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| 1 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existI think the idea of the post itself is stupid. I don't know what op want. And yes women who complain are going to fuckbois or men above them. What op need to do is just quit dating. I myself have been pushed out of dating because I was considered unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existThis post itself is stupid. Okay I dated a fat woman (that's just an example, I love fat women) and after she lost weight and gained confidence went hooking up with men on dating apps. What I said indirectly don't you ever go for far women because if all women are crap at least go for the attractive ones at least they may or may not cheat. I don't know what sorts of power and ego op and most women here have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existYou are right. Being shitty personality person has nothing to do with being unattractive as comments and post claims, like they are waiting to finally get their chances to cheat. As unattractive man if I get a partner I would actually stick to my partner who accepted me and choose me where everyone else rejected me 😔. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existTranslation: never date a guy you are his first relationship. Go for the one with a resume. That's ridiculous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Telling women they need to select undesirable men to avoid being cheated on doesn't work because prostitutes existMaybe he is just a shitty person not to blame unattractive men for that. Not all unattractive men including myself are loser with no jobs and law education | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/24 07:28 PM |
| 2 | What would addressing structural inequality in dating actually look like?Maybe that's India. What about Islamic countries? I don't think that would change even in the next hundred years. Simply because majority men and women follow the rules of the religion willingly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 03:49 PM |
| -1 | What would addressing structural inequality in dating actually look like?Hahaha literally the middle east do that lol. But then why everyone shit on that culture if they got it right from the beginning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 03:09 PM |
| 1 | What would addressing structural inequality in dating actually look like?In the middle east and conservative countries no one use online dating. People pair with the available choices around them. That's why you never see ugly men struggling in the middle east if they have their shit together | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 03:00 PM |
| 1 | What do people who date/marry out of their league do?They will be concerned but I will be able to convince them ofcourse. But the biggest problem is to find that partner if you are average looking with limited social circle then you can end up alone forever as dating apps won't work for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 03:18 PM |
| 5 | What do people who date/marry out of their league do?Btw if he wasn't living abroad and didn't have high education which indicates that he can have better future she would not consider him at all. Girls in the third world countries they focus more on status. In the middle east I never saw a case of someone got rejected because he is ugly or short or fat. You only get rejected if you are poor. One of the reasons I got here in the west to get master's in engineering and I work in a truck manufacturing company here as engineer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 11:22 AM |
| 5 | What do people who date/marry out of their league do?Yes of course it's personal choice no woman I know of was forced actually my sister got an arranged marriage the difference is the dating channel was though the family. But my point was the main focus on the choosing criteria was status and how accomplished the guy is, not like here where the main focus is on sexual attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 10:44 AM |
| 10 | What do people who date/marry out of their league do?In those countries also the middle east (my home country) majority of women choose status. Tbh I have a higher chance to get a very beautiful woman back home by using my status than waiting here to have someone fall in love with me. I will give it extra 2 years to see | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 07:12 AM |
| – | Women accept being alone better than menOfcourse not majority of the world is not the west. Beside even in the west not all women do that because some are in relationships or single and don't want sex but there are many who are single and sexually active several FWB and that new thing of she is a dating couples I also witnessed that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 02:31 PM |
| – | Women accept being alone better than menI had a friend she and her group of friends all of them have that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 02:28 PM |
| – | Women accept being alone better than menYes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 02:26 PM |
| – | Women accept being alone better than menMostly have FWB that they meet each couple of weeks. And I have witness this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 01:27 PM |
| – | Women accept being alone better than menYes I agree with you majority of women they say they are single but they are very sexually active, so they simply take advantage of dating apps. because dating apps give huge power to women. But also there are some unfortunate or even by choice single and celibate like op. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 01:04 PM |
| 1 | If personality is so important, why wont women fall for their male friends more?But the idea that looks alone can get you a relationship but personality still maybe this is the reality of the modern Western world. Those women don't even deny it they even make it worse by saying "no looks can only get you hookup but not a relationship" how to be with a woman knowing she wouldn't considered you in her fun phase. I thank God for creating not belong to that culture and I thank God for making our women away from that influence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 11:51 AM |
| 1 | If personality is so important, why wont women fall for their male friends more?I feel like in western culture average and below average men are doomed there is no hope if you fall out, even if you improve and acquire things that make up for your looks how to know she is not setting down, and finishing last still not winning you just came late to the party and you have no options you just won not because you improve yourself but because the other person lowers her standards and start to prioritize other things.I think myself I am lucky to be honest I live in the west but I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 11:44 AM |
| 1 | If personality is so important, why wont women fall for their male friends more?What I believe if a man is hot enough the woman would let him break all the roles and she would not care about that the brother shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 10:29 AM |
| 1 | If personality is so important, why wont women fall for their male friends more?That is the truth tbh. Looks is way more important it will definitely secure you a relationship but personality only maybe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 10:09 AM |
| 1 | If personality is so important, why wont women fall for their male friends more?Finishing last still not winning. How a man in his 30s just had his first relationship is winning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 10:03 AM |
| 1 | If personality is so important, why wont women fall for their male friends more?So basically men get a call later in life not because they did self improvement but because the other one lowered her standards (settling down) or looking for other traits. That actually sad reality for dating in the modern world. If you are ugly unsuccessful you always like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 10:00 AM |
| 2 | Do people not date based on their romantic feelings?Why you think those never dated in the first place and can you blame them for not believing in love if they didn't find it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 08:25 PM |
| 2 | women seriously dating men to whom they arent attracted? where?it feels like it is a curse to be average bob | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 05:27 PM |
| 1 | women seriously dating men to whom they arent attracted? where?so what average men should do accept the sad reality and continue living like monks? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 05:14 PM |
| 2 | If a guy truly wants a healthy, romantic relationship, he wouldn’t be jealous of assholes that pumps and dumps and/or stay in toxic relationships.But still those guys get girls fo understand the frustration | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 12:40 AM |
| 1 | How do I not grow resentful of my better looking more sexually successful friends?But the thing is those men who aren't good as you say and don't respect women still getting attention from women and they get into relationships. While good unattractive men fail or they get freindzoned and someone like never had relationship despite trying to have a relationship. Being attractive is the best gift someone can have. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/02/24 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Idk how to not be bitter that I will never be desired in the same way attractive men areI took an oath not to leave the gym for the next 6 months | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/24 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Idk how to not be bitter that I will never be desired in the same way attractive men areThank you now those people say it is not that important if it's not why we have failed? | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/24 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Idk how to not be bitter that I will never be desired in the same way attractive men areI even said you should work to have sexual attraction being good is not enough | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/24 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Idk how to not be bitter that I will never be desired in the same way attractive men areI have no bad ideas about when did I said that. I said they choose the best partners based on sexual attraction and personality which is their right as myself want to do that | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/24 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Idk how to not be bitter that I will never be desired in the same way attractive men areWhat exactly you want me to do ? | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/24 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Idk how to not be bitter that I will never be desired in the same way attractive men areWill I wish I would find someone who wants me as I am. But imagine you try over years to put all your shit together getting a high education good job to balance the lack of looks and in the end you realize it is still not enough. Tell me what you would do if you are in my place | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/24 08:25 PM |
| 0 | Idk how to not be bitter that I will never be desired in the same way attractive men areThere are literally few comments like that not third and are you from Newcastle 😂 | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/24 08:20 PM |
| 0 | women seriously dating men to whom they arent attracted? where?Me too I don't understand this shit they fuck men who are not serious about but they take it slowly with men relationship material. How about not to have casual dating at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Idk how to not be bitter that I will never be desired in the same way attractive men areMajority of comments speak about how good looking the partner is and how much she love to touch him | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/24 08:14 PM |
| 0 | Idk how to not be bitter that I will never be desired in the same way attractive men areDepends on the timing if it happens late and she is my age definitely she is settling down. And I prefer to continue single if it happens very late actually. I will not be the man to get in his first relationship at the age of 40 | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/24 08:10 PM |
| 0 | Idk how to not be bitter that I will never be desired in the same way attractive men areI don't want participate in casual dating. What happened to me that I loved a girl who was my friend she rejected me while she went to have casual dating with someone she met online so I got my heartbroken but I said to myself no more of this shit I got tired if being second option despite having my shit together | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/24 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Idk how to not be bitter that I will never be desired in the same way attractive men areI mean best personality sorry for that 😅 | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/24 07:55 PM |
| -3 | Idk how to not be bitter that I will never be desired in the same way attractive men areThat what I said you got the most attractive man to you with the best personality 😅 which is okay | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/24 07:52 PM |
| 1 | women seriously dating men to whom they arent attracted? where?But is a hot homeless guy more desirable than a less attractive guy with his shit together? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 07:49 PM |
| 0 | women seriously dating men to whom they arent attracted? where?That's why if I stay single till 40 I am not committing to a woman in my age because big chances she is settling down and I will feel insecure to be with someone I know have way higher body count than me and may be children. That if I didn't quit dating because I prefer to stay single till the day I die rather than starting dating at 40 as it will be a statement of my defeat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 07:41 PM |
| -1 | Idk how to not be bitter that I will never be desired in the same way attractive men areDo you know how many options in the era of online dating below average women have ? He wants to find someone on his attractiveness level but the problem the other person don't want that and women nowadays because of social media they prefer to be single and have casual dating rather than commiting to a mediocre man | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/24 07:34 PM |
| -5 | Idk how to not be bitter that I will never be desired in the same way attractive men areThe most beautiful woman with personality what about this answer. Everyone want the same men or women because everyone wants high quality life. As for people who lacks the basic attractiveness try work on the personality and focus on having good body. As myself I started going to the gym lately and I am 30 I got tired of being unattractive and getting rejected and freindzoned I want to have options and pick and choose rather than convincing a woman that I am good enough and datable which I found… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/24 07:17 PM |
| -8 | Idk how to not be bitter that I will never be desired in the same way attractive men areWe both know here in the west majority of women even below average have sexual life from young age and I say major. Actually for the average partner there are two comments literally saying he is not hot but he makes me laugh which is okay also sexual attraction is part of attraction. For your last point those women majority of them are having partners form 7-9 on attractiveness scale. Op is 5 or below 5 and on that have nothing else to offer | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/24 07:10 PM |
| -2 | Idk how to not be bitter that I will never be desired in the same way attractive men areAnd in the end there is no benefit of complaining of all it take to be attractive is going to the gym and be fashionable then op should do that and elevate himself to women standards rather than complaining about women having standards which is okay every person wants to be the most beautiful partner he can get | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/24 07:05 PM |
| -5 | Idk how to not be bitter that I will never be desired in the same way attractive men areBecause those women aren't traditional women majority of them dated plenty of men so when she finds her man attractive big chance he is actually conveniently attractive. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/24 07:02 PM |
| -11 | Idk how to not be bitter that I will never be desired in the same way attractive men areI have read the comments most of them attracted because they have attractive partners according to them | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/24 06:54 PM |
| -1 | The advice women give to men here is devised to limit their chancesWhy exactly you told them to stop dating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 04:53 PM |
| – | Dating doesn’t actually have to be fairLook like you are very shallow and happy that men who are unattractive getting outside of the game instead giving solutions to make them more desirable. And btw some men look fine but they get the frustration so they think they are ugly so they stop trying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 04:25 AM |
| – | Dating doesn’t actually have to be fairSo the middle east and Muslim countries got it right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 03:40 AM |
| – | Dating doesn’t actually have to be fairSo what to do of a man is not attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 03:27 AM |
| 2 | Girls don't like me because I look like a serial k.llerActually most of serial killers where attractive and charming that how they succeeded in luring women | /r/seduction | 04/02/24 01:36 AM |
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