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Yeah but attraction alone does not make a good partner. I can tell you from experience that attraction changes depending on how the person is. If they are ugly inside and selfish it shows and the attraction changes. It’s not a constant. Pretty women become ugly.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/26 07:25 AM
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No look. You have a lot to offer it’s just your confidence is down. I know because I have done the money thing and actually have had really good results. Women are genuinely attracted to me. I worked on myself a lot though. Gyms, hobbies, etc. it’s a life hack man. As of now I have to worry about too many and actually looking at being alone as a better option. Sounds crazy as I wasn’t always like this.
/r/ExRedPill08/03/26 07:26 AM
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I didn’t know they hated guys in relationships. It makes sense as one of my main demonstrations against their ideology is to just go out and look at couples. They would then see lots of different people do get and stay together. I think they write it off as she’s just in it for money. So women are incapable of love really is what it comes down to (for them). They either want looks or money and never see someone’s innate qualities. I can see how that idea sells to guys who’ve either been rejected…
/r/ExRedPill09/05/25 10:18 AM
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To me attraction is not a choice. However, it’s not an absolute either. I think people can do things to make themselves more attractive. Go to gym, lose weight, have a better positive outlook, have a stronger social network etc.
/r/ExRedPill17/04/25 02:46 PM
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It’s not a bad idea to ask on Reddit. You are questioning their statements instead of just accepting them which is the real crime.
/r/ExRedPill16/04/25 12:10 PM
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Yes it’s crazy but let’s be compassionate to op. He’s heard something and is trying to figure if it’s true or not.
/r/ExRedPill16/04/25 12:08 PM
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Reading this post and the subsequent responses makes me realize about 4 situations I dropped the ball in. I do remember trying to escalate but now I realize that was my problem. I was trying vs doing. In one case I do believe she legit didn’t want to have sex. Still now I wonder about that. Thanks for the bad memories people!!!
/r/seduction30/03/25 12:51 PM
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Ohhh yeah I remember that guy ! Yes he was definitely red pill. I was so impressionable. No wonder I got screwed up! Thanks for that.
/r/ExRedPill08/12/24 02:02 PM
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That’s a good answer. Doing good works. Being sincere and admitting mistakes is the right thing to do.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/24 04:44 AM
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She will come up and start stroking you while whispering or yelling in your ear “Are you DTF? I am DTF tonight with you if you are DTF!”
/r/seduction01/10/24 03:58 AM
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That is how I felt when presented with the red pill stuff. I hated my life and felt cheated. Heaven forbid I took accountability and actually owned my shortcomings. It was easier to blame others especially women. When presented with an option that it wasn’t my fault I bought into it quickly. As for now I own my mistakes and am working on being a better person.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/24 11:50 AM
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You are 100 percent correct. I’ve been reading “wired for love” which talks about a relationship being more of an alliance for a higher purpose rather than driven by love. The book says in nature we are only driven to be together romantically for about 4 years. Then we move on. The relationship contract cant survive on love or emotions which are fleeting and change constantly. If the relationship is set up like a contract of mutually benefiting principles it’s stronger. This boon is written by S…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/24 12:36 PM
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I was reading this and thinking to myself. This is how women feel. That’s why you can’t be a schlub. It’s not a man/woman thing it’s a human thing am I right? So be the kind of person someone will not regret sleeping with you and you’ll be alright!
/r/seduction13/07/23 10:57 PM
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Call her again. This time if she doesn’t answer wait 4 days then call again. Come on man. Send the text and don’t worry about her answering and not answering. Just say hi how’s it going? She doesn’t owe you to answer the phone
/r/seduction01/10/22 04:32 AM
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Peacocking works. I can attest to that. It sounds dumb but it works. Go out dressed like a rockstar one day and see what happens.
/r/seduction06/09/22 09:10 PM
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Nothing was dishonest from what I remember. It’s not presenting a false self because you can’t keep that up for long. It’s about presenting and highlighting your best self.
/r/seduction06/09/22 09:08 PM
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This is probably the best one although the others sound right too. I’d say hook up with the friend. This girl picked up on her being out of your league. Your thoughts not hers at first. So that’s what’s happening.
/r/seduction07/06/22 03:34 AM
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Stop with that. You didn’t try anything. You tried 1 girl.
/r/seduction09/02/22 03:43 AM
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You went to 1 place. 1!!! Probably the most expensive place. Look at other counties in Nevada not Vegas. Even the mustang ranch is only like 600.
/r/seduction09/02/22 03:42 AM
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Try 3 to 500. That the rate.
/r/seduction09/02/22 03:40 AM
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Hey. Prostitution is legal in Nevada. Sugar babies are also legal. Just commit to making a bunch of money! You can do that!
/r/seduction09/02/22 03:38 AM
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Napoleon Dynamite was right!
/r/seduction07/09/21 04:01 AM
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I envy the way my wife looks at my plumber friend when he comes to fix something. I can do basic stuff but for big things I need expertise. Like change out a water heater.
/r/seduction07/09/21 03:59 AM
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I've met a lot of guys with good jobs that have enough money to do this but do not. Money is just the first step.
/r/seduction07/09/21 03:57 AM
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And love or have a passion for it.
/r/seduction07/09/21 03:56 AM
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Also, minor to mid level fixes on a house. Seriously this.
/r/seduction07/09/21 03:55 AM
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I feel.like you aren't asking a question but wanting to defend your position of sering an escort. Just compare the two experiences and decide for yourself but I wouldn't count on coming into a seduction sub and convincing others that seeing an escort is the way to go. I've done it it's not that fun. It feels like a transaction.
/r/seduction05/09/21 04:36 AM
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This is the right answer. Be the kind of guy people want to go out with.
/r/seduction01/09/21 08:21 PM
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Long game lol. Just moved on or Come back later when she's single or befriend her with no intentions of hooking up and not being hurt by that. Like a real friend. Those are your options. What you think is going to happen will not.
/r/seduction01/09/21 05:20 AM
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Good luck. Try to have some fun with it if you can.
/r/seduction25/08/21 02:04 AM
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Also, having a social circle and seeing that you have friends that approve of you is social proofing. I did the social circle game really well and it worked out for me. I remember dating and it’s easy to ask someone to come to a bbq/picnic whatever with other people instead of just asking for a date with a guy they have never met or know that well. Something like that. I called it at the time “making a life”. It’s also fun and really rewarding to have a social circle. It pays back years later ev…
/r/seduction11/08/21 10:07 PM
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I agree this could work. You are showing a lot of confidence doing what you are doing. I see a lot of comments on this saying it won't but I've seen it. Anyways I just wanted to say right on man!!! That's an awesome strategy and thanks for sharing.
/r/seduction18/02/21 02:56 AM
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My underwear is polo. I did get a compliment for that once but by then I was already good.
/r/seduction18/02/21 02:52 AM
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Actually a lot of people do. You just are noticing it. Don't take it personally. It's not that they don't want to engage you it's just their own reasons
/r/seduction12/02/21 04:32 AM
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How do you know their immense list of qualities? So if men can’t live up to these standards then why does anyone hook up at all? Women don’t have an immense list. They just want a fun, nice guy who likes to do things, looks good and has something going for himself. Why shouldn’t they have these standards? What kind of standards do we place on the women we want to be with? Something similar right? It sounds like you are saying women’s standards on what they want is way too high so they need to dr…
/r/seduction28/01/21 05:41 AM
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Well it’s about being confident and cool. Like don draper abc janes bond. Would anyone call them toxic masculinity? I think that term means being an asshole or a jerk. Something uncomfortable. Being confident is a turn on so there’s nothing toxic about it. It’s fun to be around a confident cool person. Girls (and guys) wouldn’t disagree about hanging out with someone fun and cool. Cocky funny or whatever. Would you as a guy want to hang out with an Alpha ? I think if you are thinking girls would…
/r/seduction28/01/21 05:31 AM
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I have to say I’ve met a guy like this and you couldn’t help but like him too. I never got jealous when he would come back with tales of three or foursomes and lipstick all over. Huge grin always on his blond surfer boy face. He was just a great guy to be around. Natural Alpha.
/r/seduction12/12/20 01:05 AM
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They do make a move first! They stick around. To them that’s the move.
/r/seduction06/12/20 03:46 PM
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Im mid 40s and 20 isn’t too young. Maybe 50s
/r/seduction05/11/20 04:25 AM
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Not for a looooong time. Pretty is just pretty now. Im actually more comfortable the prettier they are. I wasn’t always like that.
/r/seduction01/11/20 11:36 PM
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Right. If picking up is 100 percent your only thing then you should be doing everything to make you the best man you can be. If you are active and doing stuff you’ll be surrounded by women who are active and doing stuff and guess what? Like guys who are active and doing stuff! Girls don’t want to hook up with guys who don’t have anything going for them. Can you blame them? I don’t.
/r/seduction01/11/20 04:15 AM
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It works for women too!
/r/seduction26/10/20 04:57 AM
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Yup. Tom cruise alpha
/r/seduction20/10/20 07:12 PM
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I like this. I had a similar idea from one of the books. I got together a bunch of people who didn’t do anything and made us do stuff. BBQs, parties, dance classes. It’s really easy to invite people to parties. Who wouldn’t want to go? As long as they see it’s a fun event with not a bunch of horny dudes. I did all this junk and now I’m married with kids and don’t do anything. See?? This could be you! Edit: ok wait I still do a lot it’s just different.
/r/seduction25/09/20 04:55 AM
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This is a great answer! This looks like cognitive behavioral therapy or CBT. There’s all kinds of stuff on this to treat depression, anxiety lots of stuff. The book I read is titled “Feeling good” with mainly a focus on depression but can be extended I think. A Very powerful self thought/feeling changing tool. It helps with changing ones reactions to events.
/r/seduction17/09/20 03:39 AM
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This is the problem I’m having job hunting. I’m not evaluating who I am applying to. Even job hunting you can’t come a cross as needy.
/r/seduction09/09/20 04:43 AM
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Don’t downvote this guy. He’s asking. Yes it’s true they will not look at you weird. I bet they are curious to know why more than anything. Maybe they are asking if they are sexually attractive to you because they want your validation! It happens. A lot.
/r/seduction09/09/20 04:42 AM
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Girls AND guys need to go through a toxic relationship (some of them not all).
/r/seduction09/09/20 04:40 AM
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I would add and go to the gym, wear nice clothes , get a good job and a life. Edit. I changed my mind. I remember doing good while unemployed and not being a gym rat.
/r/seduction15/08/20 04:39 AM
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Awesome. Demonstrates family value. A little weird but it’s totally doable. There’s tons of stuff to follow up with.
/r/seduction27/06/20 05:05 AM
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I do agree with this a bit. At one point you should confirm your intentions otherwise you could get pegged as a friend or someone whose not interested in that way. Definitely not off the bat. That’s my opinion on that but yeah if it works who am I to judge? I think it works for hot guys. The direct thing I mean.
/r/seduction27/06/20 05:02 AM
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Yes!!! The friend zone is a place of power. It will not work with that girl but now you have social proof. Nothing more attractive than a guy surrounded by attractive women. Okay well saying nothing more is a bit over the top but yeah it works. It’s easier that way.
/r/seduction26/06/20 03:48 AM
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They show unoroginality. Apparently that’s not a word or it’s misspelled. Picture this. You are a woman. You want to be valued, cherished, perused uniquely. Loved for who you are not to have your body used as a prop. Pick up lines are unoriginal and canned. There isn’t a good one. Coming up with conversation unique for the moment is the best. It also demonstrates value of being someone interesting that can communicate. Although with that said, I’ve heard if you are an alpha and look great you do…
/r/seduction26/06/20 03:42 AM
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To give her an out. She knows what’s going on. Ever seen that chris rock bit about if a guy talks to a woman at all he’s offering D? Guys like directness women don’t. They want the romance, the dance, the game if you will. You could either accept that’s the way it is or try to convince all women they would rather have someone be direct with them. I’d take the former in this case.
/r/seduction26/06/20 03:37 AM
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She said she didn’t like being approached with compliment openers randomly because she’s probably busy doing something. Time is short in random cold approaches so there needs to be a good reason to open a conversation. “What time does this store open?” “Is the bus late?” Something anything but hey I’m running game. It makes it more difficult to present value and especially comfort or anything else due to the time constraint. It can be done though it’s just different.
/r/seduction26/06/20 03:33 AM
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Style used an opener like “hey did you see those two girls outside fighting over that bald guy?” See. No compliments or anything. Yes this is the mystery method and it does work. The original poster is right. How can she feel that someone is attracted to her without even knowing her? It makes it obvious it’s just about looks or physical. So my comment took a bit of a tangent but what I wanted to say to this is a good first date is a bbq with all your friends. Or some kind of group event. Develop…
/r/seduction26/06/20 03:30 AM
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Hey!! Right on !! If you went to the gym they will come to you! So I've heard anyways. Congrats though!
/r/seduction23/06/20 07:01 PM
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Thank you. This post is worth at least a couple thousand dollars in training. I’m bookmarking it and going to go through the questions and reading list. Thank you again for putting this together.
/r/seduction07/06/20 03:08 AM
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I have an expensive watch and I love it when people notice. I thought more people would. It’s an Omega Seamaster. I bought it because I always wanted one and I finally had a chance to get it. So yeah people sometimes are waiting for the compliment.
/r/seduction08/05/20 04:33 AM
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These days though no means no. Cant risk pushing it you know? Women suck when they say no but mean maybe.
/r/seduction05/05/20 07:52 PM
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Text conversations ebb and flow. Sometimes they are long and lots of back and forth and others they just are quick. If it’s not going well just pause and resume later.
/r/seduction05/05/20 07:16 PM
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I thought the same. I thought there was something to buy at the end. Right around the 2k boot camp. I thought it was going to promote that but no. Maybe that’s part of the game?
/r/seduction02/05/20 11:29 PM
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I have a suggestion. You are hooking up with lesser attractive women right? So then maybe you can just slowly increase the number ? Like if you date 5s then try for 6s. Also another thing is to just try talking to the real attractive ones with no agenda. That helps. Then you can’t fail because you weren’t really trying. Then later try. Just my advice. I hope it helps.
/r/seduction30/04/20 02:34 AM
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Yes this answer! Like my answer but yeah this one too!
/r/seduction27/04/20 03:06 PM
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Someone said to enjoy yourself and be in the moment. Yes that’s true. Also one thing I wanted to add is that sex with different people is different with each one even each time! One girl likes it rough, another just likes regular missionary, maybe it’s that time of the month. It’s impossible to plan ahead and know what they will like and don’t like. Be attentive to them and to your own needs/wants. Watch the boundaries.
/r/seduction27/04/20 03:05 PM
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That's really good advice. I'm married but I have been looking to better myself. This is probably the best short list I have seen.
/r/seduction20/09/18 10:24 PM
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