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hello fe-male hu-man, would you like to pair bond 🤖
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:17 AM
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you are the woman we want ew
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:16 AM
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A lot of times they are predatory though. Not always, but it happens pretty often. Really? Do you have the stats? The studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:36 PM
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People vote for what's best for them. And that's fine. Why would you expect people to sacrifice what's in their best interest so women can abort? If it were that important, women could just not have sex. Don't initiate your knee-jerk defense circuit before you understand what I'm saying. I'm not saying "why don't women just not have sex," but if someone is going to make a sacrifice then it should be the fucking person whose concern it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 12:37 AM
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I knew the Harris hype was smoke and mirrors from the get go due to people getting shook after Biden's bad debate performance. Of course it was. How could switching candidates so close to the election be anything but a disaster?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 01:12 AM
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Yeah, just look in the threads I posted (the second one). Full disclosure (and I'm not sure why this matters, but people were making a big deal out of it), the gym doesn't have BIPOC only hours, rather it has BIPOC only "events" which occur regularly during normal business hours. And, in fact, on the page it says to look on google for when these special "events" occur, except google will say the gym is open when it's actually "closed" (for white people, and straight men, depending on the day).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 01:06 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/legaladvice/comments/1euvkz1/as_a_paying_member_can_my_gym_turn_me_away_during/ https://np.reddit.com/r/TrueUnpopularOpinion/comments/1euzhuv/gyms_shouldnt_have_special_hours_that_exclude/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:17 AM
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Yes. And when I made a thread about it I was told that I'm exactly why such a policy is necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:10 AM
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Yeah, stop doing that, is what I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:09 PM
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You said: You claim to not liking identity politics, while MAGA is exactly that. which made it sound like I endorsed MAGA or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 09:07 PM
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Okay? I didn't vote for Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:41 PM
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Or, and here's a really crazy fucking idea, not basing the choice on race or gender at all!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:40 PM
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I'm not blaming minorities. I'm blaming your out of touch bullshit, phrases like "BIPOC," or your knee jerk reaction of immediately defaulting to identity politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:27 PM
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It's not just identity politics but their particular brand of woke identity politics that no one but their hard core subscribes to. Do you think the average black person in America identifies with the term BIPOC or the average Latino with LatinX? It's ludicrous. The only people who use those terms are "___ studies" academics locked away in their ivory towers and their useful idiot tumblr feminists who haven't left their rooms in a decade because of their crippling agoraphobia and have probably n…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 08:14 PM
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BIPOC ^why Trump won
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 07:41 PM
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Then they have even less excuse for how unprepared they were.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 06:45 PM
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Because kicking out Joe less than 4 months before an election and putting in someone no one voted for was such a brilliant move That was just a symptom of the real problem which was denying that Joe wasn't fit for 2 terms as president. They should have started strategizing how to win 2024 with a different candidate on 11/06/2020. It's also a symptom of selecting Kamala to be VP based on her appearance and gender, since that was all the rage in 2020, instead of someone with more authentic appeal,…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 06:07 PM
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but there is no reason why power has to be concentrated in the hands of a small minority That's not even what they were arguing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 05:34 PM
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right, theyre not attracted to the one group thats literally defined by women not being attracted to them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 01:42 AM
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see: arr/menslib
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:07 PM
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Okay, but what actually happened at the conference that would have justified having it shut down? Here's a recap from the Southern Poverty Law Center, which is of course on the opposite side of the political spectrum as the MRM (or what they believe the MRM to be): https://www.splcenter.org/hatewatch/2014/06/28/first-international-conference-men%E2%80%99s-issues-day-1 Seems pretty tame.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 09:59 PM
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So the conference actually wasn't shut down. Can you find any record or reference of that claim being made by anyone at the conference?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 09:17 PM
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Yes, those are my genuine thoughts which I chose to express by saying something that sounded absolutely nothing like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 07:56 PM
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We’re not talking about psychological, we’re talking physical No, you are. That's what you're not getting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 07:38 PM
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Yeah, just like you need certain things in order to be psychologically healthy. Do you think someone being kept in an artificially induced coma is having all their needs met?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 07:22 PM
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Apparently being a femenist means you get to have all your personal info exposed. Um, freedom of speech isn't freedom from consequences, sweetie.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 07:13 PM
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Life isn't a need. You don't need to be alive. So none of those other things are needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 07:10 PM
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Yeah, pretty typical propaganda when trying to get a men's event shut down, bud. It's why feminists try very hard to keep a monopoly on sexual violence victimhood, bud. It's a powerful tool.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 07:08 PM
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According to Maslow they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 07:05 PM
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Here's what happens when men try to do that: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YiRasOrIoYQ https://www.theguardian.com/education/2015/nov/17/row-after-university-of-york-cancels-international-mens-day-event https://motorcitymuckraker.com/2014/06/08/lens-on-detroit-controversial-mens-rights-group-draws-protest/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 06:57 PM
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That's hilarious. As soon as I started reading I thought about comparing it to workplace fatalities, and I was happy to see that that's exactly what you did. I've pretty much given up on thinking that our cultural myths are ever going to align with the truth. My advice is just to use your superior intellect to make assloads of money and live a life of care-free hedonism, and just laugh in the faces of all these peons when they complain about not being able to afford this or that or how they are …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:31 PM
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positively
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:55 PM
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virtually every woman of normal body weight...so like 5%.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 05:35 PM
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i was in a 10 year long relationship from 19-29. i had lots of sex, seduced my gf all the time. always did oral. i honestly dont feel like it gives me any advantage or confidence, aside from knowing i know what im doing, but it doesnt really translate into anything aside from those activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:50 AM
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because youre bad at seeing patterns. because your confirmation bias
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:58 AM
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HTN is like 7.5/10. Like top 10%. Attractive people are way less prevalent than people think.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 06:44 PM
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I'd much rather date 6/10 with great personality than 10/10 with shit personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 05:41 PM
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shape and aesthetics > size
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 09:07 PM
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better than me in most ways, including beauty, except she's overweight. does not compute
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 06:44 PM
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Are you seriously asking if a type of porn is feeding into a porn addiction? Yes, they're seriously asking if sexy video game characters are feeding into porn addiction. No, it's not a type of porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 06:38 PM
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I don't even know what you're trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 01:27 AM
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You're trying to score a gotcha by insisting on some sort of narrow and exact definition or criteria that something has to meet in order to be a euphemism, like it's some sort of technical term. But it's not. That's just not the way language works. Let's just ask rrr/asklinguistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:25 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Euphemism So you can see that there are many ways for a word or a term to be a euphemism. I'm saying people here use the "social skills" in place of "superficially charming" because it sounds more weighty, important, or of fundamental importance, which makes the person they're talking about seem like a complete buffoon for lacking this quality, rather than just someone who isn't good at one specific thing. "Game" isn't a euphemism. It's just a slang word.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 09:08 PM
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wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 08:51 PM
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Yes, I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 06:13 PM
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Well I qualified it with "superficially." Smarmy kind of implies no one is falling for it and that the person is a bad person. A superficially charming person might also be a deeply charming person too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 04:16 PM
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I should have been clearer. I meant that people like to pretend people who aren't superficially charming or charismatic lack all those other skills, so they seem like utter buffoons.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 02:09 AM
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Yeah you can. This post comes across as autistic IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 01:01 AM
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it's almost comical to imply that people who are good at socializing lack depth in their character Where did I imply that? it seems like i'm not alone with that opinion itt You're in shit company.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 11:34 PM
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You think every person you like is charming?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 10:47 PM
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You'd describe everyone you like as "charming?"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 10:46 PM
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My post has more to do with people acting like people who aren't superficially charming are lacking in other ways than it has to do with people who are superficially charming. You can find examples of people doing it in the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:38 PM
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Do I?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:34 PM
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youve invented all of that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:27 PM
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yeah the 'actual social skills' described in the OP are essentially a baseline to function as an adult in the context of work etc. Except I know people who are charming but completely lack all of those qualities, have no self awareness, can't change, can't grow, don't even want to change, etc. It's impossible to deal with them outside of these sorts of superficial conversations that we have for entertainment. You're so desperate to convince yourself that you that there's any depth to your charac…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:09 PM
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you’re desperate How do you know this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 08:03 PM
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I mean in the OP I clearly call other things "actual social skills" so I don't know how it could sound like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 07:58 PM
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likeable is not the same as charming
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 07:57 PM
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You talking about me?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 07:43 PM
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What sort of person is this way but isn't necessarily socially graceful? That sort of person... Like, I don't know what you're looking for, an actual example? Mr. Darcy from Pride and Prejudice? The farmer from Dark Waters? I know people who are the opposite, who are very charming but extremely flawed beyond that. I bet Jeffrey Epstein and Puff Daddy were pretty charming when you first met them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 07:29 PM
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I'm not "limiting social skills." I'm saying that people accuse men of not having social skills because they are not superficially charming but act like it means they also lack all the other skills that fall under the "social skills" umbrella. My entire argument relies on there being more to "social skills" than superficial charm, so how could I be "limiting social skills?"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 06:56 PM
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What do birthstones have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 06:50 PM
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Your comment is copium for people who can't formulate a legitimate counter argument. Mods, ban this user^ for "cope"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 06:48 PM
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Some people can be charmed by more meaningful qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 06:47 PM
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Those are ALSO social skills, sure. "Social skills" is a vague and broad term. But there's nothing about this subset that makes it any more "actual" than the other thing. They have utility in a broad range of situations that occur on a daily basis, whereas being charming and flirty is basically irrelevant except on the first or second date.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 06:46 PM
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but they simply don't have enough to start a fun conversation with a stranger and turn it flirty Right, to be superficially charming, which you are calling "legit social skills" (or the lack of it "legit lacking social skills" which I admit isn't quite the same). You're doing exactly what I'm talking about. I know for an absolute fact that people with godly skill at starting a fun conversation and turn it flirty can be absolutely abysmal at dealing with people in every other way and be completel…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 06:43 PM
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Right, so I think a lot of people attempt to conflate people who are a little awkward with the people you're talking about (Although some people are just uncomfortable with eye contact. I don't really see that as being a big deal. I personally have no problem with it.).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 06:36 PM
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No? Physical attractiveness is just some superficial thing. Does that mean it's easy for everyone who wants to be seen as physically attractive to be physically attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 06:31 PM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 06:29 PM
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When people talk about men not having social skills, what they mean is that those men lack the ability to be superficially charming, but they try to pass it off as those men lacking actual social skills. That's my point. That there's a difference between being able to be superficially charming and having real social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 06:29 PM
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The entire post? So you think I have no point?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 06:17 PM
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neither just want a normal person
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:14 PM
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People don't just magically become physically attracted to someone if all else remains the same. Sure they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 02:36 PM
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It's just stupid because it's a malformed question. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 02:56 AM
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no surprise that you'd read too far into my word choice
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:23 PM
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because the point of the question is to probe the male psyche, not discuss what the best possible situation is. how do people still not understand this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:13 PM
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1 because it feels better and is way more sustainable and makes nearly all situations better rather than just sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 08:22 PM
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Yeah but it's abuse and so the bully is an abuser, and the isn't going to mourn an abuser. Doesn't that justify killing them? And bullying fits your own definition of abuse: Abuse is when one person uses manipulation and intimidation/threats/violence to control another person over a period of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:37 PM
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Bullying drives people to suicide. That's clearly abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:24 PM
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What if they're 18?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 10:14 PM
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What about kids who go to school and kill their bullies?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:40 PM
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Abuse is when one person uses manipulation and intimidation/threats/violence to control another person over a period of time. And you think that warrants the death penalty and forfeiture of your right to a trial?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:14 PM
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Gee I wonder...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 09:12 PM
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For some reason I always thought it was an age thing, not a scat thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 03:42 AM
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If you pay to see a movie does that mean you were so desperate to see a movie that you'd pay for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 01:19 AM
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Wait, do people into diapers poop in them? Is that part of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 01:17 AM
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sure!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:03 PM
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I like women who like sex. I'm not attracted to women who use sex as a means to other ends, like sex workers. They're kind of opposites in my eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 06:46 PM
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My sister's friend was talking shit about her husband either immediately before or after their wedding. I can't remember. She was also the type of woman to use men for free meals on dating apps, like she explicitly went on dates just to get a free meal. Poor guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:09 PM
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Being 5'0 as a man is like being 1/10 in looks or a homeless meth addict in terms of status. All the video shows is that height matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:59 AM
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I don't want to be with those ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 05:16 PM
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She's gonna get banned for "no contentless rhetoric" for this, right? Because the mods are totally objective here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:16 PM
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Wow, women are so great, and men are such stupid oafs. Thanks for explaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:09 PM
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How likely? Like what percent of the time would you guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 02:08 PM
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Someone invites you fishing. You agree to go because you like fishing. You get there and they want you to stand in the water and catch fish with your bare hands. You're not disappointed because it's the same thing and you like fishing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 01:35 PM
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That's the dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:33 PM
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You caught sight of a laser pointer, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:19 PM
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I'm talking about shows, or books, or pieces of music that didn't spark your interest enough to do that, maybe you only stuck it out because you heard it was good from someone else. If you haven't had that experience then you're the exact person I'm talking about. Sometimes with my ex, even though 99% of the time if she stuck it out she would end up liking stuff that I was insistent she would like, she would still be like "I don't like this" after her first listen/chapter/episode. People like th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:15 PM
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Wow what? Did you not just say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 12:02 PM
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Except the person you're writing to only has a one sentence attention span and thinks anything over that is "dry."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 11:46 AM
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I mean you just said yourself that in person is 10000 times better. How is something the same as something it's 10000 times better than?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 11:44 AM
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Have you ever watched a show where you had to watch a few episodes to really get into it, like The Wire maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 11:42 AM
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Yes, I know. Women are like cats and you have to dangle shiny things in their faces to catch their extremely short lived and fickle attention. At least in PERSON lends itself to being authentically charming if you have good chemistry and not trying to be charming over text with someone you barely know.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 11:36 AM
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No it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 11:12 AM
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I won't stand for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 11:07 AM
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Kinda crazy how "not being a dry texter" is a requirement when it didn't exist for all of human history except the past 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 10:26 AM
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I got kicked out of a bar and the bouncer threatened to beat my ass, no questions asked, because I was chatting to a group of girls in a friendly manner. I wasn't even hitting on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:36 AM
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I want a best friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:25 AM
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it is enjoyable if she just lays there if shes obviously into it. i dont really count not being an inhuman robot "doing something." a little grabbing, a little toe pointing and its all good. thats not exactly the same as "having to perform" not that im complaining. i actually love the fact that other men are left to their own devices to figure things out. but i do find womens attitude and entitlement pretty gross too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 02:03 PM
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No, it's not weird; it's perfectly normal!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:04 AM
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reddit has to be the most illiterate online community. understanding what i meant is something id expect a 6th grader to be able to do
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:11 PM
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do you have the data on who talks about this more? thinking that orgasming is a concern for men is a gross misunderstanding of male concerns male orgasm is not the same thing as female orgasm
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 11:27 PM
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Trump is a remarkable person. Anyone who denies it is coping. I don't mean that with any positive connotation. But let's not pretend Trump's are a dime a dozen. Like it's crazy to me reading American Psycho, which takes place in the 80s, and hearing Trump references, and knowing he has maintained relevance since then.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:46 PM
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Okay, what about Clinton, Obama, Bush Sr? Also, Trump absolutely got there "on his own" in the sense that we're speaking about. You're mixing up "self made" from some other conversation with whatever feature we're talking about here. Clearly Kamala is one of the most unremarkable candidates in recent memory, and is only where she is because of several strokes of pure luck. I wouldn't lump Hilary in with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:32 PM
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you seem to have taken a wrong turn, bizarro universe is that way ->
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 04:23 AM
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Right, and you don't think they'd line up to take Chad's virginity, some formerly devout Christian who left the church at 20 and is now just looking for a hookup?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:34 AM
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They probably just despise you and use your virginity as a post hoc explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:17 AM
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I disagree because lies make baby Jesus cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 04:16 AM
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So all the people not debating are gonna get one week bans, right? Anyway, of course it's not the reason. Young women aren't easier, and obviously the reason is that they're better looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 05:51 PM
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It matters because people think it matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:36 AM
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That's not what I'm saying. I'm saying that women have already made up for whatever deficit existed historically. I don't just mean more women are attending university than men. I mean that more women HAVE attended university than men, even though more men were attending university for centuries, it was such a small percent of the total population that women have made up for that in only a few decades because a much greater percent of total population are now attending college.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 12:27 AM
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I would love to see an "area under the curve" based on percent of population attending college to compare the total amount of advantage or disadvantage garnered by women or men over the last 200 years. I would wager that we've already made up and surpassed the disadvantages that women have faced and that now men are the historically disadvantaged gender when it comes to education, due to a much greater percentage of the population getting higher education during the years in which women have bee…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 10:55 PM
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Yeah, this doesn't surprise me. Even in the worst countries for women I suspect that things are just as bad if not worse for the average man. You just don't hear about it because people don't give a flying fuck about men. For instance, when that whole Boko Haram "bring our girls back" thing happened, what you didn't hear was that they just burned all the boys from the school alive. Or in Saudi Arabia everyone knows women have it worse. I mean, they have to wear heckin' burkas! Except: Saudi auth…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 08:47 PM
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Do you think that men should sacrifice themselves to the utmost for women and for society Fuck no Isn't his argument that you'll find a sense of meaning and purpose in taking on responsibilities that help society? I don't think he's right, at least not across the board. However, I don't think he's just saying that you should resign yourself to misery in service of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 07:35 PM
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I have no interest in submission in a romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 08:53 PM
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Pretty sure lots of women don't want to just be used for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 06:03 PM
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not just going from overweight to normal weight, but going from normal weight to extremely lean face is also underrated. nearly all models and handsome men have extremely lean faces, which doesn't necessarily mean they are extremely lean themselves; it's just the way their fat is distributed. it's probably the number 1 underrated thing when it comes to male attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 12:34 AM
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if anything is sus it's thinking adult women look like children. "i didn't know she was 12! i thought she was 20! how can you tell the difference?!?"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:53 PM
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the fuck are you talking about? have you ever even seen a child? he typically dates supermodels who are taller than average and have very lean angular faces, with striking bone structure - the opposite of what children look like https://pagesix.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/3/2022/08/the-many-girlfriends-of-leonardo-dicaprio346.jpg if you think she looks like a child, there's something wrong with you. she looks like she could be 35 in that picture. here's one of his more recent girlfriends: https…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:44 PM
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I think most normies share the same sentiment. why hello fellow normies
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 09:37 PM
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I feel like getting into a relationship and being in a relationship are worlds apart, which is part of why dating is so frustrating. It's like having to jump through a bunch of irrelevant hoops.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 08:56 AM
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the first one the thing is i value the second one more. it's just biologically i'm wired to want more sex than that. it's like saying would you rather have a woman who loves you but you only get to eat twice a year and the rest of the time you get nutrition through an IV (even that doesn't quite capture it because you're still getting nutrition). i would choose the women who doesn't love me and i still get to eat every day. it's not that i value food over love, just that there are biological rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 06:54 AM
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I don't believe this actually happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 12:51 AM
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lol. that's hilarious. they want you to pay to talk to the thin ones
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 08:20 PM
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Here you go. I've already looked into for you, including finding a free version of the "full" study: Amongst other questions they were asked how they would act in a situation where they could have sexual intercourse with a woman against her will “if nobody would ever know and there wouldn’t be any consequences”. 31.7% of all men participating in the study would force a woman to have sexual intercourse in such a “consequence-free situation” – which is rape. These studies need to show the actual q…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:12 PM
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Because no one actually wants to have a discussion about anything; they want to assert their beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:10 PM
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So there are so many rapists looking for victims they have their own website? Yes, and how many is "so many that they have their very own website?" Three? You are trying to minimize the horror of this case Nope That there are so many within a short drive of a small village that he had an unending supply of rapists for over a decade? They didn't move to Mazan until 2013 and he was arrested in 2020, but tell me again how you aren't continually lying and distorting to make men and the people you're…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:09 PM
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Because a large amount of people that were recruited simply because they were people the guy knew from around town suggests it's way more common than if they were recruited from some niche website specifically for rapists, who might have been coming from other countries or even all over the world for all we know. Why do people like you always need to accuse people of "making excuses" because they want a clear picture of what's actually going on? Don't like it? Then be more precise and complete i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:29 AM
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Amongst other questions they were asked how they would act in a situation where they could have sexual intercourse with a woman against her will “if nobody would ever know and there wouldn’t be any consequences”. 31.7% of all men participating in the study would force a woman to have sexual intercourse in such a “consequence-free situation” – which is rape. These studies need to show the actual questionnaire. This is what the study itself says: This scale measures self-reported likeli- hood to e…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 07:26 AM
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No, it's probably not for the reason you're saying or else people would shun body modification universally, but they don't. It's body modification that's almost universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:51 AM
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probably not
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 12:07 AM
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The thing is, I'm not exaggerating. I'm seeing like 19 morbidly obese women for every normal weight person. And I really mean morbidly obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 11:45 PM
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It's even more complicated than you're making it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 04:57 AM
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Is Hinge just showing me fat people because they think I'm ugly or are 95% of people obese nowadays?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 04:53 AM
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They ID everyone, except seniors.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 04:52 AM
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that’s what a man here told me! well then it must be true, and he speaks for all men That takes apt sociosexual skills and apt interpersonal skills. anyone who has had a woman attracted to them immediately knows this is bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 10:36 PM
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Bullshit. Most people have no chance of becoming 7 or 8. I think what most people don't understand is that it's a normal distribution not a linear distribution (or whatever it's called). https://media.springernature.com/lw685/springer-static/image/art%3A10.1007%2Fs00190-021-01484-x/MediaObjects/190_2021_1484_Fig1_HTML.png It's the bottom, but people act like it's the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:41 PM
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It would be better to evaluate bigotry against people who it's socially acceptable to be bigoted against. Are more women than men bigoted against those people, whoever they might be?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:53 PM
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Omg body shaming!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:33 PM
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Well, there are those who use them effectively and those who do not. There are also guys with elite genetics who looks better than guys who use steroids with trash genetics. But, all else being equal, there will definitely be a different between someone who uses them and someone who does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:42 AM
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What's your wife's BMI?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:17 AM
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This guy is a grown man, married, and spending his Saturday night arguing with teenagers online about their "mindset." you fail with women ... It's funny the desperate and pathetic fantasies you come up with in your head about people you never met lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:08 AM
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Case in point. This guy thinks because he "did something" about his social skills when he stopped pissing in bottles and attended a local nerd meetup, where he met his hambeast wife, he can lecture me about social skills, all because I dared suggest that social skills aren't actually skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 02:39 AM
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You're also competing against men who have supraphysiological levels of male sex hormones. Steroid use is rampant.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:47 AM
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But the insults are irrelevant to whether I can "take it" which is the point I was addressing. Anyway, I wasn't talking about you specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:33 PM
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Why would I supply you with intimate personal details if I couldn't take it? I just mean that you're proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:18 PM
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See what I mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:07 PM
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I personally have had rhinoplasty, chin implant, double jaw surgery in Turkey (that's where they cut just the bottom half of your face off and shift it around), rhinoplasty revision in Turkey, Invisalign, etc. I'm also not on here whining, but I'm whine-adjacent. I could whine. And then some 400 pound redditor would think they had the authority to lecture me about "not doing anything" because they started using deodorant and was finally able to hook up with that ogre they've had their eye on at …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:03 PM
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Empathy isnt endless, particularly if the one asking for it doesn’t want to do anything to improve their situation. This is the most hilarious shit. There are guys smashing their faces with hammers in hopes that it will grow their bones (which is idiotic, but that's not my point). There are guys getting experimental surgeries by mad scientist doctors in Turkey, getting the entire front part of their skull cut off and shifted around. And some fucking fat nerd on reddit who really isn't even invol…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:55 PM
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I think my original point stands. It doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 07:39 PM
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figures
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:22 AM
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Do you have any hot single autistic nihilist friends who don't care about anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:19 AM
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who everyone loved and said was a great dude Everyone who? You're probably surrounded by dumbfucks who watch The Bachelor and think the people on it are genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 03:42 AM
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Just the fact that you think alcohol can't improve social skills for some people shows you have no idea what actual social skills are. Bro, you're the type of person who explains that mods deleted your first thread. I bet you've edited comments and then put an "Edited for spelling" message in the edited comment. Don't lecture me about social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:13 AM
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the problem is half the people are grotesque nerds who think real life functions like their sewer-based nerd societies it's like one group is complaining about MLB and the other half acting like they've got shit all figured out because they're doing well in their t-ball league we've all seen the reddit meetup pictures
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:45 PM
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Social skills is a misnomer. There's nothing skillful about it. Otherwise, it would be the only "skill" that alcohol can improve tenfold. It's more like social calibration. It's almost a form of fashion. Another thing is what you want to believe is described by "social skills" vs. what it actually describes. In reality, social skills can mean something unbelievably douchey.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:19 PM
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Depends on the context. In the original incel communities, Chad just meant something like top 10% or whatever. However, in looksmaxxing communities, it has come to mean something like top .1% of men. HTN (high tier normie) or Chadlite is more like what was originally meant by Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:36 PM
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I am an amoral, autistic nihilist who doesn't care about anything. You single?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:09 PM
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They said they don't have to self improve, not that they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:24 PM
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ugh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:48 PM
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Take MDMA and go to the annual masked ball at Versailles. Go see gorillas in the wild. Take mushrooms and go look at The Garden of Earthly Delights. Go swimming with giant manta rays at night in bio-luminescent water.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 09:45 PM
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Everyone knows what I'm talking about but you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:54 PM
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I'm more genuinely interested in women who are good looking than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:45 PM
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Do you not understand the difference between 10,000 upvotes on a default sub and one dude saying something on some backwater sub like this one?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:12 PM
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Yeah, and if you think police shoot POC disproportionately, check out the difference between sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 12:09 AM
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My bad. I forgot I was on reddit. Here you go, buddy: /s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:22 PM
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In 2012 Sonja B. Starr from University of Michigan Law School found that, controlling for the crime, "men receive 63% longer sentences on average than women do," and "[w]omen are…twice as likely to avoid incarceration if convicted", also based on data from US federal court cases https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sentencing_disparity
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:38 PM
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Think most people just want to be loved and accepted Okay, I'll put you down for "mad about not getting sex."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:36 PM
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I think you missed my point, but whatever. You're upset that men kill many more men than they do women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:09 PM
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Is women's anger towards men just because they don't buy them enough jewelry? Don't take them shopping enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:52 PM
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No, because all those things you mentioned have roots (at least partially) in genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:12 PM
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You're not missing out. Singles events are generally terrible. That friend is into them for some reason so I've been to a few with him. Pickings are slim on both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:31 AM
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Pittsburgh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:09 AM
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The kind of men these women want would never attend one of these things. Those men don't need to go to speed dating events because their life is a speed dating event. I think there a pretty huge distance between the types who go to these events and guys whose lives are speed dating events. Surely desperate women would settle for something in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:07 AM
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My friend just went to one and said it was 90% men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:40 AM
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grass is greener phenomenon. hedonic treadmill. expectation vs. reality. that sort of thing. i'd like to think i'm smart enough not to do it now though. not that i ever did it in the first place, but i helped ruin a relationship because of that sort of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 09:55 PM
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I agree with this. Most successful guy I've ever known with women is 5'6 and fat. He'd probably be good looking if he weren't fat but he's never been not fat. He's just charismatic as fuck, and not even in an obvious way. It's weird. He kinda reminds me of younger Joe Rogan, not in looks. Although it sounds like I'm talking about game, not status. But he had status because of his charisma. Dudes were just drawn to him because it always seems like he has something "going on" that's better and mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 09:51 PM
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because it's the exact opposite realization? i don't understand your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 09:20 PM
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Yeah, I find that bizarre. I can understand maaaybe being indifferent to them, but to actively dislike them? Orchids? Corpse flower? You can't even appreciate the way some of them smell?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 08:33 PM
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I had a profile that was just pics of my abs and no face pics and I got more matches with that than with my regular profile which had no ab pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 06:03 PM
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how do you not like flowers? do you not like rainbows? what about a cool breezes? do you not like cool breezes or clouds or smiles?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:12 PM
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yeah, i'm to manly to appreciate nice colors and a miracle of evolution get me club, so i can club stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:10 PM
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sure
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:08 PM
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I mean, I'm not at all, but you're welcome to think so, since none of this matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 11:17 PM
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women: "Omg, the patriarchy! Women don't have any power!" also women: "Lol, women don't like you, therefore you are utterly worthless."
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 09:41 PM
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Sit around drinking wine in your wrinkly old skin?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 09:17 PM
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which is completely untrue
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:56 AM
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That's the only thing low quality people ever have. Either it's women don't want to fuck you or their group doesn't like you. They have no power of their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:15 AM
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Isn't it funny how quickly this side resorts to trying to sex shame men?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 09:31 AM
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😲
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 09:18 AM
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Yeah?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 09:14 AM
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And whose fault is that? Not mine?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 09:00 AM
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You just did exactly what they're talking about. If you were a man you'd be called an entitled incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 08:58 AM
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I'm sorry you can't accept your father in the entirety of his being.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 08:48 AM
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The men who admit they had predatory and disgusting behavior towards girls are precisely the men who inform women that men are dangerous and should be mistrusted. So all the "bluepill" men in this forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:40 PM
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You just implied my dad was a sexual predator (which I don't, btw [no, not that he was {he wasn't} a sexual predator, I don't care that you said it]), but I'm making the conversation awkward by saying your dad was a sexual being? Do you have any self-awareness? Also, if you've come to terms with it, how is it awkward as fuck? Grow up and realize your dad has a penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:28 PM
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I see. You still haven't come to terms with the fact that your dad is a sexual being.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:19 PM
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No, not m'lady's reputation! Imagine invoking a woman's reputation while implying someone's dad is a sexual predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:58 PM
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Wait, whaaat? Men have always tried to have sex with women?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:37 PM
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Dads from the 50s were saying this, dude. They probably meant that if you go to a drive-through, he might try to put his arm around you or gasp get fresh! People repeat shit just because they've heard it. They mean they were horny boys who wanted sex. Dads don't want their daughters to even have consensual sex. They think of their daughters as beings devoid of sexuality, kind of like how kids think of their parents. That's where this all stems from. They warn daughters because they pretend daugh…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:15 PM
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No, it's not. That's an absurd and ungenerous interpretation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 08:45 PM
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That’s a confession that even the men we trust the most harbor or once harbored thoughts of harming women. No, it's not. That's absolutely outlandish to suggest.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 07:51 PM
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Lol. That's not even what I'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 08:30 AM
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Why do so many "blue pill" people have such a flimsy understanding of language? Like you seriously can't figure out what they meant?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 05:07 AM
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Another person who thinks governments decide what's supposed to be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:13 AM
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Clearly I meant that in terms of being an authority on what should or shouldn't be the case, a government is essentially just a bunch of people - i.e. that no amount of organization grants any more authority to decide what things in life should or shouldn't be fair to a group than it has as "just a bunch of people." You couldn't figure that out from context. Instead you tried to score some stupid point about me not knowing what a government is. You're a clown.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 05:57 AM
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This is how far up your own ass your head is. You're insisting that I don't know what a government is, and pretending like that's the crux of this conversation, then lecturing me about accountability. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 05:47 AM
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🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 05:36 AM
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My bad. I misquoted you. It was actually: "Abortion should be illegal in Texas." -Solondthewookiee
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:48 AM
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"Women shouldn't be allowed to go to school in Afghanistan because the Taliban says so!" -Solondthewookiee
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:43 AM
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Hey look, the most average redditor on the sub only understands words in the most literal terms. What a surprise! (just fyi u/solondthewookiee, it wasn't really surprising)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:26 AM
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So I guess you saw where this was going and realized how stupid claiming that a government could be an authority on what should or shouldn't be the case would be?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 04:01 AM
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I didn't say a "random group of people." Can you explain to me how any group of people magically becomes more of an authority on what should be the case than some other group of people, the individual qualities being roughly equal (age, intelligence, etc)? Do you think things shouldn't be fair in Afghanistan?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:50 AM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:20 AM
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So basically a bunch of people?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:15 AM
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because there are aspects of life that are absolutely supposed to be fair According to whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 03:12 AM
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Okay, well thanks for the completely tangential information.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 01:15 AM
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Quick, name one historical mining disaster off the top of your head. Anyway, if anything, that counts against whatever point you're (or whoever) trying to make about women not being able to work and is more evidence of how dangerous working conditions were to boot. Also, it was in 1911, way after traditional gender roles had been established.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:30 PM
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"Worked" - past tense
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:44 PM
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Funny how all the patriarchal systems laid this trap when the the vast majority of men worked extremely difficult and dangerous dead-end jobs, divorce was much less common, there was less to do with excess money (if there ever was any), and penalties for not supporting one's family were extremely harsh, but as all of those things changed and the advantage men had in a traditional system grew, the dastardly patriarchs relaxed in their insistence on traditional roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 10:13 PM
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For example, my brother doesn't have any IRL friends but he has a giant, massive heart of gold. He's socially anxious and has a ton of online friends who love him. He's very intelligent, well spoken, and friendly but just has a hard time opening up to people in real life. You're making a very common mistake - thinking any of this is worth anything in dating for the vast majority of people. When people say that having no friends is a red flag, it doesn't mean a red flag for a bad person; it means…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:32 PM
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Because you say a bunch of shit about empathy and theory of mind but then admit you view the world as a jungle and that your main concern is getting yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:30 PM
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It's weird to me that you can't understand it in any terms other than sex. How about this? Are there people you don't like to be around even though they're not necessarily bad people?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:19 PM
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Yeah, I didn't feel like repeating the argument that all of those could be provided by friends or a roommate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:11 PM
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Why shouldn't I? The fact is that I do. If you don't understand then that's an issue with your understanding of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:09 PM
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So after saying If the answer is just "sex" that's not gonna work for me. it turns out the only real reason you're with your partner is sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:03 PM
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Because that's how I work. Why does your diaphragm rhythmically contract when you hear something unexpected?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 08:00 PM
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You can do all that with friends, except maybe physical affection. It kinda sounds like you just wanted them for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:54 PM
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Is that you admitting that everything you just said was a facade?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:43 PM
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Because my drives and desires don't conform to your assumptions about the way people work. If there's no difference between friends and a partner then why do you want a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:41 PM
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If they don't need people why do they need me? If the answer is just "sex" that's not gonna work for me. Because they want a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:35 PM
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B Why wouldn't you feel this way about any partner? Why did they choose you over the other 3 billion women on the planet? C You'd be worried that someone who doesn't need any other people would become hyper dependent on you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 07:10 PM
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Because I like her?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:54 PM
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True, but if its virtually all of them, the common denominator is you. Or, it's the way most people are. You demonstrate this by being judgemental, cliquey, and shallow in your very next sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:23 PM
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I don't have any people who want to talk to me because I don't have any people I want to talk to. What difference does that make if I do want to talk to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:20 PM
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every human if you go back far enough
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:26 AM
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Fitness is 100% mandatory, both cardio and weight training.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:31 PM
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hit the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:52 AM
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indoor rock climbing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 06:20 AM
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Losing weight is relatively straightforward. It also gets easier and easier as it goes on, up to a point. As far as exercise, you could start with something really really simple. It's better than nothing. During work I'm constantly snacking as well. Yeah, you'd have to stop that. Just drink massive amounts of coffee instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 10:32 PM
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Why would you have to quit your job to lose weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 10:25 PM
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She's obviously very attractive, but she never did much for me either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 09:16 PM
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Doesn't matter. The point is you can sit here and act like these men are idiots for building their worldviews from movies, while half the country has a view of men that seems to be derived from teen sex comedies like American Pie. Don't pretend like "men only want sex" isn't an incredibly popular idea. Or "you're not owed sex" when men complain of not being able to find female companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 03:53 AM
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Are you pro-life?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 02:26 AM
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This poster in some other thread: "How come men only want sex!?!"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 02:06 AM
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My ex would never stop talking to her ex during our relationship. It was a constant source of stress in our relationship. It didn't help that he once came over and tried to fuck her. Another time they ran into each other at the bar and he just happened to not be able to find a ride home and had to stay over at her apartment. Yeah, lol at me. I was trying to not be a "controlling boyfriend" by being cool with it, even though I made no secret of not liking it. Imagine staying with someone like tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:33 AM
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Because the guys there are losers, and it makes me feel like "what the fuck am I doing here?" I'm not saying that in a judgemental way. I don't actually think they're "losers" but that's the most fitting word. I have the utmost sympathy for them. But it is what it is. The women aren't much better. I abhor rejecting people, but I'm also terrible at feigning interest or just maintaining polite conversation with someone I don't want to talk to or lead on. My friend actually likes these events, so I…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 08:23 PM
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When I travel i hike a lot and meet a lot of fellow hikers, the guys getting attention are usually skinny bearded introverts who may or may not have showered in the past 3-4 days. How many opportunities have you had watching women go for or ignore men while out hiking?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 07:27 PM
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I have a hobby that a lot of women participate in. But I don't do it to meet women. I do it because it's my hobby. I've been doing it for like 7 years maybe (longer than that, but I've only been single for 7 years). I've not met any women through it. But I tend to keep to myself. I've gone to a few meetups and singles events because my friends wanted to, and they're always horrible, just awful, and sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:27 AM
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I mean, it might be the case that there are more men than women who feel that way. I know guys who are definitely like their friends are their friends, like the people they can say how they really feel, where their wife is something different. I've always thought that was fucking bizarre, like why are you even married? When I was in a ltr, I greatly preferred the company of my ex and felt closer to her than anyone. Unfortunately, she was not as loyal as my guy friends, so maybe I was wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:48 AM
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probably has something to do with the makeup of the sub
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:14 AM
2

one guy does something "Why are men like this?"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:53 AM
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im a man and i would like my wife to be my best friend
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:51 AM
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lots of people have partners who arent their best friends. like long time collaborators who do great work together
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 01:50 AM
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I'd imagine if you're really desperate you'd literally go cold approach women in public religiously without shame or doing everything you can to find dates online. I have a friend who does this. I met him ~6 years ago. When I first met him, he had approached like 2000 women. He actually kept track of this shit. 6 years later and he still hasn't kissed a girl (I don't think, definitely still a virgin).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:26 AM
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to answer your question OP, ^this is why
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:29 AM
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What about my weird?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:36 AM
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Yeah, that sounds about right. I don’t believe men are as pulled in by excitement and charisma. Maybe? I don't know. Are you sure there just aren't that many women you find charismatic? For me, they are definitely few and far between, but when one shows up I'm smitten. There aren't many men who make a really strong impression on me either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:20 AM
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Try rephrasing in a way that makes me think you're worth talking to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:02 AM
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You’re thinking like a man. You have testosterone. You equate beauty and fuckability because you start from the point of arousal, and then have to work from there to figure out if there’s any connection. As a man, I almost never immediately think about sex when I see a woman I'm attracted to. Maybe if I'm like at a club or something. It's more like "Wow, what a magical world it would be dating that woman." Maybe when I was going through puberty I would fantasize about sex with certain girls. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:40 AM
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What do you mean sexually attractive? Like you actively want to have sex with them when you see them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:36 AM
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huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 04:00 AM
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or you could just judge people as individuals
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 02:35 AM
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I'm happy for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 12:20 AM
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Omg, look at this incel who doesn't understand woman's anatomy! r/bAdwOmAnsAnaTOmy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:54 PM
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Maybe it's to ward off comments like "well, have you tried showering?"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:50 PM
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I have it on good authority that neither Moses Nor St Peter will let that slide. praise Joseph Smith!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:38 PM
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Because it's taboo. I mean, there are women who are into it, too. Does it have to be rational? Some wires got crossed somewhere. Some neurotransmitters are leaking into the wrong synapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:29 PM
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Funnily, many such men who desperately want anal sex from their women would absolutely turn down any requests of pegging from their partner. Which is their right. I want to watch Jake Paul get his head boxed in by Mike Tyson. I don't want to get my head boxed in by Mike Tyson. Nothing hypocritical about that at all. You really should be directing that statement towards men who are resentful, not men who merely want it. And, yeah, I posted this before even finishing your comment. Whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:26 PM
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Yeah, he looks stilted and awkward because of his body language, and, yes, it shows on his face as well. Still, I don't agree that it's all because of personality. He has bad pictures and when you see him talking he tends to look more like the bad pictures than the good pictures. Whereas, Pete Davidson looks more like his best pictures. If you look at videos of him before he got his teeth fixed, he looks a lot worse, despite having the same personality. The thing is, it's not like you can just g…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:28 AM
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Watch this video at 15:05: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=32I4uxAU8wQ#t=15m05s That's how he would appear in real life. Like I said, he is photogenic. He looks good in some pictures, but in real life he would be unimpressive. He's a little guy, very narrow shoulders, his mouth looks weird when he speaks. Pete Davidson is like the exact opposite: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zW8tBLKT_Xw He's 6'3. Masculine chin and jaw. He's more weird looking than ugly. Would he be an incel if he had the per…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:02 AM
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Amazing that you were able to figure out how I judge a man's attractiveness based on hearing my opinion about one person. Truly astounding powers of deduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:48 AM
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He's not ugly ugly. He's photogenic. But if you actually watch him speak he's not good looking or not good looking enough to make women want him on the basis of his looks alone. And, yeah, he was an absolute lunatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:39 AM
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I wonder who I should trust more about if a guy is attractive or not. Damn, too bad you can't judge for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:35 AM
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Yes, that's what I was going for.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 03:30 AM
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elliot rodgers was not ugly Yes he was.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:45 AM
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You're confusing personality with being a good person. Just because you're a shitty person doesn't mean you don't have the sort of personality that women find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:43 AM
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You asked for suggestions, sweetie.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 01:07 AM
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it's a stupid comment that fails to understand the tenuous and frail nature of early appeal in dating Right, that's just how it is. It's not that people have the emotional and social IQ of children; it's just the nature of dating. Anyway, you could have said what you just said or nothing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 12:18 AM
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No they weren't. They weren't allowed to work, remember?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 10:10 PM
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Fucking men, hogging all the black lung disease for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:43 PM
1

no
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 09:00 PM
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why? because some beliefs are wrong and some are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 08:03 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:50 PM
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a delusional opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:41 PM
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woah, look how little she cares 😲! so cool...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:35 PM
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It's delusional to think someone is low quality because they didn't want to spend their own money on cheese.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:33 PM
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In 1890 there were 4 million women employed in the US. In 1870 there were 2 million.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 07:13 PM
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But have you seen my Funko Pop collection?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 06:47 PM
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As opposed to those cushy high paying mining jobs that all the fellas were doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 06:46 PM
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Is this satire? You seriously think someone opting not to get cheese because it's $3 extra makes them low quality? Poor options don't mean anything when your definition is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 10:32 AM
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i sometimes follow these guys for motivation uh huh, sure, for motivation 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:25 AM
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What they actually mean is that if they don't put as much effort as possible into looks at all time then Chad will fuck someone else over them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:31 AM
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Reminds me of kids who claim their weed is "laced" with PCP. No, that's just what it's like.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:51 PM
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I don't, but clearly people shame men for not performing, whereas no one is asking women to fake orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 01:28 AM
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Okay. Stop doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 01:26 AM
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Beats me. Ask them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 01:22 AM
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The second idk, i obviously don't know your friends but did you consider that you might only be noticing these moments and not the ones where the man takes the lead? Yeah, I'm pretty sure in a lot of cases. It's not just my friends, but my parents, my uncle, my dad's friends, neighbors, friend's parents, etc. They range from egalitarian to the husband being completely under the thumb of his wife. I have never witnessed the extreme opposite, which is supposedly the norm for relationships. I just …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 10:21 PM
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yeah, because governments just get together and make up rules in a vacuum
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 10:00 PM
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sure
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 09:45 PM
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women couldn’t enlist in most countries until about 60 years ago gee, i wonder who made up that rule
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 09:42 PM
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How would you say this submissiveness translate itself in actions or way of thinking? The man becomes a mere extension of his wife's beliefs and desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 08:54 PM
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Like he lives in terror of his wife being upset about anything. The most extreme example I can think of is one of my friends got his girlfriend something to eat when she got home from work and she absolutely exploded because he forgot to get her a fork, and all he could do is apologize. But she was an absolute monster. But in general a guy who can't do anything without his wife. He leaves when his wife gets tired or bored or mad about something. He answers the phone when he's out and has to talk…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 08:53 PM
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no it's not. it's completely made up nonsense. no one expects anything of women except to not just lay there like a star fish, although i'm sure many men would be perfectly fine with that too. and as long as people have preferences with regards to appearance there will be expectations to look hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 08:41 PM
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Every man I know is submissive to his wife or girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 09:09 AM
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What issue is men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 08:55 AM
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looks and personality are the only two things i care about, or looks, personality, and intelligence if that doesn't fall under personality. of course personality is an incredibly broad thing i guess it wouldn't really fun dating someone who is in a massive amount of debt either, but as long as that's not the case i don't care about money.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:04 AM
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The first girl I dated in my 30s, I remember crying when I broke things off because I felt so bad about potentially hurting her feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:47 AM
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men bad
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 01:24 AM
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well then it sounds like his teeth are worse than braces would be
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 01:24 AM
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Okay, where are you going to be alone so I don't accidentally go there? Alaskan wilderness? Siberia? Deep in the Amazon? Ohhhh, you didn't actually mean alone. You meant you want to continue to benefit from the things that men create.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 09:59 PM
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Just get a hairstyle that's fashionable with the youth. Start working out. And if you ever want to get a chiseled masculine look to your face you need to lose the fat on your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 09:48 PM
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He picked a bad frame from a video of her with zero makeup taken directly after a workout and she still looks cute as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 08:01 PM
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Way below your potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:54 PM
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None of that shit incels "figured out" about looks matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 07:44 PM
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No, I don't agree. Read some classic literature written by men. It might surprise you how perceptive they are. Also "women and males" REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 05:33 AM
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The wall has less to do with women's looks per se and more to do with the effect women's looks have on the male brain. The wall is when a woman goes from "omg, I will die if I can't have her" to "lol, ew, don't talk to me." Women go from infinite value to almost worthless. Almost no men are even close to the value of a young attractive woman, and the ones who are probably age gracefully. If I had to express this mathematically, it would be like a man's value = looks, but a womans value = looks3.…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 12:20 AM
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we value you as a mule and a plow
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:05 PM
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Admitting you're a redditor is the first step
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:03 PM
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No we don’t and we would be shamed for being “whores” or heartless if we left a man because he wasn’t open to certain kinds of sex. You sound just like male incels when they complain about being shamed for approaching women or whatever. Meanwhile, Chad is out there approaching women nonstop and having the time of his life. Same with the Stacy influencers who are leaving their men because they can't fuck to the cheers of YASSSS Queen, while you whine on PPD about being shamed for being a whore. N…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 09:02 PM
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More so, there’s different aspects to personality and men don’t seem to care about most of them. Based on what? Based on you knowing men in real life, or based on you misinterpreting and confirmation biasing comments made on some niche subreddit for aberrant personalities?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 08:53 PM
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Men as a whole As a whole, huh? All together with one voice? Men as a whole repeatedly say they don't care about women's hobbies, careers, education, etc. Seems like they care more about women as people than you do, considering you just see them as a list of bullet points on a social media profile. And you know what, I think I'll just go ahead and extrapolate this to women as a whole. Why do women as a whole see other women merely as a list of bullet points instead of real people?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 08:41 PM
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I made a profile that was just pictures of my abs, no face pics, and got more matches than my regular profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 07:14 PM
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Hey. We found a topic we can agree on!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 07:09 PM
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AKCSTHTHSCHTUAALLLLY
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 06:54 PM
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Okayyyy, I guess I'll just have to settle for the most beautiful woman in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 06:54 PM
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I don't find laundry to be very hard at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 07:47 AM
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No I'm not. I thought you were saying those problems were more important than reproduction and I was saying you have to have a kid in order to even have those problems, but I see what you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 07:21 AM
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What does that have to do with your main point?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 06:01 AM
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Yeah, but you need to actually have a child first.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/24 05:54 AM
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No, it's not "bad faith." You're just missing the point. You lost the thread like two posts ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:34 PM
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Right, but Im not on here making posts about "why dont men stop fucking goats?"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:16 PM
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You commented with that pretence, I never said you cared to argue it. I was just using that as an example. Yeah, none of you here who make that claim. Why would I be addressing all women with "you?". i assume there are many women who arent braindead reddit femcels or simps. I am a man telling you that your man bad argument is idiotic. Maybe some men dont care to improve. Some women fuck dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:00 PM
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everything is secondary to reproductive success theres a reason parents will give up their lives for their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:48 PM
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i dont know why people bother arguing with other people about their own selves. like youre not going to convince me im angry when im not. like why would sit here wasting my time trying to argue that youre actually a woman and how is criticizing specific women in a specific place "women bad?"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:45 PM
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im as cool as a 🥒 your point is idiotic. i can recognize that without being angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:29 PM
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it takes zero skill/effort/whatever to "give" a man an orgasm. most men have the opposite problem and are actively taking steps to not cum. meanwhile, some women cant even give themselves an orgasm at all, and many cant give themselves la one from penetration, so, no, the oRgASm gAp isnt the scoreboard
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:26 PM
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the idea that men dont understand female anatomy is an idiotic reddit meme. i swear none of you have interacted with any males irl since high school. not that its even true about high school boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 10:22 PM
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My ex was sort of a "pickme" (cringe). She would always say to me "I used to hear my dad and his friends talk about women and I swore I would never be like them." She was a tomboy and didn't really like girly girls. At one point she told me that she absolutely had to leave our city because she didn't want to run into her old best friend, I guess because she was one of them. Although I don't think she meant that literally, but more like that represented some idea to her. Whatever. She also seems …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 08:41 PM
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What percent of men do you think are like that? I feel men are best represented by the bell curve in a lot of things. There are those on the far left who will fuck a goat and those on the far right who might be pickier than any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 01:22 AM
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which men? im pretty fucking discriminating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 12:56 AM
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When my ex broke up with me it was insane how cliche the shit she was saying to me was, after 10 years together too. Like are you really going to "I'm not good enough for you" after 10 years? Absolutely disgusting to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 08:16 PM
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No that's not what seems to be meant because it's mostly used when talking about how guys should approach women romantically or talk to their dates or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 08:13 PM
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The thing is "treat us as humans" must mean treat us like you do men, as those are the only other adult humans we interact with regularly. But you don't really want to be treated like men, that's the thing. So then you don't want to be treated as humans. You want special treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/24 08:12 PM
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My psyche was fucking destroyed when my husband died and I still deal with drug addiction problems to this day to the left over trauma of having your best friend/roommate/lover be there for you every day for years and then they are just gone. I didn’t sleep, I couldn’t eat. I had panic attacks all the time. My whole personality changed. Exactly. It's not a matter of having a bad attitude or strong/weak. It's just devastating. My relationship ended almost 12 years ago and I still dream about my e…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:11 AM
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Sounds naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 02:39 AM
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Then how do you know how fragile you are or what sort of forces are at play in a bad breakup? The funny thing is I remember thinking I was an "adult" for a few days when my 10 year long relationship came to an end. That was before reality set in.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 02:36 AM
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Sorry, I meant one that ended. Hubby 🤢🤢🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 02:31 AM
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What's the longest you've ever lived with a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 02:28 AM
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People will forever want true love and family.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 02:28 AM
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Where did I do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 10:36 PM
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Okay? I said it was miniscule. You were the one questioning whether it was or not. And what you said doesn't even answer that question.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 10:03 PM
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I know exactly what you're talking about and have always had that problem with him, even in Titanic, which I saw when I was a child myself. But I also just don't think he's good at acting. I mean he's okay in certain roles and scenes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:57 PM
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Well yeah, like I said, not supermodels. I'm 40 and I've been on dates with good looking younger women. I'm not as good looking as Leo. Short. And I'm certainly not even close to being as charming.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:52 PM
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I think that’s more his acting ability no? I personally think he's a terrible actor. And, yeah, I'm not saying he's getting roles strictly because he's good looking. He's a brand at this point. However, I still think people are underrating how pleasing a person's face has to be in order to carry a movie, and also how unattractive the average person is when you put them on the big screen. Go look through your high school yearbook. You'll be surprised at how ugly many of the "attractive" people lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:34 PM
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Is this really something people need to talk about on a weekly basis?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:18 PM
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I'm talking about currently. Me too, but there's a reason Leo still gets cast in leading roles and Mickey Rourke doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:08 PM
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You underestimate how palatable someone's face has to be to be a Hollywood leading man. And I'm sure he's extremely capable of being charming.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:01 PM
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It would certainly be an interesting experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 08:34 PM
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You think if Leonardo DiCaprio was a mid level bank manager he’d be dating hot 22 years olds? Yes, just not international supermodels, like he does now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 08:30 PM
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Because only attractive profiles get matched with, and the things that make a profile attractive are superficial. Even ignoring physical attractiveness, it favors people who are good at selling themselves, at making profiles. A profile is inherently superficial. It's not a real person. It reminds me of dealing with people on ebay. People want to be lied to. They're always asking "is this guaranteed to be authentic?" And I'll tell them "no" even if I'm 99% certain it is, but I'll explain to them …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 09:26 PM
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It's probably ultimately worse for women in LTR, considering it creates an unnatural filter that only lets superficially attractive men to pass through. In real life you can at least get a chance to know a woman before being filtered out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 08:02 PM
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Are you asking why satire and sarcasm exist?
/r/MensRights04/08/24 06:38 AM
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doing makeup isn't actually improving yourself though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 03:43 AM
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Why is reddit sooooo bad at detecting sarcasm and satire?
/r/MensRights04/08/24 02:29 AM
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You can interpret anything that way, though. Even doing it for men is ultimately doing it for yourself. It's the same argument as "there's no selfless act."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:22 PM
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unless I can get my weight under control It's only going to get even harder as your get older. At the same time, going without food becomes easier and easier the longer you do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:53 PM
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people aren't birds, just fyi
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:06 PM
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You can change your facial features with surgery. Attractiveness also has a lot to do with facial leanness for men, like more than people think. Same with things like eyebrows and eyelashes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:40 AM
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The point is that you can't become attractive. Not saying that's true, but that's the gist of the meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:07 PM
6

How is it incel bullshit lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:02 PM
2

Cold approaching women automatically establishes that you are a low value man Lol. No it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:59 PM
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No, you don't get it. The fact that your facial hair is 1mm too long is why no women are attracted to you, not that fact that your literal skeleton is deformed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 08:58 PM
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Loose skin is unattractive to a lot of people. That's just a fact. It doesn't mean people are "shaming" women for it. People who have lost a lot of weight also get surgery to remove loose skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 02:45 AM
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Women murdering their children?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:09 PM
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Because they want to have sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:10 PM
2

Really? I wouldn't because I know some miniscule percent doesn't represent the vast majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:09 PM
2

Okay, some women murder their kids. So can I go around saying "lol, don't women murder their kids!" whenever we're talking about women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:25 PM
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I feel like y'all fixate on the two blackpill lunatics on this forum like they represent anything. People are talking about real life. Citing something someone, who was in all likelihood a troll, said on here once is worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:41 AM
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For example motherhood is beautiful and blah blah blah but the moment people see a pregnant woman’s body especially after birth people are quick to call her disgusting even the daddy will participate in that slander. I feel like you're just making this up. If a woman is SAHM and is taking care of multiple toddlers Danm near 24/7 7 day out of a week and has the audacity to say she is exhausted and overwhelmed here comes a brigade of people saying she’s overreacting and that what she’s doing isn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:54 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1egx0en/blue_pillers_on_this_sub_are_committed_to_keep/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:37 AM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:37 AM
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maybe at Oxford, but on reddit you just downvote then stop responding
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:32 AM
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Should be easy since that’s the only argument against the red pill that’s ever been posted here. Yeah, so take your pick of any of the threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:22 AM
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8.5 is way above top 20%. It's a bell curve, not a horizontal line.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:21 AM
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Every single argument on this sub made against the "redpill" side relies on the most ridiculous stereotypes. Like, the reason for men's issues is that they're all 400 pounds, growing mold in their folds, peeing in bottles, raging misogynist. They're literally all this dude: https://static.wikia.nocookie.net/stereotypes-of-cliquessubcultures/images/b/b1/Neckbeard_%28man%29.png/revision/latest?cb=20200915174610 and every word out of their mouths is woman hating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 03:30 AM
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le science study says so! no, husbands dont leave their sick wives
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:46 AM
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The problem is you want to have your cake and eat it. Sure, it's just a state of nature, bro, until people start acting like it's a state of nature, then it's all "what about the social contract?". You'll tell men they aren't owed anything then ask them to lay down their lives for your protection. And before you pretend that's all in the past, look at Ukraine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:44 AM
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fundamental attribution error
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 07:25 AM
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we could do an empirical test
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:32 AM
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I dated one with body count 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 05:29 AM
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Having been on and off various antidepressants and other drugs over the last 22 years, I've had this happen more than a few times. I don't find it all that frustrating. Usually it's like "okay, that's about enough sex." I'd probably be more likely to think "man, I wish I still smoked cigarettes" than anything else. I certainly wouldn't blame my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:56 PM
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People in prison committed crimes which put them in prison. We don’t just go around locking innocent people up. So? They have had their rights taken away and are still able to live, so they are stronger than you. Thank you for proving my point You said you would not be able to live without your rights. They are able to live. So you are weaker than they are. If me being able to live without my rights makes me weak than I would much rather be weak because I’m being denied my basic human rights tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:47 AM
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Well then I guess you're extremely weak, considering the amount of people who live without those rights - people in prison, most people in North Korea, children, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:31 AM
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If you admit that just because you like something it doesn't make that thing a need then you undermine your only argument for rights being a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:20 AM
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Yeah, that would be you admitting that rights aren't a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 01:38 AM
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I don't know why you think an essay about how much you love rights is relevant. Like ≠ need.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:56 AM
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I'm talking about the fact that you won't die without your rights, so they aren't a need.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:43 AM
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if they feel its that important. But its not. No scientific evidence to back it up either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:42 AM
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I see this mistake a lot. Because people say it to mock people who say sweetie.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:40 AM
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No scientific evidence to back it up either. Well then. I guess it's settled. There's no scientific evidence that sex is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:37 AM
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Anyone who thinks we “need” sex or they’ll die if they don’t get it is weak and a threat to society. And you won't die without rights. Rights aren't a need, sweaty 💅🏽🫶🏽😘
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:19 AM
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Right, if the need is fulfilled then they wouldn't be complaining, so everyone complaining must be abstaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 11:59 PM
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So all these dudes are not beating off?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 11:11 PM
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Mm, I think we could all agree that is important for anyone to live. Rights? Why? I don't agree. You're not going to die without rights. Hope that helps 💅
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:45 PM
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You're missing the point of the analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:42 PM
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That in no way proves that you can turn sex drive off.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 10:39 PM
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i'm only comfortable if something is wedged in my ass crack
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:40 AM
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hey. you can live with your parents and have money
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 02:44 AM
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oh no 😱
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:40 AM
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you sound weak
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 08:33 PM
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Every relationship I can think of, the dude is his wife/girlfriend's bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:55 AM
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It's actually a good filter. I wouldn't want to date someone who places a huge amount of importance on who pays for a meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:44 AM
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even blind women are picky
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 11:21 PM
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my sister is bi, actually in a long term relationship with a woman, and she is unbelievably picky i know because i was at the climbing gym with her once and she was like "ugh thats the only cute guy here" it was a pretty crowded day and there were a ton of young, in shape, good looking guys there
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 11:19 PM
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I do. I don't really care what my family or friends think of someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:07 PM
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ugh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 08:54 PM
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But we want them with women we would be proud to bring around family not necessarily
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 08:29 PM
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Yeah, I didn't say she literally never wore makeup. Go on r/asklinguistics and ask whether "my ex didn't wear makeup" implies that she never, not even once, wore makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 08:28 PM
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Because she wore it occasionally...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 07:45 PM
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My ex didn't wear makeup and she looked better without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:33 AM
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How about people just have a modicum of self control? I've quit a lot of stuff in my life and sugary drinks were one of the easiest.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 06:31 AM
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"positions of power" is such a naive concept
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:16 AM
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I guess May, although I'm not super thrilled with "wants me to take her shopping and pay for stuff once a month," not because I care about paying for it, more the mentality of an adult wanting someone to take them shopping.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:43 AM
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You say this but then guys who say the most generic, transparently fake, prefabricated shit have lots of success. Or like, you know what I say to "people" when I message them? "Hey" But this is the best way to not get a response OLD. Instead you have to participate in some forced sitcom banter or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:05 PM
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They signed to a major record label before having any significant commercial success and having been coasting ever since. I bought Dookie the year it came out when I was 10. That's the least punk thing imaginable. They are certainly part of the patriarchal capitalist machine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 09:26 PM
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being a part of the patriarchal capitalist machine is gross on every level But I thought you liked Green Day?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:45 AM
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That's hardly a nitpick. You claim that people can be immature for their age but refuse to believe even 1% of women can be mature for their age. Seems counterintuitive that it'd be asymmetrical like that. you’re just nitpicking now, probably because you can’t pull women from your age group and you feel insecure about it. I assure you that older women are not the first choice of the older men who pursue younger women. Ask one of your single male friends to see what the average 30-something woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:13 AM
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again - she isn’t mature, you’re immature. So people can be immature for their age but not mature for their age?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 01:03 AM
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I wouldn't necessarily say your standards are high, at least that's not how I would choose to describe it, but you sound like you have the standards of a narcissist, or someone who can't form an actual bond with another human being. Pretty gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:46 AM
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Just because I lusted over early 30s Green Day didn't mean boring Bob in finance had a shot with me. the world of finance is probably more exciting and untamed than anything having to do with Green Day 30 year old men who LARP as members of some defunct social movement
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:40 AM
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so you, by your own admission, were not very mature. what does that have to do with the mature 1%? you think you have some of special insight because you were once an immature 20 y/o?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 12:38 AM
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Do a significant amount of grown men actually support Andrew Tate? I get the impression he only appeals to teens.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:43 AM
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You are citing a opioid addict Addiction is a disease. You wouldn't use any other disease as an insult, would you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:41 AM
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I don't know, man. One time I worked with this girl who was way out of my league and she professed her love to me because she thought I was "so funny," which amounted to me just making fun of people and hating on things all the time, but in like a funny way. Like talking about wanting to beat up a family member over a joke they made. Yeah, this is way beyond "being negative."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 11:32 PM
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Oh, I understand how it works. The questions were rhetorical.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 11:21 PM
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I wasn't necessarily talking about your use of the word, just anyone who acts like people who are shitty socially lack something that they have. Without alcohol I am socially retarded because my brain stops me from being my true self when talking to others and somehow puts me below others in the social hierarchy. I'm extremely familiar with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 08:52 PM
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I just like pointing out how getting drunk improves social "skills." If getting drunk improves something, can it really be called a skill? People act like people without social skills are socially retarded. If that's true, why does alcohol make me significantly less retarded?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 08:34 PM
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take steps to fix it though! yes, i will be getting drunk tonight
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 07:15 PM
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it's called confirmation bias and all people do it. scientists probably do it the least
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 07:14 PM
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yes, i don't take it seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:10 AM
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no it shouldn't
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 05:09 AM
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Yeah, that plus not getting laid. An analogy I just thought of is imagine if you were this super religious person, not in a hypocritical way, but super devout, living the most modest life in service of the lord, and then you die, and at the pearly gates you're rejected by god himself, but you see Chad being let in because he has tattoos and a bit of coke. No, I'm not saying nice guys devote their lives to women nor am I making any sort of argument about ethics. I'm just trying to illustrate the …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 11:04 PM
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This is why nice guys are so bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 10:00 PM
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If people want to avoid pain how do you explain masochism? If people like eating stuff that tastes good how do you explain kids eating Tide Pods? If people evolved to survive and reproduce how do you explain people who are born without skin? It's just some fringe example of someone who lives a life that's in a completely different universe than 99.9999% of other humans. Not that I even agree that looks+money+status is all that matters to the entire 99.9999%.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 07:05 PM
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I'm not a muscular dude and I've had my but grabbed a handful of times.
/r/MensRights06/07/24 06:21 AM
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It's not because they can't afford food. That's your assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 09:45 PM
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I don't think you can judge based on a single person. I dated two American women, both identified as feminists, like it was important enough that they brought it up. One offered to pay for everything, and I don't think I spent any money on her. The other was the most expensive month of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 09:42 PM
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I don't think anyone blames women for being more wary of men. It's the degree to which they take this and use it to try and paint all men with that people have a problem with. Am I more wary of a man when walking alone in a strange neighborhood at night? Yeah. But if I meet a dude somewhere and we agree to hang out sometime, I'm not thinking "maybe this guy is a serial killer" when we do hang out. That's the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:08 PM
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Yeah, that's all I'm saying. My point is just that it's not only gold diggers who are attracted to wealth. I'm not saying being rich automatically makes you attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 08:27 AM
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less hot don't flatter yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:55 AM
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LOL. You have to control for other variables.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 06:50 AM
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Not only will they forget it, but they'll tell themselves it was disgusting and that they prefer "making love." And then after the thrill of making love dries up in their next relationship, they'll get upset that their boyfriend is too vanilla, and be disgusted by the term making love.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:41 AM
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Having money is attractive. Just like a good looking guy seems more interesting, so does a rich guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:22 AM
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long fake eyelashes and nails. the Kardashian look.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 12:29 AM
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No. This is like asking "Would you date a person if it meant that you could never eat food?" or "Would you date a person if it meant you could never leave the house?" It's not a matter of being superficial. It's a matter of being deprived of certain needs, not just sex either. I'm just curious if weight plays a big factor for men. Of course it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 09:08 PM
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bro science
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 06:44 PM
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No, that's incredibly pompous.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 10:46 PM
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It's reinforced by society a lot, just think how often "virgin" or some variant is the very first insult thrown at someone. Even in the absence of all that there is still a sex drive, obviously. And not just sex. Women are a great source of pleasure. Hearing a woman laugh at your joke can brighten an otherwise bleak existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 09:13 PM
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Top 1%
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:44 AM
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Not to mention that whole Yale thing...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:40 AM
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What exactly do you mean "left to their own devices?"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:14 AM
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they're explicitly talking about men and you're like "oh, so a woman can't even blah blah blah" and you'll probably make a little mental note that reddit was misogynist today
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 10:35 PM
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I was specifically talking about thinking 20 is creeeepy but 21 is perfectly fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 06:25 PM
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the law does permit younger than 20, and in many cases as young as 16
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 06:09 AM
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best advice is to do a bunch of (non-addictive) drugs
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 12:47 AM
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It's really not that weird. People love pointing out when they think something is overrated. Just go on unpopular opinion and search "overrated." Personally, I have made threads about Lane Staley being an overrated singer. Can you find examples of men pointing out that attractive women are mid who aren't really being pushed as being remarkably beautiful, like random models or attractive actresses who aren't media darlings?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 10:42 PM
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Because when you're talking about people who are famous for being the most beautiful women in the world, it's a different conversation than when you're just talking about normal people. When they say "mid" they probably mean something like "normal attractive" not literally just average. Like, I might say some guy who can bench press 405 isn't that strong if we're talking about a global scale, but if we're talking local gym then he's amazingly strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 10:38 PM
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She was relatively normal and popular in high school, although when I started dating her she didn't really have any friends, and was depressed, and had some odd tendencies. She'd always tell me when she met people she wouldn't look at their faces. I always assumed she meant figuratively (whatever that would mean). It was only later that I figured out that she literally meant she didn't look at people's faces when she met them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 09:05 PM
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I don't know. I think it's weird to not greet your pet if you've been on vacation, not really special reaction. The stairwell is really narrow and the windowsill is right at chest height. To just walk past like they don't even exist rubs me the wrong way, especially considering how "in love" with the cat she once was. Whenever I go over to my sister's, I always make it a point to say hi to her cats because I've cat sit a few times for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 08:06 PM
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she had none of her own friends
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:38 AM
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seems kind of silly. 1 year is the difference between creepy and normal? there's a way bigger difference between some individuals than there is between a person and the same person one year later.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:55 AM
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The cat thing is crazy. Wow. She sounds like an actual psychopath or something. See, at the time I was like "wtf dude, you havent seen poopycat for however long and you dont even say hi?". It pissed me off, but then it was like "am i making too big a deal over this." she also gave the cat away when we broke up because she "couldnt afford her" and didnt tell me who she gave her to then severed contact with me. when i finally spoke to her 2 years later, i asked who had her, and she didnt even know…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:42 AM
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We lived together for 10 years and she broke up with me like it was a 6 month high school relationship. She kept blowing me off so that I could never talk to her. I told her I needed some sort of closure and she literally said "In closing, I want you to be happy." like she were ending an essay.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 02:17 AM
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My ex-gf routinely completely dumped people from her life. Also, we had a cat and when we first got her the cat was the love of her life. One time we were coming back from some trip, hadn't seen the cat in days, and the cat was sitting on a windowsill in the stairwell as we came into our apartment, and my ex walked right past her without even acknowledging her existence. I was aghast. I should have heeded the warnings.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 09:57 PM
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you're exaggerating how much effort it takes to have long hair and clip your nails these arguments are so silly because you act like knowing what a woman looks like without having done her hair and makeup and whatever else is some arcane knowledge that men couldn't possibly possess. we all know what women look like. also, i like women with short hair and a butch lesbian is a lesbian who dresses and has a haircut like a high school boy from the early 2000s. they tend to not be skinny.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 06:20 AM
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If it makes you feel any better, my original comment was sarcasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 04:44 PM
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But if you disagree with me then you wouldn't believe disagreeing with me would be a side effect of low testosterone. You're saying "I disagree" but then everything else is in complete agreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:36 AM
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Wouldn't that mean you're not transitioning? I understand it's a joke but the internal logic of the joke doesn't work. Do 👏 better 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:12 AM
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side effect of low testosterone is disagreeing with me about anything
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:40 PM
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so now were having a completely different conversation about tone and no longer about people seeing people as breeding material or not
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 10:50 AM
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Who are you talking to?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 10:51 PM
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Truly men are still oppressed, smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 10:44 AM
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Oh yeah? Female praying mantises eat the males!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:20 AM
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It Britain they don't even recognize that a woman can rape a man!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:19 AM
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Yeah, look at all those feminists protesting conscription in Ukraine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 07:18 PM
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Literally I got in an argument with a woman on this very sub who was claiming that men wanted to fuck corpses .
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 07:02 AM
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but they can gaslight you so you never do anything about it!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:34 AM
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But have a very nice face - symmetrical features I don't know why everyone always mentions symmetry like it's a primary factor in attractiveness. It's way down on the list. Obviously severely asymmetric faces will be unattractive, but symmetry is not what makes a face attractive. All you have to do is think about this for a few seconds and it will be obvious. Think of someone absolutely hideous, but not on account of severe asymmetry. Now make their left side exactly like their right. Are they s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 09:17 PM
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The default male experience isn't never being able to have a sexual or romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:05 PM
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uh, the literal definition of unfair
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:00 PM
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This whole sub is just people inventing reasons other people feel the way they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 08:32 PM
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Do they complain or do they just cite it as a reason they won't date them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 08:29 PM
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I see women as selfish and dishonest because almost all people are selfish and dishonest. There are also layers of personal morality. Some people are superficially moral, but on a deeper level completely morally bereft. You never know who is capable of completely destroying you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 08:11 PM
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17β-trenbolone, an anabolic-androgenic steroid as well as an environmental hormone, contributes to neurodegeneration https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/25461682/ no thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 06:49 AM
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Given the comment I was originally responding to, I don't think it sounds like I meant all women. Not interested in the relative belief between the two But the comment I was responding to was comparing men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 09:27 PM
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palate widening has been around forever
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 07:14 PM
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no, or maybe when you're like 3
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 07:12 PM
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I would wager it resonated with more women than there are men complaining about "not being allowed" to do whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 07:09 PM
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Good. But it definitely does resonate with a lot of women. Just google "Barbie speech." It was on this very sub that I learned it was iconic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 06:45 PM
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Yeah, I gotcha. I was just clarifying that that monologue was from last year and resonated with so many women that it is considered iconic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 07:53 AM
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You know that's from the Barbie movie that came out last year, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 07:46 AM
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It is literally impossible to be a woman. You are so beautiful, and so smart, and it kills me that you don't think you're good enough. Like, we have to always be extraordinary, but somehow we're always doing it wrong. You have to be thin, but not too thin. And you can never say you want to be thin. You have to say you want to be healthy, but also you have to be thin. You have to have money, but you can't ask for money because that's crass. You have to be a boss, but you can't be mean. You have t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 07:36 AM
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They were a gift from my sister too!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 03:31 AM
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some girl stole my Planet Earth DVDs because I told her I wasn't interested in pursuing anything. we hadn't even had sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 12:04 AM
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But you're asking why OP is blaming the victims in OP's scenario, not why he's blaming you in your very specific scenario. Maybe the guy you're talking about wasn't one of the guys OP is talking about. But if he was, then, yeah, a garbage guy seeming like a great guy is the definition of garbage taste. If you had better taste then he wouldn't have seemed like a great guy. And it's not that you just assume great guys are garbage. You refine your taste so you stop thinking that these are great guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:04 PM
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just provide closure to the other person. um, you're not owed anything, sweatie. but seriously, i didn't get any closure after 10 years with someone, living together like a married couple. try that on for size. she stole my dog too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:43 PM
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I'm not really understanding why you'd blame/punish the victim. Because of their garbage taste. It's their flawed, superficial character that allows them to be "taken advantage of."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:40 PM
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I feel like half of guys are like this and the other half are better friends with their partners. I was way better friends with my long term partner than any of my guy friends. Too bad she was an inhuman monster without the capacity for actual friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:31 PM
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A guy masturbating in the bushes outside someone's house. A guy who enjoys watching videos of animals being tortured.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:28 PM
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But the dude is going to Africa for sex tourism. Whatever. Just google it. You can find plenty of sex tourism discussion about Africa, S America, Asia, Eastern Europe. And your thesis doesn't even make sense in the first place. You think OP is just fetishizing Asian women, but in order to appear innocent he's lying to make it look like he's going for the noble reason of cream piing a bunch of women and fostering a bunch of mixed babies which he obviously doesn't plan on supporting. Yeah, that's …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:39 AM
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1 second google: https://www.quora.com/I-m-a-late-20s-white-guy-planning-a-trip-to-Africa-to-hook-up-with-girls-What-country-is-the-best And there aren't many races. 1 out of 5 or whatever is not that big a coincidence. Also, pretty sure guys go to S America too. And if people fetishize races then it's conceivable that Asians do fetishize white men and some take advantage of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:13 AM
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As long as you admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:07 AM
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How is this fetishizing? Guy's just going where he can get laid. If it were a white country he'd be going there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:06 AM
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Sounds like you're slut shaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 02:04 AM
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blade runner style dystopia
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:57 AM
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I respect that. Sorry if I was overly harsh against you personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 11:54 PM
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Yes, but for the sake of discussion. And, no, no literally universally, but whatever is being claimed when people claim that women have high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 11:37 PM
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For the sake of this discussion are we assuming that women do universally have high standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 11:24 PM
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Look at him doubling down on the "too cool to care" angle. Yes, you just wasted 2 hours of your life being wrong. Remember 2 hours ago when I asked And if I prove to you that it's real will you reevaluate your positions? I guess I got my answer, and as expected it's "no"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 11:06 PM
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So we're going with fingers in ears "lalalalalala, I can't hear you" so you can continue living in your bubble, got it. And I don't give a shit what you do or think. I only care about making you and your ilk look like the disingenuous fools you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:55 PM
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Lol, of course you can't accept it. And not that any of what I said hinged on the Asian thing, but CMU is the #1 robotics school in the world (you must have cherry picked some blog saying otherwise), with: 3,188 enrolled Asian students, and 3,021 enrolled white students. So, yeah, it is a high concentration of Asians, not that I even said anything about "concentrations." Also, there are actual Asians from Asia who go there, not just "Asian Americans" so your attempt at being PC is unnecessary an…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:51 PM
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Putting what you typed into google brings up exactly ZERO matches. I don't believe you. https://www.ascendclimbing.com/programs/community/affinity-sessions
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:29 PM
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Sorry but I learned long ago that “trust me, bro” is a worthless standard of objectivity. But that's not what's happening. I gave you evidence that it's real and everything you need in order to confirm for yourself and you're asking me to jump through your hoops for no reason. I'm refusing so you look like a clown, refusing to believe it when it's obviously true, putting up one last pointless hurdle for me to jump over because you can't stand having to change your mind, especially when it mean a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:09 PM
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So we're going with fingers in ears "lalalalalala, I can't hear you" so you can continue living in your bubble, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:03 PM
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I quoted directly the entire description. I think I've provided enough information to give me the benefit of the doubt that it exists. If you still don't believe me, a simple google search of the text should lead you to the source.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:01 PM
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I quoted directly the entire description. I think I've provided enough information to give me the benefit of the doubt that it exists. If you still don't believe me, a simple google search of the text should lead you to the source. It's couched in mealy mouthed language, but twice a month there are hours, previously normal business hours, hours during which they are open the other two Saturday's per month, where the gym is closed straight white men (as well as all white people one day, and all s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 09:49 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 09:06 PM
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Right, so even people who lean in that direction (whatever you want to call it), like yourself, think that that's so extreme as to be unbelievable. That's how far out there it is. And if I prove to you that it's real will you reevaluate your positions? sessions dedicated to individuals who haven't always had equal access to or treatment within the sport. It's a space dedicated to intentional inclusivity, not exclusivity, and we invite you to participate and be a part of these efforts. BIPOC = Bl…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:28 PM
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They are lost and they don't know how to express how they feel. Seems like they do know how to express how they feel and they're met with "Okay, incel. Have you tried being less toxic? Maybe learn to express how you feel." These people are prime targets for toxic masculinity grifters. Okay, so toxic masculinity grifters are a second order problem and we should really focus on addressing the primary issue, since it will take care of that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:17 PM
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I go to a gym that has no straight white men hours. Technically, they have no straight men hours, and no white people hours, but straight white men are the only people who can't go. The implication is that my presence is somehow threatening to gay people, people of color, and women. And the crowd is usually pretty diverse anyway. I've been the only white person there before, which is not something I would have ever even noticed if it weren't for this idiotic ideology. So it's completely fucking …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 08:03 PM
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But you’re straight up gaslighting people if you think that having self respect, self control, accountability, and motivation is being a “violent, evil, sexual predator,” you’re leaning in on a stereotype to justify your own biases and toxic behavior. What a ridiculous strawman of their point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 07:50 PM
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The people who seem to have trouble adapting to today's world are mainly the ones that were raised in households where being a man was all about hiding their feelings, not crying, always being right, needing to be the purveyor. Seems how? Like you've done actual research? Or seems in the sense that that's what you want to be the case and that's as good true for you? Like, sure, it's all the douchey frat bros who are just not able to adapt to this brave new world, and all the shy, sensitive, less…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 07:50 PM
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because you've internalized other people's opinions and it feels good demonstrating to yourself that you have the capacity to appeal to other people
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 05:21 AM
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The question wasn't "why are men insecure about having a little dick?"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:46 PM
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Did I hallucinate Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:38 PM
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The whole women wanting a tall Chad dynamic is vividly portrayed in War and Peace, which takes place in the early 1800s.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:19 AM
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CMB well yeah. if your dating profile is literally everywhere in the universe, you're going to get dates
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 03:18 AM
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What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:41 AM
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No, I'm implying that it's weird to bring up that actually small penises can please a woman when you're arguing that pleasure from penetrative sex isn't important.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:40 AM
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The pleasurable nerves for women are located at the entrance of the vagina, so that’s where 90% of the bang for your buck is coming from. But penile pleasure doesn't matter, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:02 AM
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Of course I did. I'm an idiotic man incapable of understanding these delicate points youre making. I should have realized they meant tonguing the clit during intercourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 01:38 AM
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They are our mothers and sisters and wives and lovers. So they are assholes?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 01:08 AM
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War and Peace
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 12:01 AM
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off topic 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 11:39 PM
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What difference does it make if dick size doesn't matter and you can make up for it with finger and tongue game, yo?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 11:28 PM
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"Don't worry, honey. I'll never enjoy actual intercourse with you on account of your micropenis, but that's okay because of your tongue game."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 11:18 PM
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Femsplaining why men are ashamed of having a little dick. And as usual it's because the man is a stupid piece of shit. It's funny because women seem incredibly sensitive to the slightest perceived social opinion even if it doesn't really exist (women are taught that math isn't for women or some such shit), but if a man cares about something that's extremely commonly the subject of ridicule that means he's a fucking idiotic piece of shit. And you're doing exactly what you're accusing the obviousl…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 11:08 PM
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The vast majority of women are looking for relationships with men within 2-5 years of their age. Where in that big ass wikipedia article is this supported?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 09:26 PM
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Mine are quite high, although picky is probably a better word, since I don't think they align with most guys. Could not care less about sexual history, occupation, education (but intelligence is of the utmost importance).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:38 AM
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It's easy to prove your point. Just make up the facts!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:28 PM
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Variety is the deepest desire for many men biologically. yeah, a variety of 20 year olds
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:23 PM
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I love her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 03:08 AM
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I don't expect women to cook for me ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 01:38 AM
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No, they should be completely emotionless robots.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 06:44 PM
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I think it is a problem. The only thing that I think is overblown is the claim that it shapes sexuality, sexual preferences, and ideas about sex. I mean, maybe it does, but if a guy is that dumb to have his entire sexuality shaped by porn then maybe you're better off without him, porn or no porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 07:30 PM
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yes, most people become more attractive if they do all those things, but still not moderately attractive. also, getting in shape for the average piece of genetic garbage isn't remotely immediate.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 06:02 AM
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because most men are ugly people overestimate what most people look like. go ride around on a subway and look at every single person. or just look through your high school yearbook. again, take note of every single person. would doing the things you suggested really make them attractive enough that women swoon when they act confident?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:30 AM
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Most men can achieve moderate attractiveness by maintaining their bodies, focusing on hygiene, and dressing appropriately. no they can't
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 05:21 AM
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Their inner simp nature. The pussy whipped husband is way more common than the subservient wife and always has been.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 08:54 PM
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not sure you know what a zero sum game is
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 01:05 AM
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maybe in reddit circles where someone doing a pullup is nextfuckinglevel 30 is old
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:10 PM
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best looking place ive been is cannes france. didnt really have a chance to experience romantic dynamics though
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:58 AM
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sounds lame
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:38 AM
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Because more than one thing can be holding someone back. Or only one thing can be holding something back. Also, yeah, some people are wrong. If you're honest with yourself it's not really that hard to see what you're doing wrong. Most people aren't honest with themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 09:41 PM
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There are a variety of ways to do that which don't involve sex and relationships. Some people can live this way and some can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:08 AM
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Well, I never said it was the only way to understand men. But anyone who needs reading recommendations to help understand men probably needs special help.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 12:12 AM
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TL;DR
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 10:34 PM
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Shakespeare, Dostoevsky, Tolstoy Not for their male characters but because their works are the products of the male psyche.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 09:07 PM
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The game of life is a game of survival and reproduction. People are animals, a result of millions of years of evolution, which is, again, mainly concerned with survival and reproduction. People don't get to reproduce by having hobbies or reading books. They do it by finding a partner. No, I'm not making the naturalistic fallacy. People don't have to concern themselves only with finding a partner. Just pointing out where finding a partner fits into the puzzle. It's kinda fundamental to being a li…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 09:03 PM
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I guess they don't like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 12:47 AM
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Obscure information is a pre-internet thing. The internet hive mind knows all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 01:24 AM
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Definitely a tree because the tree won't later use my emotions against me or use them as a reason to justify this or that. Also, the noise a tree makes in the wind is more comforting than a woman when you reveal your humanity to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 01:21 AM
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Because we live in an old-timey Disney cartoon.
/r/MensRights24/05/24 05:12 AM
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you have to be a troll
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:33 AM
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No, because I'm arranging it linearly with respect to the degree of attractiveness, irrespective of how its distributed within the population. 1-2 is the same jump in attractiveness as 2-3 and 3-4 etc. If we did it how you're suggesting there'd be relatively little change in attractiveness from like 2-3-4-5-6-7-8 then huge leaps from 1-2 and 8-10. I think what I'm suggesting is closer to the scale most people are using.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 11:38 PM
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Right, but we could get on the same page easily enough with regard to which scale I'm using, which is take the most beautiful woman ever, put her at 10, the ugliest at 1, and distribute the range of appearances linearly between. If you say 80th percentile, I still have no idea how attractive you think she is, but at least I understand how you think she compares to others. But even that doesn't mean much if we have different ideas about frequency. All that said, you really think 1 in 5 women her …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:13 PM
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I had a friend who smelled soooo bad after the gym even though he always showered before. And it wasn't BO because that takes a while to show up since it has to do with bacteria. My ex loved the way I smelled, my "people smell," and always wanted me to sleep in shirts and then give them to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:56 PM
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Pheromones are substances which are secreted to the outside by an individual and received by a second individual of the same species. Many examples exist in animals but their role in humans remains uncertain since adults have no functioning vomeronasal organ, which processes pheromone signals in animals. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3987372/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:54 PM
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Something you tell yourself that's easier to swallow than the actual truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:52 PM
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You have to pick somewhere to get dinner. Would you rather be stuck in a car with a hungry woman or a mosquito that you can't kill?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:48 PM
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Maybe 80%? But I actually don't think that's a better question because it doesn't actually tell you anything about how attractive she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:47 PM
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Are we including overweight women in the calculation?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 09:35 PM
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average is above average
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:18 AM
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she rates herself a 6.5 and I think that's accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:13 AM
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my ex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:11 AM
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I refuse to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:08 AM
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That's not a very strong case, aside from Gal Gadot. But even that is a really good picture of her. There are candids with her looking a lot worse. https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-12315385/Gal-Gadot-goes-makeup-free-relaxing-stroll-London-husband-Jaron-Varsano-daughters.html I agree with you regarding Zendaya and Jennifer Lawrence but not the other two. The reason is the first two it's like you just slather so much makeup on them until they're unrecognizable and even then they look…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 01:04 AM
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Post women who are above a 6 with no makeup to compare with the actresses you named.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 11:54 PM
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So you made a post so that you could make pretend responses that the cartoon version of a redpill man who exists nowhere but in your head would make?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 10:24 PM
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simp
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 10:24 PM
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I spent a week with my uncle and aunt who have been married for like 50 years and it was one of the most unbearable and toxic environments I've ever been in. They never had kids though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 02:07 AM
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Be honest, you mean here, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:53 AM
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And stars forbid you're a tomboy/masculine role woman, most men will tell you that relationships with good men are impossible. Men love tomboys. What are you even talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:43 AM
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Zero new information or arguments have been presented since my post. Why would I change my mind? The only thing you added was a claim that I didn't know what petty meant, which we saw was wrong. The funny thing is OP doesn't even seem like he holds the view you're arguing against. You're arguing against a view no one here even holds because some guy posted 10 pictures and in the last one the woman happened to be wearing lipstick.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 03:23 AM
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people make bad decisions all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 02:23 AM
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It's not. She has some lipstick on. It barely has an effect on her appearance. It's like "Haha! She has makeup on a scar on her arm. So I guess you don't know what you're talking about, OP." If anything, this thread has proven that women actually don't know when women are wearing makeup or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:14 PM
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i cringe every time i hear that word
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 06:33 AM
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Where did I say most women were using horse cock dildos? And it's pretty ironic that you're attempting to shame me in a thread about how men aren't shamed for their sexual habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 06:26 AM
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Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:33 PM
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Question is vague.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:33 PM
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Of course, because then they can paint more men as rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:50 AM
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I wish i knew your real name Wow, creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 04:41 AM
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Yeah. I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 02:22 AM
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Thats my point, brainiac.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:24 PM
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Cool. Just gonna not update my opinion that this isnt really about power dynamics but y'all being neopuritan prudes who want to control other peoples sex lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:23 PM
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Don't be creepy. If the 30 year old has no dating experience and the 20.year old does thats super creepy cause.muh power dynamic. Right? because this is totally what this is all about
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:17 PM
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What about 20 iq points ahead of her? What about he's a chess grandmaster with a phd in math and she's a high school dropout?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:14 PM
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I hope someone could give me some explanation. Probably two different interpretations of the questions. The men are probably interpreting it literally - the person really checks all the boxes. The women are interpreting it as though they "check all the boxes" - i.e. they look good on paper - but in reality they don't actually check the boxes. Like, I don't personally like the "perfect" supermodel look. Yes, they are attractive. I'm not going to argue they aren't attractive. But it's not what I p…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:48 PM
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Just read classic literature. It's refreshingly honest and so much more intelligent than the shit you find online. I recommend The Brothers Karamasov if you haven't read that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:41 PM
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Nope. The reason I would try is because assuming they really do check all the boxes then the problem is probably temporary, maybe some latent depression I'm not aware of, maybe some stupid subconscious thing that needs to be tempered, maybe it just needs a little time to ignite, maybe we just need to find our groove. Also, the "spark" only lasts so long anyway. In the long run, it's way more important that they "check all the boxes" than that they elicit some really strong emotional reaction at …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 08:06 PM
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You can just say experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:22 PM
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Shhhhhh. Leave the facts for the scientists and mathematicians. This is about how women feel. Forget about the fact that one of the most popular sex toy companies makes dildos shaped like dog and horse cocks and women videotape themselves using them and post them to the internet. Women aren't tAuGhT that they are 🦋🌈sexual beings🌈🦋 and that's wrong!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:18 PM
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of little importance; trivial.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 07:08 PM
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I'm not talking about your question but your assumption that they feel more internal shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 06:03 AM
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Boys figure it out for themselves or they hear about it from their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:05 AM
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feel more internal shame about it Do they? Go to r/nofap and search "guilt" or "shame."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:56 AM
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Male sexuality is normalized in a way that female sexuality is not. Bullshit. Male sexuality is seen as base, whereas female sexual is seen as lofty and spiritual. "I want to explore my sexuality." Oh, how noble. What about those magazines that have been at every convenience store/supermarket checkout for the past 30 years specifically targeted towards women like "10 tips to spice up your sex life." Or search youtube for "The View Sex" or any other show watched predominantly by women. Where are …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:27 AM
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Just more women making up shit so they can feel oppressed. Obviously a guy who owns a fleshlight is way more pathetic than a woman who owns a dildo. Imagine if a guy owned a blow up doll, or 10 different fleshlights. Imagine how pathetic and perverted that guy must be. I know there are women who would break up with a dude over that. Most guys wouldn't even think twice about a woman with a sex toy collection. Is there anything more pathetic than a guy who spends all his time looking at porn, fuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:20 AM
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But I could explain what I don't like and why they don't actually check the boxes. OP is saying they do check the boxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:56 AM
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I understand what the words mean. But there's no way I would not feel passionately about someone who checks all the boxes, or even half the boxes. The closest thing I can think of is someone who I recognize is "objectively" good looking, but isn't my type. Or someone who is "cool" but I don't really like their personality, and they're not really someone I want to spend that much time with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 03:46 AM
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Those who think women have too many rights and privilidges, oh boy do I have some bad news (and stats) for you: - domestic violence is literally legal literally everywhere in the world, - so is punching a woman in the streets, - so is police brutality on women, - women who kill are three times more likely to get convicted when saying it was in self-defence, - women who kill their partners get 6 times the prison sentence (20 years) as men who kill their partner, on average, - women are less muscu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:12 PM
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In 2017 more than one in three of all prison sentences handed down to women was for shoplifting compared with only one in ten for men. Holy fuck at this level of dishonesty. And you lap it up. JFL.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:10 PM
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Maybe, but if that's the case then we should just ignore it. There really aren't that many women who truly "check all my boxes" and I wouldn't want to let one "get away" because she resembles the doctor who performed my circumcision.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 07:40 PM
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Oh yeah, I agree. I forgot we were in this chain under that claim. Although I do think "no chemistry" probably is used a lot as an excuse when there really was no physical attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 07:37 PM
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There's still some reason for the difference, not just some vague mystical bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 06:54 PM
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There was some reason. You just don't know what it was.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 06:52 PM
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I don't think the question makes sense. How can a woman check all the boxes but lack "chemistry?"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 06:49 PM
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How can you predict the outcome of going into a hotel room with a guy who is willing to murder you? Like, he's either willing to murder you or he's not. If he's not then don't go into the hotel room with him because you don't want to have sex with him. If he is then don't go into the hotel room with him because he's fucking willing to murder you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 02:11 AM
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Let's say you're actually with a guy who is willing to murder you. Do you think it's safer to go into the hotel room with him than to just run away or alert hotel staff or whatever?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 02:10 AM
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Would you rather have a bear give your newborn a bath or a mother with postpartum depression?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 02:06 AM
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Are you younger than 40?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:59 AM
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username doesn't check out
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:53 AM
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Is anyone actually arguing that strange men aren't dangerous? The problem is the exercise is an attempt to try and paint all men as dangerous. Like, what are the 99.992% of men who aren't murderers supposed to do about the .008% who are? "Hey, guys! Knock it off!" Are you happy now? Like, in what other area does anyone try to make the .008% of something representative of the whole. It's fucking idiotic when you actually spell it out. I always like to point out that having 6 fingers is several or…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 12:40 AM
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No, theirs would be the first wrong. Yours is the second.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:34 AM
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Aren't you aware that two wrongs don't make a right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:57 AM
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You mean she wasted her youth, beauty, and fertility on a guy who didn't want to marry her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:43 AM
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You're the one saying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:42 AM
1

I know that is callous, but it’s what men say to women constantly. So you're saying they are justified when they say it and they should continue?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:46 AM
1

How can someone waste someone else's youth etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:44 AM
-6

There's no way a woman >4 frequents this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:32 AM
1

"Would you like to donate to fight cancer?" "Oh, no, I don't believe people should get cancer."
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:21 PM
1

They are masters at conditioning people to think of women's issues as being extremely important and men's issues as insignificant. You're always playing on their playing field, that's the thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 10:10 PM
1

Lol, dad's are lame, my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:22 PM
4

Yeah, she's a cunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:31 PM
3

Having a dad is better than being top 1%.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:16 PM
1

I was taking looks, money, and status out of the equation by comparing two identical men lol, what a great way to figure out how important they are
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:19 AM
3

This is way too subtle of a point for him to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:18 AM
2

I struggle with accepting that people like you exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:16 AM
3

Holy shit, then change it to a fucking free apple, or whatever your brain needs for you to understand this incredibly simple point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:13 AM
3

If 100 people are buying a new car and they can choose between a Honda Accord or the exact same Honda Accord that comes with a $100 Amazon gift card, I would expect all 100 to choose the one with the $100 gift card. Does that mean $100 Amazon gift cards are hugely important to people when buying a new car? And anyway, like I said, it's why millions of women lust over Chris Brown and not people who practice meditation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 05:03 AM
3

I'm not sure how you get from "Looks, status and charisma each play a bigger role" to "if you had a 100 women, only 60 would pick chill Hemsworth and 40 would pick rage Hemsworth." Even if all 100 choose chill Hemsworth, all that shows is that all things being equal, women prefer chill over rage. It says nothing of the comparative importance of emotional control versus looks, status, charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:47 AM
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No one said anything about "no difference." What they said is "Looks, status and charisma each play a bigger role," which they do. It's why millions of women lust over Chris Brown and not Buddhist monks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:34 AM
12

He values your opinion. 😎 Actually he doesn’t 😲
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:16 AM
19

I'll never defend Al Pacino becoming a dad again at 70s. He's 84 and had a kid at 83. That's not just "creepy;" it's legitimately fucked up. What a fucking inconsiderate douchebag.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:43 AM
-2

Great!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:39 AM
7

Most younger women have zero interest in men more than a few years older than they are. Then I guess you don't have to concern yourself with this issue any further.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:58 AM
2

It would be easier for you to provide an example where women are treated merely as "objects, property, husks. Nothing." by the author - not the author trying to make a point that this is how is how women were treated, but the author casually refer to women this way themselves, since this would have been the view of most men in those periods. Like, it's not hard to find examples where authors refer to black people in this way. Even anti-racist books from the 19th century seem racist by today's st…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 09:14 PM
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Really? What am I insecure about?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 06:40 AM
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I browsed it. They define verbal "coercion" of someone you're dating as sexual assault. And also "forced" sexual contact, which could mean grabbing your partner's ass without their express consent. And, yeah, they define rape as sex when the victim is incapacitated or unable to consent, but they don't define exactly what either of those mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:42 AM
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13.6 million subscribers
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 02:01 AM
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What? You think men were writing about attitudes towards women that didn't really exist so future men could be like "See, people back then didn't think of women as property?" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 02:00 AM
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You missed the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:56 AM
3

You know you can actually read books written in the 18th and 19th centuries or even earlier to see what a load of horseshit stuff like this: They were literally considered objects, property, husks. Nothing. is?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:51 AM
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What do you mean “how convenient”. I mean women were equal participants in the creation of the notion that women couldn't wage war. Men started wars. What’s not clicking for you? What your point is? Women still weren’t safe at home Yeah, they were.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:38 AM
3

They weren’t allowed to fight. How convenient. Men are the ones who chose to A) start the wars Really? The able-bodied 16 year olds required to serve in militias started the Revolutionary War? Also, women weren’t safe at home, they were being exploited for labor in factories with subpar conditions. Men have always been the primary victims of exploitation and dangerous working conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:25 AM
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hey guys, this study by man hating feminists who were trying to design a study to make men look like rapists says 100% of men are rapists
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:16 AM
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with 13.6 million subscribers At the time of its banning, r/incels had around 40,000 subscribers. r/Braincels subsequently became the most popular subreddit for incels, gaining 16,900 followers by April 2018. but these morons will act like reddit is soooo misogynistic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:11 AM
2

🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:07 AM
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Do you want to discuss ancient Babylon? I meant abortion wasn't an option and they had to give birth whether they liked it or not. They didn't get to choose to have kids, they would be raped and just had to deal with it. This would bring death upon many, many people. They were also raped and couldn't give consent on account of being property of their husbands. They didn't have free choice at all. This was a 24/7, whereas war was transient. They were literally considered objects, property, husks.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:03 AM
5

Just the US civil war?? Lol What other war where American women were on the losing side and subject to the whims of the victors were you thinking of? I mean they were forced to give child birth Damn, if only they had had the right to vote for the President who wanted men to be the ones to give birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:44 AM
2

Source on southern women being raped and killed in significant numbers in the Civil War?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 12:29 AM
3

love them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:41 PM
2

or listen to the Grizzly Man audio or those campers that just died
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 11:21 PM
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I spend no time thinking about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:02 PM
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Because when they were 16 years old women weren't required to fight in the wars that the commander in chief was waging, nor were they required to die building forts etc. Imagine being 16 years old and dying on some battlefield from a gangrenous leg wound, knowing that in 200 years people will argue that it was actually the women safe at home who were oppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 10:01 PM
3

Yeah! But why even have train tracks? Why not flying trains instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 09:35 PM
6

Yeah! Why couldn't men break their backs on the railroads AND do the laundry, while m'lady lounges!?!? So unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:55 PM
2

But not the girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:36 PM
4

That's not a thread. It's a post. And all he is doing is pointing out that the "nice guy" argument is the same as what you're talking about, not actually making the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 08:28 PM
2

Read through this thread - that's how.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:58 PM
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Your Reddit history is a hatred of women. Another spurious claim. Did I dare to disagree with a woman? Anyway, here ya go. You misunderstood his comment, lol. Just evidence you're blindly bumbling around coming to ridiculous conclusions about the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:11 PM
1

Can you provide some specific examples so we can see that you're not just making shit up?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:11 PM
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How convenient for your hatred of men that some phrase they use just means "I'm a piece of shit." Can you provide some specific examples so we can see that you're a reliable observer and not just seeing what you want to see/making shit up?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:58 PM
1

Cool. I'm not, but I don't find myself using "you guys" or second person plural "you" or "yinz" every other post in order to signal group allegiance (and I'm not talking about being from the South).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:52 PM
1

I said what I had to say, you coped with some lame deflection. Y'ALL have nothing of value to say so you're mocking colloquialisms that are commonplace where I'm from originally. If you weren't shoehorning it into every single post, it might come across as more authentic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:43 PM
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you clearly are Nope. Any straight man who's been to a gay club can tell you that men are WAYYYYYYY less picky than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:28 PM
2

Y'ALL
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:07 PM
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Meanwhile these guys can barely understand basic hygiene and grooming themselves Not every guy who disagrees with you is the type of dude you hang out with at your anime pillow conventions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:04 PM
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A few of them are better looking a few OP posted, imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:42 PM
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His lashes are thicker than every woman OP posted, so yeah it completely flies in the face of what you're saying. y'all y'all be y'allin', y'all
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:18 PM
2

Middle Eastern people like Gal Gadot have dark, thick, dense eyelashes. Sucks that you have to spend money and time to get the same appearance, but that's just the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:53 PM
1

I'm not a red pill man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:41 PM
2

lmao women can't even tell when a woman isn't wearing makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:39 PM
0

No it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:37 PM
1

People want sex and experience with someone who wants to have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:59 PM
4

not really
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:32 PM
3

Imagine if the advice to the friendless person was "just pay someone by the hour to hang out with you". literally what most therapists are
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:31 PM
3

You act like people can't simultaneously complain about external factors while working on internal factors. How do you know what they are or aren't doing? If you have to fill in the blanks in such a way that your opponent looks as bad as possible, your position is probably shit. This goes for anything. It's especially true when you have to ignore what the person says themselves and invent some alternative explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:25 PM
3

This is so unbelievably petty. Do some soul searching.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:21 PM
1

I believe women do care what men find attractive and attempt to appeal to men in how they maintain their appearance. As a man, I care what women find attractive and attempt to appeal to women in how I maintain my appearance. Does that mean I think I exist for women's perusal and pleasure? No, it doesn't, and it's idiotic to even suggest it. Why is it so hard for you to admit that you care what men think of the way you look (assuming you're heterosexual)?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:05 PM
0

Annnnd pivot back to the "we do it for ourselves" argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:57 PM
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I bet you're one of the poster's who makes fun of men for being fragile and whining when a bunch of people insinuate all men are rapists. But if a man points out that he prefers beautiful women with no makeup over you with makeup, you have to scream to the high heavens about how "demeaning" it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:55 PM
2

Yeah, why didn't he spend his entire day combing over pictures to make sure none were wearing any amount of makeup?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:50 PM
5

he'd be better off being a cop
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:00 AM
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sounds douchey and boring
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:21 AM
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really really stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:53 AM
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by making therapeutic services more widely available
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 11:30 PM
2

common low iq mistake - caring about people caring about something isn't the same as caring about that thing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:42 AM
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Dude, if you want men to give a shit about your problems with other men, maybe try not treating them like they're all violent. You're the one who has to live with the unhealthy mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:29 AM
1

Okay, good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 11:27 PM
1

The only thing that will help women to avoid living in fear is for men to end male violence. They should try therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 10:17 PM
1

Yeah, that's what I said. What does that have to do with bears?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 09:36 PM
1

The bear test proves your point. How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 10:45 PM
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Lol. New feminist mental gymnastics gold medalist right here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 08:24 PM
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of course not
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 08:21 PM
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of course
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 08:20 PM
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average young women doesn't even have to use makeup and will still have plenty of suitors
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:29 PM
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Always be vigilant for signs she might drown your children in the tub.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:53 PM
6

It’s constantly on our minds. Sounds unhealthy. very off-color jokes 😲😲😲 who can’t be trusted around other women or children Made a joke? You might be a pedophile!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:52 PM
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simps and white knights? good idea
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:22 PM
4

These studies start out not with "how can we figure out how many rapists/sexual aggressors there are?" but with "how can we design a study that maximizes the amount of 'rapists' we find?" Just look at this bullshit: Participants who emphatically rejected survey items were classed as “non-sexual aggressors” (NSAs), whilst those who provided any non-zero response were classed as “sexual aggressors” (SAs). Social sciences are a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:19 PM
1

You can’t be that dumb. You must be new here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 01:04 PM
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sure
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 12:00 PM
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🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:58 AM
5

from the same study 83% of women are traditionalists and 70% of men are environmentalists
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 11:58 AM
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Men are stronger than women so when they have their penis cut off it doesn't even hurt!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 12:16 AM
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no, that's not the reason
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:05 PM
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The mental gymnastics people will perform to avoid admitting that they were wrong are truly a sight to behold.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:57 PM
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Okay, I want to get one right now. Can I? No, I can't. I have to get a court order first. SO I CAN'T GET ONE ANYTIME I LIKE. See how words mean things?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:50 PM
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They aren't illegal in France, you just need to have either the agreement of the mother or a court order that is in most cases relatively easily obtained. THEN YOU CAN'T GET ONE ANYTIME YOU LIKE, CAN YOU?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:08 PM
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Like I said: Go look at the actual figures in that study you cited. Out of 50,000 murders, there were on 1000 same sex murders. But there were 18,000 female perpetrators. So the amount of men killed by women is at least 18x more than men killed by men. In my figure of 2 per day, it's only 2x.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:02 PM
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women are 5x as likely to die from intimate partner violence They're not. .34 x 4790 = 1689 .06 x 17970 = 1078 1689/1078 = 1.57 times more likely to die from intimate partner violence
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:01 PM
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No, read it again. That's not what it says.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 02:52 PM
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imagine unironically using the phrase "power dynamics"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 02:33 PM
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I mean, I literally just said I took the amount of men killed by men into account when I drastically low-balled the figure to 2 per day, down from 2.95 per day. Go look at the actual figures in that study you cited. Out of 50,000 murders, there were on 1000 same sex murders. But there were 18,000 female perpetrators. So the amount of men killed by women is at least 18x more than men killed by men. In my figure of 2 per day, it's only 2x.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 02:31 PM
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The fact that your article disputes your math No it doesn't. You're just awful at math. it doesn't say the intimate partners are women. A percentage of those men are killed by other men. Same goes for women. And I took that into account when I low-balled the figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 02:15 PM
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2.95 men are killed every day by intimate partners. I said 2 were killed every day by women. >90% of men identify as heterosexual. Do the math, bro. Women kill men every single day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 02:14 PM
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Why are you trying so hard to erase the victims of female partners who die every single day?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 02:06 PM
2

Okay? So which part of what I just said are you disputing - the 17,970 figure or the math?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 02:02 PM
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https://bjs.ojp.gov/female-murder-victims-and-victim-offender-relationship-2021 17970 x .06 = 1078 / 365 = 2.95 So in 2021 there were actually ~3 men "unalived" by intimate partners every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:07 PM
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just one small reason is women's faces are more neotenous than men's, which sparks empathy. it's why people think the young of other animals are adorable and why animals will adopt the young of other animals
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 10:02 AM
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evolution
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 09:59 AM
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youre probably not imagining equal comparisons. how many "high status" by your definition individuals are there? Let's say it's 100,000, just for the sake of conversation, even though it's probably far less. that's like .025% of men or 2.5 in 10,000. so you get 10,000 random guys together and the top 3 guys. they're not going to be able to get laid as much as they want? some random soccer player os going to do better? nah. most people outside of fans and people from whatever city they play for w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 07:14 AM
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yeah. when I typed it I was like "is that right?" then I typed out "haire" and was like "no, hair's right"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:03 AM
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Pick absolutely any activity and it takes years to get good at it, not weeks or months. not really. good compared to experts, but if you put 100% effort into something, in 3-6 months you'll be so far ahead of the average person that they cant even compare
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:20 PM
3

yea, that's the point of the tortoise and the hair
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 03:17 PM
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Regardless, guys who look like early 20s Clooney pull more young pussy at the club than guys who look like late 30s Clooney. Don't get me wrong -- the That's just one arena.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 02:46 PM
2

I don't think John Hamm was a millionaire when he started on Mad Men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 02:28 PM
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Nope. He peaked in Out of Sight at the age of 37: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-RJ6USD2nEU Pedro Pascal is another guy who peaked later: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QqpA-TBvCF4 Oh, and of course how could I forget John Hamm: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=go7umPwXmJA
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 02:05 PM
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Nope. He peaked in Out of Sight at the age of 37: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-RJ6USD2nEU
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:55 PM
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He peaked at 80.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 01:00 PM
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people claim men peak in smv at 35, not physical attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:30 AM
5

We all peak in our late teens or early twenties George Clooney
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:29 AM
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That doesn't sound at all like a more liberal shifted American dating scene. American dating scene is more like virtue signaling about how liberal you are, then making the man pay for everything or ghosting him because he suggested going for a walk or acting like he's a murderer because he wanted to go to the park on a first date. And also being utterly disgusted if the guy is poor, although not in the terms of rich and poor but instead successful/driven and unsuccessful/lazy. Although I did dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 08:53 PM
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That is a stat. You might want to ask something like "how did you arrive at that figure?" or "do you have the data you used to get that stat?"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:10 PM
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i havent
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 10:02 AM
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80%+ is the stat
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:54 AM
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you bet a lot of frat boys and 6'4 chads are misogynistic as hell. who gets blamed? the lowest rung of society obviously, which is undesirable men. 10 years ago it was neckbeards. anyone who said anything that could be interpreted as misogynistic was a neckbeard. now it's incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:29 AM
2

female version of "it's not a fedora, it's a trilby!"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:15 AM
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yeah, 80%+ women wear a full face of makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:14 AM
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Not with the capacity to make an average woman look like a model. Even in the 90s and 2000s it wasnt like it is now. It's exacerbated by filters and trick photography.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:11 AM
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i would get called a misogynist for saying this same thing in response to a woman's comment. probably blocked with a reddit cares message too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:09 AM
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Because they're idiots?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 01:59 AM
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Is a partner made of fruit?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 01:30 AM
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You're right. It just serves as contrast so we can better see what sort of problem having too many jams is. But here's the thing. If someone brings up starving children in Africa as its own topic, no reasonable person responds with "oh yeah, well I had to eat spaghetti two nights in a row." Whereas in the who has it harder in dating discussion, people do say that women's issues are just as bad as men's.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 12:40 AM
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and that makes your comment worthless
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 12:15 AM
3

That's not even close to being an accurate analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 07:49 PM
5

Okay, but now add a third group who is dying of hunger and has no jam at all. Is the 24 jam group valid when they complain about how overwhelming choosing a jam is?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 06:54 PM
1

That "if" is doing a lot of heavy lifting, isn't it? Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:05 AM
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I hereby recognize the heightened anxiety that lone women feel when they meet a strange man in the woods at night! Amen! Once again you're trying to weasel your way out of my point through irrelevant nitpicks. Bears are way more dangerous than men. Period. The vast majority of men are not dangerous. The vast majority of grizzly bears would tear you to shreds if they were hungry.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:41 PM
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No, it is to highlight the wariness women feel towards strange men. How does it do that any better than saying "women are wary of strange men in the woods?" What is the point of using a bear to illustrate this point? It also exposed the stupidity of the common retort that "most men" never physically harm women, since most bears never physically harm humans, but if you spotted one while walking alone in the woods, you would attempt to remove yourself from the vicinity and endeavor to avoid such c…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:45 PM
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Oh, so this bear thought experiment that's sweeping the nation is only to say that women are wary of a stranger in the woods at night, something literally everyone feels. That's it? It has nothing to do with the degree of wariness, how it might be comparable to how wary they are of a bear? Only someone who hates women could possibly interpret it that way? What they're really trying to say is that they're merely wary of strangers in the woods at night, huh? "I'm so hungry I could eat a horse!" "W…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:28 PM
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Their degree of wariness.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 07:17 PM
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Not sure where you're getting that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 05:27 PM
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No, because the point is to prove how irrational their wariness is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:47 PM
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How many human-human encounters are there every year in the US though? Trillions? I mean what counts as a bear encounter - a person sees a bear? So quadrillions of human-human interactions then? How about this. If suddenly every man turned into a grizzly bear, and you still had to go about your daily routine (somehow the world is still functioning, but nothing preventing the grizzlies from attacking), what is the likelihood you'd make it through a single day? A week?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:45 PM
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I don't know why people make arguments like this. The experience is the bad part, not remembering the experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:38 AM
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How about, would you rather be instantaneously transported to some random man's bedroom or the surface of the sun? Duh, the surface of the sun. Literally no one has ever died from being on the surface of the sun.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 08:19 PM
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I swear it's even lower than average on this sub. Some of the arguments you encounter are just so stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 08:18 PM
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Oh, just the killing huh? Like having a bear chomping on your intestines while you're still alive is somehow less invasive than a penis in your vagina. I know I'm watching a bear devour my liver, but at least I have my dignity! Listen to the Grizzly Man audio and tell me if that sounds like "just killing."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 08:16 PM
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What does "with" mean? Like how big is the area? In any case, obviously the answer is man. Absolutely idiotic question (the original I mean).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 08:13 PM
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HOW is this stupid sentiment even gaining traction? Obviously some sort of mass paranoia. Somehow the worst case scenario paranoid delusion has become the default way were supposed to see the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 03:17 AM
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Statistically most humans don’t encounter bears, hence the statistics. It's hilarious to me that people who can't even understand this are allowed to have and share opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 03:14 AM
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Don't forget that 2 men are killed by their female partners every single day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 03:13 AM
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TIL there's no fear and pain involved in getting eaten alive by a bear
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 03:11 AM
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The question isn't "would you rather meet a bear in the woods or an invading rape army" though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 03:07 AM
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Of course. Women's success depends on the perception that they're disadvantaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:04 AM
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You know enough men are like that. Enough to make a sweeping generalization? How do you know? You probably only know certain types of men because you like "cOnFidEnT" men or some stupid shit like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:58 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 05:20 AM
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You don't think fathering a child changes a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 10:18 PM
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damn the patriarchy and their firing people for being non-feminists
/r/MensRights17/04/24 07:04 PM
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The problem is there are two meanings of the word average. One meaning is the attractiveness level of the 50th percentile. The other meaning is neither attractive nor unattractive, plain, or maybe even slightly cute. People assume the two meanings refer to the same level of attractiveness, but is it? I think they're actually wildly different. That the attractiveness level of the 50th percentile is actually quite unattractive, even if we ignore old people and overweight people. Most people are no…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 10:35 PM
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Maybe it's easier for them to say that than to say they think you're unattractive. I don't put any stock in an OkCupid study. They don't control for variables. I'm also very skeptical of what "average" means. You say you go after average guys. You actually find 1 out of every 2 guys attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 10:24 PM
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how do you know it's your race and not because you're just not attractive to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 10:12 PM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 10:10 PM
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Aren't those all online?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:07 AM
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Did you even watch the video? The women are talking about men in general, not collectors of antique glass writing accessories.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:04 AM
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was always more willing to avoid and ignore conflict than deal with it in my experience, that's the default for relationships. i can think of so many examples, and no examples of the so-called "traditional" ones. it's a myth that men are the heads of the household. i know this one dude who is a cop and unironically wears a cowboy hat when he goes out. even he lives in terror of his girlfriend/baby mama. but to be fair, she is terrifying
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 11:33 PM
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maybe if you actually got to know them instead of judging them as bleh on the first date
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 06:41 AM
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What if your partner stopped taking care of their teeth?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:07 AM
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Do you look like a douche if your partner stops brushing their teeth and you don't accept that? Uh oh. The thread is heckin' locked y'all. Wouldn't want to push those 2 day old threads onto page 2. But, yeah, they are comparable. One's neglect creates an unpleasant olfactory experience. The other's neglect creates and unpleasant visual and tactile experience. They both fall under the heading of basic hygiene and bodily maintenance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:05 AM
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You think all your dating problems are because you’re aren’t attractive enough and not at to do with your personality. It's such a wild coincidence that the women who seem like they're attracted to me within the first 10 seconds of meeting me all seem to really like my charming personality, but the ones who aren't all hate my shitty personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 05:47 PM
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Has anyone noticed this new trend of women (presumably feminist) pretending like using metaphors and other figures of speech is objectifying women? It's quite possibly the stupidest thing that's come out of that movement so far. Are we really going to pretend people don't use metaphors and analogies to refer to men? We're really stooping to this level of dishonesty and idiocy? This is why this shit disgusts me. It's offensively stupid. Here are two examples just from today: https://np.reddit.com…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:04 AM
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Has anyone noticed this new trend of women (presumably feminist) pretending like using metaphors and other figures of speech is objectifying women? It's quite possibly the stupidest thing that's come out of that movement so far. Are we really going to pretend people don't use metaphors and analogies to refer to men? We're really stooping to this level of dishonesty and idiocy? This is why this shit disgusts me. It's offensively stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:01 AM
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Is that person rich, wealthy, or well off? Not that I know of. I think it still fits the picture of "mainstream leftist ideology" that other poster was painting even if it doesn't match the exact details. It's ridiculous to say that a white homeless person has more privileges and benefits than anyone who isn't desperately struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 10:41 PM
2

What about making friends with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 08:23 PM
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https://twitter.com/Aye_Yo_Jo33/status/1710266368405201114 I agree! I’m not helping no white homeless person who has more privileges and benefits than I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 08:20 PM
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wow, that's stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 06:36 PM
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speaking of Marxism, isn't the fact that most feminists are Marxist funny? the bourgeoisie exploiting the labor of the proletariat. who are the proletariat? well, mostly men, of course. as we all know, women weren't "allowed" to work. so, which is it, are men historically victims of capitalist/feudalist exploitation or are they privileged oppressors?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:55 PM
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It's funny how anti-feminists so vehemently argue that there are no women related issues nope or that women live life on the easy mode many do Yet, they expect women to care about their mostly self-invented issues. nope
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:51 PM
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Sex with the walking insecurity otherwise known as OOP would’ve inevitably been self-sabotaged by his fears. Yeah, OOP, why couldn't you just be secure in your partner's preferring to be fucked by her previous partners? DAE male fragility?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:23 PM
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no they don't. they like tall, attractive, outgoing men, who are good at replicating fashionable memes (in the Dawkinsian sense)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 08:21 PM
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nope, inexperience can only generate failure. the guy who said that sounded very authoritative so he's definitely right
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 08:11 PM
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yea, you could. what do you think that proves? feminism is on par with incel movement? okay, great. glad we could reach that conclusion
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 11:58 PM
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no, i bitch about all feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 11:56 PM
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No, in most states it's 16. But lots of people still think it's creepy. But if you're cool with it, that's cool. I'm not here to judge. I think it's pretty creepy myself though. I also find it funny how something is totally fine in one location but a mile away the same thing is wrong, rape in fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 12:30 AM
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It's funny because in this very thread you have women shitting on men for making the same type of complaints. I wish for one day people would treat women the way they treat men, true equality. I'm the real feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 12:24 AM
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Actors get nominated for their acting. You don't think Cillian Murphy was nominated for developing the atomic bomb, do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 12:23 AM
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consensual sex is not wrong Well, that's your opinion. There definitely are people who think a 50 year old having consensual sex with a 16 year old is wrong and creepy. But if you think that's fine, more power to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 12:14 AM
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Make your own movies, but not like that! There weren't enough women! Talk about your problems, but not like that! What are women supposed to do, wipe your ass?!?!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 12:10 AM
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What she said was so true and liberting that she was nominated for her first Oscar. Is this satire?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 12:09 AM
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You can make the point that men also experience social pressure but that it's ultimately not that big a deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:29 PM
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why not both?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:20 PM
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blah blah blah wahhhhhhh. poor me. people judge me. wahhhhhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:10 PM
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Sure, why not? Why can you shame men for being "creeps" or whatever, and I can't shame women for being sluts?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:07 PM
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yeah you can
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:57 PM
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I thought it was nose size.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 10:57 PM
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If so, then do men bear collective responsibility for this? And if so, what might men, collectively, do to reduce and hopefully eliminate this double-standard of beauty that burdens women? Lol, no. And in fact if a man mentions that women are doing this or that for men he will get scolded for thinking it has anything to do with men. Men have standards but it has more to do with genes, youth, and health than it does elaborate makeup rituals, fashion, and accessories.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:42 PM
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lol, what? guy was an extremely mentally ill loner incel, not some redpill alpha bro who dumped women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 06:08 PM
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At least you're consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 12:43 AM
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That's not what I asked though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 12:15 AM
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There are two studies that came to the same conclusion, the first one that I'm talking about, and a subsequent faulty one you're talking about. It wouldn't surprise me if the first one was also flawed, considering the second one failed to show a difference once you account for the egregious error they made.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 10:29 PM
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Men are more likely to leave women dying of a terminal disease. Now you're misrepresenting the data. The study doesn't say anything about how the divorce happens, just that divorce is more likely when the woman is a patient. It also doesn't control for variables like the work/homemaker dynamic at the time of divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:51 PM
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I honestly don’t know about the DV stats, I’ve never looked into it but that might be an interesting study. I have, and it's not true. The DV they experience is not within their same sex relationships (well some of it is, but not the amount that makes them the most likely to have experienced DV).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 09:42 PM
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So if there are men somewhere reinforcing the practice of trimming the labia of infant girls because of an aesthetic preference (when they grow up, I mean), you think that's okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 08:38 PM
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Or how about women who prefer circumcised guys? Should we call them disgusting sadists? yes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 06:07 PM
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because feminism portrays itself as some sort of revolutionary ideology, when in actuality it is just business as usual
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 06:05 PM
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join a climbing gym, my dude. so many nerdy ass girls
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 11:27 PM
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such a reddit response
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 11:25 PM
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psychologist but doesn't understand people smile when they're uncomfortable, not because they think something is funny fucking hate people like him
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 06:52 AM
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It's a ridiculous fantasy scenario that will never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:34 PM
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I don't care and it'll never catch on to any meaningful degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 04:23 AM
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They see it as payback for causing them to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 05:56 PM
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I've tried setting him up with a couple of women but they react like they feel guilty about dating someone who is mentally/socially underdeveloped. Probably just using that as an excuse and really they're just not attracted to him. I can see that. But since it seems many more autistic women are in relationships with NT men, how come men do not seem to have a problem with that in comparison to women? Because men aren't super fucking picky. Like, no, I'm not going to date a Rain Man tier autistic …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 10:23 PM
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Most people derive their self worth from what other people think of them. Just think of how powerful the insult "no one likes you" is, especially if it's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 08:57 PM
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It could be. How much are you willing to pay for a fart?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:57 AM
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Tbf there are absolutely tall men who prefer tall women. Yeah, and there're women who sell their bottled farts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:28 AM
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I like girls with hairy asses.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 12:29 AM
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Kindness towards animals. I've never thought of this as gendered.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 12:29 AM
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Maybe not most, but a lot of them, except for the physical standards. I think most men have physical standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 09:02 PM
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I was being a little hyperbolic. I just thought it was funny that I was looking up handsome philosophers yesterday, including Camus: https://i.imgur.com/kU7s1af.png But my conclusion really was that Camus wasn't that handsome and he just looks cool in that one picture of him smoking with his collar up. Whereas Buddha may have been Chad: All ancient writings tell us that he was very handsome and about 6 feet tall. But of course they would say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:27 PM
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According to a report from the National Institute on Drug Abuse (NIDA), cannabis use, especially in high doses, can cause a short-lived psychotic reaction in people without schizophrenia. As the drug wears off, the symptoms fade. Symptoms such as paranoia, anxiety, or psychosis may be present during the initial stage of intoxication. Impaired coordination and learning and sleep problems are among the effects that can last longer but may not be permanent. Repeated use of cannabis can have cumulat…
/r/MensRights19/03/24 07:19 PM
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You could if it were true. And if it were true, and the defense didn't work then that would be a problem, but solution isn't to send women to prison because they had a psychotic episode, it's to stop sending men to prison for having a psychotic episodes. And, actually, I know of a dude who was spared jail for attacking a women because of a drug-induced psychotic episode. He's the nephew of one of my dad's friends. He did some pretty serious damage to the women. And it was just some random woman …
/r/MensRights19/03/24 06:18 PM
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Camus wasn't hot. He just took one good picture where he looked cool. I did a deep dive into this topic yesterday: https://i.imgur.com/tAg0qDQ.png
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 06:12 PM
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Wow, that's a lot of assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:48 AM
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Why? And modest in what sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:07 AM
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It's an extreme example to highlight the stupidity of the blanket "should."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:17 AM
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DAE hating half of all humans actually good???
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 07:37 PM
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Nah, I don't think they would care. I think it would pretty obvious that hatred of men wasn't what they thought they were signing up for.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:48 PM
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One time I was at a bar and was talking to these girls, obvious lesbians, literally had zero interest in them. I was just being friendly. They were like "are you straight?" which immediately made my hackles go up. This was before SJWs were a known thing, probably ~2013, but I could tell they were SJWs, without even knowing what that was. And imagine how obnoxious they were before people started pushing back. So I'm like "Yeah, I am." And they were like "Well, you're making us uncomfortable." And…
/r/MensRights18/03/24 04:55 AM
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I would feel the same way if a man murdered a woman due to an unforeseen psychotic episode from weed.
/r/MensRights18/03/24 03:19 AM
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A LIVESTOCK hormone??? minimum amount of muscle mass needed to get a match on tinder in 2024
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:34 AM
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Can we save this comment to show all the other women who claim feminism is just the belief that women and men should have equal rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:18 AM
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Good
/r/MensRights18/03/24 12:16 AM
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because they want to have their cock carousel and ride it too
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 11:59 PM
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As she should if she's a SAHM. lmao. yeah MacKenzie Scott was totally gonna make $50 billion by herself if she hadn't decided to become a SAHM
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 11:56 PM
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if you're going to argue its bad bc misogyny is bad, Misogyny is actually good.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 11:42 PM
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For the love of God do not get plastic surgery on your face. Terrible advice. Sell your 200K car, buy a subaru crosstrek and go kayaking. I dunno man. Also terrible advice. Just look at that guy who posted on r/tinder the other week about getting 0 matches (can't find it, I looked). 10/10 outdoorsy Chad, imo. If I were a woman I'd snatch him up in a minute. 0 fucking matches. And all the women in the comments like "I'd be afraid I couldn't keep up" "I'd be afraid you're too independent" What the…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 11:10 PM
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Waste of money How is that a waste of money? Being more attractive = more women attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 11:07 PM
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my $3,000 XJ appreciate the link
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 10:50 PM
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If that's not enough, I am also considering getting orbitat implants, jaw implants, and laser skin treatment, which would easily cost an additional $20-30K. You gotta shop around. I wouldn't pay $20-30k for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 10:44 PM
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Okay, take it up with the supreme court.
/r/MensRights17/03/24 10:03 PM
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Yeah, it does, and the law agrees, which is why there is an insanity plea. In this case there was some culpability because she chose to smoke weed.
/r/MensRights17/03/24 09:46 PM
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Oh, so you were talking about your own employees and alcohol vendors when you said shady people?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:50 PM
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i dont want to be around shady people/drugs But it would just be women. They are innocent angels who never do anything wrong. How come no one else is capitalizing on this brilliant business model?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:35 PM
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Why don't you open up a women's only nightclub? Easy money.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:29 PM
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I almost stopped after reading he’s doing steroids on number 2. #1 actually
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:27 PM
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Yeah, it can definitely trigger underlying schizophrenia. I'm not disputing that. I'm disputing the idea that it only happens if you have underlying schizophrenia.
/r/MensRights17/03/24 08:23 PM
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https://www.vcstar.com/gcdn/media/2018/06/01/Camarillo/Camarillo/636634799071981638-Spejcher2046357.jpg?width=300&height=375&fit=crop&format=pjpg&auto=webp That's after she got out of the hospital.
/r/MensRights17/03/24 05:49 PM
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I have had a psychotic episode from psychedelics, which was ~18 years ago. I definitely don't have schizophrenia. It's a myth that it can only happen to people with underlying schizophrenia.
/r/MensRights17/03/24 05:43 PM
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That's because the effects that impair your driving are foreseeable. Just the fact that we're talking about it as a standard situation shows how foreseeable it is. Whereas being thrust into a murderous psychotic episode is not something anyone foresees when they smoke weed, as evidenced by the fact that people are doubting whether it actually happened.
/r/MensRights17/03/24 05:39 PM
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Yes, yes it does.
/r/MensRights17/03/24 07:36 AM
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Yeah
/r/MensRights17/03/24 07:33 AM
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cutting edge comedy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:33 AM
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Spejcher’s defense revolves around the idea that she was “involuntarily intoxicated,” which in a legal context could mean she was coerced into consuming the drug or didn’t know what she was taking, or that she could not have foreseen the drug could trigger a psychotic episode. Probably that.
/r/MensRights17/03/24 06:28 AM
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Prosecutors reduced the charge to involuntary manslaughter after their own expert psychologist agreed with defense experts that Spejcher was suffering from cannabis-induced psychosis when she stabbed O’Melia to death at his Thousand Oaks condominium in 2018. She also stabbed her own dog. And she has scars on her face 4-5 years later from stabbing herself. This is presumably after she got out of the hospital: https://www.vcstar.com/gcdn/media/2018/06/01/Camarillo/Camarillo/636634799071981638-Spej…
/r/MensRights17/03/24 06:25 AM
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Well she was convicted of manslaughter, so it wasn't exactly a defense, more of a mitigating circumstance.
/r/MensRights17/03/24 06:02 AM
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It triggered a psychotic episode. Seems plausible considering she was stabbing herself in the neck.
/r/MensRights17/03/24 06:00 AM
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Not everyone who waits til 40s to settle down missed out in their 20s. I'd assume they'd cheat less, but that's just a guess. For one thing, you haven't been stuck with the same person for the last 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 10:47 PM
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Dude, you're the one who's offended by facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 03:59 AM
1

I felt like being with another woman would be cheating for years after my relationship ended. Meanwhile my ex was dating one of my friends within months. Fun fact, she's never had a boyfriend who wasn't a friend of her previous boyfriend, except the first one obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:46 PM
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I ended things with my ex 11 years ago. I dream about her multiple times every week. I haven't looked at pictures of her or mementos or anything like that since we separated. I don't talk to her. I rarely talk about her. I've done all sorts of stuff in the past 11 years. When I dream about her, I usually wake up feeling like shit, shake it off, and go about my day. In fact, I'm a significantly better, healthier, more successful, more mature person than I was when I was with her. I've seen at lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:42 PM
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by being awful people, fucking robots. just listen to them talk in this thread robot voice: remaining time to process - 6 months. relationship processed. initiating breakup. searching for new relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:34 PM
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I'm not talking about people like you, nor am I saying women's issues shouldn't be addressed. If that's what you consider feminism, fine. I'm not gonna argue that that's not feminism, but that's not how I see feminism. Integral to what I think of as feminism is the belief that women are oppressed. So from my experiences as an autistic women, I’ve noticed heavy amounts of internalized misogyny especially towards women who don’t fit in. Like what specifically? People tend to not be very kind to an…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:09 AM
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Cool. While you have them on the phone can you ask them why they suddenly all think they can beat me at chess, and also what was the deal with that thing where they'd hold their hair in front of their face like a mustache a while back. It never looked like a mustache.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 02:29 AM
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men who dont hate women, dont vent about and bash on women online. they also dont say misogynistic things. thats why women like them, and hate and avoid misogynists. That's hilarious because the most misogynistic dude I know (which is not all that misogynistic) is very well liked and popular. Married with kids. I know another misogynist, also very popular. Also married with kids. The funny thing is the first dude is also the biggest pussy whipped simp in all his relationships. That's the thing. …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 09:03 PM
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it's entertainment for 14 year olds
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 05:09 PM
1

No, I honestly don't know what you're talking about. 1% would be like 1.7 million people. Let's call it 1 million since children don't count. Certainly there are many women and POCs who are more powerful than the millionth most powerful guy. Hillary had to be in top 10 at some point, at least top 100. Obama had to be in top 10, in the world, possibly the most powerful man in the world. Nancy Pelosi? Mackenzie Scott? She's the 21st richest person in the US. My point is what is the point of the Pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:59 PM
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I wasn't initially attracted to my ex but I didn't find her unappealing either. If you asked me I would have said she was cute. It was only after being friends with her for a few years that I developed a huge crush on her. Whereas I fucked a girl I found unappealing a few times and it was not pleasant, and it was not going to get pleasant in the short term. I don't understand how you can build a relationship out of something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 04:32 AM
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Okay, so should men be just as wary? If I'm just a normal dude who innocently thinks he's on a date and you're an insane psychopathic murderer then you could just as easily kill me - stab the shit out of me when my back is turned, shoot me, poison me, blind me with pepper spray and then bash my head in with a rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 02:13 AM
0

like 200 a year? My gut says no fucking way it's even close to that. I'm thinking <10 if we're talking US, possibly 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 02:11 AM
3

By who? Women? I don’t think so. So? They're still more likely to be murdered but you never hear them complaining about how scared of being murdered they are or this terrible burden they carry because of it. Has a man ever made a claim that since he's more likely to be a victim of a violent crime that he she have more of a say in conversations about policing or crime policy? And women aren't that much more likely to be killed by a partner than men are. Like, I'd ask you to guess based on what yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 02:09 AM
-1

Yeah, like Elliot Rodger who...killed his 3 male roommates, 2 women, and another man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 02:04 AM
2

wealthy, white men are on top Wealthy white men or white men who are in positions of power? Like does Clarence Thomas have less power than a random white dude with a net worth of $6 million (top 1% net worth)? What about when Obama was President or even now? Is he less powerful than a random white dude with $6 million net worth, my uncle for instance (I think he's pretty close to $6 mil), whose main concern is that his neighbor has a jungle gym in his backyard that is an eyesore and violates the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 01:18 AM
5

even worse, the #1 way most women uphold and enforce patriarchy is grooming their male children into patriarchal masculinity (ex: "feeling any kind of vulnerability makes you a weak girly boy") Do you think being able to groom children so they behave a way for the rest of their lives is a position of power?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 10:08 PM
8

only strong men can be emotional in a society that shames men for being emotional Sure, but do the majority of women understand that? And that's not a dig at women's intelligence, just the intelligence of people in general. Like, I think we're well past the point that tattoos represent any sort of counter culture anything. They're trendy as shit. My elderly wine-aunt (she literally has a chair, her chair, that says "wine queen" or something like that if you think that's a sexist term) had one li…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 09:54 PM
1

I know a guy who fits that description to a T.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 05:57 AM
2

maybe it started out meaning that but the majority of users of the word don't mean a literal fanatic
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 03:53 AM
2

Some fandoms are more gatekeepy than others. A lot of metalheads, although the anti-metal elitist circlejerk is equally annoying. Rock climbing used to be super gatekeepy and you still get some oldheads with that attitude. That said, not everyone who asks you your favorite album from such and such a band is testing you. Sometimes they're honestly just interested in having a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 03:51 AM
1

Yeah, and they've had 150 to build their propaganda machine unchecked. 150 years of "maybe this is because I'm a woman" and then enlisting some academic propagandist to come up with theory that explains it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 11:11 PM
1

I feel like part of the responsibility of being in a relationship is being able to accept other people's shortcomings. Just because someone is capable of working themselves up into a tizzy over the fact that the bathroom floor missed a daily scrubbing doesn't mean they should. If it's the type of thing where if you took a dose of mushrooms you would realize it doesn't matter at all then it's also on you to get over it. I say this as someone who has been living with someone with Alzheimer's for l…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 03:56 AM
3

Oh how is it flawed? Because whatever causes one person with those qualities to rape and not another is outside of our control or unknown, so the only way to deal with it is to make sure no one has those qualities. I mean, if you can think of a more finely tuned way of making sure ZERO rapists exist then pretend I'm saying that. You're the one who's trying to eliminate ALL rape. If that's your aim then drastic measures have to be taken. Yes you did. No I didn't. I said if you want to completely …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 03:51 AM
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My point is that it's inevitable that the people you live with will do little shit that annoys you and will have trouble changing even if they want to. It's not a sign that they don't respect you. Therefore, just because someone claims that so and so kept doing or not doing this, so I had no choice but to divorce them may or may not be bullshit. Maybe it was a big deal, maybe they're just making it a big deal so they can feel justified in breaking their marriage vows because some "upgrade" comes…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 02:53 AM
1

You're just forcing my comment into some completely unintended context. I'm not talking about a 12 year old asking his parents to stop telling him to do his homework. I'm talking about common courtesy with regard to very simple requests, where all parties have the other parties' best interest in mind, and things still don't get done because of habit or just lack of attention. I could have used myself as an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 01:39 AM
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at least while you live under their roof/on their dime Who said that was the case? And even if someone is an authority, that doesn't give them carte blanche to behave however they want towards you. You can still have legitimate requests as a subordinate. And you're missing the point by nitpicking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 10:04 PM
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If you believe men and women deserve equal rights, that makes you a feminist. You're free to think I'm a feminist but I disagree. But people are born with psychopathy, antisocial personality disorcer, and "ect" and don't commit rape? So argument invalid... I guess. No it's not. You're reasoning is flawed. I think it's rather cruel to suggest that people with mental disorders, or low IQs are rapists and criminals. I didn't suggest that. As there are numerous surveys of male college students who r…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 09:59 PM
3

Sounds like feminist propaganda. The problem is that feminism, being an institution, has a monopoly on gendered issues. It's a giant international propaganda machine, with the objective of gendering ever possible issue. Inflating the importance of every gender discrepancy. And it operates completely unchecked because there is no equivalent thing for males, and not enough interest among males in general to get it started. To give you an example, just the other day on the news I saw a story about …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 09:36 PM
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Not necessarily, but a society without rape would look like science fiction. There'd have to be some sort of genetic engineering program to ensure no one is born with psychopathy, antisocial personality disorder, etc. Everyone would have to be born into a loving home and raised perfectly. Everyone would have to have all their needs met. Everyone would have to have IQ > 120. And so on. Even then it wouldn't be a guarantee. It's not going to be solved by "durrrr, teach men not to rape!" Like, do y…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 09:23 PM
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How would something be okay when a parent does it but some sort egregious example of a lack of respect, enough to terminate a marriage over, when done to a spouse because of "the dynamic." That makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 09:10 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 09:05 PM
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Feminism is to fixing the "not completely perfect" west as major plastic surgery is to fixing the "not completely perfect" face of Megan Fox.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 09:03 PM
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Because most people are out for their own benefit, have some degree of Machiavellian tendencies, and use everything at their disposal to get ahead. Even 6 year olds are like this. All this "I'm oppressed" shit is just a power play. And, yes, it's a power play when men do it, too. No one shows their true power level.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 08:58 PM
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Misandrist by being spoonfed misandry from our misandrist culture. Misogyny by negative human traits taking on special importance when present in women because they want something from women that they don't want from men. Or by forming stereotypes on the playground in 3rd grade and never updating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 08:53 PM
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Read it a third time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 08:09 PM
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Read it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 08:00 PM
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I’m now with a man who’s never raised his voice at me in the 4 years we’ve been together. Wow, he's such a good person for not growing up with parents who yelled at him every day at the drop of a hat. What a good guy!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:44 PM
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I was with my ex for 10 years. Here's a reddit comment she made a few months before we broke up: https://np.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/vgpfy/relationship_help_im_not_sure_im_giving_her/c54cgwd/ ive been with my boyfriend for about 9 years now and i love him to death. Around the same time she also suggested adding my name to her bank account. I swear to god she was like "We might as well, it's not like we're going to break up" or something along those lines. And then one day that summer …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:42 PM
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Exactly. Because if you spend enough time around another person there will always be some little annoying thing they do. I've asked my parents a million times not to do this or that and they never oblige. It's just the way people are. People also rarely notice when you make a positive change. They'll just switch to harping on something else. And then when you bring up the change, they'll be like "you should have been doing that in the first place!" instead of "wow, this really shows that you car…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:41 PM
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"Femininity" is a worthless concept I don't use. I'm talking about the "men only want..." horseshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:06 PM
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lol you were shut out of engineering school because you never played with legos 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 06:45 AM
4

Comes to debate sub, pretends he's above debating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 03:21 AM
3

Like you can have masculine interests and tastes as long as you’re not too passionate about them and as long as you can still LOOK pretty/feminine. Having "male" interests is completely unrelated to being pretty. I swear people can't help but frame everything in terms that attempt to make men look like shit. Like: "Sure, women like emotional guys, but there's a silent caveat that they still have to be handsome." Yeah, men are attracted to women who look pretty. They're also attracted to women wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 03:18 AM
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That’s the element you’re not acknowledging. Because it's completely made up. "No, you have to acknowledge the qualities of this fictional man I'm describing!"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 03:13 AM
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I'm saying it's not BINGO. It's just some bullshit that dude is making up based on stupid stereotypes about men, stereotypes you probably subscribe to, which make you say BINGO when you hear something that's in agreement with them. Men like cool girls because they like people they can relate to and have fun with. It's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 03:12 AM
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Not necessarily because then that would mean men good, and as we all know men bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 02:57 AM
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bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 02:56 AM
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They don't even claim. They just assume. Like Jane Goodall is a feminist icon. Meanwhile she doesn't give a fuck about feminism and thinks being a woman was an advantage. This is why I'm an anti-feminist. I admire women like Jane Goodall who do their own thing and have a passion for studying chimps instead of whining about muh socialization. People think anti-feminism must mean anti-Jane Goodall and pro-housewife. Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 01:54 AM
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nooooo not the socialization! help, it's in my brain!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 01:07 AM
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not entitled at all? literally just use the definition of value
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 12:53 AM
1

Depends on the context.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 12:50 AM
1

yeah whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 12:44 AM
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My sister is a social worker. She gets paid to do nothing. One day she was actually at the museum with my mom while on the clock (your tax dollars at work). The funny thing is that at her graduation from the school of social work the general vibe was "we know we're not going to make a lot of money but we're not in it for the money." Like 95% of the graduating class were women. Then the guest speaker was a female CEO millionaire and gave a speech on the wage gap. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 12:06 AM
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Gender roles still exist. Yeah, more women in the deadliest jobs, am I right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 12:03 AM
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Thank god. For a moment there I thought you weren't going to get to be offended today.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 11:45 PM
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Of course you think this is right because it confirms all your biases. In actuality, you have no fucking clue.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 11:41 PM
2

All of these things are compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 06:33 PM
19

That's my impression of anyone who would visit Dubai.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 06:20 PM
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Artwork ≠ Playboy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 04:28 PM
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In a hundred years men will get blamed for not letting women have southern accents or build houses, even though the country girl is most men's fantasy woman, a unicorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 04:24 PM
2

Poverty leads to crime? Omg, the poor babes. Maybe we should legalize murder? I don't think I can convict this poor boy for murder. He never had a chance because of the heckin' poverty. Perpetual inability to have a relationship and start a family leads to crime? Lmao, fuck men! DAE men are violent trash? Hopefully they just kill themselves instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 06:45 PM
2

There’s a reason so many women notice that women who play coy are treated more favorably by men. Because attractive women are more likely to engage in this behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 11:50 PM
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Most of the time this doesn't happen to most guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 11:48 PM
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be attractive. don't be unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 07:43 PM
1

I don't "think" the study is bogus. The study is bogus. And how am I cherry picking data points?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:47 PM
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Well the study admitted that they mistakenly counted couples who left the study as divorced, so the whole thing was bogus. But as far as misinterpreting the data, that thing you link says "men leave" whereas the original study never gave a reason for the divorce (considering the divorces didn't even happen).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:38 PM
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Yeah, or like recently someone claimed that men leave their sick wives 6X more often than women leave their sick husbands when the study actually showed that marriages where a woman gets sick have a 6% higher divorce rate than marriages where neither partner gets sick (sick being cancer). The study was bunk anyway, but even if it hadn't been it didn't show what the person thought it showed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 07:53 AM
2

I can't tell who you're saying is victorious in what war. I'm just explaining why "the wall" is a thing for women and not really for men. There are some men who hit the wall, but most men never get enough speed going to make a spectacular crash when they hit it. It also has a lot to do with male psychology.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:02 AM
3

Maybe, but this was like 10+ years ago, probably close to the sub's inception. Seemed like it always went hand in hand with dating strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 02:49 AM
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really? because the only time I've ever heard that term was in r/theredpill, many times too not saying PUA doesn't use it but I have PUA friends (all terrible with women) and I've never heard them say it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 02:25 AM
2

Sure, but in reality women would fail to see his worth. Women hate short men, balding men, loners, brooding men. They like tall, outgoing, fun, happy-go-lucky men with full heads of hair like Yamcha. It's only when you explicitly tell them "this guy is a main character" that they become interested. Otherwise they don't give a shit about your quest to go SS4. Not all women obviously, but women as a phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 10:02 PM
1

you're lowballing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 09:45 PM
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Because it's written by a blue pilled man. Yamcha is taller with a better hairline and more NT than Vegeta.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 09:39 PM
2

They'll virtue signal and say Vegeta.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 09:35 PM
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Absolutely. She's adorable and seems to have a good sense of humor. Brian is a fucking dweeb.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 05:36 PM
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I never met either of my grandfathers because of the life expectancy gap, probably caused by the stress of having to support a family financially without getting to be present in the family.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 05:33 PM
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🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 03:00 AM
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The difference is young attractive women go from being goddesses to being normal people. Most men just go from being normal people to being uglier/older normal people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 02:58 AM
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But you're stipulating that we're not attracted to the person in the OP. You can't specify "you're not attracted to this person" and then say "oh, also this is 80% of women therefore you're not attracted to 80% of women." In reality, the woman you describe might be only 25% of the population of women my age. Also, when men say women aren't attracted to 80% of men they're not including 90 year old men. They're saying that women aren't attracted to 80% of normal, young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:51 PM
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For me 4/10 is defined as someone I find slightly off-putting aesthetically, so I'd probably pass on the "most loving" and go for a 6 who is still loving, just not the most loving.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:44 PM
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The post is just a link to something that doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:38 PM
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Looks and all else being equal, if a woman had to choose between the high-inhib, diffident, introverted, pedantic, unintuitive, passive, socially awkward, and neurotic asshole vs. the outgoing, intuitive, charismatic, socially attuned, perceptive, and playful asshole, who do you think she’s going for? Yeah, I wonder which of these caricatures she's going for...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 05:38 PM
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But nearly everyone prefers fresh food. Everyone prefers music sung by people who can stay in tune. It's not that the 6'2 guy is rap and the 5'6 guy is rock. It's that the 6'2 guy is Tupac and Led Zeppelin is another 6'2 guy. The 5'6 guy is some youtube cover with 26 views or a piece of moldy bread.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 07:42 PM
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In my family my dad did everything, including work full time, and my mom freaked out and cursed the universe because she had to make a fruit salad once a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 12:14 AM
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Just become enlightened buddha, my dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 07:00 PM
1

buy $5000 of coke on the darknet
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 06:56 PM
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if it looked good
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 03:51 AM
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Attractive people can have unattractive kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 03:32 AM
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You didn't just immediately catch the counter-argument and took it as 100% truth, right? It wasn't a counter argument. They made a coding error that counted couples who dropped out of the study as divorces, which fucked the whole thing. The team that did the original study admitted the error and retracted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 02:18 AM
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when researchers at Bowling Green State tried to replicate the study results, they discovered the results were skewed by a mistake in the data, which counted people who left the study as divorces. Not only that but it was 6% more likely to get divorced when women get ill than when there's no illness, not "men leave 6X more." And also it didn't state why the divorces happen. Maybe getting ill makes women question their life choices and they're the ones to leave? In conclusion, you'll have to find…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 12:34 AM
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Have you ever met a man who does everything his wife wants, works, pays all of the bills, taking his chores seriously, is a great father for the kids deeply included in parenting, provides great emotional support, takes everything on his shoulders when wife gets sick, and gives her amazing orgasms every time in bed with no fault ever? Yes, so many of them. The average guy in a relationship is a pussy whipped doormat. Why? Because he's easily replaceable. There's probably guys waiting in the wing…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 12:16 AM
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While he bangs escorts lmao Those poor POC and trans perma girlfriends who men only date so they can clean his house while he jacks off to OF. It's an epidemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 12:16 AM
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I just say something like "You wanna go?" I mean, this doesn't happen with any regularity to me, but when it does, it doesn't require any special effort on my part in terms of being witty or bold or anything like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 12:02 AM
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You just have to meet women who are DTF.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 03:53 AM
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No, I'm saying that the Industrial Revolution etc lead to a situation where the previously male role became desirable enough to be considered a "right."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 12:32 AM
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"Wow, I sure do hate women!" -me, when I'm out on a date with a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 10:34 PM
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Thanks to Queen Victoria. Fuck the matriarchy, am I right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 10:19 PM
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Single men and women are about equally likely to spend money on frivolous shit. How is that relevant? So you think there was some sort of female conspiracy to wait until all the hard work was over before collectively deciding that now was the time we could go out and party? Not an explicit conspiracy, but yeah. Kind of like a fish growing to the size of its tank. After the industrial revolution, modern medicine, dish washers, washing machines, cars, fashion houses, accessible higher education, …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 07:48 PM
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He's attractive too, and probably tall. Imagine what it's like for actual genetic trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 03:59 PM
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he mogs your boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 03:59 PM
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