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Cuz she clearly didn’t want him. Trying only makes things worse.
/r/seduction20/07/26 11:24 AM
0

Sup ho (respectfully duh)
/r/seduction20/07/26 11:17 AM
2

Facts. U suddenly become a sex god, can last long, and you get more creative.
/r/seduction20/07/26 11:16 AM
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I’d argue to read less (really less media in general). I rarely read now and I’ve increased my capabilities in so many ways since. How? Simply by experience and asking questions to those who are smarter than me. Don’t settle being a consumer but remeber that we are creators too.
/r/seduction20/07/26 11:13 AM
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No bro. These comments have me worried for our species. Like is there any Men left?
/r/seduction20/07/26 09:02 AM
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Girl those men ain’t here. Most in here are too emotionally invested and don’t even realize that they are. Even less, they lack the empathy to hear you and instead will flip it on women.
/r/seduction20/07/26 08:53 AM
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No. It’s more like fishing. You get taught the basics and you never have to worry about being able to get food. You can stay at that level or practice and improve everyday for life.
/r/seduction19/07/26 04:06 AM
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Masculinity is all about being vulnerable with yourself. If you are, you stop worrying about who’s example to follow and you’ll just create your own.
/r/seduction16/07/26 04:33 AM
1

Money ain’t even real bro. Money is worthless. You know what has value, your output. Recognize the inherit value you have simply by existing.
/r/seduction15/07/26 04:56 AM
1

Wrong. But anyways, get over urself bro. Stop taking things so seriously and lighten up cuz you ain’t as smart as you think u are. If u was, then you’d notice that all the signs the universe is telling you that ur wrong.
/r/seduction15/07/26 04:51 AM
2

You don’t need money. Actually the less u do the better
/r/seduction14/07/26 05:53 AM
4

This is a perfect example of no masculine energy. You actually listened AND took them seriously. Just date men, you not ready for women.
/r/seduction14/07/26 05:52 AM
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No. They don’t. Which is why any guy that complains about their success with women is just flat out lazy and stubborn. Take the time to understand first yourself and then what qualities do women find attractive. Do those two things at least at half the effort and you’ll notice drastic changes in how women and other men respond to you. Before anyone says it, I’m 5’3, I don’t go to the gym (I’m not fat but I ain’t fit either) and yeah I’m also broke af (literally bankrupt level). Now what’s your e…
/r/seduction14/07/26 05:49 AM
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K
/r/seduction03/07/26 10:55 AM
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Ig can be fine if you offer that. Just have an empty profile. If she is interested she will reach out to find out more about you. The more you tell of yourself for free, the less she is willing to invest in you.
/r/seduction02/07/26 09:50 PM
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They definitely do text first. I’d suggest you stop cold approaching and just be. You overthinking and gameafying the whole process.
/r/seduction02/07/26 09:44 PM
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Bro remember to be human.
/r/seduction02/07/26 09:41 PM
1

I mean he never had a chance, but never texting her in the first place would’ve been better. In his case, him reaching out and then later to use your advice would’ve killed any chance he had left. You right about patience. Him initiating showed he had no other girls, so no fomo. The nonchalant way you suggested it’s so fake coming from him that I guarantee she would’ve just laughed. In those cases where they don’t respond, a month or so later, is to just say something direct but in a toxic humor…
/r/seduction25/06/26 07:34 AM
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I am right. Value yourself more bro, that’s what you should show. Messaging again, from their pov, is begging. They respect you less. When they come back (they will comeback if you was genuine), they will apologize/explain. If they don’t, that’s when you bring it up and establish your boundary.
/r/seduction22/06/26 07:25 PM
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Don’t ever forget or let anyone determine your value bro.
/r/seduction22/06/26 05:36 PM
1

Delete everything after your first sentence bro.
/r/seduction22/06/26 05:19 PM
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Brother you have to get out of your feelings. And stop being such an easy emotional slut. Make them earn you. Her telling all that is easy and no real investment on her part. Like seriously she tells all that to anybody. That connection you felt was just as you said, her taking the lead using you to regulate her emotions. Of course it felt real, it was in that moment. But you never really had a chance.
/r/seduction22/06/26 03:06 AM
1

You need more tension. That’s literally what that they mean when they say no spark.
/r/seduction12/06/26 09:56 AM
1

The mean unfaithful to yourself. Those fast girls are good girls too, just not for you.
/r/seduction28/05/26 10:13 AM
1

She ain’t gotta respect your boundaries, you do. Walk away if they get crossed.
/r/seduction28/05/26 10:12 AM
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Cuz as the man, you lead. A woman is gonna be a reflection of the type of man you are.
/r/seduction28/05/26 10:07 AM
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Hos are the best. They know how to treat a man. Just gotta be a strong man cuz they ain’t for the weak.
/r/seduction28/05/26 10:06 AM
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They all good girls bro. If you can’t get it out of them, that’s on you. For bad girls, you need daddy energy. Don’t bs, they see right thru that.
/r/seduction28/05/26 10:04 AM
5

He’s just in love and in sad boy hours.
/r/seduction27/05/26 04:32 PM
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I barely think. I just do. And I’ve never had issues getting or staying hard. But u do your pills bro. You not fucking me so I really don’t care.
/r/seduction27/05/26 04:31 PM
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Yes. When you have her pleasure in mind, you don’t stay present in your body. You get into your mind and now you disconnect with the body. Focus on what makes you feel good. That will keep you in tune with your body. You’ll be more direct in saying what you want, so less thinking for her. Yall both end up getting more. Better sex. Better relationship. All by being more selfish. I think of it like this. I come first because that is the best for me to be the best me. The best me is what’s best for…
/r/seduction27/05/26 04:25 PM
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It actually is that easy. At least it is when you have self respect. Don’t let your emotions control your actions. Hell had he done that he’d still have her getting him hard.
/r/seduction27/05/26 03:54 AM
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Lie to yourself all you want. But don’t lie to us fam.
/r/seduction27/05/26 03:51 AM
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Or ya know get over his ex. But hey fuck self development. Go big pharma.
/r/seduction26/05/26 11:59 PM
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Legit. Especially with girls he barely met. He needs to be more selfish
/r/seduction26/05/26 11:56 PM
37

But clearly, by him saying he can get hard for his ex, it is clearly mental. Ya idiot.
/r/seduction26/05/26 11:53 PM
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Just go full delulu man
/r/seduction14/05/26 08:57 PM
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You get it now. That’s the most important thing. Don’t expect any outcome. If you do, they sense that shit quick and it’s a turn off.
/r/seduction14/05/26 07:39 PM
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Practice staying present. Fear is not real. If you are anxious, you are living in a fantasy that you are slowly creating into reality. Breathe. And get in tune with your body. What is it that I’m feeling and why. Hell a lot of the times, just naming the feeling takes away a panic attack within a couple of mins.
/r/seduction14/05/26 07:36 PM
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I didn’t even read your whole post, but I agree with the top comment. She’s putting you on backup list. Have some self respect and move on bro. Never give their words a lot of weight, their actions though, they carry all of the weight.
/r/seduction11/05/26 08:51 PM
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If you have that fear in you, you will catch a charge or not hit at all. She will smell that fear in you and turn her off. Or she will let you hit and now she can manipulate you with that fear. I think it goes without saying, don’t be pushy.
/r/seduction26/02/26 07:40 PM
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While I agree that it puts you in the frame of chasing, her not hitting you up does not necessarily mean she a ho. It means you weren’t that good, cuz even a ho, will come back for good D.
/r/seduction12/02/26 03:06 AM
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Women aren’t as stupid as you are painting them to be. They can see through the bullshit in an instant and a lot of times they are actually playing with you as entertainment. No woman is gonna feel mislead by calling her wifey.
/r/seduction09/02/26 10:02 PM
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Oh I just read finished reading it. You are worse than overthinking. First, have more self respect and value yourself more. Learn to walk away. Stop putting women on a pedestal. A few dinner and comfort? You know she going to dinner with you and after dinner she’ll go sleep with another. They are all good girls and they are all sluts. Pay attention to the wording and the mindset behind OP lines. They assume that attraction is there already not asking permission to hit and working for it like you…
/r/seduction09/02/26 06:14 PM
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Bro. I did not read all that. You overthinking seduction. Stop applying logic and wanting a specific formula and just be. Overthinking is what is causing your lack of abundance.
/r/seduction09/02/26 05:44 PM
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No. But you caring about insignificant shit like that is boring.
/r/seduction09/02/26 05:40 PM
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They just a girl. I don’t let their beauty have an effect on me. So I treat them as I would any girl.
/r/seduction09/02/26 05:36 PM
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So you had a guy show interest, set up a fun hangout. You hook up and like the guy. Little effort or not is irrelevant, it’s more effort than what you did as he was then initiator. But you feel used if you be don’t hit you up? What a load of crap. We know that when a woman really likes a man, she will come to him. If she don’t, it’s cuz she don’t like him.
/r/seduction09/02/26 05:27 PM
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Gotta let that mindset go. I’d suggest getting off the apps and focus on talking to girls in real life. You need more confident. And before you say I I’m just attractive, which I am, I’m 5’3 not fit, broke and I literally got models initiating things with me. Delulu is the solulu. You create your reality bro. I don’t need stats to tell me if I can or won’t get laid. Stop being a reaction to others actions. Be action.
/r/seduction08/02/26 07:26 PM
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Shows you don’t know women, or yourself, well for that matter. When have you ever felt the most in love? When you desired him. And nothing would stop you from it. You may like being chased at first but you know you can’t respect a man that’s so accesibles ie: dependent on you. If you felt used, after all that interest and investment into create a fun experience and you don’t message him at all simply because you are wanting him to prove himself even more to ease your fear of rejection. Would he …
/r/seduction08/02/26 07:18 PM
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If you want something new, take a new path. Dont let a hypothetical bad outcome and stunt your growth and a better man. Learn to vet better. Trust your gut. You got this girl.
/r/seduction08/02/26 07:08 PM
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He already did the initial pursuing. Reciprocate to continue getting access.
/r/seduction08/02/26 06:59 PM
1

Why are you adamant on being boring? Girls just want to have fun. No matter at what age.
/r/seduction08/02/26 06:55 PM
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Stop being so lazy. He even gave a play by play so you don’t have to think.
/r/seduction08/02/26 06:53 PM
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Just flirt more and create the sexual tension. Dont act like sex is taboo. You are both in the hopes it turns to a sexual relationship, build that up. Ideally before the date that way you can get the kiss on the first date and can easily escalate into sex even on first date.
/r/seduction18/09/25 02:28 AM
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By continuously “picking up” your girl. Don’t stop flirting with her just cuz call committed. You are punishing her for committing to you by taking away the man she fell for.
/r/seduction03/09/25 04:20 AM
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Tell her “ my bad babe I guess I need some new spark plugs. Thanks my little check engine light l should’ve noticed you sooner.” She laughs, feels heard, noticed, cared for and most importantly attracted. It displays confidence by but getting serious of the situation but still recognizing that it is, you didn’t beg or react emotionally so that’s another attractive quality. Come on my boy, fuck that letting me down softly shit.
/r/seduction20/08/25 10:00 PM
2

Display attractive qualities. Create attraction by how you speak to her. Look up Dan Bacon on YouTube, I’ve followed his advice and I’ve had even more success than I did before. All these other comments have truth to them but things aren’t as absolute as they claim to be.
/r/seduction20/08/25 09:43 PM
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Stop being led. Observe for yourself and reach your own conclusions. Don’t give words too much importance, look at people’s action and what they invest their time in and you’ll know all you need to know.
/r/seduction18/08/25 11:46 PM
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You didn’t much detail but the first two, you served your purpose to them. The one you really asking about, not enough details honestly to give you a response. But it’s been two days give it more time. She’s prob sorting her feelings or testing another guy. Just focus on you so you can remain attractive. Cuz right now you ain’t no one’s first choice. Your are giving un-attractive energy to them. But without detail I can’t really help you. Don’t be needy and let it all play out.
/r/seduction18/08/25 11:36 PM
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You overthinking even that. Just shut up. Breathe. Don’t think. Don’t think about not thinking. Just breathe. Feel what your body is feeling. Be in the now. When you around people instead of thinking about what’s next, just be in the now. Kinda like when you have fun doing something and you didn’t even realize time passed you just got so into whatever you was doing. Thats flow. You didn’t think, I will now have fun. You just did and naturally you had fun. With women, be the same. Just be. Very i…
/r/seduction17/08/25 05:44 AM
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I get your point, I just disagree with the visual aspect as the sole determining factor. You can create sexual attraction without being that good looking.
/r/seduction14/08/25 03:16 AM
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I was referring to sexual attraction as well. But you seem set in your ways and satisfied with the level you reached, I can’t judge your reality.
/r/seduction14/08/25 12:28 AM
2

Bro you have a very superficial viewpoint on attraction. You are thinking women are attracted to the same things you are. They are not. I don’t have to perform for them and I get king treatment. I slipped up a little for a bit, but last year i didn’t pay a single bill for over a year, they buy me clothes, cook for me, whatever I wanted. I do think I’m good looking but bro I’m 5’3” with a dad bod. But they still say im hot. But hey you want to settle, go ahead, more for me.
/r/seduction14/08/25 12:10 AM
1

The answer is right in front of you brother. Treat the girls you do want just like the girls you don’t want. You are automatically putting them on a pedestal and that’s why they can’t feel any attraction towards you.
/r/seduction13/08/25 11:02 PM
2

Why you allowing her to make you do anything? That’s where you lose her, cuz you fold to the pressure of possibly losing her. Be ready to walk away, she will stop that shit real quick.
/r/seduction13/08/25 11:00 PM
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It’s actually your mindset. You believe there is barriers, so there is. Act and feel like you deserve a hottie and you will get one. But they you better be at your best cuz hotties have infinite options, any weakness and that’s it for you.
/r/seduction13/08/25 10:51 PM
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Yeah but it also could take 30 seconds once it clicks in your brain. Can’t show someone how to be themselves. Wanting everything spoon fed or your hand held as you learn, is very unattractive. Be a man, do the hard work.
/r/seduction13/08/25 10:48 PM
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Have a life bro and a fun one at it. Say all you do is game everyday after work. You may enjoy it but to her it’s predictable and boring. She ain’t gonna want to come into your life. But if each day you doing something fun. She will want to stay with you.
/r/seduction27/07/25 05:46 PM
1

That’s where you building up tension between both of yall comes into play. Build up the tension to get he gets turned on to the point where she is basically ripping your clothes. The
/r/seduction07/07/25 04:53 PM
1

Little bro. What’s the first thing I said? Cuz you’re doing just that.
/r/seduction07/07/25 04:42 PM
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Bro you overthinking. Don’t live in your head. Live in the moment. Don’t expect an outcome. It’s not that hard once you let go of all that. Trust that your body knows how to do it cuz it is somewhere hidden in your instincts.
/r/seduction29/06/25 10:31 PM
1

This is horrible advice. Petty, immature very reactive and clearly butthurt. She won’t even open the message I bet.
/r/seduction29/06/25 04:18 PM
1

The minute she showed up late and said I’ll call you back, that’s when you should’ve ended it. An hour later she prob would’ve called you to come over or make it up to you.
/r/seduction29/06/25 04:14 PM
1

Adapt old man or just step aside. Cuz the game is rewardingly fun and barely any competition.
/r/seduction25/06/25 05:16 AM
1

Brother. Their live stream. I don’t give a single like or a follow. But I engage with them. I uplift the other guys who are doing good and subtly point out how they fail her tests. And soon really it’s just you and her chatting cuz she ignores anything that’s not you. And then you leave. She chases you. You do it to another. Watch your subscriber list go up.
/r/seduction25/06/25 05:14 AM
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Yo tik tok live is a pretty good place to just sharpen your skills. You are seeing women be inundated with validation so standing out and just getting her hooked while live is very impactful. It helps simulate cold approach and it’s honestly fun watching the girl barely notice you. Try different shit tests and then become flustered, doing any request you make. And immediately after the request to follow you and initiate texts
/r/seduction24/06/25 07:52 PM
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Women are who do the choosing. Once you get some experience, you’ll see that you ain’t gotta do shit to get laid.
/r/seduction05/06/25 09:41 PM
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Oh of that I am positive. Your standard of “wife material” is unrealistic, judgmental and hypocritical coming from someone who is so far from good husband material. Be better bro, I know you are capable of it and you deserve to be happy as well.
/r/seduction14/03/25 04:58 PM
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That’s why you don’t get women bro. They, actually we, can all feel the bitterness and judgement coming from within you. If you could have it, you would love it but for different reasons, you’d see them as toys. Try approaching them with no judgement, no bitterness and watch how you’ll be thinking differently.
/r/seduction09/03/25 10:31 AM
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