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Oh I missed that bit. But while everything is open to interpretation you certainly can aim to give different impressions to different people and judge your audience and tailor your performance. In fact it's pretty standard, most people do it unconsciously anyway. Still it's a thing that's maybe ok if you had established yourself well. I can see it working. Although being somewhere as seedy as a hooters and it being one of the staff it probably doesn't count.
/r/seduction25/11/12 05:08 PM
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It's one of those things where it's certainly possible to come off as a complete douche, but with the write tone of voice, smaile and glint in your eye it's a joke and fun. Women in general don't like douches (the ones that do are probably better to avoid) but so many men confuse confidence with arrogance, cocky playfulnesss with douchebaggery etc etc. It also means they fail to distinguish between them when they try to use them which is a mistake. This is in general, as in the principles. no id…
/r/seduction25/11/12 04:02 PM
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I've tended to read nice (in this context) as passive/sycophantic and usually cowardly and unable to make the move they want. I actually think all the complaints so many women make about nice guys tm miss the point. The point is they are usually passive and afraid not manipulative (the people that are are very few), that's just post hoc reasoning because it's easier to accept someone is a manipulator than was a kind of ok coward when they upset you. The video is great.
/r/seduction03/11/12 12:53 AM
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I wouldn't. If she wants out and an excuse to bail on that guy then she wants out and you are helping her. I wouldn't have been confrontational but I wouldn't see any reason to tell him anything but something along the lines of 'So? She isn't interested in you and she wants to dance with me, I'm not going to change her mind nor are you' It's astonishing how many women put up with absolute shit on dancefloors and sont tell the people to fuck off, don't just leave and hope friends etc come rescue …
/r/seduction01/11/12 12:27 AM
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It will depend on how bad your teeth are but not as much of a thing as you think. It may be if you say have no front teeth at all except one and look like a stereotypical one toothed gold prospector. You have to realise the modern beauty ideal of teeth of pure white and straight is a peculiarly north american Hollywood one and one that is very recent and one most people don't notice/care about except the person with the teeth. It's just another thing people use to prey on insecurities. How much …
/r/seduction28/10/12 05:02 PM
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The one thing that does make a big difference IMO is luckily the one thing you can do something about and that is body fat %. I've lost and regained weight and generally my weight has not been stable I've seen the attention women give me etc come and go with that more than anything else. It isn't a you simply are more confident when thinner thing and something else about you, it is a more women will consider you as a sexual partner more readily (particularly in the immediate) when of a sensible …
/r/seduction28/10/12 04:37 PM
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You see I think in fashion context is key. If everyone, or at least enough people, are doing it then it becomes fine (sometimes it doesn't as some minor fashions/subcultures never look good outside of their specific group) if they aren't you might be a trend setter but you probably aren't. You see other people wearing them well then fine because they've become part of the landscape. The thing is people don't wear hats much anymore, let alone formal hats. You stick out like a sore thumb in a very…
/r/seduction22/10/12 01:29 AM
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Second episode aired this week, it is back and better than ever so far. There are also these 'Howard FM' webisodes on the website going alongside each episode that are clips from Howard's 3-5am student radio show that are also well worth a watch.
/r/seduction22/10/12 01:28 AM
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The horror! The horror!
/r/seduction22/10/12 12:07 AM
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Fake it till you make it is good advice for some people as what they see as faking is what making it is and sometimes the line is fine or there is no distinction. However for people who have no tact and no ability to judge a situation it doesnt mean simply being persistent at a bad strategy.
/r/seduction21/10/12 08:58 PM
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FFS. Q. When, should I wear a fedora A.. Are you going in full dress to a 40s theme night? If no, never. There is a brilliant comedy/drama about a group of students called Fresh Meat created by thewriters of Peep Show where this kind of person is being mocked. It's recently started its second series and one of the main characters (after having slept with his housemate, been rejected for her turns out not ex boyfriend) and has reinvented his look, started wearing a almost fedora style hat, dressi…
/r/seduction21/10/12 08:54 PM
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but you need some very specific context. Middle-aged-eldery italian man wearing a fedora with the right clothing you can see. Most other people, even younger people, not so much. It's like boaters, you need to get to about 40 and start dressing in a certain way before they become a good look (and with them you'll ideally be painfully upper middle class and sound like village vicar in the 40s from the home counties)
/r/seduction21/10/12 08:34 PM
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I've been watching Cuckoo, Andy Samberg's character (Cuckoo) is really alpha in it but in a very not traditional hippy way (played up for comic effect) it's worth a look. He's a man comfortable in himself and confident and outspoken.
/r/seduction11/10/12 05:01 PM
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it's forever a phrase associated with also 'nice and easy Trig, nice and easy' in my mind.
/r/seduction10/10/12 12:36 AM
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This really works. There are a very small percentage of women who actually don't like muscles but this isnt many and far more say they don't but actually do. I did weight loss from loss of fat on near pure body weight stuff which meant i didnt really have noticeable muscles, there is little bodyweight work for shoulders and they are key muscles for appearance. Then I took out running, added in a bb squat, deadlift, bench and press routine and weekly sprints, bulked up a whole bunch and suddenly …
/r/seduction05/10/12 10:35 PM
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I usually expect people who say hi and stop me in the street to be begging, or begging on behalf of charities (I hate chuggers).
/r/seduction05/10/12 09:40 PM
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I get the impression from his post and his general attitude in the post and the reactions he said he was being creepy/intrusive/whatever basically and possibly that he has a knack for rubbing people up the wrong way. If this is the case (and I'd bet money it is considering things like the girl clearly desperate to get away from him who runs off when he speaks to someone else for a few seconds and ignores him when he sees her again) he needs to learn from this or he wont improve and repeating it …
/r/seduction16/09/12 09:21 PM
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That thing that made the front page about the drunk driver being hugged earlier today made me look up drink driving death rates in the US and holy crap they are bad. Do Americans not get taxis and minicabs? Is the OP's attitude common? Cause the OP is a prick if he drove that night or thinks he can drive at any point the same day as drinking a significant amount, depending on his size and tolerance etc even the next morning he might have been over the limit.
/r/seduction16/09/12 09:05 PM
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Did one show off your body and one not? In my (soon to return) skinnier days where there was mainly muscle not excess flab and muscle I noticed that seeing a more clear outline of your body was important while hiding the flab is more important if you have a bit of extra weight baggy clothing will do neither. I stopped wearing almost every top I had that wasnt basically skin tight, added a bunch of stuff like wide necked henley shirts to show off my chest and shoulders (becausethey looked good an…
/r/seduction12/09/12 12:59 PM
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Pisses me off something so stupid, psuedoscientific and factually wrong as well as nastily sexist like this has so many upvotes. This is exactly what people hate and mock seddit for, it's a like it's caricature yet people here have upvoted.
/r/seduction09/09/12 06:15 PM
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It depresses me this has as many upvotes as it does. What are people who upvoting it thinking? It's not only wrong it casts the community in a bad light. What have you got here? Casual sexism, check Psuedoscience (and ignoring the fact most evolutionary psychologists, an often scientifically controversial subject particularly as it is understood and portrayed in popular culture, I reckon would probably feel insulted by this bullshit claiming to be their actual science and at how it is wrong), ch…
/r/seduction09/09/12 06:12 PM
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but the message is incorrect, over simplified nonsense that gives seddit and the like a bad name and doesnt actually help anyone. approach quickly, dont be a wuss or fawn on her and first impressions count are the only things in that worth paying any attention to, but you can read the side bar and get all that in much better form and not wrapped up in bullshit psuedoscience and casual (although I get the impression with him it is simply outright) sexism.
/r/seduction09/09/12 06:11 PM
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Best advice (and how I lost my virginity, as I discovered once I get over that initial hurdle of making it obvious I'm hitting on her and she is receptive I relax and I'm pretty good with girls) IMO is get someone to go with you. They have to be willing to push you into doing what you want to but wont on your own. My friend once literally pushed me into a girl on a dance floor because he noticed we'd been making eyes at each other but I wasnt approaching. Find someone who is willing to help push…
/r/seduction05/09/12 11:02 PM
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But if you get panic attacks, isn't that a case where professionals should be involved? As that is not everyday shyness or approach anxiety.
/r/seduction05/09/12 10:56 PM
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After one can comfortably do that, I feel its just a natural progression to dating/intimacy. A dangerous mistake to make. This assumption frustrated me for a long time. I got (still get a bit tbh) AA but it's only ever been when I've gone to speak with the intent to hit on a girl. I've always been able to shut that down and talk away and charm by knowing I wont hit on a girl and speak to girls I was completely into easily,knowing I wouldn't escalate. Looking back I see so many missed opportuniti…
/r/seduction05/09/12 10:45 PM
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No, loads don't get the hints and loads will use any little hook to hold onto hope and keep pestering people. You say 'Sorry I'm not really interested in you in that way' (and this occasionally happens to men as well and you should be equally as clear) and maybe some other platitudes but it has to be clear. Someone saying I'm busy is taken by some people to mean 'I will simply have to ask her when she is not busy'. If you want to shut someone down do it properly.
/r/seduction02/09/12 01:49 PM
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It's that or ebola.
/r/seduction30/08/12 06:50 PM
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Relevant Big Train staring sketch
/r/seduction28/08/12 12:58 PM
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I don't even listen to Radio One but even I know Scott Mills does the flirt divert http://www.bbc.co.uk/radio1/scottmills/flirtdivert.shtml It is 07770 774 914
/r/seduction28/08/12 11:35 AM
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It's just a shame when their friends are complete dicks and there is nothing you can do. An ex's gay flatmate hated me with a passion before I'd ever said a word to him. I pulled her when she was slightly apart from her group of friends and when she pointed to her group of friends to say where she was going to be I just saw him staring disapprovingly, I ended up getting very used to that stare. Despite all my efforts then and other times I never could do anything to make him not hate me let alon…
/r/seduction28/08/12 12:33 AM
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Also if you are getting rat-arsed at a bar you have enough money for a date not that you need any. Why not just delay the date and go drinking with her to somewhere later opening after she finishes her shift? (aka the classic after work date for someone working at a bar).
/r/seduction26/08/12 09:43 PM
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The Game is really odd. By far the most popular on this topic but it is an account not a guide and it really isnt that useful beyond inspiration particularly as it is pure old style set routines and so on not natural/inner game stuff and also isnt actually a guide. As you point out, it's a warning, someone who took it too far and couldnt get what he actually wanted as a result (IIRC).
/r/seduction26/08/12 09:38 PM
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No one is entitled to anything when it comes to personal relations, that is not the attitude to have and a word I've never really seen here for good reason as entitlement is both the absolute wrong way to think about something and entitlement is a deeply unattractive personal quality. Everyone (pretty much) deserves happiness and relationships as broad general concepts and so on but no one is entitled to it and specifically you don't deserve or are entitled to specific people. You have to earn i…
/r/seduction26/08/12 07:56 PM
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You are so correct, emotional isolation and virginity are underrated.
/r/seduction26/08/12 07:51 PM
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Or the other circumstance being it was a date and she decides to completely shut it down.
/r/seduction26/08/12 07:48 PM
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well r/mfa if you are a particularly poor dresser. At mfa they tend to be very samey and boring. Good for getting people with no clue up to speed but not everyone needs to look like a middle class middle aged dad.
/r/seduction14/08/12 11:36 AM
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I assume he means they are top and tail, facing each other but heads by each other's feet.
/r/seduction15/07/12 09:09 PM
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You forget, he is David Duchovney and his character looks like him, his character is both famous and witty. I can envisage someone being famous, witty and handsome with the attitude his character has and getting a lot of women quite easily. Maybe not to the degree he does in the show (I've only watched the first series) but certainly without great difficulty.
/r/seduction13/07/12 04:39 PM
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He probably didn't do it to her face...
/r/seduction11/07/12 12:03 PM
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I never found it difficult, but I didnt do right after lifting and also did martial arts and was very flexible at the time. Good for certain things, could do without all the bullshit though and just get down to the exercising.
/r/seduction10/07/12 08:57 PM
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I think that could make too great an impact on your choices in life if you ended up setting those boundaries incorrectly. Certainly I agree with the idea you afford all people some basic respects and rights unless they do something to you you should disrespect them. However although where people set those lines about what disrespect entails will be different, and I wouldn't necessarily set them there. I simply don't believe that you are the one that is being disrespectful, it is the person who i…
/r/seduction04/07/12 12:07 AM
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I don't know I'm ambivalent on that one, if she is hitting on you I kind of think it is ok. You are not the one cheating she is (this works equally for either gender), you aren't causing her to cheat. I can't say it is right but I cant say it is wrong. Now if you know the person who is being cheated on that is a different matter.
/r/seduction03/07/12 06:19 PM
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I've gone that long before (be it sex or masturbation) and after so long (before which you get horny really easily etc) it absolutely kills your sex drive and not having that desire to have sex can be problematic when you want to meet women etc. I've read this is a common response to not having any sexual contact.
/r/seduction02/07/12 01:18 PM
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Whether porn is bad is arguable, still you are right masturbation isn't the issue. If you stop masturbating or having regular sexual contact for a while it can absolutely kill your desire to have sex. I expect in this community that is not a great thing.
/r/seduction02/07/12 01:10 PM
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Oh we drink them as well. We have a massive (and thankfully back from the brink 20 years ago and booming now) real ale, beer, stout and cider culture and getting live cask drinks is very easy and a lot of places do them. However that is more casual drinking in a pub. You tend to get decent live cask beers/ciders/stouts in pubs not bars and on a night out those drinks also tend to sit heavy on the stomach and make you feel a bit bloaty so larger, fizzy ciders, spirits/shots, alcopops etc all are …
/r/seduction27/06/12 11:13 PM
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it's tough in those environments finding a well-rounded woman. Bullshit You might be going to the wrong places or approaching the wrong women but as pretty much everyone in their 20s (I'm assuming you are this age) goes drinking at least in bars and most at some point or another to clubs, you see pretty much everyone there. Even non-drinkers.
/r/seduction27/06/12 03:50 PM
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Exactly, I really hate it when peopole say there is a difference between women who go to bars/clubs and women who volunteer or do hobbies or what not. That is total bullshit. If you are 18-30/35, pretty much everyone goes out drinking and it is one of the primary social locations for people. The people that go to bars etc are the ones who do everything else. If you go to places that attract a different type of person than you want you might not be in luck, but that is your fault for going to the…
/r/seduction27/06/12 03:47 PM
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Not passing comment on the content I'm not too hot on the title, it sounds like the text from a dodgy banner ad.
/r/seduction25/06/12 09:12 PM
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You'd think even with reddit's relative unpopularity over here there would be one in London
/r/seduction25/06/12 03:44 PM
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This was all way befroe I found out about seddit etc. I had serious oneitis for this one girl for getting on a year and a half, I started hanging out with new people and she was friends with these poeple when I met her she was in a relationship (and I was fat), we became friends. She ended her relationship, I was still absolutely crazy about her, I lost a lot of weight (probably in the hope she would change her mind, ironically actually becoming trim and getting an athletic body wouldn't have ma…
/r/seduction10/06/12 08:15 PM
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That's not what I mean though. I think drugs/lying/emotional or physical violence etc etc aren't exactly what /r/seduction recommends. There are ways to manipulate people but without lying etc if you meet a girl in a bar you'd find it hard to manipulate them into bed. You need to actually have some sort of hold over someone to manipulate them. Unless you count the 'fake it till you make it' attitude as inherently manipulative which i have seen as an attitude instead of just a facade of confidenc…
/r/seduction07/06/12 08:29 PM
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Nice point.
/r/seduction07/06/12 08:07 PM
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I hate the whole idea that it is seen as manipulation, if you don't lie etc it isn't manipulation it is simply persuasion. It reduces the agency of the woman in the process making her out to be some poor little thing who has been manipulated rather than an adult who has chosen to have sex etc. Loads of men and women with a negative view of this stuff will cry manipulation etc but I've never once managed to find someone who can back it up and either link to somewhere where manipulation is recomme…
/r/seduction07/06/12 06:52 PM
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Exactly, I cannot think of a girl (or guy for that matter) I know who doesn't at least occasionally go to a bar/pub/club, to judge them on it is fucking stupid. They are one of main places for social interaction among friends (and strangers).
/r/seduction27/05/12 08:49 PM
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I'm guessing because it is direct, funny, confident and very overtly sexual. I'm definitely going to remember that one.
/r/seduction26/05/12 10:27 PM
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Not necessarily while that is most like the the most common situation the I dont get hit on does apply sometimes. A good friend of mine and an easy 8 probably 9 just simply did not get hit on at all regularly let alone all the time. She then ended a near 2 year dry streak with basically the first person to hit on her properly who she didnt really like and by any measure really not good enough for her. I actually put this partly down to her social interactions in bars etc, it was a pretty small u…
/r/seduction24/05/12 04:09 PM
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It actually looks like from the sentence she meant actually in a bad way. However if it is bad for her isnt bad for him and other women. She could potentially genuinely not like confident men or the feeling of being led forward.
/r/seduction24/05/12 03:24 PM
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Basically I eat in an 8h period between 2 and 10. Then fast for 16hs. Basically eating properly was probably (paleo style so moderate- low carb with a lot of veg) the main driver of my weight loss but fasting really helped control my appetite. I cant really tell if the fasting alone helped beyond the eating as I changed them both at the same time. I think probably at least a bit it did. Basically my results have been significant weight loss combined with muscle growth and strength gains. Not the…
/r/seduction14/05/12 01:42 AM
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Purely out of interest as it is likely to be very subjective but what do you mean by good shoes? Shoes are one of those things that I pay near no attention to in others and just dont think about my own ones much either. It's stereotypical but it seems to be one of those things women care far more about than men. How do you feel about unassuming plain black or grey canvas plimsolls like this? That is all I basically wear when going out, proper shoes of any sort I just hate wearing with a passion.…
/r/seduction13/05/12 05:20 PM
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I remember also hating clubs when I was younger and fatter. But after losing weight to 10% body fat and gaining some muscle mass, it all turned around. Girls started to approach me in clubs and pick-ups became very easy. You are right there. I have yo-yoed in my weight (grew up fat, lost weight, put some back on, losing it again) over the years and can confirm when you have a low bf% and have muscle going to a club is just a completely different experience that going when overweight or even just…
/r/seduction12/05/12 10:42 PM
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From numerous things I've read about it the science says it is no better than any other form of eating pattern. Some studies have even shown better calorie restriction in 3 solid meals a day but nothing like conclusive but bascially over all they both are about equal and yeah it is all down to calories and macronutrient intake. All it does is help people regulate their hunger and reduce calories. It works for some but a lot of people (like me) it just makes constantly hungry all day and never sa…
/r/seduction12/05/12 10:27 PM
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try r/leangains. IF works really well for weight loss (has helped me loads I sort of do Leangains ish but dont follow the macros and normally eat less carbs) and leangains is a variety of that aimed at getting those with a low enough bodyfat down while not losing much muscle. The results people have got have been crazy good. Also that's just where you are going to lose it last and that last bits of flab are by far the hardest.
/r/seduction12/05/12 10:15 PM
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I go to a lot of gigs but I hate gigs for approaching people, everyone there tends to be in groups/cliques and approaching groups is just incredibly tough for me. If you see someone else who has come alone that is a different thing.
/r/seduction12/05/12 10:02 PM
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At uni there was a local club/bar thing which was the absolute IDEAL place to pull women. Half was a bar with plenty of seats and standing room even a pool table and importantly no music apart from a bit that made it through the walls from the other half which was a club ish dance floor room with music and dancing. Open till 4 and cheap so lots of people went to to as their final stop (another advantage in a town where everybody hops from one pub to another) so it was always busy and you got a t…
/r/seduction12/05/12 09:57 PM
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Almost the exact same experience. I lost weight when I was 22 before then maybe one girl wanted to sleep with me and i didn't realise and fucked it up cause i was overweight and scared of all the same bullshit. The weight came off and getting women wasnt nearly as hard, even if I was still an AFC and terrified of women I genuinely liked. Then lost it at 22 to a girl i pulled in a club who i probably wouldnt go for now but who was nice enough and was like oh that isnt a big deal. Also basic compe…
/r/seduction28/04/12 08:55 PM
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The industry (in the UK anyway) know about this and do it a lot and there are chains of bars basically dedicated to this idea (at least in the evenings), particularly ones popular with students and the like. It makes it annoying because probably most of the places where there isnt loud noise on fri/sat are pubs that are in no way conducive to pick up being all tables and the wrong demographics (for my age group at least).
/r/seduction27/04/12 09:54 PM
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In my uni town there was a bar called The Bay (now sadly closed by the brewery that owned it due to the image it had) which was the perfect pick up bar. Or near enough. Open till 4 every day it was half club style dance floor in one room with loud music and dancing and half bar where you could easily speak without shouting in the other room. It was the best of both worlds and phenomenal for pulling. Why there arent more places like that is beyond me. The only one very similar to I've been to is …
/r/seduction27/04/12 09:50 PM
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He said he did, why mention it if not? The whole point of the post is wondering what to do cause he clearly did set boundaries, she just chose to ignore them. Also it is often unrealistic and unnecessary to set boundaries of any potential future relationship before hooking up in all cases.
/r/seduction27/04/12 09:39 PM
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They both agreed it was nothing series and couldnt go anywhere. He couldn't have predicted such a reaction. All I saw and he could have seen (before the text part, he cant see into the future) was two people having no-strings attached fun together because they both wanted to. I do have to ask... You do actually realise women are rational people in charge of what they do and can actually want casual sex as well and this isnt uncommon right?
/r/seduction27/04/12 09:34 PM
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I've always had anxiety issues approaching/making my intentions clear women I'm interested in. I've come to seddit recently, before that I got some advice from friends. A lot of the advice I've been given by a couple of close female friends (the more self aware, comfortable with their own sexuality and not ashamed of having sex type) of mine who gave better advice than anyone else on attracting and pulling girls I'd heard before. I basically followed it and was more successful. Looking back what…
/r/seduction27/04/12 09:26 PM
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I think it very much depends, some are good but most arent. I've plenty of female friends but only 2 I'd listen to about advice on other women (who have both in the past given me very seddit like answers to questions) because they know themselves and what they actually want and will respond to etc well enough.
/r/seduction18/04/12 01:44 PM
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That is good. Also it is basically summing up seddit but really importantly (for some people anyway, particularly those with a really negative view of seddit etc) doing it in such a way that he doesn't mention any of the lingo/short hand or seduction/PUAs etc. Probably wont help those who don't want help but can help those who want it but have a strong aversion to seddit etc because of their preconceived notions that are made worse (and they think confirmed) by the language that has grown up aro…
/r/seduction08/04/12 06:59 PM
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thing thing is tofutofu's actual post wasnt a direct recruitment 'we will help you' kind of post, he was simply asking for FA experiences of seddit and how the side bar could be improved for users who might come to seddit for help. He was actually asking for people that had already sought out seddit. He got all of about 3 proper answers and the rest was just abuse utterly unrelated to the actual question.
/r/seduction08/04/12 06:37 PM
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There's more than one way to do this, it's just finding what works best for you. exactly. One thing I think all the people who hate on seddit really hate (or rather use to judge without actually looking at it) are the short hand terms. That seems to send people over the edge.
/r/seduction08/04/12 06:32 PM
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I commented on that post, shouldnt have done, got into a pointless argument with a few white knights, got called 'manipulative' and a rapist. The point that women can perfectly rationally chose who they sleep with themselves seemingly was lost to a bunch of them, as was the idea that women dont tend to spontaneously chose who they like and randomly ask for sex, you usually have to talk to them. If you actually think about the consequences of that manipulative statement loads of them bandied abou…
/r/seduction08/04/12 06:06 PM
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Definitely, I wish I'd had this advice a year or two ago. Looking back I know I've ruined my chances with at least 2 girls in the past by doing exactly this. They were really into me at first, I'd got past AA (my other big problem, although in one case it was cause she asked me), I know they liked me, my conversation was pretty good, even a bit flirty, I just didn't do kino and didnt physically escalate. That successfully killed any attraction stone dead and ended up getting lets be friends resp…
/r/seduction08/04/12 01:37 AM
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A few years ago I had this done to me by a mate. I had (and still have, am working on it) massive AA and my mate saw me exchanging a glance with a girl and basically pushed me into her and said this is hhmmmm and it went pretty well. I just wish I still lived by him, he was the best wingman. This was I assume before the show, or before it became well known in the uk at least)
/r/seduction06/04/12 12:13 AM
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No, there has been good academic studies showing how it simply doesnt work, also the underlying principles it was based on are psuedo-scientific nonsense and long since debunked. Even done correctly people will get different scores depending on the mood they are in when they take it.
/r/seduction28/03/12 03:37 PM
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thank you for posting about asos. I was told about this site a few weeks ago by someone and have been racking my brains about what it was called ever since.
/r/seduction26/03/12 01:04 AM
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I like to think it is pretty rare where I come from as well however I imagine most younger women will tell us we are absolutely wrong about that.
/r/seduction25/03/12 08:42 PM
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It's also apparently not just hard but utter shit as well. From what I've been told (and one reason why I'll never do it despite it being one of the few abundent grad opporunities out there) you get a lot of people who just burn out doing it and give up after a year or two.
/r/seduction25/03/12 07:44 PM
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What I'd like to know is what goes on when you get good friends who hook up and start going out and they havent changed before it happens etc. I know it happens quite a bit although I imagine it rarely happens to the people with unrequited love rather than simply previously platonic friends. Actually saying that I'm actually pretty sure than answer is going to mainly be alcohol fueled sex that when sober forces a reconsideration of the other person on both sides.
/r/seduction18/03/12 06:29 PM
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Definitely, I now realise I ruined my chances with one girl I rather liked (who asked me out) because when we went out on a few dates I simply didnt get physical, didnt escalate due to being slightly nervous and even though we got on really well she went off me as a romantic prospect only was interested in being a friend. I look back and slap my head, although that is true of most of much of what I have done in the past and probably will do in the future (I'm trying to learn, my body and non-rat…
/r/seduction18/03/12 06:19 PM
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