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It's definitely not a relative. I've met her family and they all live in another part of the country. And as I said in another comment, I watched them for a while and I think anyone could tell they were on a date.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 06:46 AM
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I guess you're right. But not everyone here is can just simply shut off their emotions and move on.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 06:43 AM
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Thanks Andy I really appreciate it This is the most practical advice I got so far, will definitely do as you advised.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 04:17 AM
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I figure the oneitis crept up on me. But to my defense, Covid made it nearly impossible for me to spin and she was always at my place. But yeah, it's oneitis.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 09:38 PM
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Yeah. Some part of me is happy coz I get back the 4 hours I spent with her on the daily. It's been hard juggling work and fitness with her around.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 09:36 PM
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Yeah. I always loved that line from Rollo. Guess I didn't actually believe it though.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 09:33 PM
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I got too much history and attachment, won't work. But thanks.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 09:32 PM
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I think I'll just go no contact. You can't imagine the shit-storm that would ensue if she saw me with another chic.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 09:30 PM
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You're kinda going against 90% of what everyone's saying. But I already crossed that bridge, I blocked and deleted her on everything. And no matter how bad I want what you're saying to be true, I watched them for a while and they weren't just friends.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 09:28 PM
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Thanks I'm from Africa so I guess I thought the super hypergamy I see in your women wasn't a factor in my super conservative world. But Kanye is still great here too
/r/askTRP22/08/20 09:25 PM
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Naah We were dating dating She kept talking of marriage and family with me through it all.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 09:22 PM
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Thanks. I weirdly read a lot of such stories in this and other red pill subs but I guess I deluded myself that it'd never happen to me. Yeah, I'll try not to turn myself into a victim.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 06:37 PM
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Can you please elaborate on the Brad Pitt analogy. Seen it but I've never looked into it.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 06:23 PM
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Thanks I figure I'll be okay in time like you said. You may have learned about redpill a long time ago, but this pain is you actually swallowing the pill. And this hit true
/r/askTRP22/08/20 06:21 PM
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Hey man Thanks for this Will definitely be coming back to it for the coming weeks As for how to deal with the depressive episode, ask yourself this: how would you feel right now if you truly didn’t care? How would that feel? I especially like this, I know the technique works for creating a strong frame, guess it has to work in other areas.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 06:18 PM
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Thanks. I actually was planning on going to a gun range this weekend with her. Probably will be more fun with the boys.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 06:13 PM
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I'm in Africa, it's super hard to find a parent who's relationship isn't distant with their kid (at least in my country I should say). Especially the dad-daughter dynamic.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 05:57 PM
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Thanks. Gave me perspective. Thanks for taking the time. I now feel like a little bitch in comparison though 😂
/r/askTRP22/08/20 05:53 PM
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YOU did something wrong. Been thinking about this. But the only thing I can think of is my social life took a hit coz of Covid. I'm lifting 6 days a week but other than that I spend the rest of my time working. Maybe she saw something wrong with that?
/r/askTRP22/08/20 05:17 PM
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Done Thanks
/r/askTRP22/08/20 04:57 PM
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Naah I wasn't spinning. I stayed around campus while nearly everyone went back home after the university was closed because of Covid. Even if I wanted to I couldn't spin, this place is a ghost town once people go home. But I realize that's my mistake.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 04:55 PM
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Naah, she has this crazy hold me, I think calling her is a bad, knowing her, she'd reverse that shit on me and try to convince me I'm being delusional.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 04:38 PM
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...nope. You saw a girl who sucks your dick out with another dude.... whose dick she probably sucks also. I like this. Still sucks though.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 04:36 PM
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Thanks for taking the time. Guess I also thought she was my unicorn. Yeah it's my first time being cheated on.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 04:06 PM
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Our landlord is letting us live rent free during Covid so I was planning on saving up Thanks man
/r/askTRP22/08/20 03:52 PM
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Adjacent apartments
/r/askTRP22/08/20 03:51 PM
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I get the break up and no contact part. I'm just saying it'd probably be a little harder moving on if the thing that caused you pain is constantly around you. What I really need advice on is practical things I can do to keep my head straight. But thanks
/r/askTRP22/08/20 03:35 PM
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I forgot to mention I'm in a third world African country We don't do that here But I'll look into it
/r/askTRP22/08/20 03:25 PM
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Can't work, she lives close but I've already blocked her
/r/askTRP22/08/20 03:24 PM
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The breaking up part is kind of obvious, I can't really go no contact with her, she lives a minute away from her so I'd still see her on the regular
/r/askTRP22/08/20 03:23 PM
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