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England too. Where I live it's hard to even tell what country you're in, there are more foreign people than Brits. It's almost like someone wants to destroy the British identity. Or something.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 10:30 AM
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Apparently Instagram are offering up to hundreds of thousands of dollars to "tik tok stars" (WTF does that even mean?) to switch to their new video platform. There will be nothing but feminazi bullcrap then. Personally I think tik tok and the likes need blowing up, they are pointless shite and show how much society has fallen. We're not in the sewer, we've gone way further down than that.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 10:52 AM
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Don't approach it thinking about trying to make a sale, approach it thinking about how can I solve this persons problem? How can I make their life better, their job easier, make them more money. First that simple change in mindset makes it easier to deal with the pressure of selling, second you come across much more favourably to them since you are more insterested in what you can do to help them than just selling something to them, and third it will help you to find the obstacles you need to ov…
/r/askTRP29/07/20 10:46 AM
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cPTSD - your inner critic is making you doubt yourself and your value, because you have been deriving your value from the affection and attention of external sources (her). Now she's gone, she's deflated your sense of value to zero, and since you've deferred your feelings about yourself to her you don't know how to feel good about yourself. That's I think really the core of TRP - you need to make your life about you, if you find someone who you want to take on your ride then do it, but the momen…
/r/askTRP27/07/20 01:39 PM
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Normal women are crazy enough as it is, hooking up with actual crazy ones is idiotic. Trust me, I know, I married one, it has fucked up my life. Don't do it.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 10:02 AM
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It is if she says it is. And don't fuck chicks without a condom. You're asking for trouble.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 11:38 AM
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It sounds a bit like lovebombing that fruitcakes use to hook you into a relationship. They very quickly start to tell you all kinds of traumas and personal shit, and you feel compelled to reciprocate. It creates the illusion of something deep and meaningful, but you've just given them all of your darkest thoughts and fears, and so now they know exactly what buttons to press to fuck up your head. Big red flag when they start revealing their problems early on. Or at all. Problems they are thinking…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 11:35 AM
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Everyone is inferior to the Narcissist, they just pick the best of a bad bunch for each service they need fulfilling.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 11:29 AM
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I agree with your point about not trying to pin down the exact brand of their malfunction, but it's not easy to avoid that way of thinking. I spent months trying to wrap my head around exactly what was wrong with her because I thought if I can identify that, then I can be sure I'm alright (you know how they mess up your head and leave you in a state of confusion). Eventually it dawned on me that a) it's impossible to accurately specify it, and b) it doesn't matter. As you said, once you know the…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 11:24 AM
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They're all people who blame everyone else for their own failings. In the 19th Century black people were being held back because they were slaves, they needed to be free men so they could prosper. 200 years later they're still complaining that their lives aren't what they wish they were because of slavery. Of course slavery is wrong, my point is that some people will always find a way to blame their unhappy life on someone else - feminists, gay rights, etc - it's always the fault of people who a…
/r/askTRP20/07/20 02:23 PM
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OP - It's men trying to help other men understand and get the best from this crazy world we live in, while the crazy world we live in is trying to knock men down by blaming them for everything, every problem, every failure in other peoples lives. TRP is the truth (particularly how women think and behave), and that's why they hate it so much and call us "toxic". Projecting their own venom and failures onto men in the hope that if they can silence us we won't be able to see it coming.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 02:18 PM
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If they are a proper narcissist (in the clinical sense) then any form of criticism or lack of attention will result in a Narcissistic rage - and I mean a full on, red mist rage. They are not people to try and play games with. They have been learning how to manipulate people since they were c.9 months to 12 months old, and are masters at it. Trying to play them at their own game is like you reading "chess for dummies" then thinking you have a chance against a grand master. They will fuck your hea…
/r/askTRP20/07/20 02:13 PM
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I quit smoking and alcohol about a month ago, decided I might as well do both at once. Have kept off the ciggies, have been drinking alcohol but at a lower rate than before, it was the cigs I was most bothered about (was doing 2 packs a day, that's almost £25 a day in the UK). I've found the smoking to be a lot easier than I've found before, I guess this time I'm really giving up, I used patches and a low powered ecig for first 10 days, then just ecig since. Got 2 bottles of juice left, that'll …
/r/askTRP19/07/20 11:37 AM
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Tell her you've already left a review on Google for her.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 11:32 AM
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I used to date a little hottie, I was going into a nightclub with her and some dude with his friends said "how come he's with her, what does he have that I don't?" I just looked at them and said in my best deadpan voice: "Her". And that was that.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 11:19 AM
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Haha I merntioned this story the other day in another thread, it was on surviving infidelity.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 04:21 PM
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That's nothing. I've just read a post on the surviving infidelity reddit where a guy agreed to let his "sweet and caring" wife go meet a co worker for sex, he tried to put boundaries in place (WTF kind of boundaries he thought he could impose when he's letting his wife get boned by someone else, I can't even begin to imagine), she got him to take photos of her so she could send them to Chad just before she went to bone him, Chad got his friend around and she did both of them, husband starts blub…
/r/askTRP15/07/20 01:22 PM
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All serious BPD sufferers are on a path to self destruction, the worse their disorder the worse the behaviour, and they will destroy everyone involved with them as well. You'd do yourself a favour to work out why you are attracted to them, it'll save you a lot of pain later in life.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 12:16 PM
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women will rationalize the victimhood/vulnerability of a serial killer/sexual predator and like him for "who he is" I get the feeling it's a bit like "my dads bigger than your dad" - the meaner, harder, tougher, more psychotic the man the safer they feel, because no one is going to beat their serial killer / boyfriend who fucks them harder than the rapist did / etc.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/20 09:56 PM
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I was going to say pretty much the same thing. If she feels the need to criticise him for saying a name she didn't like after date no.1, imagine what an almighty pain in the arse she'll be after date no.20. Or heaven forbid if he got into an LTR with her.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 09:21 PM
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Maybe you DGAF when talking to the ones you're not interested in, but come across as needy when talking to the ones you do want. Frame of mind.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 09:19 PM
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No because they're hidden most of the time. It's the obvious ones that are in your face that you need to watch for, same for tats and mad coloured hair and wackadoo clothing. It's a sign of identity disturbance, which is a sign of a crazy loon who will fuck up your mind and then your life. It's not to say all of them are mental, but probably most of them will be, so why take the risk.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 12:34 PM
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"It never ceases to amaze me, you care about yourself more than other people, but care more about their opnions than your own" - Marcus Aurelius. Never a truer thing said. They're just someone elses opinions - who cares what they think?
/r/askTRP13/07/20 12:28 PM
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"She says he did things like gaslight her regularly, via accusing her of sleeping with their mutual friend, to the point where she could no longer tell if she did it or did not." From my own experience: A person who has been gaslighted is usually mind fucked and don't like to even talk about it because it makes them feel like they've gone a bit crazy, and what you can absolutely guarantee is that the gaslighter will acuse the victim of being the one doing the gaslighting. They also get their sto…
/r/askTRP13/07/20 12:24 PM
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Cheers. It's been educational reading them, it's quite amazing that they use the same standard and excuses to justify their behaviour.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 11:17 PM
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survivinginfidelity (cant post links to other reddits). relationshipadvice has some good ones too.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 11:08 PM
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From your title I was going to say BPD. If you succumb to her threats she's going to mind fuck you from now until eternity. You know a relationship with her can't work. So the only course of action is ignore her and let her do whatever she does. It's not your fault whatever she does or doesn't do, it's her knowledge that most people would feel guilty that lets her pull this stunt to control people. You have to look after you, not her, and if you look after her you're definitely harming yourself.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 10:37 PM
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I love reading peoples experiences on surviving infidelity reddit, I read them to laugh at the excuses their cheating partners give them. It's hilarious, if people thought with their heads instead of their Disney induced emotions they'd laugh at them too. They're always ridiculous.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 01:19 PM
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They're addictive like a drug. Breaking up with them is like quitting smoking, it's hard at first you just want to enjoy it one more time, but eventually you don't think about it any more and you're happy you stopped. Not least because keeping on would seriously damage your health and potentially kill you.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 01:10 PM
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It's the bucket of crabs. As soon as one of the crabs starts to escape from the bucket, the others try to drag him back in. It makes them feel like failures to see another succeed, so they try to sabotage them. Rather than trying to improve themselves, they try to drag other people down to their level, like the old saying: Some people can only make themselves feel taller by cutting the heads of others.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 10:38 AM
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Yeah you tell them they stank then stick your face in it. That's about as beta as you can get. So little in abundance you eat a stanky skank? Disgusting.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 11:34 AM
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I know I'm good in bed, I get my rocks of every. single. time. If she doesn't it's her fault. And there's no way I'm putting my face anywhere near her p-hole, it's too close to her a-hole. Plus you don't know where it's been.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 11:33 AM
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Either her feet are rancid or she has very short legs. Is she a dwarf? I think a call to the doctors office is in order OP.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 11:26 AM
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I don't think there's anything any of us can do about it, it's just I think the way the narrative is playing out and we're in for a bumpy ride. Then an even bumpier ride. It's just observations.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/20 10:06 PM
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Ask her BF of 6 years who left her for someone else. I'm sure he'll have a few insights for you. If she was any good he wouldn't have left her.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 10:03 PM
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OP - because you see it a lot with people with mental health problems like BPD, it's called "Identity Disturbance" - they literally have no real self image or identity, and so try to manufacture a false one to present to the world. It usually as VZ says has the appearance of being "edgy" and is usually designed to hit you right between the eyes. People with self image and identity issues like this will absolutely 100% fuck you up mentally and make your life a living hell. They should be avoided …
/r/askTRP06/07/20 09:48 PM
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Similar experience after living with woman with MH problem. I think you'll be alright once your brain has de-scrambled itself and you've decompressed and processed the brain bashing she's put you through.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 09:41 PM
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It's the modern world, I just did a post on TRP about it - men are the cause of all the worlds evils and everyone else is a victim. All they need to do is say "they did something bad to me" and with no proof whatsoever they are believed, the man is vilified and his career over, he might even face the legal system or violence and no one believes him. Because everyone "knows" men are toxic abusers. And while they have every media company, every social media company, etc falling all overthemselves …
/r/askTRP06/07/20 09:36 PM
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Yeah they get pissed when you do it because that is their main tactic for manipulationg you, so in their eyes it probably is abusive because it's taking away their power to be abusive, and they think it's gaslighting because you can control the narrative of what reality is and they can't just twist everything afterwards to fit whatever story they're trying to make you believe. Or something. They're nuts, that's all I know for sure.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/20 08:49 PM
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I can't spend any time with you boyfriend because my headache is too bad. It isn't bad enough for me to spend time with my ex, okay girlfriend? That's what she's treating you like - a big girly boy. Ditch her dude.
/r/askTRP04/07/20 02:27 PM
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You could say I like my small hands they make my dick look even bigger, or you should be thanking me, it'll make it look like you have a pair of tits.
/r/askTRP04/07/20 02:24 PM
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They are children. They see the other children who are being naughty and rambunctious getting more attention. In order to compete they need to act even worse than they do. Then you have a vicious circle where behaviour gets worse and worse to try and get any kind of attention. Because as all naughty children know, bad attention is better than no attention.
/r/askTRP04/07/20 02:22 PM
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Problem people with all kind of disorders have a way of probing your brain that makes they themselves addictive to you. That's why it's best to say no from the start and not even take the first shot of them. Took me 23 years and the best part of my life to discover this
/r/askTRP04/07/20 02:11 PM
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Ed Kemper got head off his heads. Can't do that with a pile of teeth.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/20 02:08 PM
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Depends how many heads he has in his refrigerator.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/20 10:37 PM
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But what aboout her free trip amd meals?
/r/askTRP03/07/20 10:25 PM
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I feel your pain, my daughter (now 18) has become extremely hostile towards me since I divorced her mother, in fact she has started acting just like her mother, who is I am certain suffering from Narcissistic Personality Disorder. All I can think of is when she was my little girl and I'd read stories to her or take her to the park, etc, but I just can't have her in my life if she is going to behave like that. It's about 18 months since I last saw her and probably 6 months since I last spoke to h…
/r/askTRP03/07/20 10:16 PM
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Sounds like she'll have poor impulse control and be unreliable, not someone I'd want to get involved with. It's just asking for trouble.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 10:11 PM
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What a loon. "Crazy girl with some kind of mental problem went full retard on me. Do you think I can still game her?" Who needs enemies with a self like that?
/r/askTRP03/07/20 10:08 PM
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Seen it before, there's nothing you can do. If there were more girls in your dept they'd all get better evaluations than they deserve. Only way is to get rid of him or leave or put up with it.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 10:14 AM
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Theres a good reddit wiki thing dedicated to BPD and their wacky behaviour, it's well worth a read it's a real eye opener.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 02:09 PM
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stay the fuck away from her bro That is the only advice you need, and you'd better pay attention to it if you value a stress and crazy free life.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 02:07 PM
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It's hard to explain without writing an essay. You can't link from RP to other reddit boards, so search for BPDnotes and look at symptoms - there's loads more tactics they use than gaslighting, like word salad - that sub explains them all. I think you'll find what you're looking for among that stuff.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/20 09:33 PM
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Why are you talking to your mum and your auntie about this stuff? And why would you take the advice of an old hag who never married? Her advice would be the last advice I'd follow. In fact I'd automatically believe and do the exact opposite of what she thinks, whether I knew about trp or not.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 12:58 PM
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The old "we're breaking up because it's your fault" and simultaneously "it wouldn't be fair on you if we dated again (presumably because you deserve better/she cares about your feels?)" Translated from womanese - she's met someone else and is trying to brush you off without any drama.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 09:59 PM
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I like what Ricky Gervais says about it: "For 13 Billion years you didn't exist, and when you die you'll never exist again. But you're here now for 70 or 80 years and it's fucking brilliant". Or words to that effect. EDIT: he says it better himself: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-WJHDrEy8Mk
/r/askTRP24/06/20 09:51 PM
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It doesn't bother me much, but do you think i should punish her Bingo.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 09:46 PM
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I've struggled to work out if she's NPD or BPD, she seems to have a lot of traits for both. Using the DSM she seems to be NPD, but I'm not 100% sure, BPD & NPD are closely related. I eventually came to the conclusion it doesn't matter, all I need to know is she's nuts.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 11:24 PM
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The really scary thing is I was with her for 22 years and I didn't even know she was doing it, all I knew was trying to discuss things with her was draining, you could never win, and she could make you feel like shit emotionally until you just gave up and gave in. It wasn't until she accused me of gaslighting her that I'd ever even heard of it, and when I looked up what it meant I thought Holy Shit - that's what she does to me all the time. And right there in the list of how they gaslight you wa…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 09:51 PM
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I mean she was normal at first? How does one know craziness before it reveals itself? Odd coloured hair, tattoos, piercings, odd clothing choices, out of whack responses when talking to them (odd slightly over the top laugh, weird stare, says odd stuff - not bat shit crazy just a bit out there), have had lots of dead end jobs, keep losing things, are always late, "spontaneous" (i.e. lack impulse control), never finished school, mum and dad split up, had "mean abusive boyfriends", claim to be bis…
/r/askTRP23/06/20 09:41 PM
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In future don't get yourself into this kind of situation in the first place. It isn't funny it's deadly serious, a woman like that could seriously fuck up your life. Not worth it for a bit of sex.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 09:38 PM
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My advice is to do something you love. I made the mistake of choosing a career because it was a solid money earner (electronics engineer), but discovered I actually hate electronics, so every day was a drudge. Chase something you enjoy, not a "career" for earning potential and you won't go far wrong.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 09:35 PM
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Maybe she's diverting attention - telling OP about the creepy boss to explain her moodiness, so he doesn't suspect Chad Thundercock who is rattling her brains out in the stationary cupboard 3 times a day.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 09:31 PM
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Honestly it does work. My ex wife was a master at it, when I split with her I insisted we only communicate by text and email and she still tried gaslighting me. If it hadn't been in writing and had only been verbal she could convince you of anything. The idea that gaslighting "doesn't work on a man" if he's heard them say something is completely wrong. You have to experience it to understand how they can fuck up your head with just a few words.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 09:25 PM
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She has no way to gaslight him because he heard it from her own mouth Don't you believe it, and anyone who doubts the power of gaslighting should watch the video I linked to below where Dalia Dippolito is gaslighting her husband. She tried to hire a hitman but it was a Police sting, they have the whole thing on video and audio and she STILL denies it, and does such a good job of scrambling his brains you can hear him wavering. Mind you, serves him right for marrying a hooker. https://www.youtube…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 09:00 PM
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To quote the philosopher Bob Marley - "No woman, no cry". To extrapolate out from that using an Einsteinian model, you would therefore deduce that "more woman = more cry". Therefore in a balanced Newtonian framework, 0 girl = 0 pain, 2 girls = 2 lots of pain. So in a Bobby Fischer pincer movement, 0 girl wins, 2 girls means Queen cuts off Kings cock in 2 moves after first removing bishops helmet with her rook. CheckCockMate
/r/askTRP22/06/20 11:41 PM
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As a 51 yo I'd love to think some girls want a dad bod over a fit bod, but I think that would just be delusional. I think girls who say they prefer dad bod over fit bod are using it as a kind of anti slut device - to make it look like they're a lot less shallow than they really are and they "value deep emotional connections and sheet", over pure carnal lust. But some good looking dude with a fit bod shows them some interest and they'll be on their backs sans knickers in 5 minutes.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 01:52 PM
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No LTR no problems. The other dude has 2 mental bitches to contend with now. You win.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 01:46 PM
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It's the 21st Century and you have a penis therefore you are the devil. Try not talking to them at all, they'll hate that even more.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 01:41 PM
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My favourite subs apart from this one are survivinginfidelity and relationshipadvice because you see the same behaviours and the same outcomes over and over and over again and it just validates (in the real world) RP theory by observing people who fail to follow it and the clusterfuck that follows. After you've read the stories on there for a few weeks it's like a script, you can see whats happening, the games they play and what the outcome is going to be - while the person going through it can'…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/20 12:21 PM
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Ideally if you're in a LTR (why would you do that?) then she shouldn't want to go out to bars "with friends" because she knows as well as you do that she's going to get hit on, and time and time and time again this is where LTRs fail because she gets the tingles for someone else. However..... as pointed out by others, if she wants to go out and/or get pounded by Chad Thundercock then she will, and there's nothing you can do about it. So really what I'd say is: a) she isn't LTR material (are any …
/r/askTRP30/05/20 11:53 PM
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An old friend of mine had a major heart attack and was confined indoors - he spent his time looking at web cam girls and porn - and this was a good 25 years ago, right at the dawm on internet thottery. I always remember he said to me (something I hadn't noticed) - have you seen that ALL of these girls doing sex online have tattoos - what do you think that means? At the time I thought it meant girls with tattoos are more likely to be sluts, which might be true, but I had no explanation for it. It…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 06:15 PM
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Are you sure you're not 12 now, because you're acting like it. Honestly you sound worse than him - "sumone disrespected me so I wuz wup hiz ass". Maybe it runs in the family?
/r/askTRP14/03/20 09:38 PM
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Eject, eject, eject. Abandonment issues = personality issues (like borderline PD craziness, threatening to commit suicide, cutting, etc). Daddy issues = personality issues. It will eventually make your life a misery.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 12:31 PM
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Or she already has the other dude lined up (or has already banged him), so wants to either a) make herself feel like she didn't cheat because OP slept with someone else as well, or b) OP sleeping with someone else gives her the green light with the other guy. I bet if OP did this, she'd be banging new guy within the week.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 11:50 AM
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Are you black or rather not white? Some Eastern European countries are quite overtly (I hate to use the word because it's so over used) racist. I observed it in Bulgaria quite recently. I'm white by the way.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 10:32 AM
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" Now I’m wondering wtf is going on here. " She's playing you like a fiddle and now has you chasing her. You shouldn't have gone for dinner with her.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 11:13 PM
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He's hitting on her, the question is if she allows him to and reciprocates the attention. Then it becomes an emotional affair, and then a physical one - it might already be. It's all well and good worrying about mate guarding but if you do nothing what I said above will happen, you need to lay down some boundaries. If it's her saying he's like a brother, a good friend (or he's gay even) then she's trying to defuse the situation and it's already emotional. If her attitude to you starts to change …
/r/askTRP01/03/20 11:11 PM
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It's a bit like Trump talking about the coronavirus: "There;s no need to panic" he said. Really? If there's no need to panic then why did panicking even enter his head?
/r/askTRP29/02/20 10:50 PM
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Gossiping about other peoples private life is what girls do. They do it to create drama. You did this to one friend, and now have another who doesn't trust you with private matters, so it sounds like yo have some history. You also keep poking the hornets nest by talking to his ex - more drama. You sure you're as red pilled as you think? You're kind of acting like a woman. If you found it a "burden" to know that your friend had broken up with his ex and couldn't keep it to yourself, stop asking o…
/r/askTRP28/02/20 09:54 AM
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It's too late now but the best (only) solution is to arm up with RP knowledge and avoid lunatics like this in the first place.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 09:48 AM
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Why are you taking viagra (to get hard for girls) He's gay.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 08:41 AM
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Puts a whole new spin on having a stiffy.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 06:20 PM
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I remember years ago going to my best friends mums funeral and I felt as awkward AF because some distant cousin of his was there and she was all over me. A really hot little blond, however... When I met up with her a couple of days later, found out she had a boyfriend, some kind of idiot crack dealer or something, and she had a tattoo on her forearm - one she and her friends she met "while in care" had done themselves. Came to the conclusion she was batshit crazy and left it at that. Odd place t…
/r/askTRP18/02/20 01:29 PM
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OP - how many drinks did you buy her? There's what her IOIs were for.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 12:24 PM
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I've had insane sex after funerals. I hope it wasn't with the guest of honor.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 12:23 PM
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The crazy ones always give the best sex. It's an ironic red flag.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 12:21 PM
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And don't bend over to pick up the soap.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 12:14 PM
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Yeah - "I'm showing you how manipulative I will be to get what I want. Do you want to marry me?" No thanks.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 12:19 PM
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Idk what the consensus is on here but don't hit on waitresses Plus my now ex wife was a waitress (or bar staff in the UK) and it turned out she was an utter slutbucket and mentally deranged. Working behind bars is where the mental retards who can't hold down normal jobs end up. Don't do it to yourself, they really aren't worth it. I speak through the pain of experience.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 07:01 PM
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Seriously. Is this what Ask TRP has become?
/r/askTRP16/02/20 06:58 PM
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I've seen it presented that this kind of data "proves" single parent families where the parent is a female are disastrous for young people, both male and female, but perhaps particularly males. That might be true, but it could be that children from any kind of single parent family struggle - it's just that probably 95%+ of the time kids get put with the mother so the numbers are skewed. Having said that there's been a series on tv about the UKs problems with mental health cases increasing, it fo…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/20 05:47 PM
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Depends if she still fits into her school uniform. If yes - bang. If no - bang her friend who does instead. [sarcasm]
/r/askTRP24/01/20 03:49 PM
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Neither - that would be really alpha. If you can get her to wipe it for you - that's bonus alpha points. Especially on a first date.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 03:41 PM
1

" ''she broke her morals and had her first ever hookup on a first date'' " Cool story bro... ...is what you should have said to her - if you believe that bullshit (which is designed purely to stroke your fragile ego) then you're even dumber than your original post gives you credit for.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 03:40 PM
5

Or NPD or ASPD or HPD - definitely a PD in there somewhere. And probably at least one STD too.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 03:39 PM
3

She's fucking Austin - she says she hates him, he's retarded, is weird, has never had a girlfriend, he creeps her out, has no social skills, etc, etc, etc as a cover story (yet still keeps seeing him). So your dumb blue-pilled ass won't suspect the truth - that he's rattling her brains out on a regular basis. Now, with this new perspective does her crying and wailing about what your friend sent to him make more sense that she's banging him, than when you thought she was a unicorn and he was quas…
/r/askTRP24/01/20 03:34 PM
11

Exactly what happened with my ex - started working on the railway network - it's about 95% men and she got attention all day long from guys wanting to get into her pants. In the end she was going out drinking with her colleagues, was hardly ever at home, and then one night was supposed to be home by midnight - rolled in at 4-30am, both phones were off, didn't want to say who she'd been "clubbing" with (this is a 44 year old woman acting like a 24 year old), etc. So... I kicked her out and divorc…
/r/askTRP22/01/20 10:26 AM
17

"She was a virgin til she met me". Cool story bro.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 10:22 AM
2

You sure it isn't 50 lessons from Marcus Aurelius?
/r/askTRP20/01/20 10:58 AM
3

I was going to say "Zero - but actually since you asked me that question, -10. Bye."
/r/askTRP16/01/20 10:58 AM
1

Gut feeling or having a hunch is your subconscious screaming at you to pay attention. Your subconscious processes about 10,000 times more data than your conscious mind and when it spots something out of whack it lets you know. Only an idiot ignores it - especially for a girls feelings.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 10:54 AM
2

There are plenty of examples out there where she acts like a super unicorn until the debt is paid - then she's off like a shot to someone else. Or worse, the dude supports her and takes on debt while she's studying, then once she qualifies and starts earning money she flakes on him and leaves him holding the can. You can't be in an LTR with her without you in some way shape or form helping her to pay her debt. IMHO that way madness lies.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 10:48 AM
2

Make sure you take a rope too in case you fall in.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 06:57 PM
1

This deserves to be in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 12:41 PM
2

Hey you think that's bad - my mong of an ex brother in law (never married, no kids) is seeing some single mother trollope with 8 kids to various different fathers. What in the fuck is going through his head I have no idea - in fact his beau before this one was raised in care homes and had mental health issues. So I suppose the new one could be a step up.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 12:33 PM
9

The impression I get from reading stuff here is that some guys think the Red Pill is a way to act to get girls to like you until you find one you really like. Then when you have her you stop being Red Pill and become blue pill since that's how you were always told a guy should be with a woman, then you wonder why it all goes tits up. Remember a Red Pill isn't just for Christmas, it's for life.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 01:23 PM
2

So it sounds like your dad has been taught how to behave with women by his domineering mother (who also tries to dominate you - can't go out, etc), and what he's learned is that she sets boundaries that he has to follow, but he has no power to set boundaries for a woman. So your sister has no boundaries, your mom probably had no boundaries, and other women he ends up in relationships with will have no boundaries, so he'll keep getting walked all over. And your sister thinks this is how to deal w…
/r/askTRP01/01/20 06:20 PM
2

Search in google for "how to break the drama triangle" and try the different methods until you find one that works.
/r/askTRP01/01/20 06:16 PM
1

The grandma is your dads mother or your mums mother?
/r/askTRP01/01/20 06:08 PM
3

If I ignore them they all turn to the "victim" and tty to make me feel bad. Therapists call this the drama triangle. There are 3 positions - "victim" "persecutor" and "saviour". You see it with cheaters (particularly female ones) when their relationship breaks down - even though they caused it they tell anyone who will listen that the dude is abusive (so the persecutor), which makes them the victim, and anyone who will listen/believe/support them gets to be the saviour. By perpetually being in t…
/r/askTRP01/01/20 06:06 PM
12

/Begin armchair psychology: He needs to work out why he fears being alone / loneliness / being rejected/abandoned. It sounds like he has some sense of "not being good enough" for someone to love him. It'll be something from his childhood, like a sibling getting more attention, an absent father, mother who doesn't show much interest in him, etc. /End armchair psychology.
/r/askTRP01/01/20 05:56 PM
7

She's transgender / whatever they call themselves and doesn't want you to discover she has a dick.
/r/askTRP01/01/20 05:51 PM
4

They sound like a matriarchy, in which case constant criticism, rages, put downs, sarcasm, ridicule, etc are to be expected since it's how they control weak men. They are a living nightmare and will turn your brains to mush if you let them, you need to learn to ignore them, which isn't easy but I found a way that helps.
/r/askTRP01/01/20 05:48 PM
4

If you've been talking to her for a while and flirting with her I'll bet you a pound to a penny that it will only be a month at most before she finds a way to contact you again. Remember AWALT.
/r/askTRP01/01/20 05:45 PM
5

You give food to a cat and the fuckers will never leave - made that mistake with my neighbours cat - felt sorry for it one day and gave it some chicken - now it's round my legs as soon as I leave the house and the yard is full of cat shit. Parallel complete.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/19 06:21 PM
1

I was just going to post I would love to know what his definition of a 10 is. OP how about posting a pic of her?
/r/askTRP27/12/19 11:10 PM
33

That's along the lines of "a key that can open any lock is priceless. A lock that opens to any key is worthless".
/r/TheRedPill27/12/19 10:49 PM
2

I mean the opposite of waking up.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 10:14 PM
11

LMAO - it's incredible how manipulative they are - she hopes you'll "wake up" and forgive her for what she did. Trying to put doubt in your mind that it's you who is in the wrong. Surely she's the one who needs to wake up from her fantasy world. Or maybe she needs knocking out. Your choice OP.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 09:12 PM
1

Thanks. My point is that RP is theory based on observation so is subjective, whereas this is based on recognised MH issues which match the underlying traits and behaviours. Lack of Empathy / effect of behaviour on other people (or unwillingness to acknowledge it). Over-reaction to basic life circumstances - chaos/feeling out of control/it's not my fault it just happened. Failing to take responsibility for your own actions / blaming other people. Always the victim. Needs for immediate gratificati…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/19 05:23 PM
8

Took me more like 20 months to get over splitting with my ex wife and what helped me to get my head screwed back on was: 1) Basic meditation - focusing on your breathing and emptying your head of everything apart from rising and falling as you breath in and out - and then experiencing the breathing itself (it's really noisy and "massive" - not almost imperceptible like we think) - the first time I really focused on and experienced breathing - or focused on the most basic part of being alive - wa…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/19 08:54 AM
2

I think you're probably along the right lines with this. I've been doing a lot of learning over the last 2 years after a particularly abusive marriage and divorce, and one thing I've discovered is that we (our minds / psychology) are incredibly complex, and while it might seem "obvious" why someone behaves in a certain way, the underlying reasons can be so complicated that it's difficult to unravel it all. I think a good chunk of our odd behviours do come down to things that happened in out earl…
/r/askTRP16/12/19 10:50 PM
9

Talk about a passion killer.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/19 10:18 PM
1

She sounds like she's suffering from a combination of borderline and histrionic personality disorders. Keep away from her, she'll fry your brains because she will act this way forever.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/19 05:59 PM
21

Well hopefully I've struck a bit of a blow back for all good men everywhere. I'm in the UK and when I divorced my wife I managed to get 62.5% of the assets, she kept the credit card debt (c.£4K) since it was a card in her name, she also got to keep the car which she thought was an asset, but actually was a liability since it had about £14K left to pay on it. And now since son lives with me and daughter (who was with her) has gone to university, I claim child support off her. It can be done you n…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/19 10:43 AM
0

Well whatever you've "heard" I'm telling you that women love it. From experience.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 01:01 PM
1

The latest club nuit I got (tosave money on the real thing) was disgusting - lasted for literally 2 minutes and left a long lingering undertone of surgical spirit. It used to be a really good clone but IMHO is now utter crap.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 12:51 PM
5

Creed Aventus - very expensive but in my 50 years is the only one that has repeatedly had women say "Oh my God, you smell amazing". There are some cheaper clones about but they aren't so good.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 12:49 PM
1

Yeah, a genuine psychopath wouldn't give 2 tosses about not shitting where they eat or who they hurt or consequences. This is a brag post "I'm really cool because I don't give a shit and I think I'm super smart". I bet he has a poster of Ted Bundy on his bedroom wall.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 11:55 AM
2

They mess you up because they manipulate the shit out of you emotionally and get inside your head and play with the wiring. Their aim is to put you down and destroy your self esteem, self image and sense of self worth, and they are very good at it.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 11:50 AM
1

She was dragging her hot frend away because she was jealous - hot girl always gets hit on, while she gets no attention at all. You then called her ugly, which caused her deep emotional pain - because she knows it's true - that will prey on her mind for months if not years. That's why she slapped you. You don't need to punch her, you already delivered a knock out blow to her ego and self esteem - no point in hitting her and going to jail, you already won.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 09:12 AM
13

"She sends me nudes....then says ooh nooo I have a boyfriend." 1) Anti-slut defence. 2) She loves attention. 3) Is a drama queen with a personality disorder. Take your pick, but if she's told her boyfriend and he's now after you then I'd go for (3) and possibly intermingled with (2). Eric Berne in his book "games people play" identifies a group of women who behave in this way called "now let's you and him fight" - where she creates situations where 2 dudes will fight over her. You can read his d…
/r/askTRP28/11/19 09:01 AM
0

Just out of interest what rules did she break?
/r/askTRP27/11/19 08:39 PM
33

LoL - well time is the greatest healer after all.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 08:37 PM
1

Sure
/r/askTRP27/11/19 12:29 PM
1

Right well perhaps I was a bit harsh. I too was with a crazy biatch (21 years though) and ended up drinking a lot, every day to cope, and I too did some crazy shit while under the influence to get back at her after we split. It's been 2 years now and I've managed to put her behind me, learn a lot and not act on spur of the moment emotions. The trick is to take this early life lesson and if you come across someone like that again cut loose immediately and move on. Otherwise they drag you into the…
/r/askTRP25/11/19 08:53 PM
10

The rationalization hamster never gets tired. It's robo-hamster. It can't be bargained with. It can't be reasoned with. It doesn't feel pity, or remorse, or fear. And it absolutely will not stop, ever, until you are dead.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 04:39 PM
5

You need help, you tell her it's off in the hope she'll come running back to you, then when she doesn't you repeatedly text and call her and then turn up at her work to find out why. Then you threaten her that you'll contact her "religious" parents to tell them she's been having sex with you if she doesn't do whatever you're demanding, then you actually do it. You're an immature, vindictive, man-baby and you sound like you have serious mental health problems - as evidenced by your insane one-lon…
/r/askTRP25/11/19 04:35 PM
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Talking to her ex is wrong. Cheating (even if emotional only) is wrong. Lying is wrong. Looking after your own self interests by gathering intelligence on what someone is up to is not wrong. If she hadn't been doing those wrong things he'd never have felt the need to look. He did nothing wrong. If he'd sat there thinking "I think she's up to something, but it would be ooh soo naughty to look at her phone for confirmation that I'd better just sit here and suck it up" - that would be wrong. And he…
/r/askTRP25/11/19 10:38 AM
1

Depends on how much of a gimp her boyfriend is.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 09:31 AM
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Yes you did the right thing if she's supposed to be your girlfriend. And looking through someones phone when you feel something is off is not "wrong" - that's what people who are doing something wrong use to try and blame shift - "never mind the shit I've been doing to you, you invaded my privacy to find out. OMG you're such a bad person, you have trust issues" etc.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 09:29 AM
2

I'm afraid I'll be seen as controlling You won't be seen as controlling, she'll see you as weak and that you believe he's got a higher SMV than yourself - which will inevitably lead to her believing he has a higher SMV than you as well. Currently she just thinks that you're weak for putting up with it. If she had anything about her she herself would not be interacting with him.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 01:28 PM
5

I was going to say Eastern countries too. I'm in the UK and was speaking with the shop keeper and a girl in the local shop, I think she's from the Ukraine or somewhere of that ilk, the conversation was about how she's finding life in the UK. She said something along the lines of she was really shocked when she got here because the men act like the women, whereas in her country men are men and that's how it should be. I also had a holiday in Bulgaria this year and it as very much men are men and …
/r/askTRP21/11/19 01:24 PM
3

Anything except a hard next lets her think she's pulled the wool over his eyes, means she'll lose respect for him because he's putting up with it, and will ensure she gets up to more bad behaviour. Plus he'll never know exactly what she has been up to.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 09:13 PM
4

If you start letting her give you ultimatums now, how do you imagine things will pan out in the future? I'll travel through time for you to give you the answer - she'll lose all respect for you as a man, will impose more and more demands, will treat you like shit, and then will eventually branch swing to someone else when she meets someone who wets her whistle by not being a pushover. So you either impose your control over her now, or you might as well save yourself the years of pain by ending i…
/r/askTRP18/11/19 11:23 AM
1

If he'd just given her a good slap when she started bitching over the popcorn then none of this would have happened. Instead he let that go, and the next thing you know she's trying to set his beard on fire. Women, huh?
/r/askTRP16/11/19 11:09 PM
2

No but you have Sydlexia
/r/askTRP16/11/19 11:06 PM
3

I once did a fun run in the Yorkshire dales and after it me and my mate were having a pint outside a little village pub. A girl riding a horse stopped in the road in front of us. I said "oh you're nice aren't you" and the girl looks at me and says in a snooty voice "I'm not interested thank you". So I said "I was talking to the horse". And I was actually refering to the horse when I said it. Silly self absorbed tart.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 08:34 PM
3

Top job. Ignoring her will send her nuts, she'll probably end up shit talking about OP to make her self feel better.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 08:18 PM
1

You could always try this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7oKjW1OIjuw Although she sounds so obnoxious it probably wont work.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 12:23 PM
8

She's irritating and probably quite demanding, he's a big girly boy with his effeminate voice, mannerisms and handbag and is probably a total push over. Typical beta provider who she got fed up with when someone better came along.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 12:13 PM
3

It's great, not so great when you get caught but it's funny when you look back years later. Got caught in a multi storey car park once by a group of people on New Years Eve - was with my friends older sister. Also got caught in a graveyard once with another girl. Ah those were the days.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 11:38 AM
5

Yes, words and thoughts rarely correlate in the brain of the female of the species. When she said lend me 2500 you understood it to mean she'd be borrowing it and would pay you back. When she said lend me 2500 she understood it to mean you'd be giving her free money. Hence the confusion.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 07:04 PM
1

The beta move is letting some woman scam you for 2500 and then walking away thinking "well it doesn't mean as much to me as it does to her and I want her to like me and don't want her and her new boyfriend to suffer financial hardships." The dude is more red pilled than you because he's making her accountable for her own actions. Summary: Broke dude gives dude with money financial advice. "Come to my trailer and I'll teach you".
/r/askTRP08/11/19 06:57 PM
1

She used crocodile tears to scam 2500 out of you and you fell for it. Now she's using crocodile tears to scam you so she doesn't have to pay it back - and you're falling for it. "What should I do?" - fuck the bitch over like she tried to fuck you over, who cares if she has to struggle to pay her dues. It's people letting them get away with this shit that causes a snowball effect leading to even more entitled shit from them. Man up, grow some balls, and don't lend any more money to any more hoes.…
/r/askTRP08/11/19 05:26 PM
2

It is the same. She asked him can I do X for you, he said no, she did it anyway. Going and getting a charger might seem more innocuous so I used a different example to better highlight what she is doing. Simply substitute phone charger for cup of tea if it makes you feel better.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 08:35 AM
5

Imagine it a different way. Suppose she says to him "would you like a cup of tea?" and he says "no thanks, I'm not thirsty". She then goes and makes him a cup of tea. That would be odd behaviour and what she's really saying to him is "Never mind what you think, I know what's best for you, drink some tea like I told you". If he does drink the tea then he's doing what she tells him to do and she is in control, he has submitted to her will. If he doesn't drink the tea and when she asks him why and …
/r/askTRP06/11/19 08:11 AM
8

No she's using "doing something sweet" as an under the radar tactic to be in control. That shows manipulative, devious, and potentially Machiavellian behaviour.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 11:05 PM
2

Maybe it's your aftershave.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 10:49 PM
3

Get the book "stop smoking with CBT" Stopping smoking is easy, you just have to sort out your head.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 02:23 PM
11

I'm not sticking my face near some tarts arse. Forget it.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 02:20 PM
6

Yeah coz once they've fucked he'll order pizza.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 11:29 AM
4

Damn, you stole my line.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 09:19 AM
8

I've always thought that this is why the rich and powerful (i.e royalty, politicians, the Rothschild type families) produce way more than their fair share of perverts and deviants. If you can get out of bed this morning and decide on a whim to go and buy a new Ferrari because you're bored (something that would be a lifetime ambition for most people), then where does the excitement in your life come from? It comes from doing dark, dangerous and illegal things that are pushing the boundaries of so…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 11:14 AM
36

The simplest and cleanest solution would be if she suddenly died as well. Just ruminating.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 10:53 AM
44

Obese = poor impulse control & serious self esteem issues; Slutting around = poor impulse control & serious self esteem issues; Female = poor impulse control & serious self esteem issues;
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 10:45 AM
4

the fact that you went from a A+ to a C and lower is quite suspicious It could be that he was the previous teachers pet and was unfairly marked up, and now is either getting fair grades or being slightly marked down. He does say "I stopped sucking up to both teachers" which may support this idea, since he then says one teacher now likes the lack of sucking up, the other has probably formed the opinion she doesn't like him because of his previous transparent ass-kissy-suckiness.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 06:34 PM
12

Run fast, run far - gaslighters will eventually end up frying your brains.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 03:54 PM
1

Yeah, she'll accidentally wire 10,000 into your account instead of 100, then ask you to send the 9900 to her other account since there's "problems" with the account she sent you money from. Or will send you 10,000 and ask you to send the other 9900 to someone else because she accidentally sent it to you by mistake. You send the 9900 on, then the Feds come calling round because the 10K was from a compromised account or she stole it from work or whatever, the bank takes the 10K out of your account…
/r/askTRP18/10/19 10:00 AM
3

Because women know that a white knight loves nothing more than a damsel in distress, and that white knights are easily manipulated morons who will fall all over themselves to fawn all over her if they think they have a sniff of a chance. What they don't realise is that she'll be telling the next cuc that he was abusive too.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 09:47 AM
2

At least 50% of all of your shit.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 09:45 AM
1

It's called equality mate.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 09:43 AM
1

"Would you marry a woman for the rest of your life?" After being through that Hell once I wouldn't marry a woman for 5 minutes.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 09:42 AM
1

Women look at a guys face, then down to his dick, back up to his face, back down to his dick, back to face then across shoulders. That's how they work out if you're good mating material or not. If they still smile and talk after that they are attracted to you. Men look at the face, down to tits, down to crotch, back up to tits and face, back down again and back to face. You might not believe me but I swear it's true - next time you meet a girl for the first time just watch her do it - when you'r…
/r/askTRP17/10/19 01:11 PM
1

Alphas for sex, Betas for money, house, holidays, shoes, handbags, jewelry, car, and raising their kids.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 01:07 PM
2

I worked in sales for a long while (in the UK). At first I found it really difficult because I felt disingenuous in that I was trying to get people to give me their money for my benefit, while pretending it was for their benefit. The lightbulb moment was when I thought "hmm, how about I try and fit what we do to what they do, so the benefit is aimed at them and my benefit is the side benefit instead of the main aim". In other words, instead of approaching a girl and thinking "whatdoI have to say…
/r/askTRP07/10/19 12:50 PM
3

I met up with a friend of mine recently, haven't seen him for years. He's one of those super lucky fuckers who always seems to land on his feet. Anyway, his wife took early retirement and to fill her time decided to start looking after stray cats / abused cats. They ended up taking more and more and more in and eventually set it up as a cat charity. They now have cages full of cats in every room of the house apart from the bathroom and their bedroom - she is basically in a full time job looking …
/r/askTRP04/10/19 03:36 PM
4

It probably is better to walk her home or get her a cab, but for her to say "if I don't get what I want then you're not a man" is manipulative. If she throws that kind of crap at you regularly then I'd get rid of her, she'll just become a massive pain in the butt.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 03:31 PM
1

From your title you seem to think your age holds you back. It doesn't, everything is a state of mind. Read (as many here will tell you) Meditations by Marcus Aurelius, and The Enchiridion by Epictetus - don't just read it, absorb it - it's like 2000 year old CBT that really makes sense and will help you shape your mind if you let it. Once you can shape your mind you can shape your life.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 08:56 PM
5

A broken woman with a major psychological disorder? Avoid, delete and block everywhere, run.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 07:37 PM
9

"He's 6'3, I'm only 5'4. I train jiu jitsu. " So break his knee. Once saw a very short guy do this to a big brute of a rugby player who tried to push the smaller guy around. Quick as a flash he delivered a kick to the side of the big guys knee and he went down like a sack of shit with his leg contorted into a funny angle.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 07:25 PM
2

He kept her pretty low.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 07:17 PM
2

You are a good man for helping her The very notion of "being a good man" by "helping poor damsels in distress" is the exact mindset that ends up fucking up so many mens lives. After the shit my ex-wife pulled and the shit she put me through and turned my life into I literally wouldn't piss on her if she was on fire. I don't care if people say that makes me "mean" or "a bad man", they didn't have to live through what I did. Bollocks to "being a good man" and "doing the right thing" by "helping wo…
/r/askTRP28/09/19 07:15 PM
4

Next she'll turn up at his house with nowhere else to go (since she now knows he's easy meat and a total pushover) or she'll "be homeless". Then she'll be spending his money, then crazy boyfriend will come round and crack his skull open, then she'll either move back with nutter boyfriend, or will have got pregnant with OP, or both. Theh she can fuck up his life too for the next 18 years while he comes here posting "why did this happen to me?"
/r/askTRP28/09/19 07:05 PM
55

Call the cops. She'll get the message when they haul her away. Mind you she'll probably claim you raped her then. Avoid insane women at all costs.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 06:58 PM
2

LoL - yes that's exactly it. I'm not a psycopath who murdered my family with a steak knife, honestly. Hmmm odd - I was just thinking the exact same thing.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 01:43 PM
8

Yeah think about the art of war - the ultimate victory is to not have to fight at all. You're picking a fight that you cannot possibly win - that's the ultimate defeat. So think about why you feel the need to fight him - it's your ego, right? So follow the advice from shizzle and fight an undercover fight - where you allow him to hand you victory by not fighting with him. Even if you have to bite your lip, pretend you are in awe of him, whatever - put winning ahead of your ego.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 11:56 AM
9

I've just gone 50 and about a year ago I had the chance to hook up with a 24 year old, blond, nice bod etc. The thing that put me off was when she said (about me being older (and after telling me all of these crazy tales about her abusive father)) "But I honestly don't have daddy issues". That told me that what she was really saying was "I do have major daddy issues". So that was the end of that. Don't need no crazy woman drama.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 11:52 AM
6

I think it's due to people believing that the fake lifestyles they see on Instagram etc are real, the pressure from social media etc to be liked means that people darent be themselves, that they believe the guff they are told about "being a nice guy" in touch with his feminine side, and that kids are taught they can have and be anything that they want just because they want it, and of course there are no losers (they do it in races etc at school - everyone is a winner for participating). Then th…
/r/askTRP23/09/19 09:42 AM
1

I remember a long time ago me and my friend went out for a few beers around his home town (Halifax, UK). At the end of the night we went for some food and there were 2 girls (well women - quite a bit older than us and they had kids and were divorced). One of them was all over me, she literally wouldn't leave me alone so I ended up giving her my number. She called we went to meet, and she did nothing but try and put me down, so I basically tried to get out of there. Didn't want anything to do wit…
/r/askTRP22/09/19 09:26 PM
123

I've just gone 50, divorced wife after 21 years, 2 teens, etc. All I can say is that had I have had this knowledge and REALITY 20 years ago my ex wouldn't have made it past 12 months. At our age there is no time for messing around and messing things up, so read the rules of the game, think how it applies to the women you have known, acknowledge how it is correct, and then act upon it. It's not just about meeting girls or hving sex, it's about making your life the best it can be for you, so that …
/r/askTRP22/09/19 09:08 PM
2

That was his mistake, letting it get to that point. My ex wife would want to behave like that and if I said anything would fly off the handle and tell me how I had trust issues, low self esteem, etc, etc. Basically I'd fucked up - frame should have been stronger so she never put me in that position in first place.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 04:28 PM
12

When I was young and naive I had a girlfriend who had a fantasy of being raped. She told me that if she said no I should carry on anyway. It made me feel really uncomfortable, I look back now and think about what the consequences could have been had I have done that. It's a minefield out there.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 08:20 AM
8

I think it's you that is need of some learning.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 04:10 PM
2

It is malicious and planned. They do it to suck you in and make you feel like you've found the perfect girl and are in the perfect relationship. Then when they start with their real agenda - the continuous put downs, gaslighting, etc - you in your naivety spend all of your time trying to fix the "problems" she says you have so that you can get things back to where you believe they should be - the perfect relationship like it was in the beginning - but that wasn't real and will never exist again.…
/r/askTRP17/09/19 12:38 PM
1

Sounds like she's got inside your head and got you head over heels with what you think is a real life unicorn. Next she'll start with the criticisms, how you need to change this and that, or should do x, y, and z. And because you're so madly in lubs with her you'll do it all, until one day you wake up and realise that you don't know who you are anymore because she's the one controlling your thoughts and behaviour, and then you'll find out she's cheating on you too. And you'll blame yourself for …
/r/askTRP17/09/19 12:29 PM
15

Incorrect. They get cold to you when they become emotionally attached to another dude and are in the process of (at least thinking about) monkey branching. When they are getting their brains banged out they want more sex from you more frequently and will shock you with new techniques that they didn't use on you before.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 12:22 PM
1

Yes it's in your head, people like that who try to get into your head to sabotage your self esteem and self worth are bad news and to be avoided at all costs. They will make your life a misery and sadly I speak from experience.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 09:38 AM
5

I guess you are from a country like Pakistan or the Middle East where women can still be virgins at 27. And you not knowing says that you too are a virgin. If you're not planning on marrying her, who cares? But you are, aren't you.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 09:37 PM
1

Kind of, she was NPD which is like BPD but still fucks your head and life up in the same way.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 09:33 PM
11

Dollar shave club is infinitely better.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/19 07:32 PM
5

So what you're saying is that if I've accidentally poisoned myself the best solution to try and stay alive is to shoot myself in the head? That's a womans logic.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/19 07:30 PM
23

I didn’t progressed to trannys yet Regressed brother, regressed - it would not be something to be proud of.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 11:41 PM
64

It's good old fashioned penis envy. Women feel threatened by/inferior to men, but feminism tells them they are as good as or better than a man. The only way to solve this paradoxical conundrum is to directly attack men for being "toxic" (seems to be a favourite word with women), and to try to encourage them to act less masculine. At the same time women are trying to act less feminine and more masculine, so they can become the dominant gender through a process of manipulation, guilt, shaming, acc…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/19 10:57 PM
10

She's very tidy and definitely smart.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/19 11:38 AM
259

Nice guys get frustrated because the media, Hollywood and of course women tell them that to get a girl they have to be a nice guy. So they do all of this stuff they're told to, only to have no success with women at all while watching the chicks going for the exact opposite of what they've forced themselves to become - on the advice of those very women themselves. Typical by the way that a woman would take this question and turn it into a rant all about - women.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/19 09:11 AM
1

I even cried on my way to the bus stop Sounds like the lyrics for Jilted John - great song from the days of punk rock !
/r/askTRP12/09/19 08:55 AM
0

I can never understand how people can be so dumb to let someone else have nudes and worse of them, especially when it's a woman in a relationship that probably won't last. We all know women are emotional thinkers so why give her a big pile of ammunition that could come back and haunt you at any point in your life. But even so why on earth would anyone put themselves in a position like this?
/r/askTRP10/09/19 09:43 AM
4

I think it's doomed if she was earning less than you, then ends up earning more because no matter what they say about equality it makes you in her eyes less of a man. In my case after 21 years together we divorced. There is one upside though since she earns more than me and the son lives with me I've just applied for child support from her. I'd not done it for like 12 months at least because I don't want drama or her manipulating the son, but I thought what the hell I've had to spend a fortune o…
/r/askTRP10/09/19 09:32 AM
47

White Knights are sad fucks who think they can impress girls and get into their pants by being their guardian hero angel. They have no game, no social skills and are too terrified to talk to a woman because they know they'll get rejected because they have no personality. So they go down the Hollywood "what every woman wants" good guy route, but don't realise that even if they did get with the girl they'll be getting cheated on from day 1 because they are blue pill pathetic losers. In fact if you…
/r/askTRP08/09/19 08:02 AM
9

The ex-wife, was with her 21 years altogether and the shit she put me through and I idiotically put up with. I discovered TRP after I'd finally broken up with her, when I couldn't take any more of her shit, and it changed my entire view on life as a man - what reality really is, the truth about people, relationships, women, etc. I look back now and realise what a doormat I'd become, and I'll never be even a shadow of that person ever again. When I split with her I told her I wanted nothing to do…
/r/askTRP07/09/19 09:32 AM
3

Because they are driven by emotions and how they feel right now at this moment. Right now at this moment there is someone looking like they're having fun and right now at this moment she wants that too. Doesn't matter if she has a boyfriend or is married, right now at this moment he isn't here, but this other fun dude is.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 09:15 AM
15

And deeper voice = bigger balls = more fertile.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 10:04 PM
3

It is a learning experience, and it makes us better and stronger. This is true, if my ex-wife hadn't been such an utter cunt I'd still be BP'd as fuck. Kicking her out and divorcing her was the start of my journey to rembering that I'm, and acting like a man rather than a pussy whipped gimp.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 11:28 AM
10

skimming relationship advice I love that subreddit, it gives you an amazing insight into the inner working of the vast majority of people's minds when it comes to relationships. Most of them have some fantasy / Hollywood mentality, and believe that their / unicorn / special princess is different and would never do the dirty on them, and yet... ...their behaviour is the same as all the other hoes, the words are the same as all the other cheaters, and the updates usually reveal that they lied and …
/r/askTRP04/09/19 11:20 AM
25

They have to claim you're an abusive asshole otherwise everyone will know she's a slut. Happened to me too. They are children.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 10:28 AM
8

Women give birth/life and are biologically evovlved to nurture (produce food (milk)). The earth give life and nurtures. It's not surprising really.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 10:26 AM
55

Her putting you down is her psychologically convincing herself that a) she's justified in banging another dude "because you're abusive/mean/self absorbed/don't show her enough affection/etc", and b) she's not a slut. The truth though of course is that she is a slut, and there is no justification for cheating on you. But she'll have her fun and feel absolutely no remorse whatsoever about it. I'd get my ducks in a row with a lawyer then tell her you're not going on the trip, why doesn't she take t…
/r/askTRP02/09/19 10:21 AM
1

Dammit!
/r/askTRP29/08/19 12:24 AM
3

You have a way of very succinctly cutting to the truth. I salute you.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 07:25 PM
2

He probably tries to act "alpha" and like he "IDGAF" but it probably comes across as false because he trying too hard to fake it. I can just imagine the really loud "Hey dudester, high five-a-roono" and everyone looking at the floor in embarassment. And in his head "I think my SMV is so high that I intimidate people".
/r/askTRP28/08/19 07:23 PM
1

" How can I pickup at college?" 1) Chloroform - check; 2) Duct tape - check; 3) Getaway vehicle - check; 4) Good to go.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 07:16 PM
1

Exactly, she's already shown him that she's only interested in him if he has money to spend on her - why the feck would anyone be stupid enough to put themself in that situation?
/r/askTRP12/08/19 12:05 AM
3

You're with a woman who claims she was basically raped not once, but twice. So: a) She's making it up and is therefore nuts. b) She isn't making it up so is therefore probably nuts. c) She exhibits a pattern of making bad choices over an extended period of time - what do you think is likely to happen in future?
/r/askTRP26/07/19 09:26 AM
1

The irony is that if he breaks up with her she will suddenly not be bored any more and will probably chase him.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 09:23 AM
1

wouldn’t she keep him secret if something were going on? No - and what they also do is engineer ways to get you and him in the same room together, it's almost like they want to measure you up side by side or see which one of you is the most manly and which backs down to the other.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 09:09 AM
5

Seconded. In my case if I ever said anything about her and this dude at work she'd hit me with "you don't trust me, you're so insecure" etc, and she'd tell all of her family I didn't trust her and was insecure. Not wanting to look untrusting or insecure I foolishly bit my lip and let her get on with it. You have to trust your gut, and if you're not happy with something say it and lay down some boundaries and to fuck with what she or anyone else thinks about you "being insecure" or other bollocks…
/r/askTRP26/07/19 09:07 AM
35

Plus she's trying to hammer his self esteem to try and make him think he's going to struggle to get any other girl. Typical infantile psychological tantrum, woman style.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 10:27 AM
2

" Woman will make up some bullshit, I'll call her out on it, then she'll make up some bullshit about how she didn't mean what she said and that she meant something else. " It's called gaslighting and is a form of manipulation. People who do this are bad news, will end up frying your brains.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 10:13 AM
1

It means that there's some guy who she wants to bang, and in her mind pretending to give you the green light to sleep with other girls means you're in an open relationship, and she therefore has your permission to have sex with the guy she's interested in and she won't then be cheating. I say pretending because I will bet you a dollar to a pinch of shit that if you end up meeting someone else she will explode like you will not believe - the real situation she wants is where she gets to have sex …
/r/askTRP23/07/19 10:24 AM
1

Sounds kind of like oneitis but with a girl you haven't kissed yet and hardly know. I wouldn't have asked her why she bailed, and when she tried to re-arrange for later I'd have said no can't do that - you're too available and she'll read that as being needy. But if you've moved on and don't want anything to do with her - why are you posting this here? Just ignore her.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 11:26 AM
27

You know what girls are like - they are probably jealous of her being hotter than them so take any opportunity they can to put her down. "Some people try to look taller by cutting the heads off other people" Or (more likely in my opinion) she's saying this to you (i.e. it didn't happen) to put you down and manipulate you into doing what she wants/allowing her to behave how she wants - because if she can smash your self esteem you'll be worried you'll never get anyone as hot as her, so will let h…
/r/askTRP18/07/19 02:55 PM
0

She might be unstable now because she was raped as a child by the father, which may be why she then raped her brother. OP doesn't have a clue if his dad raped his sister or not, but if he goes down this route she will undoubtedly bring up her claims of dad abusing her, and what will probably happen is that dad will go to prison and sister will get a slap on the wrist. OP will be no better off than he is now, in fact worse because he'll behave like even more of a victim than he is now, plus he'll…
/r/askTRP16/07/19 10:45 AM
3

Kioysaki may have made his fortune primarily in real-estate I think he made his fortune primarily in telling people how to make a fortune. People promoting get rich quick schemes and courses usually made their money by selling get rich quick schemes and courses.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/19 10:38 AM
1

If you really want to poke your nose into other peoples relationshits then you should have told him to drop her and cut contact, not go and meet her. Anyway why are you getting yourself involved? No good will come from it.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 07:46 AM
0

Abundance?
/r/askTRP14/07/19 08:14 PM
16

Even people with autism feel bad for him.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/19 06:35 PM
1

True that if she's going to cheat she's going to cheat, but why present her with the opportunity on a golden platter. All it's going to take is for her to be in a mood or have her hypergamous hamster start getting twitchy and she's going to be in guy friends bed in no time. We all know they like to branch swing so I don't see why anyone would want to let them hang out in a forest.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 11:34 PM
9

You've known her since you were 11, you're now 24, you've been with her for 2 years, and she's still a virgin? It isn't even a relationship. You sound totally dependent on her emotionally rather than in a normal relationship, which is probably why you sound and are acting so childish. Grow up this is real life not a game or some romantic film.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 11:28 PM
3

Bang on the money. The only hope they have is if they can convince him he's so crap no one else will even look at him, then they'll have their orbiter back.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 08:29 AM
3

He won't know if she's really a unicorn unless he can dig her head out of the wall. But that wall is there to stay.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 08:27 AM
1

"you should go with him and fuck him" and she replies "oh we already hooked up" So she's admiting she already fucked him - at least that's the only way I can interpret that. Did she know him before you hooked up with her, or has she been fucking him while you 2 were a supposed item? You obviously didn't know about it, so sounds like she's been cheating. I'd ditch them both.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 08:24 AM
9

Or to be a victim - so they can manipulate you into doing what they want.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 07:20 PM
5

When you're little your parents are omnipotent - they decide every facet of your life and you have no power at all, they also to your childs mind seem to know everything. Eventually you realise that your parents are just ordinary people like evryone else, they aren't special, they aren't all knowing or all wise, they're just people. Some people are just crap people, they're usually crap parents too. So you might have sprung forth from his loins but you can still acknowledge that he's just a.n.ot…
/r/askTRP01/07/19 07:18 PM
3

It is really hard to execute because you love your children, but this is what being Stoic really means. It sounds daft but honestly reading something like the Enchiridion / other Greek Stoic writings really does help to think about things logically rather than emotionally, and to get your head in the right place. Overall making emotionally driven choices results in making bad choices, and when you have someone who is a master of emotional manipulation pushing your buttons you're in for a really,…
/r/askTRP01/07/19 09:11 AM
3

Is this really that bad? Yes.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 06:36 AM
4

Rock hard next. Immediately if not sooner.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 06:35 AM
29

I've divorced my NPD wife and the daughter (18 now) has started acting just like her mother. [For anyone who doesn't know - a woman with a personality disorder will turn your life upside down and into hell on earth]. She's tried emotional manipulation (by text) and when I refused to play (and told her I was blocking her number until she calmed down) she took to facefook to start calling me "toxic" and "abusive" on a public platform. She then decided she doesn't want to talk to me anymore because…
/r/askTRP01/07/19 06:21 AM
7

Question everything. Learn something. Answer nothing. {Euripides}
/r/TheRedPill01/07/19 05:49 AM
2

I once had an old aunt - you know the kind who think they can say anything they want and go out of their way to make it as insulting as possible. Well anyway we were at a funeral and she blurted out at the top of her voice in front of the entire family (about me) "Oooh isn't he getting fat". I responded instantly with "well at least I remembered to have a shave" (yes she had loads of old lady whiskers, practically a moustache). These people often think they can say things insulting because no on…
/r/askTRP28/06/19 10:10 AM
37

People got married to have a family and stay together for good. Today women are being told that if they do that they are being oppressed by men, that they should want a career instead of a family, and that they should always be looking to upgrade on what they have "because they're special and deserve it because vagina". I would say looking at the state of society now compared to then that people in general are actually a lot more miserable and unfulfilled following this ideology. The number of a…
/r/askTRP21/06/19 08:54 PM
7

You can't change the past, the past doesn't exist any more - so there's no point in spending even 1 second dwelling on it. I recommend reading about and understanding Mindfulness and then implementing it. Essentially it states that all that exists is right now, the past and future don't exist, so funnel all of your energies into making the most of and extracting the maximum value from right now, and everything else will take care of itself. It actually works too - especially in controlling your …
/r/askTRP21/06/19 08:25 AM
2

She only wanted to open the relationship because she was already cheating on you True - by getting his permission she then can kid herself that she isn't cheating, plus the added benefit of not having to sneak around and she can meet the other dude whenever he's available, meaning she doesn't have to miss out on any of his yummy cock. Fucking bitch.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 08:19 AM
3

" How have you not already filed for divorce? Where the fuck are your balls? Are you a eunuch? What the fuck? " It's not so easy when you are married and have kids. It is an expensive and life changing ball ache to go through divorce, have to sell the family home (or work out who gets what), sort out the best for the kids, think about alimony, etc, etc, etc. It is NOT an easy step to take. However - I agree that it IS the step he HAS to take, otherwise this bitch will make his life even more of …
/r/askTRP21/06/19 08:14 AM
5

I told her that I cant live life like this and she says that she needs to continue doing this, because I had lost my job and my new one has less hours and pay. This is victim blaming - she's doing something wrong but blames you for her doing it. Sign of a highly manipulative person. OP - I've been where you are (it's also what brought me here), finally had enough 18 months ago, split with her and am now divorced, and while it is tough at first it gets easier and your life WILL be better after. M…
/r/askTRP21/06/19 08:10 AM
3

"I saw a text where she brought up condoms and he said let's make good use of them" then "maybe it's just friendly". Facepalm.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 10:29 AM
5

She'll probably end up "needing you to send her some money for tickets" or whatever. Or she used to be a dude.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 11:42 AM
1

It's better than that, it's excellent. One of my favourite pastimes (I know this is sad) is watching the first 48 because it isn't reconstructed and seeing if the interviewed people are guilty or not. Can tell 99 per cent of the time
/r/askTRP17/06/19 02:53 PM
1

"If she hasn't, she'll say "No! of course not!". If she has, she'll say "Why, don't you trust me?" or "What's going on?" or "You sound insecure" or "I wouldn't cheat on you". Any form of deflecting basically." This is all covered in the book "Spy the Lie" - I highly recommend anyone in a relationship (well anyone really it's a life skill) obtaining a copy and reading it 2 or 3 times until it sinks in and becomes second nature. It really works and you'll be amazed at how obvious it becomes when s…
/r/askTRP16/06/19 09:54 PM
1

It's the first thing she did after I threw her out - emailed, texted and talked to everyone we know to tell them she'd left me because I was "abusive".
/r/TheRedPill14/06/19 11:08 AM
1

I agree completely. I can see happening to the OP what happened to my auntie. She and her 3 sisters were born around the 1920's. Anyway, my auntie was the eldest and it was decided by the matriarch (husband had long since died) that eldest girl would be staying at home to look after mom. The 3 other sisters got married, had families, etc, while Auntie put her life on hold to look after the old witch. Unfortunately old witch lived to 98 years old, so my aunt basically let her whole life go by and…
/r/askTRP14/06/19 08:02 AM
1

So you've got a girl living in your house for free, and the first questions she asks you are "what do you do?" (translation: how much do you earn"), "where do you live" (translation: "how nice is your our house?"), "do you have a car?" (translation: "how are you going to transport me to the shopping sprees that you're going to be paying for?"), etc. IMHO she's a freeloader and her plan is to extract money and free living off you in exchange for the use of her fee fee. I imagine if that happens a…
/r/askTRP14/06/19 07:30 AM
3

You're throwing a hissy fit because she didn't call you at the right time or whatever - which suggests that you're panicking about why she didn't call you, which suggests that either a) you're terrified of losing her, and/or b) you are terrified she's up to something else - like cheating. Your behaviour will ensure that both of those things happen. You're behaving like you can't cope if you don't speak to her for a day, which tells her that she's the center of your universe, which gives her all …
/r/askTRP14/06/19 07:22 AM
1

If she's BPD or some other cluster B then she might act normal at first, although she might exhibit behaviour that's a bit "off". If she is a "B" type then you'll find out pretty quickly when she starts love bombing you - you'll be super amazing and awesome, you're soul mates and within a week or three she'll tell you she's head over heels in love with you and will bend over backwards to make you happy. That's the trap to hook you and reel you in - then the real crazy shit that will blow your br…
/r/askTRP14/06/19 07:20 AM
1

It's not the size of the boat, it's the motion in the ocean.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 07:16 AM
13

Needy.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 07:04 AM
7

I just barfed. That's royal blue pill.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 07:01 AM
3

I don't think dread is going to phase her one bit, it's too late to try that tactic - she blew a guy in a parking lot and he's still there. WTF can he possibly dread her about - if he hasn't left after that he isn't going to leave her for anything - and she knows it.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 07:44 AM
2

OP I've been in a very similar position to you and it's hard to break up (mine was after21 years together) but you have to do it. What you're doing is trying to force all of the love you have onto her to try and fix things, but in doing that you're not giving yourself one ounce of love, thought, care or attention. Your entire life and everything you do will end up all being focused on and about her - even the lifting etc you're doing is to try and make her have feelings for you - you're doing it…
/r/askTRP13/06/19 07:40 AM
5

She sounds like a cluster B - manipulative and has you totally confused trying to work out WTF is going on. Things will only get worse, abort, abort, abort.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 07:29 AM
1

Plus she's come on a "date" with her friend - so she has an immediate out later when she "has to leave with the friend" while he's left stood with his dick in his hand and nothing in his wallet. Pretty cheeky for her to expect him to pay for her all night, paying for her and the friend as well is totally taking the piss.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/19 08:03 AM
1

Get her a schoolgirl outfit to fuck her in as well. Unless she's happy to wear her own?
/r/askTRP12/06/19 07:43 AM
5

She's trying to make the other girl jealous so she will break up with you and can have you all to herself. Or she's just liking your pictures.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 07:39 AM
5

I heard something recommended to someone like yourself a while back and I thought it was a good idea. The reason people feel social anxiety is pretty much the fear of rejection or not being accepted into a group, so when you do try and make connections it feels forced like you're really there to try and get something off them for your benefit. Which makes you feel worse and will probably become a self fulfilling prophecy. So what was recommended was to turn that on it's head and go and do someth…
/r/askTRP12/06/19 07:34 AM
5

No - never get involved in other people's drama and shit. If needs be call the cops but you poke your nose in and you're likely to get it chopped off. Just not worth it.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 01:29 PM
1

Yeah, I can understand to a degree a guy feeling iffy when she's going somewhere where there's some dude she used to bang, but not when she's going to her friends house to hang out with her friend. Seems like a very weird way to think and behave.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 06:12 PM
3

Doesn't matter how "tight a Bro's game is" when he's lying in bed with an 8 inch carving knife sticking out of his head.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 05:58 PM
3

Then they'll come back and try suck you back in again - they've realised what a mistake they made, how amazing you are, they've changed, etc. Then they do it all over again, except worse than the first time.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/19 09:59 AM
5

Because todays society is trying to push the myth that women are infinitely better than men, but the reason that they've achieved practically zero through all of history (with the odd exception of people like Marie Curie - and she managed to kill herself) is not because that premise isn't true, it's because "evil men" have held them back. So any theory or idea that doesn't back up the "women are awesome and men are crap" myth is automatically attacked as being misogynistic, patriarcal, and anti-…
/r/askTRP07/06/19 08:05 PM
6

You're in a similar situation to me, I tried and tried to stick it out for the kids but in the end I HAD to break up with her, I then went straight for divorce. I don't contact her at all, she is blocked everywhere, and any communication between me and the kids or her and the kids is direct with the kids. I simply can't communicate with her at all, not even by email because it ALWAYS turns into some drama filled hate fest, so I simply do not deal with her at all. It was extremely tough at the be…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 07:50 AM
4

My encounter with mine is indeed what brought me here. 20 years too late sadly.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 07:45 AM
4

" Who you thought she was is not who she IS " - this is exactly what people who've been in relationships with cluster B personality disordered people find - they were in love with the idea of who they thought the person was, but it was all an act. And frankly OP her behaviour you've described has all the hallmarks of a manipulative chick who is a cluster B cluster fuck. Steer clear.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 09:40 AM
1

Maybe they have fucked her. Maybe she broke off with you because she thought Chad Thundercock was in love with her, but once he'd pumped her he dumped her. She then felt used and slutty and alone, so she hit up good old reliable you and made up a load off bollocks that it's your fault you broke up because you didn't chase her blah blah female nonsense, etc. Don't be a cuck by even entertaining her drama.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 08:00 AM
1

The underlying message she's giving you here is - RUN, RUN FOR YOUR LIFE! She's crazy dude.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 07:56 AM
1

It's a good question. My ex was NPD and I've pondered over whether she and women in general just naturally behave like that, or if they are consciously planning what they do and say. My conclusion is that a large part of their underlying behaviour is natural, i.e. it's how women have evolved to behave. Another large part of it is learned behaviour from female relatives and friends, and how men react to that behaviour. I think that after those unconscious behaviours there might be some degree of …
/r/askTRP03/06/19 07:51 AM
2

You mention being Stoic, so: "It is better by assenting to the truth to conquer opinion, than by assenting to opinion to be conquered by the truth." In other words - would you rather not know the truth and have some bitch unexpectedly stab you in the back and wreck your life, or by knowing what they do in advance enjoy what they have to offer you without the drama and heartache? Also the basic tenet of Stoicism is that the thing that makes people unhappy is that instead of accepting things as th…
/r/askTRP02/06/19 12:42 AM
11

Called the Police claiming pretty much her life was at risk - fortunately I picked up the phone and caught the tail end of what she was saying to them, so when they arrived I was sat on the doorstep having a cup of tea. The male and particularly female cop were great (these were the 2 that stayed after they'd sent EVERY cop on duty to my house at 1am) - the female cop saw right through her and removed the ex from the house and left me there with our baby. Crazy thing - I idiotically "forgave" he…
/r/askTRP30/05/19 11:27 AM
6

These kinds of people always have a sad story to tell - they are trying to paint themselves as victims so that any white knight in the vicinity will ride to the rescue of the damsel in distress. That's why her ex was mean and horrible to her and "a degenerate gambler" - that will be what she says about you later to the next schmuck. Also they project - if she's saying he's the one with some kind of addiction, it's probably her that has an addiction. They try to suck you into believing that what …
/r/askTRP28/05/19 11:50 AM
5

Not bipolar - Borderline personality disorder or Narcissistic personality disorder. Bad news either way.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 10:45 AM
5

I agree - the instant love, "I've never felt like this you're perfect for me", "lets move in together" yada yada yada is typical of "lovebombing" that you get from insane bitches with cluster B personality disorders. OP I think you should be happy - you dodged a bullet. Also you were as creepy and clingy as fuck.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 10:43 AM
1

I think you'll come across as needy if you ask her out again, and she'll turn you down again. You'd be better off ignoring her, acting like she doesn't exist - if she's attracted to you she'll chase you.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 10:36 AM
4

My ex wife was damaged goods (mom and dad broke up, mom kicked her out at 16, dad rejected her, she had "abusive" boyfriends, etc). I like a total dumb ass thought if I just show her kindness it'll all work out. Well it kind of did for a while, until after 21 years, 2 kids and a wife that had turned into the devil incarnate I woke up and dumped her before she drove me insane. I'm 99.9% certain she is NPD. I feel like I've wasted a big chunk of my life by putting up with her shit and being thorou…
/r/askTRP22/05/19 07:47 AM
12

My ex wife had gone back to working (she went through 4 jobs in 5 years - there's a red flag by itself) and started "hanging out" with some of the guys she worked with. I'm sure she cheated on me, but as soon as she had an income and interest from other men - our relationship went straight down the toilet.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 09:38 AM
20

This was largely why I ended up getting divorced - I was working all of the time, and she was out spending all of the time, probably £1500 - £2000 per month and never had anything to show for it. And you're right, they can't change - Since we split up she's (I can see her bank statements lol) been spending £3500 - £4000 per month (basically the equity she got from her share of the sale of the family home) until it's all gone in under 6 months. She missed the mortgage payments on her new house on…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/19 09:17 AM
8

It's true, there were other serial killers who were fat and gross, like Edmund Kemper - not just physically un-attractive, but also emotionally and mentally fucked up from years of abuse. Even he gets fan mail and love letters. As does Josef Fritzl - hundreds of them. Women are utterly nuts, but clearly driven by the need for a "powerful" man who, of course, will treat them differently after they "change" or "fix" him. Ironically if they do "change" or "fix" him - then they lose interest, since …
/r/TheRedPill14/05/19 02:18 PM
8

There are over 7 Billion people on the planet, at least half of them are girls and some of the dudes are gay. The idea that in that ocean of pussy there is only 1 of them that can make you happy is absolutely nuts. I bought into that and got married, then the shit hit the fan. Was I devastated - yes - until I realised the truth of the above, and now I truly couldn't give a flying fuck. So you're with a girl and it all goes wrong - well boo hoo just get another one - damn, pay for it if you have …
/r/TheRedPill14/05/19 02:09 PM
2

It helped me make sense of what had gone wrong in my marriage, made me realise there is a real pattern to womens behaviour driven by a deeper force than the superficial chatter that they tell you is important to them, and made me realise what to expect when seeing other women. In short it made me realise that I need to make me happy, not some woman, and consequently I don't give a fuck if a relationship with a woman goes well or not, or anything else for that matter. As long as I'm alright that'…
/r/askTRP09/05/19 02:48 PM
1

Pretty much every STD is easily curable. Oh no they're not, and if that's whatyou're using to pacify yourself while taking risks then you're in for a huge and very painful awakening.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 05:04 PM
1

First date she's telling you about her mental problems, crying and initiating general drama. Do you really wonder if these are red flags?
/r/askTRP05/05/19 10:44 PM
2

The only think I'd want to know is did he kill himself because she drove him to it? I think perhaps her even wanting to talk with you about her ex committing suicide is a big red flag - what the fuck does she want you to do/say about it? Sounds like she likes drama.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 10:42 PM
2

" she told me that she had a dream, she was in a guys bed and the guy was trying to fuck her. She told him no, I have a boyfriend. " She's prepping you. When she starts talking bout and hanging around with Chad McThundercock and you call her out on it, she'll refer you back to this conversation "I would never, ever cheat on you, don't you remember when we talked about this, I wouldn't even cheat on you in my dreams". Translation - she is getting ready to fuck someone else and is preparing her go…
/r/askTRP03/05/19 04:35 PM
-6

Tell her she's an ego-centric wound collector, and if she doesn't shut the fuck up she'll be collecting the biggest wound she could ever imagine. Then start looking for a new job.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 04:28 PM
1

I'd have asked her what she meant by the responsibility of being a husband. I think what she meant was the responsibility to pay for and look after a woman like her, treat her like a princess, and hope that she doesn't get bored of you or you don't provide a high enough service that she cheats on you, leaves you, and takes at least half of your shit as well. That's not a benefit for anyone but the woman, it's crass stupidity for the man.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 11:10 PM
4

Thank your lucky stars you got shot of her instead of lamenting over it. You can do much better.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 01:03 PM
25

Social media is supposedly leading to an increase in narcissistic personality defects (the endless desire for likes to feel any value, obtained by making yourself the center of the universe and screaming hey everyone, look at me, me ,ME). So I think it will only get worse - and women with NPD or BPD are like the devil incarnate.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 02:00 PM
1

She's only about 35, it seems she doesn't know much of anything apart from how to fuck. And she isn't fussy either.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 06:13 AM
1

That would shut her up and make her look like an evil bitch at the same time - it's her "humour" being flipped back at her.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 08:19 AM
1

Your problem with that would be if there was a visible Google cache with your mugshot on it, if law enfocement could obtain historic data from google or other search engines, etc inc caches, a domain registered in your name, the archive.org, if a news aggregator picked it up and republished it on sites outside of your control, and google image remnants, etc. While maybe 95% of this kind of stuff is in your control, some isn't going to be - and it only takes one little breadcrumb for a trail to b…
/r/askTRP09/04/19 04:05 PM
1

What is the difference between AWALT and Narcissistic Personality Disorder? ​ AWALT is that all women behave in largely the same way because they are biologically driven to do so. A person with NPD (like my ex wife for example) operate on a completely different level. They may also behave like AWALT, but their over-riding behavioural traits are to be highly manipulative, deceptive and to act like a fucking loon 99% of the time, with their aim being to utterly crush your spirit and sense of self …
/r/askTRP09/04/19 09:27 AM
4

Great stuff and they deserve it, but... ...if they ever found out you tricked them they'll be claiming rape or some other form of sexual deviancy - the evidence of what you did is right there, in black and white, on the interweb (if you've been involved in digital marketing for a long time you'll know how hard is to cover your tracks later - the archive, etc) - and you'll be trying to dig your way out a great big pile of shit. Make sure they never find out.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 09:16 AM
4

"I am autistic - would you laugh at someone in a wheelchair as well?"
/r/askTRP09/04/19 09:10 AM
3

Yes - she sounds BPD to me - trouble written all over her.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 08:59 AM
2

1) Always trust your gut - women will twist and turn like a twisty turny thing to re-shape your interpretation of reality, but your gut never lies. 2) There is no difference between emotional cheating and fucking some dude - emotional cheating is just trying to line things up to get to the fucking stage. If she wasn't successful with him (which by the sounds of it she was), she will be with the next, and the next, and the next, ad nauseum. HARD Next this bitch before she fries your brains.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 05:05 PM
5

I'm in my 40's and my wife of 20 years went off the rails and I split up with her - it sucked. Unitl... ...while I was buying a new car (she got the one we had), the salesman who was 64 told me his wife of 40-odd years had just told him she didn't want to be together any more. Poor fucker thought he was retiring next year, now he's living in a rented house miles away from work, and at SIXTY FOUR he's having to try and rebuild his life. There's always some poor fucker worse off than you are.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 09:34 PM
14

What - act like a childish butt hurt cry baby. Yeah that's definitely the way to go.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 04:06 PM
160

When you see them on campus you shouldn't feel bad, it should bring a big shit eating grin to your face because: 1) You found out what a THOT she is before you invested any more time, effort, emotions, or money into her; 2) You've learned a valuable lesson about how AWALT and are way ahead of the curve than more dudes - most of us find TRP after being dumped on badly, and we're usually by then in our 20's, 30's or even older. 3) You also found out what an ass-hat your supposed friend is, and hav…
/r/askTRP27/03/19 04:04 PM
1

Her: I don't like abs. You: Oh? We'd better break up then. See you. Her: meltdown.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 03:06 PM
2

My wife of 21 years didn't work for c.16 years while we had kids. As soon as she got a job her attitude totally changed, I'm sure she cheated on me too. In the first 4 years of going back to work she had 5 jobs. Every job was "awesome" and the people were "amazing" when she started - within 6 months the job was crap and the people worse. Last job she got she landed on her feet, and for the first time ever was earning (slightly) more than me. Well that was it - in her eyes then I was simply not a…
/r/askTRP26/03/19 11:14 PM
6

My mum and dad did this for my sister when she married the son of a millionaire. They offered to pay half of the wedding but my dads pride had him trying to show he could compete with them (which he obviously couldn't), and he as the father of the bride wanted to pay the whole thing. So he remortgaged the house, then 10 years later lost his job, sister and rich hubby "helped them out" by lending him the money to buy a car (of her hubby at inflated price) then buying their house off them (just be…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/19 09:38 AM
1

It's the thrill and as pointed out above also to feed your ego that she's choosing you over someone she's made a vow to. And yes, probably due to insecurity. Plus they tend to be easy to pull. At least that's what it was for me the several times I did it. It's not so fun when the husband finds out - in my case he was a cop. Won't be doing that again.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 09:14 PM
5

" Yesterday we were supposed to meet, and so I asked her if a certain time was ok, to which she replied she'd rather not have me over to not infect me. " That's the beginning of the emotional manipulation right there - she wants you to feel sorry for her and molly coddle her because "she's a victim / damsel in distress". If you go it'll get worse from there, if you don't go she'll go ape shit and use it against you because you obviously don't love her (note: love, not care). Then it's drama, dra…
/r/askTRP22/03/19 09:04 PM
2

I have also been through marriage counseling before we broke up, I felt it was a waste of time but actually in hindsight it was a real eye opener. How I imagine your sessions will play out are like this: She'll be all teary and play the part of being an unhappy victim - because she looooooves you soooooo much, but you don't trust her, you're so insecure and that makes her really sad and hurts her soooo much (you see, it's already your fault). She will use DARVO (look it up) to make out that what…
/r/askTRP14/03/19 10:09 AM
6

Your marriage is over. She fucked him, and you know she fucked him. Yup - my (now ex) wife did a similar thing but I gave her the benefit of the doubt "for the kids sake". Roughly 2 years later she begins acting in the same way again in a different job, so I threw her ass out and started divorce proceedings - just got the decree absolute on 12/2/19. It's a bitter pill to swallow and will be tough for a few months, but once that trust is gone it's gone, and if you let this go she'll lose all resp…
/r/askTRP13/03/19 11:49 AM
0

I agree. OP went full retard (haven't we all at some point), but the key to not letting it eat away at you is to truly get to the point where you stop caring what other people think about you. It's not always easy but it really does set you free. Otherwise you'll still be beating yourself up and cringing about this 10 years from now.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 10:21 PM
3

If you ever watch "my 600lb life" you'll see it in reverse - the dude will be what they call a "feeder" who needs his other half to be totally 100% dependent on him, to cover his deep and intense lack of self esteem or sense of self value. The minute the woman loses weight and he thinks she might find someone better, the relationship collapses. Really it's a form of co-dependent abuse.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 01:53 PM
0

She'll have a hard time claiming she wasn't a willing participant when her dabs are all over the condoms. ​
/r/askTRP08/03/19 04:04 PM
0

Have you still got the condon wrappers - with her fingerprints on them?
/r/askTRP08/03/19 10:18 AM
14

I think the big clue is that if she really hated the cocky arrogant man he was before - she wouldn't have been with him in the first place. Then he changes to what she said she wanted and she lost interest. Actions, not words.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/19 08:09 PM
2

She sounds like a pain in the ass.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 08:42 AM
2

Yes he is Narcissistic - he is diagnosed as suffering from NPD - that's why. But he offers a unique insight into the working of the mind of a narcissist and is a genius - he was in univeristy at 9, meeting the president of israel, hanging out with nobel prize winners etc. He is a professor of numerous disciplines, and was one of the first to identify narcissitic personality disorders - much of the terminology was devised by him. So he is a narcissist and has good reason to feel narcissistic abou…
/r/askTRP01/03/19 03:23 PM
8

And if she's doing this to him, you can bet a pound to a penny that she'll do it to you too - in fact she'll definitely do it to you, because she's got you wrapped around her little finger before you've even got with her - if, of course, she chooses you over him. Don't be a dummy - drop her ass.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 11:53 AM
6

Yeah on the one hand it's worrying for society that "men" today are nothing more than feminised soyboys, but if you choose to reject that behaviour and act like an actual man, then as an individual it's the best thing that's ever happened.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 11:44 AM
7

There are some great vids recently on youtube by a guy called sam vaknin - a total genius. He's just done one about how modern society has changed, how social media plays a huge role in it, and how essentially we are "evolving" into a species of narcissists. Essentially it all comes down to the primordial need to be seen - since being seen validates that we exist and gives us a sense of self worth - but in a world with 7.6 Billion people and a rapidly expanding population, and the destruction of…
/r/askTRP01/03/19 11:40 AM
1

Because your body is simply trying to do what it evolved to do - keep you alive. If your body mistakes significantly reduced calories as a shortage of food, it will hang onto the highest calorific store of energy (body fat) and start to break down muscle first - since if there's no food to chase you're not going to need the muscle anyway. This is why bodybuilders when getting ready for a competition struggle to lose the last of their body fat. They are on a high protein diet, and have to actuall…
/r/askTRP28/02/19 08:28 AM
1

I think she's already looking for someone new, which is why she wants to "work" in a place where there will be lots of dudes hitting on her. And you basically giving her an ultimatum will have hurried along her desire to move on.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 08:20 AM
6

He's a victim of his own stupidity. He. Married. An. Escort. WTF - that's just asking for trouble.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/19 12:26 PM
44

There's loads of studies now about how social media is causing major societal problems, it not just delivers dopamine hits every time people get liked, it actually changes brain chemistry and structure. It's been designed to be addictive right from the start, and part of the result is that suicides in 15-24 year olds is up 31% in 7 years, suicide is now the most common cause of death in that age group - for the first time ever. 15-24 year olds are probably most succeptible because they are chang…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/19 11:05 AM
1

I feel your pain. I'm certain my ex had a personality disorder, and her mother, and her mother, and I'm sure the daughter is being trained to behave in the same way. Telling her she can't afford X and it's your fault is manipulative, so I am pretty certain that your (and mine too) problems with daughter are down to the mother. There's a really good video on youtube somewhere of a psychologist who specialises in this talking about parental abandonment - when the child rejects the parent - and how…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/19 01:11 PM
2

Good post but one observation - your daughter is a female too, and you've allowed her to control this aspect of your life. I'm in exactly the same situation with my daughter after I split with wife. Daughter behaves just like she did, I think they learn from their mothers "how to treat men". In my case daughter lives with her mum, I've just ghosted the daughter and don't even speak to her any more. She's 17 soon to be 18. It might sound harsh but manipulation is manipulation whoever is doing it,…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/19 09:39 AM
4

Completely agree with this, I made that mistake. It's your space, keep it your space. If things go South and she has nowhere else to go to you either just kick her ass out, or your stuck with her until she finds somewhere to go. Either option creates drama you don't need.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/19 09:28 AM
2

I idsagree, I hate going down on women but love blow jobs. I think it's a power thing. You never seen those highly suggestive cadbury flake ads with the woman putting only the crumbliest flakiest chocolate into her mouth? {edit2 : see here: https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=cadburysflake} There's a reason for those ads. They think they're in control, but only by being completely subservient to you. On their knees with your dong in their mouth. Why even think about reversing the power …
/r/askTRP21/02/19 06:23 PM
15

" She called him 5 times at 5am in the morning. He didn’t pick up and she texted him “you are a lunatic” " Reminds me of the girl (24, I'm 49) who told me within 5 minutes of getting with her "I don't have daddy issues". "I don't have daddy issues" = I do have daddy issues. "You are a lunatic" = I am the lunatic. LoL some of the others are red flags but that one made me spit my coffee out.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 08:27 AM
2

She sounds a bit like a feminazi. Anyway only OP knows but if she's going to be a pain in the ass, why bother? (if you really do have an abundance mentality just move on).
/r/askTRP21/02/19 08:11 AM
5

"Thank heavens I'm wearing my corset for I fear my sides have just split." Blackadder II
/r/askTRP20/02/19 10:35 PM
1

She sounds more like BPD or Histrionic PD to me, doesn't sound NPD at all.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 10:51 AM
0

Surely the whole point of RP - if you don't want to go down on her stinky pink then don't. If she won't suck your dong, ditch her. If she's hairy - Brrrrr - ditch immediately.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 01:07 AM
1

Yeah you should have smaced him right on the nose. twat.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 01:04 AM
7

Are you insane? Been with my wife for like 20 years and we have 2 kids, she didn't do half this shit and I threw her out, I only stuck with her so long becaue of the kids. Do you seriously want to start with this shit and then settle down with her and hope it all turns out alright? It will get WORSE. Do yourself a massive favour and dump her RIGHT NOW! EDIT - PS - Getting you to meet other dudes - 1) She shouldn't want to even be around other dudes; 2) It's so she can compare you side by side an…
/r/askTRP19/02/19 12:58 AM
2

And it's relationshit, not relationship.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 12:52 AM
1

Her: "I love you" You: "I love your ass/tits/how you look with my cock in your mouth" Not: "i wubbs youz tooz baby girl". Yuk.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 12:50 AM
1

Yup if she's borderline get the hell away as fast as your legs will carry you.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 08:45 AM
72

Definitely some serious mental health issues there. 22 years. With a lesbian. And she didn't want him. Go figure.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/19 08:25 AM
1

"That's sexual harrassment" "equal rights for women" "anything a man can do a woman can do better" etc.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 06:07 PM
1

Thanks that's really helpful.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/19 05:48 PM
3

I have no real idea, all I knew when we were together was it didn't matter how hard I worked or how much I earned we were always broke. I know that she can't stay in the house, she needs constant entertainment and is always out but she doesn't really drink much and doesn't smoke etc. I did wonder if she had a gambling addiction at one point. However since I still get weekly updates of her bank account and can see in that the last 5 transactions I know for example that she went through about c.$3…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/19 04:02 PM
56

She should be allowed to return just so we can put a bullet in her head. Honestly, these fuckers - brought up here with all of the trappings and fittings that living for free, on benefits give you, but they hate us so much they go away to fight and potentially kill other Brits. But when she needs something, she thinks she should be able to come back, get free healthcare, a free house, and free everything else - well, just because she deserves it. Does my fucking head in (and 99.9% of the rest of…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/19 08:56 PM
2

Maybe it was the word bang. Next time ask her if she wants to fuck.
/r/askTRP15/02/19 10:27 AM
2

Worse still she has quads so you pay 4x child support LoL. You shouldn't ever put yourself in that position of risk - but many of us have done it.
/r/askTRP15/02/19 10:19 AM
1

No I mean HARD NEXT as in don't ever see her or speak to her again, never mind fuck her. Reason - she's already manipulating the fuck out of you, if you keep contact with her she'll manipulate you even more and will make you feel even worse. You say fuck buddy only - seriously how long is that mentality in your head going to exist once she starts twisting the dials in your thinking meat? Not long - then you're going to become her simp/gimp/soy-boy/beta-bux/take-it-up-the-arse-with-an-18-inch-big…
/r/askTRP14/02/19 12:40 AM
1

There's nothing wrong with you, you've simply developed a negative way of looking at the world and your place in it. It's nothing that a good course of Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) wouldn't solve, but since: a) it's not something men want to do in a group setting; and b) It's bloody expensive;.... Here's a free alternative that you get sent on in the UK from our illustrious NHS service (free even if you're not in the UK or on our NHS service - i.e FREE TO EVERYONE) : https://llttf.com/ It…
/r/askTRP14/02/19 12:32 AM
1

Why does she need to take "sexy" photos to post online? Who's benefit are they for? Not yours clearly, or she'd just share them with you. So they are to get reactions from other men to make her tingle. So then that is as good as cheating - because what she's doing is flaunting herself to potential suitors, like making a catalogue of herself and what's available, and if the right one comes along she'll branch hop to him or cheat on you. [Or if no one is interested you're stuck with a duffer - LoL…
/r/askTRP14/02/19 12:21 AM
30

Her: "My BF is uncomfortable about me going out with you" OP: "Okay, no problem" Her: Thank you - let's grab a beer" Sometimes I'm convinced I've slipped into an alternative universe full of insane people, then I realise I was just talking to a woman.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 08:27 PM
6

This is exactly what my ex wife thought. When I told her I'd been to a solicitor and filed for divorce (just got the decree absolute today!), her cold-hearted didn't give a damn about me attitude crumbled - she burst into tears and started hyperventilating down the phone - "why do we have to get divorced - can't we just leave it for a few years?" I said no we can't, you've made your bed and now you get the pleasure of lying in it - you're on your own I don't want to ever see or hear from you aga…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 07:19 PM
3

My ex (who is a narcissist) did this to me. I'd been seeing her for a while and she was having to move out of her place but didn't really have anywhere to go or any money either (she worked behind a bar). So I let her move in with me. She felt bad about not being able to pay rent, I was paying all the bills and food etc too - no big deal I was earning good money, would be paying the bills anyway, and the extra food didn't cost much. So that she didn't feel bad I said look if you want to do somet…
/r/askTRP12/02/19 01:42 PM
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So this guy thought nothing of "raping" her on the first encounter, thought nothing of showing up where his "victim" was, and then in the second encounter didn't try anything on with her? More like: She had drunken sex the first time, and felt so bad when she sobered up that she convinced herself it was all his fault so she didn't need to feel bad. Then when she met him the 2nd time she realised she thought he was pretty hot so hooked up with him, then to not feel bad a bout cheating on het SO, …
/r/TheRedPill09/02/19 04:15 PM
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" I don’t want to come off as beta or jealous " - but you are doing. Look, guys don't want to hang with girls unless they want to bang them. Girls know that those guys want to bang them. So if she's hanging around with him when she's in a relationship with you, it means???? It's not rocket science. So dump her.
/r/askTRP09/02/19 04:00 PM
1

Had you been texting her or calling her? Maybe she decided you were too "needy" or some other shit.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 11:31 AM
3

For me it was the fact that splitting up (have 2 kids, had house, etc) is a major headache and trauma so it's easier to keep plodding on... ...until you reach the tipping point where you just can't do it any more. For me her behaviour became worse and worse, it was obvious she was getting ready to monkey branch as her behaviour became more and more brazen, so one night she rang me to tell me she was "stopping out for drinks with the guys (men) from work" so I told her not to bother coming home a…
/r/askTRP08/02/19 11:18 AM
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You just realise how utterly immature they are and how little they know about anything. Not just life experience, but anything - it's very difficult to have a grown up conversation because they don't actually know anything about anything, apart from what they've been taught is "true" - very superficial. [this is an observation of talking to and listening to her friends too. E.g. one of them was banging on about this amazing super cool Japanese lager and I asked if she'd tried Sake - "what's Sake…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/19 10:42 AM
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Girls want valuable men. But it’s hard to gauge how valuable a man is, since there’s numerous aspects involved that are mental, physical, social, etc. This is absolutely right, people gauge value through comparison (there's a brilliant video by Dan Ariely on youtube exploring this very topic and how a simple change in variables produces a totally different outcome of choice: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xOhb4LwAaJk). It's like if you run a bar and are shopping for some new glasses, and I put …
/r/TheRedPill07/02/19 10:27 AM
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Yes probably over 50% don't work. As Bill Burr puts it - suppose someone gives you a parachute and asks you to jump out of a plane, then tells you that one in every 2 parachutes are faulty and don't work - are you going to jump out the plane?
/r/TheRedPill07/02/19 08:56 AM
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Because 50% of marriages fail, and mine was one of them? It wasn't the marrying that was a bad thing, it was the divorcing, and the realisation in between that she wasn't a unicorn and having to put up with all of her crazy shit that she put me through. Remember that the hotter the girl, the more she's going to get hit on, and when she's getting hit on practially every day she's eventually going to meet someone who presses her buttons more than you do, whether you're Chad Pitt and no matter how …
/r/TheRedPill07/02/19 08:05 AM
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Had this happen to me, blond girl at work probably a 6.5 (good bod, not so good looking) totally friend zoned me for like 18 months. I took my new blond girlfriend to the works christmas party (I eventually ended up marrying her - I'm an idiot), HB9 - gorgeous model like looks, fantastic figure, more intelligent and charming than girl at work... When I went to the bathroom she followed me out and cornered me "oh we could have been so much more than friends, we could have something special,etc, e…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/19 09:49 PM
2

Just what I was going to say - drama creating pain in the ass - probably BPD or something. People with personality disorders should be avoided at all costs.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 02:08 PM
1

Is it cold empathy? - the ability to recognise distress in others cognitively, but to not have the emotional & physiological (fight or flight) response that other people do? E.g. a baby crying will usually evoke a physical and emotional response in people, especially women, but to you, you recognise the baby is crying but feel nothing apart from that?
/r/askTRP05/02/19 09:33 AM
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There would be nothing wrong with being insecure about being made to look like a prize soyboy cockwand for other people's entertainment, but he isn't insecure. He doesn't want to do some gay soyboy shit, and I don't blame him. The fault is with the other people trying to emotionally manipulate him into doing something he doesn't want to do.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 11:02 AM
1

She's got trouble written all over her, probably borderline or histrionic PD or something. Avoid like the plague.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 09:57 AM
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If you're her boss/manager and something happens between you, then her other half finds out - rest assured that it will all be your fault and you'll probably have abused her/taken advantage of her or worse. You're leaving yourself open to a whole shitstorm of trouble - never shit where you eat, and definitely don't have sex with a subordinate. If you do - you're nuts.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 11:24 AM
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If she's getting attention from other dudes and is replying to them - having a conversation with them while she's with you - then dump her. My ex wife did this and because she always accused me of being "insecure" etc I didn't say anything. End result - she ended up leaving her job with no other to go to because this guy was being "inappropriate". As more details came out I'm sure she had an affair with him. Your choices are: 1) Do nothing like I did and get shat on from a great height. 2) Act b…
/r/askTRP03/02/19 02:07 AM
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So can women
/r/askTRP31/01/19 12:33 PM
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I suppose it's why some people buy bottled water instead of getting it for free out of a tap. Because it has a cost attached to it, it must somehow be better than the free version.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 09:02 AM
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Thanks! I think I'm almost there.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 02:28 PM
2

49 (just now) after 21 years together, stuck it out for so long for the kids. The last 8 years were like hell on earth, everything was wrong all of the time and she'd create problems just to have something to criticise me for. I'm sure she suffers from NPD, and she learned it from her mother, and she from hers - I don't know any females further back in her family tree than that, but what I do know is a load of them act like this. When I first met her she gave me these stories about how evil her …
/r/askTRP25/01/19 08:24 AM
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My ex used to manipulate my feelings after sex, I'm sure she has a personality disorder and it was to try and destroy my self esteem so that she could control/manipulate me more easily. What it actually ended up with was me not wanting to have sex with her ever, throwing her out, and then getting divorced. Imagine you've just had sex and you didn't have any condoms available: Her: "I can't believe you just did that to me" Me: "What? Did what to you?" Her: "Had sex without a condom" Me: "What do …
/r/askTRP24/01/19 09:33 AM
2

Red Pill what else?
/r/askTRP21/01/19 03:09 PM
1

I'm addicted to Redonkulas (Terrence Popp) - he's hilarious and bang on point - but that's it.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 10:31 AM
2

Are completely insane in every other respect.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 02:39 PM
3

She's basically telling you that she's more attracted to him than she is to you, and she wants your permission to go and bang him. Then she'll meet someone new she's more attracted to and will tell you she's going to bang them too. Then eventually she'll leave you for someone else and you'll be sat there thinking "where did I go wrong?" Diamond-Hard Next
/r/askTRP19/01/19 02:27 PM
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zeta. I actually have sick in my mouth.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 09:19 PM
2

If she has "issues" (which is what I assume you mean by her being damaged goods) then I would avoid her like the plague. These are the kinds of people who will turn your life into a living nightmare, is it worth that just for an easy lay? I'm surprised that people here are saying bang her - whatever happened to an abundance mentality? If you truly do have an abundance then you will avoid the nutjobs.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 09:37 AM
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Mindfulness (google it). Basically be mindful of how you feel, but recognise that feelings are temporary and you won't always feel this way. Then focus on what you're doing right now, since now is the only reality that exists (the past and future do not exist - and usually feelings of being low, anger, jealousy, fear, worrying, anxiety, etc come from dwelling on the past or contemplating the future - in other words you're dragging feelings into right now from 2 places that don't exist, and makin…
/r/askTRP16/01/19 09:02 AM
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