| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | The Mom Who Has Sex With Her Husband Every NightLol sounds like you're getting laid a lot | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/05/19 02:12 PM |
| 1 | I have more trouble "reading" hot women than normal women. Tips to solve this?Complicated. You're intimidated by the chick. Sometimes.. Your pickup is based on getting positive reactions in order to move forward. Or at least I'm used to it She doesn't fuck with randoms, unless certain impossible criteria are met. (Famous, high status, 1% attractiveness, her exact type) Funny you mention that cause your first comment made me think if I've ever actually seen a really hot girl acting super horny like I've seen a lot of 6-8s act.. and the only thing I could think of was this … | /r/seduction | 14/05/19 09:30 AM |
| – | I have more trouble "reading" hot women than normal women. Tips to solve this?Thanks man, first comment was better advice than I was expecting haha The more socially a chick is, the more you assume attraction and then lead. Often times you've got to snap her out of her blasé. Tim from Viking Lifestyle does this a lot. His style is very Julien-esque, imo. "Blasé" That one word describes perhaps the biggest difference I notice between when I approach a super hot girl and a 6 or a 7. And perhaps then it's that my ego is getting in the way. When I approach 6s and 7s I will of… | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 03:35 PM |
| – | Do looks play a big role in hooking up?I just recently saw a video of me from ten years ago. I was really surprised to notice that I was better looking then than I am now. Because back then, I had slept with two girls in my whole life and couldn't get laid to save my life, and I was losing my shit about it and I thought I must be quite ugly. Now, just a few weeks ago I slept with 4 new girls in 9 days, decided that was excessive and since then I've been trying to see LESS girls. Moral of the story: Looks aren't irrelevant but Game/Co… | /r/seduction | 25/04/19 05:08 PM |
| – | Beginner expat in Germany - advice neededMan here is my advice for you.. Go somewhere on the Reeperbahn and just sit and watch who hooks up and what they do and what their body language is. I do think pratice is important, but sometimes it's good to just watch and learn without worrying about yourself | /r/seduction | 14/04/19 03:07 PM |
| – | Beginner expat in Germany - advice neededNo, I do not say things like that haha | /r/seduction | 14/04/19 03:02 PM |
| – | Approaching Congruently In Clubs After Getting Attraction With Extreme AloofnessGod the tail we could pull with my brain in your body haha | /r/seduction | 14/04/19 03:00 PM |
| – | Beginner expat in Germany - advice neededKino, and you have to sit close to the girl.. german girls are a bit weird to escalate on, but you still need to touch them. It's a mix of touch, eye contact and flirty conversation, you create some suspense.. there isn't one time to kiss a girl, often you kind of just get close and stay chill with the tension and eventually it will happen. Sometimes it happens mid sentence. | /r/seduction | 14/04/19 02:54 PM |
| 1 | I learned seduction to help me find a girlfriend, 60 lays later I'm decent a being a player but my long term relationship skills haven't improved for shitMan, I got to honest, my lack of knowing why these pairing fail IS the problem.. I wouldn't be posting here if I actually knew why all these girls broke up with me. IT's usually at a distance, and they are not usually willing to say anything about why they're ending it.. actually I find it quite annoying how non-communicative women end up being with me. When we break up in person it's usually more clear why, but strangely that's rarely how it goes for the women I actually care about. | /r/seduction | 14/04/19 02:48 PM |
| – | Beginner expat in Germany - advice neededI guess European girls actually have an attention span longer than 5 min haha | /r/seduction | 14/04/19 02:28 PM |
| – | Beginner expat in Germany - advice neededI'd say the principles of the game are mostly universal, but the specific tactics vary.. The same thing can be perceived VERY differently in different cultures. For example, I spent years trying to get JulienRSD's style of game to work for me, but UK girls are just not the same socially as these American girls, and it pretty much backfired 97% of the time lol. I find with UK girls you have to game 'wrong'. DON'T break rapport too early in the convo. DO seek rapport and be interested in her. DON'… | /r/seduction | 14/04/19 02:25 PM |
| – | Beginner expat in Germany - advice neededFirst things first, German chicks tend to alternate between being next to impossible and being this easy: https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph582efcd53a25e Secondly, German chicks are not that hard to convince to meet you.. but it's a trap! They will self-cockblock themselves, German chicks will so often invite you to something were it is totally impossible to seduce them ie group things or times where they only have like 30 mins or things where it is impossible to talk. And then yo… | /r/seduction | 14/04/19 12:36 PM |
| – | Beginner expat in Germany - advice neededAnyways, I can tell you that german chicks have their own quirks, and you need a pretty different game for them. I find german girls intelligent, sexy and interesting.. but also un-dateable beyond a few weeks. I actually try to avoid german girls but I've fucked a lot more of them than I have any other nationality, including my own haha | /r/seduction | 14/04/19 11:44 AM |
| – | Beginner expat in Germany - advice neededI was actually a little worried we might know each other haha | /r/seduction | 14/04/19 11:41 AM |
| 2 | How to seduce a psychopathic and narcissistic women ?Yeah, seduction as revenge rarely works. And trust me I've done some broken shit | /r/seduction | 14/04/19 11:39 AM |
| 3 | How do i deal with a passive "boyfriend shit-test" via text?Well, then you just have to go for it when you meet. Just don't stick around and be a 'friend'. I've seen girls cheat far, far more than I would like to.. | /r/seduction | 14/04/19 11:36 AM |
| 1 | How to develop BeliefI mean for me personally, somewhere between my 20th and 50th notch I lost the last shred of doubt that women liked to fuck me haha All I can say for encouragement is that me at 15 notches was nearly as good as me at 60 notches and even me at 8 notches wasn't that bad. So in that sense having doubts because you don't have a huge amount of experience is silly in retrospect. Also maybe try something other than cold approach daygame. It can work, but I think it is pretty rough psychologically. I mea… | /r/seduction | 14/04/19 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Any tips for going out alone?Approach some people on the street. Like a group or something of people that seem cool. Hell you can even talk to the dudes first. If you can get 'in' as the interesting foreigner you're good to go for the night | /r/seduction | 14/04/19 11:17 AM |
| 1 | how to close on good terms?Hah do the opposite. Get all needy and she'll exit herself | /r/seduction | 14/04/19 11:11 AM |
| – | How do I get out of my head at clubs?I've experienced this too. If you can find other kinds of environments to be social in with girls, go there. | /r/seduction | 14/04/19 11:10 AM |
| – | How do i deal with a passive "boyfriend shit-test" via text?Literally just ignore it. And if she wants you, she'll ignore that he exists. Now, if you have moral qualms about it that has absolutely nothing to do with the strategy of it | /r/seduction | 14/04/19 11:08 AM |
| 2 | I just got my first ever date this week? any tips?Move her around, get her somewhere you can sit close to her and talk. Don't be afraid to touch her/ escalate. Get yourselves drunk if it's legal/possible wherever you are haha | /r/seduction | 14/04/19 11:06 AM |
| – | Talking about sex around you - an IOI?I don't know but if you've got a social circle of 15 girls and 4 dudes, you really ought to be getting somewhere with so of them lol Are you in high school? This reminds of high school | /r/seduction | 14/04/19 11:00 AM |
| 1 | Does Money Even Matter Anymore?Interestingly a year and a half of ago I was beyond broke (due to a shitty work situation in a foreign country) but I could still pull just fine.. but it lead to some pretty comical situations like girls buying ALL of my drinks for the night (before taking me home and fucking my brains out). But I suspect it did make some of my relationships rather shorter.. But also I suspect this wouldn't have worked at in my home country, as me being broke was more justifiable where I was. Though, I'm not at … | /r/seduction | 14/04/19 10:57 AM |
| 2 | Approaching Congruently In Clubs After Getting Attraction With Extreme AloofnessHaha you're pretty the opposite of me in game strategy, in clubs I can't pull for shit because even though I'm quite in shape I'm not tall and so I just blend into the sea of dick. Also my voice is quite low pitched so when I speak it doesn't cut through the noise and nobody fucking understands me. So in the club dudes like you get all the female attention. If I change venues to somewhere like a house party or a meet-up, and I'm always surprised at how I can blow way better looking guys like you… | /r/seduction | 14/04/19 10:49 AM |
| – | Beginner expat in Germany - advice neededAre you in Berlin? I'd say you'd do better in English | /r/seduction | 14/04/19 10:39 AM |
| – | How do i start hitting 9's all the timeYour problem is pretty much this: https://browse.startpage.com/do/show_picture.pl?l=english&rais=1&oiu=https%3A%2F%2Fi.redd.it%2F44ih1kkbcez11.jpg&sp=356592b4a3941b09cf5a7cddab6435ad&rl=to&t=default It is way fucking easier to plow many 6s than a few 9s I've also rounded 60 and I've had much the same experience. I'd rate a few of my notches as 9s but then this is always subjective right? | /r/seduction | 14/04/19 10:21 AM |
| – | I learned seduction to help me find a girlfriend, 60 lays later I'm decent a being a player but my long term relationship skills haven't improved for shitI travelled a lot. Hostels are great for learning to bang girls, because girls in hostels easy to approach and likely want so romance on their trip, HOWEVER you have to learn to be fast and decisive and you have to learn good logistics and you have to learn how to make her REALLY want it if you're going to try to get her to fuck you in the shower/ laundry room/ park/ street/ hammock/room where other people could show up in (to name a few of the places I've been able to pull off). I think people … | /r/seduction | 14/04/19 10:04 AM |
| – | I learned seduction to help me find a girlfriend, 60 lays later I'm decent a being a player but my long term relationship skills haven't improved for shitThat's a bit fair, I wrote this tired and hungover haha and I didn't want to write a whole novel.. but I've went a bit more in depth into it in some of my other comment replies here | /r/seduction | 14/04/19 09:19 AM |
| 1 | I learned seduction to help me find a girlfriend, 60 lays later I'm decent a being a player but my long term relationship skills haven't improved for shitMaybe you could read my reply to donteennis to get a better idea of what's actually going on in my head when I meet a girl I like | /r/seduction | 14/04/19 09:18 AM |
| 2 | I learned seduction to help me find a girlfriend, 60 lays later I'm decent a being a player but my long term relationship skills haven't improved for shitI'll look into it. Based on your message, I'm getting the feeling after gaming her, you then break frame and ask them for a relationship? Not directly, but I'm not big on playing coy/hard to get after I've banged a girl. I guess in my head I'm thinking "Yeah, I could go fuck another two girls in the next week easily if I really wanted to, but I don't want to, so let's do this" I have a bit of problem with this abundance mentality in the sense that I find most girls disappointing in bed.. most ar… | /r/seduction | 14/04/19 09:16 AM |
| 1 | I learned seduction to help me find a girlfriend, 60 lays later I'm decent a being a player but my long term relationship skills haven't improved for shit"I don’t know if that helps" Well like most girl advice it seems to run exactly opposite to my real life experience :)Generally for me, I've noticed,If I: Am neutral about the girl + want a hook-up: I usually get a hook up and we both understand that. Even though I maybe want one or two rounds more than the girl and she might be done after one time Like the girl + want a relationship: I'll get nothing, maybe a makeout Like the girl + am open to a relationship: We'll probably sleep together but i… | /r/seduction | 13/04/19 06:46 PM |
| – | I learned seduction to help me find a girlfriend, 60 lays later I'm decent a being a player but my long term relationship skills haven't improved for shitYeah, no. Sounds great in theory but plenty of guys with worse careers and worse game than me get girlfriends | /r/seduction | 13/04/19 03:36 PM |
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