| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 335 | Sis, run | THE AUDACITY OF SCROTES | ho-chet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 12:22 AM |
| 316 | Reminder: Don't befriend male colleagues who are married! | STRATEGY | ho-chet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Not a good sign of things to come. Run, sis. | RED FLAG 🚨 | ho-chet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Dating coworkers? | DISCUSSION | ho-chet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 03:49 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 210 | How hard it is to find a decent man? I am starting to get really upset.Sis, please find a new physician. This one sounds misogynistic and unprofessional. Just breathe. You have time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 08:21 PM |
| 338 | guys who say they don't know what they are looking for on oldWhenever a man says this, I automatically assume he's only looking for sex. Hard pass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 01:18 AM |
| 17 | epiphany: men who neg strong womenThis would explain some of the issues I've been experiencing with one of my male coworkers. Thank you for mentioning this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 02:21 AM |
| 17 | Age Gaps in the MediaI almost died when Ariana Grande's character called his character a "fat old fuck" 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 03:40 AM |
| 1 | What are the telltale signs that he might actually have mental illness and/or personality disorder?Oh my God...I just realized one of my male coworkers has exhibited almost all of the behaviors you just mentioned. Super scary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 05:02 AM |
| 66 | I love herFrustrating that her own brother is giving her shit about this. Hopefully she never asks him to set her up again. Also, I find it hilarious how many LVM can dish it out but can't take it... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/22 12:48 AM |
| 11 | One of Y'all's 50/50 Boyfriends Is Posting About FDS lolLadies, please do not tell the men in your life that you're on this sub. Please do not even tell these men your Reddit username. This is not safe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 01:15 AM |
| 11 | When they tell you to settle for the guy’s attractiveness and the moment he levels up, he dumps you.100% agree. To add another example, if you settle with someone you aren't that attracted to, sex isn't going to be as satisfying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 04:39 PM |
| 21 | Hmm, it’s almost as if we don’t want men like you 🤔This reminds me of the time when a dude who looked like a fucking goblin lectured me on how I should lower my standards 😒 These men truly have zero self-awareness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 06:59 AM |
| 10 | Going for a man you think is below you, only to have it backfire. Has anyone else dealt with this?Can confirm--this is something I've done in the past, and it never ends well. I was well out of the league of the last guy I dated (I was objectively more attractive than him, more educated, and in a far more lucrative profession), and yet he still treated me like shit. Never making that mistake again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 05:50 PM |
| 54 | You deserve to be someone's first choiceI really needed to read this tonight. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 01:15 AM |
| 228 | OP is ignored by her boyfriend at a friend's birthday party because he was busy speaking to another woman all day. Comments told her to just talk to him. Proceeds to make a bunch of excuses for him as well.This really is so heartbreaking. OP needs to dump this chump and come over to our team ASAP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 03:27 PM |
| 344 | Communicating after a first date: am I being a pickme?Instead of texting a suitor after a date, I would recommend thanking him in person once the date concludes. That should be all the encouragement that a HVM needs to keep the ball rolling after the date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 03:22 PM |
| 63 | Vetting during OLD/date suggestionsI talked about cooking (I am really, really, really into cooking). He tried the ole I’ll come over and you cook a meal and I can judge. Honestly, sis, this is the moment you should have blocked and deleted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 11:55 PM |
| 2 | Men who fall off the face of the earth once you get into a relationship.God, men really are so weird. I just don't understand why, if they don't want to lose something, they don't hang onto it! Good on you for continuing to date other men. This dude is clearly a LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 03:05 PM |
| 12 | A short film on Gaslighting - Quite educational for those who haven’t gone through it and relatable for others who have gone through it.OH MY GOD. I had an ex who would do shit like this. He would completely freak out over little things and then give me the silent treatment. It was unreal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 03:06 PM |
| 12 | Slept with him in a car on the first date after a movie & coffee. Then moved in with him a week later. Thoughts?Anyone who has read the handbook knows this is a no-go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 08:15 PM |
| 7 | How to not feel insecure about someone I’m seeing?If you feel inadequate, stop seeing him, go to therapy, and work on your self esteem. You shouldn't be dating anyone until you're in the right headspace to do so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 01:51 PM |
| 61 | When did it “click” for you that’s what posted here/the principles were helping/helped you? Let’s start a list for others…The moment it clicked for me was when I realized a guy I was pining after was a lvm who was just stringing me along for an ego boost. FDS made it much easier for me to stop crushing on him and see the situation for what it was. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 01:25 AM |
| 5 | FDS Weekly Chat / Check-InIt's definitely rude for them to not respond. Common courtesy would dictate, at the very least, that they confirm whether or not they are available on the dates you are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 07:24 PM |
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