the new rule: Women aren't just Googling you anymore. Your ex is your new background check.They hate us more. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/26 08:11 PM |
| 4 | Before you swipe right, know the new rule: Women aren't just Googling you anymore. Your ex is your new background check.I fully Agreed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/26 08:04 PM |
| 3 | Before you swipe right, know the new rule: Women aren't just Googling you anymore. Your ex is your new background check.Agreed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/26 08:03 PM |
| 6 | Before you swipe right, know the new rule: Women aren't just Googling you anymore. Your ex is your new background check.Agreed. It’s just scary how I thought so highly of her after the first two dates. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/26 07:52 PM |
| 3 | Before you swipe right, know the new rule: Women aren't just Googling you anymore. Your ex is your new background check.Honestly, I couldn’t care less about her last name. Nor do I care what anyone else thinks about her. She gave me her last name when she asked me for mine. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/26 07:51 PM |
| 4 | Before you swipe right, know the new rule: Women aren't just Googling you anymore. Your ex is your new background check.Agreed. But the moral of the story is that, this has become the new norm. The second they are able to, they are digging for dirt. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/26 07:48 PM |
| 4 | Before you swipe right, know the new rule: Women aren't just Googling you anymore. Your ex is your new background check.Agreed. I can’t even imagine the type of mess she would put me in if it was a serious long-term relationship. But I assure you that it’s not only her. I learned about the Facebook thing from other girls. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/26 07:45 PM |
| 0 | Before you swipe right, know the new rule: Women aren't just Googling you anymore. Your ex is your new background check.F no. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/26 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Going to a birthday dinner for someone from our wedding partySorry bro | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/04/26 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Paying for DatesKudos if she pays. I need to be better there because I dislike confrontation. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Paying for DatesBut you pay and she uses you. No bueno. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Paying for DatesAny advice in places? | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/26 09:44 PM |
| 2 | Paying for DatesShe is a penny digger. Period. What guy wouldn’t go out with a girl if she paid all the meals. Not going 50-50 is this a time bomb for a money grabbed divorce in the future | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/26 09:41 PM |
| 3 | Kind of Mentally and Emotionally StuckDon’t be hard on yourself. Naïvety was my down downfall too. We were raised to make the world a better place. We never knew that there were people out there that wanted to conciscously damage other people. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/04/26 02:41 AM |
| 1 | I don't want my ex, but I'm finding I'm almost terrified of loving and being loved again.I can relate. I lost confidence in myself to make a sound decision. I made the worst decision of my life marrying my ex. Now, I’m stuck because I can’t afford to trust myself anymore. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/04/26 06:44 AM |
| 2 | Kind of Mentally and Emotionally StuckI hear you mate. I lost trust in myself to make the correct decision in anything in life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/04/26 06:37 AM |
| 3 | Kind of Mentally and Emotionally StuckSadly, I think that’s exactly what it is. Mine upgraded her life quality because of me. It was just a financial transaction for her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/04/26 06:36 AM |
| 2 | Kind of Mentally and Emotionally StuckI can relate. Although I have never missed her since she stepped out, the consequences of her actions have left a serious dent in my life. I am feeling stuck. My paradigm shifted because I never knew people could be this evil. It’s contaminated other parts of my life. I am afraid of people. Honestly, I don’t if I can ever trust my judgment of people ever again. Because of that, I’ve lost trust in myself in everything. I’m trying to rebuild myself. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/04/26 06:26 AM |
| 6 | can we vent about our exs?Ditto | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/04/26 06:18 AM |
| 5 | Just got home ~1230 and made my way upstairs ~1250There is no celebration in the ending of a love story. Only you know what path needs to be done for the greater good. I’m sorry y’all are going through this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/04/26 06:16 AM |
| 3 | Hyper sexuality??Best answer. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/02/26 02:46 AM |
| 5 | Hyper sexuality??Same. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/02/26 02:44 AM |
| 13 | CaughtShame her to friends and family before she lies | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/01/26 04:50 PM |
| 8 | “Are we Dating the Same Guy?” Facebook GroupsSomeone should bring a lawsuit to any chic that violates someone’s privacy, image and likenesses. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/26 01:16 AM |
| 6 | Every now and then you get a good little reminderHa lol this reminds me of my old life And also of this video here https://www.reddit.com/r/overlanding/s/YgfXzMcsHy | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/01/26 03:37 AM |
| 4 | Wife just moved outImagine if you guys were not on good terms and she wanted half of everything you’ve ever worked for. Now, look at your situation and be happy you’re dodging a bullet. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/01/26 03:33 AM |
| 11 | Wife ulterior motiveShe already has a lawyer, and she is already plotting for an exit plan. Herr friends and her family are fully aware about it and they are all against you. Get yourself an attorney now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/01/26 03:18 AM |
| 3 | The hardest truths of divorceThis is my story as well. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/01/26 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Final divorce papers have been signed by the judge, but ex is asking to visit the house since I need to buy her out within a year.Cheers 🍻 | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/12/25 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Final divorce papers have been signed by the judge, but ex is asking to visit the house since I need to buy her out within a year.She did that the first week she got a lawyer. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/12/25 10:10 PM |
| 2 | Final divorce papers have been signed by the judge, but ex is asking to visit the house since I need to buy her out within a year.We already agreed on the price and we do not have any kids. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/12/25 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Final divorce papers have been signed by the judge, but ex is asking to visit the house since I need to buy her out within a year.Username checks out. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/12/25 07:57 PM |
| 3 | Final divorce papers have been signed by the judge, but ex is asking to visit the house since I need to buy her out within a year.Thank you. Amen to that brother. She’s trying to micromanage me, even after stealing equity of what she never worked for. Here is what the MSA says. She moved out 4 months ago. “Husband Retaining Exclusive Use and Possession of Marital Home. The parties agree that Wife shall vacate the Marital Home within thirty (30) days o f the date o f this Agreement. Commencing when Wife vacates the Marital Home, Husband shall be solely responsible fo r all costs associated with the Marital Home, including b… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/12/25 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Final divorce papers have been signed by the judge, but ex is asking to visit the house since I need to buy her out within a year.Let her kick rocks it is! | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/12/25 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Final divorce papers have been signed by the judge, but ex is asking to visit the house since I need to buy her out within a year.She might think I bought a new car because about your mind left his scar with me for the next month. I wouldn’t m know how she knows. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/12/25 01:07 PM |
| 2 | Final divorce papers have been signed by the judge, but ex is asking to visit the house since I need to buy her out within a year.She committed fraud for the past five years by staying married so she could steal my investment in the house. So yes, I can’t send her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/12/25 01:04 PM |
| 2 | Final divorce papers have been signed by the judge, but ex is asking to visit the house since I need to buy her out within a year.Thank you brother. She’s been out of the house for four months and the only time I get this level of stress is when she tries to communicate with me | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/12/25 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Final divorce papers have been signed by the judge, but ex is asking to visit the house since I need to buy her out within a year.She moved out 4 months ago. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/12/25 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Final divorce papers have been signed by the judge, but ex is asking to visit the house since I need to buy her out within a year.Thank you. That’s what logic and common sense would equally state. Here is what the MSA says: “Husband Retaining Exclusive Use and Possession of Marital Home. The parties agree that Wife shall vacate the Marital Home within thirty (30) days o f the date o f this Agreement. Commencing when Wife vacates the Marital Home, Husband shall be solely responsible fo r all costs associated with the Marital Home, including but not limited to the monthly cost o f the mortgage, the utility bills, the upkeep … | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/12/25 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Final divorce papers have been signed by the judge, but ex is asking to visit the house since I need to buy her out within a year.Her name is on the deed | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/12/25 03:42 AM |
| 1 | My thoughts on Walk Away WivesYour comment was actually more helpful than hurtful. I think you shouldn’t have deleted it because it could have helped someone else to understand themselves better. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/11/25 09:44 AM |
| -1 | My thoughts on Walk Away WivesWell said mate. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/11/25 09:25 AM |
| 1 | My thoughts on Walk Away WivesIt hurts, but you are right in my case. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/11/25 09:21 AM |
| 9 | My thoughts on Walk Away WivesGoodness! You broke down my divorce without speaking to me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/11/25 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Does this mean I am officially divorced? Or do I need to wait for more paperwork?It has the judge’s signature. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/11/25 06:35 PM |
| 14 | I caught my wife cheating and will divorce her in maybe a year, but have to pretend I don't suspect a thing.Sorry to hear. But you are thinking well. Please checkmate this bitch. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/11/25 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Is the day of the uncontested divorce hearing the official date of legally being divorced?Hallelujah. I am one step closer to the end. She put all these things in motion a few years ago, and I am completely drained of this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/11/25 09:10 AM |
| 4 | I'm Struggling.Bro, consider yourself blessed. The only reason why she didn’t leave you earlier when she cheated, OR why she’s leaving now in Peace is because you’re not legally married. Best believe that if she was legally entitled to your house, she’d put up a greedy fight for half of it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/11/25 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Post divorce, do you guys go dutch on 1sr dates?Because they care for the ambiance, not the substance. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/11/25 04:42 AM |
| 5 | Post divorce, do you guys go dutch on 1sr dates?Your logic is a circular shooting squad. No human being’s time is more important than the other. Period. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/11/25 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Post divorce, do you guys go dutch on 1sr dates?You know what, I fully agree with you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/11/25 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Post divorce, do you guys go dutch on 1sr dates?I hope you’re right. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/11/25 04:34 PM |
| 3 | Post divorce, do you guys go dutch on 1sr dates?Thing is. Like another user posted, I’m not sure she’s the prize. I think we are the prize. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/11/25 04:20 PM |
| 3 | Post divorce, do you guys go dutch on 1sr dates?Big credit to her. It also allows both of you to go out to the best spots in town at an expected price. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/11/25 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Post divorce, do you guys go dutch on 1sr dates?Check my new comment above. Let me know wha you think. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/11/25 01:51 PM |
| 4 | Post divorce, do you guys go dutch on 1sr dates?This is the best comment of the year. Thank you. To provide more details, I vetted this gal from online to FaceTiming with her. We spoke for 2 weeks. She told me about her divorce. I told her about mine. When she mentioned she wanted ed me to plan a date, I came back with dutch on the next call. She changed her tune and declined to meet. I’m proud of myself for being courageous enough to bring it up prior to meeting. Also, I’m relieved to see the truth before any real world steps were taken. She… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/11/25 01:38 PM |
| 2 | Post divorce, do you guys go dutch on 1sr dates?Agreed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/11/25 01:32 PM |
| 2 | Post divorce, do you guys go dutch on 1sr dates?But why do we get surprised when they try to take us to the cleaners in a few years. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/11/25 01:32 PM |
| 4 | Post divorce, do you guys go dutch on 1sr dates?Thanks. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/11/25 04:25 AM |
| 2 | Post divorce, do you guys go dutch on 1sr dates?lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/11/25 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Post divorce, do you guys go dutch on 1sr dates?How about if second date is dinner? | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/11/25 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Post divorce, do you guys go dutch on 1sr dates?This is reasonable | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/11/25 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Post divorce, do you guys go dutch on 1sr dates?So does that mean that you pay for the career chicks? | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/11/25 04:06 AM |
| 5 | I'm at the hate stage for her nowIt won’t be the last phase. Sadly. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/10/25 08:35 PM |
| 2 | Studies on co parenting outcomes?You are a good dad. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/10/25 11:03 AM |
| 2 | Honest questions regarding all your ex wivesSame thing here. She never gave us a real chance | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/10/25 04:14 AM |
| 3 | Can't have a relationshipI get you. I have no kids, but she never gave me a reason. Just sabotaged the entire thing. I too am struggling thinking about ever being intimidate with another woman. Maybe time will heal us. But for now, I feel complete and safe in my island. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/10/25 04:12 AM |
| 1 | What I realized - healthy relationshipsSame here | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/10/25 02:13 PM |
| -1 | What I realized - healthy relationshipsWhy are you on here? | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/10/25 02:12 PM |
| 5 | How to stop ruminating4 months is short. I’ve been separated 2 years and just now feeling better. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/10/25 02:03 PM |
| 5 | My divorce story- maybe someone can relateFrom the stories I heard on here, most of us were screwed by our exs. Sadly, in your case, it seems you sorta of fucked up. She stayed with you through thick and thin. In the end, we are all human, and all fuck up. So I have empathy for those that end up looking at the mirror. She has the right not to forgive you, but I would recommend you let her know you regret your actions and still love her. Even if nothing happens, it will both help you have closure. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/10/25 09:17 AM |
| 3 | I also fucked up the last four years of my lifeIt takes strength to see your role. Lately, I’ve been seeing how flawed I am myself. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/10/25 01:13 AM |
| 1 | How did you guys develop any appetite for intimacy after the divorce? I’m afraid that my thoughts of perpetual celibacy may be unhealthy.Thank you 🤝 | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/10/25 12:42 AM |
| 1 | How did you guys develop any appetite for intimacy after the divorce? I’m afraid that my thoughts of perpetual celibacy may be unhealthy.Very well said my man. I am indeed a whole and complete. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/10/25 10:36 PM |
| 5 | How did you guys develop any appetite for intimacy after the divorce? I’m afraid that my thoughts of perpetual celibacy may be unhealthy.This was very helpful and perfectly put. We only have one life to live, and it’s time to trust myself this chapter onwards. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/10/25 03:29 AM |
| 2 | Divorce Woman Effects on Married WomenSame thing happened to me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/09/25 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Wife ComparisonEver recommend someone to get divorced. That should be their choice. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/09/25 03:08 AM |
| 2 | Did you or your partner/ex change attitudes when one suggested divorce or were served papers?She sabotaged our marriage then got mad at me for remaining nice. She needed me to be a bad guy to fuel her intentions. As I gradually began to no longer be. Mr Nice guy, she was delighted to continue forward. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/09/25 11:59 AM |
| 1 | First big treat to yourself?I’m in deep debt and my credit score is feeling the pain. Won’t be able to dig myself out until at least one year after this.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/09/25 11:50 AM |
| 2 | Challenge Postup | CC BalanceHow about you live up to what you agreed to when you signed the postnuptial? | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/09/25 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Book recommendationsBought | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/25 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Silver lining was that I have become more courageous in life. How has the divorce affected your character?🤔 true | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/25 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Book recommendationsWho is the author? | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/25 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Book suggestionsWho is the author of this book? | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/25 04:00 PM |
| 2 | Silver lining was that I have become more courageous in life. How has the divorce affected your character?Insane how the dots connect. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/09/25 10:34 AM |
| 2 | Silver lining was that I have become more courageous in life. How has the divorce affected your character?Nice. You got me wondering if my adhd lead me to forgiving and forgetting the red flags with STBX. It was after I started taking medication that I was able to stick to the topic and not let her deflect anymore. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/09/25 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Silver lining was that I have become more courageous in life. How has the divorce affected your character?😹 | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/25 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Silver lining was that I have become more courageous in life. How has the divorce affected your character?Ascended approval is exactly how I feel. In what ways does it feel empty? | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/25 06:50 AM |
| 3 | Silver lining was that I have become more courageous in life. How has the divorce affected your character?Sorry. That was a typo. I just fixed it. I meant I have none, but can only imagine your pain. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/25 06:48 AM |
| 4 | Silver lining was that I have become more courageous in life. How has the divorce affected your character?Sorry brother. I have NONE so can only imagine the pain. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/25 05:22 AM |
| 4 | Silver lining was that I have become more courageous in life. How has the divorce affected your character?Very sorry to hear brother. I love you right back. We are all rooting for you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/25 05:22 AM |
| 4 | Silver lining was that I have become more courageous in life. How has the divorce affected your character?Thanks you brother. That is encouraging. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/25 05:19 AM |
| 3 | Silver lining was that I have become more courageous in life. How has the divorce affected your character?Interesting brother. How do you feel about that new power? Is it strength or weakness? | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/25 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Be careful. In laws are aware of their daughter’s intent to profit of ill gotten gains at the expanse of husbands.🙈🙊🙉 | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/09/25 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Be careful. In laws are aware of their daughter’s intent to profit of ill gotten gains at the expanse of husbands.This absolutely is what I need to focus on. Thank you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/09/25 12:48 PM |
| 2 | Be careful. In laws are aware of their daughter’s intent to profit of ill gotten gains at the expanse of husbands.Best comment yet. So true. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/09/25 07:43 AM |
| 4 | Be careful. In laws are aware of their daughter’s intent to profit of ill gotten gains at the expanse of husbands.That’s exactly what I’m realizing too late. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/09/25 04:13 AM |
| 7 | Be careful. In laws are aware of their daughter’s intent to profit of ill gotten gains at the expanse of husbands.My parents would at least speak truth to me if I was being evil. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/09/25 03:33 AM |
| 1 | She played me like a fiddle. She was playing chess all along while I was I was wearing my heart on my sleeve.No lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/08/25 10:20 PM |
| 2 | She played me like a fiddle. She was playing chess all along while I was I was wearing my heart on my sleeve.Mine also has an echo chamber powered by divorce bf, mother and others. She gossiped so much about me that sometimes she’ll talk to me in the third person as if I’m not present. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/08/25 01:02 PM |
| 2 | She played me like a fiddle. She was playing chess all along while I was I was wearing my heart on my sleeve.Unbelievable! Where do they even get these ideas? Through this process, I feel as if there is a secret playbook they choose to use that leads to the same recipe: damaged individuals, burned bridges and greed. We are fighting the same demon possessing our wifes. Instead of choosing the path less traveled, they love the beaten path. Sadly, they end up dragging us with them. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/08/25 06:58 AM |
| 3 | She played me like a fiddle. She was playing chess all along while I was I was wearing my heart on my sleeve.You are right. I was foolish. I was an idiot. I blame myself. I was working during the day and she had time to take off of work. She architected: I let my desire to please her do things I didn’t want to do. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/08/25 09:47 PM |
| 5 | She played me like a fiddle. She was playing chess all along while I was I was wearing my heart on my sleeve.❤️ | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/08/25 12:29 PM |
| 7 | She played me like a fiddle. She was playing chess all along while I was I was wearing my heart on my sleeve.Powerful theological words my man. Those are on point. Based on that, I’ll give those 2 books a try. I’m due for an upgrade in software by un-programming myself. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/08/25 05:43 AM |
| 1 | She played me like a fiddle. She was playing chess all along while I was I was wearing my heart on my sleeve.What do you mean about begging? | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/08/25 05:39 AM |
| 2 | Divorce survivor guiltHow old are you? How did the assets division work out for you? | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/08/25 03:32 AM |
| 2 | Finally GTFONo one is perfect. So obviously, both parties always deserve accountability to wherever their roads lead them. However, she cheated on you. Don’t forget that even the Bible crosses the line there. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/07/25 02:05 AM |
| 1 | FaithWell said regarding free will. We have free will to be saints or devils. Wisdom and grace can help us make the right choice. Or stay away from the bad choices. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/07/25 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Finally GTFOI have empathy for you brother. Spouses that leave their partners in a worse mental condition than before they met deserve hell. It’s always been a principle of mind to not intentionally hurt people. Unfortunately, these past 2 years have thought me that I am unique in this philosophy. My stbx has been prepping for divorce for 5 years so she could gain house equity. The ultimately betrayal almost made me loose my job because my PTSD was leaking at work. For the first time in my life, I was feeli… | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/07/25 12:55 AM |
| 7 | What’s the Point of Secrecy When She’s Already Said She Wants a Divorce?Same is happening to me. The love of greed has taken over her. The advice from her attorney is milking you both. My theory is that she is prolonging shit to capitalize more on your earning power. Example: if you are the highest earner, 6 months worth of more income to split beats 3 months etc… Like others have said, trying to understand is a waste of valuable time. I wasted 2 years trying to understand the writings on the wall just to end up at the same place with serious betrayal trauma pain. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/07/25 12:39 PM |
| 6 | What’s the Point of Secrecy When She’s Already Said She Wants a Divorce?Double this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/07/25 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone developed social anxiety and paranoia in regards to your spouse’s betrayal?Very sorry to hear. I can sympathize. Ultimately, it’s OK if they want to divorce. But to purposely damage a human being in the process is inhumane. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/06/25 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone developed social anxiety and paranoia in regards to your spouse’s betrayal?Still in that mode. Any time I’ll wake up at night is because my mind wondered towards thinking of divorce. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/06/25 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone developed social anxiety and paranoia in regards to your spouse’s betrayal?Can you share a little bit about your experience with paranoia? | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/06/25 01:13 PM |
| 2 | Best books for post-divorce advice for men?Thank you. ❤️ Last verse hits home: “You have taken from me friend and neighbor— darkness is my closest friend.” | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/25 09:53 PM |
| 4 | Best books for post-divorce advice for men?Both can be true. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/25 07:12 PM |
| 6 | Best books for post-divorce advice for men?The book of Psalms is currently helping me. Psalm 59 is an example. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/25 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Stock market Loss, she filed for DivorceWhat stock was it? | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/05/25 04:45 AM |
| 5 | The modern divorce process appears very broken and unfair for the 21st century. What action items can we do to court law makers to add this to their agendas?Where do I sign up? | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/03/25 03:12 AM |
| 1 | I’ve turned my heart into stoneSerious Question. Would you have felt better if you had wasted all your money on attorneys. That way you wouldn’t feel as used as now? | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/24 12:46 PM |
| 3 | If she wants to take half of his hard earned income, what’s his motivation not to let it all burn in attorney fees? Asking for a friend.Can you elaborate? Is 50/50 your definition of happy cheat code? | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/24 10:09 AM |
| 1 | If she wants to take half of his hard earned income, what’s his motivation not to let it all burn in attorney fees? Asking for a friend.50/50 for one. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/24 10:08 AM |
| 4 | If she wants to take half of his hard earned income, what’s his motivation not to let it all burn in attorney fees? Asking for a friend.Tell me more. How did you go about it? | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/24 03:14 AM |
| 1 | We had the talk tonight. When I started talking about asset division, the first thing she said was she’s not talking about that topic until she speaks to a lawyer.I wish someone told me this before getting married. Maybe a prenup would have been signed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/04/24 04:22 PM |
| 5 | We had the talk tonight. When I started talking about asset division, the first thing she said was she’s not talking about that topic until she speaks to a lawyer.I was waiting for later this week. But we got into a verbal argument where she asked me: “do you want to be married to me” I figured it was now or never. And proceeded to letting her know that her actions for the past six months show she didn’t want to be married to me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/04/24 03:47 AM |
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