TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

hktrp Archive

View 12 posts and 39 comments by hktrp on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

Duuude, I seriously like you! Thank a looot for the insight. I as well do have a very serious resting face. Like, pretty much everyone is intimidated by me. Which I think is quite the appealing contrast to women, when they notice us very serious looking with a straight face on while walking or standing, but a very fun and enjoyable face when dancing. I will definitely try out you hints this coming weekend on light touching and engaging her In a boyish charm/playfulness kind of way. I will also s…
/r/askTRP05/09/18 02:41 AM
1

Dude, thank you for your comment. I like your style, because usually when I just keep acting as if they ain't there, sometimes they try harder for a while and then get pissed off and either shoulder hit me on their way out or just "accidently" bump into me, where I just smirk so hard that I actually smile. I really do like the catch and release, I'll definitely try that, but when you mean 2 minutes of attention, does that mean you're just looking her up and down and smiling at her when she dance…
/r/askTRP05/09/18 12:54 AM
1

Dude, run as fast as you can and as far as possible. Seriously though, I was in your shoes around 8-9 months ago. When i first got to know my current LTR i was so invested in her and all she wanted was me and no one else; and she would keep saying it repeatedly to the point where i started thinking it's kind of weird that she says that A LOT!!!! She is an HB8 with amazing tits and body and she also looooves to wear revealing clothing and show her cleavage almost on a daily basis. And yes,she wou…
/r/askTRP04/10/17 08:48 PM
2

Okay, first thank you for finding the time to read and comment on my post. And by your sarcastic comment i assume that what youre telling me is : 1- I can't possible actually overtly ask her to change something like that or anything for the matter in how she looks. 2- I should be more outcome independent and if she wants to go around whoring let her be, it ain't my problem. She does what she does and i do what i do, and if she steps out of line i just end it and next. 3- I should practice NGAF m…
/r/askMRP11/09/17 10:07 AM
1

Thank you for the advice, I am taking it into consideration. But like others suggested this is a good learning and growing opportunity. On a side note, I tried buying your book a couple of days ago and it said it is not available for sale at the moment. Any advice on how I can get around to acquiring it.
/r/askMRP30/08/17 04:20 PM
1

My ego is invested, in her, and in the relationship and in me dealing with and handling this. I'm working on my ego investment, because it is really hindering my progress and I almost keep losing track of how much it's affecting me. But please do elaborate on "her being perfect"
/r/askMRP25/08/17 06:53 PM
0

Okay so I should use this to learn and grow. How do you propose one should deal with such behaviors from her end, as those mentioned above, and what is the most effective way for long term benefit. Thanks for the help
/r/askMRP25/08/17 06:36 PM
1

Humor me and ELI5 pleeeease
/r/askMRP25/08/17 04:39 PM
0

Please, do elaborate.
/r/askMRP11/07/17 08:12 PM
0

Not verbatim but something along the lines of getting friendly and all talking and shit with other guys. Also I'm from the middle East so that's not too much of a taboo here in a way. But please do elaborate on the flaws in that.
/r/askMRP11/07/17 07:59 PM
-1

Okay so, since she posted that snap chat story she's gonna be getting like a hundred guys sending her replies to the picture as always. And she got this plausible deniability thing where she says "IF anyone texts me over snap chat and i open the chat I HAVE TO RESPOND because it would be rude otherwise. Even with guys clearly hitting on her and flirting with her." So what I'm going to do for the time being is try and maintain frame and when she responds and shows me the texts and shit I will sta…
/r/askMRP11/07/17 06:49 PM
-2

Well I won't argue there. But you got any advice on the matter at hand? Or on the question in the post. Like is this a thing? Or it's not and I should just continue working on myself and set better boundaries and decrease the fucks I give about her?
/r/askMRP11/07/17 06:34 PM
-3

I have laid down the boundaries on more than one occasion. And I explicitly told her " I expect my GF NOT To be talking to other guys, except if need be (like in a classroom context or group project or so). And I don't except her to be all joking around and having fun with those other guys. And ofcourse you do whatever you want. That's just what I expect of my gf". And thing is that she always says how much she love me and shed do anything to please me and shit. And when I confronted her with th…
/r/askMRP11/07/17 06:15 PM
1

Thank you mate for this great piece of advice you're so right. I will do just that today. Thanks for the help man. I highly appreciate it.
/r/askMRP07/07/17 03:41 PM
3

So far, what I reached is that I have been going too fast in applying RP and the IDGAF. After reading your post about sprinkling alpha and withdrawing beta, I can see where I was wrong. And like one commenter above said, In a way I have been punishing good behaviour that's why she's all mad and pissed. I know better now, and I'm working on building and sustaining a solid frame that will eventually get draw her into. And I haven't starting lifting yet, I'm researching starter routines and want to…
/r/askMRP01/07/17 03:18 PM
0

Hitting the end on the call isn't really an option because that's very disrespectful and we don't do that shit. And about not initiating contact; she is now mad and last thing she said was don't talk to me because I don't want to talk to you. So should I just not call her or anything till she approaches me first? And I'm Currently working on acquiring WISNIFG to start on that read. Do you have any pointers on how to approach fixing how she feels? Anything to read or such? Your help is much appre…
/r/askMRP30/06/17 02:49 PM
1

well, she has this idea deep set in her mind. That i caused all her negative emotions so i should fix them, and make them go away. There is a post that i read a while back called "Fix her feelz" on MRP(https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/46mlnd/dont_fix_her_problem/). OP was talking about how the problem isnt in the context of whats being argued or whatever, but its in her feelings, and how we should always aim to fix her feels to get her to turn around. What do you think about that…
/r/askMRP30/06/17 02:11 PM
1

Finished the rational male, red pill handbook, 80% into no more mr nice guy. Read models by Mark Manson and that's about it so far. And I keep reading posts and lurking on this sub
/r/askMRP20/06/17 03:02 PM
1

She gets real pissed when I contact or set up future plans with my friend and gives me passive aggressive behaviour and gets all withdrawn and uninterested. So I obviously don't want that kind of behaviour or attitude. At the moment I'm currently ignoring and applying AM and when I tell her imma call you on my way home to chat a bit over the phone like we usually do she replies with I'm going to continue sleeping or do some shit whatever. So I AS saying yeah definitely you need your beauty sleep…
/r/askMRP20/06/17 02:24 PM
0

So so I ignore that text she just sent me? And not reply? The one she said I won't talk to you and I won't calm and relax. Or do you think I should reply with something like "okay take all the time you need, and I will see you later tonight" because we had arranged a meet up tonight from yesterday before this shit started happening
/r/askTRP11/06/17 03:10 PM
0

Because on a phone call before hanging up she said I love you twice and I didn't reply and continued with all right I'll call you back later and stuff. Then she went all like " ohhh okay, fiiiine, bye"
/r/askTRP11/06/17 03:09 PM
1

She was arguing about how she mad and I kept ignoring that and staying in my frame and didn't acknowledge that she's mad and stuff. And told me to stop being a dick and such. And I told her okay I won't be a dick. And now she woke up and I called her and didn't pick up and "gave me a user busy" she declined the call. And I told why you didn't pick up she said I don't want to talk to you. So I told her okay baby calm down and relax and call me to talk this through she replied no I don't want to t…
/r/askTRP11/06/17 03:06 PM
1

Yelling, somewhat cursing, and using mean terms to say to that's had enough of this shit for the day and that she doesn't want to talk to me anymore today and that "she'll just go sleep" which we both know she won't do. Even when I tell her that she's just saying that to end the conversation and hang up. And also, she keeps on yelling and shouting for us to hang up but I tell no we won't hang up until I'm done saying what I have to say then we'll hang up and stuff like that.
/r/askTRP11/06/17 02:55 PM
1

Okay, so now I'll just text her call me when you wake up and we'll talk this through if you're calmer. Question: what do you mean confront her about the arguing itself not the argument or reasons?
/r/askTRP11/06/17 02:39 PM
1

Okaaaay that sounds so awesome and kick ass but do you have any advice on how to actually do that now? Like in this situation or any tips on how to start changing this and changing the power dynamic back to my favor again? Like, what should I start doing in this situation and further on? Thanks for the help
/r/askTRP10/06/17 08:02 PM
1

Well nooo, of course I don't want that. I'm all about changing and growing as a man. But thing is I don't want to hurt her... and be all asshole-ish and mean on her. Since I'm not typically that inconsiderate of her feelings.
/r/askTRP10/06/17 07:52 PM
1

Okaaay so all these sound amazing and all but already in our relationship it's the norm that whichever one us says i love the other says i love you too or i love you loads or such. I never used any of these or anything remotely related. So if i start using things like "yeah I know, or of course cause I'm the shit" it'll be weird-ish and she's going to be all over me and be all like "what up with that?"
/r/askTRP10/06/17 07:46 PM
1

Okay so let me elaborate more on the dynamic of our relationship. We talk a lot over the phone (and I know this is relatively anti TRP) but this is how it is. And because I told her I'll phone you when I get home before going out with the boys. And I don't see her that often because we live in the middle east and shit here ain't like the states and Europe and such in terms of dating and going out and stuff like that. So we talk often over the phone. So what do you think?
/r/askTRP10/06/17 07:44 PM
1

Me, but she gets to me when she's mad and such because I dont like her to be mad and don't want her thinking when she gets mad I just let her be and fuck her and such. Cause that really hurts her when I do that. Okay I sound beta as fuck when I reread that comment
/r/askTRP10/06/17 07:28 PM
1

So I'm supposed to call her again in 30 before I go out with my boys. So then when I call her I won't say I love you or anything but then should I make reference and acknowledge that she's mad and say " awww you're so cute when you're mad" and that's it? Or should I do more like elaborate on that or go on further talking about that she's mad? Cause she will be like" ohh so you know I'm mad, such observation skills you got"!! What should I do about that? I'll usually A&A and say yeah I'm the king…
/r/askTRP10/06/17 07:26 PM
2

Your sarcasm kills me each and every time man. You the shit man.
/r/askTRP10/06/17 05:22 PM
1

So how do I accept that? Under which notion do I deal with this as if it's the norm
/r/askTRP07/06/17 07:42 AM
1

Duuuuude I love you so much man. THAAAAAANKS FOR THE GREAT HELP AND AWESOME ADVICE
/r/askTRP02/06/17 11:03 PM
1

How should I act then when I call her and she says that I known she been pissed and ignored her all day and currently ignoring the fact that she's mad?!
/r/askTRP02/06/17 10:23 PM
1

What about when she calls later tonight when she's done with her day and her family outing? Should I be all aloof and shit or be all "withdrawing my attention and care" and say "I'm out with my boys now I'll call you later tonight or so" ?
/r/askTRP02/06/17 08:27 PM
1

She's spending the day out with her family cause her sister and sisters husband just came back from abroad. So that won't really work. I'm looking for something more in terms of; 1) should I call her and check up on her and be all aloof and never mind the whole thing. 2) wait until she calls me and be all aloof and not bring it up and tell her I'm out with friends we'll talk later tonight or so. 3) or when she calls I go at her for doing that shit and ghosting me and being rude and shit then tel…
/r/askTRP02/06/17 08:02 PM
1

No we do have sex and all but now she's on her period. It's a 2 week early period so I think that might be why she is all moody and stressed and getting it out on me and that convo with my friend. But yeah thanks for advice I will stop chasing definitely and when she calls me tonight I will tell her I'm out and doing shit and we'll just talk when I get home or tomorrow
/r/askTRP02/06/17 06:50 PM
1

So we haven't texted or talked for the past 5 hours which is quite unlike us. So do I just out of the blue text her I'm going out with my boys and shit. Or wait when she calls me at night when she's done and then chat her up over the phone for a couple of minutes then tell her I'm out and all and I'll call you when I get home or maybe we can talk tomorrow?
/r/askTRP02/06/17 06:31 PM
1

Thing is, she is going to be all like "you don't care about that I'm mad and shit and you don't care about me and stuff like that" We are used to spending a lot of time together and talking a lot and shit. And I like to be consistent in my care and not let her go fuck herself when she's mad. I like to caress her and talk to her when she's mad and get shit sorted out. What do you think
/r/askTRP02/06/17 06:27 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter