hm9831 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	[FR] Boring Layover? Talk to someone!		hm9831	/r/seduction	01/05/15 02:29 AM
0	Walking Set Tips		hm9831	/r/seduction	23/04/15 04:02 AM

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62	The 3 second rule is not only for approaching I think someone may have already beaten me to the punch, but if I can just say, why not extend the 3SR to life in general? Imagine the bulletproof initiative you could take to greatly improve and change the course of your life. Wow...	/r/seduction	09/10/16 03:58 PM
-14	If you approach and make even the most basic small talk with 1k girls over one year, a few are bound to say yes. There you go, PUA solved. This is not a numbers game. Correct your approach, and you will hear 'yes' less often than you here 'no'.	/r/seduction	29/04/16 09:30 PM
2	I have the problem RSDTyler talks about where "my mind runs deep and is highly analytical". How do I stay in the present moment like he does and just have fun? "Being present" is just one of the many ways of saying "you're living in the moment". You're not simply being ignorant of the past or future, but you're focused on what you're doing here and now. So, in the context of seduction, being present is making eye contact, being funny, going for touch, being dominant, not seeking validation, talking about what you want, being yourself, and so on. Think about something you like to do. When you're into it you're there. Your thoughts don't wander and your …	/r/seduction	16/04/16 11:49 PM
5	I have the problem RSDTyler talks about where "my mind runs deep and is highly analytical". How do I stay in the present moment like he does and just have fun? I think you just gotta be more present. I have the exact same issue. Presence is key. Otherwise, I'm all in my head, nervous, anxious, antsy, and the entire seduction goes to the toilet. Chill. Listen. Look into their eyes. Touch. Escalate. You should be fine.	/r/seduction	14/04/16 01:56 AM
11	Game isn't just about getting girls, it's about improving yourself in all aspects of life. I'd even go as far as saying seduction is akin to unlocking your inner man-in-potential. You look, think, feel, act, and are at your best in every way. Beyond that, you're not scared of the world or people. You ARE the man. The sex? Well, that's just the cherry (or cherries) on top.	/r/seduction	04/09/15 12:43 AM
3	The struggle of motivation to go out, the pain period that never ends. There is no motivation, only discipline to go out (consistently) and slug away. Motivation only comes in short term bursts. Go for discipline, it's way better.	/r/seduction	17/08/15 07:39 PM
-1	Pickup women in an elevator? In business, we have a term called an elevator speech. Essentially you get a foot in the door. Small talk is perfect. However, you gotta be quick, introduce yourself, quick kino, compliment, and tell'em where you live. If they don't bite, forget it. But comeback to them later.	/r/seduction	09/08/15 09:07 PM
2	What's your initial conversation opener? What're you drinking? I have a theory that your drink says a lot about you. In the spirit of being authentic you can use the 'isn't busy here'. Anything would work.	/r/seduction	08/07/15 03:04 AM
3	What's your initial conversation opener? I was in class today and smelled the girl right next to me. She smelled like cigarettes. But, it was covered with perfume. I liked it. I said "Hey, for a smoker you smell good." Conversation ensues. This girl at Starbucks had a really cool pair of Nikes on. I said "Hey, nice shoes!" Conversation ensues. Use anything, literally anything to start talking. Be creative!	/r/seduction	07/07/15 10:40 PM
1	Going to a open pool on sunday...how do I approach women there? 'Prepare' by talking with your friends and chilling and relaxing. Approach anxiety always seems to be a pain because most of us just have to be hero's and sarge it out. That's great and all, but some times you have to be smart. Talk with your friends, hell, talk to anyone. Once that's outta the way, you should have a good deal of social momentum and you can open anyone with ease. And I mean Anyone. From that smokimg hot blondie to that 'tough' guy with muscles. Remember, it's all about knowing y…	/r/seduction	02/07/15 10:03 PM
2	Got a first date tonight with an HB8 whose name I forgot Yeah! Say, "I have this theory that ID cards always have the worst photos. Manipulate that statement and go for it!	/r/seduction	28/06/15 06:44 PM
1	Badasses of seddit, what mindsets/mantras did you use to turn from a boy/"beta" to a real manly man who is on top of his sh*t? Yes. You may never be complete. But with work, you can become stronger – day by day, week by week. Compound that all and you'll be a rockstar.	/r/seduction	16/06/15 07:38 PM
30	Badasses of seddit, what mindsets/mantras did you use to turn from a boy/"beta" to a real manly man who is on top of his sh*t? In my experience, I need to be on top of my life and slaying my personal demons. This means that I'm in peak physical, mental, and spiritual form. That, or achieving 'state' is imminent. What do I mean by that? Well, if I'm in school, I'm on target with my work and assignments. It means I hit the gym and push myself and help myself to create a strong, healthy, and robust body. It means that I'm working on my craft(s) – writing, cooking, etcetera. Finally, I'm becoming a smarter person through ed…	/r/seduction	14/06/15 07:46 PM
1	So I need some advice I say text the day before or the day of. "Hey, are we still on for coffee tomorrow (or today)?" Simple and clean. Plus, you're double checking for changes in advance, as opposed finding out the hour of. Most people do it just to make sure of plans in general, so it's subtle and shouldn't attract attention – not that seduction is subtle.	/r/seduction	28/05/15 06:29 AM
2	I suck at speaking. I stutter, I mumble, I'm often at a loss of words. Help! A stammerer-seducer! Awesome! I've come a long way by speaking slower, but, I occasionally have a 'stop' and hang on a syllable that makes things awkward and less than awesome for when I'm interacting with women or people in general. I've yet to learn to project my voice and speak louder and clearer. People often ask me to repeat myself because I speak at a faster rate without enunciating properly. That makes me nervous and I begin to stammer. This is probably a good starting point to learn how …	/r/seduction	28/05/15 06:18 AM
3	Today, for the first time, i got rejected because of my looks. You'll be fine. If I was in your place I'd be laughing my ass off. I'm narcissistic in the sense that I view people that reject me are idiots for doing so. I always say "Hey, it's your loss. I'm full of life, energy, and positivity. Good luck finding anyone half as cool as me." I really don't let the thought and feeling of reject linger too long because if it does, I'll get sucked into it. It's always leads me to negative thought which'll in turn drain my confidence. I process it, understand she…	/r/seduction	25/04/15 04:15 AM
7	Today, for the first time, i got rejected because of my looks. Part of The Game. You will get disrespected. You will be humiliated. But, you have to understand that taking it personally will mess with your confidence and you need to let the comments come from one ear , through that brain, out the other. B might be a jerk, in a bad mood, or whatever. Who cares. You're still learning and you need to learn how to be rejected, even if it's in the nastiest ways. What I don't understand though, is how your looks played a role in all of this. To me, it's your mind…	/r/seduction	25/04/15 03:54 AM
1	How to have a conversation via text I always follow up about something unique that the girl had or what we talked about. If I talked about books and reading, I ask are you and avid reader? Or about food "do you cook?". Feel it out and follow it up with a question, remark, whatever.	/r/seduction	23/04/15 05:06 AM
1	"I'm not looking for a relationship right now" Why do you want a relationship anyway? The least you could get is a friend, who could potentially be a lover. If not a lover, a wing. It is what you make of it.	/r/seduction	23/04/15 05:03 AM
2	Can I have a list of Canada Cities Lairs? Check the sidebar. There's a lair locator thread too.	/r/seduction	23/04/15 04:08 AM
2	Improving yourself doesn't change anything if you can't approach - my thoughts about self-improvement and game This is probably a fair rebuttal of this subreddit. I've been thinking along the same lines. You work out for you. You learn guitar because it's freakin' fun to play. You excel in your career because you want to. In as much as I hate Ayn Rand, she once said “To say ‘I love you’ one must first know how to say the ‘I.’" This is taken from a longer quote, but I'm sure you get the point. Do what it is you must/want to do because it's important to who you are. The way I see it, looking good and havin…	/r/seduction	22/04/15 11:39 PM
1	Ok I need some advice not particularly about seduction but I figure you guys can help me out. If a girlfriend is what you want, then go out and get it. In the same way that you apply yourself to guitar, the gym, etc. apply yourself to becoming more socially inept, otherwise, you're not gonna go really far. Having said that, you really have to start socializing. Talk to anyone and everyone at school. Wave at people you know. Make eye contact with those you pass by and give 'the nod'. There are plenty of YouTube channels devoted to this. Sure you can start with 'pickup' channels, but even …	/r/seduction	22/04/15 11:26 PM
2	TEXTING GAME NEEDS HELP This has somewhat gotten out of hand. Play it by ear. I mean, 'text game' is really an extension of 'real life game'. Say what you want, but bear in mind it's significantly limited to just words – unless you Skype or FaceTime (even then it's not the same). There are no hard and fast rules. Each woman varies, and so should your technique. I'd recommend short, concise texts. To empathize, texting sucks. I hate to waste my time texting because I usually end up writing a lot. I'd rather talk a lot. …	/r/seduction	22/04/15 11:12 PM
1	How to tell between shy and non-interest? This is where your skills in conversation come in. I've yet to play with this concept because I usually open and talk endlessly. We hang out, we smile, we laugh, we whatever. But to be a more effective seducer, you've got to get into their head and feed their mind with what they want. Ultimately, you want them to open up to you. I'd say ask questions and get to know them. Know their taste. I mean, you could simply ask them what they desire, want, and dream of. This probably isn't concrete. So I …	/r/seduction	22/04/15 10:45 PM
5	How to tell between shy and non-interest? I'd go for shy, seeing that her friends told you that she's like that. Having said that, it's difficult not to look at the flake and not say she's uninterested. In The Art of Seduction, Robert Greene talks about how seducers, particularly "The Ideal Lover" would figure out what their potential lovers would want. Some wanted danger, excitement, friendship, etc. These seducers would give their lovers what they want, and then draw them in. If I were you, I'd figure out what she want and offer it to…	/r/seduction	21/04/15 05:28 AM
5	Seduction: A success story. Terrific work. But remember, success is a journey not a destination. Otherwise, keep at it. Seduction is not just for courting, flirting, and all that fun stuff. Seduction is about self-discovery and unearthing who we can be and molding ourselves into vibrant, sexy, and awesome people, no matter our dispositions.	/r/seduction	21/04/15 05:14 AM
1	How to respond to "what"? Say "You". Or better yet approach. Combine eye contact with an approach.	/r/seduction	02/09/14 09:33 PM