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Uhh, you haven't exactly demonstrated your expertise on the topic either. Basically all you've said is you're not accepting a certain answer without bothering to explain why you think that answer is insufficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 08:09 PM
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My understanding of the friendzone was completely different in high school. It was just the state of not being on a person's radar for romantic or sexual relationships. Girls could be friendzoned, guys could be friendzoned, anybody. The "entitlement" aspect is still a pretty new concept. It's weird for me to think of it that way because I grew up seeing the term as a completely neutral assessment of how one person perceives someone else. There were (and still are) plenty of people who were able …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 04:35 AM
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Opposite pill concept that makes sense in theory, but wouldn't work in practice. I didn't get it either until I clicked on the link lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 04:09 AM
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No way. You mean that a one-sentence "But I don't blame them, it's just in their nature, bro" disclaimer doesn't automatically make a post non-judgmental?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 04:04 AM
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Anecdote time! My parents married when my dad was 23 and my mom was 21. They fought constantly and separated several times. Their relationship didn't stabilize until they were both in their late 20's/early 30's. My mom outright says that she would have divorced him if separating hadn't taken such a toll on my brother. My sister and I were firmly in dgaf mode, though I was probably too young to notice what was going on. Plus they're both Catholic, which likely played a role in their staying toget…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 02:27 PM
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Note that he conveniently avoids mentioning the age of the women you'll be attracting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 08:47 AM
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Legal teens are mainly interested in dating each other. The kind of status they're most concerned about (most popular guys at their schools, athletes, great to show off to their friends, easy integration into their social circles) isn't something older dudes have. After graduation (so we're looking at about 22+) the priorities change and they become more open to seriously dating older guys. You might be able to get hook-ups or short summer/spring break flings with them but they get bored pretty …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 01:49 AM
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How old are "younger women" to you? Are you including teens? 20+ only?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 12:11 AM
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For most of the supposed strawmen I've seen against TRP there's been at least one EC who actually did say it (including the infamous "TRP is absolutely based in misogyny, you can definitely quote me on that as an endorsed contributor" statement from an EC). To what extent we can make judgments about the TRP community on the basis of EC comments and posts is debatable. On Reddit special flairs are generally reserved for those who hold special expertise on the sub and are more or less considered a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 03:34 AM
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You're probably right lol. I'm just used to noobies rolling in here, invalidating everyone, getting their comments deleted, arguing with the mods over it, and then getting their post removed in like an hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 12:36 AM
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...What was the point of that reply? Because the dude is a master of avoiding outright invalidation. Seriously, this entire thing is obviously in bad faith, but I've basically scanned the entire thread and can't find a blatant case of invalidation spoken directly to another user. All of it's implicit. Either this dude is a natural, he lurks a lot, or he read the rules pretty carefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 12:31 AM
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>Anyway, using my common sense, what could be so great about being penetrated by big stiff rod over and over again? It must be humiliating. If this isn't an argument for the existence of male solipsism I don't know what is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 07:07 PM
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Ah, I see. That makes sense. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 11:54 PM
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Just wondering...What do mods make of the constant complaining about downvotes/accusing others of downvoting? I think it's becoming a bit childish and detracts from the conversations being had. I've seen such comments getting removed from time to time while other times they're allowed to stay up. Is there an official rule on that? Mod discretion?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 10:13 PM
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Hard nexts only. No taking it back, no asking for second chances, no flip-flopping. Get the fuck over it and move on. What's done is done. ​
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 08:48 AM
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Just curious...Would you say that a sociopath is inherently more rational than a normal person?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 05:39 AM
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Yup, I do the same thing, moreso if the dude has his shirt off for any reason (jogging, beach, etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 06:16 PM
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20F here. Section IV. Paragraph 2 reminds me of the "How do you do, fellow kids" meme. Much of that sounds like a man who is trying waaay too hard. Ime either an older guy can fit in with and impress younger women or he can't. It's a natural thing that depends entirely on where he is in life and what the younger women he's coming into contact with are looking for (fun, maturity, both, etc.) You cannot make a younger woman who has zero interest in older men change her mind unless you're bringing …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 01:17 AM
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None of that is inherently nihilistic. If anything I think you could refer to TRP as hedonistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 03:26 AM
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I was directly rejected once back in high school before I finally got it through my thick skull that it's better to sit back and let dudes do the chasing. Now I reject on the regular and don't really face rejection outside of occasionally learning secondhand that a guy I like isn't interested or already has a GF.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 01:54 AM
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I come from a family where age gaps between spouses tend to be no more than three years (usually with the man being the older one), so I guess I'm kinda biased here. Oftentimes when I see a woman irl bash men for dating younger women they are speaking from bad experiences they themselves had as young women. Common ones include unknowingly being an older's guy's sidechick at some point or being strung along by an older dude who promised he was going to divorce his wife for her. So I agree that th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 03:49 AM
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I'll take no true scotsman for $100, Alex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 03:32 AM
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20! And thank you! The urges are a bit tough to deal with sometimes lol. I just distract myself and stay focused on other things like school work or family or hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/18 11:55 AM
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Yup! I'm pretty sure I mentioned that in my first comment haha. Nothing past first base. I can't until after I get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/18 11:38 AM
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No, I don't think I would do it just for that purpose. PIV genuinely sounds pleasing/enjoyable to me. Oral sex does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/18 11:32 AM
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Correct. Oral stimulation as a type of foreplay is fine by me (as is fine with the church). I just don't want the finish to happen in my mouth. That part would have to happen PIV.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/18 11:15 AM
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It depends. Some instructors seem to consider phrases like that "greetings" specifically when they're used to start a conversation with a stranger or a known person of a higher rank or status to distinguish from when you're just briefly saying them as an apology for something (say bumping into a person) and moving on. Similar to how いい天気ですね was treated as a greeting by my sensei (native Japanese speaker) since it can be used within the context of starting a convo with a stranger even though in o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 08:58 PM
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すみませんけど。。。 In class we were taught to greet pretty much any stranger with this before asking questions. EDIT: And 失礼します. We had to say that whenever we entered sensei's office.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 02:51 AM
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It depends on what you mean by "girly." Cooking/baking is a traditionally feminine hobby that's become more gender neutral and even attractive to many women over time (including me). Cheering is a weird example because I believe it used to be more of a gender neutral thing and became stereotypically girly over time. But now all of the dudes on the cheer team are getting laid just as much if not more than the dudes on the football team. Personally, I prefer men who can enjoy or at least appreciat…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 03:03 AM
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I have three major ones Personal hangups. The thought of giving a dude a BJ has always been repulsive to me. Knowing that would be off the table even within a marital relationship is definitely a plus. Same with anal. RPW/The Rules-related reasons. A lot of their advice would not be out of place in Catholic dating advice books, but they approach the advice from a more pragmatic outlook (maintaining desire, getting high-quality men who are serious about relationships, making him work for it/chase…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 01:38 AM
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I'm Catholic myself. These views are pretty much what I've grown up with in Catholic schools, so I would say you have a good summary here. My parents raised us Catholic, but they are pretty chill about the faith when it comes to the teachings on sex. My dad got a vasectomy a couple years after they married (which is not allowed by the church), and that caused a bit of drama, but ultimately my mom got over it. He's a bit more guilty about it now that he's more serious about the faith (some 25ish …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 11:37 PM
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Sure, go for it!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/18 11:50 PM
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In before "You just haven't met the right dude yet."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/18 10:22 PM
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Personally I've witnessed two schools of AWALT from TRPers: It is in a woman's nature to do X; therefore she will do X. It is in a woman's nature to do X; she may or may not actually do it, but it's best to expect that she will so you can plan accordingly and/or minimize potential damages down the road. 1 is easily disproven/challenged. It is impossible to predict human behavior with a 100% guaranteed success rate. This is the kind of mentality that causes you to dictate to absolute strangers on…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/18 10:16 PM
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Virgin waiting until marriage here. Generally, my friends are perfectly accepting of that decision and give me zero crap over it. Horny dudes, though? Not so much. Popular belief seems to be that waiting until marriage is just an act and she'll give in if you're attractive enough and make the right moves. Heaven forbid she actually follows through on her word and refuses to fuck you. Enter the prude-shaming, accusations of being a tease, the whole nine yards. I've experienced it all myself. I ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/18 07:59 AM
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>Two common red pill beliefs are that women like assholes, and women like rich guys. It depends on how you're defining "like." RP doesn't say that women are attracted to money in and of itself. Hence beta bucks and the whole provider thing. They say that women "like" rich men in that they want to secure them for resources. I think the kind of rich guy you're describing (hard-working, disciplined, determined, etc.) would be a potential alpha bucks, who gets the attraction and, in theory, could al…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 09:52 AM
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I know the user is black and Incel, but I think she's a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 09:34 AM
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This comment is not a response to the OP. It's a response to your assertion that expecting a boyfriend to cheat would be protecting female sexual nature onto men. That is false. Men are just as likely to cheat but are triggered to do so by a different biological drive. >This is assuming that men and women behave the same in sexual situations, which they don't. Hypergamy is natural for women, not men. In your statement you're basically applying the same sexual expectations that are on you, on you…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 11:12 PM
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Hypergamy is natural for women, not men. In your statement you're basically applying the same sexual expectations that are on you, on your man, which is invalid. Quite a few users here, including Reds, say that women are hypergamous while men are polygynous by nature. So basically she can expect that her BF will pick chicks up like Pokémon while also wanting to keep her. That means cheating. He probably won't leave, but he will cheat if we're going by the "nature" argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 05:24 AM
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And accuses you of downvoting all of his comments lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 04:45 AM
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Depending on who you ask, AWALT doesn't say that all women will do that. It says that all women are like that. As in, in the case of cheating, all women will experience the urge to do it at some point if a better option than their SO comes along. I know. Humans get urges to do bad things. Shocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 04:19 AM
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Is age taken into account here as well (i.e. only people of same age or within so many years of each other can be matched)? That will definitely impact how I rate male satisfaction (perhaps female as well, but arguably to a lesser degree). Some items on your list select for that, but I could still see significant age variance happening within the tiers if there isn't some kind of explicit constraint in that area. Edit: content
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 08:29 PM
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VICTORY!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 07:46 AM
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The bus was full of dudes and no one said nothing Bystander effect has been a known thing since the 60s, dude. It's not some new concept that men decided on to get back at women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 06:21 PM
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Hunchback 2 is a big one. Quasimodo gets a girl in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 10:58 PM
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Virtually everyone, everywhere, 100% of the time is a going to think they're the biggest victim. It's the coveted "society agrees that I'm a victim" award that causes contention. Some people have the award but insist that they don't, some people shit it on it but secretly crave it because they think they're the ones who actually deserve it. It's a very interesting dynamic to witness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 06:52 PM
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Hit 3 for 321PK
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 06:34 PM
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I assumed that was the default position as well, buut different strokes, I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 10:49 AM
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And all things being equal, yes a woman with no debt is preferable to one with debt. Of course, all things are seldom equal I think this comes down to a fundamental difference in how we form our preferences, then. For me, it doesn't make any sense to build preferences based on "all things being equal" because, as you said, all things are seldom equal. Men seldom find education by itself especially attractive Male college graduatess are more likely to marry fellow college graduates than female co…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 09:34 AM
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I think the debt-free part is pretty lame since you have to figure in the problem of student debt, especially in the U.S. That requirement selects against people who went to college (70% graduate with debt now apparently) and nowadays is more likely to select for people who didn't go to college at all. Whether or not you're okay with marrying someone with no more than a high school diploma is a matter of personal preference. There are plenty of successful people who didn't go to college. But for…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/18 05:23 AM
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It's all right! Can I have some time to think about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 05:08 PM
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Hit 3 on songofmelancholy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 02:50 PM
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No problem!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 01:19 AM
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Heal 3 Texastentialism
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 07:28 PM
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I think it plays into the themes of"beta-provider" and "hitting the wall" phobia that are common for men in the pillosphere. It's one thing to be down to throw around cash to get younger women. I think most older people who date on the young side are. It's another to think you can somehow continue to draw in younger women on the basis of sexual attraction alone until the day you die. I assumed that was what OP was hinting at, but I could be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 07:07 PM
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Hit 3 on Atlas
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 12:48 AM
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Hurt 3 for /u/irrationalirritation
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 04:56 PM
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Ohh is that the one with Squall and them? It's definitely on my list (if I can find a way to play it)! For me the JRPG husbando craze started with Fire Emblem Awakening. XD
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/18 05:53 PM
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Lol. JRPG boys are my weakness. They're fine af.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/18 04:04 PM
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Blue Team Pretty Waifu +
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/18 11:16 PM
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What's the primary problem for you here? The fact that women wait so long to settle down or the sorts of men they're getting with (alphas/bad boys) before they decide that it's time to settle down? Equally problematic?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 06:07 PM
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A word of advice? If you're going to publicly announce that you intend to block someone, go all in. Don't flip flop back and forth. It makes it look like you can't make up your mind. And yeah, I acknowledge that people of color often suffer from unfair beauty standards. Did you even read the context of my comment? I was responding to a post that claimed that the WaW claim is myopic and disregards the struggles of women of color, single mothers, etc. And nah fam, I'm not into the Nietzsche-style …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 12:22 AM
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Thought you blocked me, baby. Back already? And yeah, it's a known fact that black men (and women) will often only be taken seriously in predominantly white spaces if they wear their hair in a "palatable" fashion (often straightened hair for women, bald fade for the men). It's really sad, but it's the reality we're stuck with for the time being. I'd like to help make strides to change that, if I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 11:51 PM
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K byeeee
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 11:41 PM
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I was referring to cases in which women are doggedly pursued by men and everyone around her think that it's cute/flattering/funny and that she should give him a chance. You seen to be under the impression that all men go into white knight mode irl as soon as a woman looks mildly uncomfortable. That sure as hell doesn't reflect my experience or the experiences of many of the women on these vaguely defined "online databases."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 11:38 PM
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Agency is not literally just the right to do whatever you want. It's being an autonomous, informed actor who knows what they're getting into. Plenty of men express their domination kinks with consenting partners in a way that keeps the agency of everyone involved in mind. They don't just randomly go on the street, pick a girl they like, and hope she likes being dominated. Everyone involved is supposed to be aware. That provides the agency. Have you seen men who have dom/BDSM kinks get shit on? N…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 11:30 PM
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Great, and that very online database contains narratives just like the one I just described. "Shit people say on the Internet" can be used to justify any belief under the sun. You're still not showing how my assertions are any less valid than yours outside of "muh female solipsism."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 10:48 PM
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Lol, I have anecdotal evidence just as you and everyone here does. What exactly makes your view any less solipsistic than mine? Have you had the shit kicked out of you at a bar? Have you had a man come onto you while getting egged on by his friends no matter what you wanted?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 10:33 PM
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Read what lol? Your post got deleted for being a leading question. You keep conveniently reframing the argument (more specific, less specific l, anything in between) to support a claim you want to prove (i.e. women are okay with being objectified as long as a hot guy is doing it). I love a good game of darts with moving targets more than anyone, but this is a bit much. Wanting to use a woman's body like a sex toy is misogynistic and bad even if you desire it with consent In the same way that wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 10:30 PM
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You see, love, you're constantly backtracking and redefining your OP. Are we talking about nice guys or aren't we? Because last I checked (it's been a little while since it got deleted) we were. Women don't consent to being harassed by them. Nice guys approach women as automatons who will provide for their needs in exchange for "good behavior," engaging in a one-sided contract. People meeting up to satisfy a kink is a two-way contract that all parties are aware of. Savvy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 11:59 AM
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Noop, not kidding. Getting shit on by predominantly female spaces on an anonymous internet forum is not the same as being shit on by the society as a whole. Besides, don't people insist that Reddit is liberal leaning? That in itself shows a selection bias. As for the bar thing, people have no problem facing down what they perceive as the Hollywood sitcom creeps (in this case, the poor "uggo" you mentioned). It's when the guy doing the pursuing is the likeable everyman that no one gives a fuck, r…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 11:46 AM
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Ah, that's easier! The difference is consent. Done.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 11:09 AM
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I think he meant "double standard." I'm...not sure what the adjective form of that would be though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 11:06 AM
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It's not exactly uncommon for an individual to fantasize about something but realize that it would be impractical/undesirable in real life, particularly when it comes to sex. For instance, a woman might fantasize about sleeping with a guy with a high n-count/tons of sexual experience, but decide not to actually date/sleep with someone like that irl because of the problems that she doesn't have to consider in her fantasies (STD's, exactly why he has so many failed relationships, etc.) A man might…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 11:04 AM
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Alright...reverse for me Notice that I said autoerotic (self-inflicted). I've only heard of men doing it. It's more dangerous because the goal is often to get as close to death as possible, but if you pass out for any reason you're fucked. A partner can pull back before things get that far. As for your second point, have you considered that the women who say those things and the women who have the kink might not be overlapping as much as you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 09:41 AM
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The key word in your post is asked. Yes, there are women who have that the sort of kink you're describing. Why do they have it? I don't know. In the same way I don't know why some men (perhaps women, but I've only heard of it applying to men) are into getting off to autoerotic asphyxiation knowing full well that they could die if anything goes wrong. It's a completely valid question in and of itself (why do people have weird/potentially harmful kinks), but then you try to make a connection to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 09:26 AM
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Indeed! It's a bit hard to imagine since marriage and procreation are inextricably linked for me. But I think that even if sex were no longer part of this cycle, I would still want to create a stable environment for the kids I do have, no matter how they come about. I think that would be best achieved in a two-parent household.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 10:57 PM
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The strawmanning is strong with this one. I have no complaints about not being expected to approach. I was raised that way in a trad Catholic household. Accepting and rejecting men as I please is easier than approaching. I learned that lesson the hard way in high school. Address my words, not your preconceived idea of what a woman should say. This is literally just a wall of text, so it shouldn't be that hard. Also, I literally said that constant failure is a big deal. Constantly failing at one …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 05:31 PM
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No, they're not. Toxic masculinity is essentially rooted in the expectations that society has of men. Girls are generally expected to shut up and move on if a guy doesn't like her back, otherwise she's "psycho" or "bitchy" or "obsessive." Cry and bitch about it with your girlfriends. Eat the tub of ice cream. But leave the man alone. Hell, many would say she isn't supposed to be the one pursuing at all. The notion of a woman initiating is pretty recent. Men are expected to initiate, are encourag…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 09:15 AM
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Attractive women have never had to try Just how are you defining "try" lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 11:25 PM
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Depends on if you consider being largely relegated to BB status as hitting a wall or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 05:25 PM
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TIL not wanting to hop on friend's dick = manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 06:46 PM
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Thank God someone finally said it. And the "whiter" you can make yourself the more you benefit from the effect. The way men treated me before and after I started straightening my hair was an eye opener.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 01:36 AM
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My parents had the working dad/PhD mom thing going on. He is now comfortably retired while she brings home the money. He even had enough time to get his own PhD for the hell of it after he retired and now wants to teach for fun. It's a risky investment for sure, but hey, it works sometimes. It probably helped that they had already married and had kids by the time she started the PhD though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 08:56 PM
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Fame is a turn-off for me, more because of nerves than anything else. I'd rather have a famous person not know I exist than make myself look like a total idiot in front of them or unintentionally piss them off in some way. For status, (say, for example, a wealthy banker who isn't a household name but is definitely well-known among elites), I think that would be a turn-on, especially if he has that well-educated, confident, and cultured persona going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 12:35 PM
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Ahh okay. That makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 07:44 AM
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MRP is making marriage a unilateral agreement, taking the choice away from the spouse Can you elaborate on this? How is the spouse's choice being impacted in this situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 07:38 AM
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Do MRPers not wear wedding rings?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 07:13 AM
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I probably can't help you out too much haha. Big-time blockbusters (like MCU) are kind of a guilty pleasure for me. As for decent quality stuff I've seen in the past few years, Nightcrawler, Dunkirk, Fury, and Darkest Hour come to mind first. You can probably tell from my last few picks that I'm really partial to war dramas lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 01:58 AM
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Any particular reason why your feelings on it changed?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 01:42 AM
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Ohh, I think I understand now. I felt similarly about YA sci-fi/fantasy novels towards the end of my YA phase. For some reason, female protagonists had to be stoic, emotionless badasses who could do no wrong, always succeeded at virtually everything they did (i.e. Mary sues), and had a harem of boys to choose from at their leisure. They weren't allowed to be girly at all outside of worrying over said boy harem to some degree. As for why female characters are often "masculine" in modern movies, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 04:59 AM
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Yeah...Spirited Away counts as anime. But I don't think I understand what you wanted to discuss in the OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 04:10 AM
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...What?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 04:03 AM
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Same here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/18 12:43 AM
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when men cheat on their wives, it's generally damaging to their partner's pride/ego more so than family If I understand you correctly, you're saying that it's not as damaging to the family when men cheat because they still stick around after? I'm not sure I can agree with that. The time and resources a man spends with/on his side pieces is time/resources away from the family. If he starts slipping up (and I would say this happens more often than not), the kids will know. Are there kids who dgaf …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 05:20 PM
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Skinny fat dudes. My very first BF in high school was like this, so I guess that kinda set the stage for my preference. Yuup Because they're hot (or at least can be) and they make for great snuggle buddies. Discovered this preference after I started dating a gym rat for the first time. His body was nice to look at, but it was harder to snuggle comfortably. I guess I would be open to dating gym rats again or even an overweight guy if we clique well enough ideologically/emotionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 04:37 PM
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Thank you!! I'm still pretty nervous about it since I'll be abroad without my family for the first time lol. Also, I'm still curious about the room full of strangers thing! Is it some kind of Japanese class you're taking/teaching?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 04:25 PM
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Well this is one hell of a leading question
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 04:15 PM
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Sweet! I think that we may have talked about this before! I'm studying Japanese too. :-D Are you going abroad in the fall?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 03:34 PM
1

Which language?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 07:47 PM
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I don't get told no often since I generally try not to ask people for things, cute guys included. I just let them do stuff for me of their own accord. Though I do tend to hold back on asking out of fear of being told no. If it were to happen, I think I would feel disappointed and possibly frustrated. I probably wouldn't go to the lengths of blocking that person on social media and stuff, but I would definitely think twice about helping him if he were to ask me for anything in the future. Edit: f…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 02:59 AM
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I like to post my answers in the response format because it prevents strawmanning accusations and keeps my answers grounded in what is actually being said, word for word. I pick the sentences that are most salient. Would you prefer if I didn't quote you at all (as I will in this comment)? Or if I selected better quotes? Or if I addressed every single line? Or if you just straight up don't want to continue this conversation that's your prerogative, not mine. Anyways, let's get to the nitty gritty…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 11:17 PM
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I define the ideology by the words and actions of its leaders. Are mods and EC's not leaders to some degree? Inconsistent logical base I've barely said or revealed anything about my own logical base lol. I'm simply pointing out my gripes with another "logical base." Moral whining is BP concern trolling I'll take begging the question for 400, Alex. Moralizing is BP sexual strategy For starters, there are many areas of life in which "moralizing" can fuck people over (business, politics, academics …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 06:51 PM
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For someone who accepts parts of RP, you don't seem to have a very good grasp on RP Idk if blindly accepting all facets of a theory no matter how dubious some of its claims are is "a very good grasp." And the mods are ban happy because the sub is constantly brigaded Dude, I have seen perfectly rational complaints and objections get shut down. As soon as I see a stickied mod comment telling RP members to stfu for "being bluepill" I like to do a quick remove edit scan to see the kind of stuff that…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 09:19 AM
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Former blue
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 01:01 AM
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I dunno, having to constantly stay on alert, lock up your shit, and check hours of security footage within your own home every single day doesn't sound like fun. But you do you, I guess? My own family refused to hire housemaids for that very reason, so I'm kinda biased here. My parents were considering it, but then we found out about a couple in our church community that got upwards of $1000 stolen from them in jewelry by the cleaning lady. It was a giant nope after that. That's also like being …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 12:59 AM
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The foreign employee may arguably be less of a risk, but his impression of them seemed way too angelic. Theft is present in any culture, anywhere, as are many other crimes and vices. "Just get myself a foreign nanny" isn't going to solve all of the risks that come with hiring one. And sure, he can always fire them. That would create a very unstable environment for the child though if the woman who's essentially raising them can be let go of at any time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 12:29 AM
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Have you even seen the sketchy shit that nannies and housemaids (including foreign ones) can get up to? I've heard that theft is a pretty big problem in and of itself. Not huge things, but subtle stuff over time (a dollar here, expensive watch you don't use as often anymore there, etc.). If you're an adherent to full-on AWALT why would you trust a complete stranger prancing about in your house anymore than any other woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 12:01 AM
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I'm guessing it's going to depend on what aspect of TRP she was actually exposed to. Some random thread about lifting? Whatever. "Bitch Management" guide? Uhh, I could see that leading to a fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 11:48 PM
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If an ideology largely draws in a group of people who are angry/upset/afraid of something, that is usually a red (no pun intended) flag for me in and of itself. Those emotions make an individual more likely to accept premises that should be questioned, or at least taken with a grain of salt. And in that lies my major problem with TRP. Like I said, there are aspects of TRP logic that make sense. But a lot of it is highly questionable (I'm looking at you, evo psych) and need the kind of scrutiny t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 11:10 PM
1

There are no feelings TRP's selling point is being this cold, calculating, rational method for assessing reality when, in practice, it often isn't. A 40-page rant about how all women are unfaithful bitches followed (or preceded) by the "I don't blame them for it tho" disclaimer isn't automatically devoid of feeling. The Reddit sub is the only branch of TRP I'm familiar with, so it might be different elsewhere, but that sub sure as hell has "feelings." Even implying that there is anything good ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 06:06 PM
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The pills are meaningless in the sense that both are largely grounded in personal experience and emotion rather than objective reality (as you said, a lot of what BiggerD stated could arguably apply to BP as well as TRP).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 01:28 AM
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Damn, it's almost as if both pills are meaningless and purple (or even no pill) is the way to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 11:34 PM
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You said you were taking observations from your university. So you're actually taking them from the media instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 09:08 PM
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Do you actually go to frats regularly? I mean some campuses have shittier Greek scenes than others, but you make yours sound like a war zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 09:04 PM
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That's objectively false. Even RP says that behavior matters (notice "frame" and shit). As for the the brand of misogyny that drives women off, I touched on that in my comment to Atlas.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 07:57 PM
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Lol neither am I. There are plenty of athlete-centric frats that don't give off misogynistic vibes or have members who act like entitled douchebags. As for why girls still go to the "bad" ones, I find that it's because they're there to get drunk and have fun, not have deep conversations about the role of women in society or look for lasting relationships/friendships. If the music's good and the drinks are coming, people (including the girls) are happy. It's not that complicated. I personally avo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 06:11 PM
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People usually say that in the context of Incels, not RP. I do think that extreme misogyny (i.e. not wanting to interact or have anything to do with women) can result in anti-social behaviors that turn women off. Though I'm not sure they're sensing misogyny so much as they're sensing batshit insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 05:37 PM
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NAFALT. Ime different frats give off different vibes. Some have reputations for misogynistic members/questionable behavior while others do not. I don't think it's fair to generalize them like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 05:30 PM
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Female here. My answer is no. Speaking from experience. Losing weight gives you more options, and many of those are likely to be on par with or even better than the one who rejected you in the first place. I would say the odds of that person still being the best option after taking the new ones into account are pretty low unless you have some unresolved oneitis going on for him/her. (Edited for clarity)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 10:27 PM
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Actually, that does happen. Writing characters of the opposite sex is not easy, especially from the first person perspective since the writer is actively trying to tell us what the main character is thinking. It takes experience, correction, time, and (often) actively consulting people who are of the opposite sex/ having them edit for you. James Patterson's Maximum Ride series is a good example. A lot of readers apparently mistook the narrator for male at first. I don't think that this was inten…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 04:56 AM
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Definitely a she
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 06:06 AM
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My dad was raised by a single mother (well...primarily his grandmother). He adores my brother and spends a lot of father-son time with him, and vice versa. I think that he strives to be the dad that his own father couldn't be. Will they have any clue what to do? He was the oldest out of three brothers whose fathers also weren't in the picture, so I imagine that he learned what it's like to be a father from a combination of that, media, observing families/fathers irl, etc. He also went to an all-…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 05:48 PM
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I'm starting to think that there's an understood W at the front of MRA. They never seem to be particularly interested in addressing the issues that disproportionately affect men of color (i.e. most of the issues you listed). IIRC feminism had a similar problem at its outset (and sometimes still does), so I can't say that it's an issue unique to MRA. There's no denying they're several decades behind in that regard though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 12:24 AM
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In this country people generally seem to err on the side of not utilizing the legal system even when it would arguably benefit them to do so (according to data I was studying today the vast majority of people affected by accidental injuries that could theoretically result in compensation do not even consider making a claim). This could be the result of anything from not having the resources to take their case to trial, not having the time, just straight up not caring, etc. And it's their preroga…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 08:00 AM
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If you equate an unwanted grope or next morning buyer's remorse with an actual rape then sure. In this comment you claimed that I was equating a type of sexual assault by definition a theoretical type of perceived "sexual assault" with rape. I felt the need to clarify that the two terms cannot be used interchangeably because you seemed to be doing just that. In response to a claim I made about sexual assault you made the leap to "actual rape" as if that is the only form of sexual assault, or at …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 06:25 AM
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You asserted that sexual assault is rare. Rape and sexual assault are not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 05:13 AM
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I agree that sexual assault by strangers is rare. But is sexual assault itself actually rare? Pretty much every stat spread I've seen suggests otherwise, particularly with regard to college students. The fact that the assailant would likely be someone the victim trusts does not help matters at all. If anything that arguably makes it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 04:20 AM
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Are you trying to bait Jams into getting banned or something? I mean, you can't be serious here, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 06:09 PM
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Generally people in the "he is selfish" camp are under the impression that she's going down on him, but he isn't reciprocating because of hangups. I've never seen the users on r/relationships tell a woman that it is okay to demand oral sex when she refuses to do it herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 05:53 PM
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Was that a Brave New World reference?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 03:32 PM
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A woman does not have to be hot to get swipes on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 07:55 PM
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My parents were on the verge of divorce at one point. They were very young when they married (about 21 I think) and had us soon after. On top of many other things, my dad getting a vasectomy despite knowing that my mom wanted another baby proved to be the tipping point. They separated for a while (couple of months, I think), and my brother, sister, and I mainly lived with our mom. I was oblivious to all of it. He wasn't around much anyway because of work, so it seemed like business as usual to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 03:13 AM
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I see. I was wondering if the ones you have tried /use are the ones BP most typically associates with the selection theory (e.g. high-level dread/going out of your way to show your partner that they're disposable) or the ones they count as universal dating advice/standard human social interactions by a different name (low-level dread, passing shit/comfort tests, etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 02:24 AM
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Ever heard of the "bro country" controversy? Certain country artists (think Luke Bryan and Florida Georgia line) came under fire for allegedly sexist lyrics that seem to even invoke date rape in some cases. They're not nerds by any stretch of the imagination. Plenty of women love them, but they still got backlash.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 06:21 PM
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You keep saying "it works." What TRP advice specifically are you referring to? All, some, or most of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 03:12 PM
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You said "it works." A philosophy, or "understanding" in and of itself doesn't get results. The actions that stem from it do. And much of the sidebar advocates actionable behaviors (hence the "toolbox"). These behaviors are often what BPers specifically refer to when they say that RP selects for certain women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 02:24 PM
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I often see conservative men and RPers bitching about how bluepilled and liberal the majority of Reddit is. Why are they here?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 04:14 AM
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What is "it" though? TRP is "just a toolbox" after all. There are usually very specific tools in that box which raise eyebrows when it comes to attracting the women you describe.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 11:05 PM
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What does a confident girl with high self-esteem look like to you (in terms of behavior, I mean)?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 11:03 PM
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You realize that people can spend time on all three, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 09:37 PM
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Are you replying to the right comment? I didn't say anything about niceness. I said that traditionally feminine women (e.g. RPW) aren't generally into TRPers. I believe that even TRP itself has said that their sexual strategies are in direct opposition with one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 04:59 AM
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Annd you can prove that all of those women are traditionally feminine how?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 04:53 AM
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Traditionally feminine women generally aren't into TRP dudes if the chasm between TRP and RPW is any indication. They want alpha males, but they don't seem to consider TRPers the kind of alphas they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 04:48 AM
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The whole "pushing through LMR" thing can come off as pretty rapey. It might be what Jammerly was referring to. Though RP approaches to LMR tend to be pretty inconsistent, with some saying it's best to just leave the woman alone and next while others...not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 04:26 AM
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The relationship was already over by that point. The sister knew that the OP's friend cheated on her friend. OP revealed that he knew about it while the relationship was still active. I can't really judge the situation without knowing how close OP is with his sis, though. If they barely even talk to begin with, I could see why he'd place his friend over her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 05:05 AM
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Nothing. I don't say anything to men who hit on me when I want to be left alone. I keep walking, or start walking if I haven't already started. Ime men only think they have a chance if you're standing still.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 05:33 PM
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You're wrong. Misogyny is the part of TRP that i... https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/8mt8xg/why_women_shouldnt_vote/dzqsfoh?utm_source=reddit-android This link might get you straight to the comment without having to command f.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 12:02 AM
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Can you see my link to the OG thread? It's posted in a separate comment. If you click the link you can command f (or whatever the equivalent on your keyboard is) for the comment I posted. Here it is again just in case: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/8mt8xg/why_women_shouldnt_vote/?utm_source=reddit-android To recover the removed comment I used removeddit. https://www.removeddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/8mt8xg/why_women_shouldnt_vote/?utm_source=reddit-android
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 12:00 AM
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Here we go, I think that this is the OP comment: "This is the toxic part of trp that needs eradication IMO." This comment was directed at the user who posted the thread, claiming that women should not have the right to vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 11:11 PM
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Here's the comment itself: "You're wrong. Misogyny is the part of TRP that is critical to its success. I say that as an Endorsed Contributor of The Red Pill, and you can absolutely quote me on it." https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/8mt8xg/why_women_shouldnt_vote/?utm_source=reddit-android I'm not sure how to directly link comments, but this is the thread link. This comment was made in response to another which was presumably removed by the mods. I'll see if I can find it on an archive…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 10:57 PM
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True, true. I have seen TRP ECs get shit on pretty hard in the past, some more than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 09:38 PM
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A TRP EC literally just said that misogyny is central to Redpill the other day.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 09:26 PM
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I think I would say my most common score for men (in my preferred dating age range, which is 20-23) is a 7. In theory, I guess that 5s/6s should be most common, so either I just happen to be surrounded by moderately attractive dudes or my standards are low.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 12:37 AM
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Don't put out, boring Don't forget BPD. In my time lurking the TRP thread I saw multiple threads in which women who didn't respond well to or got annoyed by the OP's tactics were automatically diagnosed with a personality disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 04:23 PM
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I've seen RP posters who call him a textbook example of BB, especially as far as his wife is concerned. (Rumor has it Melania literally doesn't even sleep in the same room as him.) Not to mention his temperament. That's as far from stoic as it gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 06:16 PM
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All women are prostitutes. She is exchanging sex for resources. That's patently false. A prostitute engages in a clearly-defined business exchange: you get so much of her time for an agreed-upon payment (not some vague "resource" that could range anywhere from a ride home to some chicken nuggets depending on what the guy thinks is sex-worthy).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 05:23 PM
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Yes, they do. There was a time I couldn't conceive of a man who could literally be born with no arms or legs and still live a happy, fulfilled life, complete with a wife and kid. He does indeed exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 05:19 AM
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Ugly 3/10 with a heart of gold any day. But I'm talking true heart of gold. Not the "gets turned down by girls three times and then converts from nice kid to a complete asshole" kind. The heart of gold for the long haul kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 10:51 PM
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If anything I feel like men push other men to work. My dad retired a couple months ago, but my mom still works (his job allows for earlier retirement while hers doesn't.) He was only 45 when he retired, so a lot of his male friends, family, and coworkers give him shit for being SAH at such a young age. He collects a good retirement check, and my mom makes 6 figures, so the money isn't the problem. Now that he's finished his PhD he's going back to work. The negative feedback he got on being a SAH…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 10:01 PM
1

I am also a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 04:46 PM
1

A lot of my friends play/have played Persona! Sadly I don't think I can play until I go home for break and have access to my PS4 again. :'-(
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 11:36 PM
1

I'm not surprised! I was kind of scared about studying abroad in Japan because I wasn't sure if I could find a stylist who could help keep my hair under control (naturally very course and curly but flat-ironed straight along with extensions in) for several months, but my hair stylist who has family there says I have nothing to worry about, especially not in the urban areas. Apparently the hair products and stylists there are top tier. Fingers crossed! I should probably step up my styling game in…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 11:32 PM
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No. RP has repeatedly stated that their beliefs and practices are amoral. They say that respect is earned and is theirs to give, withold, or take back according to the woman's actions. How that respect is earned varies somwhat from RPer to RPer, but the most consistent criteria only seem to fit a minority of women (unicorns) or none at all (true AWALT). So you can't really say that they respect women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 11:17 PM
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Ehh that's a bit tougher. I'm really concerned about the legal technicalities and how they could vary by jurisdiction. "Immediate and certain threat" is kind of subjective, and I would prefer to not have to put my future on the line by relying on something as tenuous as that. Therefore, I'd err on the side of taking the first hit and then responding in kind (with proportionality in mind of course).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 06:20 PM
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Yes. And? To be fair, I'm a woman myself. I feel like society as a whole gives us more leeway when it comes to self-defense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 06:07 PM
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Man-has to hit me first Woman-has to hit me first Wish I could give a more exciting answer, but I'm not interested in jail time. Self-defense all the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 05:48 PM
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Sooo the only rebuttal you could think of was "no u"? XD
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 09:40 PM
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The understood purpose of modest dress is the covering of those parts of the body (namely T&A) which are arousing to men. Do you have some other understanding of modest dress?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 09:27 PM
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Haha, knew it. On a side note, I'm honestly thinking about starting a topic asking how the MILF phenomenon started and how that fits (or doesn't fit) the Wall theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 09:24 PM
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Probably something something hitting the Wall. Just a guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 09:19 PM
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I'm going to have to make the same comment that I make to all dudes who use the "muh Rolex" argument. A woman can't take off her boobs and ass whenever she wants. They're stuck to her. You can't compare them to a piece of jewelry. The watch argument only works if the sucker is permanently affixed to your body, you didn't get to choose the design or how flashy it is, and you have to decide every single day of your life how you're going to keep it covered up to avoid getting attacked, whether or n…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 09:15 PM
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They don't. He definitely meant loaded question.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 05:29 PM
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College dance team, reading (can't pin down a specific genre because I read several, but Tim O'Brien is my favorite author right now), watching anime, writing, learning East Asian languages (mainly Japanese, Mandarin, Korean), gaming (mainly JRPG's like Fire Emblem, Pokémon, Kingdom Hearts, etc.), playing French horn, listening to 80's rock/J-Pop/some K-Pop, and watching Marvel Cinematic Universe movies (hopefully getting into the comics soon)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 09:22 PM
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I think one can make the argument that abortion is a women's right that is facing a lot of contention in the U.S. So for a pro-choice person, that would be an example of a right that women have now which could be affected/ changed later if no one fights for it. I can't think of any others off hand, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 09:02 PM
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I dunno, fam. The purps are oddly persuasive. >_< I think I'm still kind of blue-leaning, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 04:27 PM
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A naive woman is more likely to agree to/ get coaxed into sex, strung along, assume that there's more to a relationship than sex when there actually isn't, etc. For example, it's a well-known trend that upperclassmen in any academic setting are more likely to go after underclassmen for hook-ups. Why? Partially because the older girls already know them well enough to see through their BS. Starting out, freshmen tend to have no idea what's going on yet or which guys they should be avoiding. Naive …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 02:44 PM
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Original commenter's premise was that because AWALT applied to girls he dated IRL who don't match the typical BP "This is who TRP works on" profile, the BP profile is flawed/inaccurate. I simply asserted that his assumption on what kind of woman fits that profile (woman who has a lot of sex) is incorrect. There are a variety of women that TRP methods would work on according to BP. Straight from OP for example: Illogical, naive, manipulative, childlike, etc. None of that has to do with how "slutt…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 06:19 AM
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On average, how experienced were those girls? IIRC BP also argues that TRP works on naive girls without much relationship/dating experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 11:09 PM
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I'm mainly going to answer from the lense of men opening up to SOs over mental health issues and getting bailed on since that seemed to come up a lot the other day. I definitely believe that women do this. Why? Because I have directly experienced men who do it. People are people. A flaw or unfavorable trait that applies to members of one group will generally apply to members of the other as well. RP itself tends to advise against dating women with mental health issues (some argue that sex with b…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 08:46 PM
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Mind directly addressing my weak "arguments"? I was pointing out errors in the sampling method. That's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 07:53 PM
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VERY not clear and hypocritical Interesting. Can you expand on this a bit?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 02:00 AM
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Idk about that YouTube argument. For starters, you would probably have to look at the demographic makeup of YouTube users to see if it's even accurately reflecting the population as a whole. Next, you would have to realize that YouTube is subject to self-selection, as virtually any website is. You're eliminating people without consistent access to a computer/internet, people who aren't interested in YouTube for whatever reason, people who don't have much time for it, not to mention people who go…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 01:57 AM
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I think that he technically has her consent, especially from a legal standpoint. It's not illegal to be a manipulative douchebag. However, we can still call out douchey behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/18 12:06 AM
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The utter deadpan I mentally read this response in left me chuckling for a solid 3 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 02:02 AM
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No, I don't think that's how that works unless you're gunning for a divorce. The frequency of fucking is going to go way down as aging/children come into the picture. Pretty much any married couple can tell you that. A man who can't handle that doesn't need to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 01:21 AM
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I think she's wondering why you're a shallow person who's upset that shallow girls won't be shallow with you. What a waste of time Yeah, reading your comments has been a big waste of a lot of people's time, it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 01:03 AM
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