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for women, that is not vague. that’s a really strong sign of interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 02:22 AM
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my husband and i have 3 bathrooms but still share the one connected to our bedroom 😂 i guess it helps that we use the same stuff and it cuts down on cleaning though...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 04:17 PM
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i don’t think it’s wrong for people to decide this is for them or is important for them... but for others, the name change is as much an accessory as the ring, compared to actually going through with the wedding. the name change isn’t what makes you married any more than the ring is, and it’s certainly no guarantee of loyalty (nor do i think it is the ultimate way of expressing it). symbolism or not, those things come from somewhere else entirely. it doesn’t mean the same thing to every couple o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 12:52 PM
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no, i've seen some of them advocate for marrying and starting a family young. i agree that it is ill-advised.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 04:50 PM
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i know men here are gunning to see everything women do as horrible and dishonest, but the rest of us recognize that it likely wasn't anything so malicious or underhanded, especially since she's otherwise described as being pretty great. based on this comment alone i do not anticipate you'll be willing to see it as anything other than her being a liar liar pants on fire, though, and it would be a waste of my time to try. so, leaving you to it. happy thursday ✌
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 08:27 PM
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i’m not offended, and that doesn’t even make sense; there’s no part of this i could even be personally offended by. i just don’t understand it, or rather, cannot relate to being drawn into seeking out relationship problems and unnecessary advice that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 07:55 PM
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it sounds like you were just looking for problems and things to be unhappy about, but sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 06:53 PM
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6 months later I was bulked a bit and the wife responded with a massive increase in initiating sex. She'd always told me she just wanted me to be lean. Went looking on the internet, found marriedredpill, didn't like it but saw a dude with a similar enough story that I asked him about it. He gave me some of the sidebar stuff to read, which I did. Despite not buying everything there is enough hard truths in there which pretty much shattered my view of my marriage. ... so you improved yourself, saw…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 04:30 PM
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never called myself purple pill but in my late teens/early 20s there was a brief period of time (1-2 years) where i thought men were mostly shit. i got over it by not dating, focusing on me and the non-dating things i enjoyed. i eventually healed and returned to reality through that, with perhaps a little more apprehension but as little negativity as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 04:05 PM
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perhaps so. changes nothing about what i said, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 12:02 AM
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can we talk about how men and women carry fat and lose weight differently though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 08:45 PM
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no, i'm saying that this doesn't remotely apply to only fat people and is a feeble attempt at giving the impression that the distaste for fat people is about anything but petty cruelty.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 06:02 PM
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you can definitely end up with a disorder or disability through a series of your own choices. like war veterans, or all those dangerous jobs the men here keep waving in everyone's face as an achievement even though they've only seen oil rigs and coal mines in photographs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 05:51 PM
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neither can people with disabilities, or life-threatening illnesses, or or or
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 04:57 PM
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no. not the "i just want you to stop being a dickhead" kind, or the "nothing will convince me that i'm unhealthy" kind. the latter may eventually become less popular (as i think it should), but not the former because, as stated elsewhere: overweight people (like 60% of Americans btw) will continue to want to be treated like human beings for the forseeable future.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 04:41 PM
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I thought TBP advice was entirely "just kill yourself if you aren't normal/successful" if you're going to approach a group asking for their help, characterizing them this way is incredibly unwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 01:52 PM
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👆 this is the opposite of chill and un-offended.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 02:44 AM
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but you’ve posted so many comments in this thread 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 12:47 AM
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i used to be a mod, and those were my observations of the reports and things 🤷‍♀️ some people hold that opinion anyway, but it was true as far as i saw.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 07:47 PM
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most of this is because mods work from a queue of reports, and RPers tend not to report stuff. it’s true that mods can’t be everywhere, all the time, which is why reporting is typically encouraged (but not now, i guess).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 07:34 PM
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we need to just institute Slut Tell Fridays 🎉🎉🎉 there’s always some new bizarre thing someone brings to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 11:05 PM
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i feel like this is an alt of that other person who is constantly asking questions in a similar fashion. i mean, this one is friendly and not an argumentative brat so there's that, but, still...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 10:01 PM
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i mean, at least one of them probably has to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 11:46 PM
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probably more than 10x a week, speaking generally? but ultimately up to the couple of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 09:35 PM
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my guess would be that the openness is what takes that pressure/ego-dealing-with away, but i am speaking as a total outsider so that may not be it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 07:26 PM
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fun but unremarkable. personality is a part of what makes someone attraction, and what does the 8/10 guy here have to offer me that a magazine underwear ad doesn’t? i don’t go gaga over those, don’t know why i’d care about this guy then.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 12:44 PM
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healthier seems arguable; you could do just as well by paying attention to what you eat, but i'm sure it is cheaper to cook for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 09:47 PM
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i hope that this is just some weirdo manospherian making shit up for kicks. a person being in this kind of relationship is too sad to think about, much less that a kid will be coming into the picture and absorbing, learning from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 09:19 PM
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w-whoa, just read this... :(
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 09:13 PM
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i'm guessing the latter. i can cook some basics and i wouldn't die if left unattended in a kitchen with raw ingredients, but i'm not making a magazine-cover worthy meal anytime soon (so i often still just say that i can't cook).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 08:21 PM
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It is not men who are divorcing at a higher rate but women, who initiate the vast majority of divorces. if women are divorcing unfaithful husbands (which i recall being one of the leading causes) then it's silly to hold this up as a sign of women being bored or showing a low level of fidelity to their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 08:12 PM
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Do you then agree that emotional fulfillment and sexual fulfillment are just as important i don't think either are a justification for cheating, but yes, i think they are equally important for both people and being deprived of it can be a very negative experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 07:43 PM
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phenomenom
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 07:36 PM
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that's my general MO. making sure single moms are served justice because they're the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 03:25 PM
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he’s not worth talking to; just look at his flair. i actually thought he was banned but for some reason old trolls are being given a pass to come back and do whatever they want. not unconvinced that this mod team isn’t just giving up and letting the sub have a slow and agonizing death this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 11:44 AM
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I can't remember the last time I was bored, and I drove 12 hours through west Texas last weekend. i love this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 10:03 PM
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relatively relatively relatively
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 04:43 PM
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please leave me alone. on all of your accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 04:34 PM
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Having sex once would push him over the “virgin” line and into the “relatively inexperienced” zone. no, that's still very inexperienced, and puts the guy closer to "virgin" than "relatively inexperienced" in terms of what is or isn't concerning. to me, relatively inexperienced means having had a regular partner or two, not "did it once, now experienced".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 04:24 PM
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speaking as if i were hypothetically single... relatively inexperienced would probably be okay, virgin, much less so. that usually points to serious religion or more serious problems, especially this late in life, but if he was just relatively inexperienced i'd be okay with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 02:52 PM
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another damn shooting :(
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 09:57 PM
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aren't there subs designated for anti-immigration folks to scratch this itch?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 08:47 PM
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i mean... a non-immigrant, seemingly normal man also strangled his pregnant wife and possibly (last i read) murdered his two daughters and yet it’s the murder of Mollie Tibbets that has everyone speaking out because it’s helpful to their agenda...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 06:24 PM
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yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 02:19 PM
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no, women are not capable of expressing themselves in the bedroom and are never responsible for anything ever ever ever that's exactly what i said and you know what, fuck feminism too. there, now go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 08:26 PM
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this negates nothing in my previous comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 07:47 PM
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That's what TBP does every waking moment of every day. i don’t care about TBP and most blue-flairs here don’t even have anything to do with the sub. not talking about that, so don’t bother mentioning it again. I'm looking at my reality great! so if you recognize that you have a reality, it follows that others have their own realities and experiences rather than being filthy filthy liars out to trick you. I and many others like me get fuck all. oh... so that’s what this is all about. I'm not igno…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 07:42 PM
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selectively believing what women say but only when it confirms his pre-existing beliefs
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 07:37 PM
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you don’t need to come here just to ignore reality in favor of your own beliefs. go right ahead, do it all on your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 07:12 PM
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Yet bagged bought Melania Trump
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 07:07 PM
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please make a separate thread about feminism if that’s what you want to rant about. this has nothing to do with my comment. if you think it does, read again, more carefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 06:27 PM
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if you recognize that it’s a Q4BP i’m not sure why you’d even need to post this. obviously most non-reds are not going to find a TRPer’s ideal of masculinity attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 05:48 PM
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I just want to hear straight from you if being dominant, strong, and exuding raw sex appeal are bad or 'toxic'. i don’t think these things are inherently bad or toxic, though these things and ‘toxic’ are not mutually exclusive. Can a man be attractive to women without exuding traits of 'toxic masculinity'? If so, how? by the nature of attraction varying from person to person and culture to culture, some can do it just by existing as they are and happening to appeal to a certain type of woman. be…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 05:14 PM
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Initiate. Take her clothes off. Telling her what to do. Pinning her arms above her head. Manhandling her when changing positions. Basically the guy is deciding on when and what is happening and the woman just plays along happily. can't relate :/ i am not much a fan of any of this. he does have input into what is going on and what feels best to him (which, to the best of my ability, i do) but no ordering around or manhandling... no thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 04:26 PM
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i mean... that does suck, but it’s probably the best possible outcome in this situation if you don’t actually know if you’re being asked to stop or not. not necessarily you, but many men here don’t seem to get or acknowledge that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 01:58 PM
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Funny how its all women commenting here lmao. even those that are Team Woman are not as gung-ho as the members of Team Man. that's probably why at least some men are hesitant to speak up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 04:55 AM
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the occasional cattiness and competition. i don't think it's unique to women in general, but this form of it really stinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 02:11 AM
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taking this opportunity to brag on my 100000% perfect and flawless husband for taking such good care of me today while i'm not feeling well. even making food for me, watching dumb tv with me, and bringing me all the junk food i know i'm not supposed to have and never let myself get. he's the best 🌟🌟🌟
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 01:00 AM
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in a thread about wild moodiness, no less.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 07:53 PM
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MRP tells men to stop being afraid of her mood swings and when she's acting like a total bitch to remove yourself and go do something you want to do. neutrally removing yourself probably is best. i think that’s a good rule of thumb when anyone, man or woman, is feeling and expressing strong negative emotions. it doesn’t hurt to remember that it is at least partially not an effect she can control, meaning it isn’t a 100% excuse to do whatever, but some crankiness and difficulty is to be expected.…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 04:13 PM
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Mockery implies not caring. no, indifference and inaction implies not caring.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 02:04 PM
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this still doesn't sound like the dinner party type. would not invite.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 03:24 AM
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i didn’t even finish the first section before being able to deem this to be a long long post of nonsense. no one has to agree with you and they aren’t wrong if they don’t. if you have an opinion and you want to stick to it, just do that and stop begging for approval.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 12:31 AM
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it is interesting, though, since quite a few people here claim that women cheating/reactions to women cheating are based in a man's fear that she could get pregnant with another man's child. there's no real way of that happening with just thoughts, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 04:42 PM
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same; he is lucky, and not aging poorly. unrelated but also not aging poorly (as i found after seeing 311 live recently): nick hexum (48). it's these kinds of guys that i imagine men here talk about when they think about being old and attracting really young women (but they're exceptions, so...)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 04:31 PM
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maybe we're just optimists, and/or not swayed from our passions by money. if someone cared enough about money to complain about an earnings gap, though, i doubt most would be in the same camp that didn't chase after the more lucrative major.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 02:22 PM
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yes! to all of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 12:41 PM
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obviously the men who stayed didn’t take it that seriously or feel that they had much to lose by doing so. it’s not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 12:40 AM
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you are free to blame the men if you wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 11:44 PM
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interestingly enough, still no attacks from women here. men and women are different, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 09:57 PM
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nah, if you have anger over it, seems fair to direct it at her. she’s the one who set this whole thing up and wasted the time of those taking it seriously, after all. it’s a little weird to feel more than a passing irritation over, though. it sounds like these were first dates, unless i missed something, and more anger = more investment (which does start getting weird). it is interesting that some of the men took it in stride and appear to have had a sense of humor about it; gotta say, those guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 09:10 PM
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it's a yes or no question; they don't have to go into much detail if they don't want to. hell, they don't have to answer at all if they don't want to/the answer is too personal for them. in fact, i would advise them to keep something that personal, personal; sharing it in any public forum immediately opens it up for potential criticism, so don't share if you aren't ready for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 08:33 PM
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However I wouldn't mind her anonymously sharing how we've worked on and improved our relationship. ... except the women who do share this genuinely and honestly get treated horribly by quite a few men here who just have an axe to grind about women and want to take out their anger on everything and anything they can. this place is wildly hostile to that kind of discussion, and women that come here learn that pretty quick and then don't open themselves up to it anymore. it's not dishonest, they ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 06:34 PM
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oh boy, this should be fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 05:39 PM
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i don’t think they’ll be satisfied until there’s a public execution.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 11:50 AM
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i'm not sure who you were waiting on a reply from while typing this, but just an FYI, no one can actually see or reply to things you say until you post them... outwardly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 11:00 PM
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in this situation, i’d try to get everyone to calm down in a friendly way and then take a firmer tone if he couldn’t chill. if you would do the same if he was being this much of a dick to a guy in the group, it wouldn’t be white-knighting either; it would just be you trying to get an asshole to knock off hos behavior. personally, it sounds like you’re just saying “w-well she wants this! i’m not a white knight!” to excuse yourself for doing nothing. stop letting the manosphere dictate your every …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 12:13 PM
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cleaning up your own messes, for one, whether it's a food/dish mess or a something-dragged-in-from-outside mess. i manage most of the cleaning and tidying of the house, but i do expect a hand with it on occasion if he's able. put your clothes in the hamper, don't leave wet towels on the floor, don't leave socks strewn about, and so on. basics.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/18 01:00 AM
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Women of PPD, do you find yourselves unrealistically holding your SO to a your standards? And if so, do you think that is healthy? i don't, and i don't think it's healthy to do so, but i'm sure we have differing opinions on what is or isn't realistic. some of the things that men here have thrown tantrums about doing are very basic, minor parts of living as an adult that i would expect from anyone (especially someone i am sharing a living space with).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/18 12:55 AM
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you evidently do not understand Japanese. please stop replying to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/18 12:39 AM
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i’m always partial to ごめんください。”i’m sorry please” sounds exactly like something i’d say in English, haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 04:52 PM
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i used to ride horses when i was a child, and i do miss it... i’m sure i have lost the muscles i built from it so that will be... interesting, haha. but maybe someday :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 04:47 PM
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so cute! horses are amazing; i wish i could have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 02:24 PM
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hepped up 💕
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 04:30 AM
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why why why do men here keep holding fictional romance novels up as an example of what women want and expect IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 04:19 AM
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Thanks for answering. So you would not enjoy it if your boyfriend decided to deliberately inflict pain on to you even if it was minor? Like say an ice cube on your stomach, leading quickly down i guess if it was quick and he really wanted to, okay? if it results in more than minor discomfort, it's just going to be a turn-off though, and not even in a way i can control. Or is that where you are putting the 2-3 scale? i don't know how else to explain where i was rating things on that scale. i don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 03:53 AM
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only to the most minute degree, to where it's probably that i just enjoy everything else going on so much that i'm fine with ignoring the occasional, unintentional pain. on the 1-10 scale, probably at a 2 or 3. if i am in so much pain i can't continue then it's nice if he apologizes and allows me to quickly move and alleviate the pain, but most of the time it's not sustained or that severe.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 03:25 AM
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or you could just break up and find someone you have similar goals with (in other words, someone you won't cause terrible anguish and live out a miserable future with).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 08:46 PM
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I take from your use of "there" that you've never breathed Japanese air. i have been there. i don't live there and i am not there currently, so it is "there" to me. i recommend getting better at making assumptions, or just giving up on it entirely. And OP's comment was not about the culture in general but specific greetings. It was a laughable comment to me as someone who speaks Japanese at home. if you're familiar with any of the phrases i used, i don't know why that would be laughable to you. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 06:57 PM
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i'm admittedly not familiar with a first-time introduction phrase that literally and explicitly translates to an apology; the closest i can think of is よろしくお願いします (which, for everyone else, translates pretty close to "asking the person you're meeting to please be kind and patient with you"). i don't think they're incorrect in saying that there is sort of an apology or humility culture there, though, or that there are common greetings based around that (similar to the "excuse me" and "i'm sorry t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 06:24 PM
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えーと、すみません、お邪魔をしますが。。。 そうです。 (笑) as an aside i'm actually kind of glad the language/culture is that way... because i'm normally like that so fitting it in is easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 05:53 PM
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talking, embracing one another, cuddling or kissing. sex without this would be quite strange, even if you're sleep-deprived. nothing she said indicates this is what she meant, so that the sex would exclude these things is solely your interpretation; no one else said or probably even thought that. it is going to be different because everything in general is going to be different after having a kid, but it doesn't automatically turn into this super horrible thing (so long as both parties are still…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 05:25 PM
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men and women alike think cheaters (men and women) are weak; this is not just something that women think about men. but, you did get the answer you wanted, the one that most comforted you and fed into your pre-existing beliefs, so there's probably nothing further to discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 05:10 PM
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asking just because you know you'll get the answer you want to hear... :/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 04:47 PM
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I didn't say you should never have sex, I said you should be prepared not to because you have no idea how your wife is going to take to pregnancy. fwiw, this is pretty much what i assumed you meant by that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 04:26 PM
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replying under AutoMod since i'm a non-parent. What is a normal or expected disruption to your sex life after having kids and how long should it last for? i would imagine... at least a year? 6 months minimum? "disruption" doesn't mean it evaporates entirely, but infants are a lot of work (at all hours), and there's going to be a healing/recovery period for the mother as well. Do men expect too much sex from their wives too soon or leave their wives overburdened and too exhausted to want sex? Do …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 04:10 PM
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an obscure podcast is a silly example to use for society at large. i think it's an interesting question, but your OP does seem like you're basing your views on things you've sought out to specifically think this way or feed this thinking, and/or obscure media.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 03:30 PM
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probably weaker. as a contrast to the examples above... i don't think a man driving a car through a crowd of protesters or mowing down a kindergarten is particularly emotionally or mentally strong either. while those are individual and extreme examples, there are many more men that possess at least a fraction of that same lack of emotional and mental strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 02:22 PM
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Men think young women are having an incredible amount of sex – 22 times a month in Britain, and 23 times a month in the US. These guesses would be the equivalent of the average young woman having sex every weekday, plus two or three times on one special day each month. In reality, it’s around five times. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 03:20 PM
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not necessarily. first and foremost... it would not be the best relationship for someone who doesn't want that, and not all do. second, since you said relationship... actual relationships are a lot of work, work that a man might not want to take on. third... maintaining it open on only one side is a risky dream. even if it is agreed upon at one point, that may change, with or without the man's knowledge (because people are people, and he doesn't seem to be doing anything to meet her needs, while…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 03:50 PM
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so now it is a personal attack to criticize a general group of people? if so, this should get really interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 03:12 PM
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if this is your great counter-response... please just go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 01:17 PM
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Alright, I’ll bite. you don't need to; this isn't something i'm putting forth to be challenged or "bitten", it's what happens here, and it already did.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 01:03 PM
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great, maybe OP can go throw this article in their faces instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 01:00 PM
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i know; i read the article, i am in agreement with her receiving punishment, though i think she should have just been fired for her behavior. when that happens to a man, though, the men and manospherians act like he’s been sentenced to public execution and talk about how unfair it all is for anyone to even investigate because of ~injustice~. i expect that act will be dropped this time now that a woman is the target, though. i mean, just look. her suspension is being called a vacation while Chris…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 12:41 PM
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i know; i read the article. when that happens to a man, though, the men and manospherians act like he’s been sentenced to public execution and talk about how unfair it all is for anyone to even investigate because of ~injustice~. i expect that act will be dropped this time now that a woman is the target, though. i mean, just look. her suspension is being called a vacation while Chris Hardwick’s suspension was the crime of the century.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 12:40 PM
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🤷‍♀️ you guys are transparent and predictable. don’t like it? don’t be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 12:00 PM
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well, she sounds gross, and it sounds like she should receive punishment for her behavior regardless; even if they somehow prove that he was truly interested and encouraging it (which doesn’t sound super likely from the article), it was inappropriate either way. i do look forward to reactions from the Team Man-ers that bleat on about how their outrage is about wanting justice in all cases like this and not just that they’re upset that a man is the target, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 11:49 AM
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but then he can't call us fat :(
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 03:11 AM
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FYI it looks really, really bad when the only kind of response you can formulate is “oh yeah?! w-well, you’re fat! hah!”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 01:19 AM
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it’s amazing, the way that men here jump at the chance to express their astounding lack of knowledge about the female body again and again (and again, and again, and...).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 06:33 PM
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this doesn't mean anything. i'm not knocking NFG, i was a fan, but... no, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 12:15 AM
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i won't, because there's no point. they want to believe the worst, they cling desperately to those ideas. it is so self-comforting that they cannot function otherwise. conveniently, however, it keeps them away from me and anyone like me (so, friends), and no bad can come of that. i don't waste my time arguing a silly opinion, they don't bother me or my friends. win win.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/18 09:50 PM
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no, just pointing out what she actually said and meant in this instance, since it was clearly misunderstood.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/18 01:01 PM
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Lol where you a part of your towns punk/hardcore scene? fights with chads at new found glory ...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/18 12:35 PM
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i don’t know, i don’t watch her every move. i just think it’s stupid for men here to get offended that she ignored a childish man doing his best to pressure her into a situation where he would just make a fool of her for entertainment, as opposed to legitimate debate or journalism. i know that if their favorite alt-right hero turned down someone with the same motives, it would be enthusiastically celebrated, instead of being treated like it’s practically a crime. pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 11:06 PM
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why do that when you can just debate someone with legitimate interest in debate who already picks a neutral environment and neutral moderator? she can’t say yes to every request, and she decided Shapiro’s wasn’t worth her time which she is 100% allowed to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 10:30 PM
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first tattoo in two years: gotten. happy, survived, but damn i forgot how much the process can suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 07:05 PM
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really, what a downer thread for a friday. haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 08:38 PM
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yeah, in some ways i wished i had considered that more when i was younger. i mean, i'm not sad about it now, because it's been a great 10 years, but, i am in no rush to reach that end.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 08:18 PM
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i generally hate the likelihood that we won't die at the same time, but (as weird as some of this wording sounds) i am relieved that i will probably outlive him, and that he will not be left alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 07:05 PM
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she didn't accuse him of catcalling, she compared being expected to respond to his request for a debate to women being expected to respond (politely) to catcallers. if she didn't reply to his request, she obviously wasn't interested, just like women who ignore catcallers are not interested and do not need to be hounded for a reply. she also rightfully called him out on his motives; he made the request publicly to increase pressure on her to respond, and it's pretty clear he was only inviting her…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 03:36 PM
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i don't think they're saying feeling that way makes her racist; they're saying that she feels that way because she is racist (though of course, they are free to clarify it themselves). i have no reason to defend or argue against that, but it's not exactly something she's been bashful or secretive about so it's not even really an insult, to the target.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 08:54 PM
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i wish i was not
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 08:33 PM
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i saw a headline last night saying that the CDC is also asking people not to wash and reuse condoms 😭 what is happening
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 08:00 PM
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it reminds me of the moral exception/allowance for abortion if it is the result of rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 07:01 PM
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can't watch the video, so just basing this on the info in the OP. Are there good reasons to date a single mother, excluding widows? What benefits does it provide a man that it couldn't provide if he just dated a single childless woman? probably no additional benefits, unless he wants kids and is too old to partner up with someone childless to have them with. this is ultimately a matter of personal preference, though. the video summary seems to be making a lot of stuff that isn't unique to single…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 06:14 PM
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you can disagree with the effectiveness of Red Pill without invalidating someone's experience. as for actual invalidation: if you see comments that break the rules, you already know to report them, so do it. it helps, sometimes, depending, maybe. at least more than not reporting would. but if it doesn't go your way, i'm sure you also know that i'm not the one you need to complain to (and thankfully). that aside, my point still stands that creating a thread asking women if they cheated, and refus…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 03:36 PM
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that's not what i was saying, but now i am saying that you aren't reading my comments (or you'd be able to repeat back to me what i actually said). continue just complaining, then. it's certainly a very productive solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 03:25 PM
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disagreement and invalidation are not the same thing. if you see comments that break the rules, you already know to report them, so do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 03:20 PM
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agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 01:43 PM
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i don’t think much about these numbers at all, though i did mention in the other thread that i think paternity fraud is awful (and i do). i will look at the articles when i... feel like it, and less sick, but the subject of simply unknown paternity that ATastefulNude brought up is interesting and i wonder how it factors in.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 11:06 PM
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it was hard to pick just one, honestly. and all of their music is so sexy T_T haha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 05:46 PM
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hm, trying to think of a few and they may not all qualify as love songs to other people, but... uncalm - 311 alive with the glory of love - say anything here is the house - depeche mode there are probably some sad love songs i loved in darker times but i don't often listen to those anymore. haha. if i think of any more, i will edit them in.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 05:40 PM
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i haven't watched the show, but at least visually, not attractive to me. based on your description of him, i can't imagine that changing, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 02:24 PM
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stop showing this to her as a lifestyle you endorse and approve of if you don’t and keep your family/family home out of your sex life because it’s gross and weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 12:35 PM
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np np
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 03:14 AM
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well, part of this is pretty deeply ingrained because of her upbringing, so you may never get the full amount of contact that you want. you may have to just accept that as part of that ‘for worse’ thing; the difference is honestly probably a struggle for both of you to deal with, anyway. there’s no guarantee that she’ll change and you can’t make her any more than she can make you. but, a few things to think about: I have to state expectations that she will call every so often when she travels. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 02:50 AM
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same, but that defeats the purpose of this post. i actually think it would be an interesting and productive discussion that i’d enjoy reading or even taking part in, but it can’t be had here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 12:16 AM
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just a warning to anyone thinking of sharing: you’re probably going to be berated and doubted, if not outright ridiculed... and no one will do anything about it. so i wouldn’t, if you’re not ready for that or wanting to deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 12:04 AM
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just like removing comments here is not censorship, removing him from those platforms was not censorship; it's those platforms enforcing the Terms that he agree to abide by and repeatedly did not. he's free to still post on a dozen other sites, and even his own website, and no doubt the fanatics will follow him there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 08:58 PM
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🎉🎉🎉
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 08:24 PM
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to be clear, i meant that i see mostly women being willing to shoulder their part of the blame or responsibility for something, vs. quite a few of the men here, who will do whatever they can not to be responsible for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 03:37 PM
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one of the primary differences seems to be the willingness to blame yourself vs. blame others (and perhaps not surprisingly, i see that most often expressed by women here). i would mostly attribute that you upbringing and social circle in youth, but if you don't grow out of it... well, that's on you. and yes, "ugh, i'm so dumb for being so great to those no-good women, shoulda known they wouldn't recognize a great guy like me when they saw him" is totally assigning external blame, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 03:32 PM
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why or why not? come on, read sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 02:18 PM
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well, you must. it is a yes or no answer, and one of those must offer you something more than the other or you wouldn’t ask the question at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 03:47 AM
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would it make you happiest if i said yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 03:45 AM
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this is exactly what makes men terrible in bed, though. it would not help either men or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 01:50 AM
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They post links from sites like buzzfeed regularly enough, which I would say is the equivalent of links like the one in the OP, if not worse. Both sides post activism disguised as journalism. i agree about buzzfeed often being of similar quality, but i do not agree that non-reds are posting buzzfeed articles all the time. i’ve been here for at least a few years and that has never been the case. I disagree that they are few and trolls. I don't doubt that some are supremacists and radicals though.…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 08:08 PM
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probably not. hard to imagine this coming off as anything but a downer or really pretentious and annoying. open to examples for evaluation though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 07:54 PM
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it’s rare that non-reds make posts like this, with such obviously questionable content. they may post things you don’t agree with, but that is not the same thing as posting, say, the site linked here or thoughtcatalog garbage as infallible truth. the few non-reds that do post outrageous or questionable things are either obvious trolls or admitted radical/supremacist folks. when they do this, though, it is just as ridiculous, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 07:13 PM
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30 actually does seem different somehow, like being married does but doesn’t. funny, how it’s probably all because society has marked it as ‘grown up’ age. they’ll pry my games and toys and animated shows from my cold dead hands though 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 06:27 PM
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why would he need to post anything disparaging women, and what does that have to do with someone believing over-the-top stories so long as it comforts and serves them to do so? nothing i said is calling for manospherians to disparage men, just to have some common sense and ability to properly evaluate the accuracy of stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 05:41 PM
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no, it’s just apparent that reds/manospherians either will not or cannot call bullshit on things that fit their narrative 100%. clearly “if it seems too good to be true, it is” is not a lesson they’ve fully learned.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 05:23 PM
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i don’t believe it, or there are details missing/downplayed. seems like a super reputable site too. i mean, everyone knows what a fist bump is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 02:22 PM
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doubtful. if he was, he wouldn’t need to do it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 03:23 AM
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HopefulAboutADHD on alt 4838995.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 03:14 AM
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you could just like affogato and solve the problem entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 02:56 AM
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confidence, charm, humor, and generosity. i have since lost the link, but someone long ago did a post on magnanimity that summed it up really well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/18 02:53 AM
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i’m... not nearly as excited for it as i used to be. i feel like i’m mostly going to finish it just to finish it. predictions: !testing spoiler before editing them in!< a) Who will be sitting on the Iron Throne at the end of the last episode. b) Who the new King/Queeen will be married too (because, of course they're going to get married to someone to unify the kingdoms). b) Who is still alive at that point. c) What happens to the Night King. We'll keep a record and look back later to see who was…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 06:13 PM
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maybe. or as OfSpock said, i could just stay single. but even if i did move on and find commitment i wanted from another man, it is still wanting an individual man’s commitment and not the commitment of ‘men’z
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 12:13 PM
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what i came here to say. commitment from 'men' isn't important to me. but commitment from this man is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 02:08 AM
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you wouldn’t have any tattoos if you were trying to look 17 because the minimum age limit is 18 (and even most 18 year olds don’t have money or access needed for tattoos).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 12:44 AM
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if you were referring to me, you are mistaken, but feel free to carry on being so.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 09:52 PM
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You can find an exception to just about anything. they're not wildly rare exceptions though. you are wrong. The fact still remains that people with tattoos are less educted, more likely to abuse drugs, more likely to suffer from mental health problems, and more likely to make bad decisions in life. your only piece of 'evidence' is outdated, and i'm not saying that no tattooed people have those problems, i'm arguing that the relation is not enough to assume that of any given tattooed person. go d…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 08:06 PM
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exhibit 543265 of a fictional tale being completely misunderstood and misrepresented as an argument of/for something.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 07:57 PM
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I saw a guy with a neck tattoo recently. Not sure if you can cover that up or not. this is where the discomfort/effort comes in. you could wear a scarf, or something with a tall collar if you absolutely had to (but the likelihood of that requirement is becoming less and less). even in the most extreme situations, though, there's makeup that you can use to cover tattoos. It's not just company policy that's the problem. Employers generally frown on tattoos for a lot of the same reasons other peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 07:40 PM
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i honestly don't think a single tattoo exists that can't be covered by clothing or makeup. i was thinking scalp, for a second... but no, not even that is un-hideable. you can argue that covering some will be uncomfortable, and i would agree... but i don't think that's ever been disputed and that doesn't outweigh the desire to get a tattoo in certain areas for some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 04:19 PM
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my husband and i started dating when i was very tattooed, not a virgin, and in debt. it’s almost like none of this matters or means what all of you are claiming in order to justify simply not personally liking something.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 02:20 PM
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ugh, now you’re ruined for men, forever. now their chances of a future with you are really blown, what a shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 04:26 AM
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Why is it so many people insist on confusing "preference" for "deal-breaker"? why not choose making them dealbreakers over settling? the former would serve you best; don’t waste your time on things you already know you don’t like. Another thing, preferences are not a way of saying woman not being preferred are bad people either. oh, of course not! who would even think such a thing, and why? my response would not change even if you did say they were horrible, disgusting scum of the earth, though.…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 04:24 AM
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go ahead. i support the initiative to rule out as many types of women as you please, stringently, and based on the most minor of details. please see the last ‘slut tell’ thread for all of the things you should be disqualifying women for. settle for none of them, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 04:09 AM
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i'm sure some women like this exist, i don't know any. most everyone i know liked the things they liked, lived the lifestyles they lived, and then found someone who fit into it and/or enjoyed the same things they did (because at least some compatibility and similarity is good for a lasting relationship).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 09:42 PM
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i used to think the same way, that it needed to look like this movie or that tv show, or just otherwise be this really graceful or great-looking thing... and then i actually started having it, haha. in some ways it's like pinterest vs. pinterest fails (but some of those pinterest fails still don't turn out half bad and even if they don't look that great, if they're still delicious, well... ?) don't get me wrong, it's still pretty great, but there are always going to be awkward moments that you s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 03:56 PM
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yeah, my experience with my husband has been the same, and i see this mirrored in other relationships that are still totally normal and free of problems. it's just how things go.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 03:36 PM
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also adding: people in relationships generally get into a different-yet-comfortable rhythm of things re: bedroom time, after a while. constantly doing something new over years and years of time isn't something most will or can pursue, especially if you already reach the point where you and your partner both know what feels best and choose to just stick with that (it ain't broke, don't fix it). i think this is what is being characterized as "women get frigid as soon as that ring's on their finger…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 02:44 PM
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well of course you have nothing else to say, your most recent responses make it obvious you're not here to do anything but troll. go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 10:55 PM
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it’s not pessimistic just realistic. this world has limits that fantasies don’t, which is why they remain separate. a threesome is not typically the kind of fantasy that anyone talks about because it isn’t ‘fantastic’ in even nearly the same sense; you can easily arrange and carry that out. you don’t need to daydream about it, just go do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 08:42 PM
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she might have meant ‘condone’ instead of ‘condemn’, based on the rest of her comment (but that’s just a maybe).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 04:45 PM
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most people care about more than themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 03:18 AM
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animportant point: i think when (typically red) men here say they would live out their fantasies, they are imagining every aspect and circumstance of the fantasy being pulled into the real world along with it. everyone realizes that is neither possible nor realistic even when talking about fantasies, though, and instead refers to the version of the fantasy that would actually exist in this world. if men did the same, a decent portion of them (if not all) would have something different to say. as…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 11:24 PM
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So with BP, they'll look at MRP or TRP and assume they are the bad guy. it's not assumed, it is observed. either you take part in these communities and their manner of discussion and own/choose not to care about the effects it has on how you are perceived, or you don't. if you join in on discussions celebrating being as willfully selfish as possible, disparaging women in or out of your life, and even celebrating cheating on occasion... well, people are going to think you're a selfish cheating wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 02:40 PM
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then go make a top level comment of your own 👍 i didn't ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 02:08 PM
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it's weird that people are assuming Debbie is frigid and uncaring. even for those who have never experienced it, i thought that things like panic attacks were pretty well understood here, and nothing in the OP suggests she's doing this out of spite or lack of care.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 02:04 PM
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just wait though, i’m sure the extreme ones aren’t awake yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 12:57 PM
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be sad, maybe mad, leave. stay single for a while while i heal. examine the relationship for possible red flags/mistakes on both sides. eventually try dating again. talk through the issues, explain your needs, ask how you can help with hers, if nothing changes eventually (after a while, be understanding if you actually give a shit about her or the relationship), take a break or break up because maybe trying to have a relationship isn’t the best thing for either of you at that time anyway. see a …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 11:49 AM
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yes, it still matters, and stuff like this is why: I also thought I "cured" my depression, but sometimes it strikes back. Probably I will be forced to visit therapists (also my parents and few friends suggested me recently), because I have a lot of bitterness because of being loser during my 20's. it's not a bad thing in general; it's pretty normal human stuff. but it's still baggage, and some people (maybe even a lot of them) will not want to take that on, even if they otherwise like you and ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 12:06 AM
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this is too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 09:26 PM
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cool, so then we can trust that no future strings of comments attacking and berating people in a similar manner will ever be removed 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 05:38 PM
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i've only seen men post it here so that they can argue against it as if anyone else is even bringing it up or arguing the point it makes. men are doing this. stop it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 04:27 PM
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And you’ll never really be a “parent” to him. I would just aim for a friendship. Best of luck. i'm probably not trying for either, honestly; we simply coexist and have vague awareness of the other while rarely interacting, which is how i'd prefer it (because as you said, there's no real bond to be formed there from either side). i tried various forms of support from my side over the nearly 10 years i've been with my husband, but that seems to be the best M.O. after all, haha. but i appreciate th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 02:32 AM
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yeah, it's a bit odd, and in some ways makes me wish it had been a younger child when he and i met. i think that would have been an easier situation, than dealing with someone who's already developed that much into another person. but, not much to be done about that so just trying to carry on as normally as possible 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 02:05 AM
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maybe once every 4-5 months for a weekend. he just turned 17 and has a job/will be off to college soon, so it's not a smaller kid situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 01:49 AM
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i am a second wife. i don’t have any objections to bearing his children, aside from just not wanting kids at all. i don’t think there is necessarily a status difference between first and second wife aside from ex/failed and present. i think if you end up third or fourth that might be kind of bad though, in a “just the next in line” sort of way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 12:54 AM
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last weekend of my 20s coming to a close 🎉🎉🎉 feels weird-ish, especially since i don’t have any major plans but it’s supposed to be a major thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/18 08:36 PM
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it is! they are really long games though... but definitely enjoyable. oh man, so many combos and storylines with Fire Emblem. i agree. fates/conquest were the same way, and you can interact with them more in the Japanese version. haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/18 06:00 PM
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👆👆👆 a friend recommended FF8 to me in middle school, and my eyes opened. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/18 05:27 PM
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i also said yes, thinking of if i somehow became single again, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/18 02:37 PM
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nay to children. but if i ended up single again at this age and/or within the next 5-10 years, maybe. i prefer monogamy but going through this whole thing again... i don’t know that i would. it’s a lot of work. i probably wouldn’t want a gaggle of guys to sleep with but i suppose i might enjoy some to date and spend time with, and sleep with if i so chose.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/18 01:55 PM
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i’m surprised it’s allowed here; it’s oretty circlejerky.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/18 08:10 PM
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what a load. The MeToo movement would have been fine if it remained true to its original goal: a place for real victims (female or MALE) to speak up and raise awareness. it still is. it empowered people to speak up, not just celebrities. Regular victims? who cares now? the people around them do, absolutely. what else did you expect, that anyone speaking out would gain celebrity status? and if you did believe that and it actually happened, do you really think there wouldn’t still be endless bitch…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/18 05:24 PM
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and this is why, at least by appearances, they are becoming fewer and far between 👍 there’s reason to become guarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 11:10 PM
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just start a blog already, good grief
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 06:19 PM
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lol, your flair
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 05:27 PM
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well that sounds sad and terrifying to me. actually, please don’t talk to me anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 12:34 PM
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unease at 5+, more at 10+, 20+ absolutely not. i don’t think it necessarily makes them a bad person or anything like that, but we’re probably not compatible/similar and it does seem gross to me (even though i acknowledge that it isn’t objectively gross).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 11:43 AM
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well, you took that to a degree never mentioned. no reason it can’t be both though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 02:34 AM
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opinions aren’t wrong and that’s what this thread about. go away if it bothers you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 12:59 AM
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oh, boy. okay, well periods don’t work that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 11:15 PM
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i don't really know what this means, but okay. anything is possible, so it's not completely outrageous that a woman who views all of these things as strength or positive exists. if that's not what you meant, though... gonna need some clarification.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 08:50 PM
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i think it was unintentional, but the phrasing makes it sound like gunshot-bleeding-out though. don't get me wrong, i sometimes feel like i'm dying when all that is going on... but not at any risk of bleeding out, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 07:08 PM
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my flair isn't blue, and no one is triggered; this is just a dumb topic/plea that comes up regularly so it is called out as such. you can always go find a thread of Jammerly's if you want to see people triggered though, holy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 01:50 PM
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if you’re older than say, 12, who cares especially if you don’t live with them especially if you are a grown adult make your own decisions and just go forward with them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 12:05 PM
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in addition to the things already said: physical violence towards children, animals, or those physically smaller/weaker than him. be so desperate for sex/sexual contact that he has to beg or force. possess a crippling lack of ambition or ability to develop and achieve life goals like career or general future (but honestly, anyone with this problem is pretty weak to me, man or woman).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 11:44 AM
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who is trying to force you into relationships or marriage who can even change a view that you have no interest in budging on why is this post even a thing, go be single and judge non-singles with as much negativity as you can muster, so what
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 04:03 AM
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i don't understand any of this anymore. it varies by the day (and mod).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 04:22 PM
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lol, now he's accusing someone else of this, using your phrasing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 04:20 PM
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NOT initially blame it on low depressed and anxious T. SOMETHING is going on that isn't 'just life and stuff'. no, it's pretty well known that these things will affect desire and sex drive, even not considering other factors. you can dismiss it if you feel like it, but you'd be wrong. edit: it's also not like these things just result in a dead or just less-alive bedroom and everything else is a fun and happy party; it affects everything and the bedroom simply isn't an exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 02:18 PM
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even so, overanalyzing this minor interaction is a bad plan; my comment above still applies overall. enjoy, don’t obsess. if you were interviewing them in a professional setting and they are potential future colleagues, forget it entirely; not worth the risk and possibly against policies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 01:15 AM
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don’t think at all. it doesn’t sound like you’ll see them again so you’ll never get a real answer, and it doesn’t sound like an encounter that will have a significant bearing in anything (and analyzing to death is just going to be a bad time). if their behavior toward you made you feel good, don’t question it. embrace that, enjoy it, and keep doing what you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 12:44 AM
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exposure to a wider range of people, opportunities, and experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 11:11 PM
1

well played, well played. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 09:16 PM
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oh, i've barely gotten started...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 08:56 PM
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bored redditors? not sure :/ even the pointless questions kill time between emails, though, so i play along...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 08:54 PM
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Is it harder to end things with guy who has you sexually sprung on him or one who has you emotionally
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 08:26 PM
1

this came up on a 90s playlist a few weeks ago and haunted me for days.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 08:26 PM
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assuming these are separate (even though in reality they most likely wouldn't be for me)... i could fairly easily get over a guy who was good in bed but i couldn't stand spending time around. i would have a much harder time getting over a guy who i loved knowing and spending time with but wasn't particularly skilled in the bedroom (so long as that lack of skill didn't lead into the bizarre or harmful, and was just lackluster).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 08:23 PM
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wanting kids AT SOME POINT when it is financially stable and you feel you've reached an appropriate maturity level and its the right situation is not selfish, lazy, or immature. except that's not what you said. not wanting kids EVER is though. as is wanting kids just to want kids and having them at a shitty time, which is totally different than what I was suggesting. that's a whole lotta shifting and moralizing. but alright, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 07:13 PM
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seflishness, laziness, immaturity mindlessly wanting and having kids is an example of the same, though. there are absolutely selfish, lazy, immature parents who ended up that way by 'fulfilling their basic evolutionary desires'. they're often derided in this very sub, and you may even join in or at the very least, share that negative opinion of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 07:03 PM
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it's not like those who do have kids aren't having enough to make childless people any kind of risk or concern 😂 it is inevitable for some people to not want children, so the opposite is having unwilling parents bear and raise children they never wanted and may very well resent. i don't know why anyone thinks that is better just because birth happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 06:45 PM
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lol, you don't decide what red flags are for other people, so yes really. i don't think most people place the level of importance on that requirement as you do, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 06:27 PM
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coincidentally, someone believing that everyone needs to want and have children is also a huge red flag. oops, excuse me, HUUUUUUUUGGGGGGGEEEEEE red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 06:10 PM
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i don't know. do you think i am the maker of that law? i'm sure if you research it you'll be able to find their stated reasoning behind it. i personally think it's disgusting, but obviously the fantasy expressed there is better than the reality. in any case, i think this is a departure from the thread and is not the context/case we were talking about, so exiting here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 05:18 PM
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if you believe this so staunchly, i don't know why you even need this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 05:00 PM
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cosigning this. most of it is just exploring and playing around as kids do anyway, nothing too serious. my nephew used to play with both makeup and monster trucks in one babysitting session when he was little. but even if it did become something more serious after a time... trying to force him out of it or treating him, myself, like he was something weird or embarrassing would just crush the kid, on top of just being cruel. guide, don't control.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 04:35 PM
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probably: one of those is a lifestyle, the norm for them, while the other is a serious departure/break from a person's personality into something that they would normally deem negative (in other words, a sign of trouble).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 04:33 PM
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i wear jeans often, so sometimes they get quite unkempt... he thinks the 'fuzz' is funny, which makes sense as it is relatively soft anyway. shaving legs should not be deception to, or even inspire disgust in, any man who is aware that he is dating an adult human woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 04:32 PM
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my grandmother ran a hair salon built onto her home so she had a steady stream of friends and people to keep in touch with... BUT, even on her days off, she was always talking to someone or seeing them at the store, etc. etc. yes, she had a family, but she was more frequently in touch with people outside of it so it is absolutely possible for all but the least social types (who wouldn't want that anyway, making their ability irrelevant). not sure about the retirement thing though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 03:47 PM
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i miss when people actually read things. i do not have the patience to be more polite than: good for you, but this is irrelevant so please continue elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 02:38 PM
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as real as vaginismus.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 02:16 PM
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if you're retired and/or just run your own schedule, probably not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 01:44 PM
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red pillers won't want to plate us, the horror.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 01:39 PM
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do you determine whether a response or discussion is honest based on how much the person addressing you agrees with you, or says things you agree with? you're not alone, lots of people in this sub do that, but... it seems like you are One Of Them, and that's... well, terrible, mostly for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 01:27 PM
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Also we all really love talking about our celebrity crushes. Those topics are when ppd is at it's most pure and honest. it really is the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 01:26 PM
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like this. or this. or maybe even like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 01:02 PM
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... but that’s the point. those fantasies do not exist in reality, for men or women. it doesn’t matter how hard you wish for it to be true, the reality of those fantasies are vastly different. most people know this which is why they stay separate (not to mention some fantasies are just literally impossible to orchestrate, even if this weren’t true).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 12:36 PM
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i did say ‘a good portion’; i know it doesn’t apply to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 12:32 PM
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a good portion are in early to mid twenties; most probably falling in the early twenties to thirty range.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 02:51 AM
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i don’t remember and there are some older sub members on both sides so i edited that out. since you’re so obsessed with it though you can just go check the numbers yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 02:47 AM
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oh 😯 my bad. that, i do not know... possibly intended as some straight-test or repulsion-to-men test but who knows with threads like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 12:42 AM
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got tired of asking if we’d choose an ugly rich guy or a hot broke guy, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 12:38 AM
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less violative, to me. probably less risk of getting hurt but still no guarantees; it being random puts basically anything on the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 12:37 AM
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guessing he's saying there's two hats, one for men and one for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 12:33 AM
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read the book (again, if needed)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 09:14 PM
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it is. the book is very metaphorical.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 09:07 PM
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pretty sure surveys have proven otherwise, but it would not be surprising that you need to tell yourself this is true to feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 08:46 PM
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you got me OP. i will accept nothing less and it will be absolutely perfect because you said so.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 08:45 PM
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You people say the look rpers have noticed pulls hot women is gay stop picking pictures obviously intended for the male gaze/admiration then. women here have no problem talking about crushes on Jason Momoa, but they are not buying bodybuilder magazines with shiny hairless muscleheads in spandex and weird poses.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 08:29 PM
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these fantasies are exciting because it's a departure from reality that the reader/viewer/player still has control over, and because it allows enough room and ambiguity to let that person fill in the blanks and interpret parts of the story as they please. people have also entered into gleeful discussions about the zombie apocalypse or any other number of fictional/fantasy events that are fun to imagine and discuss but that they would absolutely not want to experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 08:08 PM
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anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 06:35 PM
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i believe vasectomies are both.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 05:35 PM
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i don't think you read or understood my comment, based on these replies. i was pretty clear in my initial reply and i don't feel like repeating myself, so i'll just refer you back to it and exit the exchange here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 05:01 PM
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that is not what being used means, especially not in the context of this thread; you know that, don't do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 04:38 PM
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no harm in more options, but if you know you don't want kids... vasectomies still seem pretty great 👍 having basically zero worries or chances for scares/accidents is nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 04:31 PM
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there are definitely "any port in a storm" type men out there. a man being willing to sleep with you is not a guarantee of him liking you or even being particularly attracted to you. sometimes they even are disgusted and forge ahead anyway, though i think that's a rather extreme and uncommon scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 01:56 PM
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yes, we know.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 01:55 PM
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for chad? well 100% of course!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 01:39 PM
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this doesn’t need to be a Q4W; just remove “sex” and ask the same question. being used sucks for everyone. some people are used for sex, others for time, others for money/perks. it is hurtful regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/18 11:41 AM
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nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 09:48 PM
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probably not many; i can't see it going over two hours. just getting a small part of an old one filled in/finished, and then getting something small done elsewhere, only a few colors involved in either. edit: thinking again, switch that to three. it's been a while so i initially misjudged the time. but really, definitely not more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 09:03 PM
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my feelings after scheduling my first tattoo appointment in almost two years.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 06:43 PM
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the length of this post is going to generate an anger phase of its own in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 06:42 PM
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Have you dated extroverted guys and had bad experiences? no, but i don't need to have dated them to know we just wouldn't be compatible. i have been around extroverts, they are tiring (even the ones that i like and know to be good people that i enjoy the thoughts and company of in doses). i don't doubt i would also tire or bore them, so no need to even try going down that road.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 06:40 PM
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yes. i don’t think we could communicate or even stand each other otherwise; having the same personality foundation/type is pretty important.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 05:55 PM
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for husband: introverted, optimistic, pretty face. there are more on that list that would be desirable, of course, but out of those three those are the most important to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 05:43 PM
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not totally related but it came up in a show i'm watching and seemed too verbatim to the men here not to post.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 01:53 AM
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oh man... re-subscribed to WoW today.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/18 11:33 PM
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cannot disagree with any of the above 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/18 08:30 PM
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damn, this comment is a rollercoaster of potential stances. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/18 08:24 PM
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i would say they could just embrace the madness but i suppose even that requires some styling/certain hair types, and may not be enough to cancel out their personalities or other unattractive qualities ☹️ edit: fixed link
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/18 08:21 PM
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i think they’re interesting; i hope they stay. it’s the perfect mix of off-topic and having something new to talk about. it’s part of the dwindling number of good things here, don’t take it away 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/18 07:28 PM
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googled Macron, and agreed; not terrible, even though i’m not into it. in a different arena but... possibly have a slight crush on Beto O’Rourke. he has a nice smile and seems cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/18 07:25 PM
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i’m not an expert so this could be all wrong... but this comment expresses some thoughts and sentiments i’ve held on the subject recently, even before the summit (though the summit events, to me, seem in support of this). it may not happen in my lifetime, and if it does i might not even be here for it but... if there is an official “fall” but it does make me wonder if knowing some of these foreign languages will actually be needed in daily life someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/18 06:42 PM
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favorite bot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/18 05:15 AM
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instead, can we stop making up dumb alternative pills
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 07:43 PM
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i didn't call you stupid, but no one has said that beta bux isn't a thing. you keep insisting that, but no one said it. i mean, hell, philomexa outright agreed with you. there are real arguments you could make elsewhere, instead of digging your heels in to fight against something that no one even said. goat is just saying that betabux doesn't make sense in this one instance based on what philomexa has said about her life and experiences, and from what i recall she's right. betabux is not a thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 05:44 PM
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i don't think you understand what she or goat said at all, based on this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 05:36 PM
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for Philo
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 05:25 PM
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no kids, but yes, probably. i don't necessarily think less of women who do this, but i think for some forms of this it's a pretty rough life and i'd wonder why she didn't think she could do something else or avoid it, what i could have done to encourage her in a different direction, etc. etc. i'd feel this way unless it was something fairly mild, like being one of those twitch streamers everyone loves to hate. some of those are really tame and dumb people just spend their money/time on it anyway…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 05:24 PM
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so you can reply to talk about me, but not to support your own claims. okay then 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 03:33 PM
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makes sense; the number was less objectionable than OP's stated reason for it. i remember seeing several different reasons for it that made sense, but people here still hold up that number as a sign that women are awful flippant good-husband-leavers. i know that's not true, but OP insinuates otherwise so if he really believes that then he can put in the work to prove the damn thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 02:38 PM
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cool, i'll wait for links then. shouldn't be hard for OP, in that case. until then, i'll be sending emails and studying because this isn't my thread and it's still OP's job to back up what he's saying ✌
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 02:29 PM
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nah, if OP's so passionate about it, he can provide sources to back up his claims. i'm not obsessed with this, so i don't care enough to research it; either he can prove what he's saying in this discussion, or he can't. he's basically disappeared, so i'm going to go with the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 02:14 PM
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women initiate 70% of the divorce ...certainly seem like it's their goal to divorce yes, if you want to look at that figure and believe it's only because women are gunning to marry and divorce men... then sure, you will believe that. i've seen various numbers floating around so i don't even know if that number is accurate, but i'm sure any reputable studies or articles about this don't even say that. you made this up. 50/50 custody still sucks. you went from seeing your kids all the time to half…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 01:37 PM
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She has the power to destroy everything the husband has been building for his life. unless this is the goal of the woman, this is completely meeaningless. also: Society says you're not a Man until you have a wife, kids, a good job , a house and a car. When has all those things ripped away from him he loses a part of his identity. He can no look to those things to determine he is a Man. this happens to women too, absolutely. it is not an experience or risk unique to men (though from what knowledg…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 01:24 PM
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how surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 01:19 PM
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Q4All: Why do you think there a big push for men to express their emotions when it's clear that women are not interested in hearing about them? well now this just makes your last post seem to be in poor faith. but, you got me, congratulations 🎉 it is this side of being earnest in my responses that is always the most unfortunate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 02:39 AM
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but would you pick Prince Harry over Trump
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 06:55 PM
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i'm a woman who has only had sisters but i think i have an easier time relating to and fitting in with men vs. women. given that, IMO, i would think that this sort of thing is based more on personality than the sex of your siblings.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 06:01 PM
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i mean, we just had a thread about Henry Cavill being bad at saying things, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 01:29 PM
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Like I am definitely turned off by misogyny in "loser" guys, but I also don't have any interest in sleeping with frat guys - there is not a level of attractiveness that can cancel out sexism for me personally. saved; this is such a good explanation of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 12:49 PM
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thank you; i admit i enjoyed taking the quiz and reading about my type can be interesting sometimes, but even at a glance it was obvious how it was kind of flimsy in ways. the obsession with it here, especially knowing that, is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 11:50 AM
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sounds more like life in general; everyone does this to a degree. but, i get that feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 02:11 AM
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then don’t? see a therapist or professional about the depression and let them go if they’re just contributing to negativity in your life. it is not pleasant, but it is not difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 01:21 AM
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well yeah. that’s not a good reaction/approach regardless of if the cold and distant party is male or female. whether or not it is intentional, it is obviously going to hurt and not help. i never said it was cool for women to do this; you made that up all on your own. any further replies like this from you will not be responded to; go do that somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 01:17 AM
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i don’t know what these women said or did, but depression and other mental illnesses are a heavy burden for everyone involved, and that is pretty well agreed upon here. that doesn’t diminish the experience of the sufferer, but lots of people aren’t cut out for being with someone with depression and i think that goes far beyond the regular feelings and vulnerability we are discussing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 12:08 AM
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1: How do you feel about your partner in general being vulnerable? seems fine, pretty normal in a relationship. 2: How do you feel about your partner crying? it makes me sad, but doesn’t bother me otherwise. also a pretty normal human thing, in general (as long as it is not frequent, which is then abnormal). i've seen him cry multiple times, we're still together, the world spins on. 3: How do you feel when/if your partner enters hysterics? depending on the kind of hysterics, possibly a little af…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 11:58 PM
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yeah, she’s really got those banners flying. as for the rest of your comment... i’m going to stick to my assessment because it’s pretty obvious but thanks for trying anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 10:41 PM
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probably, beyond acquaintances as mentioned below.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 10:38 PM
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mainly because it is better with sprinkles than without... but maybe we'll just consider them a stand-in for tattoos, or a suggestion that i still enjoy having fun or trying different things within a still-vanilla realm.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 09:51 PM
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no to participating in all of the above. but that seems to be the norm for some people so i wouldn't call it bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 09:43 PM
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i'm sure there are exceptions to every single thing mentioned in this thread... and that's good for them, truly. but, i wouldn't bet my future with someone on something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 09:41 PM
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well, i mean... I I you I you I'd you my that aside, i think there is a portion of men here that can't stand the idea of any woman thinking of them as undesirable or a non-option when it comes to dating, especially when it really is someone they wouldn't even be interested in or successful with anyway. and, it results in exchanges like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 09:37 PM
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why do men here always think the women of the sub are trying to date them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 08:30 PM
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that, or a future undoing of our relationship. there's no reason for someone who is truly over a relationship/person to still be that involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 07:10 PM
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i don't see either being necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 06:46 PM
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it depends. what some people would describe as light is not at all light to me. even if it was beyond what i'd describe, i don't think i'd consider it bizarre but i wouldn't be into it or willing to participate. edited my top-level comment for a little clarity on that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 05:45 PM
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About prostitutes: if they've done that while they were single, what's the issue? Would you have a problem if instead of prostitutes, it was a high number of hookups/one night stands? both are a no-go, and both are mentioned above. About porn: Let's suppose you're dating someone and sometimes they're in the mood for some sex and you aren't, what's the problem if they relieve their sexual tension/arousal with porn? Though that case wouldn't necessarily fit into "frequent" use, I guess. i'm not ok…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 05:37 PM
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Still being good friends with an ex. yes, this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 05:23 PM
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i am grateful my husband and i share a distaste for "Keep Calm".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 05:03 PM
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excluding illegal stuff... an exceedingly high partner count, habit of cheating or lying (worse if enjoyed), generally being a bully/cruel to people, secret contagious diseases. will edit in more if i think of them. i'm not sure that this would result in an immediate break-up, since we've been together so long and are now married. but, it would change how i see them, potentially in ways that would lead to our relationship falling apart (depending).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 04:30 PM
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are you really making threads just to lol and agree with yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 03:05 PM
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i don't define it at all; i base it on what those who discuss it define it as. it has ranged from pulling back at the last minute to make her speak up if she wants something, to ignoring protests as long as she is smiling and/or not raising her voice, etc. etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 03:04 PM
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they wouldn't, at least most of them. they're no more prepared for it than anyone else; they just have fun complaining and/or acting weirdly triumphant about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 01:40 PM
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it doesn't seem the same as being a NiceGuy to me, but i do agree that it's crappy behavior and a big flag that you should avoid that person. toxic femininity might be an accurate descriptor; i don't think NiceGirl is. at least as i understand the term, it would be closer to NiceGuy-ism if a friend or colleague was constantly offering to help with things and "serve" (for lack of a better word) in a platonic and friendly capacity, and then flipped out when you said no to a cup of coffee with them…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 01:38 PM
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blerg; these two new threads combined are going to be stomach turners. glad it is bedtime anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 03:29 AM
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what a mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 08:07 PM
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it would be nice if one of these upcoming threads could be about some of the more ambiguous rules around here. based on this thread there are obviously some things that people on all sides are confused about and addressing it only with individuals in modmail is not helpful to clearing up that confusion. i was actually looking forward to responses about that rule but then, of course, it was shut down. if it's a rule that involves some discretion, then fine; that's not totally surprising. but even…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 06:55 PM
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it is probably safe to guess that it's any statement that says to someone else, "you are a liar." but even then, there are some situations where that's unavoidable (like with law discussions) or when a disagreement that has been deemed to not violate that rule still basically says that to another person. it's a rule that is very, very subject to mod discretion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 06:50 PM
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the deleted comment from the linked context in OP, even though this thread is probably going to be deleted soon: I don't believe you, and even if I did, personal anecdotes do not compelling evidence make. Better luck next ime.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 06:47 PM
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you can't even tell someone "i don't believe you" in a designated off-topic area, as i learned in an... interesting way. the only on-the-line exception i've seen so far is if someone said something like... "x never does y in my experience" but you can disagree and counter that with clear examples of x doing y. for a sub-specific example... if someone said TRPers never complained about women, or about a specific aspect of women because they had never seen it. that's not invalidating their own exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 06:37 PM
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although i think it is teasing based on an endearing thing in some cases, which is understandable and fine... mean-spirited ridiculing about things like "man flu" or other ailments and accompanying complaints annoys me. like, we can all agree that being sick sucks, and maybe it feels just as crappy as he says. don't be a jerk and (depending on the situation) either say nothing or do something to ease that instead, as you would expect/hope to be done for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 05:34 PM
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i mean, personalities are personalities; in that aspect, it's not that hard to emulate fictional characters (though i think the attempt itself, even, should only be minor). besides, some of them even make use of being fools, somewhat; Peter Quill and Scott Lang aren't smooth or suave at all but still make it work. granted, yes, they are physically attractive... but that personality still counts and isn't that hard to work on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 04:10 PM
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So what personality traits makes women want to sleep with a man? as stated elsewhere... this is pretty hard to put into words and not everything is going to appeal to everyone anyway. but being friendly, funny, not taking yourself too seriously, relatable, things in common with me, nice/inviting/considerate... for me and women like me this goes a long way. What personality traits increases a man SMV? well, simply put, confidence and charisma. social... flexibility? being able to adapt in social …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 03:21 PM
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how generous! giving them a whole thread to jerk off into about male superiority. if this contains the nonsense, i wouldn’t mind making these threads regular, like the incel/feminism threads of yore.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 12:39 PM
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go right ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 12:40 AM
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Thank you!! I'm still pretty nervous about it since I'll be abroad without my family for the first time lol. eep! yeah, that must be nerve-wracking. it'll be a lot of fun though, for sure :) if you don't mind me asking, which city will you be studying in/near? Also, I'm still curious about the room full of strangers thing! Is it some kind of Japanese class you're taking/teaching? yeah, i'm taking Japanese I. i haven't checked, but i assume it will require speaking and in-class spoken dialogue...…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 08:10 PM
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now that you mention it, i think we did talk about this :P but i love language studies so i could talk about it forever. i had hoped that my school had a study-abroad program, but it doesn't (and organizing things with my husband/his job and our pets would be kind of tough anyway). i am hoping to visit Japan again next year though. i think you mentioned you would be/are studying there, right? so jealous! i hope it is fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 04:10 PM
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🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 11:42 AM
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seconding Pandemic. it’s card rather than board but i had a lot of fun with Boss Monster too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 03:02 AM
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ooh, scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 01:50 AM
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Japanese.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 10:28 PM
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probably around 2 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 10:28 PM
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no pill, true neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 10:27 PM
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omg more than 3 years i can’t believe it, everything has changed based on this meaningless fact alone this isn’t my first account, i’m not new here. i remember when he was banned and it should have stayed that way, whether TRP lets men/their members act a certain way or not. this isn’t TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 10:25 PM
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yeah, this is definitely just a one-time occurrence and totally out of character for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 07:23 PM
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you could just do everyone a favor and reverse the decision to unban someone who contributes nothing and frequently breaks the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 06:34 PM
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summer, end already 😫
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 06:26 PM
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using perfume now, but it’s a small bottle so i’ve been needing a new fragrance for when it runs out... i don’t mind wearing cologne if it smells nice; so using this thread as a guide for next things to sample.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 05:51 PM
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i imagine he’s just following company policy and move on with my life because i am married and the only time i encounter such men is if i happen to enter an establishment they work at anyway. jokes aside, if it’s just saying no in a normal way, i would accept and move on. if they’re a dick about it, i’ll think they’re a dick. IMO, though, it seems like you’re treating these women a specific (worse) way because they are female/cute, and they’re picking up on it. no surprise that the reaction is n…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 01:30 AM
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i like woodsy smelling stuff, generally. i don’t know the names of any really. i think the last cologne i smelled and really liked was the C.O. Bigelow Elixir Black but it has since seemed a little too strong-smelling for me. around Christmas i bought a relative a set with soap that had spearmint oil, peppermint oil, clove oil, and rosemary extract. that smelled pretty great too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 01:05 AM
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but haven’t you heard the cries of “where have all the good men gone?!”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 02:43 PM
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i don’t think this is about you being an INTJ. people here like to use MBTI as an excuse or justification for things that are part of their individual personalities way too often. this is just you. not INTJ.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 02:40 PM
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you’ve gotta put them in their place somehow, right?! 🤢🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 02:15 PM
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i am the exact opposite 😂 was not into dad jeans or even clean cut Bucky. but i think the roles also influence it; i like the scruff and long hair, and he also has scruff and longer hair in the more broody-guy roles he has played 🤷‍♀️ did enjoy watching his performance in i tonya though 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 02:13 PM
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a thread full of reading material for you to enjoy. if you still insist it's unbelievable and never happens after having been provided with examples of it happening... well, enjoy the denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 09:57 PM
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No one who says that literally thinks they will fight you to the death insisting that they do. it's not a "haha, yeah alright, i was just kidding for effect" sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 09:49 PM
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it's been a rough past two days... but this and the ensuing comments did cheer me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 08:14 PM
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Have known a couple of guys who got fired for asking women out. It was "wanna get a drink?" or something like that, totally nonsexual. those women freaked out. "He asked me out! He SEXUALLY HARASSED ME!!!" aren't you the one insisting that most men, if not all, only talk to or associate with women out of sexual interest? seems like those women were just correctly identifying the intent, then. unless, of course, you are insisting something you don't truly believe when you say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 07:12 PM
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i mean, even the men here, on both sides, agreed that he acted weird and went about things the wrong way. if you're so vigilant about keeping tabs on stories like this and/or concerned about how it could affect you personally, the first step is probably identifying whether or not you act like those men, and... not doing it if you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 07:06 PM
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i think some have also accused him of sexual assault, but that aside, i believe that has more to do with the belief that it's yet another reason he is unfit for the office he holds, rather than attempting to criminalize anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 05:29 PM
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sebastian stan :) he's cute even without the scruff and long hair, that's just my favored version.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 05:08 PM
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i mean, he didn't do fine, it was bad. that's why we're here. i get why you wouldn't want to admit it though; that's just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 05:02 PM
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It was an off the cuff interview, not a prepared statement. no interviews are off the cuff, especially at that level of fame. he is human, yes, but this is part of his job and he did it poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 04:59 PM
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am still partial to... particularly with the long hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 04:26 PM
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she's just not that into you. movie coming soon, to theaters near you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 04:10 PM
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tape accusations
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 03:18 PM
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i sort of get where he's coming from, in a small sense; there is an Outrage Army that just looks for things to be upset about (resulting in stuff like this). but, at the same time, if he read the stories related to MeToo that really took off it would be clear what he should or should not do. the really high profile ones that remain in the spotlight appear to range from unsolicited, inappropriate touching or sexual comments in the workplace/between colleagues, to actual abuse of power to bend peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 03:15 PM
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you know anyone who insists this is just going to make some "well this isn't how men are in private, only in the company of women, they're lying to you and i'm right TRP CONFIRMED!!!11" sort of dodge though. (in any case, i agree that the claim is nonsense and i appreciate this post.)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 02:26 PM
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this, getting so heavily downvoted 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 02:07 PM
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i don’t know what that means, so no, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 12:38 PM
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lol, what a familiar refrain.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 12:21 PM
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no, i just don’t hang out with crazy social media-obsessed people. based on your comments here, you are surrounded with them, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 03:24 AM
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initially read this as “Take your ass to the automod please.” and even with nothing against this poster, i like that way better.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 02:50 AM
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or, if you must do this, you could do both because there’s still no reason not to use proper protection. something permanent is probably best for you, and the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 11:55 PM
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or they could just look out for themselves and use proper protection. it's incredibly easy to not get someone pregnant, which is the part that men who don't want to be fathers need to be working on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 09:14 PM
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no, and there's no reason that it would mean that. completely different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 08:32 PM
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no-pill... it's nice to not be held to or assumed to hold to any set of beliefs (as much), as so often happens with people choosing a specific flair color or acronym for their flairs. it's not a philosophy and can't even really be mistaken for one, and that's what makes it so great. also, it matches my wardrobe.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 06:56 PM
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"it's just a joke, don't be so sensitive, sheesh"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 06:03 PM
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If you go and look at /r/NiceGuys, some of guys ARE in fact assholes. They will message a woman, get rejected and then blow up in her face because she didn't respond to him in time while at the same time, claiming to be 'nice'. Those are not the guys I'm talking about then you are not talking about the NiceGuy trope, nor is anyone else who talks about anything other than this and simply calls it the NiceGuy trope. the misuse of the term doesn't change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 06:02 PM
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and yet, we end up coming to several of the same conclusions, without needing to do all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 03:19 PM
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in my experience, also... it's often that the booze being bought is also cheap. it's lone star or budweiser or the like, not bottles of cristal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 02:56 PM
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yeah, you’re not mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 07:34 PM
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well lots of people do care about activism or certain causes, and someone doing something still fairly attention-catching like being naked will catch their attention and curiosity. despite all your insistence, whether you donated or researched the cause or not, it has still drawn a great deal of your own attention, so you have experienced that effect firsthand now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 07:28 PM
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at least for me what if i told you that people who are not you may do things you do not do As said, I don't even read it much less donate to it or do anything about it. but you spread the word about it and clicked into news about it, so like it or not you are still indirectly involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 07:00 PM
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i worked as a cashier more than once, and i would definitely prefer it to being a sugar baby. it is incredibly easy work, and not nearly as degrading as being a sugar baby likely is. besides, a guy who has to be a sugar daddy isn't likely to be good in bed, or at all; why would he be in that position if he were? do you think he is a kind, conscientious, benevolent employer with only her wants and needs in mind? lol. it's not automatically a better or perfect situation just because it has the cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 06:40 PM
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i mean, you're not only posting about it but linking to news about it, so, seems like it worked. it's obviously to catch attention for whatever cause the woman is doing it for.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 06:37 PM
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1: Young women of PPD, would you try this? Why or why not? speaking for my younger self... if i didn't actually have to sleep with them, maybe (which i believe is a form of this that exists). college is expensive. and if i didn't do it for school, i'd probably do it to finance other expensive things, like tattoos or international travel.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 06:04 PM
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a timely story for those in this thread, and others, who insist that men are always responsible and would laugh or scream to death over a woman doing/saying the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 06:02 PM
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Something I've come across a lot in recent years is this idea that it is unacceptable to judge potential partners (and yes partners, not just people in general) for their compatibility based on sexual history actually, what i see happening more often is either high-n men deeming high-n women as incompatible (when in fact, they have very similar histories and similarities that would make them compatible) or people using someone's history to make completely unrelated assumptions about their charac…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 03:29 PM
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this is probably most accurate to my female friends too. they don’t post anything particularly attention-catching though, and i think pretty much everyone has their profile and friend list narrowed down to only people in their actual circles so they’re posting to people who already know they’re married or taken anyway. i don’t have any friends who would waste their time claiming not to use social media while they have a dummy account either; how stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 12:23 PM
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welcome to PPD. a shame, this thread was funny at first and now OP is just being a jerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 02:02 PM
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i might be misunderstanding your point, but the financial abortion has nothing to do with her engaging or not. that’s the point: it gives the guy a total way out. but the potential for the child to not receive support is a big concern with financial abortion and is probably why that’s not a thing. that’s still more about binding parents to the kids they made, though, not each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 01:58 PM
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it should be assumed (and would be to me)... but you never know in this place.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 01:22 AM
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please educate yourself on what “at gunpoint” means. you clearly don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 12:02 AM
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so you said another nonsense thing then. okay. flail harder
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 11:25 PM
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and nothing about anyone being held or caged at gunpoint lol just give up. that’s the wiser choice here. you can’t prove what you claimed because it isn’t true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 11:23 PM
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well, go on then. nothing stopping you from providing these examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 11:11 PM
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get some sleep?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 11:01 PM
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please elaborate further on your experience as a pregnant woman and how carrying and birthing a child measured up to the things i listed. all 9 months please, do tell do tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 10:54 PM
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calm down here and/or direct that outburst at lawmakers, not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 10:48 PM
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i am pro-choice. i think it has helped by offering women, men, and couples more options when an unwanted pregnancy occurs. i doubt making it illegal would make a huge difference to men. i mean, they’re already at risk for having to pay child support should the woman keep the baby and yet...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 10:45 PM
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guess you'd better come up with something better then.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 10:02 PM
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is analogous to the 9 months it takes to gestate and give birth to a live child. it's not, and you're wrong. neither is unimportant, but that does not make them analogous. So for you to minimize and downplay it is sexist in the extreme. oh no, you called me sexist, i am ruined
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 09:40 PM
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LEGAL MURDER
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 09:32 PM
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breathing, eating, blinking, bathing, everything infringes on my bodily autonomy life is so hard
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 09:30 PM
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HAHAHAHAHAHA
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 09:25 PM
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i'd agree that it's the fairest, most realistic alternative, currently. and it gives some men what they've been clamoring for: a total way out, very very early on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 09:12 PM
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he's not squinting!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 08:51 PM
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if there are reasonable requirements/limits (like what DebatePony said) and still a means for the child in question to receive adequate care, then sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 08:31 PM
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this is mild compared to a lot of shit that gets left up. even some stuff currently on the front page. there's someone who posts pretty much nothing but actual gotchas and no one does anything about it. in the end, it doesn't really matter since it's not my decision, but just saying, it'd be a shame if this actually entertaining thread got removed when so much other annoying crap gets to stay, on the basis that some incel crap is allowed and some isn't (even though it's mostly all garbage anyway…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 07:13 PM
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i don't know why this in particular would be removed; it's no less nonsensical than half the things that have been posted recently. at least this one's the fun kind of ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 07:08 PM
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already covered this: even with personality, they'll still be at a disadvantage
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 07:01 PM
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because he does, especially this exaggerated version of what is supposed to be a person. even an IRL version of this is not attractive to most of us (and i'm even attracted to guys on the "prettier" end of the spectrum). not to mention that most of us have talked at length about how looks alone are not enough and/or that we're not interested in just hopping into bed with whoever looks our way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 06:55 PM
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if they have no personality? absolutely. even with personality, they'll still be at a disadvantage, but if (general) you don't even have any charm or personality to go on... well, would you be interested in someone like that? genuinely, honestly?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 06:52 PM
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no. not only is that guy bizarre looking and not my type (even if i imagine a normal looking version)... charm and personality are essential. otherwise he’s just forgettable. this applies even to guys i actually do find physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 05:42 PM
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yes, if you are insisting that a man who happens to catch feelings for a female friend who then uses that to her advantage and strings him along as long as possible is always painted as an asshole while the woman is held up as a hero, you are going to have to prove that claim, as you would with any other wild claim. as it stands, it is almost certain that you are basing this on opinions of radical crazies or this is simply your interpretation of the events that took place (because it is so outla…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/18 05:18 PM
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you will have to link examples of normal people claiming the man is an asshole in threads about both situations before i will believe that is what is actually happening. i think this is heavily colored by your interpretations and own feelings. as presented above, if both are intentionally being ambiguous for their own gain while being aware of the feelings of the person they are stringing along, then both are assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/18 04:31 PM
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no, i don’t think so. especially with the examples given here. not even your OP or comments support this; yes, it might appeal to a niche group of women, but you can say that about almost anything and going that route is not necessarily success (if you can appeal to a larger non-niche group of women a different way, like just being a man who doesn’t act like the cartoonish stereotype some people have of masculinity).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/18 02:21 PM
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probably best not to ignore that it remains a strong opinion even among those not likely to just complain for the sake of complaining. if anyone even cares about what the community says anymore, anyway. (nothing more to say so don’t worry, you can refrain from the “modmail” comment.)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 03:34 PM
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lots and lots of guys who don’t understand female anatomy trying to explain female anatomy. also heard some pretty dumb things from women trying to assert what is or isn’t masculinity, or what men are or are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 03:09 PM
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OP is probably deleting posts so he can make new ones without breaking the post frequency rule. or he’s just posting things he never meant to entertain discussion about in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 02:43 PM
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it would be nice if the author didn’t throw in a “thatz my soooper wild unpopular opinion now fite me” comment into every other paragraph. make your point without it so people actually hear you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 11:42 PM
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it’s a vibe i get from your comments in general 🤷‍♀️ not just this one
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 11:33 PM
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I am suspicious and so are you. But the difference is that I learned from experience. seems like you really love pretending no one else has experienced or suffered but you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 09:53 PM
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block me if you've got a problem with me. i'm going to keep commenting either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 08:35 PM
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lol, i'll comment within the rules as i please, thanks. it's not my problem if all that's been offered up is what appears to be a for-clicks opinion piece on Penthouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 08:35 PM
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a romantic rejection is some horrible slight for which the rejectee should get revenge, that I find odd. yeah, i can agree that that's odd. unless they reject you in some really awful way or do something in addition to the rejection that makes it revenge-worthy... meh, just move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 08:29 PM
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you can believe that physical attraction matters while still not wanting to give a second chance to someone who, in one way or another, told you you weren't good enough for them solely because you didn't look good. even if i understand their position, to me, there's just no benefit to trying to go down that road again. neither of these scenarios would probably happen even if i were single, but even though it would suck, i would understand if i did this to a guy and he turned me down for the same…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 08:19 PM
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i think i'd turn them down, even if it was difficult/painful. i mean, right there, they're showing me who they are and what i am to them. there's always going to be some resentment about that, and doubt; no starting over, so it's probably best to just leave it in the past. am lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 06:55 PM
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The author of the article explicitly provides evidence to support her claims. You can respond to them if you like, but just saying you see no evidence doesn't really contribute to the discussion. i've already explained why i can't read the article. i'm not going to visit a Penthouse site in any form while i'm in the office, and based on several comments here, it doesn't sound like there's much beyond the author's own opinion. again, anyone who can access the article is welcome to provide specifi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 06:04 PM
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... one that doesn't (unduly) treat men, or anyone, poorly? that at least seems obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 05:19 PM
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nah, OP can do his part and support his claims/assertions. that's his job here, not mine. and if no one can provide legitimate supporting evidence, oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 04:46 PM
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i haven't seen anything suggesting that she's trying to make it about herself (and i don't even know how she would cash in on such a thing anyway). until something legitimately points to this being the case, i'm going to continue thinking that the accusation is nonsense. but even if she did try (which i don't believe), she'd end up being a main focus and getting a lot of attention about it (as the people closest to people who commit suicide often do). it was unavoidable either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 04:38 PM
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i've only seen one post, though... and it barely broke 100 comments. edit: okay, i see the second one; i previously ignored it because even at a glance the subject was too absurd to waste time on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 02:33 PM
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i don't think anyone needs to be guilty here, and nothing so far suggests she was responsible outside of the minds of those who desperately want it to be so. i also think it's pretty sad that his death is being used to further agendas this way, that this is the only reason some people care about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 01:41 PM
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yes, you can speculate pretty much anything from the outside and with so little information. not surprising that there are those who would just choose to blame her for it and/or use his suicide as an avenue to further whatever vendetta they have against women in general. this article may be mild enough to deny it, but no doubt, there are others out there who have not been. i had hoped for something better from people in general, but that's just how some people are: terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 01:32 PM
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how convenient. men here are always harping on about how men have their shit together and men are the responsible ones... until it goes wrong, and then it's anyone else's fault (even if it's not a situation where assigning fault is useful and is instead, insensitive).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 01:27 PM
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some of us are at work and/or places that cannot visit the Penthouse website. you should probably quote the important parts if you want people to be able to talk about them. i don't think MeToo had anything to do with Bourdain's suicide either way, though, at least from what i know/read. edit: and just looking closer at the URL, if this is some offhand way of trying to blame her for it or assign any responsibility... no. edit: i read maybe half of the “article” and couldn’t go on because it’s ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 01:22 PM
1

weird MO either way, gotta say. especially in these times.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 02:13 AM
1

stalkers are pretty frowned upon in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 02:08 AM
1

it’s like the shoe lifts era all over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 02:05 AM
1

doesn’t seem like they would appreciate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 01:59 AM
1

you can’t sit with us in the cafeteria!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 01:44 AM
1

i thought about it... i didn’t want to since she was with her kids but also, maybe someone should set a better example for them -_-
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 12:50 AM
1

no true TRPer eh 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 11:42 PM
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and if he goes after divorce after already destroying the marriage beyond repair, he doesn’t get to cry for eternity about how she actually ruined everything by leaving :( poor guy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 11:42 PM
1

and aim for really great sex ed so people know what they could be in for if they don’t use it properly. not foolproof, of course, but probably a more viable option.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 09:34 PM
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that's not normal, and ideally they'd have a neutral view of both men and women. that would be most normal. my first paragraph is in response to "Why do you expect them to have a positive view of most women?", though, so that's what i focused on. my point/argument is not that they should keep a negative view of men and change only their view about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 08:04 PM
1

then i guess there's a lot of misapplied flairs here. self-proclaimed RPers complain about it all the time, either directly or indirectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 06:39 PM
1

i don't think most expect them to have a positive view of women, but it's pretty normal to have even a neutral view as opposed to an exceedingly negative one. unsurprisingly, even suggesting that having a more neutral view of women calls forth accusations of Women Are Wonderful and expecting a positive view of women when you're really just talking about calming and neutralizing the unbridled hatred. as far as i've seen, the negative views they express from men nearly always have a silver lining.…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 03:09 PM
1

no.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 09:37 PM
1

Hahaha!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 06:02 PM
3

unless they outright say it, you can’t really tell. they don’t have club pins... yet, afaik. but what you can do is look at things where there’s often a lot of overlap. TRPers are not quiet online about their views on politics, religion, society, women, relationships, or a host of other things (and their views on those things can also be held by non-TRPers). some of those things become pretty clear even in polite conversation so you can observe and make a decision then. it’s more of a make-a-bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 05:52 PM
1

that’s not the correct usage of “y’all”, just a heads up. it refers to a group, not an individual (and you are quoting/responding to an individual).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 05:30 PM
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i don’t think it can and i’m not convinced that it should. it’s not for everyone. i think a better bet is to make birth control as widely available as possible and aim for really great sex ed so people know what they could be in for if they don’t use it properly. not foolproof, of course, but probably a more viable option.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 05:23 PM
1

i get why some women (and people) would prefer to squat over the toilet instead of sitting on it, but if you pee all over the seat in the process and don’t clean it up you’re definitely the most disgusting user of that toilet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 04:42 PM
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yes, based on this one anecdotal comment from a Qualified Reddit Stranger. please, come forth and base your every belief on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 12:16 PM
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this is the same person who was going on wild rants about the royal wedding a while back, so, if you remember those, probably not much evidence at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 08:28 PM
2

... right after you dismissed her by calling her delusional (not only insulting her but attempting to diminish her in front of everyone by insinuating she's crazy and/or out of touch with reality). pretty sure it's also against the rules but lucky for you, mods don't really care.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 03:00 PM
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i mean, just look at all the people falling over themselves to highlight what a shining star poor little Brock Turner was and what a dumb drunk idiot his accuser was. nonsense; it doesn't just end up perfectly for accusers/victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 01:32 PM
1

However, I think cases like those I mentioned above provide good evidence that the public is all too willing to believe accusers based on their testimony alone, and that this extends at least somewhat into important organizational arenas, such as schools, news outlets, and employers (although it could be argued they’re just protecting their immediate reputations from a business standpoint, they almost never claim this as the reason for termination, and use rhetoric that suggests at least tacit e…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 01:29 PM
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so true. all studies and surveys should focus on every kind of possible thing ever. any kind of focus or exclusion is definitely terrible, terrible bias and not just a reasonable way of managing a study or survey. the reactions to this thread and study/survey are insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 05:51 PM
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A country that suffers problems in violence only counts in the study if you only count violence against women as a group, but not society as a whole. but that's what that study/survey was about. why would this particular study/survey that was designed to look at worst countries for women cite numbers for countries that are worst for society as a whole?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 05:28 PM
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think what you want; i don't care. your flair places you in the group least likely to admit women in the West have any problems ever anyway, so this isn't new or surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 05:08 PM
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possibly because children are not women. i'm not sure if the article/study went into the detail of if that is separated out or not (and/or if that is the reason why). it doesn't change the fact that things could be better here, or that people inevitably swoop in to deny that whenever even the slightest of criticism is aimed at the grand ol' USA. if (general) you don't agree that the USA is an absolutely flawless and perfect place to live, then there's really not much for you to rail against here…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 04:58 PM
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i will know them by their shitty posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 01:19 PM
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a little more detail for those who don't want to read the article: Countries were ranked in six key areas: health care, sexual violence, nonsexual violence, cultural practices, discrimination and human trafficking. methodology given the areas they covered and the questions they asked, it is not surprising to me. it covered some controversial things that we could still improve on. Personally, one of the reasons I became an ex-feminist was seeing how good my life is. As a woman in the western worl…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 01:16 PM
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guess that tells you something about your posts. i don’t pay that much attention to usernames here but if i read something absurd i’ll say so. besides, if you don’t like being criticized or receiving dissenting comments even in automod you could just ignore my comments or stop posting in a place designed for it yk
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 12:27 PM
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they really need to tighten up the posting rules around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 12:20 PM
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i would choose singlehood or a guy with a better mix of those things because i can. i don’t mind hypotheticals but when these come up, they are way too unrealistic and are invariably used as some sort of gotcha to push women into picking one crap thing out of a group of crap things, and then claiming that they loooove the crap thing that they picked. gross, no. i married someone i’m attracted to and can rely on, that i connect with and that has an income that allows us to do a lot of fun things …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 03:09 AM
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yes, i’m the one shrieking, lol. alright then 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 02:56 AM
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everything in this post is very bizarre and nonsensical. i would advise professional help, either from a dating expert or a therapist if it becomes necessary. no one here gets paid for this or does it for a living (afaik), but you can go find someone who does and has the patience to go further into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 02:21 AM
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1: Why should you settle for anyone other than a person who looks at you the way one looks at a celebrity or at one's food when it arrives at the restaurant? you don’t have to, but only accepting something that specific means you’ll probably wait longer for it. it seems like a lot of people don’t get this. 2: When you propose, is it not a huge red flag if she does ANYTHING other than scream, "OF COURSE!", and jump into your arms and wrap their legs around you, since this indicates sub-ideal enth…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 01:59 AM
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started Plant Nanny to get myself to drink more water, and it is harder than i thought 😓
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/18 06:18 PM
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same; even ignoring the sensationalist articles and headlines, it’s just another horrible thing that i don’t have much reason not to expect at least an attempt on. that’s just what this place is now. i am glad there are alternatives and some time to prepare for the worst... but as usual, this is going to impact the low income people the most, who are the ones who need the options this will take away (and i do not anticipate that those in charge have planned for how to deal with that at all excep…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/18 02:11 PM
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Here in the US it is very possible abortion will be off the table once Trump installs whatever right wing loon he has in mind as the next Supreme. don’t remind me 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/18 01:58 PM
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i’m actually even more feminine in private and don’t actually hang around other women that much, haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/18 01:47 PM
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Is femininity an act? not inherently, no. If so why do women do it? for those women that do act, either a little or a lot: various reasons. to set a pleasant mood, to elicit reactions and treatment that make them feel a way they want to feel, to avoid conflict, to make someone else feel the way they want them to feel, and yes, on some occasions, just to get whatever they want from someone. i don’t think that most who do act are doing it for nefarious reasons though. What age do women learn to do…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/18 01:44 PM
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this needs a TLDR, badly. it’s so laced with rants and comments about your personal life that it’s hard to tell if you are making any additional points to the question in the subject line. given that, i’ll just respond to that question. it’s probably one of a few reasons... most people think of pills or IUDs when they think of birth control, easily accessible, mostly minor, inanimate things. there are a lot of feelings and morals surrounding abortion though, so it’s typically considered separate…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/18 01:38 PM
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favorites i can think of: Gintama, Fullmetal Alchemist: Brotherhood, NGE, Natsume’s Book of Friends, Madoka Magica, Cardcaptor Sakura, your name, Ghibli anything, Friends, The Magicians, the Avatar series, Saiyuki, Kobato, Nichijou, Bungo Stray Dogs, Azumanga Daioh, Kamisama Kiss, Rin-ne, Fruits Basket, Daily Lives of High School Boys. i love the Makai Ouji manga and enjoyed the anime, but really wish it had a few more seasons to tell more of the story. i did watch A Silent Voice today and enjoy…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/18 03:31 AM
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then the smart move is to say nothing. even if you don’t get in trouble for it, responding with a personal attack just makes you look bad, which will definitely color the way you are perceived and responded to in subsequent discussions even when you are making a good point or argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 11:41 PM
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make decisions you are also making a decision; yours is just to surrender 😊 others don’t like this, some run into problems that “shaking things up” is the possible answer to, and so on. it’s as simple as a difference in preferences or in some cases, seeking a new experience/solution to a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 10:00 PM
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your screen name 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 07:36 PM
2

i don’t think most men are like this... but men possessing traits like this are a growing breed, sadly (and maybe even especially in the West). thank goodness i am older, and not trying to grow up in this. i don’t envy those that are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 07:11 PM
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male incel, hands down. neither are great options but i already know what no sex (even when i really wanted it) vs. bad/violative sex is, and the former is far preferred.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 06:20 AM
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especially here :P i think i see what you mean, though. it's a fine line for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 09:43 PM
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but it's just turning out to be the "men, come here and be super weird while trying to sound impressive" thread
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 09:22 PM
1

it would be nice, but i wouldn't call it an obligation or suggest that someone should feel obligated.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 09:04 PM
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never go to IRC, lol obsession, there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 05:21 PM
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no. all men are doomed, because of women and their finicky nature. bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 04:27 PM
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In the thread, women did say that they do respond to visual stimuli, but it's very rare. What kind of man gives them that? probably the kind that also expresses the kind of demeanor, body language that they find most attractive, and/or a lot of physical traits that they also find most attractive. Also, what kind of attraction or drive do women have? How can a man that a woman doesn't find attractive while getting along with her day become attractive to that woman? by also having a presence and p…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 04:20 PM
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even when i try to avoid it, "the news" is everywhere and making my stomach turn. hate this. i can't wait until i can get away from here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 04:15 PM
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So why is that? Why do women not find a greater percentage of men attractive? What is missing in most men? it's not what's missing, but what is extra or different. women don't have the same drives or type of attraction that men do. the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 04:13 PM
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that’s not even what i’m disputing, so no, i won’t be spending time researching it. if you want to feel right because of that, go ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 11:50 AM
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that’s not even what i’m disputing, so no, i won’t be spending time researching it. if you want to feel right because of that, go ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 11:49 AM
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anything that would make it more realistic or take wind out of your attempt to make it seem like men are always punished, even for minor crimes, while women never are, even for major crimes. anything that might explain why these two sentences or whatever are different aside from gender (which i am absolutely certain exist, especially following your comments with sublime). i get why you, or anyone, wouldn’t want to point to those facts here, i just think it’s lame and there are real ways to make …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 11:47 AM
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are you confused? do you know where you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 11:39 AM
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i’m guessing you are blocked by her but even for the rest of us: you really need to leave her alone. stop replying to her every comment; it’s annoying even to other readers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 03:28 AM
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you don’t have to do that, and no one asked or suggested it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 03:15 AM
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i see, thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 03:14 AM
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Canada or California?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 02:23 AM
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i don’t know enough to make a blanket statement about it. but this particular story seems neither common nor fully presented.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 02:23 AM
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i’m not a lawyer but this seems really suspect. but, no doubt, is going to be a delight for RPers and manospherians.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 01:56 AM
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but also 💕
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 01:46 AM
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fair point; i wasn't thinking of the legal definition. someone else, somewhere else, also said it may be because it's currently just alleged, but then... they'd just call it alleged, no? regardless of the reason, to me, it's a shame this isn't being put under the same umbrella.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 12:54 AM
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i tend to prefer more feminine looking men. they are still masculine enough to me and are very obviously men, but happen to also be pretty (yay). i would prefer not to have to make this distinction but people have thought i meant like, drag queens in the past. they're great, but no. think more... JGL-ish. Another question - do you find that more feminine looking guys tend to be better providers, more faithful, and more caring than masculine looking guys? i'm sure i subconsciously tend to think s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 12:51 AM
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better article, despite this headline (and many others) shying away from calling it rape. he is not a low status male for having been a rape victim, and the headlines should fucking call it what it is. but, he is probably not high status for a multitude of other possible reasons based on the details surrounding the two of them and their relationship (the most alarming being that the relationship lasted for 7 and the woman is now 19).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 12:47 AM
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yeah we all got your impression of her already without you needing to do that. just go ahead and talk about her insane ratios in that sub, it looks like that’s exactly what it is for. it would be different if you weren’t responding to almost every comment with a link to that sub and an exclamation about her boobs or ratios but just look at what’s going on 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 11:27 PM
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did you seriously make this thread just to obsess over her
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 11:17 PM
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several of them were well above high school age and even those that weren’t are by far better looking and more well-presented than your average high schooler. that’s why they exist; an ideal to admire and also identify with. when that becomes the norm in media, though, it’s hard to keep IRL expectations from changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 10:11 PM
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i don't think this is true of most people, but people like yourself/what you describe certainly do exist. but, with that said... movies and TV probably have this effect on a greater group of people, to a lesser extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 09:50 PM
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GOT ‘EM HAHAHA
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 07:28 PM
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but you're the one bothered by it (regardless of whether or not what you said is accurate), so why should everyone else leave? if you don't like it here, you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 06:57 PM
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same :P
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 06:22 PM
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i think lots of people feel actively negative towards washing dishes. but that aside, i get what you mean from the rest of the comment. my second paragraph stands (though that might be easier to say knowing that this isn't realistically ever going to happen).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 06:12 PM
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what positives would be missing? no desire expressed for their partner? being resistant if asked to do it? a lack of enthusiasm when they do engage, or... ? it's hard to answer without knowing what potential losses would be involved. as described in the OP, it doesn't sound terrible, but some of the downsides listed above would be tough to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 06:08 PM
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it's also because this OP rarely engages in good faith or any genuine/meaningful way, and most of us have learned it's just not worth the time or effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 05:49 PM
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mods... this person has openly admitted to being a troll in the past. there's no way this post is being made in good faith, whatsoever (which is hopefully still a concern). it would be great if this just got headed off at the pass. it's not going anywhere useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 03:47 PM
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why would women cheat on Mr. attractive with good dick? if they are cheating at all, both men are "the other man". especially if she stays with original guy. no fidelity or exclusivity to either. this is not hard to think through. apparently we have different definitions of sexually successful. The player has more sex with different women on his terms. Average dude does ok ...but ok is mediocre not successful. yes, i use the actual definition of the word. both men "have". they have succeeded in …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 03:38 PM
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guess OP needs to get better at writing and defining things then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 03:29 PM
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After all the average man is the one being cheated on. this is nonsense. moving on and pretending it is not nonsense for the sake of this discussion: isn't mr. successful also getting cheated on, if any cheating is even going on? if a guy is in a relationship, enough to be cheated on, is he not also a mr. successful? who is denying that when it comes to dating and relationships, women can be equally as shitty as men? this is all very, very flimsy, OP. just go find a designated woe-is-men sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 03:20 PM
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oh, come on. these threads aren't even for real discussion anymore, just more whining and moralizing and "life sucks and then you die" bullshit now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 03:10 PM
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and ladies, if you work hard enough, someday...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 02:15 PM
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the first thread seemed innocent/genuine, but based on your responses there and the existence of another “tell me all your personal life details thread” from you, whatever is going on here is shady.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 04:17 AM
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no and I don't really get this. like if I "liked" or wanted to become more red I'd become more red seconding this. i, too, think that the general BP/liberal whatever group can do some dumb shit, but that didn’t make me more red; it just made me less BP/liberal whatever. those are different things to me, and i still think as poorly of RP stuff as i did before.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 08:04 PM
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last time, i promise 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 06:52 PM
1

it makes sense that someone making a lighthearted joke would not laugh at someone taking it way too seriously, and into a weird place.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 06:35 PM
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wasn’t there some blog or article once talking about how women transfer mind control cells through sex or something? that’s def. gotta be it. those bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 05:27 PM
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you know, season 3 of The Magicians ended with a pretty similar line but i don’t think it’s going to work out too well for that group of characters. jokes aside, this is an odd line to me, and i would feel uncomfortable towards someone using it unless they are literally asking if i want to play a sports/video/board/card/other actual game.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 05:23 PM
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/r/asktrp or really, anywhere but here. go seek earth-shattering truth from your bros somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 01:32 PM
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😉
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 12:56 AM
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yet would yield the desired results.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 12:16 AM
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it would make them more scarce.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 11:05 PM
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i guess they post threads like this, that actually belong somewhere way else.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 08:05 PM
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yeah, basically. i can somewhat relate to the woman's perspective more, being a woman, but that kind of complaining is typically indicative of the same thing for both the men and women doing it: that they are the problem for one reason or another, and/or they have poor character.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 04:50 PM
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me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 03:19 PM
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phew x2 :) i actually saw that username last night and almost replied to say how much i liked it; shoulda known :P .
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 01:05 PM
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both; i think it’s more fun when both people are ‘playing’ and taking part in the fun tension.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 11:52 AM
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upvoted and saved, for the next time this inevitably comes up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 11:50 AM
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i had more written out about the ever-present paranoia and panic surrounding the “CC” but it’s just so absurd and tiresome i actually can’t be bothered. go ahead, do the thing, whip yourself up into a panic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 03:34 AM
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same. i will be out of the office for a doctor's appointment this week; i will have to do some watching when i am home recovering.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:42 PM
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it is understandable, but just pointing it out for some awareness: this reaction is the opposite of what someone would do if the pain of rejection was actually gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 05:18 AM
1

hmm, haven’t seen that either... good to know, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 05:17 AM
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probably not. i would suspect their motives, and it just seems easier to move on and leave it behind. no need to move backwards when there’s a ton of other ways to keep going ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:46 AM
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where do you think you are
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 11:29 PM
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most women don’t deny this. they will likely disagree that it’s all that beneficial or ideal to women, though. even for those that do hook up. we’re not men; this does not hold the same value to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 09:22 PM
1

i want to see hereditary so bad >.<
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 06:25 PM
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i was hanging out at a bar with a group of friends when a few of the guys started arguing over who had the most extensive/rarest collection of Sailor Moon stuff. the women present were fans too, but that was allll about pride and one-upmanship among themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 05:36 PM
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woman gave birth to OP > OP grew up and learned to use the Internet > this dumb post exists. hey, maybe he was right!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 05:21 PM
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every problem in society can be tied back to whoever the person doing the tying wants to blame it on. women are not the cause of all problems, some people just really enjoy placing the blame on them (especially if that means directing blame away from themselves).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 03:48 PM
1

even in America, that guy sounds quite a bit below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 02:32 PM
1

i don’t really care, and for the most part, don’t understand why people bother getting up in arms about it. they do their thing, you do yours, everyone is happy. i cannot think of any significant ways that it has affected my life, positively or negatively, and i imagine it is much the same for everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 12:37 AM
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lol, this thread again
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 04:22 PM
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yeah, even if it weren’t for the accusations, his demeanor expressed just through pictures screams creep. he’s the guy you avoid at a party while keeping a secretive eye on in case he tries to pull some dumb shit with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 04:17 AM
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and just has a weird vibe anyway, even in photos. i had never seen him before, but just at a glance... eck, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 08:50 PM
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Well with these rights granted to men, I don't see this ever becoming an issue. A man's willingness and ability to cut a child support check every month is a top determining factor for women when considering abortion. i disagree, but maybe this is an SES thing. If a woman is aware or is notified that the biological father of her unborn child has legally relinquished his parental rights and therefore duties, her next step would most likely be straight to the abortion clinic as she would realize s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 07:10 PM
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just judging by the info in the OP, probably that most moms get custody. i'm sure there's various reasons for that, but i haven't researched the subject much so i can't speak to which ones are most prevalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 07:02 PM
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The male would only benefit if the female actually pursues the abortion yes, that is obvious. In a case where neither party uses careful protection and both are equally negligent (I.e: Woman is not on BC and doesn't take the pill and Man does not use a condom); the woman still holds all of the power to opt out of parenthood via abortion, even if the pregnancy is equally her fault, the man has no say or influence other than trying to reason with her informally. yes, that is true. I'm advocating f…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 06:42 PM
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i said nothing about abstaining from sex. i advocated for careful protection. if you choose to interpret that as total abstinence, that's on you. i would offer the same advice to women complaining about an unwanted child; it doesn't make sense for me to say that to women seeking or getting abortions. i think abortion should be a last resort only, but an abortion is still a resolution to an unwanted pregnancy (which a guy who also didn't want to be a dad would indirectly benefit from).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 06:24 PM
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facial beauty is by far more important to me than height. both are nice, but a guy with a really cute face will win over a not-so-cute tall guy. edit: i almost hope this turns into a cute guy thread. it's been at least a month since the last one :( . haha. edit edit: i didn't click the google link for James Deen since i'm on a work computer but managed to find some SFW articles with SFW pictures/thumbnails... i understand how James Deen could appeal to some women, he's not ugly in good pictures …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 05:47 PM
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this would be better if it seemed less fear-mongery and included things like the four horsemen. or maybe some half-life-2-style of a pause on reproduction. now those are interesting scenarios to consider.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 05:30 PM
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If a woman chooses to keep a child, should the biological father have the ability to choose to abandon his parental obligation, and be legally free and clear of any financial liability to the mother and her child but also any rights as a parent he otherwise may have (i.e: he's pretty much a stranger to the child)? iirc, i think most people here agree that this would be okay (at least, as long as the child could still receive sufficient care). but ultimately, if your strong independent brothers d…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 05:15 PM
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probably not, because there will then (likely) be some lingering resentment and negative feelings to work through. it can be centered around the chores and still involve more than just that, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 03:51 PM
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How often would you like to have sex with your SO? our rate of a 3-4 times a week is sufficient. If you are a woman who's sex life has slowed with your SO, why did it happen from your perspective? it was a temporary period, but i was dealing with some heavy anxiety and depression. a lot of things slowed down, not just our bedroom. What do you think can be done about the issues plaguing frequency of sex in the relationship? in most cases... make sure you're both appealing to each other/put effort…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 01:21 PM
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work harder, do better, wear different shirts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 08:57 PM
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i’m usually pretty forgiving about this, but it has gotten a little crazy recently, with people who claim to have been raised in an English-speaking country and/or claim to be super smart. you should know better, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 07:23 PM
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this is a lie. i don't even work out that much, and even my body looks different and clothes fit differently. it's not effortless, but it's not that hard (especially for a man). that quote is NOT talking about some insanely ripped guy, stop imagining that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 03:44 PM
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i think what most women mean here is just wearing non-ratty/stained/graphic tee clothing and being aware of diet and physique. i don't think they're asking a lot, honestly. as for me, whatever used to be called "metro". it's not necessarily wearing makeup (and who plucks their eyelashes?!) but good skincare, good haircare, watching physique, dressing stylishly is attractive, maybe makeup on a rare occasion... but i am in the minority on that, i think. i really do think most women here are just s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 01:33 AM
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someone brought Nothing Bundt Cakes to the office, and i think that might be the best thing i've ever eaten.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 08:49 PM
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there's no rule or law saying i have to answer every question posed in a given thread; perhaps you are the one unaware of what this place is and how it works. besides, i do what i want.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 08:03 PM
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What about a middle ground? What about the guy who lifts 5 or 6 times a week, makes over $100K, dresses masculinely, has 'manly hobbies, OYS etc but craves being the bottom, being pegged, spanked, tied up etc and deferrant in the household manners? Do any of you find this kind of guy hot? LTR material? Husband material? i don't even know how said man would have time for all of that, and me. but that aside, i don't find that hot and wouldn't consider him LTR or husband material because... i'm pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:52 PM
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as it is becoming increasingly apparent that you cannot actually explain how GinSmokeLies is at all personally affected by your posts and comments (despite continuing to insist that is the case), i recommend seeking a different method of trying to weasel your way out of having to support your own posts. there are plenty; find a new one. i trust that you will be able to do so easily, given your GPA and ability to maintain it while redditing through lectures.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:14 PM
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<3
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:06 PM
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Again topic stuck a little too close to home, I suppose i'm disappointed that your promise of a PM explaining this remains unfulfilled. is there a reason for the delay?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 06:04 PM
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oh, i'm sure. so innocent, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 02:21 PM
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i'm under no obligation to answer your question, which is why i didn't, opting instead to point out that you fell into the usual trap men do here, thinking that all men are out doing backbreaking work at all hours of the day while women make coffee in offices and just gab for hours on end. it would benefit you to be more aware of that, and avoid it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 02:04 PM
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lol, most men do not work 10 hours in construction. it's not any more heroic for a man to lift a paperclip or seal an envelope or type an email than for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 01:33 PM
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it is. but it's not surprising that some men here don't think so... and that often, they're the ones complaining about their lack of success/happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 01:31 PM
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2, although 1 is a problem on its own because i don’t drive. but, we could still find transportation easier than trying to have any kind of decent life with such low income. the stress of that would be high and constant. if he’s otherwise attractive and what i’m into, him being shorter is not an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 12:40 PM
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There's nothing arrogant/sexist/condescending about the fact that professed preferences are often inaccurate perhaps it isn’t on its own or in other arenas, but that’s typically how it is here. people aren’t stupid, so they pick up on it and react accordingly. let’s be real: in this sub, people dismissing what other people say about their preferences aren’t making a profound scientific statement, they’re just being an asshole while stroking their own ego about how superior they are. it’s also ty…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 12:37 PM
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this checks so many "manosphere horror story" boxes that i can't bring myself to believe it. too many elements were included, making it transparent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 02:24 AM
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what unnecessary nastiness, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 11:29 PM
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Why did you/your spouse choose to get married? chiming in on this question... it was important to him/he wanted it, for a mix of love and tradition. i was actually pretty anti-marriage for a while, believing it would never work for me, then i just didn’t want to get married because i wanted to be sure we were ready, and then we were so we did. we aren’t having kids, but if we had planned on it, that would be another reason to have gotten married. i believe there are some men that marriage would …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 11:21 PM
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i have not received any PMs. if you tried sending it, it did not work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 03:35 PM
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what?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 03:30 PM
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it sounds like you have a pretty solid explanation just waiting to be shared, so you can PM it to me instead, without worrying about the rules of this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 02:19 PM
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This would not be the case if there was a personal involvement in the topic, it must have hit her a little too close to home please explain how she could possibly have any personal involvement in the topic, and how your post would hit close to home. please explain how this relates to her at all. can you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 02:11 PM
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There is absolutely an aversion to young men having the tools to make the world work for themselves. i believe the aversion is not to young men developing life skills, but to parents treating their children like a second chance at life for themselves and guiding the children to their own unfulfilled dating/social goals. to be fair, that may or may not be you, but mentioning "life truths about what women are attracted to" and the strong negative reactions that you are getting from lots of people …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 02:05 PM
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Topic struck a little close to home, I guess. please explain how this works, and is expressed through her comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 02:00 PM
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the kinds of posts and comments here that include calls to free speech on the sub are just convincing me that it may be overrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 01:32 PM
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that's what i was wondering, even just at a glance at this post. it sounds pretty close, if not. edit: so many caps. it has to be. now, just waiting for him to bust out another "U A WOMAN" to someone who replies to him. this edited quote shows real dedication to the writing style too: U DON’T EVEN HAVE YOUNGER SISTERS?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 01:30 PM
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fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 10:13 PM
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Where? Where would he ask “those women?” Where is r/askwomenwhosettledforbetasafterhavingtheirfun. that's his job, not mine, lol. he seems to believe this is prevalent, hopefully based on at least something, so he can go bring his questions to an appropriate group if he's truly seeking an answer to something. as it stands, he's just asking women a question that they can't possibly answer, making this seem like his more likely goal here. my account is new, but i am not, and this is what men come …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 08:50 PM
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then he should go ask those women. that is not most women here, and even the few that did go clubbing or whatever didn't have some backburner guy, and don't parade around talking about how great they are and how lucky a guy is to be married to them and basking in their presence. know your audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 08:11 PM
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same; that was a lot of fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 03:17 PM
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I mean fair enough but all this is going to do is put a bandaid on the problem for a few times, but this WILL lead to a completely dead bedroom. The more sex is unenjoyable, the less you are going to want to have it. Eventually you are going to stop giving in at all. what u/LSTW1234 is talking about is often just part of a normal relationship, though (so long as it isn't something that starts happening at increasing frequency). it's not something that's going to result in a dead bedroom, and thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 03:06 PM
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