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Well yeah kind of. If you take the easy and pleasurable path every opportunity you get then your life will be shit.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 09:03 PM
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Nobody deserves unconditional love. If you're a piece of shit to people why should they love you?
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 08:36 PM
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Because normal people take that information at face value.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 08:22 PM
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I see. Thank you for clarifying
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 02:44 AM
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No no no no no. No fake breakups. If you have a problem in the relationship you need to sack up and tell your girl what your problem is. Tell her what is expected. If she can't meet your expectations then you break up with her (in person. Not over the phone). No self respecting man is going to waste his time playing games like that.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 04:08 AM
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This sub is so ass backward now. Listen to yourself. You're literally advocating playing mind games and doing fake break ups to try to validate yourself in a relationship. Virtually no comments telling op to stop pussy footing around and just tell his girl what he expects going forward, but +12 up votes for telling people to handle relationships the same way a crazy teenage girl would.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 04:03 AM
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start learning how to make decisions like an adult God yes. The whole calling his fiance and threatening a breakup to get attention and validation is such a fucking cringe.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 03:53 AM
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Here's a more accurate version of that story. Op was in a shitty relationship and was unable to keep his fiance interested. Op deluded himself into thinking he was a great bf and it was clearly her who was source of all of the problems. Autismo was seeking attention and validation so he devised a "test" to see if she really cares because apparently childish mind games are the way to go. The pussy doesn't have to balls to tell his fiance it's over in person so he calls her to break up like he's 1…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 03:50 AM
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I feel like there are 4-5 guys in this sub still posting quality threads. Then the rest are just "internet Chad's" ranting about how every woman in existence is literally Hitler and if you even think about doing something nice for a female you're a beta bitch faggotron.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 11:37 AM
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Valentine's day for women is not about getting flowers or going on some fancy date or being treated like a princess. It's about being able to brag to their social circle about it. They want to be able to get dressed up and post a braggy picture on Facebook. They want their coworkers to see flowers get delivered. If you like your gf then just do it. If you don't think she's worth it then break up.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 03:04 PM
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Well it seems like it applies to you too anyway
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 02:10 PM
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It's a scientifically proven fact that intense exercise improves your mood and concentration.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 02:09 PM
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You're doing mental gymnastics justify preemptively punishing a stranger because you assume they would commit an imaginary crime if they had the opportunity. Either you're frustrated and resentful or you're a shitty person with a broken moral compas. Based on the fact that you felt compelled to take time to type up and share this weird rant and the fact that you seem to take criticism very personally I'm going to guess the former.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 12:47 AM
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No no no no no no no no no. Also no. Worst fucking game plan ever. You know who people take even less serious than those in their 20s? Those who spend the first 18 years of their adult life "finding themselves." If you don't have serious management experience and 10 years industry experience by 35 you're absolutely fucked. Get comfortable spinning your wheels in a mid level analyst position or babysitting team of a call center employees until you retire. And that's a best case scenario. Most com…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 08:02 PM
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12 years of missed opportunity. If you went to school at 18 you'd be done for almost a decade by now. You'd have more income to pump into your Startup. You wouldn't have to split time between school and your business. That's years of foregone interest income that you could have had. Even if things do work out and even if you do over come the odds and your business and up doing well that still isn't an argument in your favor. That would make your an exception.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 07:56 PM
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Which mentality? Mine or ops?
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 07:38 PM
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I don't think you owe anybody that. Don't lie and manipulate people to close the deal and you're not doing anything wrong.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 07:05 PM
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Yeah op's post reeks of frustration and resentment. I get taking the stance of "I'm not going to feel guilty about having sex. It was your choice to get in bed with me and I don't owe you a LTR." The whole post though is one big tirade to dehumanize women and explain how op thinks women are inferior so it's okay to be a shitty person. Basically one time a girl did something that made op feel like shit so now he uses that as justification for doing things he knows are shitty.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 06:55 PM
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say whatever you want (unfiltered) Not 100% sure this applies to everyone.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 04:04 PM
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"accidentally" winds up in his gfs facebook account decides to read through tons and tons of messages but it was just "curiousity." Definitely not insecure or snooping or anything. turns out she's talking with an ex has fantasies of fucking ex's bashes and shit talks him constantly including but not limited to making fun of his small penis. lies to him about how much she cares admit him decides to stay with her because she's giving him sex. rationalized his snooping and passive allowance of this…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 03:17 PM
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Yeah, this is just some dude floating through life with no plan and nothing tangible going for him so he spins it to make it look like it's really a good thing and what he wants. Spouts some nonsense about wanting to "find out what he wants out of life" and to "pursue his hobbies". His "plan" is to turn one of his interests into an internet business. Vague platitudes. No, I don't think he's ever had a real job with a real boss. I love my boss. She checks in about once a week to see how my projec…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 10:27 PM
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This mentality that it's good to spend your days dicking around and that things will magically work themselves out is such anti-trp tumblrina bullshit. Like u/villa_gotcha has literally deluded himself into thinking that he's somehow free and independent making $50 a day because he doesn't have a boss
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 03:45 PM
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I don't know of anyone making good money with a healthy bank account who goes "gee I wish I would have spent more time bartending or being a life guard." On the other side of the coin I know plenty of middle age people who are depressed as shit because they spent the 15 years after high school fucking around and now they have to work into their late 70s to have any hope of being able to retire. And to make it worse corporations aren't that interested in picking up older people and building them …
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 03:31 PM
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That's not the point. The point is to get rid of shit you don't really need or even want. Cut out impulse purchases and retrain yourself not to feel a craving for things that don't add any value.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 12:53 AM
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And your is minus 12 lol
/r/PussyPassDenied07/01/17 05:10 AM
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So that means you know that after the video cuts out the real craziness begins where 7 black girls all start whooping and trying to slap him for shoving one off of his desk.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/01/17 05:05 AM
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Was her freak out justified? "I want to go to the lake!!! Aaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!" who knows? I do. The answer is no. If you're older than 2 the general expectation is that you don't wail and throw a tantrum when you don't get your way. The fact that you think there are scenarios where that nonsense is acceptable makes me think you're probably the subject of some crazy ex stories.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/01/17 04:54 AM
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Op was pretty clear that the public appearance of happiness is what's important. He never said to bottle up and internalize your issues, but it's common sense that if you project them onto other people you're going to alienate them. Bottom line: If you act like a sad sack and mope all the time no girl going to want to be around you.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 04:35 PM
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I don't have a kid either and I've never been put through the wringer as bad as your friend so idk maybe your right and the kid just turns into a reminder. But I mean I have a cat now be because after taking care of it for a few weeks while it was sick I got attached and couldn't force myself to throw the little guy back out.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 05:40 PM
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I am 100% in agreement witth cutting off the bitch wife but how do you not bond with a child after several years? Maybe I'm not interpreting op correctly but I don't think I could just turn a switch off after several years with a kid.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 03:54 PM
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You should get a mortgage though. That's just good financial sense
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 03:37 PM
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Not to mention most of these outlets are glorified gossip blogs. These are not necessarily the opinion of the actual company it's just the opinion of some random publisher who is allowed to publish their blog there.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 06:38 PM
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I didn't care for the 48 laws of power. I feel like every chapter could be titled "put yourself first and take advantage of others when you can." Decent message overall but breaking it out into 48 laws seemed forced
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 02:22 AM
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No that's just a confused individual who probably needs to work out some stuff in therapy.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 07:52 PM
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Op is probably leaving out key details. His ex just randomly happens upon him and scoops him up into a cab. None of op's friends see or intervene. Op is so out of it that he was unable to resist. He was so helpless that he couldn't stop himself from going into her place and having sex. He had 60 seconds of lucidity where he put a condom on. Then she takes it off and op is again helpless. Op is however sober enough to get hard and orgasm. He's leaving something out of his story so it alleviates h…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 07:05 PM
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Right. Male, female, anybody- If you stumble out of a bar plastered without a trusted sober friend at your side you're just asking for trouble.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 06:51 PM
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He means muscle would not have done anything for him while he was still super fat. Like being muscular wouldn't have made him confident while it was buried under fat.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 03:04 PM
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Right? Definitely was not expecting the full keyboard warrior experience when I complimented him.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 12:31 AM
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Oh, there's more. He totally loses it a little deeper in the comments. I wrote two sentences and he replies with this wall of text calling me a douche with a baby penis. I tried being very nice and complimentary of op in multiple comments though. He flipped his lid when presented with a slight challenge.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 03:50 AM
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He says beta things sometimes but that's part of playing politics. Hillary is about as alpha and driven as a person can be but she downplays it because she has to.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 02:20 PM
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That's exactly right. You have an entire upcoming generation being conditioned to see personal ambition as greed & appropriation, and self confidence as disrespectful aggression. Desirable traits are timidity and always keeping your head down
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 02:00 PM
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Haha! Nope definitely not mad at all. More insults. More telling me how fantastic you are. This is totally normal behavior for someone who doesn't care.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 06:55 PM
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You can come back and call me names and tell me how great you are. Haha! Read that like a book. Like I said when you cool off just think about it. Bye
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 05:05 PM
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1) heavy bragging 2) extreme defensiveness 3) sarcasm 4) unhinged insults All of that despite the fact I've been very calm and frankly quite nice and complimentary of you. Every comment you're proving more and more how fragile your ego is. Take some time to cool off a bit and maybe in a week take an honest look at yourself and think if this is the temperament you want to have? All it took was one honest and polite statement from some random guy on the internet and you immediately blew your cool.…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 02:15 PM
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Sarcasm. The last refuge, right? You told me everything I need to know, bud. You explained in decent detail how you don't negotiate, work at a volume car lot, and just match people with the car they like best. It's pretty apparent that you don't handle and hits to your ego well, and you are very eager to tell people positive things about yourself. I got under your skin big time just by matching your confidence and implying I'm on the same level as you. So I'm sorry if this is a hard pill to swal…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 01:33 AM
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Look, if you've spent the brunt of your career working at a volume dealership like carmax then you don't know the industry: you know your little corner of it. Maybe that's how things work on your lot but I've been involved in more vehicle transactions than you- across all 50 states, from $5k used civics to $200k Bentlys to a $750k Keystones- and I can tell you as a matter of fact price is not set in stone at the majority of dealers- hence them being called dealerships and not retailers. Again I'…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 11:32 PM
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So yes then. You're still mad at women and in that phase where you're too good to interact with them.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 10:40 PM
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Haha! Sorry to burst your bubble, bud, but no. I worked in auto financing and I know exactly how much a vehicle is worth and what the true cost is versus the over-inflated msrp. I've also negotiated 7-8 figure contracts with my vendors so I can laugh and shoot the shit with very charming people without falling into the "him and I are friends" trap. 5 years ago I'm sure you would have taken me to the cleaners and made me feel good about it though.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 09:02 PM
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There is not much I dislike more than speaking with a salesperson, but I sincerely admire your work ethic and hustle, op. This is an excellent message that every man should take note of. You want to get ahead? Get off your ass and drive yourself forward.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 08:18 PM
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And the media. Nobody ever fact checks outlets like CNN so when they air some blowhard spouting off about the wage gap the public takes it as fact
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 07:52 PM
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It already is eating itself. not sure how familiar you are with the BBC but they have a show, top gear, that was a cash cow for for the better part of two decades. The show was basically 3 buddies (middle aged white males) chatting about cars and goofing around. It was insanely popular and was broadcast in over 200 countries and had a couple hundred million viewers per week. Then they got rid of the hosts of the show and replaced them with a diversity check list. Female, black guy etc. The shows…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 07:49 PM
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I've had three female bosses. The first was a razor sharp, cut throat, driven woman on her way to the top. She taught me tons about the importance of playing the game correctly and how to control people's perception of you to move up. The second was a buddy type of boss. Her passion was elevating other people. She busted her ass to get me more responsibilities and exposure. She ended up driving me into a big promotion. The final and current boss is an incredibly seasoned and bright person. She t…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 06:20 PM
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Still in that anger phase, eh mate?
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 06:01 PM
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Disagree. I love seeing crap like this. Thin the competition.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 05:49 PM
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It goes something like this: "If I prove how sensitive and in tune with feminism I am girls will be impressed and want to date me!"
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 05:48 PM
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Settle down. The girl in the video is a chubby drunk girl trying to push him, not an mma fighter trying to kill him.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 01:58 PM
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You don't hit people who are significantly weaker than you. That's some cowardly shit. You wouldn't beat the shit out of some pudgy little 15 year old kid, or a disabled person. If they can't harm you then fucking walk away.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 09:03 PM
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Manipulation is about being willing and able to leverage something the other party wants to serve your ends and not necessarily about being able to engaging another person in a meaningful way.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 08:35 PM
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Right. Unfortunately some people are still so angry that they're looking for confirmation of women being evil. Sure, most women are self serving and will probably take advantage of you if you give them the chance. Evil though? Op is being ridiculous.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 04:54 AM
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Yeah. This post is some pretty serious hyperbole.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 04:50 AM
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Maybe, but looks are guaranteed to fade and that woman will spend maybe 10-20% of her life reaping the benefits. Assets on the other hand accumulate. My 26 year old cute female peers are riding high today but in 10 years they will be just another middle age woman. The only thing that anyone ever valued in them fading a little more every day. The glory days will be behind them and there is nothing they can ever do to get them back. Myself, on the other hand, I'll have a paid off mortgage. I'll be…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 12:24 AM
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So no you would not be okay with it happening to you. If Jonah hill doesn't want to sit and smile and laugh along with an ambush, though, he's just being "butt-hurt." Basically you're different and should be held to a different standard. Anyone who doesn't like it is just butthurt.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 11:06 PM
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Sure, bud. I'm sure you'd be super cool with agreeing to do an interview for someone then getting blindsided and mocked on TV.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 09:19 PM
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So you'd be cool if someone constructed a ruse to publicly humiliate you because "it's just a prank, bro!"
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 08:32 PM
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I don't want to call you a white knight, but you still ARE one. I don't tell this to insult you, but to warn you. You need to kill the beta. You still have some of that in you. "Oh those poor damsels just don't know any better. How bad." Lol. I love how some people here try to win an argument by just playing the beta card. I say I pitty those women and that means I must be a beta white knight? You're conflating alpha with sociopathy. There is a very significant difference between being an alpha …
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 08:08 PM
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My opinion is that if they are not valuable enough for me to pick up the phone and call then they are not valuable enough to keep up with online. I'd use it as an address book but never to actually communicate.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 07:31 PM
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Omg that's spot on. There was this early 20s mega whale at work who was always on some stupid fad diet. One of them was the almond diet where she could eat as many as she wanted because "almonds have good fats and actually cause your body to burn fat." She would eat exclusively candied almonds. Normal or even salted wasn't enough: there had to be glazing, or chocolate, or some sugar coating. She would eat that by the lb and drink a coke zero then have a cheat meal or snack because "I've been goo…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 05:40 PM
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Imagine you were given a promotion to your dream job. Salary is 500k. You spend 10 years in that job and have an amazing life. Then one day the board says hey we are phasing you out and giving your job to that new guy. Over the next 5-10 years (10 if you're very very lucky) every paycheck will get smaller and smaller until you are working an entry level call center position for $10 an hour. Then imagine you can't ever quit or leave that position and you have to get rid of the house, car, and any…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 05:19 PM
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Yeah but they won't listen. Try to tell a young woman that her successes in life are the result of people pandering to her because she's cute, and not merit based. She will get mad and call you an ass hole then over the next couple days 10 orbiters will reinforce her and tell her she's so great and how brave she is for enduring a comment that wasn't glowing positive. I'm guessing when you see social media posts where those girls are lambasting the "haters" that's because someone recently told he…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 04:27 PM
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That's true but if a kid is fat that means someone is missing the buck somewhere. Leading up to that Saturday game the girls were allowed to over eat, and fed garbage, and I would suspect were feed more sugary treats as a reward for being out there. So you're right 'shaming' is probably not best but if something doesn't change this girl is going to have a rough life
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 04:21 PM
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Idk I think this upcoming generation has been so oversaturated with social media and technology that having normal in person interactions is impossible for a lot of them. Dating sites are an easy cop out for people like that who are afraid of face to face conversation.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 04:13 PM
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Haha! I need to remember that- I might steal that line if something similar comes up. She's a cool girl except for the fact that she is brainwashed into thinking "but I feel like" is an argument.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 04:06 PM
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It's like a cruel social experiment. You spend your entire adult life and everyone laughs at your unfunny jokes, tells you your boring stories are super interesting, and just generally tells you how amazing you are. Guys will spend hours upon hours, and 100s or even thousands of dollars for the slight chance that you will show them a little affection back. Then one day the rug gets pulled out from under you. People will start to find you unfunny, find you less interesting, and stop praising you …
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 04:25 AM
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Why would that change any time soon?
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 04:03 AM
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I tried to explain that to a friend. She's not fat but she has swallowed the blue pill and defends all of that nonsense that gets pushed. Explained its physically impossible to run a calorie deficit and not lose weight. Explained that metabolism disorders effect a very small % of the population and the vast majority of those cases that do exist are people who's bodies burn calories faster, not slower. Explained how "muh genetics" never pops up in places where food is truly scarce. I explained th…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 03:56 AM
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Being with someone who is the most temperamentally like me is where I can learn more That is my favorite line. I love when women try to be deep and use nonstatements as a cop out to shitty behavior. "I need to find myself. I need to do some soul searching. I have to learn to love myself first. I'm not the same person anymore. Etc etc." Translation: I'm about to do something inexcusably selfish and shitty, and I would like to not be held accountable.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 08:49 PM
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It's indicitive of a larger problem where feelings are quickly becoming more important than facts. I mean there are mountains of objective evidence that shows being overweight has a negative impact on physical health, mental health, costs more money, can be treated with proper diet, and people generally find fat less appealing. But that doesn't make people feel good so the response is, "nope, fat is beautiful. It's healthy to be 100 lbs overweight. It's genetic and there is nothing I can do. Any…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 08:19 PM
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Great post. I'd also add to be cautious entering a relationship with a girl who is into social media. She's going to compare you to the exaggerated fantasy lives her friends post. Social media sites like Facebook are a poison and unless you're running a business page is best to opt out completely
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 07:44 PM
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Op, I'm not saying you're wrong but it does sound like you instigated some of the negativity that was directed at you. Just make sure as you move forward that you aren't bringing some of this negativity upon yourself.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 06:08 PM
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Fair enough. Shaming was probably a poor choice of words by op
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 05:33 PM
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Maybe this is a poor analogy but I look at it like buying a car from a salesman. There are a small percentage of salesmen who are honest people who want to do right and be fair, but the majority are motivated by self interest first. The goal is to take as much as you are willing to give, and they will use manipulation and tricks to get more from you. That doesn't mean that you and the salesman can't have a mutually advantageous relationship or even a friendly one. I'll chat with them about work,…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 04:51 PM
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Being fat is not acceptable. If you don't teach a child the importance of health and self control then your kid is going to have a shitty life. There is nothing wrong with telling children that behaviors are unacceptable and being fat is the result an optional behavior. If a kid is lazy and doesn't do well on an assignment you tell them they need to buckle down and try harder because a poor grade is not okay. If they spaz out and disrupt class you tell them they need to sit and focus because mis…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 03:52 PM
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Going to catch flack but not all are bad. My grandparents were together for 49 years. They were best friends and we're happy together until their very last day together. The problem is that I would guess only 5% of women are like my grandmother and have any concept of selflessness and loyalty. So I mean it's possible to meet the right girl and have a very happy life. But it's a huuuuuge gamble
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 10:18 PM
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Courts are starting to disregard them ESPECIALLY when a kid is involved. If you want to avoid divorce rape a vasectomy is your best friend.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 10:06 PM
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It's never as simple as splitting things down the middle. It would be great if it was as easy as an arbitrator saying total assets are x- debts are y. You get half and you get half. But the worthless fucking lawyers get involved and say "well wifey needs primary custody of the kid" and because she has a vagina the court will go, "yeah that's right." Then the parasite lawyer will say since wife has no job and since we are giving her the kid she needs more than half of the assets. On top of that w…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 10:03 PM
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Fuck me. Poor guy. That seriously bums me out to hear. I'll wager the bitch had the nerve to stand up in court and claim she needs to be paid to continue her lifestyle.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 09:47 PM
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"Shit to work through." That's another canned bs line to look out for. I wish I could be of better conversation on the subject but I've never touched acid so I can't say I relate. Keep us posted though
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 12:23 AM
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Woah. This hits the nail in the head, op. I never thought about it before but I can't count the number if times I have heard a woman give some bullshit line like "I'm not the same person I was back then" then go on living the exact same life. It really hit me when you quoted her saying she was "going through her motions." The translation could be: "I know I was acting shitty. I have no excuse but I would like to not be held accountable for it."
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 09:39 PM
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I don't think so at all. If anything I think its made things easier. Now we have a generation of men (I.e. boys) who have become dependent on that layer of separation and safety to talk to women. When the average looking tinder surfers are placed in front of a woman its like watching a middle school dance: incredibly awkward. I mean, no, the average looking guy is never going to compete with the 9 and 10 chads online but if you can articulate yourself confidently in a public it's not difficult a…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 05:57 PM
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Not sure why she's being bashed. First of all she's right porn is not good for men. At all. Second so what if she made a fortune by taking her clothes off. She was pragmatic when she needed to be and once she made her money she can now speak freely. I think soda is garbage. While it may taste good going down its trash for you on so many levels and every man should avoid drinking it. Now if coke called me up and said hey we have a 7 figure job lined up for you in marketing, them I'm going to keep…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 05:21 AM
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Because it shows how someone acts when they are comfortable and don't worry about having to impress you/ win you over anymore. Women will keep their shit together in the early stages. They will hide their crazy, be more cool and relaxed, more forgiving, etc. Then once they think they have you the real personality comes out. A girl who who is rude and ungrateful toward her family will absolutely act the same way toward you sooner or later. If she gossips about how her sister or her mom is a bitch…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 06:05 PM
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That's the hardest thing to drop so don't feel bad that you're hung up on it. It's an addiction an every sense of the word. It's so easily accessible, you're hard wired to want it bad, and the dopamine flood for indulgence is several magnitudes higher than any of the other vices you listed.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 05:50 PM
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These comments are the blind leading the blind.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/16 07:31 AM
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It didn't used to be like this. It used to be focused on making yourself better and helping the perpetual friend zone doormat turn into a confident, independent, well rounded man. Now it's nonsense like this. Some bullshit thread about "omg women are so shallow." The takeaway and advice is almost always something meaningless like "be attractive."
/r/TheRedPill20/08/16 07:21 AM
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dependent on a post wall chick. Unable to leave because his entire life is tied to her being his provider. If you want to look up to that shit be my guest. The mental gymnastics are going to bite you in the ass one day though. Take our hero for example. Sooner or later his gf is going to get fed up. He's going to cheat one too many times. She's going to meet someone at work. She's going to give him the boot and he will be jobless, homeless, and lose his car. Meanwhile his provider will have move…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 04:24 PM
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That's exactly what it is. He had sex so you labeled him alpha. There is no red pill example here. There is no strategy. There is nothing to takeaway. The guy is by all accounts just another douche. He picked up chick's using tinder and then worked things out with his post wall doormat of a girlfriend. That's fucking nothing. But he had sex so the circle jerk begins. Before you guys came and ruined the sub that post would have been downvoted to zero because it's a shit example of how to be and i…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 11:28 PM
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Yeah I think I'm going to be pulling the plug too and try to find something else. I liked to come here once a week to reimmerse myself and help myself focus on not falling into bad habits. Like you said though it's mostly garbage now and is probably doing more harm than good.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 08:41 PM
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It's depressing as shit. I feel bad for any new people because they aren't going to get anything of value unless they stick to the just the sidebar. I could post a thread talking about a guy wetting his pants and then getting laid and the users here now would eat that shit right up and there would be discussions about how it's cool to pee your pants because alphas pee wherever they want.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 08:14 PM
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That's another excellent point you make. People also used to be honest and realistic with themselves about their flaws and try to fix them. Now it's like I'm talking to a bunch of 13 year olds on Xbox live. Take you for example: I make an argument about how the sub has changed for the worse and what's the response I get? "Hur dur I'll fuck your bitch hommie."
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 08:05 PM
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There are sooooooo many stickies and sidebar links that talk about the importance of bettering yourself as a man. Becoming financially dependent. Developing skills and becoming well rounded. Days long gone. Now it's a sub of semantics and relativism where anyone is alpha as long as they have sex.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 07:55 PM
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Then go find another board where people will applaud you being an unmotivated sloth. This is supposed to be about men bettering themselves.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 07:42 PM
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I had to double check after I read that to make sure I wasn't accidentally on Tumblr. That's exactly what I mean. The sidebar is plastered with links and stickied threads highlighting the importance of economic independence. The importance of mastering a skill. The importance of becoming a well rounded person. Now here we are. Relativistic hippy bull shit where most users are advocating the exact opposite. Doesn't matter if you're doing nothing with your life, or dependent on a post wall gf, or …
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 06:55 PM
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When did the sub become so full of people like you? Seriously this used to be a place where people were motivated to better themselves. Now it's filled with angsty sex obsessed people with zero other goals or ambitions.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 06:35 PM
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Wtf does that have to do with anything? I know he doesn't care. It's the same way Meghan Trainor doesn't care that I think she is a disgusting fatty. Her not caring doesn't change the fact that she is a disgusting fatty. Jesus this sub is getting so shitty lately. It used to be about men living for themselves, becoming the best person they could be, and breaking out of the cycle of sexual manipulation. Now it's filled with people like you who will applaud any pos because "He had the sex with the…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 06:28 PM
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I'm not going to argue semantics. Define alpha however you want but a real man is not dependent on his gf. Once you reach a point where you can at the drop of a hat say "we're done, grab your things and leave" you'll understand. BTW I've seen your comment history and based on your beta post history you clearly don't have the slightest clue what you're talking about. In one sub you tell people a cheating woman can be forgiven and suggested talking it out. You advised some guy who's gf threw a tan…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 04:16 PM
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Haha! Because those are the only two outcomes right? You can either be working and treated like a bitch or unemployed and treated like a king? I think you're the one who has a lot to learn. Lol
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 03:05 PM
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Look, bud if your goal in life is to settle into mediocrity and be dependent on some post wall chick then be my guest.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 02:53 PM
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Okay fine then he is a pathetic "alpha." Semantics.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 02:47 PM
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No that's acting like an undisciplined boy. He's not bettering himself or moving his life forward. He's just fucking coasting on the income of some post wall chick. It's disgusting. If he was actually doing something with his life aside from hanging out and wasn't dependent on this chick he could have upgraded a while ago. Kudos for him because he clearly has some game, but aside from that he has nothing. I have no respect for "men" who are satisfied with mediocrity because thats the easiest pat…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 02:33 PM
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But you aren't building yourself at all doing that. You're not moving forward and you're not accomplishing anything. Settling into dependency on some post wall chick isn't admirable by any standard.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 02:25 PM
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This! Why do people not understand that?
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 02:21 PM
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didn't have to ask permission for the car needed her to cosign the lease Pick one. Like another person pointed out I'm not sure why you automatically think making money automatically means being a provider. It's about not being dependent on another person and following the golden rule of always be able to walk away. Looks like I may have hit a sore spot by saying a man should be financially independent of his gf so I'll back off.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 01:43 PM
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Probably but that doesn't change the fact that he's not alpha.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 12:47 PM
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Look, little buddy if you want to put your life in the hands of your gf and have to ask her for permission when you want something then be my guest. Be a good enough little "alpha" and maybe you'll earn enough boyfriend points to get her to lease you a car just like the guy in the post.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 03:44 AM
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Yes they do. 30 year old rapidly declining woman isn't staying with him because he's "high value" she's staying because she's afraid of being alone or downgrading. Guaranteed she will drop is ass like a sack of potatoes if a better offer comes along. Also some dude who spent the last few years content with hanging out doing nothing and asking his gf for money is pretty objectively not alpha
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 03:22 AM
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So we're defining an alpha as a completely dependent perpetually jobless dude but he's dating some rapidly declining push over in her 30s so he's alpha? Sorry mate but I'll have to disagree here. This dude is a loser through and through and the take away I see is get fit and you can get away with way more shit. Her staying is more of a testament to her being a doormat than him being an alpha. Ultimately he's not in charge of his own future. She is. He can probably keep it up for a while but at t…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 02:41 AM
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Your value for woman a is tied to the value woman b gives you. If woman b wants you then woman a is going to instinctually desire you more. If woman b decides you're not sex worthy then woman a will desire you less. It's a ripple effect leading to c, d, e etc. She's going to talk with her friends about you and if she's friendzoned you do you think she's going to talk you up? Hell no. She's going to tell her friends she doesn't view you sexually. That's why being friendzoned is bad. Friendship an…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 02:07 AM
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This dude sounds like a pathetic nobody. Sure he's able to get what he wants now and she's footing the bill but she could pull the rug out from under him real quick. He's not dependent in the slightest. This is an example of a weak willed woman not an alpha male.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 01:37 AM
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Semantics. Then she's a "courageous" piece of shit.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 02:58 PM
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Ha! "Her infidelity is actually courageous." It's okay to lie cheat and steal as long as the person you are fucking over has more stuff than you before you screw them over.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 09:43 PM
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Not going to argue with you, bud. If you want to jam your head in the sand and pretend that women don't care about a man's income then be my guest. Have fun being someone's wallet with legs.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 09:20 PM
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Okay lets follow that train of logic. Girls are more likely to be dumped if they get fat. So fat women are probably just shittier people.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 09:01 PM
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Good on you, mate. Better it happened that way. You learned her true colors before things got too deep
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 08:54 PM
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Not sure what the psychology behind it is but cheaters almost always ratchet up their suspicion and jealousy after they cheat. If all of a sudden your girl is trying to snoop through your stuff and gets uncharacteristically jealous there is a good chance that's just reflecting what she's doing on the side.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 08:50 PM
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Right. If loss of income is able to cause "love" to dissolve then really anything should be on the table. "I think I can do better now so goodbye."
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 08:41 PM
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