hiMyNameIsXX Archive

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2	trying not be resentful/petty toward ex Exactly. Their mother might have done terrible things to you but that is between you and the mother. When your child receives love and attention from his mother you can put yourself in your child's shoes and can try to feel happy for him. If I had the chance I would never see anybody on my ex's side ever again but it makes me feel very happy when they show love and affection towards my son.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/12/22 11:47 PM
1	trying not be resentful/petty toward ex There is no black or white on this matter I think. My therapist says the opposite. Children do not perceive facts the way adults do. But it totally depends on the subject. We have to build good role models for our kids but at the same time as a father, it is not your responsibility to build a good mother figure for your child. All you can do is being a good father for him and enable him to build a strong attachment with his mother (If mother is not refusing the child). Secure attachment with bot…	/r/Divorce_Men	29/12/22 11:42 PM