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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | I wonder if he texted her back yetI think you answered your question— men have nasty rubbers because they don’t care about us or our health. Why do you want to have sex with a musty man who can’t be bothered to take the proper care when you can just masturbate? We can “use” men fot sex I suppose but it’s not the same— men see sex as something they steal from us and they do so with no regard for our health, safety, or pleasure. So we can’t use them for sex because we are at a disproportionate amount of higher risks and have much … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 06:54 PM |
| 1 | I wonder if he texted her back yetwhy not just masturbate? at least you can’t give yourself HPV, kidnap your self, and you’ll actually cum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 06:19 PM |
| 22 | Polyamorous, Every bi woman on dating apps feel this video I am certain.HAHAHHA that was a delight omg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 03:06 PM |
| 70 | I wonder if he texted her back yetWomen are capable of having casual sex, of course, but men aren’t just getting their jimmies rustled and going on with their life. They are not having the same casual sex as you. They are having sex with you and hating you for it at the same time, they are getting pleasure over feeling like they conquered you, there is a power imbalance there that exists even when the casual sex is consensual. Men are raised to see you as an object, women see people as people. “The normal fuck by a normal man is… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 05:06 AM |
| 13 | How do you get over post-relationship embarrassment?It’s almost going to be two years for me and I still feel myself cringing from time to time and replaying the chain of events over and over. The most important thing for me has been realizing 1) it’s not my fault. The way he treated me has nothing to do with me (the way your ex treated you has NOTHING to do with you but everything to do with him. You are worth so much more.) and 2) I wanted to be happy. They took advantage of that. They should be ashamed, not you. My biggest piece of advice is t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 04:26 AM |
| 3 | Avoiding types that are dead-ends: can artsy men ever be HVM?Yeah the musicians are a bit easier to weed out-- but the art types, when they don't look like a pretentious douche at first glance, are a little harder to see through. These days I just assume they're all the same and work on myself because I have almost exclusively dated these types of men and they've all had the same types of problems. With the musicians I've been involved with being the most extreme cases. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 10:32 PM |
| 6 | Avoiding types that are dead-ends: can artsy men ever be HVM?This makes me literally never want to date ever again. Damn, this would've absolutely bamboozled me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 10:29 PM |
| 5 | Avoiding types that are dead-ends: can artsy men ever be HVM?I also feel like I cannot trust my own attractions. It's pretty clear to me that I am attracted to these men because I mistakenly believe they aren't like other guys... in reality I think they know that they have a special angle to catch women off guard and get them to lower their defenses. You're so right about men in general being shitty but with other men they wear it as a badge of honor and you know to avoid them... these men are a little more crafty. Excellent response, thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 10:28 PM |
| 14 | Avoiding types that are dead-ends: can artsy men ever be HVM?I recently met up with a man I used to hang out with (as friends) that I had the biggest crush on years ago. I thought he was everything I ever wanted: smart, creative, talented, interesting hobbies outside of art (he liked cycling to locations to paint), dressed great, listened to good music. But seeing him again years later to catch up, it was like I was able to see through the bullshit. He can't be my rock, he denounced his friends working for tech companies and called them "boring" for worki… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 10:24 PM |
| 27 | Avoiding types that are dead-ends: can artsy men ever be HVM?I feel like that last paragraph really resonated with me... I think that i’m so attracted to these men because I really like that their hobbies seem so interesting and less like a waste. For example, I’ve dated men who play video games as a hobby and just blankly staring at a box for hours on end just felt boring and frankly childish. But when a man uses his free time to work on a craft or expression it feels productive and attractive. It feels impossible to find a partner who doesn’t game or re… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 06:09 PM |
| 5 | There are two fundamental components to love - love and mercyabsolutely, and it’s incredibly common!! they get you hooked by being so doting and then they completely change their tune once they think they have you. what’s scary is that some men can keep it up for YEARS til you’re married and suddenly living with someone you dont know at all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 09:27 PM |
| 3 | How do you cope with anger toward your exes?Did we date the same guy? Seriously, these NVM soul suckers are way too common. I’m 1 yr post dumping his ass and honestly the only thing that made any long term difference was therapy but also spoiling myself, dressing up, taking care of myself also helped me just feel sorry for him. Main thing is to just be thankful that it’s in the past, and swear to never fall for such bullshit ever again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 01:45 AM |
| 3 | Did I make the right choice to cut him out?funny you say that because i did cut him out and lo and behold i woke up to this text. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 06:17 PM |
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