hillbillypsychonaut Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	trying to get full custody from an narcissist		hillbillypsychonaut	/r/Divorce_Men	07/01/24 04:45 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	These Lawyers are Terrible Nobody cares about your divorce as much as you do. I ended up being better off pro se.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/08/24 02:20 PM
3	Dating other women, dealing with breakups It's easier not to get heartbroken if you ask the right questions up front, and weed dates out before you're invested. Get super clear about your values, and you'll know what to ask earlier on.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/03/24 11:12 PM
1	What do young women care about these days? I guess having a baby together wasn’t enough. Being a father to her son wasn’t enough. Moving across the country for her wasn’t enough. Buying her gifts wasn’t enough. Getting married wasn’t enough. Buying a family home wasn’t enough. In my experience, and with female friends? - emotional labor - an equal partner - initiative in domestic labor and romance	/r/Divorce_Men	03/02/24 09:30 PM
1	I’m so confused. What’s her point to do this? It varies by county, nevermind state, but some default parenting plans have a clause about not using your child to send messages between parents. If it was actually important, she'd tell you directly, so it's suspicious to me. Double check what you agreed to, because if there is that clause, tell her to knock it off and talk to you like an adult or she could be found in contempt.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/01/24 07:06 PM
10	Our house Ohio is a 50/50 state with an option for no-fault, but also treats divorce like a business transaction when it comes to assets. It assumes you shared all resources freely and equally, so it doesn't matter who paid how much of what. If the house was purchased during your marriage, Ohio sees it as a marital asset, even if one of your names isn't on it. Without a glaringly obvious reason why it shouldn't be, it will be treated as such, meaning 50/50. She'll have to buy your share of the equity, or …	/r/Divorce_Men	07/01/24 11:02 PM
-1	trying to get full custody from an narcissist Then I don't see the issue. I'm sorry respecting minorities is exhausting for you.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/01/24 10:50 PM
-1	trying to get full custody from an narcissist I didn't think the singular, gender-neutral "they" was that challenging. I thought this was Divorce_Men, not Divorce_Cis_Het_Male.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/01/24 10:37 PM
1	trying to get full custody from an narcissist That hadn't crossed my mind. Thanks, brother.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/01/24 06:45 PM
1	trying to get full custody from an narcissist Yeah, my partner and I are monogamous. The STBX is not. The oldest has been in therapy at the recommendation of the behavioral center, after a secondary altercation with the STBX. The kid became very aggressive towards them. My attorney's caseload is likely too much, and it can be challenging to get timely, detailed responses. Again, what I'm really looking for is people who have similar experiences with suspecting their ex would like to just abandon the kids, how long until they stopped trying …	/r/Divorce_Men	07/01/24 05:56 PM
3	trying to get full custody from an narcissist I understand it was long and you may not have read to the end, but for beating our oldest. They also medically neglected our youngest.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/01/24 05:26 PM
2	Wife filed for divorce. Settlement advice? That isn't remotely true in my experience, and family law judges are unfortunately held accountable by nobody. They aren't elected and don't answer to anyone.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/01/24 09:23 PM
3	Wife filed for divorce. Settlement advice? You can probably check your local clerk of courts web site for a form. Some US counties also have a preferred default, so it is important to check, know what it is, and what you want that's different than their "norm."	/r/Divorce_Men	06/01/24 08:43 PM
7	The Wifey Mine is their name, but with a photo of a beagle. They always wanted a beagle. Beagles are also loud, smelly, don't listen well, aren't real bright...	/r/Divorce_Men	28/12/23 09:06 PM
5	Higher earner afraid of losing big in divorce I am not offering legal advice. This is merely my understanding from my own ongoing divorce. The difference between a relationship and a marriage is that the marriage will be viewed as a business transaction when it dissolves. Do you have a prenup? Do you live in a state where a "no fault" divorce or an amicable dissolution is an option? If you suspect he is cheating, you don't owe him as much if you can prove it. Most attorneys will offer you a consult before you're even committed to filing. I …	/r/Divorce_Men	24/12/23 06:55 PM