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I'm in a similar situation as OP, abit further along. I have a problem with this so maybe someone can contribute. I'm almost 3 years Red. Following the Law of Power #38: "Think as you like, but behave like the others" I opted to do just that. My whole life has changed in every way in those 3 years and my worldview is something beyond what my parents would ever even fathom. I've come to realize that when I'm around family I wear a mask. I'm not the "me" I have become. What kind of man is that, hi…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 10:19 PM
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Excellent post. Get rid of TV. Stop paying to be mind raped by ads. Adblock your browser. Unfriend Facebook friends trying to sell their MLM bullshit. Actively make an effort to remove advertisements from your life. It's well worth it.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 03:59 AM
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A comfortable woman is a bored woman.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 03:08 AM
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Rollo's SMV Chart No; This is just the beginning
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 09:48 PM
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Definitely one of the reasons NMMNG is at the top of the reading list. Keep reading. Don't stop. Work your way through the reading list. I really like Rollo's "The Rational Male, but they're all worth the read. As others have said, work on you, start that strive to become a better man for yourself. Every day, make sure you're a better version of yourself. Lot of smart guys here that are willing to help you become that. Good luck with your journey. It's a freeing experience once internalized.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/15 04:01 AM
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I was 13, eldest of 5. My father was involved in a mid-air airplane collision killing him instantly. I remember being woke up at 7am by the police knocking and my mom breaking down, screaming, bawling. It didn't seem real. I went numb. No crying, no tears, just numb. I'd say that "we" got a lot of support but in actuality, my mom got a lot of support. As kids, not so much. Nobody ever talked about it with us, nobody even really tried that I remember. All I remember it being the biggest Christmas…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 06:51 PM
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THIS THIS THIS Start here.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/15 06:15 PM
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Good listen. Props
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/15 05:56 PM
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Likewise. Similar situation. Will claim she has hobbies but hasn't actively invested time/money into anything for years. Wants friends but won't spend the time/effort to make any. Wants get back into the gym regularly, also hasn't happened. The monkey dancing for quarters is an apt description. Used to; knocked that shit off 8+ months ago when ingesting RP. I attempt to push her to go do these things she claims she wants. Hobbies/friends/gym etc but I can't make that effort for her. Attempted to…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/15 01:39 PM
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Good content but the video filler you use could be better IMO. I like half naked ladies as much as the next man but just doesn't seem all that professional to me. Hard to take the message too seriously when it's flipping through hot babes that aren't really related to anything you're saying.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/15 07:51 PM
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2nd video with the higher pitch is much better. First one was really hard to listen to as others have said. Look forward to see where this goes.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/15 06:06 PM
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Stay around, read the sidebar. Start reading the books suggested. Start taking things in. It's not a quick fix. It's a life change that never stops.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/15 09:39 PM
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What I find interesting is looking at the "submitted" history on nearly everyone who has negative things to say about his story. Damn near everyone who says OP is a horrible person has DB issues of their own they cannot seem to resolve.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/15 08:10 PM
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Definitely liked your post on there. So much puke throughout otherwise.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/15 07:47 PM
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Don't say. Just do. She'll notice eventually and ask. At that point you can mention it but don't go into details. Use it as encouragement for yourself. She noticed, you must be doing something right.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/15 01:21 PM
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Appreciate the input
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/15 05:02 PM
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Thanks Professor
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/15 05:02 PM
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Perfect! Thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/15 06:01 PM
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My thought is; It's better to not say something than say too much. I told her in similar words. "There is nothing I can say nor do to make you want to go. I hope that you'll see my desire to change and be motivated to make that change for yourself."
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/15 05:56 PM
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She wanted to talk Saturday. Brought it up as an adult so was happy to listen. It was odd how similar what she said was in line with your comment. Ended up with the best sex I've had up to this point Sunday night. Powering through!
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/15 04:47 PM
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Month #3 of tracking her cycle. Definitely a huge benefit that I should have been employing a long time ago. I very much appreciate your input. Will put it to practice. She wanted to say something Saturday so I listened. It was interestingly very similar to what "ivebeencaught" stated below you. "Feels like she is no longer in control, she is scared. She doesn't want me to be an asshole, yet at the same time she feels much more in touch. She's confused." Pushing forward. Sunday I got the best se…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/15 04:45 PM
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Thank you. I do feel that I'm on the right track and more positive of that now.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/15 04:29 PM
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I think you're right. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/15 04:28 PM
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Take it with a grain of salt but I'd go along with the "initiate every night." and then if she says no, practice outcome independence and do something else. A wife needs to know that she can say no without you/I being a little bitch about it. In my BP days I was a little bitch. If she said no, I'd get pissed. She felt that anytime she said no she could expect that same response. So she felt guilty about saying no but if she said yes it was simply a guilty/chore and it'd be shitty sex. With RP, s…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/15 10:19 PM
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Keep it up, keep reading. You got a lot of people here that understand what you're going through. Small steps. Just keep taking steps. Things make sense finally. I can look back and cringe at how I'd react or deal with situations and then not understand why it wasn't working. I was trying soooo hard. Now, with some TRP knowledge, nearly everything that I struggled to understand for 30 years now makes sense. It's crazy.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/15 10:04 PM
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+1 And the first few times, if you refuse to validate her emotions by arguing it will piss her off even more. Prepare for that. She'll get pissed that she isn't getting an emotional reaction. Keep frame though. Rational discussion or no discussion. Walk away if needed.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/15 09:33 PM
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One of the things that prevented me at first was the fact that I was 28 years old. I didn't want to admit that everything I thought I understood was wrong.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 08:06 PM
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If I didn't firmly believe I could I would not have pursued her again. Throughout my life I always felt like something was missing, something didn't add up in my relationships. Things didn't make sense the way I was told they are supposed to. I repressed myself by attempting to fit the mold I thought/was taught that a married guy was supposed to. My eyes have been opened and my life has and will continue to change because of it. Thank you for the kind words!
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/15 05:57 PM
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This is a tough one. You need to make sure that whatever you do; it's for your betterment. I think you need to drop her. Split up. You need time. Few months, whatever it takes. If after that time away you still want to pursue things, you do it as you want it. You lead, you set the rules. You let her know that you will drop her. You need her to believe this, this is why you drop her now and show her. Use that time to practice RP. Better yourself, get a few dates, lift, get that confidence up. Thi…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/15 03:37 PM
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You've almost passed the test. Keep it up.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/14 04:24 PM
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Sounds like progress to me! I'm by no means an expert but been practicing avidly. After finding RP I realized I am naturally RP but over the course of an LTR (marriage) I slowly became BP. Its been 6 months and its crazy, absolutely crazy how things have just clicked and make sense me me now. I feel like a weight has lifted from my shoulders. (The weight of realizing I'm not responsible for her mood, attitude) I take care of myself and worry about myself. I am a better person from it. I don't ge…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/14 01:07 AM
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Good story. You know you're doing something right when she says stuff like that. You seem to be doing things for the betterment of you and not us. The other day my wife said to me during a similar confrontation. "When you treat me like this you make me feel like a child!!" Walked away beaming.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/14 08:57 PM
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Please keep us posted. Good luck!
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/14 01:53 PM
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Good read. I have been practicing RP for the last 3-4 months. After stumbling into RP on accident one day, everything started to click. Everything in my past relationships that didn't work make sense now. I found out I'm very much RP at the beginning of a relationship but the LTR's that I've had in the past I slowly turn BP. Trying harder and harder to make her happy until it ends. After the 3-4 months I can personally attest that this shit works. It's crazy to me still, yet it also makes sense …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/14 05:40 PM
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Got another gal at work that told me to give her a list of my favorite baked goods and she'll bring em in. I'll capitalize on it. Project was mine. Chores but it's my chore. (Work in the garage) Appreciate the input.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 09:23 PM
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Roger that. I didn't reciprocate but I definitely could have taken it a step further and told her to get off of me.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 08:23 PM
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Perfect. "Amused Mastery" will be practiced next time. Appreciate your input. I can't say how thankful I am to have stumbled across this subreddit a few months back. It's been a real eye opener.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 05:32 PM
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Thanks. Will give that a shot. I didn't want to turn down sex obviously BUT, it was my way or not at all. It's crazy how RP works. I unknowing have practiced a fair amount of RP without knowing it throughout my life. After finding this subreddit I have come to realize that I do start falling into BP ways when a longer term relationship comes up. Taking that back and it's awesome. Dread game too; I no longer hide the attention I get at work. It gets her riled up and I love it!
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 05:25 PM
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Thanks for your updates. Enjoying them.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/14 03:45 PM
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