hikeruntravellive Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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11	Dating women with kids As a rule I don’t date women with kids. Too much potential for drama or gold digging.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/04/26 12:34 AM
1	My fiance called me unromantic for wanting a prenup - why is protecting myself controversial? If she’s not willing to sign it then walk. Honestly, I’d advise against marriage altogether since half the prenups get busted open. Why can’t you just be together without the piece of paper? You already have been for a few years. Why mess things up with a worthless paper??	/r/MensRights	19/02/26 10:11 PM
8	Stay at home parent Thats called justifying her laziness! Im a single dad of 2 kids and have a full time job as well. If the kids are in school then between 9-3pm theres almost nothing to do. It doesnt take 8 hours to clean the house and cook. My house is spotless and I cook all of our meals ini under 30 minutes a day. Laundry? Throwing clothing in a machine and pushing 3 buttons. If you have kids at home then they need to be supervised but even then it isnt full time because they nap a few hours a day as well. Lon…	/r/MensRights	20/12/25 09:17 PM
2	As a high-earner, is my apprehension about marriage rational, or am I being excessively paranoid? It's just as bad in R states. I think it just comes down to consumerism. At the end of the day, laws are made for the large corporations and not the people. Women are far more likely to spend money then men are so the large corps rather the women have the cash to inflate their earnings. It just comes down to simple economics.	/r/MensRights	09/12/25 02:27 PM
13	As a high-earner, is my apprehension about marriage rational, or am I being excessively paranoid? If you’re a high earner then you’d be a total fool to get married. Even 50% of prenups are busted open.	/r/MensRights	07/12/25 08:26 PM
3	Lawyer told me in a divorce I’d be financially wrecked. Wife is emotionally gone. Any dads survive getting hit with this reality? Based on what you wrote it seems lawyer is correct. Can you get her to start working before you file? This will alleviate some of the alimony and add her money to half the stash.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/12/25 01:07 PM
1	Thoughts on abortion? Pro choice here.	/r/MensRights	30/11/25 07:47 AM
-2	Kirk situation. I’m pretty sure the guy that killed kkkirk was a magat.	/r/MensRights	13/09/25 07:27 AM
7	Just got "divorced" two hours ago. Anything I can do? Welcome to the first day of the rest of your life. Initially this is likely devastating. You’re in a very good position here. You don’t have kids and you’re young. If you’re feeling emotionally shaky, get into therapy and process this. Take some time for yourself. Don’t make the mistake of marrying again. You were only emotionally devastated this time. You could’ve been financially ruined as well. You really got off easy. Learn from this and find ways to enjoy life.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/07/25 01:09 AM
3	Good gym routine for post-divorce? Stringlifts 5x5. Simple and very effective at building muscle. Thank me in a few months.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/07/25 03:06 AM
13	Would you remarry and have more children in your 40's? Hello no!!!!	/r/Divorce_Men	18/06/25 02:44 AM
1	I can't live with this settlement. How screwed am I? I wish I could upvote this more than once.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/11/24 12:39 AM
11	Did you ex change her name back and if so did that bother you? Because it did for me. She did and I liked it. I didn’t want her going around with my name lest people think we’re connected. Everyone is different though. Give yourself time.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/07/24 03:20 AM
10	Half a fucking million. I made the same mistake as you and many other men and married a woman with degrees that suddenly got lazy and decided to be a stay at home mom. Wow! Pushing 3 buttons on the washing machine and the dishwasher is real difficult! How do they ever do it?? Had to pay dearly for it as well. The bright side is that once you’re free of her you still have the skills to climb back to the top with the advantage of NOT having the DEAD WEIGHT!	/r/Divorce_Men	10/06/24 11:31 AM
1	It's done. Deal of a lifetime!!	/r/Divorce_Men	01/05/24 11:30 AM
7	Do I pay alimony even though wife refuses to work? Generally yes. However talk to you lawyer and try to get a vocational assessment. Then you can try and impute wages in her based on what she’s actually worth. I did that with my ex (had a masters and was in her way to PhD) who tried to cry stay at home mom crap. I’m the end we settled and I got away without alimony but if it went to trial my lawyer was going to try and impute wages based on her vocational assessment.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/02/24 07:27 PM
6	I’m really stuck Life is short my man. You’re in a far better position than the men here. Her problems are not your problems. If you want to leave then go. Enjoy life and move on. Sounds like she did a while ago but is hanging around to free load off of you for as long as you will allow her to. Cut the cord and enjoy your next chapter.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/02/24 03:45 AM
6	Ex wife is completely off the rails Similar story. My kids had a very difficult time as well. Find a good family therapist and get them there asap. I found a child therapist that focuses on trauma and I’m really glad I did. It was really helpful for the kids. I really think that the trauma focus is key since divorce is traumatic as hell to children and they don’t have coping mechanisms built in to deal with it.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/02/24 02:56 PM
7	EX is trying to force 50/50 Custody I hope this is a fake post. In the event that it’s not I’ll just say that I, like many men in this forum have spent hundreds of thousands of dollars, years of stress, pain and anguish just to try to get 50-50 time with my kids or as close to it. I consider myself lucky that I got 50/50 and my daughter lives with me full time by her choice. That said, go look at the messages of desperation written by men here who received far less time with their kids. Many cry themselves to sleep every night and…	/r/Divorce_Men	03/02/24 02:03 PM
2	Has anyone here married a medical doctor (or other highly educated person) and had their marriage suffer from ego? I’ve dated a bunch of drs over the last few years and found that they all have zero respect for anyone’s time except their own. They will show up to dates late, in scrubs or in many case not even show up and don’t bother to call. It’s gotten to he point where I only go out with a dr. If I can book a date with another dr. That previously stood me up at the same time across the street. I do t think their schedules are conducive to dating so marriage would be a lot worse I imagine. That’s been my e…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/01/24 04:18 PM
3	One marriage enough? Or more to come. In that case I have no idea how you would even consider marriage again.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/01/24 12:05 AM
3	One marriage enough? Or more to come. If you have a gun to your head then definitely do a prenup but just know that 1/2 the time they’re invalidated or challengers and youl have to settle. You don’t have to get married to keep the family together. You can live together without the governments piece of paper that forfeits your property to the state so they can give half to her. Scroll through this forum some more and don’t make the mistakes we made.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/01/24 11:54 PM
2	One marriage enough? Or more to come. We don’t know that it protected him. He had to settle and he paid millions in his and her legal fees.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/01/24 11:48 PM
4	One marriage enough? Or more to come. They still claim duress and all sorts of other things. Look at what happened with Kevin Costner! He’s worth half a billion and his lawyers are the best you can get. He had a prenup and he had to settle. That means she got a large payout a lot more than the prenup. If Kevin Costners fancy lawyers couldn’t protect him then no one can protect you.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/01/24 11:46 PM
2	One marriage enough? Or more to come. Prenups get busted open 1/2 the time. They’re not safe. You don’t need a piece of paper saying you’re married. All that does is allow the government to take half your wealth and give it to her when she leaves.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/01/24 11:44 PM
9	One marriage enough? Or more to come. Married again? Never. Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. I learned my lesson the first time. The system is rigged to financially motivate the woman to leave the man. She gets rich doing it!! At most I’d live together and make certain that it can’t be considered marriage. Even if I had a kid it would be without marriage. I say this to women on the first date. Many understand and the ones that don’t are poison and likely looking to hijacke your stash.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/01/24 11:43 PM
10	How Much Divorce Has Cost Me Financially Depending on your state, you might’ve got off lucky with such low legal fees. The true solution is not to marry. Prenups get busted 1/2 the time for all sorts of ridiculous reasons. When they aren’t busted open, there’s still a higher payout due to settlement. Once you get married legally it’s all over for the man financially if he’s the higher earner.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/01/24 03:58 PM
13	Man murders judge who awarded ex-wife custody of children that morning Not condoning violence but really surprised this doesn’t happen a lot more frequently. When I went from being able to see my kids daily to just 50% of the time, I was broken and devastated and I got lucky with 50%. When dads lose their kids all together they have nothing to lose and the most dangerous person I. The world is someone with nothing to lose. For those that see the article, the guy seemed like a normal professional.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/10/23 11:12 PM
3	No wife happy life This is exactly what I do!	/r/Divorce_Men	01/08/23 01:20 AM
6	Question for men Learn from our mistakes. Do you think any of us got married planning divorce? We were all in love with the perfect woman just like you. Yet here we are. Don’t get married. If you must get married then at the very least make sure that you have her sign the prenup. If she doesn’t sign it then she’s already planning the divorce and had her eyes on your stash of cash. Don’t be a fool. Learn from our mistakes.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/07/23 12:06 AM
4	Did anyone else’s ex become a “strong independent woman”? Yeah. My ex becomes a string independent woman with my credit card in her purse that I paid for. I remember the tantrum she threw when I cancelled the credit card. I just said what’s the issue? You’re strong and independent. You don’t want my money. She wasn’t so strong and independent after all.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/07/23 09:36 AM
1	What did you do with your ring Ex never gave it back to me!!	/r/Divorce_Men	28/06/23 12:30 AM
6	my 14 years old princess wants nothing to do with me boys, it's over for me This is most likely parental alienation. My ex tried to do this with my daughter as well. In my case it totally backfired and now she refuses to have any relationship with her mother. In some cases you can request that the court mandate reunification therapy. It has a really low success rate but might be worth a chance. You sound like a really good dad. Don’t give up. She might come around. She’s a teen Agee and at that age all it takes is for her mom to ground her or take her cell phone and she…	/r/Divorce_Men	24/06/23 11:16 PM
19	Kevin Costner wife want divorce and $250k to maintain her lifestyle, even after she signed prenup If Kevin Costner can’t hold onto a women do you really think you can? Learn from his mistakes. Don’t get married!!	/r/Divorce_Men	23/06/23 05:33 PM
3	Was it worth it? My ex filed against me and tore our family apart because “she changed and felt we’re not compatible any longer”. With a lot of help from then brothers here I eventually got myself together. Now I’m divorced, have more than 50-50 and much happier. Yes I was willing to put up with a shitty sexless marriage for the kids sake but she decided to file. I’m in a much better place now and less than a year later.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/06/23 02:01 AM
1	Best way to bring up divorce By serving her!	/r/Divorce_Men	18/06/23 08:00 PM
11	Forgive the rant but I need to air all this out. This woman is mentally deranged. You need to run. You also suffer from nice guy syndrome. Read no more mr. Nice guy.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/06/23 12:51 AM
26	Is it worth it? I have kids but as a rule I don’t date single moms. Chances are that they did to their ex what mine did to me. Tore apart our family for some cash. No single moms for me.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/06/23 12:37 PM
1	Is it worth it? Do you really want to find out? I’m sure there might be a decent woman out there that’s not in it for the money but why take the risk. I date and I’m always clear with the females that I will not ever get married again. If that’s a problem then we best end this now. These days, especially successful, middle aged women are open to cohabitating without marriage.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/06/23 12:36 PM
9	Would you marry again? Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me! Hell no! Legal marriage offers no upside to men these days especially if they are marrying someone who earns less than them. It puts you at extreme financial risk of total ruin and at 30 or 40 years old we can't afford to make that mistake again. You don't need the legal document in order to have a relationship with a woman. You can cohabitate and even have children while maintaining separate accounts and finances so that you do not expose …	/r/Divorce_Men	11/06/23 09:19 PM
9	Any tips on being alone? Fwb does exist but you need to retrain your brain to manage it. At least I had to. Read the rational male. That will help you out things into perspective. Then go out and try to practice dating with your new boundaries and rules. It’s not easy and takes a while to find unless you’re really good looking, rich AND confident. However, if you’re average and keep in shape then you are faaaar ahead of the curve. Try all outlets. Online dating, singles events, clubs, museums etc. practice picking up wo…	/r/Divorce_Men	11/06/23 01:42 PM
13	14 years wasted and confused I just want to hijack this thread to say you should listen to this guy. I was also n a similar situation where I worked like an animal to provide for the stay at home mom. I also cleaned, cooked, did homework with kids, picked up and dropped them off and much more. One day she said were no longer compatible. I tried, begged for therapy but it was as if a new person woke up one day. The only useful advice was what I got from this forum. I did everything above except I run instead of lift. I fough…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/06/23 10:19 PM
2	STBX is watching all my social media accounts including this one... Don’t pay attention. Just be happy you are getting rid of Renee with yesterdays trash. Move on. What Renee has yet to realize is that you are an appreciating asset while she is a depreciated asset. Very soon Renee will have her rude awakening. Enjoy your new life!	/r/Divorce_Men	07/06/23 11:46 AM
12	Court Next Week - Ex is asking for everything My ex wanted everything and then some. I hired a good lawyer who went to work. It wasn’t cheap but worth every cent. She’s being unreasonable and with the help of a decent lawyer the judge will see that. Your lawyer should be able to impute wages so that even if she only makes $50k she will get imputed as if she’s making 70-80k based on what she’s able to make. That will lower your payments. Go for as much custody and time with the kids as you can. In addition to getting to spend more time with …	/r/Divorce_Men	01/06/23 08:54 AM
1	Not moving out - idea of what to expect? I did it. It was miserable but worth it because I got 50-50 in the end. Make sure you have your own room with a lock on the door. Install cameras or wear a body camera if you can so she can’t call the police for fake violence. Good luck.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/05/23 11:52 PM
12	Tinder fun Date and fuck. Don’t be dumb enough to get tied down /married again though. You’re right. They’re looking for the next victim. Don’t be that guy.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/04/23 07:15 PM
3	Considering suicide. Divorce destroyed my life. Hey divorced_men brother. I’m not going to offer advice or a plan. Others have already if you should decide to follow. Just here to say that I’ve been where you are, it’s a horrible place to be. I feel for you. Feel free to dm if you’d like to talk.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/04/23 07:01 AM
1	What are the most aggressive legal demands your ex made against you during pretrial motions in family Court ? Did we marry the same woman?!?! My wife had a masters and on her way to PHD. Refused to work the whole marriage. In addition I cleaned, cooked, took the kids to school, did homework with them. Not really sure what she did all day. She requested full time with kids in a state thats 50/50 default, alimony, child support half my premarital assets and marital assets and more! Ended up getting some of my 401k, 50/50 on kids, 50/50 on expenses, no alimony or CS. I got lucky because I took the best law…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/04/23 09:24 PM
1	What are the most aggressive legal demands your ex made against you during pretrial motions in family Court ? So my case ended up getting settled moments before trial. However, the most important thing that you can do is get a really good lawyer. I spent a ton of money and I am a very frugal person by nature. My lawyer even told me that I'm the cheapest son of a b@#$h he's ever met! A top lawyer probably pays off the judges in some form or another (campaign financing, friends at the gold club etc) and make no mistake, it goes a long way. In addition, they know the law really well so when they make a cla…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/04/23 09:19 PM
1	Advice to men: Don't be fooled by those who advise you not to co-habitat or date, nearly all cases in family court are marriage related. If you don't sign the marriage certificate, there is little chance you will end up in family court I’d love to see stats on common law divorces. If legal marriages end in 85% of the time woman filing for divorce, what are stats on common law marriages? I’m not dumb enough to marry again. I would cohabitat with a female if there wasn’t financial risk.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/03/23 09:28 AM
5	What are the most aggressive legal demands your ex made against you during pretrial motions in family Court ? Mine wanted spousal support and child support that came out to more than I make. In addition, she wanted half of all pre marital assets and most of marital assets. The real kicker was that her parents were “lending” her money for years that I didn’t know about and she wanted me to repay all of her “loans” to her parents as well!! The scary thing is she was on her way to getting it before I changed lawyer to a real high priced but good lawyer. New lawyer got me probably the best deal a man can ge…	/r/Divorce_Men	31/03/23 09:07 AM
2	Ohio Bill for Automatic 50-50 Child Custody Introduced - Same Opposition as Before Can you post a source to this?	/r/Divorce_Men	18/03/23 06:20 PM
2	Ohio Bill for Automatic 50-50 Child Custody Introduced - Same Opposition as Before Just finished a divorce in Ohio. Even prior to this being passed the starting point was 50/50. I will contact the reps in the link above. Anyone else I should be bugging? TIA.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/03/23 04:20 PM
3	Hey y’all. I could use some encouragement. Having a rough time. I can relate a little bit. I have a special needs son and also was dumped by the ex who decided to break up our family because she changed. I was like you. Willing to bend over backwards and hurt myself to try and accommodate and keep the family together. It just hurt me. There’s a reason that when you’re on an airplane, if the cabin loses pressure you put your own mask in first. Even before your kids! Why? Because if you don’t out your mask on you won’t be conscious to help your kid. Take that …	/r/Divorce_Men	15/03/23 12:44 AM
1	Ex asking to do things as a family You said it yourself. You’re not interested. End of story.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/03/23 08:54 PM
8	I might be in trouble. Is your ex educated? I’m todays economy even uneducated people can get starting salaries of 40k per year flipping burgers. If she tries to pull the too lazy to work card then you need to get a vocational assessment. It should cost a few grand but we’ll worth it in the long run. My ex tried to pull the I’m too lazy to work while sitting on a masters degree. My mistake was that I let her stay home because I thought that would be good for the family. Boy was I a fool. I got off lucky and no alimony…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/03/23 09:20 AM
7	Should I get divorce? Seems like you answered your own question but you’re in the thick of it so it’s difficult to see straight. Doesn’t sound like you have a happy future with this woman and the longer you stick around the more time you’re wasting on dead weight.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/03/23 03:24 PM
2	What are some things you do with/for your kid(s) that make you feel like you're a good dad? My daughter lives by me full time since she refuses to see her mother and my son is 50/50. Quality time can be anything as simple as just sitting on the couch together and chatting or as complex as a trip to another state. I play with the kids and the dog together. I run with my daughter (she’s 10). I play cars and trucks with my son (he’s 6). We have pillow fights with all of us. We go to minor league baseball and hockey games since they’re cheap and fun. Friday night is usually pizza and movie…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/03/23 02:24 AM
2	How do i get past the anger ...... I also get frustrated and upset. For very different reasons. I couldn’t care less if she’s with someone else. I’m just so upset that my ex was willing to break up a nice family and harm my children over nothing. I don’t have a magical answer. Everyone’s different. I got into running and that’s been helpful. If you find yourself being ragefull too many days in a row then seek therapy. Best investment you can make is in yourself. Live the remaining part of your life as happy as possible.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/02/23 09:52 AM
3	The Rational male I was raised to be the ultimate simp and so I was for my entire marriage until one day the wife who had everything she wanted decided she changed and we’re no longer compatible. At some point I was introduced to the rational male and read it. While I don’t subscribe to all he says it definitely was a game changer in how I view relationships with women. I only wish I learned this at 20 rather than 40. The basic principle is that while you might think women like the nice guy, they don’t respect it…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/02/23 12:03 PM
6	Getting married The good news is you have found this sub before getting married. I wish I had. It would’ve saved me a lot of misery! No one gets married planning for divorce yet here we all are. Don’t make the same mistake that we did. You already know the consequences. Like I said you’re lucky you found this sub before making a huge mistake. Learn from our mistakes. Its cheaper!!	/r/Divorce_Men	27/12/22 03:06 AM
11	Are you dating during your divorce? Are you repeating your same patterns? A friend got me a copy of the rational male. I’m trying to apply those principals to my life. No more being a simp. Can’t afford to make any more mistakes.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/12/22 08:32 AM
1	stbx may have cancer.. You need for make decisions as if you never heard about the cancer.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/12/22 05:54 PM
1	I want to abandon my children I don’t have advice to offer but I’m really sorry you’re going through this.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/10/22 12:22 AM
6	My wife is wanting to leave me. What do I do? He’s better off lawyering up and doing all of this from a position of power rather than weakness.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/09/22 12:18 AM
15	My wife is wanting to leave me. What do I do? Please listen to this guy. I was where you are about a year ago and I didn’t yet know about this forum to help me. This is difficult to hear because your are thinking logically. How can a woman break up a family and harm the kids in the process? Well they don’t think logically. They’re selfish. She is not the woman you think you married. Listen to this guy start seeing lawyers asap. Don’t get left holding you dick. You need to listen to the people here who have seen and been through this.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/09/22 12:17 AM
4	Drugs? My stbxw is the same useless trash as yours. Never worked, spent my hard earned money and then decided to file for divorce. I know that when you’re in the rhino if things it’s hard to hear advice and even more difficult to see how it will help and almost impossible to act in it. Going to the gym is more than just running or pumping iron. It’s like religion without the toxicity of religion. It’s a social club formed around people who wish to better themselves. You will meet people, interact with …	/r/Divorce_Men	09/09/22 09:25 AM
1	After 7 years and a 2 year old, wife wants divorce. Same story here! I cleaned and took care of the kids as well. Wife’s friends are all divorced and added fuel to the fire. Read the hell out of this forum and lean on us for support. We’re here for you.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/09/22 06:56 PM
1	What is the point of a lawyer?! Did your lawyer say what you are looking at for Alyssa support?	/r/Divorce_Men	02/09/22 01:00 AM
1	My wife wants a divorce because different views on spending, am I better off just letting her spend rather than get screwed financially by the divorce anyway? Here is how i see it. There are 3 options. You initiate divorce,she initiates divorce or you try to work things out which most likely ends in divorce at a later date but delays the time and allows you to possibly set yourself up for a better outcome. If either of you initiates divorce then you will get hammered financially. If you stay together then you continue to be hammered financially. As many have mentioned here, if you initiate divorce then once this is done you can rebuild your future at …	/r/Divorce_Men	04/08/22 06:48 AM
4	Divorce or grounded? She’s already made up her mind to divorce and this is just an excuse. Lawyer up now and protect your assets.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/06/22 07:21 PM
1	Need advice - contemplating divorce Then you have to suck it up for as long as you can and hope she doesn’t file (which she very well might) or preempt and file but at least you will have all of your ducks lined up to pay as little as possible.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/06/22 02:29 PM
1	Need advice - contemplating divorce If she’s a financially savvy and not a vindictive person then you can even come to an agreement where you live in different rooms and split the bills while continuing to be parents to kids. I’ve never seen this work though.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/06/22 02:17 PM
1	Need advice - contemplating divorce Was in a similar position. I was hoping she’d reconcile. Eventually she filed. Word of advice. Speak to the best lawyer you can afford asap! Figure out how to legally move your assets now so that when she claims 50% she’ll be getting 50% of nothing. It’s only a matter of time before she files and by then it’s too late. You should get the kids at least 50% of the time if you’re in a 50/50 state. It sucks. I get depressed just thinking about how I won’t see my kids every day once this is done but …	/r/Divorce_Men	29/06/22 02:05 PM
5	STBEXW is dumb. Same!	/r/Divorce_Men	28/06/22 12:50 AM
14	STBEXW is dumb. Holy shit! Same story here. I was served and figured that I’ll get the cheapest lawyer I can and settle asap I offered my stbx to settle more than 5 times! All offers very generous. In the meantime her pit I’ll lawyer started slamming me with motion after motion because he knew I had a weak lawyer. Even the court appointed psychologist said that we are both wasting money on lawyers in court. I said I’m ready to go to a mediator tomorrow morning. Her response was I prefer my lawyer handle this. I…	/r/Divorce_Men	28/06/22 12:49 AM
1	Is There Any Real Way To Marry the Right One? That is a legal issue that can be worked out without having to fork over half of the wealth that you built in the event that she turns on you.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/06/22 09:54 AM
2	Is There Any Real Way To Marry the Right One? Almost every prenup in every state has been busted. Prenups do not always. It’s much easier to keep your assets safe when you are not married. Once you’re married it’s an uphill battle and you’ll likely lose 50% just because you have the marriage license.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/06/22 04:58 PM
5	Is There Any Real Way To Marry the Right One? So true. Going through the same thing here at 39. Listen to what this guy said and don’t be us. There institution of marriage only offers disadvantages for men. If you find a woman you like then a piece of paper should not get in the way of a nice relationship together.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/06/22 04:56 PM
1	Fixing your marriage, what did you try to do? Our son.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/06/22 09:45 AM
2	Fixing your marriage, what did you try to do? I was in that position as well. I was hoping that she would come to counseling with me and try to fix the marriage. She never gave me a reason for wanting a divorce other than saying “we both changed”. We did end up going to counseling and the counselor turned out to be a total waste of time and money. I feel that she poured fuel on the fire and made things worse. I was hoping that my stbxw would at least try to come to an arrangement where we lived in the same home so that we can care for my so…	/r/Divorce_Men	21/06/22 11:29 AM
9	should I divorce him? You gained weight and he seems to like it? Doubtful. He’s probably a nice guy that’s trying to be kind to you and make you feel good about yourself even though you are not attractive to him. He’s also very stressed out and comes home to what seems like a very stressful environment. Try going to the gym and being more supportive, less bossy and naggy. Good luck.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/06/22 01:23 AM
1	My own mother giving me grief over this... Sounds unfortunate and toxic. I’d there’s no added value that the relationship brings you then drop it. Easier said than done as I’m working on this myself but still the right thing to do.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/06/22 10:12 PM
2	What should I do ? The only thing solid she’ll have is you. She’ll try to take as much as she can.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/06/22 02:10 AM
2	What should I do ? Is stay at home mom just a fancy name for willingly unemployed as I’m too lazy to go work?	/r/Divorce_Men	06/06/22 10:14 PM
12	Just cannot stop shaking my head Easier said than done but you need to: Cut the drinking. Seek help, a program. Whatever. Start running or going to the gym. This will be a great substitute for the drinking and is healthy. Your daughter will see the major changes and come to respect you. It will go a long way in repairing your relationship. Lawyer up. Find the best junkyard dog of a lawyer you can find and hit her first. Do t give her the opportunity to narrate the story by filing first and painting you as a useless drunk. Have …	/r/Divorce_Men	01/06/22 01:44 AM
6	It’s crazy how many women of this generation don’t even care to try and fix issues in marriage. I am truly shocked on how fast and easy she was willing to give all this up… They have no reason to fix things. The moment they get divorced they get half of your hard earned money, alimony and if you have kids they get another check every month for that as well. What incentive is there to stay?!	/r/Divorce_Men	23/05/22 11:39 PM
7	That $1.6m house has her wanting to reconcile Her only saving grace is that she’s honest about being a gold digging whore.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/05/22 09:38 PM
2	I'm feeling Schadenfreude over the Roe v. Wade decision. I honestly don't really care about abortion. But I love seeing the tidal wave of angry comments from women about how their government has let them down. This will just mean more child support to pay for men.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/05/22 12:39 AM
5	Is there really a 50% chance of this happening? There is only upside for the woman to leave. She can get half of the assets that you worked your ass off to build, get alimony to sit on her lazy ass and do nothing and more. So, why stay?	/r/Divorce_Men	02/04/22 10:37 PM