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I don’t see why you would even feel the need to disclose this. If you wanted to some time after the fact, but I really don’t see any possible benefit to putting it out there to begin with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 05:50 PM
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I’m pretty sure he knows that, which is why he’s saying it. Thanks for the advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/22 10:26 PM
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Can the whole “I cook and clean” thing just die already? Those are basic life tasks all humans should be doing. It’s not a selling point, they’re the most mundane essential components of adulthood. You look stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/22 04:09 PM
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In the age of social media, there’s no way anyone thinks uninstalling an app deletes their profile. Does that work for Facebook? Instagram? Reddit? No, obviously. Feigned ignorance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 02:30 PM
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A guy that doesn’t know to dress. Crocs outside of the house? Hell no. Basketball shorts anywhere besides the gym? Also no. Guys that wear baseball caps all the time, especially if he wears it backwards any of the time. Guys who have no hobbies other than watching and consuming (netflix, video games). Or the gym is his only hobby. Watching anime at all, sorry to those who like it but it is an instant ick and no thanks for me. Any guy that has a chip on his shoulder and is bitter toward women, pa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 10:58 PM
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I swear my ex used to argue points he didn’t even agree with, just for the sake of arguing and invalidating my opinion. It was the strangest thing, I could say the most innocuous statement, and he’d usually do some mental backflips and find a way to try to invalidate me. I’m certain he would do this and not even genuinely believe what he was saying, it was all about proving me wrong or making me feel inferior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 01:11 PM
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its so funny to me how in the sub I always see women who have had the same really weird and specific experiences with men as I have. I had an ex that did this too. Early on in our relationship, he asked me I liked Vera Bradley stuff. I said no. Every time we'd pass it in a store, he'd ask me if I would want one for my birthday or Christmas, I'd say no every time. Sure enough he bought me one for my birthday, despite me repeatedly saying I don't care for it. Like dude if you love them so much buy…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 02:08 AM
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YES. like if the mother of your children don't want you, why the hell should I?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:11 AM
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Funny how the article doesn’t even mention that he drugged her until halfway through, like he just “waited for her to fall asleep” wtf is that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 12:34 AM
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This this this. A guy like this will always be chasing the next best thing. If he finds the spark he's looking for, it will likely be gone before 2-3 years, in which case he'll start seeking it out again. An addict chasing a high is a perfect comparison. To be blunt, it sounds like he's not that interested, like he got ahead of himself and is trying to back track and let you down easy. He's telling you you're not the one, he doesn't see himself marrying you, blah blah blah. Dump him and never lo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 11:04 PM
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I remember my ex saying similar things about Colorado. We’re both from NY, and I remember him going on one time about how everyone in Colorado was happy and positive and it was such a great place to live. He had never even been there. I assume because at the time it was the only state with recreational weed 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 12:54 AM
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That and purposefully misinterpreting what you're saying to make you explain yourself over and over in a million different ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 11:35 PM
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I love the show, but you're right that a lot of shitty men do too. The whole point of the show is that the characters are the worst people you'll ever meet, leaving a trail of destruction everywhere they go with no regard for others and never improving as people. This seems to go over their heads and they have this weird idolization of the characters without grasping that they are meant to be unlikeable. I think a lot of men like the show because they wish they could act the way the characters d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 04:18 PM
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Tbh I still can’t believe anyone gets married before 30. I was 26 when my ex wanted to get engaged and I felt way too young.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 10:51 PM
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YES! Literally had the exact same experience. He would always do this weird aggressive "tickling" thing that I hated, more like jabbing me in the ribs. I flinched one time when he reached for me and based on his reaction you'd think I committed some serious offense, he was so pissed. Funny how often I see other women on here who have had the exact same experiences I have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 01:42 PM
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for real. I haven't been comfortable with the label "girl" since I was like 19.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 01:22 PM
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A guy I matched with called me a “cute girl”, am I weird for finding that infantilizing and almost patronizing? I’m almost 30. I’m a grown woman, It weirds me out when someone calls me a girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 05:46 PM
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Handbook material.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 01:11 AM
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content aside, I'm so confused and disturbed by that dress...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:03 AM
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my favorite is when they try to frame it as women "withholding" or "weaponizing" sex. Nah man she just does not want to fuck you because you've essentially become another child for her to take care of. What do you do that should make her WANT to fuck you??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 02:15 AM
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This. A restaurant is a public place, I don’t see how a coffee date is inherently safer than a dinner date. Anyone can be normal for a quick coffee date. Say you go on your coffee date, he seems normal enough, next time it’s dinner. Whatever you were afraid might happen in the first place can still happen, coffee date or no coffee date. Pick a location you’re familiar with, have an early dinner or lunch if the idea of being out after dark makes you uneasy. It doesn’t even have to be dinner. It c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 01:17 AM
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There’s nothing that says it has to be dinner if you’re not comfortable with that. It just needs to require some effort and investment on his part. Walks, coffee, drinks, etc are all out. A public activity that he planned and paid for is fine. If I ended up at dinner with someone and I wasn’t feeling it, as long as they’re not rude or an obvious weirdo then I would just try to have good conversation, enjoy my dinner, take it for what it is. If they are rude or make you uncomfortable then yes, yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 12:42 AM
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My ex seemed perfectly content to let his body deteriorate. Cigarettes, beer, drugs, no exercise, bad diet, etc. He gained a significant amount of weight and complained that everything hurt, but never did anything about it. He seemed completely unbothered by it. I realized that if I married him it meant I’d eventually be stuck taking care of him because he never bothered to take care of himself. No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 11:06 PM
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I just don’t understand “coffee” as a date. Drinking a cup of coffee takes what, 20 minutes tops? It sounds like more of an inconvenience than anything else, and it’s definitely not enough time to get to know someone. Dinner for 2 is usually like 1-1.5 hrs at the most unless the restaurant is crazy busy. If we don’t think we can stand each other for that long for one date then why even bother? I think I could sit and make it through one dinner with basically anyone that isn’t a complete weirdo. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:27 PM
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When I broke up with my ex last year, he kept saying my standards were too high and he never felt he could reach them. Apparently “Don’t yell at me” and “treat me with respect” are such outrageously high standards 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 09:40 PM
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I like em tall, broad-shouldered, with a strong jaw and nice teeth. Thick hair, clean-shaven face. A little hair on the chest. Lean or on the thin side, not too muscly. Good posture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 11:53 PM
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please tell me you're not serious...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 11:18 PM
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If a woman is not performing femininity to any extent I.e. she doesn’t wear make up, keeps her hair short and natural, wears plain, loose-fitting clothes and comfortable shoes, doesn’t wear jewelry or paint her nails, doesn’t remove her body hair, etc etc, most men will find her unattractive and/or assume she’s a lesbian. Performative femininity is pretty much a requirement to be seen as attractive to a (supposedly) heterosexual man. If men were truly attracted to women, I don’t see why the outw…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 01:41 AM
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I agree with everything here. My question is when/ where exactly would you have this conversation? The earlier the better of course, but at that stage you should only be dating in public, seems like a uncomfortable thing to ask over dinner at a restaurant or something. I don’t think over text/phone call would be good either, you can get a better feel for if he’s lying in person. Thoughts?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:15 AM
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Second this!! I’m obsessed with Petals for Armor, so many great lyrics/vibes I’m not lonely, babe, I am free
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 03:57 AM
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More like millennia
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 02:25 AM
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I literally can’t take anyone who says “adult girls” seriously. Just go, please stfu.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 02:19 AM
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He looks like he’s just along for the ride.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:56 AM
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Can I come too?!? I want in!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 06:16 PM
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I’ve seen men admit it a million times- if he’s into the woman or thinks he might get sex- he has no problem paying when the check comes. If he wants to split- he either is aware she’s not going to fuck him or he isn’t into her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 11:23 PM
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“I do have TWO pillows and a FULL SET of sheets” like good man, good job 👏🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 11:16 PM
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Wow, I'm so glad I'm not the only one who experienced this and thought it was shitty AF! Anytime my ex and I got out the car together, he'd fucking BOOK IT through the parking lot, walking way in front of me, like he didn't want to be associated with me or something. It's rude to do that to ANYONE, especially your gf/wife. It's just common courtesy to slow down and wait for the other person. He'd get PISSSSSSED when I called him out on it. There's no way in hell I was gonna sprint after him like…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 08:06 PM
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For real. Her bf sucks. I wish she’d dump him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 05:24 PM
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She apologized and said she meant that I deserved someone to buy chocolate for me and shouldn’t have to buy it myself. But the wording still made me go wtf?? She’s never exhibited any nastiness toward me (or anyone else that I’ve seen) and really isn’t one to judge so I accepted her apology and that it was poor wording.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 05:04 PM
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I asked my friend if her and her boyfriend did anything for valentines day, and she said no its just a normal day for them. It's a normal day for my single-self too, so I said I was looking forward to getting myself some discount chocolate on the 15th. She replied that was "the saddest thing I've ever heard", she's usually a great friend so I was pretty appalled honestly. How is buying chocolate for myself sadder than the fact that your boyfriend of 10+ years didn't do jack for you on valentines…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 03:34 PM
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Its amazing how often you see this mentality. they LOVE to cry about it. wtf makes you think you're entitled to a woman just because she has a sexual history like anybody else?? The fucking audacity. Just another reason you should never disclose sexual history to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 03:22 PM
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This. In my early 20's I was brainwashed by libfem, people who say things like "women are sexual creatures too" and "women can have sex and still respect themselves" and while those things are 100% true, its incredibly ignorant of the reality we live in. Encouraging women to engage in casual sex ignores the reality that men treat women who do like garbage. It's ignoring the fact that women have NO incentive for casual sex. You risk stds, pregnancy, assault, etc etc and it is never worth it. You'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 03:14 PM
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who finds this shit worth listening to? All the things you could do with your time and this is what you chose. If I out found a guy I was seeing listened to this vitriol I’d drop him immediately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 02:14 AM
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I was curious about OLD so I made a fake profile just to take a look. I swiped and swiped and basically all I found were overly sexual douches, very angry looking “conservative Christian” MAGA dudes, anime/gamer types (no offense to the ladies here who are into those things, but It’s a huge turn off for me), hunters posing with their animal carcasses (barf), guys who might be decent looking if they tried even just a little bit- I’m talking bad haircuts, greasy hair, ill-fitting clothes, bad faci…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 01:08 AM
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I agree. As much as I think women need to be aware of how shitty so many men actually are, I’d rather it be kept to a different space. The number of screenshots we could post to prove that most men are garbage is infinite. You can go to any corner of the internet and find men like this, I don’t think we need to fill this space with it. I think it’s different when it’s a guy you’ve personally interacted with or someone you’ve been vetting who let the mask slip... but just shot after shot of men s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 04:49 PM
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And they really don’t even see it as problem. I swear I can smell this shit on men. The kind of guy who doesn’t give a shit about who you are as a person, he’s only interested in gaining the attention of a woman who is minimally attractive enough, boosts his ego, and improves his social status among other men. Anyone who fits those criteria will do, nothing about who you are as a person actually matters at all. Fuck these whiney assholes. Maybe when you start viewing women as actual individual p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:52 PM
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"Aspiring Scholar" lmao sure thing, bro.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 01:47 AM
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I mean I think it's just a fact that the vast majority of societies have been patriarchal, there's really no point in arguing that. The reason is because men are physically larger, stronger, have a greater propensity to engage in physical violence and seek control/dominance. By and large, men are in charge and always have been. But when you look at what a shitstorm our world is, the argument that we're "better off that way" seems pretty nonsensical to me. If men are such great, natural leaders, …
/r/askFDS31/01/21 07:59 PM
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I'm sorry you're going through this. He sounds very wishy-washy about your relationship. Things like "I shouldn't need an engagement to know he's committed to me since he shows me he's committed in other ways." and "He said he wanted to see how our "university-relationship dynamic" would play out in the real world. He couldn't tell me how many years he thought that meant, just "some amount of time in the real world." make it sound like he does not see this relationship as the be-all-end-all. Lik…
/r/askFDS31/01/21 07:42 PM
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For me, we went out to dinner and he ordered a Mountain Dew. Something about a grown man drinking Mountain Dew on a date made me cringe, it seems so juvenile. He also said he didn't like music. Like, any music at all. That was beyond strange to me, how can you not like ANY music?? Does not compute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 07:52 PM
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I hear you about the age gap, but I don't think she was "cool-girl-ing around talking about cars"? She knew her shit, she wasn't pretending to be into cars to impress anyone. Everyone underestimated her knowledge because she was a woman and she proved them wrong every time. and yeah she had some outlandish outfits but I don't remember anything that vaguely resembled lingerie? Unless there's something I'm not remembering. Her having to push Joe Pesci's character to get married is a big yikes thou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 07:34 PM
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It is depressingly eye-opening. Tbh, I've only read the first third so far. It was really bringing me down so I had to take a break from it. I find it very difficult to read about all ways women have been and continue to be objectified, belittled, controlled, and subjugated by men. Andrea Dworkin's book Pornography: Men Possessing Women is another one I've seen recommended a lot. I couldn't get through that one for the same reason. Eventually I'd like to finish both of them, but they really wore…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 05:46 PM
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Same here! I've been single and not dating at all for like 8 months, the longest it's been for me since high school. I've never felt more at peace. I'm really enjoying not letting men disturb my calm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 01:38 AM
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I worded it poorly but I just mean one should be (or be on the path to becoming) financially independent and stable, and able to give yourself a comfortable lifestyle. I certainly don't believe you have to make any specific amount of money to be hv.
/r/askFDS16/01/21 03:13 AM
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Right now I'm just not dating at all. I used them briefly in the past but at the time I was young and not really concerned about what long term plans a guy had. I think they're most likely looking for someone who is comfortable and confident in herself and her life choices, someone with similar hobbies, values and goals, who is is equal partner in terms of emotional labor, finances, domestic responsibilities, etc.
/r/askFDS16/01/21 02:50 AM
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I'm pretty much in the same boat as you. I do believe that most HVM out there want to have biological children, simply because most people do. However I also think the number of childfree people is going up in general, so at least SOME PORTION of them must be HVM right?? They are certainly going to be few and far between. It feels like the odds really are against us. But my thought is this: I want a childfree man who KNOWS he is childfree and he is looking for a childfree woman. Childfree women …
/r/askFDS16/01/21 02:29 AM
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I even see this at the grocery store. You ever see a man kind of dragging the cart behind/beside himself with one hand instead of pushing it like a normal person? Poor guy’s masculinity is so fragile he can’t even push a shopping cart. Imagine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 03:16 AM
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Why on earth would you tell a mother you have a problem the way she raised her kid?? As right as you may be- NO mother is going to take kindly to that. She obviously didn’t do a good job, but it’s not like anything can be done about it now. Of course they’re taking each other’s side, I don’t know what else you’re expecting here. His mommy isn’t going to fix jack in your relationship. You know what you need to do.
/r/askFDS10/01/21 12:37 PM
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His mother’s response is very telling. That basically tells you everything you need to know: she never bothered to raise him right because she’s been conditioned to believe men are useless and it’s women’s job to take care of them. She never taught him how to do basic adult tasks because she believed all that would be taken care of by his future girlfriend/wife. When you call her and complain that he doesn’t do anything around the house, you’re essentially complaining about the way she raised hi…
/r/askFDS10/01/21 05:12 AM
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Please dump him, you deserve so much better. In the future, do not discuss FDS with guys you’re dating. There is absolutely no point in trying to change a man’s mind about anything or trying to change his behavior. Either he is the kind of man you want or he isn’t. His mom obviously babied him because she has been conditioned to believe men are are incapable of basic adult tasks and is outsourcing her parenting to you and the other women he will date in the future. Don’t buy into it for one seco…
/r/askFDS09/01/21 11:37 PM
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Holy shit that was cringey
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 02:19 AM
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I think a big part of it is how does he react when a certain behavior is called out? Does he make excuses and try to minimize it? Does he try to gaslight you and convince you that you're actually the one with the problem? Does he give a half-assed apology but continue the same behavior? Anything of that sort and you should walk away immediately, block and delete. No explain. Or does he acknowledge the behavior and how it affects you? Does he actively work on improving? Most importantly: does it …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 01:26 AM
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are there more of these?? I could watch her do this all day 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 10:17 PM
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"Speaks in monologues" is giving me hives
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 10:07 PM
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I absolutely hate this pervasive idea that something has to be "cheating" for it to be unacceptable. "porn isn't cheating!" "looking at other women isn't cheating!"- who tf cares if it counts as cheating? Completely missing the point. It doesn't have to be cheating to be wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 09:57 PM
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I mean how many times can you repeat "wow such graphics so smooth good job babe"?? have you seen the way men play video games? for HOURS on end, sometimes daily. "His love language is quality time!1" lmao girl you're kidding yourself, he just told you that so you'd stop "starting fights" about it, and it worked so of course he's happy. I haven't dated a gamer since high school and I never will again, instant turn-off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 09:41 PM
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Guy complains that women don't have enough sex for his liking, but 100% guarantee he still calls women sluts and whores. also lmao @ "men don't treat sex as transactional"- what fucking planet is he living on? Imagine being this dense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 08:56 PM
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100%. 12-16 was when I had the most and worst incidences with catcalling and men saying weird creepy shit. GROWN ASS MEN with kids and wives. not kids my age. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 02:59 PM
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I'm glad it worked out well for her, though I'm not entirely sold on this either. Mainly because I'm not sure I could ever feel ready to marry someone I haven't been exclusive with for quite a while. But I can see the point behind it. I like idea of not cutting off your options until you're 100% sure he's the one you want to marry. Though you can still do that to an extent while being exclusive, other than of course actually dating other guys. Don't move in with a boyfriend, don't emotionally in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 01:13 AM
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it means Throw The Whole Man Out ™
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 02:37 PM
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my ex, word for word. exhausting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 03:05 AM
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This this this this. This is the answer. I've seen this happen to friends of mine and it's happened to me. He most likely met someone else to chase for that high, and he will move on from that one just as quickly. These types of men are not stable. FDS advises not getting excited about a guy or emotionally attached in any way until he has proven himself consistently overtime. This is exactly why. In the early stages of dating you should be seeing him once per week max. If he's doing this kind of…
/r/askFDS09/11/20 01:18 AM
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I broke up with my boyfriend in May and I lived with him for 4 years. It was tough but I had made up my mind and just told him early one morning that I wanted to break up and I was moving out. I was lucky enough to to be able to move back home until I decide what to do next. If you think about breaking up regularly but the logistics keep stopping you then you should really just do it. If at all possible, don’t wait for the lease to end, don’t wait for the next trip or event to pass. Just rip the…
/r/askFDS08/11/20 01:00 AM
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I was lurking in that sub yesterday, landed on a post from a woman about her husband being verbally abusive (of course she didn’t use this term, just listed the horrible names he calls her) and all the comments were like “just hang in there!” I mean wtf??? I can’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 06:28 PM
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This is so important! I think it’s good to remember that at least a good portion of the “successful” relationships out there are actually shit. Lots of people stay together just because it’s easier/more comfortable or they’re afraid to be alone. Just because a couple is getting engaged/married/having kids doesn’t mean it’s a good relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 09:14 PM
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Unfortunately this is like the #1 piece of dating advice for men that I see plastered all over reddit. “Dating is a numbers game!!”= “just go on as many dates as possible and eventually someone will have sex with you.” So many men don’t even look at dating as a chance to get to know someone and determine if there’s chemistry or not. It’s just a means to end, really just a formality to them. That’s why they want it to be as cheap and convenient as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 05:40 PM
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I'm loving this trend! What did you use to make these boards??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 02:07 PM
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My favorite was one I saw on here awhile back. “I’d rather eat an entire denim jacket before I ever xyz...”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 05:25 PM
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I honestly can’t even grasp that people actually have these conversations. I’m 27 and have never been asked about n-count or anything like that, but it seems like it’s becoming more “normal” these days. It makes me feel pretty jaded about trying to date again. If a guy asked me about my sexual history early on he’d be instantly cut off. It makes me cringe so hard just thinking about having this conversation with someone new. And even after you’ve been in a relationship for awhile- what good does…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 11:12 AM
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OMG this one x10000
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:15 PM
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The ability to give a real, heartfelt apology and make changes accordingly. I’ve never had a guy say “I see where I was wrong, I’m sorry, and it won’t happen again” and then actually have it not happen again. First long term BF would “apologize” by saying “I’m sorry it hurt you but I’m not sorry I did/said it”. He liked to say he lived his life by “no regrets” and if you apologize for something, it means you regret it and that goes against his “beliefs” Yeah I’m not kidding. Fucking eye roll. Ne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 11:16 PM
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I had so, so many "heart to heart" conversations with my ex about why him losing his temper was unacceptable and how much it hurt me. Things would get better for a few days, maybe a few weeks, then he'd go right back to losing his shit over everything and nothing. Eventually I finally had enough and told him I was moving out. Only during the break-up process did he show an amount of self awareness, self reflection and emotional maturity that I literally had never seen from him in our 5.5 year re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 04:30 PM
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I really dislike social media. I used to have Facebook and Snapchat but deleted them years ago. I very briefly had Instagram but just never got into it, I deleted that long before Facebook. I don't really consider Reddit to be SM, at least not how I use it (ie I don't interact on here with anyone I know irl or share my username with anyone I know. I don't comment or post very often. I think it really just depends on how you use it.). I think it causes so much unnecessary stress and self-loathing…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 11:49 PM
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