hissyyfit1 Archive

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5	I’m overweight need to be skinny to be allowed to travel and get married. Lol no. Not unless you went absolutely crazy and are extremely disciplined. The only way you can lose that much by December is through intermittent fasting, and that’s if you barely ate. There are healthy ways of fasting that are effective and life changing, however. Heavy people who fast tend to lose weight rapidly in the very beginning. At your weight (and I’m assuming average height) it’d be the first ~20lb to go quickly. After that you plateau for a little while but remember the weight doesn…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/08/23 05:14 AM
2	Why do I look up to men when I have never had a good male role model in my life? I don’t think you’re grasping the difference between the situation you’re bringing up and the one OP is talking about.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/01/23 01:31 AM
3	Why do I look up to men when I have never had a good male role model in my life? Yeah but people who have experienced it often don’t have daddy issues or anything like that which is what we’re talking about. So even if it is evolutionary, the absence is still felt because there was nothing there to fulfill that evolutionary “need”, for lack of a better phrase.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/01/23 08:02 PM
2	Why do I look up to men when I have never had a good male role model in my life? Not sure what you are referencing in my comment.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/01/23 07:54 PM
7	Why do I look up to men when I have never had a good male role model in my life? Well, you answered your own question. You haven’t experienced it, but you want to. But honestly, I would be really careful if I were you. You expect the “best” behavior, character, morals, etc. out of a male partner perhaps to fulfill an unmet role/need in your life? Then be prepared for disappointment. Lol. Be prepared for soul-crushing disappointment because that’s what you get when you, consciously or subconsciously, put a partner in that role. They will disappoint you because at some point a…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/01/23 06:03 PM
5	I'm moving in with my boyfriend soon. How do I decrease my living-in-filth tolerance before then, so I can do a a sufficient job at keeping his home clean? Ah okay so she sounds like she also has issues. My worry just reading what you’re saying is that, like, there is a line in terms of what’s healthy and what isn’t and saying you need to achieve that same standard is not healthy. Can you see what I mean? It really isn’t healthy. You cannot go from one extreme to the next. An HOUR cleaning smudges off of a window? That’s insanity. You need to set boundaries for yourself and him and also find some mental peace, you know? I would just work on the sma…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/01/23 04:16 AM
2	I'm moving in with my boyfriend soon. How do I decrease my living-in-filth tolerance before then, so I can do a a sufficient job at keeping his home clean? Are you sure he’s extremely clean? Because it sounds like you don’t have a healthy grasp on what “clean” is, and I mean that in the most respectful and un-presumptuous way as possible. His level of cleanliness is probably the default for many people who regularly clean their homes. My floor is also spotless but that’s because I vacuum twice a week and it is a natural thing for me to do. I think it’s important to denote that hoarding and substance abuse are both mental illnesses, too. So if you’r…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/01/23 03:49 AM
9	Husband lied for a year about smoking. Tbh the advice for this one in the comments section is really weird and bizarre. “You married him when he was a smoker, don’t expect him to change.” Yeah, except he said he would and then he lied about it. So obviously the issue isn’t just smoking, it’s the fact he lied about something. When it comes to the health of the father of OP’s child, I think she has every right to be concerned and, frankly, a little pissed off he lied about something that could potentially, you know, kill him prematurel…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/01/23 06:59 AM
2	Disrespect will be your Downfall Lovely post, thank you 💕	/r/RedPillWomen	19/01/23 05:35 AM
2	Vitamins and supplements for health This is a cute bot actually lol. Most seed oils, including sunflower oil, is not good for us, though.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/01/23 05:45 AM
2	Vitamins and supplements for health If you’re serious about gut health, start drinking kefir. For real. You can order grains on Etsy and ferment it yourself. I use raw, organic cow and goat milk, but many people prefer using organic, pasteurized milk as well. Keyword: organic. You can mix it into smoothies if you hate the taste. Recommend only drinking kefir 3x a week when you’re first starting. Anything fermented will help your microbiome and gut flora. Personally, my favorites are kimchi and pickled radishes. I also really like …	/r/RedPillWomen	18/01/23 05:43 AM
19	the lack of masculinity in my partner This was amazing, also the testosterone thing made me chuckle because I know tons of gym bros who do cycles of testosterone depending on their goals and have children, are “alpha” as can be, etc. I feel like OP has a disconnect in terms of the testosterone thing. Beautiful response though.	/r/RedPillWomen	09/01/23 03:23 PM
5	Will plastic surgery harm my chances to find someone instead of help? You can’t hide breast implants so do not listen to the person telling you to hide that. Literally just not possible lol. Please keep in mind that if you have little breast tissue, no implant will look “completely” natural, so try to get a realistic idea of what your final look will be. And it depends on the guy. Some guys are super turned off by plastic surgery, some aren’t. If you’re confident in yourself and don’t come off as vain (very important), then you’ll be fine. From what I’ve seen, it’…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/01/23 04:18 AM
2	My friends are ignoring me: am I at fault? That’s a really shitty thing to say to a friend, I’m sorry that happened. I’ve lost two best friends within two years and I know it’s really hard 😞 Wishing you the best of luck though, you’ll find your people soon enough<3	/r/RedPillWomen	07/01/23 09:56 PM
1	My friends are ignoring me: am I at fault? To be honest, I don’t think being conservative is what is causing difficulties in your friendships. I turned 23 a few months ago and I’m a religious, conservative, catholic school kid. I went to college in a small town and later a big city in New England; now I’m finishing up school in another city. Never had an issue making or maintaining friendships because of conservatism. I have accepted, however, that I have to be selective with the friends I choose to keep because a lot of women our age ar…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/01/23 07:42 PM
7	All about being Feminine Yeah, I gotta agree lol. This is what happens to 99.9% of content creators in general. I unfollowed after the fourth post about how she used to be ashamed of her curves but now she isn’t and here’s a picture of her in a tight dress. People forget content creators have analytic plugin tools - they can see the sex and age group that view whichever post however many times, and it inevitably goes to peoples’ heads. There is literally only one content creator who I am subscribed to on YouTube that ha…	/r/RedPillWomen	05/01/23 12:51 AM
1	Life with a lawyer husband? Really depends on the type of law and how many other lawyers are representing his firm. Starting a firm in general is going to take some time. Maybe you should talk to your sister in law and ask about her experience. Is he wanting to take cases to trial? Will he only be consulting? Long nights at the office or stressful days are surely ahead of him, but every lawyer in my family manages to spend a good amount of time with their kids while also providing. Can’t have your cake and eat it too, as t…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/01/23 07:39 PM
19	Becoming a stepmother the RPW way. I mean, this is kind of textbook. You married a divorcee with a child. Nothing wrong with that, but divorce is really traumatic for kids, and at thirteen, he’s changing, growing, and dealing with an unfortunate dynamic/situation. What you’re feeling - frustration, an inability to bond with your stepson, guilt - is all normal. It’s also normal for him to lash out and be generally unpleasant at this time. My advice would be to build a strong support network around yourself. If your husband has man…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/01/23 06:44 PM
27	What do you think of girls paying on the first date? At 16, I think it’s a good idea for both of you to pay, at least in the beginning. It’s not like the 16 kid who asked you out is financially independent, and he’s probably getting a little help from his parents to take you out. Plus a lot of teenagers are saving for college/cars/etc around that age, and it just isn’t the same as when you’re over 18. Once you’re an adult, that’s when it’s a better idea to want the man to pay if you’re looking for something more traditional. In the past I always o…	/r/RedPillWomen	02/01/23 08:08 PM
2	would you understand if your HVM partner would hook up with other people on the side? Wow this is such a good point! So often we equate HVM to high quality and although I often use these two terms interchangeably, it isn’t always the case. In fact, maybe it isn’t the case most of the time. Such a simple point but this really opened my eyes, thank you for this addition!!!	/r/RedPillWomen	28/12/22 08:18 PM
26	thoughts on 'redpill' yt vids My take is that most of these people are full of shit, to put it bluntly. We’re not supposed to moralize on here so I’m not going to overtly pass judgement on those who have open relationships or whatever, but in my personal opinion, I hope this dynamic dies out soon and becomes increasingly less socially acceptable. I went on Pearly Things’ channel and the first vid is “modern women fear competition.” Sorry for cursing, but NO SHIT. EVERYONE does. Why the hell do people think there are so many …	/r/RedPillWomen	28/12/22 05:52 AM
28	Do men actually like nice girls? Um yeah men like women who are nice to them. But being nice doesn’t mean being a doormat. You have to strike a healthy balance. There are books that say men like submissive women or men like bitches, etc etc. Most of it is circumstantial. The golden rule, imo, is keep your femininity (kindness, understanding, submission to an extent) while keeping your wits about you (don’t be a freaking doormat, enforce your boundaries, embrace your value and decide how you want to be treated, etc). To add to t…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/12/22 04:28 AM
3	How do relationships work out if we're so different? Oh ok sorry I feel rude lol I didn’t mean to discontinue it, I just meant in case it was rude to continue on my part. Also to play devil’s advocate, there is a mountain of evidence disproving both of us: that men are more inclined to promiscuity based on evolution. Tons of studies show this to be false (not just the promiscuity but the reasons why), but I take most studies with a grain of salt these days. I didn’t focus on the baby mama drama part just because we definitely agree on that. Sorry,…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/12/22 08:20 PM
4	How do relationships work out if we're so different? Yeah but you’re also putting all the blame on men, and on RPW, that just isn’t an acceptable position to take. “If men undid the past millennia of hardwiring and evolution, then maybe women would value different things other than money and status.” I mean…really? Are you really sure about that? Because this is borderline “the industrial revolution was a mistake” talk right now lol. Your main complaint is that men don’t view sex as a necessarily emotional activity (therefore are more promiscuous)…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/12/22 07:41 PM
3	How do relationships work out if we're so different? Yeah, but again, it’s not as simple as an urge. I don’t think you get what I’m saying or you don’t understand how important biology is to our actions, which if you haven’t noticed, is kind of a huge point in RP lol. Women aren’t going to stop being more emotional on average. Men aren’t going to start viewing sex as necessarily emotional. A man doesn’t have to sleep around to view sex as something he can detach from more easily than women btw ¯_(ツ)_/¯ You’re conflating actions (men sleeping aroun…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/12/22 01:40 PM
40	Cheating so I just might not be high value ENOUGH. Enough with the RPW HVW stuff. It is important in other circumstances but you weren’t cheated on because of this. Even if you weren’t a HVW, if you are in a monogamous relationship and the boundaries there are established, you still wouldn’t have deserved to be cheated on. You said it yourself - you were a good, faithful partner, and he took advantage of that by having his cake and eating it, too. On top of that, I hope you know that even if you were on …	/r/RedPillWomen	19/12/22 02:38 AM
6	How do relationships work out if we're so different? You kind of completely brushed off their points about how men are literally wired differently than us, and it isn’t simply because of learned behaviors, which you basically said, but because they’re different biologically, principally hormonally and neurologically. I’ve got nothing against people who say most men are like dogs because hey, it’s true, a lot of men really will just sleep with anything. It’s disgusting and shitty, but it’s because of something, and that “stereotype” isn’t going to …	/r/RedPillWomen	18/12/22 09:41 PM
3	Male friendships while in a relationship? Because it would weird me out? Idk. If I was single, how comfortable I am with that depends on the friend and how close we are. But the reason this is important is for the sake of the relationship angle - I don’t want to be friends with people who would sleep with me if given the opportunity. Why? Because I’m dating someone right now lol. You might not see the problem with that, but my boyfriend does. So do I. Also, I think you’re missing the point. “Why can’t friendship and attraction mutually …	/r/RedPillWomen	02/12/22 12:42 PM
9	Male friendships while in a relationship? I think generally speaking men and women can’t be friends the way they can be in same-sex friendships (man/man, woman/woman). But tbh it’s a little ridiculous and kind of a lie to say they can’t be friends at all. There are always exceptions, however rare. For example, I have a childhood guy friend. We’ve helped each other out during difficult times in the past. He’s attractive, I’m attractive, obviously we can see that about each other, but nothing ever happened. I’ve never been into him that w…	/r/RedPillWomen	02/12/22 12:15 AM
2	Advice on staying in good shape? Intermittent fasting, cutting out sugar, eating more fermented foods. IF has amazing long term health benefits. It affects the body differently for women compared to men. Here is a good starting point. Fermented foods, specifically kefir which you can make into a smoothie, helps with gut health. Limiting sugar can also help your skin. Also you don’t have to lift at the gym. Look up the app Caliber. It seriously changed my life. It’s free and is literally the best workout app I’ve ever used. The …	/r/RedPillWomen	11/11/22 02:33 AM
1	Other than the obvious, what are your glow up routines? Rosemary oil also helps with hair growth btw :) scientifically proven to increase the length a tiny bit faster so might be worth it to add to your routine	/r/RedPillWomen	08/11/22 01:41 PM
1	where do you RPW stand when it comes to having kids? NFP still allows openness to life. Do you not understand that? Why do you think birth control or condoms or pulling out isn’t allowed? You need to go through with the act all the way, according to doctrine, and at the same time be open to possibly conceiving. NFP is NOT full proof and many women practicing NFP have experienced this. Not only that, but as we see within the CATECHISM, the whole point of sex and being open to life is procreation - this IS what Catholics believe. It is the single mo…	/r/RedPillWomen	31/10/22 10:48 PM
1	where do you RPW stand when it comes to having kids? Actually, it is. You can either do NFP, abstain, or procreate. NFP for some women, however, isn’t what they want to do. And in a discussion about religion, sex, and having kids, this is a topic that gets brought up. I’m really not sure why you would say this isn’t what Catholics believe; the subreddit is a click away. I grew up Catholic, I know the doctrine very well, and sex is considered a unitive practice meant to be open to the possibility of children, which is why NFP is allowed and birth c…	/r/RedPillWomen	31/10/22 05:51 PM
0	where do you RPW stand when it comes to having kids? Okay so I think a lot of religious people with little guidance often think there are only two extremes: either pump out as many kids as possible or die childfree. I’m devoutly Christian and I’ve never seen child rearing this way. My mom is one of eight; she didn’t have the best time growing up in part due to how many kids there were, but that never steered her away from God. Not that I’m judging anyone who decided to not believe anymore, I’m just saying this is what my experience growing up was.…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/10/22 10:56 PM
3	How would you want your husband to see you: she's so cute or she's so hot/sexy Idk I don’t think hot necessarily brings temporary fun. Some of the longest married men I’ve known throughout my life referred to their wives as hot, even in their 60s. Plus for some people it does take effort to be hot but there are some effortlessly hot women out there and then you have to consider that “hot” to some guys can mean a moderately attractive girl (which also means cute to a lot of guys) who has an amazing personality or specific characteristics they like (like interests or somethi…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/10/22 11:10 PM