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I agree you have to work up in increments like touching and being closer first. However at a certain point if your still struggling to go for the kiss you just have to suck it up and do it. It may feel forced or unnatural the first few times you go for it but you'll break that cycle of being scared and also learn when it is a good time to go for it and when it isn't.
/r/seduction22/04/18 10:32 PM
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I'm having a really, really, hard time with this at the moment. I feel like a dirt bag just trying to use girls. Any tips?
/r/seduction22/04/18 10:08 PM
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I need a wingman :(
/r/seduction07/04/18 08:03 PM
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Everyone is saying not to tell her but if you choose to do it I don't see the problem. I told a girl I liked her. It worked out. If you do choose to tell her, just state your feelings and do NOT expect anything on her end. This part is important. Do not even ask her how she feels about it. Just say the statement and let her answer. If there is no answer just end it as "I'll let you take some time with that thought, I just wanted you to know". The purpose of not expecting an answer is for 2 reaso…
/r/seduction08/03/18 02:00 AM
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I had a similar problem. Start with arm, back touching and force yourself to do it. It will feel awkward but you must FORCE yourself. After a while it will become natural to you. When you start with small arm touches later things like your arm around her won't be as weird. Also as someone said touching everyone like your bros is good practice. I'm at a point now where I naturally touch people all the time in convo
/r/seduction17/09/17 08:29 PM
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I see what you're getting at. However OP addresses this by saying you have to approach hundreds of times to get good at it. For conversations, of course only your close friends will get you- especially if you're not a social person. But if you put yourself in new situations constantly you will learn how to relate with more people and become more social.
/r/seduction16/09/17 02:34 PM
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Yes I agree. I also spent time looking within and coming to terms with insecurities, and owning them.
/r/seduction11/09/17 08:39 PM
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Thanks ! Yup I can totally relate
/r/seduction11/09/17 02:40 AM
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Thanks :)
/r/seduction11/09/17 02:38 AM
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Also the goals part was huge. There's an amazing feeling of the process, seeing yousellf become good at something, then achieving the goal. If ppl compliment you it's just a bonus. Once I had more things to be proud of I felt more confident. You can really do anything if you put the work in
/r/seduction11/09/17 02:38 AM
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It was a long process. I worked hard and was hard on myself. I'd say the biggest contributors was to push myself to do the things I was afraid and uncomfortable to do. Other than putting myself out there in new social settings and meeting girls: Lots of excersicing, setting goals and attaining them, I did nofap, I read a lot of books; Models by Mark Manson was good for self development and getting girls but I also read other biographies. I think I still have to improve a lot but I've come a long…
/r/seduction11/09/17 02:24 AM
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I realized I never regretted trying and getting rejected. Almost always regret not trying. I should keep this in mind next time I'm afraid to approach.
/r/seduction10/09/17 01:18 PM
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I feel like I haven't gotten second dates because I went to far in the first. I remember reading that if you stop, rather than try to go as far as you can, she will want you even more. So by only kissing it shows that you are in control.
/r/seduction17/08/17 04:32 AM
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I like the idea about not going further than a kiss on the first date
/r/seduction13/08/17 07:03 PM
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I really like that quote
/r/seduction11/08/17 02:56 AM
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I'm glad you posted this. There are a lot of girls who still think guys have to pay for everything on dates. Good to see social norms being changed!
/r/seduction29/05/17 04:22 PM
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There's so many comments with different techniques "this is the best way". I'm happy this is the top comment. Seriously why do we overthink everything!?
/r/seduction12/03/17 10:04 PM
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