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| 85 | Men are just as terrified of aging as women | CMV | himbobaggins69 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 07:37 PM |
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| 2 | The gender ratio is almost even, so why are so many guys unable to land a single girlfriend, while every girl seems to be takenIn the modern era those males don’t die though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Women Admitting That Their Promiscuous Pasts Prevent Them From Enjoying Sex With Their HusbandsStatistically women orgasm way less with one night stands than with partners | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 01:29 AM |
| 1 | CMV: for maximum evolutionary success, both men/women should Amish-max.They are all severely inbred. Also, what exactly do I win if I have loads of kids? A more stressful life and dying just like everyone else. No thanks. It’s pure ideology that evolutionary success matters to individual people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 12:48 PM |
| 3 | Went full-on pick-me as an experiment and got a boyfriend within a month.Pick-me behaviour is more shitting on other women to make yourself look better. All you did was make yourself a bearable person to date lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Sex is extremely important to people and when they say it's not, they're lying.Maybe that, or maybe it’s these Reddit women who so often go on about how they don’t care about looks etc. experiencing what happens when you get with someone you’re not very physically attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 05:10 PM |
| – | Observation: girls are constantly baiting guys into destroying their own futures at every point in lifeyou guys are the whiniest people on the planet lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 09:53 PM |
| – | Observation: girls are constantly baiting guys into destroying their own futures at every point in lifeThe joke is men constantly say that women lack accountability on here yet never take accountability for absolutely anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 09:32 PM |
| 0 | Men are attracted to narcissistic and BPD women because they are also hypersexual, not because of their personality.Just because it hasn’t happened to you doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Men also have a ticking clock until they become undesirable to women. That is why men should do anything to gain experience with them especially in terms of sex.I’ve never found any women I know care that much if a man has lied about being a virgin, as a few have found out before. Most can see why he’d lie about that. They’re far more concerned if you’re lying about wanting a relationship just to get sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Men also have a ticking clock until they become undesirable to women. That is why men should do anything to gain experience with them especially in terms of sex.Yeah these people do not help themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Men are attracted to narcissistic and BPD women because they are also hypersexual, not because of their personality.Women do give attraction cues, they’re just subtle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Why RP men say that teen love is important, but at the same time, only want virgins?Everyone I know who had teen relationship (under 18) was messed up badly by it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 11:48 PM |
| – | Do you really think "sex just happens"?She wanted free drugs and didn’t care if she had to have sex to do it basically. My guess anyway. I’ve never been in a scenario where sex “just happened” randomly out the blue. I’ve only ever slept with women I expected to sleep with some time prior. That time may be even just an hour or so before (say meeting in club/bar) but I wouldn’t say it “just happened”. Then again what does that even really mean. I’m a lesbian for reference however, not a straight guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: an enthusiastic 3 or a starfish 10?Lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 11:19 PM |
| 1 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.Based tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 11:05 PM |
| 0 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.They may also just want to fuck. There’s not really anything stopping them from just leaving when they’ve eaten | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 11:02 PM |
| 1 | One of the main reasons guys pay for dates is because it increases their chances of getting laid.Well I imagine a woman who finds she isn’t interested during the date will offer to pay to avoid being seen as having just used him for a free meal when she rejects him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Contrary to what is said here, most guys who struggle with women do need to work on themselvesThat comment wasn’t mine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 10:43 PM |
| – | CMV: social competence is more important than looks when trying to be attractive to womentalk about something he’s passionate about Sort of not really. Well maybe. if it’s something she considers cool definitely, but I’ve heard a whole lot of complaints from girl about guys that won’t shut up about something she finds boring like football or video games. I myself loved hearing my ex gf talk about her art, even though I’m not an artist myself, because it’s interesting and sexy. If she had gone on about idk league of legends strategies I would’ve politely made my leave. the way his fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 10:03 PM |
| – | CMV: social competence is more important than looks when trying to be attractive to womenOur social lives are incredibly complex in modern western countries, and there has been a steady breakdown of straightforward social roles and mores. In previous eras your social position and life was basically decided for you when you were born, and dating was much more formalised with strict codes of conduct for both parties. Men were expected to be more detached and blunt. This is a much easier world for an autistic guy to live in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Contrary to what is said here, most guys who struggle with women do need to work on themselvesPeople who put in effort to appeal to others will lead much more successful lives than others who stubbornly refuse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Would you be okay marrying a stay at home husband ?To be honest we just have different frames of reference, school lasts until about 4 in my country and you start sending kids at about 3/4 years old. So you’d get very bored without any sort of job, especially seeing as most people only have one or two kids here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Would you be okay marrying a stay at home husband ?Dw I was just joking. It’s sadly very common for women to get cheated on in this kind of scenario | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 05:37 PM |
| 0 | Would you be okay marrying a stay at home husband ?Sure some women will lie about their preferences etc. to not seem shallow I’m not denying that. Some men will to, at least to women. However you’ve conveniently ignored my point about the actual statistics of it all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Would you be okay marrying a stay at home husband ?I mean, regardless of how much they might suck your children are still going to have to go to school lol. One parent being at home isn’t going to change that. The problem is parents who’ve spent their whole lives solely looking after the kids are going to struggle a lot more to let go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Would you be okay marrying a stay at home husband ?Yet the women right here on this thread now are mostly saying it’s because men never pick up the expected household duties when they take on this role, so I don’t really care what apparently happened years ago. In the real world, and not seething redpill fantasy land, by every statistical measure it’s actually the men who are far more likely to cheat and lose attraction when the woman in the relationship starts making the most money. Look it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Would you be okay marrying a stay at home husband ?To be fair what else is he gonna do all day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Would you be okay marrying a stay at home husband ?A lot of women’s problems with it stem from the fact that men don’t pick up the household duties when they become a househusband, rather than any dislike for being the provider. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Would you be okay marrying a stay at home husband ?Very few women are sahm these days, the stats don’t lie. Removing any stigma on stay at home men would basically make no difference, if it even does, because most people cannot afford to have one partner at home regardless of the gender. Women also earn less than men, further confounding the issue as they’d be even less likely to be able to pay for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Would you be okay marrying a stay at home husband ?An actual 40hr work week (not 15+ hours expected ot) is honestly fine to have kids with if there’s two of you. Most of that time they’ll be in school or nurseries anyway. The problem with sahp is they can often end up getting too involved with their kids lives when they inevitably get bored and end up suffocating them, as happened with most of my friends who had a sahm. In the modern world there just isn’t all that much to do in the home (if you’re only having 1-2 kids which is the case for most… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 04:57 PM |
| 1 | When women say they want "a little bit of muscle" on a guy they still mean a lot of muscleOh yeah, I mean usually guys who’ve said have said it in response to being asked if they’d ever do peds | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 08:36 PM |
| 1 | When women say they want "a little bit of muscle" on a guy they still mean a lot of muscleGiven the same face, personality etc a man who is just a healthy weight vs a man with a Michael phelps body is going to get 10x more interest from women. This isn’t deniable, and I’ve seen it happen personally when men I know have gone hard at the gym and changed their body to something approximating that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 08:35 PM |
| 1 | When women say they want "a little bit of muscle" on a guy they still mean a lot of muscleI’m a lesbian so it’s not even for me lol. It’s just what I’ve observed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 08:06 PM |
| 1 | When women say they want "a little bit of muscle" on a guy they still mean a lot of muscleHow do you know they didn’t have someone like him in mind? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 05:21 PM |
| 1 | When women say they want "a little bit of muscle" on a guy they still mean a lot of muscleThe vast majority of women would not consider him overly muscled lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 05:20 PM |
| 2 | When women say they want "a little bit of muscle" on a guy they still mean a lot of muscleHarry styles actually has a fair bit of muscle on him these days he’s just slim. Timothy chalamet would probably be a better comparison, and more adult women would be more hot for Arnold than Timothy, although girls under 18 would be more into Timothy. However we’re dealing with bigger vs smaller minorities here, most women wouldn’t be keen on either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 05:18 PM |
| 2 | When women say they want "a little bit of muscle" on a guy they still mean a lot of muscleIt’s not. What I’m saying is he’s what women are imagining when women say “a bit of muscle”. That’s the point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 05:07 PM |
| 3 | When women say they want "a little bit of muscle" on a guy they still mean a lot of muscleA lot of men start getting into working out to get women and tbh it does work. However the men who go so far that they strive for the bodybuilder physique do it for themselves essentially, it becomes a passion. They’re usually aware that it will actually reduce the amount of women attracted to them but they don’t care | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 04:55 PM |
| 1 | When women say they want "a little bit of muscle" on a guy they still mean a lot of musclePhelps is not overly muscly lol not even close | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 04:49 PM |
| 1 | When women say they want "a little bit of muscle" on a guy they still mean a lot of muscleIt’s the ideal for the majority honestly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 04:46 PM |
| 5 | When women say they want "a little bit of muscle" on a guy they still mean a lot of muscleFour hours a day is ridiculous, at that point he is either badly overtraining or is leaving an incredibly long time between sets. Top tier bodybuilders don’t train for that long | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 04:43 PM |
| 9 | When women say they want "a little bit of muscle" on a guy they still mean a lot of muscleThey kind of do though I’m not gonna lie. Not that they EXPECT it, but that’s the ideal they’re imagining when they say that Source: am woman who knows a lot of women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 04:31 PM |
| 10 | When women say they want "a little bit of muscle" on a guy they still mean a lot of muscleI once saw someone say one man could take out a classroom full of women in a fight completely seriously | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 04:30 PM |
| 1 | When women say they want "a little bit of muscle" on a guy they still mean a lot of muscleWomen do like muscular men because they make them feel feminine and safe. However Jim’s body in this video I think is a bit much for most women and they’d probably just find it intimidating rather than sexy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 04:28 PM |
| 13 | When women say they want "a little bit of muscle" on a guy they still mean a lot of muscleI don’t think any man thinks full on bodybuilders are the most attractive to women honestly. Even bodybuilders themselves are aware of this typically. I’ve heard quite a few guys say they didn’t want to get “too bulky” etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 04:25 PM |
| 16 | When women say they want "a little bit of muscle" on a guy they still mean a lot of muscleI think it’s perhaps that a LOT of guys are on steroids these days so the perception is skewed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 04:16 PM |
| 4 | When women say they want "a little bit of muscle" on a guy they still mean a lot of muscleI’m a woman who’s certainly far from redpill but I completely agree with this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 04:10 PM |
| 5 | Discussion: Men and women who say looks dont matter in the dating market are attractive themselvesI’m autistic and making myself hot worked well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 04:49 PM |
| 9 | Men who don’t want to date overweight women know it has nothing to do with healthI’m a lesbian and my view on it is more about fat distribution than anything. Women really vary quite a bit with that, one woman at w.g 25% can look a lot worse than a girl at 35% if the first girl puts fat on mainly her stomach area and the second girl puts it on her tits, ass and legs and little on the stomach. Weight is a really arbitrary way of looking at it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 04:31 PM |
| – | How hard or difficult is it for you to find a hot, handsome guy for some fun ?Yeah he looks too old for a zoomer definitely. But de-age him and he’d be incredibly attractive to most young women. Maybe also de-plastic him a a bit as well lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Very fucking equalWhy did they fight for work then. Why did they not want to go back to being housewives after working in factories in ww2. You’re incredibly emotional. You’re not logical at all but you probably think you are. You want to believe that feminists are wrong and women were never oppressed, when pretty much 0 historians or anthropologists would agree with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 05:53 PM |
| 4 | Women will reject or make it difficult for men who are too attractive due to intimidation or insecurityI find less attractive women will claim to not be attracted to conventionally attractive men (“he’s not my type” etc.) as a form of cope. For example one girl for a long time claimed to love Adam driver etc. and is now dating an very classically handsome man, so when the opportunity arises clearly this goes out the window. It’s not because they don’t want to be outdone, it’s because they don’t think they’d ever be able to get him in the first place. If they can they’re more than happy to date. G… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 05:06 AM |
| 7 | Women will reject or make it difficult for men who are too attractive due to intimidation or insecurityIt’s not a stretch to imagine someone who sleeps around a lot is risk to get into a relationship with, regardless of gender. Women just don’t publicly seethe about high body count men like men do about high body count women. I know plenty of girls who have rejected hot men for being too much of a player. Certainly they’re capable of the same issues men have. In fact I’d honestly say the genders are way more similar than is commonly thought | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 03:53 AM |
| 2 | Why is it so common for straight people to complain so much about the opposite sex?Bizarrely the men I dated before I came out were actually wayy nicer than any woman I’ve dated since. I attribute this to being able to pick partners completely rationally when it came to men because I wasn’t attracted to them anyway, whereas with women I’m guided by my biology, and biology is really fucking dumb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 03:37 AM |
| 8 | Women will reject or make it difficult for men who are too attractive due to intimidation or insecurityThat’s not because he’s “too attractive” it’s because he was a slut. Women often dislike a high body count man for a relationship. The idea that it helps men isn’t actually true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 03:26 AM |
| 1 | How hard or difficult is it for you to find a hot, handsome guy for some fun ?Gen z girls wouldn’t like him because he looks around 30, and contrary to the weirdos on this sub’s insistence teenage girls don’t actually like older men. However de-age him down to 17 and they’d be swooning over him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 03:20 AM |
| 8 | How hard or difficult is it for you to find a hot, handsome guy for some fun ?Yeah the nerdy women on Reddit are very solipsistic when it comes to this kind of stuff. The thing is they’re isolated from the general extroverted female population, which by and large prefer men like Thor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 03:17 AM |
| 0 | How hard or difficult is it for you to find a hot, handsome guy for some fun ?The thing is you are a woman Redditor so you’re probably more introverted and nerdy, affecting your tastes. In reality most women prefer guys that look like this. Source: am woman who knows a lot of women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 03:13 AM |
| 1 | What something you wish the other gender understood about yours and something you want to understand about there’s?Yeah it’s not advisable in a big city but tbh I still have done before. Honestly the fear of being assaulted by a stranger at night when you’re a woman is kinda overblown, it’s pretty rare (at least where I’m from) and mainly happens to drunk women. So when I’m drinking I make sure to not be by myself sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 01:50 PM |
| 6 | Women who are in "alternative" scenes like punk rock/metal/raves etc, are more open to dating broke or short men but red pill men don't want those types.I mean yeah for sure but that’s not metal lol. Different kind of alt, very different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 01:35 AM |
| 1 | What something you wish the other gender understood about yours and something you want to understand about there’s?Who cares about thoughts. Doesn’t affect me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 01:34 AM |
| 1 | What something you wish the other gender understood about yours and something you want to understand about there’s?Honestly when I go to nightclubs with guy friends I think they’re in a lot more danger typically than I am. Crazy how much risk there is for physical confrontation among men, it’s not like my friends are aggressive at all either. As you said it’s a minority of psycho guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 01:26 AM |
| 10 | What something you wish the other gender understood about yours and something you want to understand about there’s?You must live in a terrible place because I’m a young woman who doesn’t have to do any of this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 01:25 AM |
| 3 | Women who are in "alternative" scenes like punk rock/metal/raves etc, are more open to dating broke or short men but red pill men don't want those types.Not many women are into metal sadly. I’m basically the only one I know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/23 01:02 AM |
| 1 | There is a hypocrisy around overweight women aka “landwhales”Weirdly enough obesity can reduce pharma spending because they die earlier. The majority of health spending is keeping 80- somethings alive in their last years | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Women Cannot Detect a Red Pilled Man If He Knows What He's DoingAre you deliberately misreading what I said? I’m talking about to girls I’m hitting on etc. I would happily admit it to friends or on the internet, so would a lot of people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Women Cannot Detect a Red Pilled Man If He Knows What He's Doing2 of them got dumped, one just couldn’t get laid at all. They accepted the information because they had shit social skills and no one had ever taught them. One had been diagnosed with autism as a kid, one as an adult and one’s on the waiting list I think. For example, the one I’m good friends with was telling me when he was getting into it years ago (I was a stoned neutral 19 yo so I didn’t care much) that redpill was teaching him about shit tests, and agree and amplify. That shocked me, because… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 12:23 PM |
| – | Women Cannot Detect a Red Pilled Man If He Knows What He's DoingYes, but they would never say this to women they were chatting up, which is what we’re talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 12:18 PM |
| 4 | Women Cannot Detect a Red Pilled Man If He Knows What He's DoingNo offence dude but reading all this you obviously don’t. Your theory of mind is awful if you think other people aren’t aware that lying is a possibility lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/23 11:39 PM |
| 5 | Women Cannot Detect a Red Pilled Man If He Knows What He's DoingI’ve met 3 guys who got into the redpill at some point in their lives and I’m even good friends with one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/23 11:38 PM |
| 28 | Women Cannot Detect a Red Pilled Man If He Knows What He's DoingNo one would ever admit that to potential dates regardless of being redpilled or not. It’s just not the done thing to do. I’m a lesbian who lifts partly to be more attractive to women but I’d never say that to girls I was talking to as it comes across as desperate, and no (no-pill/neutral) gym bro would ever say that either for the same reason. Honestly I really do think most red pillers have autism to some degree and this has been my experience with the ones I’ve met irl. These are like, really… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/23 10:56 PM |
| 5 | Women Cannot Detect a Red Pilled Man If He Knows What He's DoingSo you discovered basic social skills and lying and think no one else has heard of this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/23 10:52 PM |
| – | CMV: It's possible for a man to get used for sex by a woman.Literally who WOULD’NT say asking to be bf and gf after one date is a bad idea lol. It’s way too much for someone of any gender to do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/23 11:56 AM |
| 3 | Do dating age men have any interest in having a friendship with a woman who is solidly nailed down?Three close women friends is actually quite a lot for a guy lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/23 11:03 AM |
| 10 | Do dating age men have any interest in having a friendship with a woman who is solidly nailed down?just because I’m confident I can control my urges doesn’t mean I want to I feel this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/23 10:53 AM |
| 10 | The Friendzone is a thing because the average woman doesn't find the average guy attractive enoughYou can vet them on a normal date lmao, that’s literally the point of them. If a girl is interested she’ll say yes, she won’t demand to have other friends around unless you’re all in middle school | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 10:56 PM |
| 2 | TikTok gender swap pill: Women surprised that most of them look like unattractive menMy male face swap looks like a model lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 11:18 PM |
| 11 | What is one night stand guy(criteria)They really don’t | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/23 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Would you be okay with your partner having a good friend of the opposite sex?I’m a lesbian so it’s more complicated for me, but I’ll give it a go. If I’m dating a hot (8+/10) bi woman then I would be deeply suspicious of any good straight guy friend she has. I’ve never seriously dated bi women but I’ve had some casual flings with a fair few, and if they have a straight guy good friend he clearly wants to fuck her. If you’re a hot woman this is basically inevitable, and tbh most don’t become close with straight men platonically for this reason. The ones that do I have wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 09:56 AM |
| 1 | Do men view everything through the lens of sex?Certainly for men testosterone is the main (but not only) factor in sex drive, no argument there. And in post-menopausal women giving them testosterone can help to increase sexual desire. But in pre-menopausal women testosterone levels don’t affect their sex drive, and giving them testosterone doesn’t increase their sex drive. https://www.dovepress.com/has-testosterone-passed--the-test-in-premenopausal-women-with-low-libi-peer-reviewed-fulltext-article-IJWH# | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Do men view everything through the lens of sex?sex seeking behaviour is caused by testosterone for both men and women This isn’t true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Could it be that women just do not like men that much?I’m a woman and I’d leave my partner if they stopped wanting to have sex with me, and I wouldn’t expect them to stay with me if I stopped wanting to have sex with them. Kinda weird requirement to have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Why women aren’t having kids and settling down young.No, ideologies are only arbitrary if the goals outlined are not to benefit people in tangible ways. But an anti-procreation ideology could indeed be arbitrary depending on what you mean. If they don’t reproduce because “humans bad” yes that’s silly and arbitrary. A person deciding to not have children isn’t arbitrary if they do so purely because they would be worse off financially and health-wise, as these are very tangible things to that person that children will negatively effect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 12:04 PM |
| 2 | Why women aren’t having kids and settling down young.If you have managed to create an arbitrary ideology which makes you genuinely happy to fulfill, fair enough. I personally think it’s a bit evil to just see your children as vehicles for your dna, and you probably should never tell that to them because they probably wouldn’t procreate out of spite, but I can’t control your life. However, as I said before and what you seemed to take affront to, it’s a completely arbitrary ideology. It is as valid as a person deriving joy from giving a rusty park s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 11:40 AM |
| 3 | Why women aren’t having kids and settling down young.Thing’s definitely objectively matter. If you stick your hand in a blender it is painful and objectively bad for you. When you go for a walk in the park and feel peaceful it’s objectively good for you. So if raising children makes you happy, go for it, as being happy is objectively good. However, if you’re having kids and sacrificing you time, money and health purely for some arbitrary goal of “evolutionary fitness” and don’t derive genuine joy from raising them then that’s bad both for you and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 11:25 AM |
| 3 | Why women aren’t having kids and settling down young.You clearly did not understand my comments, and I think in fact that is wilfully so. Why does being evolutionarily fit matter? What you get, personally, out of passing on your genes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 11:01 AM |
| 3 | Why women aren’t having kids and settling down young.The hilarious thing is from your responses it’s clear that you don’t. I studied under actual evolutionary biologists at a top world uni for undergrad and masters, and this is what they taught me. But I’m sure unhinged redpill forum dwellers know better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 10:54 AM |
| 3 | Why women aren’t having kids and settling down young.So you agree, your ideology is completely arbitrary and of no more inherent value than someone deciding that a rusty park swing is the one true god? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 10:50 AM |
| 7 | Why women aren’t having kids and settling down young.You know being “evolutionarily fit” isn’t something we need to aspire to right? Evolution isn’t a process with inherent value to survival, it’s just something that happens because of basic logic. Animals don’t try to survive and reproduce because there’s any inherent value to those things, they do it because it logically follows that the life we see in the world would have so happened to have the traits to desire those things. It’s hard to explain and seems to be a difficult concept to grasp for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Why aren't friendships pushed and encouraged onto young men as much as relationships?Really? THIS comment crosses the line? Lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 07:03 PM |
| 14 | What do you think about the lonely but successfull men who get a fwb with money instead of getting married?Yes but 10/10s won’t be doing it lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Why aren't friendships pushed and encouraged onto young men as much as relationships?Do you actually know any women irl? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Why aren't friendships pushed and encouraged onto young men as much as relationships?It’s kinda nice in the uk because after uni basically everyone moves to london lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 09:53 PM |
| 1 | “Give an ugly girl a chance, and after a while she’ll treat you like YOU are the ugly one”https://amp.www.complex.com/life/2018/02/study-says-people-with-satisying-sex-lives-are-more-likely-to-cheat This is a good summary | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/23 07:11 PM |
| 1 | “Give an ugly girl a chance, and after a while she’ll treat you like YOU are the ugly one”It’s counterintuitive but statistically less attractive women cheat more often than more attractive women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/23 04:24 PM |
| 1 | “Give an ugly girl a chance, and after a while she’ll treat you like YOU are the ugly one”Facts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/23 04:16 PM |
| 3 | “Give an ugly girl a chance, and after a while she’ll treat you like YOU are the ugly one”Statistically more attractive men cheat more, whereas less attractive women cheat more. Interesting, and your experience tracks with mine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/23 04:12 PM |
| 0 | Would you date a man if you found out he’s paid for sex in the past?With an explanation like that I wouldn’t really care | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/23 03:47 PM |
| -4 | Would you date a man if you found out he’s paid for sex in the past?I see it as this: if they’re paying for sex they’re either ugly or have no game, in which case I wouldn’t date them for those reasons anyway. If they’re hot and charismatic…why would they be paying for sex? It’d be very suspect. So I wouldn’t date them out of fear they were into some heinous stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/23 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Being “strong and independent” and wanting men to perform their masculine role is not contradictoryMan straight people are depressingly transactional | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 10:59 PM |
| 1 | General idea of how modern Western woman engage in sexual activitySadly judging by my friends it’s less than 50% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/23 11:38 AM |
| 0 | How can men find high libido women? Is it even realistically achievable?My man no hot man has to write paragraphs and paragraphs about how to get Pussy on Reddit. I was friends with a group of guys at uni, one looked like a Greek god but had literal autism. All it took for him to get laid eventually was our friends hyping him up to have the balls to close the deal for once (women would come on to him heavily but he’d freeze up) and after that he was fucking every time he was on a night out. You simply do not need a PhD in poonani to get laid if you’re hot like you d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 03:57 PM |
| 3 | How can men find high libido women? Is it even realistically achievable?Attractive men do not need the red pill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 10:30 PM |
| 2 | How can men find high libido women? Is it even realistically achievable?It’s happened to me and attractive friends, and we never started looking different. Just the original dopamine boost that takes a woman out of her natural low libido state wears off after a while. This is why I only date hoes now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 10:14 PM |
| 3 | How can men find high libido women? Is it even realistically achievable?Every red pill man is a 6’3” 80+ n count big dicked chad. Find it hard to believe after while | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 10:10 PM |
| 1 | How can men find high libido women? Is it even realistically achievable?They will for a while, but their sex drive will go back down to their baseline lower state after a year or so, maybe even earlier, if you’re in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 10:05 PM |
| 4 | I’ve never experienced a woman initiating a romantic interaction in my life. How long can this continue?I am a lesbian and yeah I basically agree. However a lot of feminine women have been very forward with me, but only when drunk. A lot also haven’t and putting yourself in the position of the initiator is a massive ballache I had to learn. However I actually think having to do this was good for my mental development in general, it’s meant my ego is much more secure than most women I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 06:32 PM |
| 4 | Dick sucking n-countWhy would you imagine everyone else someone’s been with when you’re dating someone? I swear the guys on this sub just like torturing themselves. It’s almost like a form of ocd, like imagining all the other mouths that have been wrapped round your fork as you’re eating in a restaurant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 05:15 PM |
| 2 | When you look at the world and see everything of value was created by men, does it make you feel equal?Lmao wow impressive! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 04:39 AM |
| 1 | When you look at the world and see everything of value was created by men, does it make you feel equal?Example | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 04:06 AM |
| 3 | When you look at the world and see everything of value was created by men, does it make you feel equal?How many great inventors had no formal education? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 03:13 AM |
| 4 | When you look at the world and see everything of value was created by men, does it make you feel equal?Women were literally banned from higher education until the 20th century | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Men like to complain that women always end up with “bad boys,” but it’s unfair to criticize women for that. You have to get to know someone before you know what they are like!People pester every celebrity. Yet most aren’t constantly punching people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 05:17 PM |
| 1 | OMG these men are such master manipulators and so problematicIt’s hard to say what the “actual” fairytale is when they’ve changed a lot over centuries. There’s many different versions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 11:15 AM |
| 13 | Silicon human size dolls are now made really realistically, and better looking than biological women, imagine when they are integrated with AI into cute fembot girlfriends, KO for womenImagine having a sex doll lol I’d kill myself before my life got that depressing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 10:35 AM |
| 1 | Casual sex or short flings are more likely to be fulfilling for guys than relationship sexIt will appear that way because the kinkiest women tend to sleep around. Redpillers tend to forget that 80/20 applies to women too, just for different reasons. Majority aren’t all that into that stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Study: Short men have higher sex frequencyBad comparison in that quote. There are infinitely more 6’3” men than 6’3” women, who are so incredibly rare that the majority of the profiles were probably trans. It’s the equivalent of a 6’9” man. The actual correct comparison would be a 5’9” woman (men are about 6 inches taller than women on average) who obviously don’t do too badly from this study. It basically proves height doesn’t matter all that much on the whole to men choosing women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 05:30 AM |
| 3 | Men like to complain that women always end up with “bad boys,” but it’s unfair to criticize women for that. You have to get to know someone before you know what they are like!The guy is literally constantly getting arrested for randomly punching people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/22 05:05 AM |
| 5 | Sexless marriage is a form of abuse.It’s odd that that subreddit about not getting fucked enough in your marriage is run by women on a male-dominated website though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenReread what I wrote again. I never said they were the most popular, but they are popular. On top of that I was reiterating your own arguments. Again, you keep avoiding answering why most women watch young men to the point it’s getting funny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 06:33 PM |
| 2 | Women (who aren't cheaters) would actually benefit from mandatory paternity testingThey don’t need to be mandatory. What would be best is an opt-out system at birth. That makes it essentially mandatory without curtailing freedoms. If a woman says “no” to the test at birth then that raises a very very big red flag for the man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenYour argument makes no sense. Older women are popular in porn because it’s mostly young men watching but at the same time teen is most popular because women age worse? This sounds like mental gymnastics. Occam’s razor would say the young men who watch porn are mainly watching women around their age. You also haven’t answered why most women are watching young men too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenWell it’s also possible for a woman to look better at forty if she stops being fat and works out, gets rid of horrible acne etc. but for someone older to look better than their younger self drastic things need to happen for both sexes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenThe older men started off far more likely to have companionship at the same age as the younger men are now. So we don’t really know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenI am talking about higher earners Even then, most high-earning men will not sacrifice their lifestyles. You clearly have not met many high-earning younger men if you think they will. The thing is, you can criticise that study but you haven’t provided absolutely anything of your own. What you’re saying is complete conjecture. You basically guess that most men want a SAHM because you do, and all men must be like you apparently. This is what annoys me about the redpill, it’s unscientific nonsense b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenWhy would there be a huge rise in their sexlessness? What? They’re usually married. That doesn’t have any baring on whether sexless young men in a uniquely sexless generation will get laid later on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenIt’s really funny that you can’t tell he VERY obviously had surgery on his eyes to reduce his negative canthal tilt, which is a significant negative for your looks. He even admits it. https://www.standard.co.uk/showbiz/clooney-i-ve-had-plastic-surgery-7202729.html?amp So yeah, sure men can get more attractive with age if they get literal plastic surgery I suppose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenmost porn watchers are young sexless men Basically every man watches porn teen is more popular Ok so what is your argument exactly? Because this contradicts your previous one. The men in female-oriented porn are usually around early-mid twenties, as are most pornstars in general. Most people like attractive fit young people, but some have a thing for the older ones. The sexes don’t differ as much as you think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenone whole person Wow, I better pack up and leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenthe statistics bear this out You are misinterpreting them. These men are from an older generation that had significantly less sexlessness in their younger years statistically, so that’s what you’re seeing. You need to track the same cohort over time. There has been a huge rise in sexlessness in younger males for THAT demographic over time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenThe number of female virgins decreases with age too. That’s a fascinating phenomenon called “the passing of time”. older men are able to attract a wider range of women It’s very funny that redpillers will say that women always lie about what they want, but will accept surveys saying women want only men their own age as they get older as 100% god’s honest truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womendecrease their lifestyle For most people living on one income would mean literal poverty. Neither men nor women want that. I have no idea what planet you’re living on honestly. men will prioritise looks Looks will heavily factor into it certainly. But thats the case for women too. High-earning women are willing to date a bit lower (or, very occasionally, even bankroll) a very attractive man. I know this because I’ve seen it happen multiple times. I find redpillers really can’t accept this ever h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenwhich country? UK. What you’re talking about is a retarded American government problem, not women’s as a whole. I know it’s hard for American’s to accept but you aren’t the entire world. No Western European country has “selective service” either man. rights are human abstractions and don’t exist in nature Appeal to nature fallacy. Completely stupid statement. Should we allow people to rob and beat eachother with impunity too as laws don’t exist in nature? This is a fucking retarded meme argument… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenproxy for competence So men don’t value their competence? What? statistics are a cope, my random baseless extrapolation is true Ok you’re legitimately stupid even for a redpiller, this is hilarious. You probably think you’re so intelligent too lmao. most men don’t know to step out their social range Ah yes, these men are such fools for not bankrolling a shop girl. If only they knew how wise a decision it clearly is. never interact with the lower classes They do. It’s called dating apps. They’re … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenYou can’t say I’m not fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 02:57 AM |
| 0 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenWhy is MILF one of the most popular male fantasies and porn categories then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenLol this is actually the most reasonable and realistic argument I’ve gotten so far. Can’t say you don’t make decent points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenWhat source do you have for this? Your ass? In my country people are seen as old once they reach their sixties regardless of gender. Before that is termed middle-aged. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenBezos has been dating the same 50 yo for 3 years. Idk why you feel the need to insist all men feel the same as you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenThe issue is the men I know who use hookers aren’t happy about it. So getting older and needing to use hookers means aging isn’t great for men either. That’s basically all I’m saying. Some may be fine with it I’m sure. But some women are also happy to have cats. as long as they’re hot Yeah this is the same for women too. I don’t want to date an ugly girl I have a connection with. This was always assumed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenBut most men don’t choose the first option, otherwise most wouldn’t remarry around their own age. You’re saying things but the statistics don’t back it up. Certainly more men than women want much younger partners in marriage, but that’s not most of them. We’re dealing with a smaller minority vs a bigger minority. Definitely most older men want sex with younger women. But most would rather not marry them. It’s hard for a 40 something man to have anything in common with a 25 yo enough to live with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenmost men who remarry, remarry far younger This isn’t true, at least in the UK. 60% of men remarry within 5 years of their age. A higher proportion marry younger than first marriages that is true, but it’s not most. Clearly many do see some benefit to remarrying with a woman close to their age. Yeah I’m sure Bezos and that fuck young women on the side. But clearly they value the companionship of the older women. The older women are also in a much better position than the younger ones because they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 10:15 AM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenYeah but redpillers go on about how men only want young women. As you get older the amount of young women you can sleep with decreases. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 09:03 AM |
| 2 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womentoo limited data to support your premise sorry. civilisation is going to collapse any day now. I feel it in my balls. Sorry, I didn’t realise I was debating with such a bastion of empiricism. I’ll try harder next time. did women earn that right? The point of rights is you don’t earn them retard. You are thinking of privileges. There are men who don’t sign up for selective service and men who conscientiously objected to wars yet they still have rights. Countries deciding people have inalienable r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 08:31 AM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenLmao. Since women have had the vote in western developed nations men there are living some of the most privileged, comfortable lives ever seen on earth. So are women. It’s hilarious you think that’s repression. Have women banned men from owning property? Voting? Going to university? Because that’s what men have done to women in the past. You really are a delicate little flower if you think you’re oppressed. You haven’t denied any of the opinions I said you had, which I’m going to take as admissi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womensufficient rebuttal No they didn’t. I already responded to it. cherrypicking There is a paucity of data unfortunately. It’s basically all we have to go on. Can’t cherrypick the only data we have. I can only guess, but it would make sense that women prize looks if that’s what they gravitate towards to when they have the most choice. best times in existence Yeah. Most of our development sucked. We’re unlikely to truly collapse any time soon. I’ve heard redpillers use the apocalypse scenario before… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 07:55 AM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenTech has been big for decades. I know a few dudes in tech and they either have nerdy girlfriends or bitch and moan about not getting laid. I genuinely think a lot of them are too awkward to pay for hookers or sugar babies. I think a lot of them just stick to porn and shit, or simping for twitch thots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenBisexuals aren’t lesbian lol. Tbh on average men hate women far more than women hate men. The stuff I’ve read on redpill forums is legitimately disturbing. When men hate women they want to dominate, hurt and control them. When women hate men they usually want men to leave them alone. How many feminists have shot up public places because they hate men? Plenty of incels have over women. You probably wish I couldn’t vote, or make my own money, or buy my own house, or marry my girlfriend. You’re mad… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 07:25 AM |
| 2 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenThe vast majority of human existence we were hunter-gatherers, which tend to have more equal dynamics. Civilisation is a blip. There are modern-hunter gatherers like the hadza who have been surveyed and the women prize looks as much as the men, which is very different to women in settled tribes (and even in developed nations). when civilisation collapses they’ll pay! Seething revenge fantasy. It’s very funny because if this did happen “hypergamy” would actually be incalculably worse because in d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 07:10 AM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenwahh I’m being attacked I’m so bored of this argument. Men will say heinous things about women on this sub and whinge at the slightest pushback. Men haven’t hurt me to make them want to suffer, I’m a lesbian so the people who’ve hurt me the most in life have been women. I just find redpill arguments annoying and delusional. jealousy of my sister Fuck yeah I’m jealous. Her life is sick. I admire her for it and she’s managed to be a decent person too. At least past her teenage years lol, or so I’v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 06:55 AM |
| 4 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenyou have no idea what men think or value :D Right, so men don’t value their physical capabilities. News to me. college-educated upper class women know they’d have no chance at a college-educated upper class man This is so hilariously untrue and it shows me how cut-off from reality you guys are. College education is statistically much more attractive on women to men than lesser education. It’s only masters+ it becomes a problem. Older college-educated men aren’t looking to seriously date Brandi f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 06:45 AM |
| 2 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenOk but we were talking about what women wanted lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 06:14 AM |
| 2 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenI’m 23. It’s the most looks-based generation because women have always instinctively valued looks, it’s just for most of the development of civilisation they didn’t have economic independence or much freedom to choose who they marry. As women gain economic independence and social freedom they go for looks. This is unlikely to change anytime soon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 06:13 AM |
| 5 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenNot many men would be happy to fulfill their role and still get cheated on by their “best friend”. Not many women would be happy to fulfill their role and still get cheated on by their “best friend”. You yourself said you cannot find a woman up for this. Perhaps women aren’t total aliens? A wild thought, I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenTbh from their description the sleeping with hookers made them feel ashamed so I think they kept it to a minimum. Both said something to that effect. At least that’s what they told me, probably is bullshit as I am a woman. I’m assuming they are genuinely ashamed to some degree as they tend to randomly bring it up drunk and complain, I don’t ask about it as it’s their business. They do earn enough to pay for multiple times a month as they don’t pay bills. So who knows. They may actually be worse … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 05:52 AM |
| 5 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenwomen want it all if a woman gave me babies and a great home life and was my best friend and didn’t care that I had a mistress This is astonishingly unself-aware lmao. If a woman said “if a guy gave me babies and a nice big house and was my best friend and didn’t care I had a toy boy on the side I’d stick by him 4eva :)” the generated seethe from redpillers could power a small country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 05:33 AM |
| 2 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenThey aren’t most men though. Most don’t want a woman they can’t even converse with, even for sex it’s annoying. There’s a reason why prostitutes who speak fluent English can charge far higher rates in my country (UK). It’s also pretty embarrassing, and a lot of men don’t want that social hit if they come back to the UK. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 05:23 AM |
| 3 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenSure, but this can be done at even a pretty young age. I know guys in their early 20s who can afford prostitutes once a month or so. In my country they’re like £150 for an hour for a decent one. High tier like £200. Not that much money really, especially when your parents let you live at home (obviously they go to the hookers place lol) and you have a full time job. However they use it as a placeholder when they’re not getting laid for a while, they are keen to get a gf/fuckbuddy asap when in th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenSome wealthy older women keep a younger guy around for sex. Madonna, JLo and Donatella Versace come to mind. Having money is always better than not having it for both sexes. This may surprise you, but a lot of wealthy men aren’t actually fulfilled just having a young bimbo around for sex. They often either end up falling in love with them, or having a wife close to their age and the young women on the side. Bezos and Zuckerberg are multi-billionaires and still have wives in their age range. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 05:08 AM |
| 4 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenif they get the money That’s a veryyy big if. Most men who get high earning jobs/ start businesses were able to get women before doing so anyway. Confidence, masculinity and charisma do well in business just as they get you laid in real life e.g. on average CEOs are significantly taller than the average male. This is why I think telling men who struggle with women they’ll be better off when they’re older is a pipe dream. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 04:43 AM |
| 2 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenA lot of chads enjoy the drama just like a lot of hot women do tbh. Especially teenagers who are bored easily. It’s good you teach young men not to get too wrapped up in women, but it is an intense biological drive that’s hard to control for most. I’m not shaming men who date younger women. I don’t really care as I’m a lesbian anyway, it doesn’t affect me. I’m breaking the redpill delusion that aging is good for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenGood to hear! Getting fat really is the biggest killer in the modern age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 04:32 AM |
| 2 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenI mean the guys getting married probably weren’t sexless when they were younger, not many people get married without dating extensively in western cultures outside of strict religious groups. The men who can’t get sex at all in their 20s probably aren’t getting married any time soon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 04:30 AM |
| 3 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenMost young men are not sexless. And the ones that are typically aren’t going to be higher earners. The sad truth is the confident, charismatic and attractive guys tend to get higher paying jobs. This is well documented statistically, and I see it in everyday life. That’s why I think the idea that for sexless young men getting older will solve their problems is a pipe dream. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 04:26 AM |
| 2 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenWho knows. Most are single and fucking around at my age. All I know is that the vast majority of the time they’re dating/fucking someone around their age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenBut to a lot of redpill men it’s not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 04:20 AM |
| 2 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenBut men also report a greater increase in happiness married vs unmarried than women do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 04:17 AM |
| 4 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenthese men are broke They’re literally among the top earners in their age bracket lol, on prestigious grad schemes in London. men don’t care about lifestyle Maybe Reddit shut-ins don’t, but the guys I know definitely want money for their hobbies, holidays, clubbing, clothes etc. 30% of men are virgins and men earn more money Not at 23. And in the 20-30 age bracket in my country men and women earn the same. can’t afford anything on one income They absolutely can, but not if they have to support a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 04:13 AM |
| 0 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenSure you can. It’s not impossible. But on the whole, the amount of younger women you can sleep with will decline with age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 03:52 AM |
| 3 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenSure, but it’s still only an option for a minority of older men and an ultimately less fulfilling one. If you had a choice of being an young man who got it enthusiastically for free vs and older man who had to pay, obviously most would choose the former. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 03:50 AM |
| 3 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenI mean more women are married as they get older too. Most younger people in general don’t want marriage yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenThe top dog often wasn’t older however. There’s a theory this is to do with big game hunting being very physically taxing. Older men having more power was rare for hunter-gatherers, other than in Australia interestingly enough as their hunting methods were different. The aboriginals were a gerontocracy before colonisation. Yeah human babies are born very premature. They’re hilariously useless compared to other mammals. It’s to do with skull size as you said. It may be why we lost some dimorphism… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 03:40 AM |
| 4 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenI never said they earn more than older men, just that they earn more than younger women. You said “earning power” in the cons of female aging so I assumed you meant their earning potential goes down as they age. You should’ve been clearer. men age better You haven’t said anything to back this up and you still sound angry Ok? Fine if you’re a sensitive dude but people will often be intense talking about their beliefs. If it really affects you I’ll tone it down though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 03:21 AM |
| 3 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenBasically I’m saying aging is just as good/bad for men as it is for women. Not that it’s necessarily terrible for men, it will vary person to person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 03:12 AM |
| 6 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenWomen don’t feel they NEED sex like men do though, that’s the difference. I thoroughly enjoy steak, but I don’t feel I NEED it for example. That’s why they tend to be far pickier for sexual partners, even if they don’t want a long-term relationship. There’s a reason injecting testosterone increases sex drive. I’m a lesbian and the contrast between the sexual behaviour of lesbians vs the gay men I know is utterly comical. At that point it really is biology. Women definitely have a sex drive, more… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenStrange, I found mostly in school and uni girls dated a year or two above. But yeah in general the typical age gap for marriage is man+2 years. And the further you deviate from this in either direction the less successful the marriage is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 03:02 AM |
| 13 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenRedpill dudes sound angry all the time, so I don’t care about that. Who cares, you can still discuss as long as no-ones abusing or directly insulting people. It’s reddit. In real life I’m very polite believe it or not. Men’s fertility does decline with age, although they never become completely infertile. But their chances of getting a fertile woman diminish extensively. The vast, vast majority of new fathers are under 45. And now women can freeze their eggs it’s less of a big deal. Earning powe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenit’s common sense Never said it wasn’t. women need to rely on men for resources Not the majority of the time. Most of the food consumed by hunter-gatherers is gathered (outside of artic areas). On top of this women can and did hunt, considering many were buried with hunting tools. Most human hunting involves ranged weaponry, traps and dogs that don’t require a huge amount of strength. We’re very weak for our size in general compared to other apes and later hominids e.g. Neanderthals because of t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenThe age difference is usually male 2/3 years older. This is likely because men are slower to physically and neurologically develop than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 02:15 AM |
| 3 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenPaying for a prostitute is like paying someone to fix your broken boiler. Simping is paying someone to tell you your broken boiler is working just fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenIt’s just what I’ve found. And to be clear I’m talking about people who seek out toxic romantic attachment rather than just attachment in general. Seeking romantic attachment is normal, staying with someone destructive to you for the sake of it is not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 02:07 AM |
| 3 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenIt’s really strange how common you guys think false rape charges are. They affect like <1% of men. I know far more women who were assaulted and didn’t report it (just told close friends) than I know guys falsely accused. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 02:04 AM |
| 5 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenMost don’t make 6 figures, and a lot these older guys have kids etc. to fund, certainly some can and will pay though. But most young women aren’t prostitutes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 01:58 AM |
| 9 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenhaving sex with a woman who isn’t that attracted to you is better than not having sex at all This is true for men but not women. Probably one of the biggest differences, and likely biological. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 01:49 AM |
| 2 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenI tend to find it’s more women who do this. Men who were neglected usually shut off emotionally instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 01:47 AM |
| 2 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenMy friends at EY do half/half. I think they have the option for remote but a lot want to meet new people. Ones at Accenture are more remote. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 01:46 AM |
| 4 | Men are just as terrified of aging as women90% of leads in movies are male regardless. However, male leads are typically getting younger and more attractive to women. They have to be handsome, well groomed and with perfect bodies. The even photoshopped Daniel Craig’s wrinkles out in the later bond movies. Looks are increasingly mattering for males in society too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenConsulting, law firms, finance, recruitment etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 01:40 AM |
| 4 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenThat’s because they’re married lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 01:36 AM |
| 3 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenHumans have evolved to seek love. We are a mostly monogamous species that requires a shit ton of parental investment for kids to survive. Love keeps us together long enough for the kids to grow up. Not being able to fall in love is the pathology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenone of the most pleasurable experiences a human can have is for the broke A depressing world you live in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 01:32 AM |
| 2 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenmen don’t value female money They do. Most of the men I know around my age (23) do not want a woman who earns way less than them because they’d have to support her and sacrifice their own lifestyle. They mainly date within their own income bracket. They don’t want a provider but they do want someone who can keep up. Professional guys earning £60,000 pa don’t date girls working at the bar long-term, they date women earning £55,000 pa in a professional job and maybe fuck the bar girls in between. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 01:31 AM |
| 2 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenThat’s very good, congrats. I really think a lot of the physical aging in the modern world is people not taking care of themselves. Low body fat is so key especially for men, you’ve literally evolved to carry less of it for a reason. Fat increases aromatase and this increases estrogen while reducing testosterone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 01:17 AM |
| 7 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenMen live longer when they’re married, but this isn’t the case for women. Divorce also affects men worse. There’s plenty in marriage for men, it’s a myth that it’s bad for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenSure, buts it a waste of a woman’s physical resources to carry a baby she’ll be more likely to have to dump in a river. Childbirth is hugely taxing and dangerous for human females, it’s actually a major flaw for our species. This is why they gravitate towards looks more than anything when social pressures are removed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 01:10 AM |
| 5 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenYes and it’s hilarious that you deny this. It’s like women who say they put on makeup for “themselves” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 01:07 AM |
| 2 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenIt’s either that or guys off hinge/social circle. But a shocking number fuck/date coworkers. Tbh they’re usually in grad schemes in firms where they’re around lots of men their age and social class so it’s not surprising. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenYou’d be surprised. Plenty of younger men would like an older woman with money, it’s just they think it’s impossible. But it certainly happens, and with increasing frequency in the modern era. Of course they’d usually plan to fuck people their own age on the side. But female sugar babies do that too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 01:04 AM |
| 9 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenIt’s a bit sad. My older sister is a 40 yo ex-model with two kids and still fantastic looking. Slim, exercises, eats healthy and lucky. She gets constant attention when we’re out unless she has her kids and husband with her. More attention than me and I’m 23 lol. She has a husband now, but certainly no shortage of men interested- some she works with too who know her situation still won’t stop trying it. Younger and older. She’s shown me their messages for a laugh. She’s just not bothered because… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 01:02 AM |
| 34 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenIf older men are hot it’s in SPITE of their age, not because of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 12:43 AM |
| 4 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenYou could say women’s isn’t fear and just preferring a “youthful look” too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 12:35 AM |
| 2 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenIf you personally enjoy aging that’s cool, there are many things to like about aging but what you listed applies to women too. Most women enjoy have more money, knowledge, independence etc. too. They are not an alien species. But the idea that men’s smv will increase is simply not true in 99% of cases. What I’ve found is that the men who get the highest paying jobs typically are the confident, charismatic and attractive ones who got laid plenty anyway. Life really isn’t fair. The only time this … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenSince we’ve graduated, no. They date men in their offices around their age. They are from wealthy families with good jobs so they don’t need sugar daddies. Only poorer and less successful women will be tempted by that typically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenin far better shape at 50 than I was from 28 to about 42 This is admirable, but very rare. Do you take trt out of curiosity, no worries if it’s too personal to answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenYou do lose quite a lot of fertility, and increase the odds of a child being born with a genetic disorder. It’s not menopause level, but it is significant. It does explain why men want younger women, but in reality women also like youthful men just not to the same degree. Interestingly humans are one of the few mammals where the males prefer younger females as most mammals they prefer older (older females have a higher offspring survival rate from increased experience). This is because of menopa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenOk then sure, anyone who posts something that disagrees with your worldview has some nefarious plan. Please tell me what you think my intentions even are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 12:08 AM |
| 9 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenMy mum had me at 41 and my brother at 37. No ivf, and I was an accident lol. It’s such a myth that women are infertile past 35. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 12:04 AM |
| 6 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenHave you seen the average 44 yo man lol? I do agree pregnancy takes a toll, but the stress of fatherhood gets to most men too. Men’s skin is thicker so it doesn’t line as much, but they do go bald and when they do get wrinkles they are deeper than women’s and harder to hide. Both sexes tend to get fat. The thing is, testosterone visibly ages you. Any steroid user can tell you this. Whereas estrogen makes you look more youthful. We perceive men as aging “better” because we already have a low bar … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/22 12:02 AM |
| 7 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenwoman’s primary agency is looks This hasn’t been true for decades. Women actually out-earn men in younger age brackets in most western countries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 11:57 PM |
| 4 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenI’m a lesbian tbh so I don’t have much skin in this game, aging isn’t going to affect my dating prospects much as women date around their own age typically. I’m also 23 anyway. But hypocritical misogyny does annoy me, especially when I know so many men secretly terrified of aging. My intention is absolutely the truth, hypocrisy and delusion are my pet peeves. I think exposing reality is important. I have no problem with men dating younger women as long as they admit aging doesn’t do them any fav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 11:55 PM |
| 5 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenYes most agricultural civilised societies ended up being patriarchies. The ones that weren’t tended to be conquered quite quickly in the Neolithic/Bronze Age. I don’t think this is a good thing however. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 11:47 PM |
| 2 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenMen’s worth being tied to wealth is a patriarchal notion that developed from organised agricultural societies becoming patrilineal and giving humans the opportunity to accrue resources. The vast majority’s of historical civilisations were patriarchies, this is not deniable. In more equal hunter-gatherer societies such as the Hadza, women prioritise looks just as much as men which is not the case for basically any developed civilisation. Research has been done on this which I can link. Instinctua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 11:45 PM |
| 8 | Men are just as terrified of aging as womenI think a lot of men project their own fear of aging onto women in this way, without realising it. I think the fear of your partner aging is you externalising your own fear of aging onto them. Accepting that you will be less likely to get younger women as time goes on is inherently a fear of the loss of opportunities that inevitably come with age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 11:36 PM |
| 1 | The Ukraine situation shows how equality of the sexes is a facade and incapable of being upheld through harsh situations.Laws in general are generally impossible to keep up if society is collapsing. Does that mean they’re all a facade too? The answer is yes, most of human society is some facade or other to keep us from primal behaviour and that’s a good thing. This argument goes nowhere. Obviously we should not give up social order, structure and empathy just because it could disappear in an extreme situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 05:36 PM |
| 18 | What is something someone said or told you that make you understand the perspective of the opposite sex better?So this guy publicly cucked you, took your gf and because she came back to you after you felt like you won? Lmao dude I don’t even know what to say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 02:07 AM |
| 1 | This one's for all the Redpillers out thereSorry, replying very late but it’s not illogical at all. Right physique would not be selected for in a Hunter gatherer society as it requires far too many calories to maintain and would reduce his long-range cardio capacity. Considering that research points to running prey down over miles and exhausting it was our primary hunting strategy the right physique simply would not last long. There is a reason the Neanderthals (much stronger, stockier homo species) died out and we were incredibly succes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 10:34 AM |
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