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40s is well past the time to start a truly bonding relationship again, unless you're okay (legally/ethically) dating teens or 20s girls. Your best option for a happy monogamy again is by finding a non-promiscuous HB7/8 widow, preferably from a dead husband.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/23 03:34 AM
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When she entertains the idea of being with another man™ romantically/sexually, implying 'there's this guy into me' or that she can bang someone else if she's not with you. An ex usually may involved. Of course, normal/practical chit-chatting about everyday male human doesn't count.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/23 08:50 AM
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Imagine SMV is akin to a spider-web chart. Improving your weakest aspect of masculinity will yield you the most result on your attrativeness.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/23 01:16 AM
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Good read. One thing I'd underline; if the shit test is about another man™, it's either you already lost your frame, or she's a bitch not worth any of your investment/commitment. Cut your losses or plate her down, but nothing good could result, relationship-wise, if the another man™ shit-test happens.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/23 01:13 AM
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Blatant flaunting "Hey, so there's this dude that also wants me. You guys two ought fight" kinda thing. Being non-jealous and cool is only when it's other dudes trying to get your girl. You stay cool then because you know you're the only man in her dreams. When it's her that brings the topic of another guy first, it's dodo. It means you're no longer the only man she's pining for (if ever at all), and you already lost your game long, long before. That sort of behavior if okay tho if she's only on…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/23 12:12 AM
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Any girl putting another man into the picture is just a bad LTR material, let alone during the courtship phase. Either you mateguard her and lose, or stay cool and she proceeds fucking him, and you lose too. Put her down as a plate, or enjoy MFM threesome if you're into it.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/23 07:54 AM
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Unicorns are not found, they are made. Eloquent. The best unicorns are those made so by their fathers, and those are worth more than diamond in today's messed world. It is then your responsibility, a lucky bastard who indeed found an unicorn, to keep her being an unicorn with your strong masculine leadership, protector and provider figure.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/23 01:52 AM
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Say anything you want; islam is right about banning promiscuity and limiting sex as in-marriage-only.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/23 02:05 AM
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Your overall attractiveness is a spider-web chart. Being broke is unattractive in and of itself, but you don't need to be millionaire to be attractive. Probably now your weakest aspect on your radar chart is money, hence you feel that way. Improving your weakest aspect even by a little notch will gain the easiest result in terms of sexual attractiveness.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/23 11:45 PM
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Check Rivelino's Twitter on insights about building a healthy relationship with a good woman. He's the best guru on this. It all basically down to understand what traits to look for in a girl if you want a happy LTR with her. Promiscuous life is indeed unsuitable even for horniest men.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/23 10:05 PM
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Check Rivelino's twitter. He's the go-to guru if you want a loving and healthy relationship with a good girl. It basically start with knowing what traits to look for in a relationship-worthy girls. This sub is more biased toward player-promiscuity life and is not suited for even most men.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/23 12:37 AM
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Check Rivelino's twitter. He's the go-to guru if you want a loving and healthy relationship with a good girl. It basically start with knowing what traits to look for in a relationship-worthy girls. This sub is more biased toward player-promiscuity life and is not suited for even most men.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/23 12:30 AM
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No. Challenge is only one of male attractiveness aspect that is fluid and perceived relatively. Over-challenging a woman to pursue you will not attract her more than a set of prior attractive traits you own.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/23 03:37 AM
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It has long been known that the peak sexual satisfaction for a man is a harem. Rotate-fucking few attractive women (concubines) who are loyal and not fucking any other man. Kings and emperors in the history of the world ranged from monogamous to promiscuous, but the vast majority of them prefer this harem sexual life.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/23 03:46 PM
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Male attractiveness is a spider-web chart. To gain the most result for the least effort, improve your weakest aspect of attractiveness first.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/23 08:07 AM
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Not at all. Just don't persist talking to 'mentally closed' chicks. Being friendly and warm toward girls in general is fine. Dressing well thus is a big part of the game. My own minimum bar for cold approach is three, repeated eye contacts before I say anything to her. This way, I approached less girls but with much higher success rate (getting number/dates).
/r/TheRedPill21/01/23 11:56 PM
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Your cold approach probably is too random without watching for some early IOI, so you ends up embarass yourself more often than not. Read more about indirect gaming, preselection, day game, etc
/r/TheRedPill21/01/23 12:18 AM
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2013, just when I met my semi-unicorn wife.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/23 10:12 PM
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Your cold approach is probably too random without looking for some early IOI, so you just end up embarass yourself more often than not. Start improving on your looks, dress better, read more about preselection and indirect gaming.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/22 07:20 AM
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A "rocky" start is a big BIG red flag that she's not a worthy LTR material. Ever. Plus she was bringing another guy in your courtship phase? That's two. Where did you first time met her? Rivelino is the best guy if you're looking for a fulfilling and healthy relationship. Check his twitter. You must find a good, feminine girl worthy an LTR first before applying any red pill/game to her.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/22 12:05 PM
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US women are beyond repair
/r/TheRedPill10/12/22 09:52 AM
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Go to somewhere Asia. It's a very underrated option for men seeking a good, healthy relationship.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/22 12:08 AM
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Touching first is not a DHV. Beware equating assertiveness and dominance with horniness. Always, always let her touch you first.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/22 10:56 PM
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Your voting options are odd. However, a good woman that ocassionally comforts her man like an older sister to her younger brother do exist. Just don't expect her to be your mother. Know the limit.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/22 01:33 PM
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Do you even know what you're talking about? https://quran.com/33/33
/r/TheRedPill06/09/22 09:20 PM
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Islam is right about keeping women at home.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/22 12:38 PM
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Those are very reasonable requirements for an LTR, but alas, if you are currently in the USA, finding those good LTR material is next to impossible, simply because how fucked American women are. Move aboard or find a foreigner lover, that's prorbably the best path for you forward. I suggest following Rivelino's twitter for more insight about optimism in building a healthy relationship and love (if you haven't already).
/r/TheRedPill03/09/22 06:06 AM
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I would add good cook as a main preselector when choosing an LTR.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/22 10:22 PM
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I'll state it again and again; male attractiveness is pretty much a spider-web chart (or radar chart, precisely). It's not that overcompensating on one aspect of attractiveness will suddenly drown you in pussies.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/22 12:05 AM
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If there is ever one single trait of a girl to be considered LTR unicorn, that would be cooking.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/22 09:30 PM
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Happy relationship with a good woman is not "blue pill" as some might say. Follow Rivelino for insights about good girl and good love.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/22 09:45 PM
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STFU is the rule of thumb while sharing some things is exception. Always err on the side of talking too little.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/22 08:13 AM
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Just move elsewhere. Maybe your place is just shit. Try daygame and meet objectively higher quality women.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/22 07:56 AM
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Spider web chart. All matters to a degree.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/22 04:30 AM
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Bars simply are the wrong place to find a girl to be exclusive with, let alone one that started with single session of raunchy sex. Check Rivelino's twitter if you haven't know about it already. He's a great guru on finding high quality girls worthy an LTR.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/22 12:13 AM
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AWALT, but the severity actually varies by some degree. Rivelino is my go-to guru if I'm pessimistic about love. Go see his twitter. I know marriage is still a bad prospect on average, with American women being as damaged as they are now.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/22 09:56 PM
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AWALT, but the severity actually varies. OP's ex is likely the worse side of the AWALT spectrum. It would help if OP describes how and where he met her, it would explain a lot of things. My go-to guru when I'm pessimistic about AWALT is Rivelino. He gives good insight on being optimistic in love and finding particularly good LTR girl. Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/22 10:28 PM
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Sidebar : Men are polygamous, women are hypergamous.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/22 02:12 AM
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"Shy, conservative girl" who "never kissed anyone" whose virginity taken by you simply does not "went to the club in her second day" as a student abroad.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/22 08:52 AM
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This is a great idea. Looking good naked is a absolute prerequisite. It actually doesn't have to be Schwarzenegger, 15% body fat is good enough start.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/22 10:18 PM
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Flirt with other chicks, or better, let them flirt with you.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/22 06:06 AM
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Always consider your value as a man is like a spider-web chart (a.k.a. radar chart). This is very easy-to-understand concept yet it's not being talked enough IMO. You must improve your weakest masculinity aspect to be more attractive sexually.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/22 05:43 PM
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No man. The social conditioning of female is not as horrendous as feminism in American society.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/22 02:41 AM
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Your view is more correctly refered as 'black pill' and I think it applies, if at all, mainly only in U.S. The rest of the world are barely as bad as America, sex-wise, even in third world countries.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/22 12:29 AM
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The urge to win logically against women is very tempting, particularly if you are a man of intellect. Just fight against that urge, STFU and realize that it doesn't matter in the slightest, even beckfires in most cases.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/22 03:19 AM
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I just want to tell you a very important tip : Male sexual value works like a radar-chart. Always improve yuur current weakest point and you will gain the most results with the least effort. So, in your case, if your game skill is already good enough to bang few pussies, better stop over-improve it and next, focus on your other aspect of masculinity. For you, I guess it's your financial situation. Landing a decent job will attract pussy way more than you can imagine. The same goes for physical f…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/22 09:34 PM
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Interesting, tho I prefer buying slightly costlier, better-looking quality underwear that lasts 2 to 3 years.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/22 03:36 AM
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Please elaborate more about semi-annual underwear replacement.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/22 10:19 PM
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Being factually correct is not inherently unattractive.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/22 10:55 PM
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Sounds like a bitch that won't submit to your authority, even after you two have fucked for good. Nothing can make a penis flaccid more than a bitter, arguing feminist. You have no problem at all.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/22 07:56 PM
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There are many school of thoughts on how-many-aspects male-attractiveness is divided into. I like Donal Graemes' version of The Four Pillars of Attraction: Unchangeable looks: height, deformation, skin color, race, etc Changeable looks: fitness, hairstyle, dressing Your inner-value: Frame, game, fame, knowledge Your asset's value: Pretty much the money you own Of course there may be some overlap on some of those, i.e. You need some money to dress well. And so on.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/22 12:26 PM
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Male attractiveness is best considered like spider-web chart, while OP is over-emphasizing on looks. Every aspect of men's attractiveness works on the principle of diminishing returns. So, a man with good job that he's not money-pinching is far more attractive than a broke guy but being a millionaire businessman is way unnecessary in terms of dating strategy. It's a pretty hard goal to achieve while it isn't much @ sexual turn-on for women. The same goes for physical fitness. Most healthy male c…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/22 09:33 PM
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I've seen sluts in their best camouflages; teaching kindergarten, volunteering charities, gardening flowers, into books, even into knitting (!). But I've yet seen slut loves cooking. I'm no national-class-player tho so I'm certain the exact statistic varies.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/22 11:33 PM
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A good yardstick for choosing the right girl to marry is that she cooks well. Cooking is one of the few female qualities that NAWALT applies.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/22 08:04 PM
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Yeah it's kinda combining blackpill laziness with redpill optimism. But within redpill itself, there are two extremes of goal. One being Athol Kay, and the other is being RooshV. The middle-path between happy monogamous marriage and total promiscuity does exist, and that is what most men probably want from TRP.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/21 04:08 AM
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It's difficult. That's why building harem of loyal girls is the hardest game men can have.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/21 08:50 AM
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The peak sexual happiness and satiafaction a man can have is, a harem. Rotating few women who are loyal and not fucking another man. High n count, promiscuous sex life will invariably dull and tiring, yet most men will also bored with only 1 partner.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/21 06:05 AM
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That is the very reason why historically kings/emperors everywhere always build harem. The most rewarding, satisfying and probably what makes peak happiness in a man's sex life is: Rotate-fucking few women who are loyal (not fucking any other man).
/r/TheRedPill20/10/21 12:45 AM
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I'd like to add one thing that you fail to mention in your, uh, well-written post: Daddy issue. The easiest, most reliable way to detect (and avoid) if a chick has an, intrinsic misery, as you say, is just to see her relationship with her father.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/21 12:32 AM
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You're pretty lucky that your mom is a good woman that didn't simply run away (or cheat) from a weak husband. She has quite upright sense about integrity. Don't hate your mom for being incapable to do something your dad neglected; leading that is.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/21 01:06 AM
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It's not a 'term' per se, but if there's one single thing to look for in a woman if you ever gonna give commitment, it is her cooking ability. Never, ever LTR a non-cooking woman.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/21 10:30 AM
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Women preserve their inherent value. The most valuable thing every women born with are hymens. Men are otherwise born with no inherent value and must acomplish things in life to be valuable. "Hymens don't matter" said no king ever.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/21 09:04 PM
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Game for men is like make-up and outfits for women (to put it simply). Makeup can help a girl scoring 1-or-2 point higher SMV man than she could otherwise with her plain looks. But she must genuinely improves herself if she want to keep high quality man. Eat better, behave better, etc. Relying only on makeup will make her exhausted and only shallow relationship happens. As a man, being too game-y maybe can get you HB9 or HB10, but it will only be short time and unsatisfying.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/21 03:40 PM
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It depends on where you are, but after years of being redpilled, AWALT is not 100% true. There are few truly good girls with upright morality that won't hop between dicks as easily. They are of course still hypergamous, attracted to masculinity etc. But they don't manipulate you as AF/BB. Cooking is a very good indicator of such girl in my experience. As long as you don't expect an unicorn, being optimistic to be in a good relationship is actually realistic.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/21 10:17 PM
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Athol Kay of MMSL got it right that Alpha-Beta is two separate traits on perpendicular axis. You can be highly beta and simultaneously alpha enough. It's just that BP often compensate his lack of alphaness with more beta that most RP newbies misunderstoodly Alpha-Beta is contradicting each other.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/21 08:29 PM
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Upping your frame in a relationship is an uphill struggle if she know you are a beta since you first meet. This is the same reason that red pill marriage 'repair' only works if the sex was good in the early stage of marriage.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/21 10:33 PM
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Be a muslim and go to Saudi man. 4 wives and those are exclusively yours.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/21 04:17 AM
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Virgins have way, way wider margin of error for you sliping into betaness. AWALT is true, and bitch virgin does exist. But virgin is one of the main criteria of what makes a good wife. The other important thing to look for from a wife, from my experience, is to marry a good cook.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/21 09:48 PM
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The more I think about it, the more I wonder; what if islam actually has the correct answer for everything? Islam is patriarchial yet acknowledges hypergamy, while it allows polygamy with limit (4 wives is max). Women must be restrained yet her keeper (father/brother/husband) must do so with love. Breadwinning is totally men's responsibility with women's obligation is just obey her father/husband.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/21 07:56 AM
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I think you've missed my point. To be that 10% men (sexually), you must gain all masculinity traits as whole package. A man with 60% muscle, 60% rich, 60% smart, 70% game has higher absolute SMV than other man with 98% muscle, 40% rich, 40% smart, 50% game. So this way, if your weakest point is money now, the best way to up your SMV is to improve your financial. Find better job, invest, gamble etc. Hence the spider-web chart concept I mentioned above.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/21 10:40 PM
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That's why I suggest self-improvement is actually a spider-web chart. Even sex itself, which I think is the main drive of the whole TRP and manosphere. Becoming super-promiscuous rockstar is the wrong goal if what you're looking for is simply a happier and satisfying life.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/21 01:45 PM
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If you want to be Kennedy/Hitler/Gandhi etc, written in every history books for decades to come, by all means go for it. What I'm saying is for average male going to TRP seeking happier and more fulfilling life (particularly on sex and relationship) always remember the spider-web concept I mentioned above.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/21 01:35 PM
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This is particularly the reason you shouldn't aim to be on the 'top most' status, whether financially, intellectually, being famous, etc. The rule of diminishing return works here. If all you want is just to be happy and content with your life, you should aim to improve your weakest aspect of the masculinity traits. Think your life is like a spider-web chart. The best result is if you can successfully being above average on all the masculinity traits. For example, being Bezos, Suckerberg (top ri…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/21 07:41 AM
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This is why, by red pill theory, you must choose a girl with good and strong father figure should you ever decide to marry someday. It's ideally a father's responsibility to guard a girl's most precious value and making sure it's handed first into her husband. The correct term for that value is thus 'virginity' IMO and money is not really good analogy for it.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/21 06:20 AM
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I'm just saying hi, OP. What a username LOL. Good luck with your RP progress.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/21 03:07 AM
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If you are not sure if your growth is already stopped yet, better maximise your last few years of height growth. Buy supplements, eat expensive good foods etc. Second, be good with money ASAP. Never going into consumptive debt.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/21 01:20 AM
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No shit man. Unless you are a Saudi yourself. If she's practically an undamaged modern woman who 'cooks cleans blows docile' you better appreciate and reward her good deeds long before she craves any gangbang. You have no idea how precious an undamaged woman in today's world is.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/21 01:32 AM
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Except that 'spinning plates' is pickup artistry and not really part of red pill. Hypergamy, frame, and abundance mentality are.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/21 03:54 AM
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That's why arguing is IMO the most pointless thing we do as species. Truth is just that, truth. People either STFU and try grasping the truth, or they can blabber themselves down to death, in which those latter type of people deserve to be miserable.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/21 12:31 PM
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Except that today, red pill is barely secret. It is literally only one tap away on everyone's thumbtips (phone screens). Telling people about it every now and then is okay. Arguing with someone to 'accept it' is the pointless.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/21 05:59 AM
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God put the hymen there for a reason.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/21 01:21 PM
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The rule is correct per se, but man, if three weeks is what it takes to quench that flame off, consider yourself lucky not married to her.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/21 07:55 AM
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Depends on how alpha you are in the particular Ltr. But for me, it's probably a chance to get an easy lay. "Baby, based what I've experienced, women are sooo predictable during V-day. Prove me wrong."
/r/TheRedPill14/02/21 03:51 AM
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Detaching betaness takes quite some time, give or take. If she sees you as weak, whiny wimp for years, then sudden dominant, BDSM play can repulse her instantly. Especially, especially is she always knows if you're never been that alpha/masculine. "Yuck, what porn did he just watch?" Or something like that. Imagine if an obese women that you're repulsed before, suddenly wearing cat leather suit and acting naughty. Your attraction cannot just be flipped like that, just by one single sexy act.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/21 08:37 AM
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By the context of this sub, I'd say this 'Smile, slapass, walkaway' is pretty much depend on what stage you wife's attraction to you is. Here on this sub, mostly are men who are trying to attract their wives back. And this trick of 'just go for it' can actually backfire if done too soon with her attraction still low.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/21 04:21 AM
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Can only talk about my experience on LTR, but from what i've see with my own eyes, a girl that can cook well is the most reliable sign of what would make an LTR worth it. Too large of SMV gap between you and her is an issue of course, like OP said. It's just a homie cooking girl has lower chance of slutting around even if she loses interest in you gradually.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/21 02:26 AM
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That's "ordering" and not what red pill glossary usually means by "talking". Are you a native English speaker?
/r/TheRedPill10/01/21 09:55 PM
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https://medium.com/@thebestestkhan/law-4-always-say-less-than-necessary-7fb36f3f275b Talking is inherently inferior trait in a man. This is true in male-female sexual dynamics, and even also applies within non-sexual, power dynamics within men. Read the 48 laws of power if you haven't. Truly a good book.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/21 01:34 AM
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This is plain sidebar. If it's to be oversimplified, talking is actually an inherently beta trait. Very few men could utilize his verbal communication to display high value alpha and attracting chicks. For 90% guys, the rule of thumb is basically: if you're in doubt, shut your mouth.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/21 07:47 AM
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Good grammar (that is if she write much at all, and not a today's typical grrrrl) can also be a good indicator of her baseline sanity. Unless she's a professional feminist journalist of course. On of the best girl I've ever dated had a habit of handwriting her recipes, and her recipe book is very neatly arranged. Cooking is a better indicator of a quality woman tho in my experience.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/21 04:05 AM
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IMO factor 3 can be two sided : if her BF is beta then yes, 'upset' means she wants an alpha cock. If her BF is alpha though, the opposite might be true. You can be trapped as the beta comfort
/r/TheRedPill04/01/21 04:01 AM
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This is already a sidebar material AFAIK. By your definition of "outer problem" game is then an inherently "outer problem". Game to a man is only makeup and outfit are to women. Makeup and outfit will not cover a girl's obesity, lack of hygiene etc. The same goes that poor physique is "inner problem" for most men.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/21 03:58 AM
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Rarely. Suckerberg, Bezos, Schwarzenegger aren'e exactly known as players.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/20 10:41 AM
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I think we must make a sidebar article to ensure people understand that male alphaness is like radar chart. Masculinity is multidimensional aspects and every single man has his own weakest (least attractive) aspect that he needs to improve first. The most common problem is obviously physique and frame, so improve your weakest aspect first which it will gain the most benefit for your attractiveness. A man's problem can sometimes be really unique, for example, if you are broke and struggling to ev…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/20 08:14 PM
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In my experience, cooking is probably the number one reliable predictor of a 'quality girl' (or whatever you'd call her). A girl that can cook usually has at least the upright sense of loyalty and not that easy to hop into another dicks. Most good-cook chicks I met were few-ex non-sluts. YMMV.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/20 10:29 AM
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My tip for fixing an unsatisfying (but repairable) marriage is to start with the actual weakest point of your masculinity aspect that needs fixing. If, for example, your physique and health is already above average, chances are going Schwarzenegger will not gain you a lot of your wife's attraction. It is very common tho, the worst masculinity aspect a husband need to fix are both muscle and frame, hence the lift sidebar.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/20 11:54 AM
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My observation is that a man's job can keep his marriage intact without much to think about, give or take. Men with manly jobs can keep their wives attracted just because, only by doing their daily work. Blue collar worker's wives on average are happier even with lower median financial condition.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/20 11:39 AM
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My point is that being alpha is like enhancing your spider-web advantage points. To be the super-alpha, you only need to be little bit better built than most men. But you also need to be little bit smarter, bit funnier, bit richer, etc. There is no one single aspect of masculinity that if you invest 100% your effort on it, you suddenly become a pussy magnet. Even game/pickup skill is not the silver bullet to patch your weaknesses on other aspect. The good way of improving masculinity is starting…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/20 08:22 PM
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Basically the rule of diminishing return works on just about any aspect of masculinity red pill wise. Being better built than 60% male in your social circle is pretty easy yet it's probably 95% of what you need on muscle aspect. Same goes for money, career, dressing, grooming etc.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/20 12:30 PM
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Good write OP. It's as if there are no enough sidebar warnings about single-mom-with-rotten-pussy's marriage trap.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/20 12:19 AM
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This trick prerequisites a strong frame in the relationship, and I don't think this line in and of itself has so much power over a girl. Otherwise, she's likely only gonna accuse you being jealous and childish and tall you to "man-up" and continue flashing her tits on Instagram.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/20 02:32 AM
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I suggest to do some charity work or volunteering. See with your own eyes those people that are way less fortunate than you. Helping really can boosts your overall mood and mind. Some said the only guaranteed way to help yourself is to help others. Good luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/20 01:28 AM
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Lingering over the old, naive day of our youth is only possible after we reach out epiphany phase, red-pill-wise. Most bluepillers are unfortunate, dying angry with their blue balls. I guess we just have to be grateful with what we have, then. The best of the best circumstance a man can have is probably born with good physical features and having an alpha dad. The first time he penetrate a virgin pussy with his virgin dick, he already instilled some of the red pill core principles teached by his…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/20 01:14 AM
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This. Basically AWALT is true but one or two aspects of female are just true NAWALT exceptions. For me, example, cooking is most prominent thing women do that applies to NAWALT. Do you agree with me?
/r/TheRedPill03/10/20 11:50 PM
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Damn. The madonna-whore. Realizing our mother is not as innocent as we thougth is probably the reddest of the whole red pill world.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/20 01:31 AM
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Before smartphone, there was certainly a baseline intelligence for people to be able to access internet. You must possess at least a good bit patience of to learn about computer. Nowadays, dumbasses exposed to easy internet on their phones only reveal their (lack of) brain capacity. Do you know that median internet phone users are too lazy to read more than 10 seconds? Guess how can Trump become a president in the first place?
/r/TheRedPill02/10/20 12:27 AM
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Telling your struggle is not always detrimental for your game, as long as you turned out to be the hero, the strongman, the winner. Some drama-loving chicks even dig it.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/20 10:24 AM
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That's why, in some way, I pity those people more than I hate them. Those people are gonna die angry someday, don't quite understand why this world is so against them.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/20 06:18 AM
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Elaborate cooking is the ultimate display of femininity and submissiveness. It's almost a guarantee that woman at least has an upright sense of being a family caregiver.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/20 01:28 PM
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Some aspects of red pill are AWALT, i.e. no exceptions are exist. Some for example: hypergamy, menstrual cycle, attraction to looks, attraction to frame, attraction to male height, etc Some aspect that has NAWALT from my experience are: honesty, submisiveness, frugality, child loving... ...and cooking. Cooking is one of the most significant indication of NAWALT women you should choose if you ever gonna marry someday.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/20 10:26 AM
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It's that you have to possess quite a good frame first to build a meaningful male friensship circle. Else your circle would be only losers and bitter betas with lots of complaining, passive aggressive angry (male) bitches.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/20 08:25 AM
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You're not alone bruh. The first pussy for a trainee can make us happier than our 10th.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/20 11:14 PM
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Just get over it. It is harder to build genuine relationship/friendship as a red pill man, but it's gonna be a relationship worth a lot more than a lot of skin deep chit-chat.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/20 01:36 PM
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Here's a more bitter truth; even your mother loves you depends on how attractive you are. I'm fucking serious. Just Google it: ugly children may get parental short shrift.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/20 11:18 AM
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Sounds very similar to stories about 'marrying for American green card' where a seemingly innocent chick lured a clueless guy from a large city. For David's case, I'd say it was at least an order-of-magnitude better than they married and divorce-rape. And, oh, Meghan Markle. Harry and Charles, too. Being even a prince does not pay for the blatant lack of game. Fuck Disney movies.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/20 10:45 PM
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By your explanation, if you are that awkward socially, yet you had some girl ever initiates sexually with you, then I can assume your looks is darn good. Start by pushing your own boundaries, try putting yourself in the middle of a lot of people in a day venue (not clubs/bar etc). Just do some (legal) thing you like in some crowded place. Chances are someone will start a conversation with you. Learn how to normally react in non-sexual venues.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/20 06:24 AM
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AWALT,BDLODC All women are like that, but different level of different country (/culture). It's just saying that all men want harem. It's true, it's mother biology, but of course the exact number of pussies on what defines a harem is different all-over. In US, I bet, plating up to 10 girls at the same time can quite be termed as 'harem'.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/20 12:50 AM
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Feminism dictionary 101: MAN UP = BETA SUCCUMBING
/r/TheRedPill03/05/20 09:55 PM
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Isolation has more to do with one's personality of introvert/extrovert. But it is no coincidence that red pill itself has a very fundamental principle of being a man of your own. It is what refered as 'unplugging' and that means stop being a robotic social clueless men and start being aware and retrospect of how human biology works.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/20 01:25 PM
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TL;DR Heartiste's 16 commandment of Poon: Give her 2/3rd of what she gives you.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/20 04:30 AM
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Hmm. Interesting, if ever. This is one of the miscellanous points in the whole red pill universe, I admit.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/20 02:32 AM
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Focus on your weakest aspect first. It can be any of these: ugly, bad hygiene, obese, broke, etc. Rule of diminishing return applies here, so for example, while having a nice car is important, replacing a $20k car with $100k one is a lot of effort without much difference.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/20 02:36 AM
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Keep negging her even you really got a funny hairstyle. "Oh darling I promised I'll never shave this way again because you dislike it" << this one is what caused her to be repulsed.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/19 01:02 AM
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Look it at this way: for a male human to ever find about TRP is extremely lucky, but just like everything else in this world, luck can get you so far. You must be smart and open-minded enough to read, think, and retrospect to understand and accept TRP, instead of becoming denial, skeptical, white-knighting beta-boy. You must be patient and determined enough to apply TRP in your life, to ever reap the benefit of understanding TRP. So, no OP, knowing-TRP-but-no-action is not worse than a being clu…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/19 08:41 AM
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LOL the penis thing kills me inside. I agree tho about your 'no-excuse' if you're one of the lucky male human finding TRP. It's no coincidental that most (good) TRPers are smart enough to read, think, absorb, and retrospect; not an imbecile, denial, skepticist white-knight beta-boy feminist.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/19 10:37 PM
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Well then. I suggest southeast Asia is the place to go bro.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/19 11:24 PM
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LTRing someone from a club of who 'felt in love fairly quickly' simply isn't 'completely red-pill' Sorry, just saying. Great retrospect though, thanks for your story. I suggest Askmen Doc Love's The System, it's a good classic literature of finding a good girl worthy an LTR, if you're more into relationship than pickup/plating.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/19 12:02 PM
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Turning something you're really passionate about into a daily job will make you hate it (or love it less). Believe me. And some jobs are alpha by definition (firefighters, welders) so game-wise, an alpha job is worth to be clung to. Hating your job is a strong word tho, and you should realize that any job has its ups and downs just like everything else in life. Pick one that feeds you well, avoid any that particularly feminine (hairdressers, etc), and if you're happy to do it 70% of the time, th…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/19 10:16 PM
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I suggest pick one motherly-thing you like most that isn't particularly a turn-off (if she does it for you). For example, I prefer her to cook for me above all things else. Of course, things like lying on her lap, while your head caressed by an angel is everyman's dream.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/19 02:08 AM
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+1 Telling her about the storm while still positioning yourself as a strongman is okay. With the correct way to telling a story, it even enhance your game for some drama-lover. Of course not too much or too often.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 02:39 AM
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Red Pill women is, well, somehow, still somewhat fetishize things like Christian Grey thing AFAIK.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/19 11:44 AM
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Physical exhaustion is a legit alibi for a girl's shitty manner. I'm MMSL guy here, and it's not that OP was wrong or anything. But a shitty manner in public is a lot more serious issue, correct. Making a breakup decision while you are emotional/angry AND physically exhausted is anti-redpill in and of itself.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/19 11:10 PM
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