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2	Q4Women: Would you consider marrying a "trad" man with conventionally attractive qualities even if you yourself aren't trad?	Question For Women	himachalite	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/20 09:36 AM
2	Q4Women: Would you become a war bride?	Question For Women	himachalite	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/20 10:15 AM

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3	Oh shit So many soy guzzlers triggered by your comment.	/r/PussyPassDenied	10/11/20 03:44 AM
2	Q4Women: Would you consider marrying a "trad" man with conventionally attractive qualities even if you yourself aren't trad? That's true about Japan (although not for Japanese immigrants). I was thinking more about places like India and SEA. Instilling morals isn't just a matter of telling your children what's right and wrong but also of developing your children's trust and confidence in you so that they'll actually listen to you, as well as a healthy emotional dependence upon your approval. This is best done by spending a lot of time with your children. In modernistic western cultures where parents tend not to spend …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/20 07:05 PM
2	Q4Women: Would you consider marrying a "trad" man with conventionally attractive qualities even if you yourself aren't trad? That's a good point. Now that I think about it, many of them did hire outside help. My mother was a SAHM who kept the house immaculate while only resorting to outside help once in my entire childhood, so I guess that biases my worldview—not everyone is like that. I think the laziness you mentioned might depend heavily on culture. I hesitate to reveal it because of the inevitable "reeee forriners get out!" attitude on this subreddit, but I come from an Indian immigrant family (I suppose my userna…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/20 06:36 PM
2	Q4Women: Would you consider marrying a "trad" man with conventionally attractive qualities even if you yourself aren't trad? Children beyond the age of 5ish do not need the constant attention They don't need it, but trads would argue that it's beneficial. It's not so much about attention regarding trivial things like food as it is about other aspects of parenting like the imparting of good behavior and proper morals. Other cultures practice this as the norm I'd say precisely the opposite, at least in Asia: American culture is infamous in Asian countries for the lack of attention that parents pay to their children. Asi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/20 06:27 PM
2	Q4Women: Would you consider marrying a "trad" man with conventionally attractive qualities even if you yourself aren't trad? Therefore seeming to contradict your point about them being "all over" the South.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/20 06:18 PM
2	Q4Women: Would you consider marrying a "trad" man with conventionally attractive qualities even if you yourself aren't trad? Actual trad women, not just trad-compatible women? I wish. I don't think I've met a single one outside of immigrant or hardcore Christian communities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/20 06:16 PM
2	Q4Women: Would you consider marrying a "trad" man with conventionally attractive qualities even if you yourself aren't trad? Interesting. Personally, my experience has been precisely the opposite: homes I've visited with working mothers are almost always dirty and disorganized, while homes I've visited with stay-at-home mothers have been impressively clean. Perhaps it differs by class? My community was UMC, so that could be the reason for our different experiences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/20 06:13 PM
0	Q4Women: Would you consider marrying a "trad" man with conventionally attractive qualities even if you yourself aren't trad? There's generally a lot of work involved in properly taking care of the home and children—something that feminists usually emphasize even more than trads. I'm surprised you view women's laziness/unwillingness to work as a reason for adopting a trad-ish lifestyle. How does women freely exercising their right to choose what they want to do with their lives, by choosing voluntarily to focus on children over career, contribute to some pushback against women?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/20 05:43 PM
2	Q4Women: Would you consider marrying a "trad" man with conventionally attractive qualities even if you yourself aren't trad? Again, just because you don't agree with their philosophical reasons, doesn't mean they don't have any philosophical reasons. Your view of trads as a monolithic group of evil people seeking nothing but control over others, ignoring the possibility that they could see genuine benefits in a traditional lifestyle, is very unrealistic. It's one thing to disagree with trads, but I don't see how it's logical to strawman them this way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/20 05:34 PM
1	Q4Women: Would you consider marrying a "trad" man with conventionally attractive qualities even if you yourself aren't trad? Whether you consider the reasons healthy or reasonable is besides the point—the point is that people can and do become trads on their own without having had trad parents, and I know a few people like that in my own life. Therefore, I don't think your "cult" comparison is valid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/20 05:28 PM
2	Q4Women: Would you consider marrying a "trad" man with conventionally attractive qualities even if you yourself aren't trad? Thanks for your response. What do you define as misogyny? Also, there are people with trad beliefs who came to those beliefs through their own reasoning, rather than inheriting them from their parents.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/20 05:23 PM
2	Q4Women: Would you consider marrying a "trad" man with conventionally attractive qualities even if you yourself aren't trad? Interesting, thanks for your response. Out of curiosity, was your adoption of some of his values begrudging or enthusiastic, and did it occur over a long period of time (several years) or more rapidly?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/20 04:57 PM
1	Q4Women: Would you consider marrying a "trad" man with conventionally attractive qualities even if you yourself aren't trad? Thanks for your response. And tbh I loathe the women that willingly get into that Why the hatred? If a traditional marriage is what a woman genuinely wants and she isn't being forced or pressured into it, why should she be loathed? Then by definition she is a tradcon Well, no. If she doesn't share the same social-political views, she is at best compatible with a tradcon lifestyle, not herself a tradcon. For example, I mentioned elsewhere in this thread that my parents' marriage was very traditio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/20 04:49 PM
2	Q4Women: Would you consider marrying a "trad" man with conventionally attractive qualities even if you yourself aren't trad? Surprisingly hard to find a trad woman these days. :/	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/20 04:44 PM
1	Q4Women: Would you consider marrying a "trad" man with conventionally attractive qualities even if you yourself aren't trad? Assume also that he has other qualities that you would find attractive That would be the point. The question is just whether his trad beliefs matter enough to override the things you find attractive about him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/20 04:44 PM
2	Q4Women: Would you consider marrying a "trad" man with conventionally attractive qualities even if you yourself aren't trad? Thanks for your response. and wasn't at least somewhat misogynistic. Out of curiosity, what do you define as misogynistic? Depending on your definition, I might agree with you. Also, what behavior would you say constitutes "forcing gender roles" on the children?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/20 04:43 PM
1	Q4Women: Would you consider marrying a "trad" man with conventionally attractive qualities even if you yourself aren't trad? It would be literally impossible for such a man to love me and highly unlikely he would respect the people I care about. Why do you say that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/20 03:21 PM
1	Q4Women: Would you consider marrying a "trad" man with conventionally attractive qualities even if you yourself aren't trad? Sure, I should've been more clear. My goal with this question was to determine the degree to which the man's beliefs alone would preclude a marriage, handwaving away most lifestyle compatibility considerations. So assume for this hypothetical that this is a trad man who is fine with his wife pursuing career aspirations once full-time child-rearing is no longer "needed". It isn't an unrealistic hypothetical, especially outside America—while such a man might not consider it ideal, it's a compromis…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/20 03:20 PM
3	Q4Women: Would you consider marrying a "trad" man with conventionally attractive qualities even if you yourself aren't trad? Agreed that it's difficult, but it isn't impossible—I've seen such couples in real life. Regarding chemistry, it's perfectly possible for people with opposite political views to get along well in a relationship; one of my best friends in high school was solidly leftist but had a great LTR with a super conservative Christian. Regarding compatible lifestyles, the difficulty mainly comes down to the career vs. children question. There are lots of non-trad, even feminist women (such as my mother) wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/20 02:55 PM
4	Red Pill- Slutshaming doesn’t translate into real life Virgin "my real life experience" vs. chad scientific studies showing the correlation between high-N, infidelity, and divorce.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/20 02:48 PM
1	the prisoner's dilemma and the present dating situation What 23 year old man is thinking "Oh man, I wish I had a wife right now" ? Me, verbatim. :(	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/20 12:35 AM