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| 88 | Valentine’s Day cringeI completely agree. I’ve also seen way too many WEDDINGS where the guy wears dark jeans, button down shirt, and a vest while the woman wears a gorgeous gown. It’s pathetic. Try. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 01:28 AM |
| 10 | A FDS sister isn’t going to be on a coffee date, tho… 😂I love paint and sips! There’s one in my town with the absolute best instructor. Plays great music and creates such a fun environment. I’d go more often but really what can you do with amateur looking art 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 02:44 AM |
| 14 | A FDS sister isn’t going to be on a coffee date, tho… 😂Yes it’s such a fun idea! The doggie daycare I take him to does photo days for all holidays… I work from home so I don’t need to take him often but this I couldn’t pass up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 01:57 AM |
| 54 | A FDS sister isn’t going to be on a coffee date, tho… 😂I plan on celebrating Valentine’s by taking my sweet pup to daycare (for the Valentines photo shoot), and a night in with my single girlfriends. We will drink wine and order takeout, and I’ll buy myself flowers. I bought all the girls small boxes of chocolates too. Who needs a man for real… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 12:13 AM |
| 53 | A FDS sister isn’t going to be on a coffee date, tho… 😂I saw this but instead of coffee it said Olive Garden & Kay jewelers necklace 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 12:11 AM |
| 2 | What are the telltale signs that he might actually have mental illness and/or personality disorder?Woah my brother checks literally every one of these boxes. 6 months and counting of no contact! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/22 12:19 AM |
| 17 | Woman Crush Wednesday! This queen graduated law school 20 years after being rejected. Never married, no kids, glowing at 41! 👑She looks 25, too! What an amazing accomplishment!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 02:44 AM |
| 13 | Nick Cannon shares he's expecting his 8th child, with model Bre Tiesi — weeks after the death of his 5-month-old son. Nick Cannon is a sick pos and all the women are serious pickmes!Lol you know it’s true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 01:44 AM |
| 51 | Nick Cannon shares he's expecting his 8th child, with model Bre Tiesi — weeks after the death of his 5-month-old son. Nick Cannon is a sick pos and all the women are serious pickmes!He was probably trying to sleep with his therapist too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/22 09:17 PM |
| 80 | A quality 1ct diamond can be over 10k, BUT Reddit society agrees that $7500 on an engagement ring is INSANEGross. He also seems like the type to buy the ring then moan to everyone how much it costs. Which isn’t even that much! You think if he really cared about his girlfriend of 7 years, and wanted to impress her/get her something that would make her proud of him/their relationship? Absolutely he would! So applicable here, but if he wanted to, he would. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 01:21 AM |
| 42 | Another porn scrote horror storyI’m so sorry you went through that- very proud of you for the leveling up you’re doing and the exciting new chapter that awaits! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 04:48 PM |
| 208 | Today I watched a scrote make a pickme pay for all the groceries and then load them into the car herselfIt’s so laughable how the pick mes think we want their men. Nah, sis. Reminds me of when about 5-6 years ago I went to a Friendsgiving that one of my friends hosted at her house. An acquaintance of mine brought her new boyfriend, who I was friendly to, as that’s who I am as a person. She was strangely clingy onto him, even sitting on the arm of the couch to position herself in between us. Made it a point that she was claiming her territory as she knew I was single. Fast forward a few years back,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 02:51 AM |
| 22 | We don't do that no moreEXACTLY. Men would be crying so fast | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 04:30 PM |
| 39 | Man wants to bring his young daughter on a first dateHe’s trying to find her a new mommy so he doesn’t have to parent. Run! 🚩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 04:28 PM |
| 49 | had a bad coffee date, i’m glad his red flags were obviousGuys like this will talk about themselves the whole date then have the audacity to say “I really like you” 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 02:21 AM |
| 3 | Where do my FDS ladies like to shop?Well said! I hadn’t considered a mood board before but I’m open to it. Luckily I work for a natural grocery store and most of the people I work with have a “come as you are” approach to what I look like on my zoom calls, so I can be pretty casual at home. I have been struggling with finding items that fit my personal style- I feel a lot of what’s “in” right now is either grunge/oversized or cropped/looks like the Kardashian style- I.e. fake leather, under boob or side boob, etc. No shade toward … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 07:57 PM |
| 18 | Why do they keep romanticizing “toxic love” ?I completely see what you’re saying, ya that’s definitely not a good look. Honestly I don’t know too much about their relationship aside from what the headlines say, it seems like they’re very happy together and they should drop that act for sure! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 03:20 AM |
| 75 | Why do they keep romanticizing “toxic love” ?https://www.google.com/amp/s/people.com/style/machine-gun-kelly-designed-megan-fox-unusual-engagement-ring/%3famp=true Check out her engagement ring- he put a huge amount of thought and planning into designing it with both of their birthstones to form a heart. I thought that was pretty sweet and thoughtful of him. As a couple they are a bit out there for my taste- drinking someone’s blood is wack. Im pretty vanilla and people who know me are surprised that I love his music and went to a concert … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 02:21 AM |
| 21 | Is this turning into a texting situationship?I’d subtly say something like “let me know when I can tell you all about (whatever he asked about) in person” and if he doesn’t catch that hint, I’d be over it. We’re not pen pals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 08:27 PM |
| 17 | How to piss off men (this had me rolling)Now remember, these won’t work on anyone whose been to therapy 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 07:03 PM |
| 50 | I sure as hell enjoyed every minute roasting this scrote. Based on his response, he 100% deserved having his ass left 🤣You murdered him with words and I loved reading it 🙌🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 03:52 AM |
| 15 | For the angered men lurkingWell said! My brother would also get pissed at that comment lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 08:03 PM |
| 10 | RANT: aDvEnTuRoUs guysThank you, doing that now! Like why do men take the time and spend effort to lurk on a female only sub and send hateful messages yet REFUSE to spend effort planning dates 😂 Make it make sense! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 02:42 AM |
| 6 | RANT: aDvEnTuRoUs guysWe’re the same person. I 100% would do that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 10:27 PM |
| 24 | RANT: aDvEnTuRoUs guysAllergic to planning & spending money on anyone but himself. You nailed it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 10:26 PM |
| 18 | RANT: aDvEnTuRoUs guysY’all. The scrotes love to lurk on this sub and send their true woman hating thoughts via DM. Get a better hobby, boys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 10:24 PM |
| 15 | RANT: aDvEnTuRoUs guysNo not hurtful, I knew we weren’t a match. I like to be the one who voices that is all. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 04:47 PM |
| 38 | RANT: aDvEnTuRoUs guysI wish I could think of great comebacks on the spot. I did a 😂 and unmatched | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 04:24 PM |
| 30 | RANT: aDvEnTuRoUs guysI feel like Brad is the same as a Chad- this guy may as well have had either of those names for how douche he is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 03:10 PM |
| 231 | RANT: aDvEnTuRoUs guysThat is phenomenal! I’m sure most men would love to mansplain to you how to sail. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 03:09 PM |
| 38 | RANT: aDvEnTuRoUs guysI’m glad you’ve found something that works for you and your husband. I’m the same- I like exercise and enjoy hiking (unfortunately don’t live in an area that it’s easily accessible). Don’t act like you’re better than us because you like to sleep outdoors! Gag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 02:50 PM |
| 125 | RANT: aDvEnTuRoUs guysAbsolutely. You articulated that so well. In a relationship I think it’s important to have common interests as well as separate interests. He could have easily tried to find out more about me- but more interested in a “companion” who will do whatever he wants. Good riddance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 02:22 PM |
| 195 | RANT: aDvEnTuRoUs guysI think it really is! Honestly reminds me of my cousin who is SUPER into hunting and now his wife is “into” hunting too and it’s something they “like to do together”. Sure, Jan. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Love hearing about women leaving when they had enough! Saying no to couples counseling because she recognizes that there's nothing else she can possibly cOmMunIcaTe to himWow I started to feel lonely because I’m single earlier and after reading this I couldn’t be happier with my current situation. When will men stop forcing women to carry the entire emotional load, household chores, and childcare duties??? Then they’re shocked when we’ve finally had enough. SMH. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 03:30 AM |
| 81 | Love hearing about women leaving when they had enough! Saying no to couples counseling because she recognizes that there's nothing else she can possibly cOmMunIcaTe to himWow I started to feel lonely because I’m single earlier and after reading this I couldn’t be happier with my current situation. When will men stop forcing women to carry the entire emotional load, household chores, and childcare duties??? Then they’re shocked when we’ve finally had enough. SMH. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 03:30 AM |
| 23 | This is narcissistic abuse.This sounds just like my brother who I have gone no contact with for obvious reasons. Very sad. She needs to leave ASAP- men like this don’t change. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/21 02:21 AM |
| 39 | The “What Do You Bring to the Table” analogy, astutely dissected… by CayLee Cresta.I have been asked this on dating apps- the first time I replied with “you have got to be kidding me” and the second time I just unmatched. The audacity!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 12:13 AM |
| 37 | What’s something a man did that gave you “the ick”?The way you described this was perfect yet made me want to vomit at the same time haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 11:25 PM |
| 52 | What’s something a man did that gave you “the ick”?I don’t know how to do a link to a different Reddit thread but someone share about the nest please! It’s horrifying | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 11:23 PM |
| 28 | How do you handle being approached by scrotes?Dead stare, blink, “oh… no thank you”. Walk away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 12:54 AM |
| 27 | Actions speak louder than wordsJust block him- he will get the message | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Car mechanics need to respect professional boundariesYou handled this like an absolute boss. Proud of you. To take it a step further, I would have included a photo of the paper with his number on it in full view, on the Google review. I’m sure all sorts of strangers on the internet would love to text him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 05:17 AM |
| 2 | New to me LVM tacticHaha YES!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 04:30 AM |
| 25 | Piggybacking off of the not clapping back at men who neg you post. What are some examples of negging that men have done to you?I don’t know why it bothered me so much, but getting negged about putting my Christmas decorations up before thanksgiving. It brings me joy and it’s pretty!! Then he said “I’m a bachelor I don’t decorate” cool, Chad. I’m sure you use 3 in 1 shampoo, body wash, conditioner too and have nose hairs coming out. Grow up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 01:28 PM |
| 22 | This is what you get if you act „low maintance”. You are worth less than a good PC setupWhat an asshole. Makes me so glad I’m single. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 01:27 AM |
| 214 | this is queen shit!! no confrontation, just block and delete his whole existanceCan relate. I’d return the game for the $$ and eat the delicious breakfast too. BUT in this case she was sending a message that she was there and saw everything she needed to see, which i respect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/21 03:08 PM |
| 61 | The dates where nice, and he was a gentleman. However….Oh my gosh I just came here to say I am SO pumped FDS is back!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 02:15 PM |
| 18 | Other than Dinner dates what are some FDS approved first dates?Right! Literally have grown up despising that school (whole family went to the same university I did) and can’t think of a worse way to spend several hours. That’s what YOU want to do bro, just go with your scrote friends | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 02:24 AM |
| 64 | Scrotes flaunting being brokeHaha I think so. Swiped left for sure. Cannot imagine publicly proclaiming that I didn’t have $500 to my name | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 02:07 AM |
| 47 | Other than Dinner dates what are some FDS approved first dates?Today I had a guy on Hinge say “I know where I’m taking you on our first date.” (University) football game- the RIVAL of where I went to school 😂- he would have known if he put in any sort of effort to what I would like to do. No thanks homie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 02:02 AM |
| 12 | Poor PickMe did a dang photoshoot 🤦♀️And also, imagine thinking that someone who looks like a bootleg jack sparrow is a prize. Wait I apologize that’s an insult to Johnny depp | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 02:07 AM |
| 13 | Poor PickMe did a dang photoshoot 🤦♀️Tbh this is really sad and embarrassing. What man who cares about his girlfriend would let her send out such a thing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 02:06 AM |
| 5 | I'm not sure what to think of this guy I've been on 4 dates with🚩🚩🚩 Run, sis. It sounds like you’re used to running though since he can’t be bothered to slow his pace when he’s with you- a clear sign he doesn’t give a shit about you, only himself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 05:50 PM |
| 30 | Never go camping alone with a man. This woman could have died. (Reposted because pictures are broken)She’s lucky she didn’t end up like Gabby Petito. This is absolutely horrible. What a controlling narcissist, and a broke one at that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 05:36 PM |
| 125 | Conservative men can be so misogynistic that I can no longer tell the difference between reality and satire.I laughed out loud. He is textbook narcissist- why in the world would we need to know about him to know if we’re interested? HIS preferences, I mean demands, are more important. I’d like to find where he works and send this to his supervisor 😈 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 06:50 PM |
| 734 | SOS girl wherever you are please come find us 😔✊Help I’m dying of second hand embarrassment! She’s… she’s begging… that guy… to marry her. THAT guy with the Justin Bieber haircut and American flag belt buckle when he was 16. Come on, sis. You’re better than that. Come to the light in FDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 02:12 AM |
| 119 | Have you guys heard of The Body Language Guy on YouTube? He has a video about Gabby and her abuser that you guys should check out https://youtu.be/E9J0Oz47PAsFor 23 years old, yes!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Tell me all of your favourite ways to treat yourself to a date!I love the formula! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 08:55 PM |
| 2 | Don’t save his number in your phone.I never save guys numbers! Makes complete sense- you are nothing to me, just a bunch of digits, until proven otherwise | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 08:48 PM |
| 3 | I love it when the trash takes itself out10/10 would have a way better time with any of you ladies than annnnnyyy male! Cheers 🥂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 11:32 PM |
| 2 | I love it when the trash takes itself outThis made me giggle 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 07:15 PM |
| 2 | I love it when the trash takes itself outThank you, Queen!! As I like to say, sometimes the trash takes itself out 🗑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 07:13 PM |
| 30 | I love it when the trash takes itself outI have a virtual girl crush on you for not saying “peek my interest” good grammar is a lost art. 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 01:57 PM |
| 32 | I love it when the trash takes itself outI did ask “why would you need to watch porn if you were in a fulfilling, committed relationship?” And he backtracked- HARD. He knew what he was doing. Glad to be rid of that scrote and not feel like I have to pause my day to text back. Ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 12:10 PM |
| 41 | I love it when the trash takes itself outExactly. It’s so easy to feign interest - just ask questions. Guys could take some notes from us | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 12:08 PM |
| 14 | I love it when the trash takes itself outYa I’m with you, I get inundated with messages from guys that I would literally run from if I saw them on the street. 1/2 of them or more look like they have a criminal history | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 12:07 PM |
| 204 | I love it when the trash takes itself outTBH I can carry on a conversation with literally anyone- I talk to people all day for my job. Sir that doesn’t make you special that you thought we vibed haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 02:47 AM |
| 67 | I love it when the trash takes itself outThat made me laugh out loud! I was thinking he thinks those strippers actually LIKE him- unbelievable 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 02:20 AM |
| 248 | I love it when the trash takes itself outFunny enough, he made sure to tell me what he’s looking for in a relationship and the first thing he mentioned was someone who looks good and takes care of themselves. I didn’t mention in my post that he’s completely bald but I was willing to overlook it. SMH. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 01:59 AM |
| 71 | I love it when the trash takes itself outYou’re right. 5’8 for him was a streeeeeetch | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 12:57 AM |
| 6 | Leveling up this weekPrioritizing my side hustle- I’m underpaid at my full time job and using this to save/pay for an upcoming trip until I have my annual review where I will be asking for an 8% raise with data to back it up 🙌🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 12:13 AM |
| 475 | A supportive motherMy favorite part was “you’ll never find another man like me” and she said “yeah that’s the whole point” lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 07:03 PM |
| 7 | When Asks her husband to go Shopping, this is what requires *facepalm*This can’t be real. And even if it’s real why is this woman posting it like it’s relatable and funny? Sis, no one wants that. I repeat- NO ONE. Your man child of a husband needs that much direction to do one adult chore, hard pass. I have a headache just looking at it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 12:35 AM |
| 3 | The lion, the witch, and the audacity of this bitchI’m 31! But he looks like he could be my dad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 01:07 AM |
| 3 | The lion, the witch, and the audacity of this bitchExcellent idea | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 01:06 AM |
| 4 | What are your standards for Facebook friends?This! I love the unfollow button! Then if I see them in person and they’ve obviously had a major life event I’ve missed (had a kid, got married) I can always use the ole go to: I never check Facebook! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 10:24 PM |
| 30 | It’s pathetic that this level of scrotery is so normalizedNo one ever said living with their boyfriend was exciting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 11:49 PM |
| 15 | "My well off husband is "guarded with money" because of pAsT eXpErIeNcEs and sits by as I flounder. How do I convince him I'm not a gold digger and ask him to please help me so that I can stop crying myself to sleep?"Because of past experiences! Using the same logic as him of course | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 02:58 AM |
| 25 | The absolute AUDACITY of men who want to have their cake and eat it too.Yes absolutely. His behavior was incredibly unprofessional and his supervisor needs to know the type of customer experience he is providing. And his girlfriend needs to know as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 12:17 PM |
| 15 | The absolute AUDACITY of men who want to have their cake and eat it too.Yes ma’am! Excellent ideas | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 12:16 PM |
| 43 | The absolute AUDACITY of men who want to have their cake and eat it too.THIS!!! Love it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 12:15 PM |
| 22 | Vetting Men by their job positionAny thoughts on pilots? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 02:43 AM |
| 1 | God help the woman married to this manAm I missing something or can this man really not spell child correctly? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 04:43 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Check-InLaying here in my sheets that are at least 3 years old, and yep, can confirm- no holes. Men are trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 04:37 AM |
| 3 | Just for laughs ladies.They had me in the first half not gonna lie 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 12:15 AM |
| 10 | Ladies, what are your current level ups?This is such a great thing to do! If our surroundings are cluttered, our minds tend to follow suit. I have completely purged my closet and there’s not a dang thing in there that doesn’t fit me and I wouldn’t wear. I love it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 03:55 AM |
| 9 | For anyone who says 30+ women have hit the wall, this queen begs to differ (credit: @ihopeyousuffer3 on Tik Tok)Getting a solid skincare routine is KEY! Not trying to flex at all when I say this, but I’m 31 and routinely get carded, people think I’m in my early 20s. I’ve gotten Botox every 3 months since I turned 30, religiously use the LumiSpa cleanser head, and medical grade skincare (Epionce products) as well as a retinol. I feel more comfortable without makeup now tbh! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 12:54 AM |
| 20 | Guide to Dating Single DadsDo you mind elaborating on this? I’m single, no kids, and have no desire to date someone with kids but out of curiosity would like to know more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 02:23 AM |
| 2 | ghosted a man who didn't properly plan a 1st dateSame sis. Since I’ve been an adult I have been in charge of getting my moms gifts for Christmas and birthday. It’s not for lack of funds or capacity to put in effort. He has both. It’s just he doesn’t want to. I’m so sad for her. And she thinks I’m being “too picky” smh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 04:23 AM |
| 8 | A tale for the ages... a scrote and his complicit family...Right! Arnold Schwarzenegger who?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 01:34 AM |
| 151 | Husband eats all of the food in the house leaving his wife and children hungry. Gets mad at wife for not giving him more food when she replaces what he ate that night.Right!! Except he would never shop, prepare, or cook for himself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 01:20 AM |
| 63 | ghosted a man who didn't properly plan a 1st dateHe wanted to do coffee at 5pm so he could meet up with one of his slam pieces at 6, or better yet, his girlfriend for dinner at 7 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 01:14 AM |
| 33 | ghosted a man who didn't properly plan a 1st dateI blocked and deleted a guy who 1. Didn’t even ask the general vicinity of where I live, 2. Didn’t ask what kind of food/drinks I like, and 3. Suggested an Irish pub 20 mins away from me on ST PATTYS DAY and I don’t even like beer 🙄 But he would have had to put in effort to figure any of that out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 01:12 AM |
| 67 | ghosted a man who didn't properly plan a 1st dateThis makes me so sad because it’s my mom to a T | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 01:08 AM |
| 5 | It’s quiet ain’t no talk backYesssss Queen!!!! 🤩👸🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 12:40 AM |
| 3 | Scrote BingoWait... what is PIED? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 12:38 AM |
| 4 | Scrote BingoWait... what is PIED? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 12:37 AM |
| 20 | The more you become aware the more things like these are not funny. It’s just misogynistic really.This is where I’d say “I don’t understand. Can you explain?” With a straight face. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 02:19 AM |
| 64 | Why 50/50 is NOT FAIRAgreed. Men are only good for dick & disappointment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 04:48 AM |
| 3 | Men are complex creatures....what?Hahahaha dump his ass 2021. Or better yet just block and delete. Move on sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 03:31 AM |
| 39 | Guy takes girl on a non-date and then is surprised when it doesn’t feel like a dateWow, a guy takes someone on a “date” that’s something I do for my dog every day- in my sweats after work and pick up poop during, and he didn’t feel a spark??!! Shocking... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 12:52 PM |
| 4 | Likes multiple Facebook photos, sends me this in messenger then has the audacity to act clueless when I call him out. Nah, bro. Not interested x1000I just went to my settings and locked everything down. It’s been ages since I’ve even thought about who can see what on my social media. Feeling relieved now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/21 03:51 AM |
| 9 | Likes multiple Facebook photos, sends me this in messenger then has the audacity to act clueless when I call him out. Nah, bro. Not interested x1000Doing that now thank you! 🙌🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/21 02:13 AM |
| 42 | This poor man's wife and family - but porn is a normal and healthy expression of sexuality 🤡I bet if we ask his wife if there are problems in the bedroom she would beg to differ... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 03:39 AM |
| 5 | A lot of men need to hear this. They wonder why they have dead bedrooms but dont even tryHis voice is really doing something for me 😅😝 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 01:31 AM |
| 2 | Just wanted to share this beautiful poem!She is a queen!! Absolutely stunning makeup and well just face in general 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 04:14 AM |
| 6 | My eyeballs did not deserve this type of assault- reported this disgusting scrote to the Hinge app. Imagine thinking all women want to look at your tiny shriveled peen. It’s a hell no from me. ☠️Best comment 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 03:20 AM |
| 16 | My eyeballs did not deserve this type of assault- reported this disgusting scrote to the Hinge app. Imagine thinking all women want to look at your tiny shriveled peen. It’s a hell no from me. ☠️No! His face was in full view | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 03:08 AM |
| 20 | My eyeballs did not deserve this type of assault- reported this disgusting scrote to the Hinge app. Imagine thinking all women want to look at your tiny shriveled peen. It’s a hell no from me. ☠️Yes!! As I’m basically hitting the X on every profile (they’re all trash) I see his tiny peen and white doughy body. Thankful for the report button. 🥴🥴🥴😫 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 03:07 AM |
| 15 | I begged my N-ex to make me a love note (as I would do it often for him) .. I made him a personalized comic book of our life and this is what I got in return. LMAO.Is he a second grader? Legitimate question | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 10:07 AM |
| 8 | Do not prepare him for his ‘forever home’I’ve definitely said this before. But you’re right | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 09:44 PM |
| 4 | As of today, February 1, 2021, I am DONE being a pick-me doormat!Congratulations! And good luck to you on your new FDS lifestyle! As for the weight loss, I recommend weight watchers as a lifestyle change. I’ve lost 20 lbs and counting! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 11:19 PM |
| 6 | This man going viral as his many wives figure it out.This happened in Texas | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 01:43 AM |
| 53 | A summary of the Pickme: The Cool Girl😂😂😂 I just about spit my water out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 01:39 AM |
| 16 | Childish mutant spends nearly $10k on video games as his wife wears literal rags. But not to worry! He’s a “good husband and father, otherwise” 😅 Anyways, wifey just needs to know how to raise this minor topic while respecting hubby’s “financial autonomy” 🥺Throw the whole man away | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Creepy male teachersCannot remember context but I remember my junior English teacher (male, single father of a young girl) talking about cellulite and how —— (student) doesn’t have cellulite. Wtf man. So creepy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 04:32 AM |
| 17 | I see your terrible gifts and I raise you this plastic cup. Story in comments.Two years ago for my birthday my LVM ex did take me to a nice dinner (probably around $200 if I were to guess, steaks, wine, etc) but no actual gift for my birthday. It was embarrassing to explain that the two dozen roses that got delivered to my work were from my parents 🥴🥴🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 04:50 AM |
| 12 | What a lowlife smhWhat a piece of trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 01:44 AM |
| 3 | LVM coerces woman into sex while sick and then calls her a disgusting pig when she voms on him. Because she was SICK.Throw the whole man away | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 04:31 PM |
| 8 | What to say when men tell you you’re so pretty 😍😍😍She is a queen!!! 👸🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 04:23 PM |
| 44 | No this isn’t fucking funny- it’s an example of how LVM behavior is perpetuated within familiesThis is my dad too it pisses me off, has been like this as long as I can remember | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 02:50 AM |
| 20 | Queens of FDS, I think I may have a HVM on my hands!Completely agree! And I love the comment about “meeting their representative” and it makes total sense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 01:31 AM |
| 12 | WHERE’S THE LIE?This!!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 10:54 PM |
| 34 | The “Arrangement” 🤣No “marywania” ☠️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 11:38 PM |
| 2 | The 🎇a u d a c i t y🎇Queen!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 04:34 AM |
| 56 | HVM take care of women even if they’re not dating. My friend (pink) just went through a breakup and bf looks out for her tooI LOVE this. Loving and caring for me means loving and respecting those in my inner circle as well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 11:03 PM |
| 10 | What’s a pick me man called??😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 02:07 AM |
| 2 | How do you feel about this? as a 21 year old I am so grateful for finding this sub!I feel seen 🙋🏼♀️🙋🏼♀️🙋🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 05:28 PM |
| 2 | LVM gets mad at fiancé for not cleaning HIS filth, gets embarrassed when coworkers see how he livesPhotos of post in reverse order- sorry! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 02:45 AM |
| 29 | Of course they only want this (and a bangmaid) 🙄He spent all his money on the unit with the view and couldn’t afford furniture, naturally. But sure sounds great to brag to the ladies that he has a sick apartment with views | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Racial fetishization and pedophilia. He wonders if he should learn to speak Chinese so he can have a better chance of targeting women that have the body type of school boys. Reddit is a cesspool of depraved LVMsDisgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:00 AM |
| 2 | Saw this on my fb feed this morning. Had a good laugh and thought I’d share.Unlike those women who wear tons of makeup, I can change a tire 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Old post but has FDS energyI prefer steak and lobster to hot dog on the ground. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 02:55 AM |
| 34 | Let’s talk about more CODES on OLD“5’10, I hear that matters” - I’m 5’7 and I hate it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 03:43 AM |
| 12 | LVM on 90 day Fiancé- feeling *blessed* to be singleCompletely agree- in fact I think the next time someone asks me why I’m single I’m going to say “I’m just blessed I guess!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Made me smile 💁♀️💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 02:15 PM |
| 8 | “You have to act normally around me” and “you have some healing to do” About to do a great magic trick- the BLOCK and DELETE 👻👋🏼This is the same person who, after I shared some vulnerability that I’d gained weight and was working to get fit and healthier, when I posted a hot selfie on my insta story, messages me “is that a recent pic?” Go jump off a cliff man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 12:36 PM |
| 8 | “You have to act normally around me” and “you have some healing to do” About to do a great magic trick- the BLOCK and DELETE 👻👋🏼Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 12:09 PM |
| 18 | “You have to act normally around me” and “you have some healing to do” About to do a great magic trick- the BLOCK and DELETE 👻👋🏼Lol it’s how every interaction with him is. Former pickmeisha and shared past trauma with him, which he then used to attack my every interaction with him. Nope! 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 12:08 PM |
| 5 | “You have to act normally around me” and “you have some healing to do” About to do a great magic trick- the BLOCK and DELETE 👻👋🏼Thank you ladies for all your support! I kept feeling like every interaction with him was mentally draining, was an argument, and didn’t respect my boundaries. You’ve all confirmed it! 👍🏼💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 12:05 PM |
| 23 | Grown man angry that wife did not pack his camping clothes for him. After she packed literally everything else for their trip!I saw this post earlier today and had a feeling it would be posted here. LVM can’t even be trusted to pack for himself- the bar is so low | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 03:51 AM |
| 6 | Pick me job hunting for her boyfriend- sis come on! As a recruiter, I see this way too often and it’s concerning....if he wanted a job he would get one.Yep very common here in the US! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 12:23 PM |
| 19 | Pick me job hunting for her boyfriend- sis come on! As a recruiter, I see this way too often and it’s concerning....if he wanted a job he would get one.Oh my gosh I’m dying! Y’all get it 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 03:14 AM |
| 68 | Pick me job hunting for her boyfriend- sis come on! As a recruiter, I see this way too often and it’s concerning....if he wanted a job he would get one.Yes, they say “posting for my boyfriend because he doesn’t have social media” or something similar. Well sis you don’t have to have social media to find a job! Try linked in, Indeed, google, glass door.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 03:13 AM |
| 22 | You Don’t Have to Do ItNeeded this! Thank you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 01:35 AM |
| 26 | The reason these are statements women need to practice is because men don't get patronized for saying these things. A woman is called bitchy and cold if she says the same exact things a man says. These same men will tell a woman she wasn't promoted/was harassed, because she wasn't aggressive enough.Screen shot saved! Love this. Also add “can you explain what you mean?” works great with men thinking they’re being sneaky with inappropriate comments | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 02:31 AM |
| 7 | When you reject a NVM and his feelings are hurt, it shows.What a child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 01:24 AM |
| 5 | Harsh truthOuch- definitely have heard this before!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 07:32 PM |
| 14 | Mood: disappointed but not surprisedUpdate: he unmatched me without another word. Sometimes the trash takes itself out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 11:48 PM |
| 10 | Mood: disappointed but not surprisedWhat do you think though when a woman asks? I’d like to weed them out early if we’re not looking for the same things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 07:13 PM |
| 19 | Mood: disappointed but not surprisedPersonally I leave mine pretty light and don’t go too much into depth. If I let them stick around, they’ll learn what I want them to about me. Right now my tag line is “thirty, flirty, and thriving” as a nod to one of my favorite movies, 13 going on 30! Open to suggestions though if you guys think that gives the wrong message | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 07:13 PM |
| 28 | Mood: disappointed but not surprisedSo true! It’s like giving them a road map to deceive you when you tell them qualities you look for right off the bat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 06:01 PM |
| 60 | Mood: disappointed but not surprisedYou’re a genius | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Probably my favorite tinder bio from my brief stint on the app....I mean if someone were to spend time with him, they’d be able to observe it. But he’s clearly LVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 08:20 PM |
| 62 | Probably my favorite tinder bio from my brief stint on the app....But if all of this was actually true, would you have to tell us? Or would we just be able to observe it?? 🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 03:17 AM |
| 8 | KHLOE THE CLOWNEye roll | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 09:44 PM |
| 3 | Is my dad a LVM?I completely agree- seeing what was lacking in their relationship made me realize what’s a non- negotiable in my future relationship (single now). To me, listening when someone tells you what they need from you is a form of respect. Thoughtful gift giving means so much! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 10:20 PM |
| 6 | Is my dad a LVM?You are entirely correct | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 01:54 PM |
| 12 | Is my dad a LVM?Not the best in other aspects but he does try more in other aspects ie: parenting. It makes me sad for my mom, too! When I bring it up to her she just acts defeated and says I’ve asked him to change but I can’t make him do something he doesn’t want to do. It’s sad but it’s helped me realize that’s a non-negotiable for me in a relationship, someone who hears me and makes an effort to change when I voice a concern. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 03:59 AM |
| 4 | WTFAhhhh Oklahoma. He would be proud for being able to wipe his own ass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 02:18 AM |
| 2 | Generic one liner template from Insta DMsThanks for the heads up on this!! Wow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 12:56 PM |
| 21 | Let's raise the barTHIS times 10000!!! 🔥🔥🔥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 03:36 AM |
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