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higherpublic/r/askTRP05/10/18 08:38 AM
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Speak in ambiguous double-speak. There's the naive interpretation of your words and the sexual interpretation. You throw her conscious / judgy mind a bone to chew on with the naive interpretation, which frees / allows / enables her subconscious mind to project the sexual one on and get turned on.
/r/seduction14/11/24 07:31 PM
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Can confirm. Really good post.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/24 02:00 AM
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Men in the West have undergone many cycles of generational brainwashing that has resulted in a self-loathing, spiritually castrated and demoralized population. It's a sort of spiritual eugenics process that has punished men at a systemic level for being men in order to filter their kind out. The result is now that most men simply have never experienced the sort of self-belief required to think, feel, and act even just as legitimate actors in Western civilization. The only exceptions are consider…
/r/MensRights06/07/24 06:32 PM
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It's because they feel like you're reducing them to their biology, which makes them feel the ick because it's perceived as dehumanizing. "Woman" (womb + human, ironically) has been branded as a non-biological descriptor (see the typical female's answer to "what is a woman?").
/r/MensRights08/06/24 10:29 PM
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Thank you. This is really valuable. One thing that occurs to me: Identity is one of those things that we all intuit, but is actually slippery. What am I asking myself / looking for when writing down my current identity? What am I not looking for? Is it my current self-image? My current actions/decisions? More? Less?
/r/TheRedPill15/04/24 07:31 PM
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Regarding feelings of inferiority: From a young age it's beaten into men that everyone's equal, it's not okay to judge, men should resent, loathe, and suppress their nature as men to make reparations for women in perpetuity. The result is becoming trapped in this feminine frame of authority by emotional manipulation. The antidote is the following truth: As a man, it is your birthright to assume authority over yourself and women. All you need to do is believe that and adopt that frame as a habit.…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/24 06:28 PM
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What a weird set of responses to this thread. A lot of anti-natalism and anti-humanist sentiment. Accusations of this being of concern mostly for racists or caucasians (really? Is that really how far your thinking goes?) Let me break it down for you: yes it absolutely is worrying. We’ve never even considered that this could be a possibility, yet we’re seeing more and more evidence. All these people are just rationalizing this away to cope. We are animals. We have always existed with the imperati…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 03:18 PM
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This is one of the paradoxes of life. The more you become somebody who works on themself, the more somebody else will work on you.
/r/seduction21/10/21 09:15 PM
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Super hot take, no idea if legit: Aside from legit homo-curiousness, probably because when first finding out about porn, teenage boys are pretty low status and almost admire the guy in the video instead of thinking about it too hard. And then stay in that habit. Kinda like “yeah if I was in this opportunity I’d do it like this dude”. Another way to put it is imagine you are really itching to go outside and skateboard, but are stuck with just skateboarding videos. It’s more satisfying watching an…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/21 09:06 PM
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This article is particularly illuminating about what is going on: https://newdiscourses.com/2020/12/psychopathy-origins-totalitarianism/ This is a good outline on the origins of the Woke: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=4JX4bsrj178
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/07/21 04:41 PM
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One reason: a good father plays an irreplaceably constructive role for any child and seeing a single man take responsibility for his child in a time where that is exceedingly rare indicates he is probably a good father. On the other hand, not all, but many single women nowadays are single because they chose to be single regardless of the detrimental effects on their newly father-less child(ren) because they didn’t have / failed to acquire the tools to overcome their struggles with the father.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 05:58 AM
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Every man knows that they can’t budge against reality after a certain point. But young men are starving for encouragement. All of us suffer when our men never realize their potential or become leaders.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 08:07 PM
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Go on his YouTube channel and start watching podcasts he does with people and look at the recent podcasts where he is the guest (Andrew Schultz, Ben Shapiro, Tim Dillon, Theo Von, Valuetainment, Jonathan Pageau, etc). Space it out, you can't possibly digest otherwise. I have to listen to some 2-3 times so don't be afraid of doing that Buy his last 2 books in print and audiobook for maximum convenience/digestibility (not trying to attract more sales, it's simply dense reading that would benefit f…
/r/askTRP04/05/21 10:47 PM
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Watch / read as much Jordan Peterson as possible. He is probably the most moral person in the West right now and will make you feel redeemable, encouraged and most of all, sane.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 08:00 PM
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Vividly imagine the girl farting.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 11:40 PM
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I think it is more of a self esteem establisher that could make someone into a narcissist if they make it their central tendency. It is generally a healthy thing to consider yourself a net positive to other people’s lives. Of course, if you take this to heart, you also have to walk the talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 01:37 AM
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I could totally understand how you could’ve ended up this way.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 08:09 PM
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Do NOT fuck with finasteride. I remember reading that it fucks up sex drive (permanently?)
/r/askTRP31/12/18 07:14 PM
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You sound like you have crushing anxiety 24/7, have zero interests outside of your seemingly monotonous and overly safe obligations, and zero ability to fathom any type of risk or spontaneity in your foreseeable future. You also sound very nihilistic and need to make it your life’s priority to get the fuck out of that vibe. Go make some friends, one by one by placing yourself in situations you’d never see yourself in. Do the most random shit. Once you’ve got those friends, spend more and more ti…
/r/askTRP02/12/18 07:42 AM
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Dude stop sounding like a hopeless piece of garbage. College is not the easiest time to get laid. The easiest time is when you’re old enough to have gathered value. Later in life women have less preoccupations and preconceptions about sex, so they give it up much easier anyways. If you keep comparing yourself to other people or the “average” you will never be happy nor progress. Grow some fucking balls and adopt some self worth.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 05:28 AM
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Yeah dude. I’m just a bit above average and after a fuck ton of sex just going through trial and error, my girl very rarely doesn’t cum. Most times she cums at least twice and squirts for me
/r/askTRP29/10/18 07:21 PM
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A lot of times girls think they are size queens but in reality they have never been fucked to a proper orgasm so they think more mass in their hole will guarantee an orgasm so they can avoid wasting their time If you are at least average and know how to fuck right, you’ll be fine If you are below average or can’t fuck nice, go for it anyways and if you fuck, well.. you fucked
/r/askTRP29/10/18 06:44 PM
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Dude don’t be a turd. I don’t know if she does or ever has. And she is not conservative, she dresses conservatively.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 10:34 PM
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Of course I’m invested. It’s been 2 years and she’s been the best girlfriend I’ve ever had. This is an LTR not a plate. Perhaps i didn’t point it out clearly enough: the potential sex party in question was way before we met. I had learned about it on our 5th date or so. I don’t even know if it was a legitimate sex party, which is what I’m going to find out tonight.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 06:37 PM
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I’ve pieced a suspicion. Going to bring it up to her later today
/r/askTRP05/10/18 05:52 PM
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The thing is, she’s not. She dresses quite conservatively all of the time. Even wears spanx under her shorts/skirts all of the time in case people ever get a peek. Never masturbates or watches porn, can’t get turned on. Listens to me about getting home early and only a few drinks if she’s out. Etc
/r/askTRP05/10/18 05:50 PM
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Thanks for the completely helpful comment. You’re right, I’m not the type to forget shit like this. Thanks for the insight on sex parties. But whether she actually had sex is only half of it for me. The fact that if it was a sex party and she willingly knew this and accompanied her friend to it. That means she accepted that she may be fucking that night - she knowingly put herself in that position. On top of that, let herself get inebriated in that sort of setting. I’m going to bring this up and…
/r/askTRP05/10/18 05:38 PM
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Not everyone has to subscribe to the extremities of TRP. You can totally put a ring on it. The only reason I find TRP useful is because of the non-PC, honest, and logical approach to relationships. But the rest of your comment is duly noted.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 05:30 PM
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I don’t know whether I do or I don’t. Ever since reading TRP I don’t trust any woman. But I also don’t feel particularly worried that she’s going to go out and cheat. She’s way too whipped for me
/r/askTRP05/10/18 05:28 PM
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She has a lot of respect for me. She can’t imagine losing me. It’s a pretty good gig. The only time she’s ever seen someone as more value was in California after we had seen each other just once. So she’s not out banging other guys. It was just that, before we were exclusive.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 05:26 PM
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If you have any semblance of hope in women, being empathic for her husband is 100% normal. After all, he’s a victim to this rotten whore who unashamedly spites their marriage without remorse. You don’t want to believe anyone, or you yourself, could find themselves in that position. From here either you drill harder on the AWALT, accept some incremental nihilism, and kill your feelings as you fuck her... or you just not fuck her and take RP with a grain of salt, like any rational person would. Be…
/r/askTRP27/09/18 12:49 PM
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TRP does not promote toxic masculinity. It defines the realities of biological differences between men and women so that men know how to act in order to be viewed favorably enough to have success with women, and in life in general. It is an underground safe space so that men can discuss how to be effective at their endeavors in life without being shackled to or being forced to prance around PC perspectives. It’s growing prominence is a response to the massive outgrowth of men who cannot be worth…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 04:05 AM
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Okay. I’d agree the concept behind SJW seems vague. At first glance it comes off as a way to mock young activists for being too involved. However, that’s not the same as it being not well defined. There’s lots of stuff on YouTube about it, and I think I summed it up pretty concisely. As for cuck, it’s pretty well defined, but the foundational concept of how it could possibly be a desirable thing for a man is a gigantic question mark across the board.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 06:22 AM
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There’s nothing “flawed” about a word. It’s all about context. It doesn’t mean anything to criticize a word, because there will always be someone using a derogatory word in a manner that is perfectly not derogatory. And they should not be held accountable simply because they said a derogatory word in a non derogatory context. That would be too close to a totalitarian-esque censorship. Instead, the context should be criticized. Obviously the exception is the N-word and the like. But that’s on a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 06:12 AM
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Wasn’t trying to derail or misconstrue. Was simply connecting the dots how I thought she was connecting them and found the flaw. Discussions inevitably expand to further concepts anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 05:53 AM
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I’m not saying anyone was offended, speaking generally My point is that it doesn’t matter if it’s useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 05:47 AM
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So basically taking controversial terms and espousing derogatory usages of them. Fine, but that could apply to any word. You can’t leap from “You call every guy with glasses a cuck” to “that’s Toxic Masculinity”. The right thing to do is to be an individual with your Offense Alarm disengaged and simply recognize that someone is being derogatory and their point of view needs to be down-regulated by all listeners such that they might as well be a child speaking nonsense to you. Blaming Masculinity…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 05:40 AM
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You need to radically try new things and intimately discover who you are as a person. Then, find something that aligns with your predisposed pleasures (not drugs, but being an entrepreneur because you are confident and an extrovert, for example) and go be the best at it. Go down the rabbit hole, because you’re predisposed to enjoy the work and can’t help it, and create value to society. Pure purpose. Women are support, never the root purpose.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 05:21 AM
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How are those words evident of Toxic Masculinity? They have no relation. One refers to a person who has been indoctrinated to view the world from an exclusively intersectional and collectivist lense and is hostile to even other, moderate points of view. And a cuck is a man who finds pleasure in witnessing his wife being dominated sexually in front of him by other men. This is radically disgusting to most men and is therefore unsurprisingly not generally accepted, much less celebrated in the same…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 04:56 AM
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How can you even get past small talk if you have no interest at all in other people? Are you 17?
/r/askTRP27/05/18 08:27 AM
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The most reliable way is how she responds to physical contact. Start very small and escalate incrementally until she no longer responds enthusiastically. If the first instance of escalation is not welcome, she is not attracted.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 06:43 AM
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I agree with you. Just my first instinct. Also, hitting women even if they are cheating whores is a good way to get locked up.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 12:59 AM
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If it was a serious LTR I'd fuck him up and if she's defending him or the act in any way I'd be hard pressed not to slap the fuck out of her too tbh
/r/askTRP09/05/18 12:14 AM
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I totally agree with you. It's repulsive. Maybe if it was a FWB that you are watching get fucked, but holy shit that would just be awkward. Would not be able to get hard if the girl was ignoring me, much less showing another nearby male sexual attention. Like... What??? If some guy fucked my girl id fuck him up BAD. No way I'm pulling my cock out. end of discussion.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 09:20 PM
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The dramatic increase in erection quality is in and of itself a fantastic benefit. Turns out you will also be growing your dick at the same time
/r/askTRP07/05/18 07:23 PM
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In order to jelq, you need to get a near full erection. Never fully hard, just 75-85%. Use the ok or reverse ok grip, alternate hands continually, 2-5 seconds per hand. Try "aiming" down instead of out in front of you, or up. In order to achieve and keep the erection, you will find that you can "kegel blood in". Basically flex your penis and you will notice your erection engorge a little more. Well that was a kegel. The act of jelqing is fairly focused, intense, and you have to focus to perform …
/r/askTRP07/05/18 07:21 PM
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Your don't have ED. Calm the fuck down. Look into jelqing. It's a form of dick enlargement. But that's not the point of it. Jelqing really fucking forces you and teaches you what the fuck your pelvic floor is. You will become an expert in kegels and that will solve all of your problems. Consistent, serious, mindful kegeling during jelqing sessions. Literally do one session a day, lasting 5 minutes, in the shower. For 5 days. And your issue will no longer exist.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 08:28 AM
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Whatever happens. Please update us. It's a very common thing
/r/askTRP07/05/18 06:21 AM
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Cool thanks. Not trying to police your opinion or "run to Google with questions", I'm on your side. Been a lurker here for quite a while and been actively exposed to RP for over a year now. Just saw the term being used and was like hey. Someone on the purple pill sub or whatever the debate one is called, or just someone on the internet is going to crucify you (and us) for this
/r/askTRP30/04/18 06:32 AM
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At the risk of sound like the most BP piece of shit ever, doesn't crossing over from being stoic to actually gaslighting essentially make you maliciously manipulative instead of simply red pill? Don't want to give normies ammo saying that red pill is toxic yatta yatta
/r/askTRP29/04/18 10:49 PM
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Your mindset comes from a place of diffidence where you justify other people's actions by default over your own. It's fine to be empathic in general, but you sound like you need a good year or two of learning how to put yourself aggressively first. Learn to be an inner advocate for every single one of your tendencies and establish some prerogative for your sexuality
/r/askTRP29/04/18 06:45 AM
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She's trying to establish the edges of her frame. The dude that keeps buying her shit is nothing to worry about, at least right now. The dude that lingered from before you guys were exclusive is an absolute red flag. She's trying to keep him around in case you guys don't work out. And by establishing plausible deniability about him, she is testing whether that frame would fly with you while simultaneously lowering your SMV if it does. Do not let LTRs hang with straight guys. Especially not guys …
/r/askTRP19/04/18 07:49 PM
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What do you do when accused of being gay? There's gotta be an elegent TRP way to dismantle that assusation.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 09:00 PM
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Can you further expand on that last paragraph? Seems contradictory
/r/TheRedPill21/10/17 04:21 AM
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Looks obviously matter. But if a woman can find herself in a situation where she gets turned on by another WOMAN (in other words, her sexuality can be stretched so far that it becomes homosexual), I don't think there's too many men's looks that are completely ruled out as sexual opportunities as long as they can compensate with personality. Beyonce is with Jay z. His successful life has probably garnered him a finely tuned alpha personality. That makes up for his repulsive looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 10:13 PM
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