| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 139 | homophobic/misogynistic/racist scrote shames me for being attracted to women and preferring female partners on a gay sub | MALE DEPRAVITY | highvaluefemale2020 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 02:29 PM |
| 123 | The 5 questions you need to ask to see if a man has value in your life | STRATEGY | highvaluefemale2020 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 06:09 AM |
| 97 | Guys in general seem to have 0 empathy or desire to learn what works for women. As a bi woman more into women FDS has opened my eyes | MOOD FOR LIFE | highvaluefemale2020 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 11:38 PM |
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| 6 | Yes, because not having sex with a man is definitely the same as domestic abuse.Is he serious? Would he say the same if the roles were flipped? i cant believe these attitudes should be tolerated | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 01:17 AM |
| 57 | Scrotes be like "You're not attracted to me!?"You'd think its common sense. Why would someone date below their standards? what for an insecure scrote who cant level up? Does anyone shame guys for their standards? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 01:11 AM |
| 12 | NVM Ex-husband meets new meHas your nvm ex ever heard of something like personal responsibility? its up to him to build his own personal relationships and if they are failing its not your responsibility. He is too low level to have any personal awareness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 01:08 AM |
| 27 | Women actually have legitimate reasons to be angry and resentful towards men. Most conflict between men and women nowadays boils down to men's desire to control, exploit, and abuse women; and women's desire to not be controlled, exploited, and abused. These two perspectives are not "equally as bad"This times 1000. leveling up and ensuring Queen standards is the best repellent against scrotes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 12:56 AM |
| 2 | homophobic/misogynistic/racist scrote shames me for being attracted to women and preferring female partners on a gay subi imagined that scream in my mind that this guy would be uttering while writing this bile | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 11:40 PM |
| 1 | homophobic/misogynistic/racist scrote shames me for being attracted to women and preferring female partners on a gay subi know right? he could have just said i dont know how to please women. whats a clitoris. that would have summarised his post well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 10:56 PM |
| 2 | homophobic/misogynistic/racist scrote shames me for being attracted to women and preferring female partners on a gay subAs a bi woman who heavily leans towards women i would recommend trying dating women exclusively for a yr on a range of dating apps. I would love if we could build a HVF bi/lesbian community maybe on lesbian dating strategy. i agree sexual orientation is much complicated then we think. Main thing is for you to stay safe and happy. you are not obligated to tell anyone your thoughts on sexuality and sexual orientation least of all scrotes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 10:55 PM |
| 1 | homophobic/misogynistic/racist scrote shames me for being attracted to women and preferring female partners on a gay subi have faced trolls like this for being open about being south asian, bi and into women. Their hatred for womens choices runs deep. In collectivist cultures they think they own individuals especially women and have a right to control them. it made me sick to see this on reddit but not surprised reading all the depraved male stuff on FDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 10:53 PM |
| 2 | homophobic/misogynistic/racist scrote shames me for being attracted to women and preferring female partners on a gay subi agree great sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 10:52 PM |
| 2 | homophobic/misogynistic/racist scrote shames me for being attracted to women and preferring female partners on a gay subas someone of south asian origin i agree it seems like that. Yes good luck finding me in australia you scrote is what i felt like saying to him but i didnt want to give him satisfaction of knowing i bothered to read his comment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 10:52 PM |
| 2 | homophobic/misogynistic/racist scrote shames me for being attracted to women and preferring female partners on a gay subIt totally screams saltiness. I doubt this guy has any self awareness. Any girl who interacts with him probably wishes she was gay. I have a feeling he is talking shit when he says he can get my IP . I live in Australia and seems like he lives in south asia somewhere likely Pakistan. i reported him and then blocked him. dont need a lvm who is a depraved scrote wasting my energy. I used to spend a lot of time with troll haters like this trying to reform them but not anymore. im done with them. My… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 10:51 PM |
| 1 | homophobic/misogynistic/racist scrote shames me for being attracted to women and preferring female partners on a gay subhaha good point. i should have mentioned that to him before i blocked the scrote depraved trash. Looks like he has some exploring of his insecurity and identity to do. He called me black dog lol colorism is frequently used by south asian men to put down women. Its disgusting. He should explore his sexual orientation and have his pleasure spots. pleasure spots? lol does he mean erogenous zones. yes men are never wrong and if they are it hurts his ego | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 10:45 PM |
| 1 | homophobic/misogynistic/racist scrote shames me for being attracted to women and preferring female partners on a gay subyes totally sis let me just take back what i said and admit that women would 100% choose men if they could. lol total sarcasm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 10:43 PM |
| 2 | homophobic/misogynistic/racist scrote shames me for being attracted to women and preferring female partners on a gay subyup a butt hurt scrote with too much time to abuse and confirm all of what i have been saying | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 10:42 PM |
| 3 | homophobic/misogynistic/racist scrote shames me for being attracted to women and preferring female partners on a gay subhe totally did. couldnt answer my reasons for why same sex relationships are better. I wrote it for my south asian bi self because its hard to come out on a lgbt sub but this south asian incel got triggered.Then he decided to twist facts so he could remain in denial. If he had any awareness he would accept these reasons and try to work on leveling up lol at him thinking he can track me down. unfortunately i live in the west and not in his country so he can dream on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 10:41 PM |
| 2 | homophobic/misogynistic/racist scrote shames me for being attracted to women and preferring female partners on a gay subI tried to explain this to him. You really don't want sexuality to be a choice because then the proportion of straight girls will decrease significantly. Its my first scrotal inbox message so i was shocked at how depraved and abusive someone can be to a random stranger who doesn't even know their existence. Seriously the depths to which they can stoop is horrendous. i feel my bi-ness shrink and my gayness increase. I totally think more women would choose women if they could because there would b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 10:37 PM |
| 1 | homophobic/misogynistic/racist scrote shames me for being attracted to women and preferring female partners on a gay sublol i dont know where he got that statistic. i think he stalked my last FDS post where i think i said i was 90% into women and 10% into men and tried to twist that against me. I think its more like 98% women and 2% men post reddit Serious sense of insecurity. Scrote probably knows his low value and is in denial Like anyone would choose a guy especially a LVM Scrote over a HVF queen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 10:26 PM |
| 3 | homophobic/misogynistic/racist scrote shames me for being attracted to women and preferring female partners on a gay subHe followed up with a message saying he was south asian and calling me black dog. A bit of colourism. For guys like this who are repellents to girls their favourite hobbies include sending degrading comments to girls and writing red pill manifestos why its everyone else's fault they are LVM. He actually said i was responsible for hate and prejudice towards gay people and why sexuality is a choice. Strong streak of self hatred there. You've got to hate yourself to attack someone who posts why she… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 10:19 PM |
| 3 | homophobic/misogynistic/racist scrote shames me for being attracted to women and preferring female partners on a gay subI unblocked and reported him. He sent me more messages saying he isn't white and called me black dog in a south asian language. Ladies be careful of scrotes from different backgrounds. Seriously a low threshold is required. He tried to say my "generalisations" "prejudice" and insecurities is the reason why people hate gay people, why the majority does not care about sexual minorities and that i need therapy lol. Having clarity on standards, knowing your boundaries and vetting heavily is what som… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 10:11 PM |
| 2 | homophobic/misogynistic/racist scrote shames me for being attracted to women and preferring female partners on a gay subI unblocked him to report him and in his follow up message to me he revealed he was not white and from his language looked to be of south asian origin like me. He read my post here and saw that i was of south asian origin but more into women and that i only want to be with a female partner. that was enough to trigger him. Knowing that he couldn't control my attractions and choices in life not sure why he thinks he is entitled to as a random stranger. He threw in some colorism calling me a black … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 10:06 PM |
| 3 | homophobic/misogynistic/racist scrote shames me for being attracted to women and preferring female partners on a gay subI unblocked him to report him and in his follow up message to me he revealed he was not white and from his language looked to be of south asian origin like me. So many incels of this background I am seriously thankful i like women. He said i was to blame for the prejudice lgbt people face, i am insecure and thats why the majority hate sexual minorities and that i need therapy. Did he even read what he wrote? He needs therapy on how to be a human being from a monster i think the 90/10 thing he sa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 09:56 PM |
| 2 | homophobic/misogynistic/racist scrote shames me for being attracted to women and preferring female partners on a gay subHe seriously got triggered and lost it. I unblocked him to report him and in his follow up message to me he revealed he was not white and from his language looked to be of south asian origin like me. So many incels of this background I am seriously thankful i like women. lot of incels of south asian origin have little interaction with women. They write these manifestos while being pornsick limp dicks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 09:37 PM |
| 3 | homophobic/misogynistic/racist scrote shames me for being attracted to women and preferring female partners on a gay subhe probably never had the chance and doesn't even know where the clit is or how many different orgasms women can experience. He should spend this time educating himself then revealing his depraved scrote values to female strangers who dont care haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 09:35 PM |
| 6 | homophobic/misogynistic/racist scrote shames me for being attracted to women and preferring female partners on a gay subI was wondering where he was pulling those statistics from. Family research council's website? He forget to focus on the perpetrators of that domestic violence. I have a friend who has been a stay at home mom and was always getting disrespected/neglected by her husband and realised she was lesbian and tried to get a separation. her husband tried so many controlling/manipulating tactics making it difficult for her to leave, restricting her movements, who she can talk to and used her children as a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 09:33 PM |
| 59 | homophobic/misogynistic/racist scrote shames me for being attracted to women and preferring female partners on a gay subcompletely agree.big microdick energy. he couldnt even argue any points. his whole message was validating my point that true high value males are not common and depraved scrotes is the norm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 02:52 PM |
| 55 | homophobic/misogynistic/racist scrote shames me for being attracted to women and preferring female partners on a gay subwhat drugs is he on when he says lesbians have the highest divorce and domestic violence rate? most domestic violence victims are women at the hands of men and then men at the hands of men.I said i was south asian so he assumes im pakistani and muslim. im indian and hindu not that it matters.Take this male lurker scrotes. A comprehensive list i share with homophobes who think i should choose a guy because i am brown. Personally i needed these reasons as a closeted south asian origin girl where c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 02:35 PM |
| 27 | homophobic/misogynistic/racist scrote shames me for being attracted to women and preferring female partners on a gay subI got this vicious homophobic/misogynistic/racist inbox message for a post i wrote on a lesbian sub not even directed towards males. How insecure, limp dicked, porn sick and full of shit do you have to be to attack someone for appreciating their attractions. I am Indian and of Hindu background not that it matters but don't understand where this guys bile, hate, lack of empathy comes from. these are the points i made backed up with research articles but instead of replying to the articles this de… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Guys in general seem to have 0 empathy or desire to learn what works for women. As a bi woman more into women FDS has opened my eyesi can completely relate to this. I find i have more attractions to women. After dating and being in a loving relationship with a woman its hard to expect minimal standards like just being able to take care of yourself, functioning, having good hygiene, being able to communicate without judgement, silky hair, able to learn/self improve, getting constructive feedback without making the other person feel bad. Having to work hard for pleasure. Most women do try especially if they like the other woma… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 07:25 PM |
| 8 | The comments section is a bunch of LVM twisting the conversation to victimize themselves, and pickmes/cool girls slut shaming, as usualThis is so true. One of my friends said "its just easier to have sex then say no" when i asked her why she had sex with a guy who had scrote like qualities and had her cornered when she was clearly not into him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Guys in general seem to have 0 empathy or desire to learn what works for women. As a bi woman more into women FDS has opened my eyesThats really true. All of what you have said. After effortlessly having amazing orgasms with women i think it would be hard to go back to low effort, lazy sex where u can only orgasm once or some of the time. Its like maybe focus on the whole of a female body then just her genitals. Make her feel comfortable , safe and that she is in a non judgemental space. Im sure a guy who can actually please a woman would stand out from other guys. Sometimes there are so many girls just willing to give and e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 07:00 PM |
| 1 | The 5 questions you need to ask to see if a man has value in your lifeyoure welcome | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 06:58 PM |
| 3 | The 5 questions you need to ask to see if a man has value in your lifetake your time sis. its worth figuring out and clarifying these goals for ourselves so we can have a partner who matches our goals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 11:28 AM |
| 1 | The 5 questions you need to ask to see if a man has value in your lifeI can relate to that. I think it is socially conditioned in us from society and media to suspect these gestures and to think there is some trick behind it or that we are undeserving of this treatment. I think if someone is too keen we can sometimes question their motives or they may come across as being too needy. That was the past. Now you know how to date strategically. I came across it on this google book called act like a lady think like a man. It was an interesting read by a male author. He… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 11:19 AM |
| 14 | The 5 questions you need to ask to see if a man has value in your lifeThat's great. I found a big difference between my mindset before and after FDS. So many red flags i had downplayed actually came back to bite. Sounds like the date went mostly ok. Its good that you both had a mental tick list. I agree knowing intentions is important. If we don't have our standards/requirements/rules the guy would play from his rule book. I like feeling grounded/balanced neither too excited or too down after a date. I think the 90day rule is a good one. 90 days to vet out someone… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 09:28 AM |
| 3 | The 5 questions you need to ask to see if a man has value in your lifeyou're welcome. Hope it helps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 07:51 AM |
| 1 | I—????????????So butthurt they create posts about them. Better use of that time would be to uplevel themselves. Even desi pickmes have baseline standards when they choose a guy. No one wants a guy who can get them ostracised or looked down on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 07:28 AM |
| 2 | (TW) Men have no empathy. And there are a lot of comments siding with the boyfriend.Im feeling the same and so far only online dated guys. I think for at least a yr a bi girl should just date women and see how that goes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 07:26 AM |
| 14 | (TW) Men have no empathy. And there are a lot of comments siding with the boyfriend.i wonder for all those bisexual woman who end up with guys. Why not spend a yr looking for a suitable woman first | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 03:05 PM |
| 5 | (TW) Men have no empathy. And there are a lot of comments siding with the boyfriend.i am bisexual and lean way towards women. This sub and all of reddit has only reinforced that i am way more attracted to women. I cant imagine a woman being so callous and heartless to her ex. It only reinforces we must vet extensively to date a guy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 03:04 PM |
| 8 | Scrotes & PickMes attack 21 y/o girl for not wanting to date a 30+ manRight and i bet this guy has a long list of what he is attracted to yet women cant have preferences. Don't these dumbshits read any dating books by men. Those books clearly state women need to have boundaries and standards . They need to make these known upfront. Otherwise men are going to keep playing games with you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 02:59 PM |
| 6 | Scrotes & PickMes attack 21 y/o girl for not wanting to date a 30+ manThats hilarious. You're on fire. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 02:41 PM |
| 8 | I—????????????For some reason they think just because they are white they need to be put on a pedestal. Im sure many desi pickmes wouldn't be that desperate. No guys you need to actually have qualities. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 02:38 PM |
| 10 | I—????????????indian scrotes and white scrotes combining because they couldn't find a high value woman * barf* | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 02:36 PM |
| 6 | I—????????????They might not all disown but they will reduce contact and not want to be involved. In general people don't seek family approval and those close to them but they should. Some of us still do listen to opinion because love is blind and sometimes you need another opinion of someone more experienced. I was going to go in deeper with a LV indian male who had basic education and tried being HV but had red flags including issues in his past divorce. My dad warned me saying this guy didnt finish his col… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 02:34 PM |
| 10 | I—????????????hell yes to that sister. This guy is not even in the league of high quality indian women or even medium quality women. He can keep on dreaming about an indian woman interested in him. He would be at the back of the line. I agree our standards and the qualities we look for are high. Not only has the guy got to pass our standards and requirements but has to pass the requirements of our parents and family. He fails in the educational and looks component. He is nowhere near the vicinity of being a s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 02:25 PM |
| 7 | I—????????????amen to that sister. white guys placing themselves on a pedestal and as the gold standards are highly annoying and scroty | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 02:22 PM |
| 4 | I—????????????what a fucking asshole. Look at his face. What Indian woman would want to marry this guy? I can only think white washed indian pickmeishas would be interested. Looks like this guy has got rejected by too many indian women and his frustration led him to target one particular race of women. FDS principles are actually reinforced to many of us. Not to give out casual sex to a partner not worthy whether that be months into the relationship or before marriage whatever our boundary and standards are. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 02:21 PM |
| 5 | Just a little motivation for you ladies!Hell yes Ladies. Be the high value woman that your parents were trying to match you with. i am a south asian doctor and this sub reaffirms a lot of principles i had in my mind but the pickmeishaness of the world drowned out. Now i see where i went wrong in my past dating endeavours. Nothing wrong with being single, conquering the world and contributing by following your passions. You want someone who will walk with you on this journey as your equal not someone who will block your path. In my bac… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 01:31 PM |
| 24 | All The People Who Judge This Sub are FULL OF SHITThe people who judge or ban this sub are worried about their assumptions being challenged. They know internally there is truth behind what we say and they are unable to level up in their lives so they attack people who are. Seriously after reading the FDS handbook i have had a complete mindset change when it comes to dating. It actually heals me from my past. Ive read dating books written by men and they mention a lot of what is already in FDS. Having standards is important, don't give out sex e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 12:13 AM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020Good on your mom for standing up for herself. It is not easy at all in south asian cultures. I am of Indian background and my parents had struggles and conflicts. Then my mother passed away. I always sensed this tension between my mother's and fathers family which affected their relationship. Unhappy relationships in the one home is not always healthy (physically and mentally). Your support will be invaluable to your mother. prayers for you and your family. If you ever want to chat feel free to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020I can understand where you are coming from. I have had those struggles myself. Sometimes you wonder why the struggles are unending and is everyone going through these same struggles or is the grass greener on the other side. Being from a south asian family just multiplies these struggles. Just reading these posts here and feeling a community of similar minded females has helped compared to usual female friends who are desperate to be in a relationship even if unhealthy. the typical pickmes. Then… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 10:53 PM |
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