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How do we send letters? I am told that handwritten letters work best. I am not of his constituency (or the US for that matter) but I'll gladly write a brief so that US citizens can compose letters to the senator.
/r/MensRights19/01/17 11:40 PM
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While I respect his right to his choices, it saddens me that he might be seen as a role-model. It saddens me that woman 'lose' so much time and money with makeup, and I would hate for men to aquire this 'bad' habit as well. (I say 'lose' and 'bad' because of course the question is subjective). On a more serious note, I fell that we are not featuring tradicional masculinity as much as we 'should': that most men would be happier being more masculine, and that society is offering 'too many' 'femini…
/r/MensRights06/01/17 09:15 PM
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My take: write the truth, deliver nothing. Study, learn, and keep the information for people that might be open to it, rather than exposing yourself to a vindictive feminist teacher. Unless you'd fail if not for this assignment. Or you approach your teacher, ask if you can write a piece arguing that the pay gap much more complex than 'woman get less because of discrimination', and she (is it a she?) likes the idea.
/r/MensRights06/01/17 07:21 PM
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Respect can mean two things: I'll not mistreat you I'll consider your input/opinions 1 for everyone. 2 is earned.
/r/MensRights06/01/17 02:06 PM
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Or better: push the blue pills to the right direction, knowing that the only thing you can buy with your time is a lottery ticket: a 1 in 100 chance. It is still not a bad deal, if you don't overdo-it.
/r/MensRights04/01/17 11:22 PM
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There are many ways to give back to them. Signing the slave contract is only one of them. Before you do this, take a day to think about what other things you could do for your parents, and a day to talk to your father about it. Would surrogacy be ok? Would becoming a monk? Would becoming very rich? Would just visiting them often? Would helping your country/becoming a soldier? Would becoming an artist? They might say they just want you to be happy, and that is not entirely true. But surely there …
/r/MGTOW19/12/16 08:57 PM
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And their fault for hitting us over the head every time we try to mobilize
/r/MensRights19/12/16 08:21 PM
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tl;dw: Don't call on me to take the responsabilities men took on the 50's, because women were so 'empowered' that the deal no longer makes sense for men.
/r/MensRights14/12/16 05:11 PM
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:( It it the detailed version of your aeon article. The redirect seems to be temporary, though.
/r/MensRights06/12/16 03:57 PM
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Thanks for you efforts. Some might say you could have been more efficient by doing thinks differently, and that might be true. But you still were fighting the good fight. Cheers!
/r/MensRights06/12/16 03:14 PM
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Actually... The reason people say they 'just share a name' is because they compare the most severe form of female genital mutilation to the least severe form of male genital mutilation. There are procedures done by careful doctors, both for FGM and MGM. Also, there are painful rituals done in unsanitary fashion, both for FGM and MGM. There are doctors and papers studing the reduction in STDs of FGM. You might want to read: http://blog.practicalethics.ox.ac.uk/2014/02/female-genital-mutilation-an…
/r/MensRights06/12/16 03:12 PM
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Can sb please post a collection of videos of abusive woman acting absurdly? I feel that OP could use some proof that women can be assholes.
/r/MensRights07/11/16 09:59 PM
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the woman I love Love is just a felling, man. It can be right or wrong. Just like you can have an optical illusion, and your eyes show you things that are not there, you can have a 'love illusion', and see in another person something that is not there. Relax, and let go off the illusion: She is not a nice person, she does not have your back. In fact, she wants to ride in your back. You were just wrong when you looked at her and saw someone worthwhile. She wasn't. She isn't. It is time to start s…
/r/MensRights07/11/16 09:57 PM
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The kind of man that knows that, in all probability, if he had defended himself, he'd be the one in jail. And, with decent probability, if he had called the police, he'd be in jail. And, if he did nothing, would become the woman's bitch.] What are you going to do? Ask the person hitting you nicely, and hope that she listens? You were in a very hard situation, and did what you could to get out.
/r/MensRights07/11/16 09:43 PM
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The main point is: dog>girlfriend Dogs are much better, in every way: maintenance, love and affection, loyalty. Now, maybe nothing>dog. Different question.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 03:32 AM
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Is there such a thing as fostering dogs? Or do you mean kids?
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 03:18 AM
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You should have agreed to a date with her, on her place of choice and at her time of choice. And then stood her up. (when does the anger phase ends again?)
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 12:27 AM
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Do you know for a fact the ACLU ever helped a Men's Rights group in free speech or equal rights? I'd be pleasantly surprised!
/r/MensRights17/10/16 05:31 PM
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Dont sell. Just say fuck off :P (I am partially kidding. There are things for which it does not work, bu many things for which is does!)
/r/MensRights16/10/16 02:36 PM
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Couldn't we just automod for a while? All comments from people who have not posted (had an upvoted post?) on Men's Rights are automatically hidden until approved. I dislike the idea in general, but, in this time, it might make the most strategic sense.
/r/MensRights11/10/16 12:12 AM
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Can the mods edit the link, change it to an archived version?
/r/MensRights05/10/16 09:20 PM
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Proof?
/r/MensRights05/10/16 09:17 PM
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Anybody but Hilary. To flee the majority-minority duality.
/r/MensRights05/10/16 09:15 PM
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It is not without problems, but you might counsel your brother to undergo a vasectomy. I am not sure if the best for him now is to leave (and pay all the child support) or to stay for 18 years (holy fuck, that is a lot). You might also seek information regarding that. As for wrongdoing, she is not being moral. I am 95% certain this is deliberate. But there is not much he can do, as far as I know. One thing would be (if you state allows it) to do a DNA test on all the children.
/r/MensRights28/09/16 09:46 PM
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improperly advised the judge regarding the law the judge? why would a judge need advice about the standard of proof? do you mean the jury? (was there one?)
/r/MensRights28/09/16 09:37 PM
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Paypal.me unfortunately works on only a small list of countries... :( https://www.paypal.me/pages/countries
/r/MensRights28/09/16 09:02 PM
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Is it ready yet? It there a link do the "coming soon" page? A way to receive email when the plataform is ready?
/r/MensRights28/09/16 08:50 PM
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How did that 'excessive leniency' complaint go? I saw a post about it the other day, but can't seem to find it back
/r/MensRights31/08/16 05:09 PM
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How can you guys tell it is photoshoped?
/r/MensRights31/08/16 05:03 PM
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Not sure about 'we fucked society'. But remember, you are not obligated to help. Help if you want, but disregard the pressure.
/r/MensRights27/08/16 04:38 PM
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In what way do you thing the man in the example given was dumb?
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 06:30 AM
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Thinking of some options. Start looking for another job Park the car there anyway (if you can find another job easily) Get friends to park old clunkers in there (no problem if towed) Sue the company (if you can find another job easily) Ask a female friend in the company (if you have any) to park your car I am sorry for the bullshit happening. Good luck
/r/MensRights24/08/16 06:23 PM
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Not sure if fair (because it might not have been the women's idea) and sure that it is not practical (escalates, giving the other side an upper hand)
/r/MensRights24/08/16 06:22 PM
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Maybe. But, statistically, doesn't the number of fatherless families correlate pretty well with the number of single parent families?
/r/MensRights22/08/16 05:34 PM
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No. But perhaps it can help a friend. Do not try to help strangers, but life is better if you try to help friends.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 02:25 AM
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The label is bad, but cannot make a good person bad by itself. One step at a time, mate
/r/MensRights08/08/16 05:26 PM
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We're not weak. Just outnumbered. I love you for this quote. I really do
/r/MensRights08/08/16 05:21 PM
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Jesus. Could you provide a source for that "arrested with knife in". That is terrible!
/r/MensRights08/08/16 05:01 PM
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maybe both?
/r/MensRights08/08/16 04:21 PM
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Thank you so much for your answers! Follow up questions: (still using the same question numbers) What do you mean by 'with a good track record'? You seem to imply that your case was not very exceptional/others did the same before you. This is very interesting! Is it the case? Sorry, I dont understand the math... Did you ask for the implantation of three zigotes, and just two stuck? Or did you try two (with 10% change of no child)
/r/MensRights23/04/16 12:05 AM
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My questions: Are you american?The legal answers might not apply to me, but I am still curious How much choice did you have with the eggs? Ideally, I'd want my children to come from a smart donor, avoid disease, and (with the risk of sounding petty) to be handsome/beautiful. If you had choice, how did it affect the price range of the eggs? Where you afraid of legal complications? What if the surrogate, or egg donor, decided later that she would like a part in the children's life? Could you be op…
/r/MensRights17/04/16 03:07 PM
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That took significantly more that 60 seconds... With the creation of an email that did not require a cellphone. (btw: yandex mail does not require a cellphone, hotmail and yahoo mail do) But it done. Reply to this comment after you do your part! At least one upvote promissed :P
/r/MensRights04/04/16 03:08 AM
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:( Shit, man. Good luck !
/r/MensRights03/04/16 08:35 PM
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found the text: http://thebackbencher.co.uk/its-not-justice-to-sentence-adam-johnson-to-6-years-but-spare-an-abusive-female-teaching-assistant/ seems reasonably well written, and very common-sensical
/r/MensRights29/03/16 12:02 PM
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Could you share your post's text?
/r/MensRights28/03/16 04:21 PM
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It is ok to be afraid. I too am afraid. We'll see. If it turns out to be a hit piece, it won't change the landscape much. If it turns out to be good, I'll have a film to give to everyone and burn a 100 DVDs.
/r/MensRights22/03/16 10:55 PM
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I do think your link is relevant to the discussion. It is an anecdote, but it is a good argument.
/r/MensRights03/03/16 11:22 PM
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As far as I can tell, this podcast tells the story of two rape investigations: one, in which the alleged victim is not believed, and one in which police find the rapist. In the end, however, it turns out that the second rapist, from the second investigation, had also raped the woman of the first investigation. There were no false claims. I have not heard the whole thing, but read a decent part of the transcript. Unless I am wrong, this is not about false rape accusations at all
/r/MensRights01/03/16 12:23 AM
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In principle, I agree. In practice, you should seek legal counsil (also.: keep documentation. That letter, if it was an email, would be documentation)
/r/MensRights29/02/16 11:42 PM
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So, an alleged victim has no recourse once a police station denies to hear their claims?
/r/MensRights26/02/16 03:35 PM
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Let's get downvoted to oblivion! Look, I am not in favour of suing false accusers that recant. I am more concerned that men and boy be free: If recanting is costly (and accusing, still not costly) I believe we'll get more innocent men and boys in jail. Now... If the accusation is independently proven to be false... Then, convicting the accuser is smart and warranted And the real solution is to stop convicting based on testimony alone
/r/MensRights25/02/16 08:53 PM
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Is the only option to give up this right in its entirety? No middle ground? No "I want two months reprieve" or any other mechanism?
/r/MensRights25/02/16 08:46 PM
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:( Maybe we could gather news articles about this case, and create a wikipedia page?
/r/MensRights25/02/16 08:03 PM
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This above is an attempt to neither "believe" nor "desbelieve" a claim about victimhood. It seems to be a better M.O. than default-believe and default-disbelieve. Default-believe, as we know, is unfair to the men that are default-believed to be rapists. Default-disbelieve risks being very unfair to a victim. Is it possible to keep a fair tone?
/r/MensRights25/02/16 07:08 PM
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You are entitled to a full, diligent investigation of your claims - just as any other person that tells the police that they have been victims of crime. I'd recommend you to seek a different police station, or perhaps the FBI
/r/MensRights25/02/16 07:04 PM
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This is very interesting! Can you find these studies (question mark currently missing from keyboard). I'd love to see them & show them around.
/r/MensRights14/02/16 04:37 AM
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Also, it is sexist because it promotes that men have an obligation to put yourself in the line to intervene. We don't
/r/MensRights14/02/16 04:27 AM
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it's not a good idea unless it's her idea can you tell me the product advertised (question mark)
/r/MensRights14/02/16 04:22 AM
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Can I sign even if not american?
/r/MensRights09/02/16 10:16 PM
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Damn, men We won. It would have been better to have no battle, but we won.
/r/MensRights22/01/16 11:40 PM
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Did not know about that one. Nice! (I assume the exotic dancer was male)
/r/MensRights22/01/16 04:39 PM
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I know there is a post already, but I prefered therebel's friendly coverage to huffington post's "lets pretend that the case was not really decided and state both side's arguments"
/r/MensRights22/01/16 04:38 PM
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Was he raped by a woman? Last I checked, another series (Law and Order, SVU) had only 3 episodes with male rape victims, and the 3 had male perpetrators
/r/MensRights22/01/16 02:51 PM
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Shit. Is the door locked securely? Keep yourself calm. If the door is secure, the situation is not that bad. You might just wish to wait it out. If you want, some people here (me included) can keep you company via skype/steam/whatever
/r/MensRights20/01/16 05:34 PM
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sure! what is best for the child is to chain a random person to the child. just get anyone, off the street, to be responsible and pay. We are not slaves! We are not to be used for anyone's interest. Not even if they are children.
/r/MensRights20/01/16 03:39 PM
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All I will say to these women who think porn is cheating is 'fuck you, I'm out' :P Unless you are locked to her by marriage, there is no need to argue.
/r/MensRights18/01/16 03:58 AM
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They are free to say no. They are even free to hang up and not talk again. But the way they did it was damn impolite, and, I presume, came from absurd beliefs about OP's responsability to know the woman was a lesbian. Again, I probably agree the feminists had a right to be impolite - just as anyone else. I just think OP's history helps me see a pattern. edit: Your edit really clarified to me what you are talking about. I agree that feelings do not make an action criminal. But to ignore sb's feel…
/r/MensRights11/01/16 01:43 PM
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I can try. If the roles were reversed, and it was a girl asking a gay man out, would the reaction seem acceptable? A halfway decent person would have explained, or asked. 'Hey, you know I am a lesbian, right? You asking me out was a bit weird'. Instead, they (not just the girl, but the group) chose to believe it was totally his responsibility to know this, and to treat him like garbage. This thought pattern is one that I see frequently with feminism: 'How dare you inconvenience me slightly'. Mak…
/r/MensRights11/01/16 01:24 PM
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And they do get legally obligated. Sometimes, even AFTER PROOF of the fraud. Many places have laws that say "if you thought the child was yours for X years, it is now yours". Or even worse: Germany and France forbid men from doing DNA tests without the aproval of the mother!
/r/MensRights28/12/15 08:54 PM
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create another account (in 2 minutes :P)
/r/MensRights28/12/15 08:49 PM
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If that is not enough for you to condemn her, you are WAY beyond "resonable doubt" as a standard for proof
/r/MensRights28/12/15 08:36 PM
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I, myself, am a bisexual male. It is not that I don't think it is important as a PSA. (I am actualy grateful for it) It just does not seem related to rights... The police are already on it. The state is doing its job, and the criminals are doing crime. Seems OT in that sense
/r/MensRights22/12/15 09:33 PM
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True. But we do need some arbitrary line, right? The alternative, giving judges power to decide, would just fuck men further
/r/MensRights20/12/15 05:31 PM
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Kay... Look, I am wrong somehow, but I don't see it yet. How is this on topic for MensRights?
/r/MensRights20/12/15 05:28 PM
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:( He totally should fire her
/r/MensRights17/12/15 04:16 PM
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If the government starts giving free tampons to women, I see no problem in demanding an equaly-valuable subsidy for men. The point is to solve the problem (groping) and, at the same time, not discriminate. Discrimination is not an option. If you need to solve groping, then you need to solve it in an equitable way.
/r/MensRights17/12/15 04:12 PM
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fuck. I don't doubt you, but could you offer some sources on that acid thing? I just need to see it for myself
/r/MensRights08/12/15 04:07 PM
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that would be bad. bad for his case, and bad for all of us, and bad for MensRights
/r/MensRights05/12/15 08:25 PM
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law is not code :P a judge might well interpret that is is a violation of title IX.
/r/MensRights05/12/15 08:23 PM
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I'd try a lawsuit first... I expect a court to defend me better than 'clicks and ads'-payed media...
/r/MensRights05/12/15 08:20 PM
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Shit, man... You might be right from a pragmatical standpoint, but a big part of our Men's Rights movement is to stop treating men as disposable, as things that it is ok to harm for the benefit of others
/r/MensRights01/12/15 09:44 PM
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The question is not if all women are like that... The question is: why is our legal system empowering the women that are?
/r/MensRights01/12/15 09:37 PM
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Damn, I love this guy. Many thanks!
/r/MensRights19/11/15 11:32 AM
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the book in pdf. (sorry, Mr Farell. It's for a good cause!) https://zhenles.files.wordpress.com/2013/03/farrell-why-men-earn-more-the-startling-truth-behind-the-pay-gap-and-what-women-can-do-about-it.pdf
/r/MensRights14/11/15 07:51 PM
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How bad would it be for you to fail? It might be nice to do the math. Would it push you back one semester? Perhaps not at all? If you can afford it, write the text. A good book (as far as I know - read another book by him, but not that one) is "why men earn more" (link:http://www.amazon.com/Why-Men-Earn-More-Startling/dp/0814472109. ) If it fits the rules, I can help proofread your text. But I am a english-as-a-second-language speaker. Perhaps someone more knowledgeable can help me with the proo…
/r/MensRights14/11/15 07:49 PM
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But seriously, this can be very contested. So it is better to arm oneself before the storm
/r/MensRights14/11/15 07:41 PM
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IANAL = I am not a lawyer. Then I got carried away by the joke... "IANAL. Are you a lawyer? He should go talk to a lawyer"
/r/MensRights14/11/15 07:40 PM
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IANAL. AYAL? HSGTTAL...
/r/MensRights14/11/15 07:39 PM
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yep, but other laws may apply: "While it is not illegal to photograph or record images in public places in almost every state, some states have eavesdropping laws that criminalize recording oral conversations without permission, which has led to arrests due to the fact that videographers don't usually make silent movies." http://www.videomaker.com/article/15619-recording-in-public-places-and-your-first-amendment-rights Perhaps he ought to talk to a lawyer before recording?
/r/MensRights14/11/15 05:59 PM
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Yes! Please: Produce a list of quotes and ask for witnesses to each quote as you get it Record if possible (check if your state, country allows it, and if the recording comes with enougth quality) Go (with backup of every info @ home) to her supervision. Or, better yet, straight to a lawyer Report results
/r/MensRights14/11/15 05:55 PM
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she cheated, she left him destitute. Neither of these was necessary
/r/MensRights10/11/15 05:15 AM
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That seems needlesly agressive, friend... But still, I would be interested to know about downsides for women...
/r/MensRights02/11/15 05:10 PM
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I am not that knowledgeable about reddit... Is there a place where we can read the reason for the deletion?
/r/MensRights02/11/15 03:45 PM
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My unbacked-by-evidence and personal observation is that many low status men find relief and sanity in the company of a dog. Advice backed by evidence: Cognitive Behavioral Therapy is the most effective kind of therapy (as far as I can tell, that is what the research says). Also, it has usually limited duration, and long lasting effects. It can be used to treat even chronic pain and so it can probably help him. Good books are available, but I'd recommend a good professional, if possible. Another…
/r/MensRights02/11/15 04:11 AM
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I may have replied to the wrong comment. :P Sorry!
/r/MensRights02/11/15 01:50 AM
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So what? If some women are behaving badly, for whatever reasons, throw them all out. I swear to god this is not sarcasm. The harm done to the women is not comparable to the harm these gays are suffering. Women will have literally 95% percent of the bars still available and welcoming. What welcoming bars do gay men have?
/r/MensRights01/11/15 04:34 PM
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:( Can I invite whoever I want to my house? Then why not my bar? I think it profoundly unfair to force every place to be accepting of anyone. Because then, the places winds up losing their character. I want spaces free of women. I think they are good for men, and their existence (if they are not overwhelmingly prevalent) does no harm to women. (btw, there is an obvious analogy between this and white-only. I get it. I have way less sympathy for white-only, even though I am white. But I'd tolerate…
/r/MensRights01/11/15 04:25 PM
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"I'll leave you if you don't get pregnant." is given as an example of coercion. Really? Am I forced to maintain a childless relationship if I want children? Or can I leave, but am I disallowed to explain my leaving?
/r/MensRights21/10/15 12:37 PM
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of course you are also responsible for maintaining your edit. If you want to try, you might need to maintain the edit/watch the article so it does not get arbitrarily reversed. (But are, of course, under no obligation to do so).
/r/MensRights21/10/15 12:35 PM
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Cool work. But don't read the entire damn article in the video. It gets really boring!
/r/MensRights19/10/15 05:53 AM
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You are buying/reproducing a misandrist falacy[1]: There is a need of men so that this war may be pursued. Therefore, we take them. No. The need actually does not matter. It does not allow for the enslavement of men. Need for slaves means you lost the war, not that you get the slaves. However... There is a solution. Make an offer they can't refuse: (for example) After you return, if you return, you'll have your modest expenses payed for 15 years, and your education payed too, as you complete the…
/r/MensRights28/09/15 09:01 PM
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This! The problem is a system that allows theses injustices. We don't need to say "all women are like that", just "marriage puts you in a very frail position, avoid it"
/r/MensRights21/09/15 08:16 PM
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Got friends who ignored it? Write them. Explain that they are ignoring you and not helping you, and that they are doing so just because you are a person who happens to be male. BUt dont dwell much on the gender matter. Just say: I am sad and I needed support, I would have given it if it were you, and I am kind of pissed. See their response. You see who your friends are when you need them. No need to cut anyone off, but if they continue to ignore you, you might seek some new people to be friends …
/r/MensRights05/09/15 05:47 PM
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I don't think so. In fact, as far as reforms go, it seems perfectly benign and even handed. The worst that can be said about it is that it might be too much effort for too little benefit. (Or maybe I am wrong :P I'd love to hear an explanation of the people who oppose this)
/r/MensRights29/08/15 06:00 AM
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I am not sure what you are doing "wrong"(I don't mean morally wrong. I mean, I don't know what is up) when talking to the females at parties, but this does not seem, to me, to be the biggest problem. The biggest problem, seems, to me, that you feel lonely, and a bit depressed. 1) First and foremost: dogs. Dogs are nice. Petting a dog will probably make you feel way less lonely, in an instant. Maybe you can volunteer at an animal shelter? 2) This advice may come a bit weird, but... Look for man f…
/r/MensRights28/08/15 04:15 PM
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The picture is the worst part. I mean, there is nothing wrong with the particular stance of the man in the middle!
/r/MensRights27/08/15 05:38 AM
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selected quotes: They have even converged on the same excuse for what their enemies call “politicizing” previously neutral territory – that what their enemies call “politicizing” is actually trying to restore balance to a field the other side has already successfully politicized The social justice attitude evolved among minority groups living under the domination of a different culture, which at best wanted to ignore them and at worst actively loathed them for who they were and tried to bully th…
/r/MensRights26/08/15 08:53 PM
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Good to know! The main remaining point of the article for me is the very small evidence for which this man was convicted
/r/MensRights24/08/15 04:00 PM
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erm... you mean a cheek swab, right?
/r/MensRights21/08/15 04:48 PM
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I hope the man (and the DA) sue the hell out of the woman. But here the question is what we can change: Can we sue the paper? I mean, it exorts to violence. It says 'Come on baby, light his fire!'. It has to be a hate crime (And a DA could sue in that direction). What kind of a suit can we bring? A civil suit? Is anyone here a lawyer? What is the relevant jurisdiction? We could raise money via indiegogo or something
/r/MensRights19/08/15 02:21 AM
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So, does anyone have a record of the communications between him and the women? (the ones he send and what he received?) Because I have seen much opinion about it, but I cant form an opinion of my own yet... Dont know what he did (and what they did...)
/r/MensRights14/08/15 07:54 PM
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Just out of curiosity: How do the A-levels work? I saw a "boys got a 8% approval, girls, a 7.4 (or 7.something)" I assume it means that a certain grade guarantees entrance to university, and 8% of the boys that tryed got it. How did boys fare in absolute numbers? Did more boys get into university? Or did less boys do the exam?
/r/MensRights13/08/15 01:49 PM
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So, what was the point of the law under discussion?
/r/MensRights26/07/15 06:38 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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